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healthy kids can have serious affects, even if they don’t, do you realize how selfish that statement is? not all kids are healthy… even if they are you’re still making them stay home and hindering their education + social life if they test positive (or even if they’re just openly unvaxxed) vaccines are not released for shits and giggles thanks to variants like omicrons, it’s getting WORSE. have you taken a second to look at the numbers recently?…
/r/MensRights09/01/22 12:14 AM
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i suggest you do some research, it protects you against having severe symptoms and lowers the chance of contracting/spreading with serious complications the more people that are vaccinated the more 1 bubble (or everyone for that matter) is protected. kids can carry and spread just as well if not better than adults (school and high risk areas) which is dangerous because they often exhibit less or even no symptoms have you ever considered that some people your kid comes in contact with may be high…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 03:32 PM
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why don’t you want your child vaccinated? i don’t mean this to be offensive but it’ll likely make you look worse from a legal standpoint if you don’t plan on getting him the best medical care available
/r/MensRights07/01/22 04:58 AM
8

you realize that making abortion illegal is moving in the opposite direction of parental rights?
/r/MensRights07/01/22 04:55 AM
1

LOL no😂 in this context only referring to how they’re seen as gross, muddy, unintelligent, bigoted (the police officer thing) but i actually like pigs
/r/MensRights31/12/21 12:28 AM
-1

oh, me? harassment?
/r/MensRights30/12/21 09:37 PM
-1

i forgot, you only hate the ones that aren’t on their knees for you
/r/MensRights30/12/21 09:35 PM
1

nobody actually believes all men should be killed, most people don’t even say that nazis actually meant it and took action..?😬😬 also men are not the minority. men and women both have problems. minority generally refers to the lower population and more discriminated against. neither men or women are really a minority
/r/MensRights30/12/21 09:20 PM
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you can be a feminist and a mra 🥺 of course you hate women too much to understand that
/r/MensRights30/12/21 09:19 PM
2

yup😬
/r/MensRights30/12/21 09:08 PM
-2

it could be a medical imbalance…. we should not assume anything until we know the facts
/r/MensRights30/12/21 09:05 PM
2

yeah that’s what i mean, i didn’t elaborate because there are a fuck ton. i mean there’s some racism in everything i listed
/r/MensRights30/12/21 09:02 PM
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you should be banned, you misrepresent the whole movement. quite literally, a pig.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 08:58 PM
1

wdym a woman problem?
/r/MensRights30/12/21 08:57 PM
0

hate movements: racism: we hate non white people nazis: we also hate minorities sexism: we hate men/women pro life: we hate reproductive rights trump supporters: we hate immigrants and so on…. “hate movements”: feminism: we want gender equality
/r/MensRights30/12/21 08:54 PM
1

exactly?? jeez
/r/MensRights30/12/21 07:45 PM
-1

great job defining generalization
/r/MensRights30/12/21 07:03 PM
1

can we take men out of the draft instead of putting women in
/r/MensRights30/12/21 06:21 PM
1

she was manipulated, im pretty sure they mean the manipulator
/r/MensRights30/12/21 06:20 PM
1

you forgot to switch accounts my guy
/r/MensRights30/12/21 06:18 PM
1

how old is your son and what is his opinion (if he’s old enough to have a stance)? i forget but i think at 14 you can get vaccinated without parental consent
/r/MensRights30/12/21 06:15 PM
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wouldn’t that partially be due to the normalization of divorce?
/r/MensRights30/12/21 06:07 PM
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personally i’ve met lots of disrespectful people on here, but it just proves movements will always have issues. it doesn’t mean they’re rooted in sexism, it just proves that humans are often selfish and will twist things however they would like. i don’t think i could name one semi controversial movement where this isn’t seen
/r/MensRights30/12/21 06:01 PM
1

dr phil is bad for everyone sending teens to the middle of nowhere and shit 🤦‍♀️ both men and women could do without
/r/MensRights30/12/21 05:59 PM
1

no offense but i wouldn’t use the image as evidence because it’s a drawing, and as we all know illustrations only show what the artist wants
/r/MensRights30/12/21 05:57 PM
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i think it sounds like a decent idea, i’m not sure how it would get started. make sure to do EXTENSIVE research whenever naming anything after a person since if one piece of problematic information is found the whole thing will be twisted and go down
/r/MensRights30/12/21 05:56 PM
1

i really hope that’s not someone trolling because that’s just horrible
/r/MensRights30/12/21 05:53 PM
-1

