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DISCUSSIONAlternative_Answer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:18 PM
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Sure? I mean that's not the issue here. If women want to approach men (and the men seem okay with it and it isn't an inappropriate setting) then they should go for it, and more and more women are. I don't really see why that's a relevant point here. Also again, not mind reading. OP knew she didn't want him to approach her. If he didn't know and she politely rejected him and he accepted it that's likely also fine. If he didn't know and she politely rejected him and he didn't accept it, that's not…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:33 PM
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I mean statistically they're slightly more likely to be republican just on the numbers alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:25 PM
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I'd imagine that you have a much better sense of yourself at 28 than at 22 and what you want in a partner. People are also on average dating longer before they get married. People who have a higher education level also marry latter and have children later which means they're likely more financially secure. There are a bunch of things that contribute to longer marriages among people who are college-educated.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:23 PM
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I'd also wonder if women who don't go to college are more likely to come from backgrounds who don't have the finances to send them to college or who don't culturally value education? And ones who value early marriage and religious monogamy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:18 PM
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I'm a woman who is in STEM, I was surrounded by STEM women in college, my friends are mostly STEM women, and I work in a STEM field with female colleagues and everything the original post and comment said is true in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:16 PM
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There are a huge number of misconceptions about basic birth control. There's a strong correlation between districts with abstinence only education and higher teenage pregnancy rates. It's only common sense to those who grew up surrounded by the knowledge. Also you're 16 and living in a rural religious community. Where are you getting condoms? The store manager might know your family. Your dad might find them. Someone older told you the pullout method was just as effective and you believed them b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:13 PM
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OP's comments have made it very clear that he is aware that the women he approaches do not want to be approached but he does it regardless because he sees no downside to himself and apparently doesn't care that he's making another human being uncomfortable. He's actively ignoring clear and repetitive social signs that he knows mean 'no'. No mind reading was required, he's made it clear he knew what he was doing. People, of either gender, absolutely do get to choose if they want to get to know ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 10:07 PM
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All the time is a bit of a stretch...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:51 PM
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All I'm hearing is that you like to wear down girls who aren't interested in you until they relent and give you what you want. If that's how you want to live your life I can't stop you, but your story makes you sound like a jerk from an outside perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:44 PM
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Bingo. Women are also not really taught that their sexual satisfaction matters from a young age. God forbid a guy doesn't finish during sex but if a woman doesn't ah well, woman are difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:35 PM
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I think this is person-dependent. A physically intimate relationship matters more to some than others, and ideally partners should be on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:33 PM
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That's massively oversimplifying relationships and women as human beings in general. Marriages before women working was common were definitely not significantly better than today's just because a guy was providing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:32 PM
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There's a pretty big difference between assuming all men are monsters and not wanting to get hit on in public on a particular day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 09:00 PM
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Have you considered that what she wants is someone who respects her boundaries and wishes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:55 PM
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Seriously, do people's lives not get busy? The amount of time and effort it would take to consistency sleep with a new guy from online dating once a week sounds exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:43 PM
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I had the same thought (except for the rural part!) ha ha. Like hey I've been single for X and I'm normal...oh wait no I forgot about Tyler. Fuck Tyler.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:25 PM
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See aside from height I kind of disagree (and even then men seem to prefer shorter women so it's not exclusive to one gender), especially on the dick size. I don't know who started this whole 'big dicks=better dicks' thing but in my and my friend's experience this is not true. Sure, there's a point where it gets too small to really get the most out of it but in general larger can often mean more uncomfortable, more chance for pain, more limited positions, and more focus on it. Average boyfriend …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:23 PM
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Isn't it possible that women spend more than four hours a week on average on maintenance including hair care, makeup, exercise, dressing and choosing clothing, learning how to do it, etc? Most attractive women wouldn't be as attractive if they put the same amount of work most men did to their appearance over the years, IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 08:02 PM
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If it's any consolation a lot more women than you think go bald, but the pattern is often different and they spend more time and money camouflaging it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:58 PM
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There are a lot of social things I'd like but in terms of convenience the peeing thing is so high on my list. I've gotten into backpacking lately and my guy friends just have to turn around and not even take off their pants all the way!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:56 PM
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It's probably not fair of me but I usually swipe 'no' on super good looking guys because their bios tend to be really flat and the conversation has proven to usually be really boring. Also people who post things that show off their wealth. It's just a turnoff for me. Why would I want to be with someone who thinks I'll be drawn in by something shiny? Someone funny and on my wavelength is much more appealing than good looks. I'd be lying if I said looks don't matter, but aside from a baseline leve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:51 PM
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Sexually I would say it's...different. Is it easier to get sex? Almost definitely. Is it easier to get sex you actually enjoy? That's pretty debatable and I'd say the answer is no. I couldn't say if that's because of biological differences, the emphasis on male pleasure, women still being shamed for enjoying sex, or something else all together. People are like 'you could go up to a bar anywhere and get laid'. Like sure, but 9/10 that's not going to be a super fun time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:46 PM
