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| 1 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructedhttps://youtu.be/n34s98WpwJg?si=lNbjFAUTt22Omb7k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/26 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructed> So you don’t like when women say we aren’t all alike? No, I wish you were actually more different from one to another especially in the way you are or act, not just when it's convenient to claim you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructedI'm mocking the fact you all regurgitate the same things over and over despite claiming to be different, not stupid I know people can behave differently from each other but women just love to throw these shit canned answer as if it's magic word against anything said by men(not that's always original either). Bet in few days you or fellow will one of these mantras. Made up statistics aren’t an argument My and other men's life experiences beg to differ. Dating and sex is mostly about luck Well, La… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Men who don’t approach IRL are behaving in the way they’ve been instructedEach woman is going to appreciate something different And yet 99% of you repeat the same mantras, complain about the same shit, fall in the same pitfalls and love to comfortably sit at the passenger place. Are you really sure about that? Or maybe it's just nature? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 11:55 AM |
| – | If you don’t go to clubs/bars you can’t say you want to get women/being introverted is a choiceYou being in the wrong has nothing to do with me being misanthropic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 11:01 AM |
| 1 | If you don’t go to clubs/bars you can’t say you want to get women/being introverted is a choiceI haven't said anything about their intelligence or wether they're promiscuous or not you've drawn your own conclusions here. I simply said that meeting women or people in these environment is much harder than what you advertise it shouldn’t be hard to carry a conversation or impress them right? With her being drunk or worse, friends waiting to jump you at the first thing they might have misheard and other vultures ready to take your spot the moment you turn your back? yeah I would say that's pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 05:19 PM |
| 3 | If you don’t go to clubs/bars you can’t say you want to get women/being introverted is a choicePeople usually go in groups in these bars and rarely ever mix with anyone else, let alone a single man who will always be met with suspicion. Unless you're talking about an actual club activity with regulars, this just another shitty advice. And funnily enough I met my long term bf at a loud dance club where we were had to yell over music Yeah no shit Sherlock, women just have to stand around to get men who will try to sell themselves and while you just have pick the best product out of them. Ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 01:38 PM |
| 0 | If you don’t go to clubs/bars you can’t say you want to get women/being introverted is a choiceI go to nightclubs on regular basis, just this year I went to 17 events either with friends or alone, despite being introverted, shy or whatever. These are the worst places ever to meet women, you get to see the worst of dating X10, it's literal waste of time and money to go in these place for this purpose. It seems to me that so many men complaining are just introverts who refuse to gain some charisma stats and talk to women Women in these places have nothing interesting to discuss or share, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 12:04 PM |
| 0 | "Obsession" internet discourse proves one again how undesiderable shy men are and how gender norms are despicable only when they are unfavorable to womenA very well made and acted film Nah it was a mediocre movies and particularly lacking in horror elements. still I can't help to believe it reinforces prejudices and double standards about shy men. Don't you realize you're wasting your time to defend a character that was set for failure from the very start (by his "best friend") and was never meant for the audience to feel sympathy for at any moment. His only saving grace was not being physically repulsive because the insult would be too obvious.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 07:54 AM |
| 0 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Well this a weird place, how am I not fitting into it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 06:56 PM |
| 3 | The reason men and women can't empathize with each other's dating woes is because we are experiencing fundamentally different realities.Be a kind, fun, interesting person that people enjoy hanging out with and odds are they’ll want to keep hanging out with you. What a great and thoughtful advice that nobody ever heard of! Got more of these share? You're on the brink of becoming interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 06:27 PM |
| – | What if women were attracted to boring, apathetic, mediocre men instead of fun, energetic ones?Yeah that's what I said before you're just writing some matriarchal femdom fantasy while Op only asked how dating would change if men were selected for different traits, so what are you even complaining about? It's crazy that you people can't wrap your head around the mere idea of men being appreciated for something else than the masculine standards or turning into some hellscape or lifeless world. Says a lot about sexism toward men too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 04:30 PM |
| 1 | What if women were attracted to boring, apathetic, mediocre men instead of fun, energetic ones?No he asked how dating would be if men weren't selected for the usual attractive traits for men instead of the very opposite of them like many of you only focus on. In your scenario there's no pressure for these men to get in relationship to begin with, they wouldnt care and probably behave like women do these days while women would have to compete and chase them. We wouldn’t be the dominant sex ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 02:22 PM |
| 2 | What if women were attracted to boring, apathetic, mediocre men instead of fun, energetic ones?You’re thinking boring, stagnant, submissive, docile, apathetic men would be treated like chads. But they wouldn’t be. They would be treated like uneducated drones No that's not my idea of this situation, you've made the wrong assumptions, other qualities would be valued. Besides most men are already seen as faceless drones by women and society. If the outstanding characteristics women wanted were submissive, pushover, yes men. We wouldn’t be treating them with reverence. You’d be used for your … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 11:30 AM |
| 1 | What if women were attracted to boring, apathetic, mediocre men instead of fun, energetic ones?Some men are naturally extroverted or charismatic or funny. It would be worse for most women Why should even we care? These men and women already don't care if dating is worse for introverted, "unfunny" and "boring" men. If anything they encourage it as a way to weed out the "unfit". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?If they were honest and said hey we're attracted to hot jetks who have $ it wouldn't be a problem The problem is about what they might lose and/or get in return from men and society, they have it so good that keeping this lie is their best option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women are partnering with men less because they are being influenced/brainwashed my feminism now. Or do you think the reason women overwhelmingly partnered with men in the past was because they were influenced/brainwashed by traditional culture?Find a girl who you like enough as a long term partner that it inspires you to want to give her your best. So simple, just like crossing the street! How railroaded your life is to think you just have to find a woman you love and giving her your best is just enough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 10:46 AM |
| 3 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsDid I say something wrong? Maybe my post lacked a bit of nuance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 11:47 PM |
| 3 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsYou said it, men have no agency. You select and suffer from your mistakes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 07:38 PM |
| 4 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsMy bad, in relationships women are first and foremost victims of themselves before anything else . Eternal victims, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 07:21 PM |
| 1 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the Selectors>I didn’t say I knew. I said I could see why someone believed relationships functioned that way. My question remain the same, why would you or understand that something you've never subjected to? Are you just assuming random shit? >We get companionship Yeah that's the basic shit anyone can provide in a relationship yet some are more valued than others, why? Because there's obviously something else to get of these relationships. Women around here love clamoring that men should add more to their l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 07:04 PM |
| 1 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the Selectors>I don't really want anything out of my partner but their whole selves. So anyone cant fit the bill? No, you get whatever you want out of someone who finds you good enough to give them what they want. My point is people get in relationship because they can get what they out if it regardless if it's status, building a family, money, sex etc but wont discuss explicitly cause it could kill the relationship. >Do you say the same about friendships? Yes but the stakes a lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 06:44 PM |