i’m sorry you’re getting downvoted. the word feminism is not sexist and never will be, as that’s exactly what it’s fight is against. it may be used by some bad people, but that’s not everyone. it’s like banning the word germany because nazis lived there.
/r/MensRights30/12/21 05:51 PM
1

the person who invited the other to wherever they’re dining/going (if someone invites you to some 12 course meal they better not expect you to pay)
/r/MensRights30/12/21 05:48 PM
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you really expect gen z to stay off of the internet? lmao… i’m not watching baby shark and playing with building blocks in my free time if your only defense against someone is that they’re young, you’re probably wrong your statistics make 0 sense and it’s funny you assume every woman’s sexual partner is a man. also no 1 survey can get every single woman in the us
/r/MensRights18/12/21 04:09 AM
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you have never BEEN a chubby woman and never WILL be a chubby woman, so stop speaking for demographics you have no idea about. maybe you’re thinking about creepy fat fetish people but most women don’t want that and fat people are statistically way less desired and i’m not fragile, but i’m a minor and i have some damn boundaries (rightfully) and i don’t feel like having them pushed and i will never change that because someone tells me to
/r/MensRights18/12/21 03:07 AM
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that’s absolutely not what you were referencing
/r/MensRights18/12/21 03:04 AM
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wow real respectful i hope you’re having fun calling young girls shit like that without consent
/r/MensRights18/12/21 12:43 AM
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it’s comparing a corporation to a single person vs a single person to a single person
/r/MensRights18/12/21 12:43 AM
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first of all i’m 15 and that’s gross of you to say, and nobody doing that is accepted you mean young white skinny pretty women? news flash women don’t get laid by looking at a man
/r/MensRights18/12/21 12:42 AM
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don’t call me that 🤨
/r/MensRights17/12/21 08:01 PM
-1

exactly nobody is born with an abused personality
/r/MensRights17/12/21 08:00 PM
-1

nobody’s just born a hoe without being taught other stuff normally
/r/MensRights17/12/21 03:57 PM
-1

and WHY do you think that would happen? why would a woman learn to do that?
/r/MensRights17/12/21 03:28 PM
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i refuse to leave anyone shaming women for having sex when men are praised for the same thing. i 100% support mens rights, but not when it comes at the expense of woman’s (the whole point is equality, and i see a lot of tearing women down rather than bringing men up) fyi that’s not what culture means here yes i shame men saying women deserve to be raped, and i hope you do too…🤨
/r/MensRights17/12/21 03:26 PM
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i’m still not sure i get what you’re saying, the employer thing makes sense but that’s not comparable to men and women
/r/MensRights17/12/21 03:24 PM
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purity culture doesn’t come from feminism, it primarily stems from religion. yes feminists use that term, and many others, it doesn’t automatically devalue something 🤦‍♀️ just like how a woman having sex doesn’t decrease her “value” it’s not an instinct it’s a gross assumption that a woman needs to be some virgin mary. i don’t think your point about men having lizard brains and not understanding past from present is valid. sure those things can be hard to separate, but logically you know, and it…
/r/MensRights17/12/21 07:08 AM
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yes, but the way you find out isn’t breaking into someone’s cupboards and rummaging through their personal medical shit. if you’re getting married or dating for a while i would hope they tell you about something serious, and if they didn’t you would probably notice
/r/MensRights17/12/21 05:19 AM
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that’s not what they’re saying
/r/MensRights17/12/21 05:18 AM
1

because men are a little stronger on average they’re more important?
/r/MensRights17/12/21 05:17 AM
-9

if a girl literally basically only knows how to have sex that sounds like someone who’s just been exploited from childhood 💀
/r/MensRights17/12/21 05:17 AM
-13

that’s all kinds of fucked up, purity culture is stupid and “chicks” is a huge generalization
/r/MensRights17/12/21 05:16 AM
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document the planning and let the teacher know
/r/MensRights17/12/21 01:25 AM
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i get your point but that’s really not an ok thing to do, also mentally ill people are not always red flags, needing help isn’t a flaw and mras should definitely understand that side
/r/MensRights17/12/21 01:24 AM
-8

how is being good in bed a red flag?
/r/MensRights17/12/21 01:22 AM
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why?
/r/MensRights16/12/21 11:20 PM
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wdym proper position?
/r/MensRights16/12/21 07:23 AM
1

