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| 1 | CMV: There’s nothing wrong with women having a size preference and a mature man should understandHas he tried making you orgasm other ways? Does he give you an orgasm with his tongue and/or fingers before penetration? If not, try that first and see if you still find the sex unsatisfying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | What is the end goal according to redpill?But also kindness, respecting women, helping people, caring about women's feelings, being a nice guy instead of a badboy. Not using pickup tricks. Not blaming women and feminsm. Distinctly BluePill things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | What is the end goal according to redpill?The irony of this comment... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 11:57 AM |
| 1 | What is the end goal according to redpill?No. TRP (The Red Pill subreddit, distinct from general "redpilled" ideas) originated from a Republican politician: creator, mod, and prolific poster. He was involved IRL with manosphere figures before the sub's creation. There was no transition. It was present from the start. > however to say they are fundamentally the same Did not say that. So you agree those positions politically lean more right than left, that those topics overlap with key political talking points | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | What is the end goal according to redpill?Is exercise really the first rule to help thyself?The first rule is "someone will come along" or "that it is your personality." Go to any mainstream self-help aisle at your local bookstore or read any wellness magazine. Exercise is recommended. The first people to recommend the gym were my mom, a female friend, a doctor, and a teacher. Lol. Even the feds officially recommend regular exercise. "Manosphere" advice right there. You attributed my transformation to TRP, when the only thing in common … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 06:44 AM |
| 1 | What is the end goal according to redpill?Exercise is one the first self-help rules of every non-TRP space too. TRP needs to stop pretending like it invented fitness. Gyms and supplements had been around decades before. They don't get to claim copyright over that. It's also mainstream and BluePill self-help too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessnessIt is a false premise because respecting women works, results and actions add up. When you have a reputation for understanding women and genuinely caring about them, you collect female orbiters. Some just offer up casual sex, without needing any manipulation or games (women get horny too, and if they know and value you many feel safer with that over a random stranger). There are also other ways guys get laid. Alternate strategies working doesn't discredit OP's points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessnesssome women charge at red flags like a bull, so what's the problem? In a nutshell the only reason why RP works. There are enough damaged women with daddy issues and attachment issues that you can manipulate many into casual sex. You won't run out of damaged women to exploit any time soon, though FDS is trying to empower them away from that damage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessness> As for all the stuff outside of casual, you are talking about ideals and what women SAY they want, but results and actual actions don't add up to that, so why would anyone listen? False premise. Those things actually do work. That's a reason to listen. They do. Especially for relationships and for in-person interactions (online is more superficial). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | I’m looking more into the female gaze, what is the main thing that you love in movies/ books that are more oriented to the female gaze?Though I believe the vanilla/freaky issue is more about a lack of empathy from the bf but he was also crying over something stupid Sounds like lack of empathy from you for men. His pain requires justification for you to care? Yet you expect a bf to empathize with a woman about anything, even when it's something he dislikes? I don't agree with the blackpiller overall. But I notice this trend a lot in women, lacking empathy for men's pain and losing attraction over it. How can you ask men to empat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill is nothing more than learned helplessnessHad to find something to disagree with since CMV Many successful blue pillers however lack the language and understanding to really explain Dogshit. I've been explaining this in other comments, while RP and Incel guys just write it off as "he's lying" because it doesn't fit their worldview. They refuse to comprehend that working on those things could lead to success with women. I doubt better language will help. They'll dismiss it as lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | What is the end goal according to redpill?Kept working on myself while growing up. Improved appearance (fitness, clothes, skin, hair). Moved up in life (education, career). Became self-sufficient (cool apartment, cook, clean, fix things). Socializing. Hobbies. Travel. Meditation. As you achieve goals and push outside your comfort zone, confidence grows. I prioritize kindness and respect. Friendly and outgoing to people. Volunteered for charities. Mentored kids. Whiteknighted for women. Stood up for marginalized people. Random acts of ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | What is the end goal according to redpill?Sorry man. 5'0 incel is hard to come back from. RedPill won't help you though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | What is the end goal according to redpill?What makes you sub 5? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | What is the end goal according to redpill?HS: braces, glasses, acne, scrawny, nerdy, wimpy After: hit the gym, healthy eating, better clothes, better hair style, skincare, contacts, braces off, advanced degrees, good job, built confidence, built social circles, got life experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | What is the end goal according to redpill?Be kind and respect women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | What is the end goal according to redpill?Just average "normie" here, but I was far below that in high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | "Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated adviceJobs are hard if you're not already good at them from the start. Why try or learn? Just quit and stay broke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | What is the end goal according to redpill?Former nerdy guy from high school here. Now a high body count man popular with ladies. But I used The Blue Pill instead of The Red Pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | q4a does your perception/definition of love changed with age and experience?Women growing up results in choosing AFs (teen, young adult) then BB (adult). If women deny or don't realize this, it may be a lack of self-awareness or lack of object permanence. Those guys are not objects to aid her personal development. They're people who exist before and after those stages. The AF guy thinks he's killing it at life, then eventually ages out of that group. Suddenly no one wants "creepy old guy" or "community dick". He gets dumped for not having established career/finances or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | What do you think actually helps men date?I am short, bald with a skin condition. i am one of the least attractive men everywhere i go. Your league might be very low then. 1-3/10 women. Do you approach women who are 400 lbs? It seems