| -1 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the Selectorshappily married for almost 20 years now and it has nothing to do with “getting what you want” or “giving them enough to keep them around”. Ahh now comes the part where normalshits brag about good they have it on the internet, never get tired of these! If someone has never experienced romantic love I could see why that would be someone’s belief of how it works. Well how would you know, since you have such great relationship? There's certainly something you get out of this relationship at least as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 03:46 PM |
| 4 | Women feels more entitled than most men.Women already believe themselves better than most men by simply being women, why wouldn't they believe they're entitled to someone "equally good" as them or better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 02:34 PM |
| -6 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the Selectorssomeone is initially choosing another partner out of anything but attraction/love Love is a contract written on toilet paper, it's always about getting what you want out of your partner while giving them enough of whatever they want to keep them around. No need to sugar coat it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 02:00 PM |
| 3 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsMaybe if you could actually adequately explain to the people you’re pursuing why your pursuit on an individual level should be viewed as a privilege more of you wouldn’t have such a hard time finding dates. Is it what women tell themselves about the men they can't get or keep for themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 11:55 AM |
| -2 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsPeople generally don't want to know why they're selected for in relationships because the answer might kill the said relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 11:38 AM |
| 15 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsGotta understand them, anything less than these privileges would be oppression, I mean women say it themselves all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur.You're not better either, both sides look down on "loser" men and won't do shit for them. men don’t actually give a fuck about having these discussions they just don’t want to be losers in a society that they are losers in. Which is ironic, cuz they support the system that made them losers in the first place Why would normalshits want to make life better for people they deem lesser than them? Why would they care since they believe men are loser by their own fault? The bigger irony is women being… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/26 08:49 AM |
| -2 | Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur.what actions are the radicalised group going to make to incite change? Having a serious public discussion would be a great start, preferably without having women engaging in various tactics to deflect or illegitimate the said discussion like many posters love to do it. radicalised group The men calling out these issues aren't all or always radicals, if anythi.ng complaining instead of taking action is usually seen as unmanly. And sadly like in another post, people tend to only care about problem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 03:18 PM |
| -1 | Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur.But you haven’t exactly stated what “change” you are seeking.What is it? Women and society treating men like disposable products. The absolute lack of fiability from of women under the guise safety? As if MOST men and I say most, would give ever up their relative freedom for one single random woman? No, you're not that worth as a person. Women's absolute lack of reciprocation toward men while demanding always more efforts from them and I'm not just talking about relationships. Far too many women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Radicalization of men is only way the change will occur.True enough, society and people only begin to care about things when they either hear too much about it or can potentially hit too close home and the not just "the other". None of this is new, they just got more visibility. Shame we need to reach critical situations to finally hear and eventually change something about it but that's just how things are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 11:13 AM |
| 1 | The way to fix the gender wars is for men to become more like women.Everything worth doing is easier said than done. It's central to the human experience It is easier said than done because it takes everyone to be willing to change beyond their personal interest, not just men like many of you love to simplify. t doesn't feel as good as focusing on winning rather than doing the right thing. Plenty of men do what's right instead of feels good but it goes completely unnoticed because society and people just think its due to them, the only time it's noticed and ackn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 11:44 AM |
| 1 | The way to fix the gender wars is for men to become more like women.building meaningful social networks, so being single doesn't mean never having their emotional needs met Easier said than done. especially coming from a woman living in a society that bend over backwards to listen and take action for most of the problems they might face, try to ask for the same treatment as a man and you will be met with mefiance and asked to prove what you're worth first. rejecting women who reject them while maintaining dignity Returning the indifference received in equal meas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 04:00 PM |
| – | Are men justified in hating women?You got yourself drunk on the "women are wonderful" Kool aid. Women only think of their own interests just like men do but they need that extra shine to make themselves look better and virtuous. Women's hate for men is just as putrid as the one men have women, society simply decided one is tolerable, for now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 08:56 AM |
| 4 | Women have unintentionally made the decent men leave the dating poolThere's no point in patting yourself in the back like that, just sit back and laugh at them. They claim to be able to make their own choice now, let them suffer from it. Women are first victim of themselves and their whims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Can women really not understand where Nice Guys come from ?Women love to talk unpaid labour in relationships and treat dating like job interviews. The confusion is on your side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Can women really not understand where Nice Guys come from ?Why should women have less shallow standards than a man? Virtue signaling, most women around here or in general spent most of their efforts to keep collective good image of women in society because otherwise it would legitimize some critics and woes held against them. And nobody want that right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Can women really not understand where Nice Guys come from ?It's pointless to try to get women to understand anything when they already have hand in most situation in dating, they don't have to and won't do anything toward men they consider aver"age or less because they're that privileged and like they love to say themselves equality is oppression to the privileged". There's no solution beside being lucky enough and not giving too much to lose too much in turn. They don't care about you or how you feel ,unless it might hit too close home, so return that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 03:28 PM |
| – | You can’t be doing everything you’re supposed to do if you’re not actually listening to the instructions.My answer remain the same, women love to set conditions to their attraction that dont sound vain or superficial but actually are in practice. This is what you did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 05:20 AM |
| 0 | You can’t be doing everything you’re supposed to do if you’re not actually listening to the instructions.because good women prefer men who actually listen to others and doesnt blame others when his own advice failed. You don't even realize you did what you're calling out in OWN Op, you know putting condition to women interest for men. Then a man will come and say he did all you asked that but still hasn't received any interest from these "good women" and you will ask once again WHO told him to believe this distorted lie. But if he's noticing and complaining about the lack of results then it will me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 01:59 PM |
| – | Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATIONIt's pretty simple, the same you demand from men but that's already to much to ask isn't it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 12:17 PM |
| – | Young men did everything they're supposed to, and its not enough. Indicates its NOT their fault, rather it shows theres a real problem of YOUNG FEMALE RADICALIZATIONWomen want equality Sure but what have women done on their part to reciprocate the efforts made by men? Or maybe women think being a woman is already an effort enough to be exempted of making any effort toward the equality you preach so much about? It's always the same thing, you complain about not being treated like human but can't even treat other as such, you want men to reconsider their behavior and expectations toward women but you can't begin to question yours, you complain about patriarch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/26 11:56 AM |
| 0 | Anti-feminist views of young men positively correlate with dating, negatively with gaming and social networksHilarious, true equality would mean having 0 advantages AND disadvantages of any kind beyond biological differences for either sexes but we both know women love being treated as such when it only advantage them. So please stop peddling this lie about equality, you just want keep your advantage and possibly get more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 05:10 PM |