If you’re from the south that may explain it, or it could be aave. regardless if someone’s calling you something that you don’t like don’t be afraid to tell them to stop
/r/MensRights15/12/21 06:13 AM
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those are not real feminists 🤦‍♀️
/r/MensRights14/12/21 12:32 AM
0

succeeding doesn’t make you credible, look at trump or a plethora of other leaders
/r/MensRights14/12/21 12:32 AM
-1

nobody credible in their right mind
/r/MensRights13/12/21 10:16 PM
-1

that’s not true in the slightest
/r/MensRights13/12/21 09:36 PM
-1

not really it was focusing on a specific issue because she dealt with it, but it’s not like murder is legal lmao. if you get caught for murder there’s a high possibility you will spend the majority of your life in prison. rape and murder is worse than just murder because it’s rape AND murder. of course people are going to be sentenced worse when they’ve done more
/r/MensRights13/12/21 05:23 PM
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because it’s posted in the first place
/r/MensRights13/12/21 03:27 PM
-5

are you complaining about locking these people up
/r/MensRights13/12/21 06:46 AM
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wdym women are the ordinary sex? like how biologically?
/r/MensRights10/12/21 05:38 AM
-7

those aren’t feminists
/r/MensRights09/12/21 07:16 AM
-7

you’re right, and don’t listen to the salty people yelling at you. they’re just mad when there’s nobody to blame, particularly feminists.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 07:15 AM
1

at least i’m not bitter lmfao
/r/MensRights08/12/21 07:19 PM
1

who are people like me 🤔
/r/MensRights08/12/21 06:23 PM
1

you expect women to change for men and it’s pathetic. you don’t tell minorities to stay inside because hate crimes are a thing
/r/MensRights08/12/21 06:22 PM
1

what does this have anything to do with r/ugly? and for the love of god stop generalizing women. just because you met (or godforbid saw some bad women on the internet) doesn’t mean they’re all the same
/r/MensRights08/12/21 06:21 PM
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because you have such an ugly rage you must have had some motivating past
/r/MensRights07/12/21 11:25 PM
1

those are idiot outliers, which there always will be. but sex education does help and if you disagree you’re a fool
/r/MensRights07/12/21 11:24 PM
1

i don’t have a fix all, shitty people will always exist. maybe we could teach kids in school why you shouldn’t be a pervert lmao, and why it’s not ok to sexualize women especially when they’re just working out
/r/MensRights07/12/21 11:24 PM
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it’s important to note most science comes from ideas, so we can’t necessarily discredit something because it’s an idea that’s not yet proven. it’s hard to prove or disprove social concepts due to the complexity of human nature. i agree the patriarchy should be tested but carefully. it would be extremely easy to observe or survey a group (even if it’s “controlled”) and come out with flawed answers. debate around sensitive topics like this need to be done with precision and accuracy
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/21 06:50 PM
1

dude idk who hurt you but you need to chill out
/r/MensRights07/12/21 06:41 PM
1

i’m aware of that, but don’t you think the creeps should change not the woman who’s trying to work out?
/r/MensRights07/12/21 06:40 PM
1

it’s not that hard to keep your eyes off someone’s “wedgie”
/r/MensRights07/12/21 03:38 PM
3

can we be removing men from draft instead of putting women on it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/21 06:39 AM
1

i’m 15 and your only comeback in a conversation that’s not even supposed to be an argument is fuckface, nice.
/r/MensRights07/12/21 02:34 AM
1

it means they’re not to be sexualized without consent, im not trolling. yes women have genitals, cis womens genitals aren’t extruding though
/r/MensRights07/12/21 02:33 AM
-1

he insinuated she was intentionally doing it
/r/MensRights07/12/21 12:33 AM
1

if you’re gonna be rude at least be clever
/r/MensRights06/12/21 11:29 PM
0

that’s just not fair to make someone change what they wear for creeps, the creeps need to do the changing
/r/MensRights06/12/21 10:10 PM
1

yeah no you made a joke out of my body my choice
/r/MensRights06/12/21 08:16 PM
1

that’s just disrespectful, don’t use that argument. nobody said you can’t look somewhere bud. however if you’re looking, you better not be shaming and saying you’ll rape someone for the way they dress. i better never hear a single “slut” come out of your mouth, since you’re the one looking
/r/MensRights06/12/21 07:51 PM
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calm down, it was true at the time of posting which was way past when a comment should’ve been deleted. if a stalker like you wants to check then can see what has and has not been removed (only the EXTREME ones were removed) i have no narrative. i reported it for several rules like hate, threatening of violence, a custom one of misogyny idk if you realize but i have other things to do with my life, like school as it is the middle of the day. i’m not salivating over my keyboard checking every sin…
/r/MensRights06/12/21 07:48 PM
1

