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| 3 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIt's something completely in your control? Learn what she likes and be the best in bed, and she won't think about previous men. The same applies to low n people with FOMO. If the sex is great, they're not thinking about who they haven't been with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 07:06 PM |
| 5 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADYou can absolutely learn to be the best sex ever in a short space of time with someone. (Bar sexual disfunction or abnormally large/small peen) There are reasons to care about n count, but this is not one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular?You don't get to your mid thirties without meeting hundreds of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.No need to apologise, have a wikid weekend 😎 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.It's OK your comment made perfect sense. I just found the term 'see them hormonally'. A tad amusing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends.OK Thank you For clarifying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 03:37 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Fair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:44 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵The original song she sampled is much better and doesn't have her annoying lyrics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:24 AM |
| 8 | Straight men and women generally cannot be friends."Hey, want to hang out hormonally?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular?Oh ok, just a normal house party then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular?I know literally hundreds of men. 'Sausage fest' is a pejorative term for a party with not enough women or girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:03 AM |
| 1 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys AlreadyI mean...kinda? Women have sexual needs and that doesn't go away when they're not not a committed relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular?Statistically younger people drink less, and pubs and clubs are closing down every day in the UK (not sure about other places). I also read that drink is still consumed a lot, but at different types of events (like sports events). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular?Alright, calm down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular?My slime ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular?Stag parties ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular?Thats not a regular thing and also they go to places where women are like strip clubs and nightclubs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 04:29 PM |
| 3 | Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular?Yeah but why have male only parties? That's the bit I find odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 10:03 AM |
| 4 | Night clubs, frats and similar spaces are widely criticized for their danger to women. Men that occupy these spaces are almost always the perpetrators. How do these spaces continue to draw women? Why do women-only versions remain unpopular?I don't know a single man that this appeals to. America seems very odd for having this. In fact, most men I know would avoid sausage fests like the plague (unless they're gay) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.People think its wierd and gross, which it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/25 08:07 AM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I like those kind of curls, I like all curls. It looks thicker than straight hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:59 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Men should make the most of having luscious hair whilst they have it. It's extremely attractive and they will miss it when they start to thin and go bald! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.There aren't many of them. However, I suspect anyone who has a male sex doll would have to keep it secret from a potential romantic partner as the majority of people find them gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:56 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵She's probably star struck, he is a very good actor. I don't fancy Jimmy carr, but I would totally gush if I saw him. I'm only on my 30s though, maybe older women find him attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 07:54 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Love it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No of course he's not. He just looks like an old, out of shape man. He bags attractive women because he's rich. They probably have to do real depraved shit with him and maybe his friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 06:49 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵How tight are the curls? I knew a bloke with really tight coils and he just kept it messy. I think it looks great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 06:46 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Women do actually hate the idea of sex robots despite saying otherwise.Something that's realistic, but not realistic enough to pass as human makes people visceral uncomfortable. It's called uncanny Valley. The sex dolls currently on the market look like corpses, so it's underatandble that people find these gross. This isn't a gendered thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 04:53 PM |
| 5 | The Man You You Want vs The Men You Are Attracted ToWell..yeah. they don't get paid to sit around the army baracks wanking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 06:57 PM |
| 3 | The Man You You Want vs The Men You Are Attracted ToThe training causes calluses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 05:36 PM |
| 4 | The Man You You Want vs The Men You Are Attracted ToPartner I want: Funny, extraverted, really good in bed, likes to party, not to many mental health issues, can hold a decent conversation, muscular or toned, handsome face, all his hair, no more than five years +/- my age. Last three men I've slept with: Same as above but has had quite bad mental health issues that he recovered from. Same as above but younger. Physically Same as above, younger, not really good in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 05:34 PM |
| 2 | The Man You You Want vs The Men You Are Attracted ToYou get used to it 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 05:28 PM |
| 5 | The Man You You Want vs The Men You Are Attracted ToArmy men probably have very callused hands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 05:25 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵https://youtube.com/shorts/qts1-qM-ebk?si=vfYpKS_3sRzSg_b0 This guy is jokes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 08:36 PM |
| 1 | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵No, he kept shitting himself and wrote an article about how shitting yourself is not good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 08:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most people are boring and things like hobbies doesn't matter when it comes to datingOh I see. I do love getting drunk tbh. Yesterday I crawled home at 5am lol. Still, I have other hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.I remember at school lots of girls got bullied for allegedly being bad at sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Modern dating and relationship culture puts the burden of good sex entirely on men, and according to this narrative a woman can never be bad at sex, only uninterested.When this happens with me, the guy just goes down on me for a bit. Or he comes, takes a break and tries again. It's a pretty simple solution... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Is it common for women to have had a negative experience with an autistic man in their life?I have had a bad experience, but I wouldn't say that on aggregate they are worse than neurotypical men. Most creative, interesting people are on the spectrum, so naturally I'm drawn to them (as long as they're the extraverted kind). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 06:15 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most people are boring and things like hobbies doesn't matter when it comes to dating10 minutes! Can you tldw? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/25 06:12 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most people are boring and things like hobbies doesn't matter when it comes to datinghttps://www.etymonline.com/word/hobby I mean, this post itself shows you how It's used in modern vernacular? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 11:16 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most people are boring and things like hobbies doesn't matter when it comes to datingThat's how the dictionary defines it. Take it up with them, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS👀 N-COUNT🔢 AND DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I absolutely cannot stand influences. They also spend abput 12hrs a day on their phones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 10:24 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most people are boring and things like hobbies doesn't matter when it comes to datingYou'll come back to them :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 09:55 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Most people are boring and things like hobbies doesn't matter when it comes to datingA hobby is "an activity done regularly in one's leisure time for pleasure." Gigging and playing an instrument is a hobby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 09:42 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Most people are boring and things like hobbies doesn't matter when it comes to datingThey probably think the same about you, so it's not an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 09:34 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most people are boring and things like hobbies doesn't matter when it comes to datingYup. Also, I've discovered hobbies through my partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 09:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most people are boring and things like hobbies doesn't matter when it comes to datingKite flying and birdwatching sounds awesome! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeI don't expect you to! You seemed lost and I was just mitigating your confusion. Have a restful Sunday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 08:29 PM |
| 15 | CMV: Most people are boring and things like hobbies doesn't matter when it comes to datingI won't date anyone who doesn't have hobbies I find interesting. I also won't date anyone who isn't fun to be around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 08:11 PM |
| 1 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeHuh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 07:34 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI know a ton of millenials that are obsessed witg house plants. I think a lot of young people just don't have gardens ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 06:14 PM |
| 1 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeI hope you find the person you were trying to reply to in this thread! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 05:27 PM |
| 1 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeMy name isn't sweetheart either. You have confused me with someone else. No dramas..it happens :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 05:18 PM |
| 1 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeMy name is not Sarah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 05:15 PM |
| – | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeYoure replying the wrong person, mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 02:46 PM |
| 0 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeI wasn't talking about 'emotional labour'(whatever that is). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 03:57 PM |
| 3 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeWhat would codified division of unpaid labour look like ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 01:00 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of the super anti woke types of guys?Stand up comedians and sitcom writers are overwhelming leftist. Leftist comedians have horrendously dark senses of humour. Jimmy carr, IASIP, Frank Boyle.. even Ricky Gervais identifies as a 'Liberal lefty snowflake'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 11:21 AM |
| 2 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeThat wouldn't make sense as often someone contribures with unpaid labour, which they can't take back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 11:06 AM |
| 5 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeIf they don't love her then they absolutely should leave her. It's 'morally fucked' to pretend to love someone you don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 08:22 PM |
| 0 | The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks RedditBecause its sex slavery. People think that being repeatedly raped is worse than getting killed or forced to do physical labour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 06:56 PM |
| 2 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeIf you married someone because they had personality traits that align with yours and then they dramatically change, then you absolutely should divorce. Tbh falling out of love is a good reason to divorce. It is better for both of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 06:54 PM |
| 2 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeYou should leave relationships if you're not fulfilled or have fallen out of love. It's best for both of you tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 06:37 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADThey're infiltrating all the food groups I follow on social media. Saw one the other day of a guy showing his plate of raw swordfish, boiled eggs, offal and raw milk. Way more annoying than vegans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/25 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Are you okay with your gf/wife watching porn?Agreed :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Are you okay with your gf/wife watching porn?But the 'doing stuff' is the source of the dislike. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Are you okay with your gf/wife watching porn?They dislike their partner wanking to another person's genitals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Are you okay with your gf/wife watching porn?And if someone disliked their partner looking at cars, they would not like their partner watching what you described. If someone doesn't want their partner watching intercourse, they wouldn't want them watching porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Are you okay with your gf/wife watching porn?It's really intercourse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 06:23 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Are you okay with your gf/wife watching porn?I've never actually thought about it until I read this comment. But all my crushes and bfs have bad somewhat deep voices lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 06:22 PM |
| 2 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornPossibly, but him being religious is a value that doesn't align with a lot of people. If you're non religious and don't want a man who watches porn, you don't have many options at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 12:44 AM |
| 10 | Dear ladies: What do you think are the reasons for the orgasm gap?Up until I was in my late teens, I thought orgasms just came from PIV and if you couldn't, there was something wrong with you. That's how it was spoken about in the media and by extention, how people my age spoke about sex. I just wasnt aware what a clitoris was and what role it played in the female orgasm. It took me a lot of masturbating to discover what my body enjoys. I also then had a partner who loved eating pussy and pretty much made me cum each time. Since then I orgasms with every sexua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 12:42 AM |
| 2 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornThe idea that men don't watch porn because hey go to church is hilarious. The church has some of the most depraved men in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 12:35 AM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excuses👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 04:37 PM |
| 7 | It’s not unreasonable to ask your partner to stop watching pornIt's not unreasonable but it shrinks your dating pool to a puddle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 04:37 PM |
| – | How can a man not feel worse when he realizes that his girlfriend/wife behaves more restrictedly and less passionately with him than with her past partners?I find it incredibly bizarre that couples are actually having this conversation with each other? Ive never had a conversation with a partner about past partners. Occasionally a funny anecdote but that's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 04:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesWin win for everyone then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 03:58 PM |
| 2 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesI woulsnt say 'conversely' I think there's confusion in this thread about what sexual communication consists of, and how different people define it and to what extent. I communicate by giving positive feedback and dirty talking. What I don't like is giving step by step instructions throughout regular sex as it kills the flow. If I had some sort of kink, I would ask for that explicitly and talk them through that. However, OP is talking about achieving orgasms and (thankfully) most women don't nee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 10:26 PM |