| 2 | “Women can’t handle the truth” is manspeak for men not being able to handle incompatibility or not being able to handle valid reactions to his wrongdoingCan women accept valid reactions to their wrongdoing or poor and questionable behaviors as well? That remains to be seen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Far too many men cannot see that they have undesirable trait's and behaviors which results in not just nobody wanting to be around them but nobody wanting to date them either and it's an issue which will follow many for their entire life.You can't even tell the difference between asocial and antisocial behaviors and you tell me that I know nothing about this topic? Get real. Now unless you actually have a degree in psychology (and even there I wouldn't take your without suspicion) you're no better than the average armchair psy you can find, especially when your definition of antisocial behavior boils downs to anything that isn't agreeable or positive and doesn't agree with your views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Far too many men cannot see that they have undesirable trait's and behaviors which results in not just nobody wanting to be around them but nobody wanting to date them either and it's an issue which will follow many for their entire life.And when he will turn to her, she will claim it was impossible to see this outcome but it will be fine cause now she's a victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 10:13 AM |
| 0 | Far too many men cannot see that they have undesirable trait's and behaviors which results in not just nobody wanting to be around them but nobody wanting to date them either and it's an issue which will follow many for their entire life.Could you AT LEAST use the right terms instead of words you don't understand? Being antisocial never prevented anyone from being successful in dating, if anything it's the exact opposite. Asocial is what you're looking for. Way to lecture men on their behavior when you don't even understand the words you're using! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 09:53 PM |
| – | Single/lonely men and social circlesIt's nothing but assumptions, preconceived ideas and stereotypes, they actually don't have any idea of what it's like to struggle in dating as a man, they throw out what sounds good or helping and hope it will keep you quiet. There's also the fact that people in general can't fathom the possibility of you failing at something that came naturally for them, it's why they almost always, if not always assume there's something wrong with you before even questioning themselves or the whole thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 03:46 PM |
| – | Single/lonely men and social circlesOh look the good ol "you need love yourself to be loved" meanwhile you can spot a shitton of couples with people who can't live with themselves but STILL are in relationships and never had problems to find new one, Funny how people love to make laundry list of conditions and rules who just happen to be verifiably wrong when you look at actually happen, my guess is that you don't actually want to help instead you just want to shut the undesirables who dared to complain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 03:32 PM |
| – | Single/lonely men and social circlesThey're only here to bragg and pretty much don't care about whatever you say since it doesn't affect in any way their reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 03:02 PM |
| – | What do you think personality is in dating context?i have no idea do you make exceptions or not That's the point, people make all kinds of rules and the exceptions to these rules whenever they feel like or arrange them but when things go wrong it's never their fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 04:40 PM |
| – | What do you think personality is in dating context?Wrong, because people can accept, tolerate or not care about all kind of flaws with various levels of intensity and it completely changes for one to another. So no I don't think I will to go over all of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 04:23 PM |
| – | What do you think personality is in dating context?Does it to need be explicitly said? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 04:09 PM |
| – | What do you think personality is in dating context?Because everybody has flaws and if you can't tolerate or reasonably work around theirs, why would anyone bother with yours? Of course it can be justification if it kills the interest for the person or doesn't fit your standards but often it's for the most superficial shit ever instead of the bad shit that will turn into actual problem because other "qualities" outweigh them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 03:52 PM |
| 0 | Being wanted is better than being neededWhat you want can change on a whim, what you need rarely ever does unless something tangible happens. It's about guarantee and not feeling replaceable or disposable, of course trust would be better but it doesn't always work and is sometime an open door for betrayal or more problems. and I’m not really sure why that’s a problem Maybe if saying "women no longer need men" wasn't almost always thrown with a such disdain toward men, they would be more inclined to believe or see the positive side of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 03:39 PM |
| – | What do you think personality is in dating context?Something many, many people say it matters but actually doesn't to not appear vain and superficial. If it truly did matter like many people love to say, then people would actually take the time to know each other, in various situation, not flee when the first flaws or eccentricities reveal themselves etc but that requires time, work, not looking for the best deal can get out your potential partner, you know the kind of stuff people with leverage in dating only reserve for those better than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 03:00 PM |
| – | Men have nothing to complain about in datingMen have nothing to complain in dating really? Being treated as disposable products or applicants for a job? The absolute lack of fiability from of women under the guise safety? As if MOST men and I say most, would give ever up their relative freedom for one single random woman? No, you're not that worth as a person. The lack of reciprocation while demanding always more efforts from men? The entitlement to good treatment and fruits of efforts while providing none or very little in turn? The refu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 03:35 PM |
| – | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.All you ever said to "women are just as terrible as men" was "but men are worse", you can even recongnize your own bias against men and for women and talk about common knowledge? What a joke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 01:08 AM |
| 1 | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.You tell me that I have "Woman are wonderful" bias and cant see women berated like men are while you also persist in saying that men are worse overall when I already stated that women are just as terrible people as men are by the virtue of being human and I'm supposed to be sexist? No, you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 01:36 AM |
| 1 | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.>Most people blabla No, I think it's more on you than you're willing to admit. >Irony doesnt work in spaces where people unironically say the same thing. It does, depends just on the tone and words used, it's common knowledge, maybe you should get off this place and touch more grass yourself? > intentionally ignore depictions of evil women in media, they intentionally dont observe the world around them So men have a distorted view of women by they consume too much media but also dont consume eno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/26 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Romantic relationships are getting betterCare? Let me laugh, you don't care about them. You only care about your own peace and want those undesirables to not disturb it, otherwise you wouldn't be repeating same the very talking point used to keep them shut. Sure yeah you will keep doing it as long as you can without ever questioning yourselves cause it's only our own faults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Men don’t care about MenYou're talking about to very different things, men as collectives and between each other as individual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 11:44 AM |
| 2 | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.And families should teach their daughters sarcasms and irony cause they terribly failed you here. WOMEN ARE PEOPLE My post heavily implied that women are people by the fact they are just as men can be, no need to repeat what was already stated. The first villains in Disney were hateful women I'm obviously talking about very ordinary and banal people, not those you can twist their story into tearjerking tales where everything wrong that happens can be traced to a men. If men are responsible for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 11:42 AM |