i get your point but a suicide rate also shouldn’t rule out living somewhere. provided you’re financially and emotionally stable, free of shit relationships (like abuse not someone you don’t like) the risk is relatively low suicide rate is not what i was looking at
/r/MensRights06/12/21 07:45 PM
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the simple part is people should have freedom to wear whatever tf they want as long as it’s clothing and not offensive without being shamed by the same perverts wanting to lick their crack
/r/MensRights06/12/21 06:24 PM
0

when i reported it they said it didn’t violate lmao
/r/MensRights06/12/21 06:22 PM
1

isn’t that like everywhere though? i can’t suggest some utopia that doesn’t exist
/r/MensRights06/12/21 06:22 PM
1

leggings are comfortable too.
/r/MensRights06/12/21 03:38 PM
-1

first of all she doesn’t have a penis and if you’re calling a butt genitals, that’s reaching. breasts also serve functional purpose. they’re not some bouncy balls for you to fondle with shorts and a t shirt are fine, but so is her outfit. unlike shorts and a t-shirt it provides more compression, supports and actually more coverage on her legs
/r/MensRights06/12/21 03:37 PM
0

no because of the incredibly toxic behavior displayed within this sub
/r/MensRights06/12/21 03:35 PM
-2

that’s not true. but it’s disgusting nevertheless, it is never ok. i don’t care who it is it sends a message that it’s ok to call people that
/r/MensRights06/12/21 03:33 PM
2

i’m secure in my beliefs so unless you’re actually wanting a conversation there’s no need to try and undermine my stance
/r/MensRights06/12/21 07:03 AM
2

what are you trying to say? not sure i understand… i support mens rights and the movement, of course taking away the bad apples
/r/MensRights06/12/21 06:53 AM
2

mens rights activists
/r/MensRights06/12/21 06:17 AM
2

this is why people don’t support mras, right here.
/r/MensRights06/12/21 05:55 AM
2

that’s after he stared at her, i don’t agree with the publication of his face necessarily though
/r/MensRights06/12/21 05:54 AM
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sorry i misread crop tops and tank tops but i still hold my point about sports bras being practical. i’m in the US in oregon, it may be because where i’m at is pretty liberal and things like this are low policed. for example in most schools there are no dress codes other than pretty much wearing clothes
/r/MensRights06/12/21 05:53 AM
1

i’m not debating that sorry
/r/MensRights06/12/21 05:20 AM
2

she didn’t do anything to him, how could she have left him alone any more? and why are you saying women need to change what they wear at the expense of their comfort and practicality in order to be left alone. your situation example is way more complicated. first of all a white pwr shirt is racist (i’m not going to argue about this so don’t even try if you disagree, please) compared to a womens sports set which there is literally nothing wrong with. going to a blm rally with a white pwr shirt is…
/r/MensRights06/12/21 05:11 AM
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that’s not how he put it
/r/MensRights06/12/21 05:07 AM
2

so men can’t control themselves over some CLOTHED tits? alr
/r/MensRights06/12/21 05:06 AM
2

yes she shouldn’t be surprised. at that age a woman should know she will probably get looks wearing something skin tight. however she still has a right to be upset
/r/MensRights06/12/21 05:05 AM
0

you’re falling into quite the dangerous trap of stereotyping
/r/MensRights06/12/21 05:05 AM
2

i meant it’s good he’s not being called a slut. have you seriously not seen people work out shirtless? not in a rude way i am genuinely surprised. people here take off their shirts for sports, working out, even at school in the summer you just said women are accepted in sports bras and leggings but most people under this post are saying women wear these things for men. even saying they deserved to be r*ped a crop top and a sports bra are not comparable for men and women. for a woman a crop top i…
/r/MensRights06/12/21 05:02 AM
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she’s not the problem though
/r/MensRights06/12/21 02:16 AM
4

looking good and presentable is different then wanting to be sexualized and “wanting it.” especially at the gym, this is functional clothing. nobody’s calling a man a slut when he’s wearing no shirt (which is a good obviously) but when a woman’s wearing something a little tight she is? my point is there’s a difference between style and an invitation
/r/MensRights06/12/21 02:16 AM
1