| 3 | I sincerely believe that every average woman(6/10 and above)has the ability to become a millionaire by their 30s(in the west)I don't have the capacity to dedicate so much energy to climbing the corporate ladder. I also dislike the culture and would be utterly miserable. I would rather have a fullfilling job tha finishes when I come home, and have the energy to spend doing things tha fulfill me. I don't see how that relates to PPD, though? I don't see how having a penia would change this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 08:05 PM |
| 2 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesThat's a really good analogy. One of my observations about the kink scene was that everything was formally discussed, which for me took the fun out of it. I love fumbling and finding out what someone likes by reading their body language and cues. If I or they have to keep saying 'can you please do X' - it would mess up the flow for me. I also love the flirty build up between making acquaintance to having them in bed. But obviously you absolutely have to discuss kinks as they deviate from the nor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 06:35 PM |
| 5 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesYes! If I'm close to orgasm, it is like moving up a hill. Once the pace changes, I move back down the hill. From the moment I say 'I'm about to cum' he just needs to continue exactly what he's doing for the next twenty seconds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:42 PM |
| 10 | Do you actually think life would be easier if you were a man in this age ?I just can't envision being another gender. My wants and desires are heavily influenced by my experience as a woman. If I was a man, I would have different hormones and drives so my desires would be very different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:32 PM |
| 3 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesSharing my anecdotes has invited and opened discourse around the subject.If you don't like what I say, feel free to simply block me. In your last paragraph you said my take was 'immature' immature is regarded as an insult, by most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 05:29 PM |
| 3 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesOh I consistently have good sex, and I base my entire relationships around them. I would be happy to discuss this, but you're going to have to reign in the personal insults and conduct yourself cordially, like a grown up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 04:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesIf you have an attitude which enshrines giving your partner pleasure - the chances are your partner will often..be given pleasure. The men who care about being great lovers are going to be great lovers. It's not complicated, lol. Like I said. You can try and improve or you can do nothing and make sarky comments on ressit. It literally has zero impact on my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 02:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 02:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesIt's not just the oral sex itself, it's the attitude that goes with it. Also, those women would like it a lot more if they had been with more men that were amazing. We all have nerves down there and tongue and fingers are the most effective way of stimulating them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 02:20 PM |
| 3 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesThey talk about sex in a way that myself and women find enjoyable, which is indicative they fuck well. You could make effort to be like that, or you can whine on reddit. Up to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 02:16 PM |
| 2 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesI have expanded on this in my other comments. Feel free to read them, as I go into detail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 01:58 PM |
| 5 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesThere are 2 or 3 men on here that definitely fuck good, and the perosn you are replying to is one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 01:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesAre you ESL? You don't seem to underatand my comments at all. It's fine, but I think we're having two different conversations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 01:27 PM |
| 7 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesYou can communicate with dirty talk, and body language. Not this weird, clinical way reddit often thinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 01:26 PM |
| 3 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesEating out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 01:25 PM |
| 2 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesHaha, what? Literally all my comments are about how much I love sex and how much emphasis I put on sexual chemistry and mutual enjoyment. Maybe you replied to the wrong comment ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 01:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesOk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 02:04 AM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesYou sound ashamed to masturbate and enjoy sex without a man doing it to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 01:53 AM |
| 2 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesThe problem stems from womens low expectations of men and stigma around women enjoying sex. It's a societal and cultural issue. We all have the physical ability to orgasm. We have a body part which only functions to make us orgasm. You just need to adjust your attitude and the shame you feel around your own sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 01:20 AM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesIf you want him to master the rhythm, he has to have sex with you often enough to find out what that is ( regardless of status ) . Unless all women are the same. It's rarely mind blowing the first time. He makes an effort the first time by trying things most women find pleasurable. He picks up on my cues and tweaks techniques the first time round. Then, after each time it gets better and better until its mind blowing sex we are having. I've pretty much had regular sex since I was 18 (now 33). Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 01:14 AM |
| 5 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesThe subordinate clause 'but after a certain age' indicates that that I am not referring to inexperienced men. that's your problem, not his. Well then he can go find someone else :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 12:54 AM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesI'm sorry, it sounds like a terrible situation. Do masturbate though, orgasms are amazing even if they're by yourself. It's like seeing the sky for the first time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesAn orgasm where you used your hands is better than no orgasm at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 12:16 AM |
| 3 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesYou can feel sad about your sex life and lack of ever experiencing an orgams, or you can try different methods and have an orgasm like I suggested. It's totally up to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 12:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesOr his hand or his tongue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 11:48 PM |
| 2 | What kind of stalker is more disturbing, male or female stalkers?"How many phones do you have?" "Oh the normal amount..6...7" 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 11:41 PM |
| 6 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesOK, you've definitely given me something to think about. I do empathise with young men going into sex blind and not knowing what signs of female pleasure are. And if the woman doesn't know what she likes, it never gets anywhere and just ends badly. I understand just talking to girls is tricky for boys, but also social skills are way more complex than sexual skills. Girls and boys just need to suck it up and force themselves to socialise together in groups. That's what my generation did and way l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 11:35 PM |
| 2 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesIf I have to rub myself to orgasm then my orgasm has nothing to do with him. You are orgasming from the sensation of both your hand and his penis. Or he can rub you with his hands, and you orgasm comes from his hand and his penis. So what’s the point of sex? To have a magical, bonding moment between the two of you, to make you both happy and to feel euphoria. I don’t like oral sex. Probably because you have a mental block, and because you haven't learned what your body likes. Either learn what y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 11:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesWell I have to rub my clitoris during penetration. When I do, we both orgasm. And I wouldn’t want to give him blowjobs or handjobs everytime we have sex. So why would he? If he gives you oral sex and you orgasm, then you have penetrative sex and he orgasms..then that is fair ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 11:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesWhat I'm suggesting is you learn to make yourself orgasm through masturbation, then you incorporate what you know into sex. Essentially, you find out what physically stimulates you to orgasm, and then your man does the same with his hands or tongue. Then you benefit from having the human experience of an orgasm, and your relationship benefits from the sex life going from 'meh' to 'mindblowing'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 11:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesMost women/girls learn to orgasm through masturbation. Most orgasms with partners happen with manual rubbing or oral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 10:36 PM |