| 3 | A woman who’s with an obviously terrible man is also a terrible person.Well well, I guess there's A LOT of bad women given how their exes is almost always the bad person. Never thought I would ever agree with one these post from the get go but here we are! People don't talk enough how bad or how much of loser women can be by fear of being called misogynist but since so many bad or loser men exist there should be just as much bad or loser women and let's be clear being a bad person doesn't necessarily mean you commit crimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t care about MenBecause there's nothing to gain out of this when ANY efforts can be dismissed, mocked and made obsolete if ONE man steps out of line for whatever reason. Also because our OWN "fellow" men can see their interest in being against their own and women know this all too well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Romantic relationships are getting betterYoung women are happier single. Older men and women are happier single. It's not just being single. Something is going on with young men, specifically.Young men have declined in areas like having close friends and figuring out their values and purpose. Many just aren't building foundations. Dating doesn't fix that. All we can do is keep encouraging personal development. Don't you ever tire to repeat the same mantras over and over? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Romantic relationships are getting betterThanks for letting relationships are still good for normalshits like you, now flock off then where things are better, I'm sure your relationship is so so great and fulfilling that it doesn't require you to brag about it on in public. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Men don’t care about MenWhy should I care about them when most of them are indifferent or straight up don't care about my problems unless they went through it themselves or had similar experiences ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 10:24 AM |
| 0 | When women’s struggles are invisible, everything looks like an advantageOh look a woman is making herself a victim out of thin air! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 09:28 AM |
| 1 | “Those women should have picked better”Thought women being able to choose their partner was natural selection at work? Guess it works both ways! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Nightclubs are never coming backI only go to clubs to see artists or listen the music styles I like and dance because it's fun, dating and flirting with some woman who will either go someone else arms once you turn your back or already had five guys before you ISNT fun. I actually despise these people, both men and women, who come only come here to show off their piss poor kissing skills, they ruin my fun when I'm not drunk or high enough to no forget about them, either dance or fuck off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/26 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Most people will find love if they achieve the following things:What you know is completely irrelevant and useless since people can succeed without doing anything or still failing no matter how well they do everything in your list. That's the problem here, women will make laundry list of how you should be or do to succeed in love but you see what actually happen you quickly realize it means fuck all. So again keep regurgitated platitudes to yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Most people will find love if they achieve the following things:There's nothing to gain in being nice to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 11:47 PM |
| 3 | Most people will find love if they achieve the following things:What a nice daily load of crap! What would you have to say to someone who checks all these conditions and does even more than what you listed but still fail to find love? To suck it up and accept that you can do everything right and still fail while seeing people who don't bother with of the shit you listed and succeed more than you could ever hope or wish to? Nah fuck that. Next time you normalshits think of serving people your shitcanned platitudes, please don't or keep it to yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Woman in todays Dating are as good or bad as Men in Today DatingIt's only here to help yourselves and keeping and getting more advantages only for yourselves, be honest and stop talking about equality cause that's certainly not what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ?Oh I will don't worry, after all women have better lives and are better people than men now? It will be fine for just a month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 10:18 AM |
| 0 | Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ?as a self help group for people that struggled It's still the case, they simply turned to hate what they can't have, women just happen to be that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 10:10 AM |
| 0 | Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ?original incel group was started by a woman, a fact guys don’t like to admit. Don't a give a single fuck about that, she got her relationship and then fucked off. It was just a matter of time for her, can you say the same about men? No of course not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 10:10 PM |
| 0 | Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ?Will be fine, I'm not afraid of few cramps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ?dudes are pretty bad at interpersonal bonds (including their own friendships!) Because when you're a man you know can't talk about anything to anyone regardless of how close they can be without risking to be treated or seen as less than you already are or receive what you said back in your face. There's more to lose than gaining anything from doing this. You're both fawning over this guy but I'm pretty sure you wouldn't be willing to hear half the shit he said if he was an average men in entoura… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 06:12 PM |
| 3 | Being upset about not having had sex is not a moral failure or entitlement. Why do you pretend it is ?More like society conditioned people to not give a single shit about problems men can face except in few situations while women's problems are to be treated with the utmost priority. Women can have to all these things outside romantic relationship not because they're socially better than m'en but society teach people to care about more women from the youngest age. Ever wondered why it's easier for women to integrate a new group when you have to prove your worth as a man? You wouldn't last a year… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Guys seem not to understand the concept of enjoying one’s company.Depends of how the person in front is willing to give back or leave space to share. If the woman only give one word answers and is dry as fuck or if shes a moulin a paroles and doesn't let say anything, how is either case there can be an exchange? Also far too many women think themselves important or interesting than the men they have in front but are actually very mundane, have platitudes or nothing beyond their life routine to talk about, just as much , if not more than their male interlocutor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 09:38 PM |
| 0 | The "you are either attracted to them or not" people (mainly women) ignore one of the most basic things about attraction - it can be manufactured, learned and acquired.Personality only matter when physical attraction threshold is already met, that's why some of you complain about being used only for sex once or twice and dumped because you're actually are insufferable and not worth to waste any further time with. If personality mattered as much you make it out to be, it would take much longer for people to get together because it takes time to know one's personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 12:56 PM |
| 1 | The "you are either attracted to them or not" people (mainly women) ignore one of the most basic things about attraction - it can be manufactured, learned and acquired.Maybe reading Marquis de Sade's works to relieve my unmet carnal desires would more up to your standards? Since watching someone else is your only problem here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 11:25 AM |
| 0 | The "you are either attracted to them or not" people (mainly women) ignore one of the most basic things about attraction - it can be manufactured, learned and acquired.Maybe reading Marquis de Sade's works to relieve my unmet carnal desires would more up to your standards? Since watching someone else is your only problem here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 11:23 AM |
| 1 | The "you are either attracted to them or not" people (mainly women) ignore one of the most basic things about attraction - it can be manufactured, learned and acquired.Of course women can grow attraction over time, they simply have the luxury to not make any effort or learn more about who's in front of them beyond their first impressions. It's so natural to them that they believe now that attraction is unchangeable and unnegotiable despite IT CAN BE once people get to know each other. This is the tragedy of modern dating that become a market where mutual interest and attraction have to be near instant or "fated". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/26 10:50 AM |
| 6 | Nobody cares about men’s problems.Then don't care about theirs in turn. Only give back what you receive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Sexuality is toxic.You don't want men to do better alone, you only want them to be docile and quiet cause it bothers you when they don't. Not even yourself would accept to live a life of frustration, envy and unfulfilled desire, so don't ask others to accept to shut up and accept their lot when you would fight against it. Women only "do" better because a lone woman isn't seen and considered as potential threat more easily accepted in group while a lone man will be always considered as an incoming threat, you say i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 06:43 PM |