what’s the difference? you should be able to control yourself when someone’s showing two inches of skin
/r/MensRights06/12/21 02:11 AM
2

yes that is exactly the point, changing not staring at peoples asses is not very hard, and if it is that person has a problem. honestly my larger problem isn’t the ass staring like whatever it’s creepy but not the worst thing. my problem is people saying women ask for it or saying women have evil intentions by wearing literally athletic clothing
/r/MensRights06/12/21 02:08 AM
3

yes?? it’s literally athletic wear
/r/MensRights06/12/21 02:04 AM
2

it’s ok to be outraged even if you knew something was going to happen. you can’t expect her to change for other people
/r/MensRights06/12/21 02:03 AM
1

there are several athletic bras and short spandex shorts just on the first page
/r/MensRights06/12/21 02:02 AM
3

besides the point lmao, leggings are comfortable, provide compression, they’re thin and breathable as well as flexible, don’t keep in sweat all weird, so why would she wear something on top??
/r/MensRights06/12/21 02:00 AM
1

i can read… what was the point of the second remark?
/r/MensRights06/12/21 01:59 AM
2

no, they do lot.
/r/MensRights06/12/21 01:59 AM
-7

you were victim blaming her and i’m asking, what should she wear? jeans?
/r/MensRights06/12/21 01:50 AM
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is someone going to explain why this guy isn’t banned
/r/MensRights06/12/21 01:49 AM
2

she isn’t showing any of her butt, like actually 0%
/r/MensRights06/12/21 01:47 AM
-2

women do not dress for you
/r/MensRights06/12/21 01:45 AM
1

you want a woman to wear something OVER leggings?
/r/MensRights06/12/21 01:44 AM
-11

she’s wearing athletic wear, what do you want her to wear a burka?
/r/MensRights06/12/21 01:43 AM
-12

i understand your point but you’re acting a little full of yourself… yes some people will try to get your attention, but not every girl wearing some yoga pants (gymwear..) and doing some exercise (what the gym is for) wants your “validation”
/r/MensRights06/12/21 01:41 AM
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it’s in the works!! there’s tons and tons of papers on this i suggest you do some research. there is no law stopping you from taking birth control if available we need to protect mens and womens reproductive freedom also keep in mind the affects, weigh the pros and cons. women don’t have some fix all birth control either, the side affects can be horrible. we need medical advancement hand in hand
/r/MensRights06/12/21 01:37 AM
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“I hate men because I did not get a prom date and I was a whore in school.” did she say that? i’m ngl i didn’t read the whole thing but regardless of how terrible someone is (assuming she didn’t say it herself, i’m unsure because it’s in quotes) it’s not ok to normalize calling people whores
/r/MensRights06/12/21 01:33 AM
2

wait how is it associated with age?
/r/MensRights06/12/21 01:32 AM
1

i don’t answer the question not because i’m a child but because i know you would try to debunk me simply because of my age, which is stupid. woman has no real limit especially with “young woman” some people think all girls are women, some people think it’s once you’re done growing, others once you’ve gotten your period. what i’m trying to say is that it does not really matter wether or not you’re a little girl or a grandma in this context. and there is no SOLID definition for womanhood. i’d have…
/r/MensRights05/12/21 06:33 PM
1

so because trad cons believe that we should fuck over women too?
/r/MensRights05/12/21 06:17 PM
1

it’s still not ok, just because we feel helpless or even are helpless doesn’t mean we should give up and screw each other over
/r/MensRights05/12/21 06:17 PM
1

how is this relevant?
/r/MensRights05/12/21 06:16 PM
0

how do you know the women is a feminist? and do you realize that’s i a bias you yourself have?
/r/MensRights05/12/21 06:15 PM
1

remember this is NOT an invitation to not support abortion rights. yes there may be hypocrisy but everyone deserves rights and if women get them so should men. but we will not drag each other down to awful equality, bring both sides up
/r/MensRights05/12/21 09:43 AM
1

assuming she had permission and it was a wholesome kiss it’s not fucked up. it’s only fucked up if you look at it intending to sexualize a baby. i don’t necessarily agree with doing is in case it teaches a child it’s normal, and in the event it happened without their consent they wouldn’t even know. BUT this is not predatory behavior from whitney
/r/MensRights05/12/21 09:40 AM
1

instead of forcing women to be drafted, can we STOP forcing men? i apologize for the harshness but this shit is so stupid, nobody deserves a forced draft male or female
/r/MensRights05/12/21 09:37 AM
2