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Fun (well not really) fact, men are both more likely to be victims of and the perpetrators of most crimes, with the exception of crimes of person (i.e. sexual assault) in the US. There are some exceptions in bubble populations like prison populations though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:39 PM
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I agree except for the easier beauty standards. I think for one men think that women's (in general) idea of attractive is much narrower than it actually is (me and my friends have vastly different ideas of who we find good looking, and none of it is particularly deviant). I also think women are pressured into maintaining a higher standard at all times. A man can, and is expected, to go on a date or to a job interview with no makeup, for example. For a woman this would be seen as sloppy. Which is…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:36 PM
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I mean I'm sorry for your situation and I don't know the specifics in your case but most studies about divorce show that women are at a much greater risk for disproportionate loses in income and falling into poverty after divorce. I'm not saying that there aren't areas where divorce courts need reform (there definitely are), but this idea that most women live large after a divorce and mooch off men doesn't have any large scale data to prove it that I know of. Also it ignores the real hit that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:29 PM
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It's fine if you do it with everyone, but if you're only doing it to one gender because you inherently believe they are weaker or less than in some ways then it's disrespectful to that gender or individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 07:17 PM
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Interesting, I disagree. In my experience working in a STEM field in a male-dominated company men are usually assumed to be competent while woman have to prove it. People assuming you're only there because you're a woman is not privilege, it's insulting and a barrier to getting the same respect and recognition for the same work. Also quite a few studies have shown that when identical resumes are given out with female, male, or gender neutral names men get selected for interviews far more often (…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 06:59 PM
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This is my first time on this sub and it's fascinating, and definitely (and hopefully) a weird but interesting bubble. I guess people with strong opinions either way are more likely to gravitate here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 06:50 PM
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Sorry where are you getting that information from? Most divorces are instigated by women (69% in the US, though numbers vary on the study), even more so when the couple is college educated. Studies also show that women do way more in relationships still in terms of emotional and mental labour, in addition to physical labour. To me this indicates that women are doing more of the work and getting less out of it, especially in modern times when financially dependency is decreasing. I think men just…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 06:36 PM
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I don't have full data to back this up so disclaimer what I'm going to say now is just my opinion based on what I've read and seen. Ideally we'd live in a gender blind society in terms of politics where you'd judge politicians for their stances and what they said. Obviously that's not the case, and gender influences how we see things. You're saying that insulting women will start a manhunt, but traditionally what we've seen is that men tend to be under a lot less scrutiny politically. Clinton vs…
/r/MensRights20/07/20 03:12 AM
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Yeah some of them are, but the vast majority aren't. Just like some rappers, influencers, soccer players, etc. make millions but 99% make nothing.
/r/MensRights20/07/20 12:04 AM
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Women politicians are constantly criticized for their looks. Michelle Obama's 'big arms', Catherine McKenna constantly got called a 'climate barbie', there were tons of rumors about Hillary Clinton being sick because she looked tired...etc. Female politician's appearances get criticized a lot more than men's, and historically they have had to focus a lot more attention on how they look just to avoid the attention. In Trump's particular case I'd wager he mostly brought it on himself by being a ge…
/r/MensRights19/07/20 09:54 PM
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You know the women on those rarely make a lot of money right? You get the occasional star, but careers tend to be fairly short and women (and men) often don't work in the best conditions and often get hurt.
/r/MensRights19/07/20 09:36 PM
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That's your mother's perspective and is a valid one, but you can't say that being defined by your career isn't valid either. We put a lot into our jobs, into changing things, into the status they give us, into the accomplishment we feel. People should be able to choose where they're identities lie, and for some women and men that's in their careers. In that case it is very much a sacrifice to give it up.
/r/MensRights19/07/20 09:27 PM
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Ah yes, that's why you see so many rich prostitutes...
/r/MensRights19/07/20 09:24 PM
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Somehow bringing up these inequalities makes men misogynistic incels. It doesn't, and most places that aren't Reddit don't say that. People have made valid points on the sub that are being lost in all the misogyny, which is what does make them misogynistic. Anecdotal, but I've heard by far more people say they've been accused of being an incel when they haven't compared to it actually happening. Saying you want to be able to terminate rights during pregnancy is very valid point. Saying it's beca…
/r/MensRights19/07/20 08:41 PM
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I don't know why this is down-voted so much. This is quite a common issue to talk about and has been for years. What's annoying is that there are valid points about equality that get lost in 'anti-women' vitriol.
/r/MensRights19/07/20 08:32 PM
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With a few exceptions most places where it's common to have more than the replacement rate of children have them for reasons unrelated to a condom working. Religious, cultural, economic, health, and educational reasons play probably the biggest role. On a global scale most families with 5+ kids aren't having them because they've been really unlucky with condoms.
/r/MensRights19/07/20 08:29 PM
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The impacts of pregnancy and birth are not comparable to the impacts of raising a child on the body. For an extreme example consider how many people die from the stress of raising a child (I'm sure there are some outlier cases) compared to the stress that pregnancy and birth puts on a body. No one if depriving men for the right to have a child. They're always free to go get a surrogate or find another woman or adopt, you just don't have the right to use her womb to do it. Pregnancy's not joke, e…
/r/MensRights19/07/20 08:23 PM
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Best interest of the child is written into most laws. In the context of child custody cases, focusing on the child's "best interests" means that all custody and visitation discussions and decisions are made with the ultimate goal of fostering and encouraging the child's happiness, security, mental health, and emotional development into young adulthood. So for example if you have parent A and B and legally they have the same rights to the child but the child is clearly happier and healthier in on…
/r/MensRights19/07/20 08:17 PM
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Circumcision is commonly noted in the 'my body, my choice' argument as something that should be banned, it's not something feminists are against, and it's aligned with the freedom to choose. Women aren't petitioning for men to have their foreskins cut off.
/r/MensRights19/07/20 08:08 PM
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