| 2 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesAh, I'm sorry. It took me a few years before I could. Some research and getting rid of the mental block helped me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 10:22 PM |
| 1 | What kind of stalker is more disturbing, male or female stalkers?My God, tha series was wild. Have you seen the interview between her and piers Morgan? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 10:19 PM |
| -1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesIf you say so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 10:09 PM |
| -1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesThat's not a better way of wording it. In fact, that's not what I said at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 10:06 PM |
| 2 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesCan you orgasm at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 09:52 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesYou're asexual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 09:50 PM |
| 8 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesMaybe those people equate good sex with orgasms because orgasms are always the result of good ses for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 09:49 PM |
| 2 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesYou can be an attuned a generous lover but still not have chemistry with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 09:47 PM |
| 7 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesMy issue is when (some) men won't even try to do anything pleasurable. They'll just go for very brisk forplay and then PIV. Theres no chance for me to give positive signals, because the man isn't trying anything to get positive signals. If I have to spend the whole duration asking for him to give me pleasure, ita sub par sex for me and also indicative that he's not willing to make an effort. Obviously there are details I absolutely need to communicate vocally (kinks, a specific technique) but is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesYes, agreed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 09:00 PM |
| 7 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesYou are always communicating during sex, but not in this weird formal way that people on this sub think you need. Dirty talk is communicating (and can be a way of inexplicably asking what to do next) and noises and body language is communicating. The problem is some people totally neglect the other person's pleasure and then excuse it with 'well they didnt constantly ask me!' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 08:57 PM |
| 4 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesI can't speak for everyone, but it's pretty damn pbvipus if I find something pleasurable or not. Example: Man licks my nipples. I arch my back, start wriggling and groan with pleasure. He then takes his fingers and tweaks them. The groaning stops and I start making jerking, uncomfortable movements instead OR I just lay silently. What do you think I liked in this scenario? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 08:42 PM |
| 8 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesPeople communicate through body language and dirty talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 08:35 PM |
| 11 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesWell I was giving an explanation to my answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 08:33 PM |
| 10 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesThis. I underatand sex is a journey and you have to start somewhere. For young and very inexperienced people, I get it. But after a certian age, I don't want to have to walk men through every step. Either I'm arching my back, groaning, breathing heavily and vocalising enjoyment - or I'm not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 08:32 PM |
| 10 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesI would simply not see #1 again. If making me cum was important, he would ask me what I liked, or he would try things that he knows most women like (oral, kissing, teasing). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 08:28 PM |
| 14 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesAny dude who isn't really inexperienced, knows what women like in the bedroom. They might need to tweak things with each woman, but there are general know hows. And bodily and vocal reactions are pretty easy to spot. If I'm groaning, gasping and wiggling - I am probably enjoying myself. Also, I hate it when I have to ask for oral, it's evident that they don't enjoy doing it see it as a favour to you. The best fuckers slowly work their way to your fanny and absolutely go to town on it (preferably… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 08:19 PM |
| 9 | Women who get abortions should be labelled as "deadbeat mothers".How dare those horrible women deprive our corporate overlawds and oligarch daddies from mass, cheap labour and taxes ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 08:02 PM |
| 14 | CMV: You are responsible for your orgasm - no excusesI feel like this title is a bit baity. 'Orgams is your responsibility' is the rhetoric used to excuse bad sex, not enhance it. Why can't sex be two people, mutually enjoying each others bodies and enjoying each others pleasure by proxy? Who would I invite for a second sexual encounter. The man who fucked me doggy, and I rubbed myself to orgams whilst he was penetrating me? Or, the man who kissed me everywhere, touched me everywhere and ate my pussy to orgasm. If a sexual partner is just some dev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 07:18 PM |
| 2 | What % of men fail to meet reasonable hygiene or grooming standards?I'm aware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 01:35 PM |
| 0 | How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?They have active sex lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 08:31 AM |
| 1 | How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?The point is that he should be researching how to be good in sex and making the most out of the times he does have sex. Obviously it's going to take more than one encounter to be good, like duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 08:30 AM |
| 0 | How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?Creative types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: how common is it that women masturbate without an object of desire?So apparently its quite common. TIL ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: how common is it that women masturbate without an object of desire?Oh I see. When my eyes are closed, that's where all the fun happens. If its very strong acid, open and closed eyes are the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: how common is it that women masturbate without an object of desire?Have you taken psychedelics? If so, do you get visuals with your eyes closed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 06:56 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: how common is it that women masturbate without an object of desire?I can't orgasm without visualising something sexual or having sex with someone I find visually arousing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Men improving themselves wont fix the dating market, women need to lower their standards.Then why do most bisexual men end up with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 05:54 PM |
| 6 | Men improving themselves wont fix the dating market, women need to lower their standards.Haha, yes. I think 'women age like milk' is a compliment. Im an expensive roquefort melting on a quality steak in France. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 05:52 PM |
| 2 | How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?It's reddit, not a work email. People know what I mean. Anyway, people use both spellings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 04:15 PM |
| 2 | How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?I'm also talking about orgasms. Unfortunately a lot of people are super lazy in the bedroom and just don't care about others pleasure. They won't make the effort to learn with their first partner and do some online research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 03:22 PM |