remember this is not an invitation to trash on single mothers because i’m absolutely sick of that generalization
/r/MensRights05/12/21 09:30 AM
1

don’t only talk to someone because they could be useful to you, that’s manipulation. this is why i believe in order to get someone to be on your “side” it must be done right. don’t forget you can be an intersectional feminist which should include being an mra
/r/MensRights05/12/21 09:27 AM
-1

accusing all women of being shallow is not helping your cause i promise you. as a woman who supports mens rights sometimes i find it hard not to stray from the conversation altogether because of how many statements like this i see. our goal is togetherness and pointing fingers is not helping some “mra’s” claim they want to be equal but proceed to say shit like “women only want your money” “all women are the same” “women only like chads/attractive guys/bad guys” “never trust a woman” etc…. and th…
/r/MensRights05/12/21 09:22 AM
1

do you actually believe woman are incapable of agreeing with a man’s perspective or do you have some other problem?
/r/MensRights05/12/21 09:15 AM
-1

unfortunately most likely because it happened to her before so she developed an unconscious bias anyone looking at her shirt was looking at her chest
/r/MensRights05/12/21 09:13 AM
0

iceland looks ok
/r/MensRights05/12/21 09:12 AM
2

woops im dumb sorry lmao, i was gonna say that’s quite an oxymoron at first
/r/MensRights05/12/21 09:07 AM
2

yeah humans are designed to live, but we still die
/r/MensRights05/12/21 09:06 AM
1

it seems like you’re talking about paper abortion.
/r/MensRights05/12/21 09:05 AM
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i’m pro choice but you should be careful regardless. you may not be able to carry a baby, but without you one wouldn’t be made in the first place so definitely keep that in mind. (assuming you mean that you can’t literally give birth not that you’re infertile)
/r/MensRights05/12/21 09:03 AM
5

unfortunately the part of not getting adopted is small in comparison to other problems in the system, some i can think of: -abuse (sexual, physical, mental, etc…) -some foster parents literally do it trying to make a profit -feelings of abandonment -bullying for “having no family” (don’t attack me i don’t believe that obviously but it’s a reality that people get bullied for it) -cultural disconnect (ex native kid adopted by white parents and doesn’t get to learn about their heritage) -being forc…
/r/MensRights05/12/21 09:01 AM
7

a fetus is not a car, it’s MUCH more complicated. also no offense but why do you say female like that it’s kinda weird it’s just a woman. “just the biological carrier” is a LOT. it’s not fair to force a woman to have your baby, and i’m not sure what the point is since she’ll most likely hate you and it would destroy a relationship
/r/MensRights05/12/21 08:57 AM
2

why
/r/MensRights05/12/21 08:51 AM
2

the way that it’s politics is a part of the problem. men and womens bodies and what they do or don’t get to do with themselves should not be political. it sucks that men don’t have more rights, but it’s still dangerous to imply because they don’t women shouldn’t either(or that it’s women/feminists fault). we want equal positives not equal negatives, and we’re already moving backwards feminism as a whole is such a huge loose group with widely varying meanings and “practices” a group that some “me…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/21 03:10 AM
5

i totally get your point and understand the annoyance, but your words are a little ignorant. even when someone may not be helping you when they’re in a sticky situation we should be showing compassion. reproductive rights aren’t a laughing matter, wether we’re talking about men or women i’m sure part of what you’re talking about is “paper abortion” aka being child trapped with child support and shit like that. it’s important we separate this from the abortion conversation because it really shoul…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/21 10:30 PM
2

let’s be real, almost every group has some rotten apples. this includes but is obviously not limited to mra and feminism. i don’t think it’s a great idea to associate these very radical people with an entire group, it’ll lead to alienation and further outrage/conflict between the sides (sides as in whichever different groups you’re dealing with)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/21 10:17 PM
1

omg look at the OPs profile name 😬
/r/MensRights25/11/21 07:18 PM
1

can we have a source of who made this?
/r/MensRights25/11/21 06:54 PM
6

i think they may mean in a few different ways 1: if there’s more women straight men will find it easier to find a partner 2: with more women, men will be in higher demand 3: with more women, fields more popular with men may be less crowded, making men more likely to be hired etc.. not sure though
/r/MensRights25/11/21 06:53 PM
1