| – | Women are denied the gift of failure>Tell that to all the desperate men who are convinced their lives suck because they can't get pussy. No, they need to experience it themselves and if see it's worth all the bullshit that comes after. >Men are not in demand because they don't make themselves desirable. If it was true, women wouldnt have made up all kind of new words to explain how they allow themselves to be played or worse by the men they desire. What I said wasnt targeted toward a gender since both men and women can and do othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Women are denied the gift of failureMad? I'm just calling you out on your bullshit. Seeking and getting something you desire doesn't necessarily bring good in your life and that's even more true when it's about what's between women's legs. People are ready tolerate all kinds of shit as long they get what they want, both men and women. The reality of the dating market is that people who got what's in demand will have the upper hand get to treat like commodities those who don't. Men would hate a world without women. Well, at least t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Women are denied the gift of failureYou're so far up your own ass that you think the presence of a woman in the life of men is a net positive. Worse, you can't even fathom the possibility that all the shit you listed for being a good partner could just create more stress in the life of this hypothetical man and you even think he couldn't have social life or outside activities before he met this oh so great woman. You sounds more like a life controlling pest than an actual good one partner. I guess the "women are wonderful" koolaid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 03:47 PM |
| – | Males strange obsession with losing their V cardsHypocrite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 09:38 PM |
| – | The societal hostility towards "failed" men will make things worse for everyone if not addressedIt's better and more just to simply give back the hostility, indifference and unforgivness you receive than trying to make thing better for them or everyone, they won't change so let them have it. They clearly don't care enough to be good to you so why should you? Everybody want to be treated well but nobody is willing to an effort. People will say that's too individualist or selfish but what else can you do when you're all alone is this? Beg for social crumbs, to be barely tolerated and thrown … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Males strange obsession with losing their V cardsI'm pretty sure most(90%) people would rather live a lie than getting fuck all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Males strange obsession with losing their V cardsHow mentally deficient do you have to be not understand how frustrating sexlives and just the fucking lives of unsuccessful or undesirable men can be? It's everyfuckingwhere no matter where are or go you're reminded of how good it is to be in love, have companionship and have sex, its in every single kind of medias you can't escape it unless you able to live as complete hermit and I'm pretty sure not many people can support this type of life. So next time you wonder why does sex or love matter s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 10:04 PM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?What a fantastic post, "times where better back then because those [insert minorities or marginalized group of people] were hidden, quiet, couldn't bother us, the good normal people, with the frustrations and grievance of their lives and died in their corner for nobody to notice!", sounds pretty nice huh? I would say things are better now because at least they can find people to relate their life experience, even if those experience are negative, it's always good to have people to share with, re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 12:41 PM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?Read my post again, I said they don't want it because it would mean there's no advantages in being a woman and wouldn't be treated better than the men they consider lesser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 12:05 PM |
| – | Why so many men suddenly became undesirable?If true equality was actually achieved, there would be no inherent social advantages at either being a man or woman but we all know that's not what women want because it would mean they would receive the (not so positive) treatment of the men they see as lesser. And that's a big no-no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 11:14 AM |
| 1 | In the future, women will push the idea that guys who don’t let their girlfriends do onlyfans and fuck other guys are “insecure”.the most important part is to find meaning and drive in a project/hobby/skill that involves something you value, to find comfort in your own solitude and put time and effort to the relationships and things you care about and make you happy, love yourself :) Let's see how many people are willing to accept to live a such life, unsurprisingly not much. Do you even put in execution what preach? whoever is reading this, remember that you are valued. That's a big fucking lie and you know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 10:35 AM |
| 1 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?You can sell any bullshit to a man as long you convince him he's better than his next, yeah well women will gladly fall in this obvious pitfall if it can be a way to get their revenge on men. Too bad reality catch up fast and prove them to be flawed as men are just as easily, the only difference is that people tend to forgive their various fuck up and failures. The day, average women will be treated like an average man, with all the intransigence and unforgiveness, we will be truly equal but the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 06:55 AM |
| 1 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?you don't understand and have been trained to reject Yeah the advice based on the most basic and stereotypical shit ever, I perfectly get it and it's verifiably wrong by experience. Too many people around here love to make shit canned replies as if it's a gotcha that always works under the guise of advice or false help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 06:34 AM |
| 2 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?any advice given that'll actually help them because it's "gay and from women" Let's hear some off those great advices, surely, I hope this isn't the same usual normalshit people love to regurgitate here.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 01:14 PM |
| – | Women do give great advice when men actually listen….and dont lie about their intentions.People who are the best at giving advice are the most inapt to put the said advice in action. This a reason enough to not trust any of the generic bullshit you keep regurgitating. Plus you "people" can only think with the most obvious stereotypes, even when presented specific situations, so kindly piss off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 06:19 PM |
| – | Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anythingIt always has to profit you in a way or another or men aren't doing enough? But it's never enough and your demands are always increasing and for what? A contract written on a toilet paper called "love"? You can keep it to yourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 11:55 AM |
| – | Too many men make normal bad experiences their whole personality, and allows it to stunt their growth.None of the traumas or struggles you listed are real either, we all can play this stupid game too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.Oh no don't worry I HATE THEM ALL! Men, because as long these behaviors profit them they're okay with it but the moment it doesn't go their way everything must change for the better. And women for it's about enabling and rewarding these behaviors, being hypocritical about it and making everyone problem when they inevitably face the consequences of their choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 06:31 PM |
| 1 | for people that were late bloomers in dating, is it normal or just common to have envy/resentment towards people who got to date and have relationships before they did or just people who got to date, have relationships around the typical societal norm of when people have their first relationship?It's all the same, none of them are here or giving shitty advice in good faith or intentions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 05:33 PM |
| 1 | for people that were late bloomers in dating, is it normal or just common to have envy/resentment towards people who got to date and have relationships before they did or just people who got to date, have relationships around the typical societal norm of when people have their first relationship?Have you not seen how people come here to flaunt how they have it in their love lives? And you tell us we should admire this disgusting behavior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 03:50 PM |
| 1 | for people that were late bloomers in dating, is it normal or just common to have envy/resentment towards people who got to date and have relationships before they did or just people who got to date, have relationships around the typical societal norm of when people have their first relationship?The last thing these arrogant people need is praise from those who don't have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 12:52 PM |
| – | Most dating advice from women here comes from a point of extreme ignoranceNo shit Sherlock, it's a lived experience they could never get to feel unless they were turned into men tomorrow and even there I'm not so sure. But hey as long they feel right everything is good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 11:06 PM |
| 1 | for people that were late bloomers in dating, is it normal or just common to have envy/resentment towards people who got to date and have relationships before they did or just people who got to date, have relationships around the typical societal norm of when people have their first relationship?I think you should replace resentment by admiration Absolutely revolting, yuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 11:01 PM |
| 1 | for people that were late bloomers in dating, is it normal or just common to have envy/resentment towards people who got to date and have relationships before they did or just people who got to date, have relationships around the typical societal norm of when people have their first relationship?Don't you ever tire of repeating the same shit canned platitudes? All you're saying is to learn to keep it to ourselves because hearing our frustrations bother your own happy normalshit life, fuck that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 10:36 PM |