| 12 | What % of men fail to meet reasonable hygiene or grooming standards?The ones I know, it's down to smoking and poor maintenance. They have money to get work done, but choose not to. But if it doesn't bother them, it doesn't bother them. It is sad when people can't afford to get work done. My aligners cost 3k :/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 03:16 PM |
| 2 | How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?Actually no its not. It's like saying you met a intermediate cook, you learned to cook with him and you both got good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 03:10 PM |
| 52 | What % of men fail to meet reasonable hygiene or grooming standards?Depends son your social circle. I've heard there's lots of smelly men at Sci fi and gaming convensions. I hang with crusties and punks and a lot of them have completely fucked teeth. They don't smell though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?I actually am in a position. As I have sex with men and have been other journey with them being good, to great lovers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 03:03 PM |
| 2 | How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?Stop making making excuses, it's not difficult master oral sex. You just learn where the sensitive areas are and listen to how your partner reacts. As for positions, you do different ones until your partner reacts really positively. I've had three boyfriends and a few FWBs that were very good in bed. Simply because they made an effort on the first encounter and listened to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 02:42 PM |
| 1 | There is a double standard with how society tolerates women talking about men's bodies vs how society tolerates men talking about women's bodiesI'm feminist leaning. I absolutely agree that society accepts penis shaming in men and I think it's really shitty. For example, a photo went viral of Andrew tate and you can see he has a small penis. People found it hilarious and lampooned him for it. But the forget that there are regular, nice men with small dicks who see this and get really upset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 02:07 PM |
| 0 | How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?The last point often gets overlooked by men IMO. If you have sex with a woman, being good in bed is what will make her open to a FWB situation or relationship. Being good at sex only requires you to understand some basic biology and listening to how the woman reacts to certain moves. You can get good at sex within a couple of months. You'll be surprised how many men successfully get a woman in bed, and then mess it up by being bad. So they only have three single encounters a year, and the guy wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: how common is it that women masturbate without an object of desire?Yeah, I find it odd. I guess she goes in a meditative state? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 01:50 PM |
| 3 | How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?Im a raver and part time party head. Everyone in my wider social circle has a very active sex life. Raving gets complete strangers talking to each other and forming bonds quickly. At the last festival I went to, my female friend and I made friends with our camping neighbours. She hooked up with one of the guys, and the guys friend hooked up with a girl he met at a previous festival. I've hooked up with three guys at festivals (on separate occasions). We stayed in contact after, and it's possible… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 01:48 PM |
| 4 | How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?Hippy guys actually do incredibly well with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 01:38 PM |
| 1 | How would you help an average man get a girlfriend?I don't give male friends advice on dating as they are not receptive to it. I once mentioned to two male friends about hitting the gym and they honestly seemed a bit offended. I once helped a male friend make a profile and that was successful. Unfortunately, the women he went on dates with lost interest. But if a lad did actually ask me for advice - I would tell them to hit the gym. It will improve SMV and his mental and physical health. I would advise going to social events as much as possible.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 01:34 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: how common is it that women masturbate without an object of desire?Years ago, I was talking to a friend and she said she sometimes thinks of nothing and masturbates to completion. She was single at the time. As far as I know, she has a good sex life with her wife. Personally I find it odd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Women seem to be selecting for “coolness”Anyone can be a dj, it takes very very little musical talent That's not true. You spend hours researching music, learning to make transitions, chopping and blending, Equalising, beat matching ect. Most clubs won't hire someone who just syncs and cues, as equipment can be erratic and you need to be able blend by ear. Even a basic wedding DJ with a cheap controller needs to be able to read a room and will have to play two tunes with very different BPMs and usually include vocals that are a bugger … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 04:00 AM |
| 3 | You can't give advice to a guy without knowing his individual situation and what he has going for/against himHave you seen the episode of rick and morty where these aliens follow Jerry around because they get off on his cringe? Literally me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 02:11 AM |
| 13 | More traditional marriages are easier and that's why they fail less oftenYes. Women have always worked like dogs. They farmed, worked in factories, served rich people ect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Women seem to be selecting for “coolness”Absolute rubbish. Athletes (jocks) are some of the most chill people out there. They get all their energy out on the field and are (usually) pleasant and low drama people to be around. Life isn't Euphoria lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Women seem to be selecting for “coolness”No offence to fighters (I think it takes incredible hard work and talent) but fighters do have a reputation for being very dramatic and emotionally erratic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 12:39 AM |
| 5 | Women seem to be selecting for “coolness”Yup. Someone who is fun to be around and has a large network of friends is very beneficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Women seem to be selecting for “coolness”DJs and electronic producers are actually very introverted and nerdy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/25 12:33 AM |
| 4 | Modern feminism has caused damage to the healthy romantic dynamic between men and women.Cold approach and warm approach should not be used interchangeably. It's considered rude in most countries to approach complete strangers and try to get something from them. Whether it's money or sex. It's annoying and most people dislike it. Have you ever been on holiday to somewhere like India and been harassed by people trying to sell you trinkets? You walk from A to B and get stopped 12 times. It's annoying and people don't want that normalised in every day life. Women (on aggregate) have ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 01:13 PM |
| 6 | Women seem to be considerably more competitive and envious of each otherAsking a person on a dating app for their friends number seems really rude? I think most people would just unmatch without answering the persons question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeI have no idea what you're talking about, sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 12:41 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADBrocoli with butter and salt is lush. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 09:58 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADLearning the splits! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeOh my god this was so hilariously cringe, thanks 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeI hang out with gay and trans people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/25 03:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: it's wrong to track how often your wife denies you sexOf course it is. It doesn't address any of the actual root causes, humiliates the person and is incredibly childish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: it's wrong to track how often your wife denies you sexI would leave him immediately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 07:00 PM |
| 4 | CMV: it's wrong to track how often your wife denies you sexI remember when that first got posted, must be ten years ago now? The comment section were mostly on his side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeYou're missing my point. Straight men react to unwanted sexual attention with visceral disgust and discomfort. We know that, by observing how they treat unwanted sexual attention from gay men. So as a civilised society, it's in our interest to make anyone (regardless of gender) not endure an unwanted sexual attention at high levels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 06:24 PM |