That’s a totally inappropriate title.. the issue can be totally real but it’s disrespectful to refer to people as “transgenders”, what happened to people first? I know some may say that criminals don’t deserve respect but that shows trans people that respect for them is conditional and untrue. You don’t go around saying “gays” make you uncomfortable. Hope this makes sense and doesn’t seem shallow, feel free to ask any questions Being transgender isn’t a criminal trait
/r/MensRights25/11/21 06:47 PM
1

was it not a work event and not a date like he stated though?? the heels and makeup sounded like a personal preference and not a requirement
/r/MensRights25/11/21 06:17 PM
0

r/mensrights is difficult to “rate” because there are some horrible incels, but there are also great people who actually want a conversation. my advice is that it’s fine to use, but use it with caution and don’t get sucked down some rabbit hole by accident
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/21 06:12 PM
1

don’t put something in quotes that wasn’t there
/r/MensRights25/11/21 06:05 PM
1

it never said that?
/r/MensRights25/11/21 06:04 PM
2

that’s SOME women
/r/MensRights25/11/21 06:02 PM
2

because she wore clothes he didn’t like??
/r/MensRights25/11/21 06:00 PM
-25

I did read the article, can you please not be rude? it was an event to meet his coworkers how was she supposed to know the “rules” applied? also do you think it’s ok he has rules for what she wears? she dodged a major bullet
/r/MensRights25/11/21 06:10 AM
-20

where does it say he told her instructions
/r/MensRights25/11/21 06:00 AM
5

wdym “these people” ..
/r/MensRights25/11/21 01:57 AM
-52

Personally I have to disagree, women are sometimes seen as “queens” for rejecting someone. However that’s usually in response to someone who is legitimately acting in a bad way (rude, disrespectful, disgusting, etc…) However if and when women turn someone down for something dumb like an outfit I feel it’s more inclined for them to be insulted and called prissy or prudish edit: instead of blindly downvoting i’d love to have an actual conversation with you guys
/r/MensRights25/11/21 01:47 AM
0

self defense is always justifiable, but unnecessary violence stemming from anger is never. you shouldn’t feel sad and helpless because you can’t do something violent, rather that someone else can. two wrongs do not make a right
/r/MensRights24/11/21 07:23 PM
2

if he died by suicide wouldn’t that mean he had to have killed her first??
/r/MensRights24/11/21 07:19 PM
1

sorry but unlike you i don’t have some superiority complex. you’re not better than me, and you don’t care about what you’re talking about. the only thing that you’re interested in is belittling others and shoving words in their mouth to feed your ego.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 03:58 AM
1

yeah, i never said either of those things.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 03:52 AM
1

yeah i’m not saying you do have one, rather that it could be perceived that way
/r/MensRights23/11/21 03:51 AM
1

show me where i said either of those.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 02:49 AM
1

you’re actually out of your mind and making up thinks that i’ve never said in my life
/r/MensRights23/11/21 02:41 AM
1

no?? it’s nobody’s fault if their actions are manipulated to fit somebody else’s agenda
/r/MensRights23/11/21 02:02 AM
1

what racist and sexist statements?💀 all stem means is science, technology, engineering, and mathematics. i’m not talking about whatever tf you’re saying. you’re seeing what you want to see due to your own bias, and honestly i’m not impressed
/r/MensRights23/11/21 01:51 AM
1

i’m not necessarily claiming that he does have a fetish, more that it could be perceived that way
/r/MensRights23/11/21 01:48 AM
1

i’m a racist and a sexist for stating a fact? it is a fact that in the past rich white men were the most privileged group (at least in stem)
/r/MensRights23/11/21 01:36 AM
-1

besides the definition a fetish is usually thought of as a more extreme kink, but that’s not my point. getting choked has its risks, but only for those involved. a fetish of an entire race/ethnicity is harmful against an entire non consenting group. i think you may be getting a fetish and a preference confused. it’s ok to prefer dating a non american or whatever but weird to fetishize them yes i believe “kink shaming” is ok in the case of a misandry or misogyny fetish because it’s a fucked up th…
/r/MensRights23/11/21 01:24 AM
1

that’s a big accusation you make accusing me of lying, especially when i specifically mentioned i didn’t heavily research each subject. and why would you ask for proof if you openly admit you wouldn’t believe it? also, they’re online conferences because of covid and it’s thanksgiving break, so stop it with the finger pointing. women are very much capable of inventing things, so i’m not sure why you’re so determined in disproving it… if you claim you want equality, you should believe the genders …
/r/MensRights23/11/21 01:17 AM
-3