| 6 | for people that were late bloomers in dating, is it normal or just common to have envy/resentment towards people who got to date and have relationships before they did or just people who got to date, have relationships around the typical societal norm of when people have their first relationship?No, it's pretty normal to feel envy and frustration for something you missed out and resentment when you see other effortlessly enjoy or even abuse it, telling you it's not that important when you know they wouldn't last at your place. I simply hate the whole idea or concept of love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 08:42 PM |
| 10 | Lonely guys just dont like people but hate the feeling isolation brings.Why should we? Your kind cant literally stop to complain and spill your bile to men, especially to those you aren't interested in, so why should we do you this courtesy? Aren't we equal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 09:32 PM |
| 15 | Lonely guys just dont like people but hate the feeling isolation brings.Maybe because the vast majority of people aren't worth to make the effort, look at your post there's nothing but assumptions, generalisation and not a single good word, exactly what you hypocrites accusé men to do here. Give me one good reason why I ever make an effort to socialize with someone who think like this or your kind? You talk about hate but it's actually indifference, you're just exposing yours instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:44 PM |
| 3 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Look! Another OP who thinks he can tell whether posters are average men or not by making the most generic and stereotypical assumptions! What a genius | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 11:50 PM |
| – | Its interesting how advice that amounts to “write your own path to success” is met with hostility in male dominated spacesMen are hostile because the advice you normalshit like to give are either: • the same usual platitudes we always get served • provably wrong or already tried advices • fake advices or vague nonsense • you're actually just bragging about how good you have it • omitting obvious parameters (on purpose?), "I just asked her and she said yes because I have a good face and tall enough, you can do the same guys!!!" •it's plain evident you never had any struggle yet you try to make seems like you did At … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 04:50 PM |
| 2 | "Choosing better" arguments should also apply to men who get falsely accused, get cheated on, get rejected, if we're going to apply to female victims of violence and SAYou know what? Let's be callous and uncaring to each other and see who can keep playing this game. I choose my hell, you choose yours right? It will change nothing for me since I already know for a fact that women don't give a single fuck about unwanted men unless it hit to close home so dont give me the lie that any of you ever cared about it. Hell my life will get even better cause I wouldn't have to be served all these "horror" stories about your evil exes you choose to be and stay with until… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Before subscribing to toxic ideologies to get what you want, you should see what being an amazing person gets you firstAnother day, another cretin who thinks his normalshit platitudes will be the panacea that will cure the unwanted men from their "caustic" World views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Men aren't good enough as they areBecause women and society are good enough themselves? Nah men are only reacting accordingly to the shit the receive, why do more for people who aren't worth the effort, will demand always more and will complain no matter what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to itThe irony in this stupid discourse is that men who would have the exact same behavior women have toward men would be effectively called gay both by women. And now you tell me men should be gay to merely expect reciprocal interest from the opposite sex because "women can't love like a men do"? Get real, women just want to keep the attention and interest men have for them without having to do anything in return. L'homme propose et la femme dispose, will never change not because of the biological d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 01:52 PM |
| 0 | Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to itBecause the access women have is to be penetrated. You're the one making it about sex while I only mentioned relationships which most women still have an easier access than most men. But next you will tell me that most men are too disgusting to merely have a relationship with, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 12:01 PM |
| 4 | Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to itBecause they aren't wanting women No, they do want them otherwise men wouldn't go to such length to only receive crumbs of interest from women. They are wanting the male attention that men give women. Men only want to see their interest and attention being reciprocated on a equal by the women they love but I guess it's simply too much asking since most women can't see themselves as equal to men. But if men are jealous of the male attention that women receive It's not about jealousy but reciproca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 11:43 AM |
| 10 | Men don’t feel entitled to a relationship/sex, women just have free access to itI will never understand why many women here think it's some gotcha to deliberately tell men to seek what they want in women, in other men? Are heterosexual relationship interchangeable with homosexual ones? And why do you keep making such obtuse answers especially when you have next nothing to defend your point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 10:11 AM |
| 1 | For a lot of lonely guys, they’re incapable of being good boyfriends….because they choose not to be.Oh yeah because most women aren't shitty people with disgusting behavior too? Really the only reason you can spout such asinine shit is because men are willing to put up with your bullshit instead of giving you the same intransigent treatment. Cause Im sure you would change your tone if you were equally treated like an average man, you know the true equality, the one you don't want. The greatest irony here is that you blame men for being poor communicator when women aren't even competent themsel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Men who gave up, why are you still here ?To mock and call out the lies, the hypocrisy and false advices, you normalshits can't stop themselves to say. We could question why most people are here too, when all they do is either lecture (read shit on) the people(mostly men) they deem inferior or brag about how good they have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 09:09 AM |
| 5 | Women’s Understanding Won’t Help — Because Pity Kills DesireI'm sure you'll have an excuse to not do this either. And you got nothing else to say except that his efforts aren't still enough, despite doing more than most and thus proving you wrong. How ironic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Women’s Understanding Won’t Help — Because Pity Kills DesireIn fact the news that I was taken was met with quite a bit of angst from multiple users on this sub, even though I pointed out that he had been in their shoes before he met me. It really didn't matter because they were still single, and this victory for some random guy they don't know doesn't change anything. Because it comes off as bragging like many women love to flaunt or use these kind of claims to invalidate or dismiss what these man went through in in this dating wasteland. I mean it's pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 09:17 AM |
| 6 | A Man is either desired by many women or no womenWell it's easier to find new jobs when you already have one than when you don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 09:43 PM |
| 0 | Men prefer transactional "romantic" relationships (prostitution).Like he said before, it's not about deserving but filling the laundry list people always love to arrogantly tell to men so they can be "good enough" to date women and naturally when he does fill the boxes and realize that's never good enough, he voice his frustration. you can, but people will rightfully laugh at you No they won't laugh because he doesn't fit their mental image or stereotype of men who dont succeed in dating and proves wrong all shitty advices and drivel people shit out under the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 10:20 AM |
| 2 | Women are amazingNo, I disagree with your statements, most women I've known were either alright like most people or extremely callous and egoistical but nowhere near particularly amazing like you say. From my experience women seem to care about other people as much they matter in their lives and have no problem to drop or dunk on them when difficulties are coming up instead of working on it, whether it's from them or not, which make them unreliable because they know they can and will bailout whenever they feel l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 10:40 PM |
| 0 | Men prefer transactional "romantic" relationships (prostitution).i don’t know what to tell you Then don't, people say this platitude to shut someone else when they express their frustration about meeting failure despite doing their best. most people learn this by the end of their teenage years. Yes everybody knows that but how is he not in his right to complain when he loved/valued himself enough to be where he is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 03:37 PM |
| -2 | Men prefer transactional "romantic" relationships (prostitution).Ah the classic consolation prize of participation. But at least you love yourself right? Be content with it and shut up! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Lower your standards- or stay single?Is it truly bad to stay single for more than a year? I wish I had the luxury to ask myself such mondain questions. Maybe try a decade and you will see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 10:24 AM |