| 5 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeOh men express their problems with dating quote frequently. There's literally a whole movement around it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 06:19 PM |
| 6 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeYes, you can. You can literally pick whatever traits you want in a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeI have no idea what OP is getting at, they don't seem to understand how basic consent works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 06:17 PM |
| 9 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeI don't know how you can look at the world around you and not realise that women also put up with A LOT of bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 02:43 PM |
| 15 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeYou have to compromise decisions with the perosn you have chosen to be with. But the person you have chosen is based on what adds value to your life. Relationships aren't some act of altruism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 02:43 PM |
| 5 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeIf they do that, then they will end up single or in a bad relationship. Likewise if a man were to do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 02:33 PM |
| 9 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeThere are enough homophobic straight men to make it dangerous. And besides, a straight man disliking being hit on does not make them homophobic. Likewise a straight woman disliking it from straight men is not sexist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 02:24 PM |
| 3 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeOr maybe what we call 'tradcon' has some good points and bad points? Let's assume 'these women' have are asking for the impossible. That's their problem. They either have to accept their requirements cannot be met, or change their requirements. That's literally the point of dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 02:19 PM |
| 13 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeYou can't possibly look at the world around and think most straight men are fine with unwanted attention from gay men? Entire religions, institutions and political parties exist to quash homosexualty because of visceral disgust and fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 02:01 PM |
| 8 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeI think when it comes to dating you HAVE to be selfish (to a degree) If you're not satisfied, the relationship won't work. I'm not commenting on any of the points in OP in particular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 01:55 PM |
| 14 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeWhen it comes to dating it IS about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 01:40 PM |
| 16 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeAlso your post didn't seem to underatand sexual consent, which is incredibly scary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 01:35 PM |
| 10 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeActually no, most people live by beliefs that benefit them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 01:33 PM |
| 43 | Many women want to be liberated feminists and trad conservatives at the same timeBefore all social media was a propaganda machine, the majority of people would have beliefs from both side of the political spectrum. There's nothing wrong with agreeing with conservatives on some subjects and feminists on another. Only a sith thinks in absolutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: for those males struggling with dating, would you marry Lily Phillips?Presumably you need to sign upon her OF to watch it? Some people said this on reddit. Porn is known for being stinky, porn witg 101 people...definitely going to be very stinky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 12:19 PM |
| 6 | Would you rather marry a guy 20+ years your senior or remain single and childless for life?Single and childless, without question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: for those males struggling with dating, would you marry Lily Phillips?I haven't seen the video (and never will) but apparently the camera man was retching from the awful smell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 05:11 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADUnfortunately chippies ruin their bodies by their mid to late 30s. It wrecks havoc on your back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 01:48 PM |
| 1 | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI wouldn't feel safe attaching myself to the president of one of the most powerful cuntries in the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/24 01:46 PM |
| 6 | Main problem with promiscuity is not even that they are badThis is why the whole 'daddy issues' trope exists. Women that lack positive attention and a secure attachment to their parent(s) seek it out with men. So they sleep with them quickly, resulting in multiple ONSs or serial monogamy. I think Cassie in the t.v show 'Euphoria' exemplified this quite well. There are women who genuinely enjoy casual sex and get off easily, but I don't think they're that common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 06:35 PM |
| – | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 06:18 PM |
| 1 | People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating.OK this makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 05:43 PM |
| – | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.Ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 05:13 PM |
| – | Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being badI was asking the person who had 'red pill woman' as their flair. Seems like an odd thing to say of you identify as such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 05:10 PM |
| – | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.I've never used that term or even knows what it means. I don't know why people can't debate without being rude about the persons identity or nationality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sIt's talked about before BECAUSE it's a kink, and not the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 05:00 PM |
| – | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.Didn't read past your first sentence. There's no need to be xenophobic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 04:59 PM |
| – | Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being badWhat percentage of rp is bull? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 02:16 PM |
| – | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.No it's not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 01:36 PM |
| – | Women over sexualize themselves and punishment for looking.It's rude to stare. It always has been and it always will be. If you stare at a man in the pub, you risk him walking over to you and getting smacked. If you stare at a disabled child in the supermarket, you risk the carer getting pissy at you. You are completely capable of looking at people around you without staring at them in a way that makes them uncomfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 01:35 PM |
| -2 | TRP is basically mainstream and most men are waking up to reality, despite women claiming it is still some fringe minority of embittered rejectsIt is popular with teenage boys. If those boys grow up to still believe it, then I would be concerned. However there's still a good chance they will just live life and grow out of it. I've seen fads coming and go throughout the years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 12:57 PM |
| – | Promiscuous women are bad because THEY enjoy being badWhat did I just read | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sI would be horrified is some dude started choking me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sSpanking is hitting on the butt, is it not? And they are kinks. Kinks by definition are things that deviate off the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sI never said that 'only men have watched freaky porn' So you are replying to the wrong person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 12:46 PM |
| 4 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sI don't know how you can step outside and look at the world around you and think to yourself that women care more about sex than men, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 11:54 PM |
| 9 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sDid you not look at the link you replied to? What women watch is very similar to men. Only difference is they are less likely to watch it compared to men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sChoking and hitting someone isn't 'slightly aggressive' anyone who thinks that's normal needs their head checked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sWhat do you mean by 'slightly aggressive' ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sIf you had a kink you would try to satiate it with porn, no? It's also how most people discover kinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 11:31 PM |