to me the only thing single women in my area enjoy doing is dancing. I'd normally suggest a beginner dance class, but that might be full of women out of your league, which won't help. If you befriend them, maybe they have an ugly fat friend to set you up with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | What do you think actually helps men date?This summer I reached out to make new social groups, because my other friends are all married couples. Sure, most people are taken. But I still met at least 20 single women through that. 1 quickly started dating a Chad in the group. She was the hottest so that's no surprise. I had chances with others who were average looking. I chose not to pursue them. But the options were there. And I found many single women eager to socialize, make new friends, and find fun things to do. Obviously attractiven… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic IdealAh yes other known as being the white knight and never actually works. Worked for me. But you have to look like someone who could actually protect her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Romantically unsuccessful have a natural incentive to give the impression of being evil and violent since it is almost unanimously agreed that evil and violent men are very attractive to womenShort, passive, anxiety attacks - these are the traits repelling women. There are nice kind guys who are tall, assertive and confident. Those guys get women. I know so many guys who help others and have harems of women chasing them. You're blaming outcomes on the wrong factors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Romantically unsuccessful have a natural incentive to give the impression of being evil and violent since it is almost unanimously agreed that evil and violent men are very attractive to womenBecause you're 4'2" and shy, not because you're nice and kind. You're blaming your incel on the wrong factors. Find a 4'2" shy serial killer with as many admirers as Bundy. You won't. Usually when women crush on killers, they believe the sociopath's lies saying he's innocent. They feel for him because they think he's a nice guy wrongfully accused, not because they're turned on by his murdering. They have other attractive traits: looks, height, charisma. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Romantically unsuccessful have a natural incentive to give the impression of being evil and violent since it is almost unanimously agreed that evil and violent men are very attractive to womenSerial killers get more because they hunt more, not necessarily because more women want them. Rapists also get laid more. An attractive teacher could be desired by 1000 women but only marry 1, due to morals. A serial killer could get 10 even with only 100 women crushing on him, because he's not stopped by morals. And because he's on the hunt, he'll be exposed to more total women too. In that scenario more % of women find the teacher attractive, even though the killer got more women. So you can s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Romantically unsuccessful have a natural incentive to give the impression of being evil and violent since it is almost unanimously agreed that evil and violent men are very attractive to womenAgain, which traits did the nice guys have? Assertive or passive? Passionate or passionless? Fun or boring? Hot or ugly? Tall or short? Or did those women mean they hate "nice guys" (see r/niceguys sub and notice most of those guys aren't actually nice, the term "nice guy" is used ironically). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Romantically unsuccessful have a natural incentive to give the impression of being evil and violent since it is almost unanimously agreed that evil and violent men are very attractive to womenYet Clooney is 10000x more attractive to women than Bundy. You're idolizing the wrong men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Romantically unsuccessful have a natural incentive to give the impression of being evil and violent since it is almost unanimously agreed that evil and violent men are very attractive to women"Elliot Rodger types". The other incel killers were also murderous psychopaths, but no less incel. Ted Bundy has far fewer admirers than George Clooney and other peaceful A-listers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 12:30 AM |
| 1 | What some women think a mature man dating a young woman looks like vs what it really is like.What hobbies do 30-something guys share with 16 year olds? Asking for a friend... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | What some women think a mature man dating a young woman looks like vs what it really is like.Guy 2 (went on a few dates, mostly hooked up - ages 16 & 32) How did you even meet and end up dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread0-12: Join the priesthood 13-16: Train hard and become a football star. Or schoolteacher. 17-27: Deal the latest party drug or make a frat house with your bros. 28-40: Be educated, career-driven, ambitious, ripped, and moving up in life. 40+: Don't be obese. Be financially stable. Have hair and lifetime supply of Viagra. It's easier if you specialize in one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Women who met your boyfriends on social media or dating apps, what made him different from the rest?Very little =/= can't learn anything. You have an issue with making everything black-and-white, distorting what was said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic Idealto be a protector means you do have to be ready to fuck anyone up because you need to be ready to protect your partner. someone who's ready willing and able to enact violence on someone at any moment is probably a generally violent person and that violence will likely be directed at their partner as well False premises. You missed an important nuance: indiscriminate violence vs controlled behavior. A good protector CAN respond with violence if the situation demands it. Their decisions dictate wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic IdealOk but do you disagree with my point that people who are assertive are also aggressive? Disagree. They're different. People can be one without the other. Aggressive people are not assertive. Aggression is uncontrolled emotion, while assertiveness is controlled. Sure but no two women have the same signals. So someone who is sexual forward and takes initiative is generally gonna be bothering a lot of women before they actually find someone who's down. That's why it's a dialogue, not a script. Your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Swiss Cheese Masculinity and The Romantic IdealAssertiveness and aggressiveness are different. Assertive: speak up, calmly but firmly disagree and state needs, relaxed body language, eye contact, even voice, even pace. Aggressive: yelling, raised voice, tense body language, interrupting, not listening, erratic pace, insults, condescension, maybe even threats and violence. They're not the same. You can be one without the other. And neither are passive. I say this as a guy inclined towards aggression. Aggression never yielded results. Assertiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Women who met your boyfriends on social media or dating apps, what made him different from the rest?Unrelated tangent. Point is you get very little info from profile text. You get more info in person. That ugly short guy has a better chance in person, with more opportunity for that other information to make him stand out. Online the photo has 980 more words, it's all anyone sees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 07:36 PM |
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