| – | Love and sex is not a rightIt's not about commiting direct act of violence but making them feel less confortable than they are because clearly don't have qualms to berate and look down on those deemed "unworthy" of love. I mean just look at them they either come here to get a good laugh, to have someone to hate or gloat about what they have under the pretence of try to help despite never saying anything actually useful. You said it yourself those who have it have no reason to respect those who don't, so why not reciprocat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Love and sex is not a rightGood on them, if things wont change then at least those who have it wont spend a such good time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 06:17 PM |
| 7 | Love and sex is not a right> There’s no choice but the accept. You can say that because you're not the one facing this situation, for all the berating about the lack empathy from men you people around here sure dont have any to spare. > The alternative to “accepting” is heinous No, it's just an alternative that doesnt please you. So far it seems like you want people shut up about their frustrations cause it sours your drink but guess what? You're not entitled to that either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 06:09 PM |
| 6 | Love and sex is not a rightAh yes yes, of course but would you accept to live a life completely devoid of it while seeing others(men and women) get it, use it and even abuse it while being constantly reminded of you don't have? No you wouldn't, you will probably say that you would manage find differents aspiration in life to get over it but we both know that it can only get you so far unless you live a hermit life cut from everything else and not many people are capable of it. Yes it's not a right or need but it's a desir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 04:32 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men on here underrate the importance of personalityBecause it means fuck all or whatever the fuck you want at an instant T. People say they care about it but none of them can define it beyond "being nice or interesting" but anybody can do that(given enough time). So yeah I don't see why I should care that much about something completely subjective and random, it might just call it luck at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Women dont view having access to causal sex as a benefitAnd yet they STILL get it whenever they feel like it despite having no benefits from it, that's crazy isn't it?! Or maybe the real benefit/luxury is the freedom to choose when benefits you or not. Because if it was a dreadful experience as you make it out to be this practice wouldn't be so widespread as it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Advice geared towards men is circular and designed to drive you insaneDidn't ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Advice geared towards men is circular and designed to drive you insaneYour problem is generalized advice. Proceed to give one of most generalized (and verifiably wrong) advice The jokes write themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Advice geared towards men is circular and designed to drive you insaneOf course you will never, you never been faced a such situations for so long. The people who can spout shit like this always have a way to get what they want in a way or another. You never where despair might take you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 10:15 PM |
| 9 | Advice geared towards men is circular and designed to drive you insaneNo shit, most of these advices are either same old platitudes, shit they wouldn't follow themselves or worse when the followed advice doesn't work, never did and never will. Really most people who give advices just do it to save the face or make themselves feel better about getting something the person who asked or complain can't have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Psychological closeness is extremely important for compatibility - so if you’re psychologically a mess, you might want to dig into that and figure it outAh right because those who are in couple are perfectly sound of mind, don't cary their "emotional baggages" into relationships and aren't time ticking bombs waiting to go all out the moment things don't go in their ways. Nice fucking advice that people dont apply to themselves and only say for virtue signaling, I appreciate it a lot! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 11:56 AM |
| 2 | Men cannot complain their way to sex and relationshipsYou don't understand, it's not about negotiating attraction but calling out the bullshit, the shitty advices they wouldn't follow themselves and the countless lies that everyone tells us like the shit you're spewing right now in thread. You're telling us to improve or suck it up but if you were in the exact same situation would you accept it without voicing your frustrations and calling out this injustice? No you wouldn't I'm sure of it, so you don't get to tell us stop complain just because it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 09:46 PM |
| 3 | The Circle of Porn and Intimacy : Men watch porn because they can't get women Vs Men can't get women because they watch porncompared to a man who comes home after work and thinks things like "oh hey, I'm bored...maybe I can see if there's something happening somewhere...oh look there's a band playing at a local small venue, only $10 cover charge, I think I will go see what's happening there" I can definitely assure you that changes nothing at all, just this year I already went to more than 10 events like these around my city instead of staying home to play game or jerk off like you say and guess nothing absolutely ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Women are upset and hypocritical about men having access to sexual content because it threatens their power dynamicsmen indulge in cooming but then complain about there not being enough “pure girls” for him. Or pay for OnlyFans and then talk shit about women on OF These aren't the same men, stop conflating the men who consume these content and those who call it out. Because it would make little sense for a customer to complain about a product while coming back to it to consume it. Or are the primary reason the porn, stripper, and prostitution industries exist and then say those women aren’t worthy of marriage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 11:40 AM |
| 11 | The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk awayKnowing that a line of random men would pump and dump her while considering her mediocre isn’t going to give her that. Oh come on, do you have really to play the act of having people interest in you being detrimental? Do you really expect us to believe that you actually don't profit from this in any possible way? At least have some self respect and admit that you women can and do use this advantage whenever you feel like it. If this isn't a privilege then what is it? A curse? Get real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 05:26 PM |
| 1 | People who are unsuccessful at dating should learn to accept it, and be mature enough to not wrongly blame anybody but themselvesBecause I do enjoy ranting for time to time and disproving or calling out your normalshit platitudes, thing may not get better for me but I'm under no obligation to make things better for you and your ilk and I will get my fun how and wherever I can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 06:30 PM |
| 1 | People who are unsuccessful at dating should learn to accept it, and be mature enough to not wrongly blame anybody but themselvesWhy should the undesirables accept their fate and stay quiet, especially if it won't change their situation? This isn't a mature behavior this a defeatist one and you're quite literally advocating for black pill except you asking them to shit up, fuck you. Why you accept to stay quiet if you were victim of the same injustice? No you wouldn't and you would ask to be treated more fairly. Men aren't asking women to be forced into relationships they don't want, nobody want that, what they're asking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 01:50 PM |
| 10 | Dating men are NOT better people than VirginsIt's basic coward behavior, strong with the weak but weak with the strong, women will berate and complain to the men they won't open their legs to but won't say a word. And there's also the satisfaction to see the designated vilains suffer and feel better about their situations cause at least they got what those pesky undesirable men will never have, that's why people easily dink on them despite those men rarely interact with women to put in application their misogynistic view while actual misog… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 02:50 PM |
| – | Straight/bi men: How easy and how often do you get sexually aroused by random women you see?Unless something happens between her and me I don't see why I would get my hopes up and imagine stuff only to get disappointed latter, despite what women think most men don't lust on every single woman they come across, even if they're lightly dressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do You Feel Like You Get Vilified Too Much On This Sub?you’re having this total “grass is greener” mentality and only thinking about everything from your perspective. What I'm saying is that having yellow dry grass is still better than nothing but fucking sand. You can work on yourself hard but if sand is all you can get what's even the point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 10:54 PM |