| 8 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sWhat are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sWell never know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sAnd who watches the vast majority of porn ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 11:23 PM |
| 10 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sLook at the link I showed you. It shows you which categories women watch. Also what women produce on OF is not indicative of what they like. They make that content to sell to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sI've never heard a bisexual person claiming that women were more likely to have 'wild' fantaises. If you look at the numbers, the porn content women consume is little different to men's. https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2024-year-in-review#categories | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sThe ratio definitely isn't 1/1000. I date men as a woman and a good chunk of them are into something nasty. Maybe 1 in 30? I mean you just have to see the sheer abundance of extreme porn out there to see how many men are into extreme stuff. It is what it is though ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 10:11 PM |
| 8 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sIf you want to know what unfettered male sexuality is like, make a profile on feeld or grindr. You'll have someone asking to piss on you in ikea within minutes 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 09:54 PM |
| 18 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sThere are now stats that women watch more porn than men The vast majority of studies do not say this. They say that men consume vastly more porn than women. And those women include trans women As for content, lesbian is not even at top five for men, it is however #1 for women. https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2024-year-in-review#categories | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men's? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 08:59 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Trying to convince her with the proposal is ALWAYS a bad move.The proposal isn't about convincing a woman to marry you. Couples agree to get married prior to the proposal. It's just a cute thing that couples do to mark the moment and make it official. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 08:43 PM |
| – | The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and datingIm not disgussing who's responsible and to what extent they are responsible, so don't know why you're bringing it up. I am saying that forcing women to birth children they do not want will cause issues like mass mental health issues and subsequently wider societal issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating.Gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 08:35 PM |
| 30 | Women's Sexual Fantasies More Self Focused Compared to Men'sI don't know how you can look at what porn exists and think average dudes fantasies are 'normal'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 08:34 PM |
| – | Getting Online Dates and Real Gender Ratios on Dating AppsI don't think many people are aserting that having a nice body makes up for a face that's considered really ugly. Bumping up 1 or 2 SMV points is always beneficial though. And being fit comes with other incredible benefits like less back problems, more stamina, better mental health, better dick game, less prone to sickness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 08:30 PM |
| 7 | People should think about their priorities before complaining about dating.I'm sorry but what's the connection between a woman not being shallow and not being hot ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 08:27 PM |
| – | Getting Online Dates and Real Gender Ratios on Dating AppsIt will definitely bump someone up in SMV. Even if it's from a 2 to a 3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The proposal sets the tone for the marriageCunted 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 06:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The proposal sets the tone for the marriage"After all, why shouldn't I. Why shouldn't I drink all the baileys" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 06:47 PM |
| – | The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and datingAnd so can men. But whether they should or shouldn't, the fact of the matter means no abortion will result in masse mental health issues and likely more crime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 06:15 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The proposal sets the tone for the marriageHalf cut = tipsy Baileys = alcoholic drink, usually consumed around Christmas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 06:14 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The proposal sets the tone for the marriageTrue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 05:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The proposal sets the tone for the marriageSorry, I've been half cut all week on baileys 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 05:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The proposal sets the tone for the marriageNot literally, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 05:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The proposal sets the tone for the marriageSo are a lot of men. Its a western thing, unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 05:12 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The proposal sets the tone for the marriageEww. What a bunch of superficial, shallow assholes. I prey for any man who ends up with those women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 03:41 PM |
| – | Getting Online Dates and Real Gender Ratios on Dating AppsOh god, yes. The Johnny bravo look looks comical to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 02:31 PM |
| – | Getting Online Dates and Real Gender Ratios on Dating AppsOmg, you're totally wrong. I go absolutely wild for cum gutters, and a nice six pack. Mens stomachs are my favourite part of their body and I find it extremely arousing. When they reach up and you get a lil glimpse of it..mmmmm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 02:29 PM |
| – | The end of Roe v Wade has been a disaster for men, women and datingWhen that unwanted fetus develops into a baby in utero, all the mothers cortisol and stress gets passed on to it. So we're going to have a huge uptick in children being born with severe mental health issues. That's without considering what impact their sub par upbringing will be like. All because people care about a lump of cells with no sentience or consciousness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Destigmatizing sex work empowers both genders.I very very briefly sold socks (maybe about 3 in total). And the emails I got in the space of about three weeks were absolutely vile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Destigmatizing sex work empowers both genders.An anthropologist would be ablento give you a much better explanation. Also, children would predominantly spend their days playing with each other away from adults with children of all different ages. That only stopped recently (probably after millenials) and its having having impact on development. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Unconditional love doesn't existsAww, thanks! I work with children and most my colleagues feel very strongly about the kids we work with. I think they would feel the same about adopting and fostering children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Destigmatizing sex work empowers both genders.This person is open about it and her mother even knows. But yeah, she's going to struggle to find a partner, even amongst men that constantly tell her how EmPoWEred she is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Destigmatizing sex work empowers both genders.Well, only fan models get money for recruiting new members. They're incredibly incidious. A friend of a friend is one of the top OFs content producers (top 0.01%). According to my friend she's absolutely miserable, and also really lonely. It doesn't make much sense to me as she can just retire and live comfortably if she wanted? Maybe there's also loads of outgoing for them. Who knows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 01:13 PM |