| 1 | The ugly good guy vs the abusive Chad trope is overblown in this subCan you really blame these men for trying to have some positive light over themselves? Just look at your post and the rest of this thread, you're literally justifying the prejudice you have against ugly men because they dared to make themselves seems good at the expense of those poor good looking men. ? Ultimately who cares they are not the men they are not the men women complain about in their relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Love Isn’t a Transaction—It’s a TransformationIt’s a shared awakening—a co-evolution between two souls who are whole on their own, and powerful together. Your mumbo jumbo means fuck all irl, love IS a contract with conditions written on toilet paper that implies various transaction between both the parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do You Feel Like You Get Vilified Too Much On This Sub?He's not going to have any healthy partnerships. Yeah but he still get to play and try again. I don't know how you hope to convince anyone that staying on the bench to watch is better than having a bad game, especially when it doesn't affect his personal score. Women seem to understand (or at least believe) that having no relationship is better than having a bad relationship. Because they can hop in one whenever they feel like, anybody think the same if they had that freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/25 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Many men don’t like women platonically and have no interest in friendships with themAnd why should we? You said it yourself they have little positive to offert as person. Why should we try to befriend people who look down on men and often if not constantly remind them how most men don't fit their standards and make it seems like it's a privilege to be around them? I won't pretend that men don't do the same or often try to befriend women they could potentially fuck but beside that why should we should we make effort for people who clearly don't make any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | If a woman genuinely likes a man, she'll make it easy for him.Yeah no shit Sherlock but the catch is that most of us men don't and won't ever qualify for this no matter how hard we can try. So genuinely thank you for telling absolutely nothing of value today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 09:15 PM |
| 1 | The Market Value metaphor breaks down because products you buy don’t choose you back.If they can afford themselves treat to relationships as products to consume, discard and pass to the next one, then yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 05:23 PM |
| 1 | The Market Value metaphor breaks down because products you buy don’t choose you back.Those who are successful enough in dating can afford to treat them as such, both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 01:27 PM |
| – | Women are turned off by any proactive behaviour by a man two impress or date a woman. They only respond well to naturals.We can't just win with you huh? If he tries his hardest to be a presentable and interesting potential partner, he's bad and unauthentic, if he doesn't hes just another entitled loser who asking women to open their legs (for free?) to him. I don't know if you realize that your post confirms the black pill major talking points about attractiveness being set in stone and the encouragement to give up dating, anyway it's always funny to see women listing these conditions and all while their only valu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 10:34 AM |
| 1 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardAnd by virtue of being human being, I will say that the average women are equally bad as men are, because like anybody else they will do bad things whenever they think the consequences are negligible or avoidable. You only present stats about the most extreme cases while we're merely talking about average people as if dating a men is the most perilous entreprise a woman can take despite the fact most of them dated, date and will keep doing it. So they are either asking for it or maybe, just mayb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Men need to have higher standards.Having higher standard didn't make my love life better it helped me to realize that my efforts were made for people who don't deserve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 05:22 PM |
| 1 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardExcept you're talking about men being bad over all and not a relatively small proportion of the male population, which doesn't prove that women aren't any less bad people than men over all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | The Market Value metaphor breaks down because products you buy don’t choose you back.How am I wrong when that how people treat relationships when they are successful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardAre murder and rape the only things that quality people for being bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 04:03 PM |
| 2 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardYeah that's crazy that people don't like being prejudiced for something they had no choice in it and blamed for acts they never did or probably never will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 03:45 PM |
| 1 | “Men are looking for clean water in a desert while women are looking for clean water in a swamp” is the most misandrist analogy I ever heardthread is about men having options at all compared to women Still find a way to make it about women being eternal hypothetical victims of men to justify their shit behavior If men were truly bad and life threatening as you say you wouldn't even be here to tell us about to begin with. So I highly doubt the gap between how many bad men/women is big as you are it out to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Women are basically miny celebrities. Which is why the dating climate is badOh look yet another advice the giver wouldn't follow themselves if they were in the same predicament. Do you have more advices like this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 11:25 AM |
| 1 | The Market Value metaphor breaks down because products you buy don’t choose you back.The purpose of this metaphor is to point how relationships are treated as commodities and disposable product who are meant to be consumed or discarded whenever you feel like it. This has nothing to do with whether the product like you in turn or nor because you can and will just get another on the same shelf. How can you fail to understand something so basic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/25 10:35 AM |
| 0 | If you somehow managed to convince women to universally lower their standards you’d just have much more competition and the relationship would be awfulYour standards should be somewhat according to what you can offer Yeah right, that's why the value of the coochie is so high these days. if you are not very attractive, but you are kind, honest, etc, you should ask for the same. Kindness and honesty is worthless and if you're not attractive you don't get to ask anything since you're rejected on the doorstep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Why do men not want women to accept their rejection?A woman setting not one but multiple dates, nice fairy tale. After reading the actual thread, it seems that men were more upset after being told they are disposable asset (as if they weren't already aware of that), nobody like being insulted like that, so they were justifiably calling out OPs bait. How nice of you to omit this point that completely turn down you post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 01:13 PM |
| 1 | If you somehow managed to convince women to universally lower their standards you’d just have much more competition and the relationship would be awfulWhat's the point of having high standards when you got no options? It's like building a big ass dam over a dried river. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 12:16 PM |
| 1 | If you somehow managed to convince women to universally lower their standards you’d just have much more competition and the relationship would be awfulIf a woman doesn't find you attractive, but managed to convince herself for whatever reason to give you a chance Wouldn't that be rape? Why would she rape herself? Or would I be accused instead of rape since women can't rape grown men? Either way there's no point in staying with her if it's to end up being treated worse than being alone but it would be difficult choice to make because well who want to be alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 12:11 PM |
| 0 | Being alone and sexless doesn’t even compare to having to have sex with somebody you don’t want to have sex withAh the eternal victim's mantra, when men suffer remember that women CAN AND WILL suffer more! You're right hypothetical scenarios or fantasies that will probably never happen are more painful than loneliness and constant rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/25 06:27 PM |
| 7 | If you have to chase a woman, you've already lost.Unreciprocated feelings/interest are worthless except for pumping their ego, yes we already know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/25 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Do most men on dating apps just try to match with virtually every woman?Why would you waste your time to look at profiles you most likely won't even match with? It's a waste of time compared to the actual results, if there's any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 04:46 PM |
| – | Let's say women's standards are too high. Now what?You know so little and assume too much, you're sickening Not everything is physical in attraction for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 05:44 PM |
| 9 | Men need to stop believing and spreading the idea that having sex with a lot of women is more ideal than just having sex with women you can find through your passionsThese women are either filtering men around to find the best one among them if she's not already taken or nonexistent, thanks for your non-advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 07:11 AM |
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