| 0 | Destigmatizing sex work empowers both genders.Yes. I think lib fems are failing women in this regards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Unconditional love doesn't existsI could love an adopted child unconditionally, and possibly a fostered child if I had the time to form a bond with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Destigmatizing sex work empowers both genders.Back then children were raised with a group of people. There was no fear that men would raise some other man's baby, because they all raises the baby together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Destigmatizing sex work empowers both genders.We have evolved tp enjoy sex, we even have specific organs which only function to make us enjoy sex. When you remove the enjoyment you do your body and mind a disservice. That is also why rape and sex assault are widely viewed as one of the worst things that can happen to a human. I agree that a lot of the shit they get isn't only coming from a place of empathy. We 100% shame women for being promiscuous. My arguments is that if you remove the shame, people will still view sex work as something b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Unconditional love doesn't existsI love my child unconditionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Destigmatizing sex work empowers both genders.They do when they've had loads of Christmas booze. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Destigmatizing sex work empowers both genders.😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Sex in a relationship is important, and the views of both people in a couple on sex are extremely importantTotally agree! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Sex in a relationship is important, and the views of both people in a couple on sex are extremely importantBeing uninhibited means you're generally really good I bed. It means you get really stuck in, express your feelings and pleasure and aren't afraid to try something different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 12:54 AM |
| 8 | Destigmatizing sex work empowers both genders.100% When I hear these people talking about how easy only fans is I'm always sceptical. They ate having to spend most their times on their phone faking a persona, producing content and constantly communicating with fans to keep them interested. And some of those conversations are really horrible. My mate signed up briefly and was asked if she'd do really disgusting and illegal things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 12:18 AM |
| 4 | Destigmatizing sex work empowers both genders.I'm not sure I agree with this speculation, I think primitive people may have been promiscuous. That's also speculation on my part. However, in regards to biology I think women have evolved to enjoy sex. So when they regularly have sex they don't enjoy, it feels viscerally wrong and effects their mental health. I think the same applies to men. Men can have bad sexual encounters and feel horrible afterwards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 12:15 AM |
| 24 | Destigmatizing sex work empowers both genders.Constantly having sex in a way that's not pleasurable and essentially 'disassociating' isn't good for your mental health. It's not about intimacy or love, it's about your body consenting to the act as well as your brain. I know it sounds hippy-dippy, but most people have experienced bad sex and felt gross afterwards. The stigma exists because most people understand this, so they think that someone doing this is either struggling financially or has mental health issues. The stigma usually comes f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 12:03 AM |
| 5 | There are no consequences to being a "bad person" and no incentives to be a "good person" when dating for short-term.Guilt exists. When you do shitty things you feel guilty, and guilt effects self esteem and over all happiness. Some people don't feel guilt, and thats called sociopathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Sex in a relationship is important, and the views of both people in a couple on sex are extremely importantI feel ya. My boyfriend has a really weird relationship with his family and is having to stay there Xmas day and boxing day. So spent today on my own which has been a bit lame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Sex in a relationship is important, and the views of both people in a couple on sex are extremely importantWomen enjoying 'dirty' sex is pretty widely discussed amongst society. It's been a major theme in loads of T.V shows, throughout the years. There is so much variation in what women want. Some women's ideal sex session is being eaten out and then having Missionary sex. Others ideal is being eaten out then being flipped over for rough doggy and spanking. Some women love being called a slut, but would find the word 'whore' horrifying. And let's not forget the word daddy, which for some reason eithe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Sex in a relationship is important, and the views of both people in a couple on sex are extremely importantI've had three long term boyfriends (between 24 - 34). They have each had a high number of sexuam partners, but almost none of those partners liked sex in the way I do. So I think some men just attract women with certain sexualities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 10:39 PM |
| – | "Things being done TO you by an assertive partner alleviates shame" vs "men want a bangmaid mommy fall into their laps".I've never had a grape fantasy, but definitely lean submissive and like sex to be a bit rough. Mine is rooted in being 'ravished' I always liked the idea of my body being worshiped and used for pleasure. I also like seeing men in extreme pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Sex in a relationship is important, and the views of both people in a couple on sex are extremely importantSounds tricky. I hope things work it for you both, what ever you chose to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Sex in a relationship is important, and the views of both people in a couple on sex are extremely importantSome people are absolutely wonderful and you can fall in love with them, but your sex styles just don't mesh. I think if you keep having sex with a woman in a way you dislike, it will effect your feelings towards her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 10:16 PM |
| 4 | Sex in a relationship is important, and the views of both people in a couple on sex are extremely importantI'm wierd that the only sex I really enjoy is slightly rough and dirty. Not super kinky, but I like to feel like a 'slut'. Outside the bedroom, I'm extremely romantic and very affectionate with my partner. Also have a passive and relaxed personality. Ive never enjoyed slow romantic sex, and my ex boyfriend got very upset about this and told me that I lacked the ability to be intimate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | I Don’t Consider A Spouse As A Member of My Family.Some people completely separate from their parents and have no desire to ever reconnect. Loads of people are estranged from family members. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 09:58 PM |
| 2 | I Don’t Consider A Spouse As A Member of My Family.Blood means little if you don't love or respect the person. Someone who hates one of their parents will have a closer bond to their spouse over them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 09:45 PM |
| 2 | I Don’t Consider A Spouse As A Member of My Family.Lol, no. Friendships can end because something happened between you, or you simply drift apart over the years. Anyone who has had friends for a decade or more know this to be true. People can and do also cut off family members. Usually over something quite serious, but often over trivial things. A marriage is an agreement that if something bad happens, you are obliged to try to work it out. Somethings cannot be worked out, but there is a huge obligation to try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong.Of course some of there are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 08:31 PM |
| 2 | The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong.Lots of teenage boys do espouse these talking points. It's not longer rhetoric from weird corners of the Internet. Remember on and offline is a lot more blured now. People spend an inordinate amount of time on reddit and other social media outlets. I'm millenial and when I was at school absolutely no one talked about n count, and girls were even shamed for being frigid. Your closest friends were the same gender as you, but most people had a wider mixed gender friend group. There wasn't this big … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:41 PM |
| 3 | The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong.If you tell older men they can easily date much younger women, you aid those men in being unsuccessful (as they try to do this and fail misserably) And if you make it so young women are aware of this rhetoric, they distance themselves from men as they view them as creepy. As a result you have fueled part of a gender war, which has decreased the number of men and women coupling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:30 PM |
| 1 | The way redpillers talk about girls is offensive and often just outright wrong.I really wonder how much Russia plays a role in all this gender war crap in the west. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 07:23 PM |
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