meh it depends. there’s a huge difference between wanting to be choked or peed on or whatever (no matter how nasty you might think it is, it’s not harming anyone) VS a fetish of a certain culture which leads to stereotypes and other harmful factors (believe it or not there’s even a “misogyny fetish” and a small but very much existing “misandry fetish”) so it’s definitely a case by case issue
/r/MensRights23/11/21 01:05 AM
1

for me both of them were mainly infographics of the “ideal male/female body” in ___ different countries
/r/MensRights22/11/21 11:17 PM
-9

it probably sounded like a fetish even though you may not have meant it that way, it’s creepy when anyone has a foreigner obsession
/r/MensRights22/11/21 11:14 PM
1

it’s the claim you asked for and i do understand i really don’t have time i’m in the middle of school conferences and i’m sick what do you mean “prove that point?” i wasn’t physically there all i could provide you with is the same information you could find
/r/MensRights22/11/21 05:13 PM
1

you want me to individually prove it? why don’t you? i don’t nearly have the time for that, plus of course looking it up you’re going to get a man for a few of them since that was the point. although i’m sure there are credible sources a few searches away
/r/MensRights22/11/21 03:02 PM
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i have to disagree with this one. it may seem like a minor offense but imagine being the person who’s nude got sent around, that’s worse than being put on a registry (although i could agree with sealing it from the public or something like that)
/r/MensRights22/11/21 06:17 AM
3

the double helix -rosalind franklin nuclear fission -lise meitner radio guidance system -hedy lamarr paper bag machine -margaret knight monopoly -elizabeth magie computer programming -ada lovelace womens health findings -trotula of salerno neuroscience findings -candace pert dark matter -vera rubin microbial genetics -esther lederberg pulsars -jocelyn bell burnell first electronic computer -the ENIAC programmers sex chromosomes -nettie stevens nuclear physicist -chien-shiung wu disposable diaper…
/r/MensRights22/11/21 01:46 AM
-1

the title here is a bit misleading, to me it sounds like she was confused about the reason it was named that
/r/MensRights21/11/21 08:20 PM
2

agreed
/r/MensRights21/11/21 06:02 PM
1

fair enough, let’s just remember it’s not the girls faults, it’s those who are using them
/r/MensRights21/11/21 08:11 AM
1

yeah i don’t mean it’s exclusive to women i just thought this post was a bit ridiculous basically claiming men invented everything when minorities in the past have been stolen from
/r/MensRights20/11/21 09:25 PM
-1

we should be careful with the word “always”, but in general i agree with you
/r/MensRights20/11/21 09:22 PM
1

that’s not what i’m saying, but statistics should not be swept under the rug as attention seeking behavior
/r/MensRights20/11/21 09:21 PM
1

how are self harming girls used to kill men?
/r/MensRights20/11/21 09:20 PM
2

yeah that’s a very possible situation, even things as simple as attachment disorder and fear of abandonment can cause this behavior
/r/MensRights20/11/21 07:43 PM
0

being a youtuber is a different issue. i’m more talking about the everyday person, however even a youtuber something is clearly wrong if they can’t admit to doing something wrong or being boring
/r/MensRights20/11/21 07:42 PM
-1

no sane person pretends to kill themselves for attention, it may be a cry for help but “attention seeking” is plain disrespectful. if their intent wasn’t to kill themselves something else is going on
/r/MensRights20/11/21 06:50 PM
1

can we not label suicide as attention seeking please and thank you, wether it’s a male or female
/r/MensRights20/11/21 06:43 PM
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the problem with this is that a fake suicide attempt or fake suicidal behavior isn’t normal either. sure it may make you a complete dirt bag but it also points to other issues. if you’re so desperately trying to get attention that you pretend to be suicidal there’s no way there’s not some underlying condition, idk, just a thought
/r/MensRights20/11/21 06:42 PM
1

i think i read somewhere that men are more likely to attempt without telling or talking to anyone, and in a more violent way that’s almost sure to cause death (jumping, gun, etc…) so women may attempt suicide more than men, but men succeed more.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 06:40 PM
3

can i get the suicide source please?
/r/MensRights20/11/21 06:37 PM
0

haven’t there been many historical instances where women discover/invent something and a man takes credit?
/r/MensRights20/11/21 06:35 PM
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i understand that frustration. however just because someone doesn’t have a right doesn’t mean they don’t deserve it. equality should be pushing people up to the same level, not dragging them down to the same level
/r/MensRights20/11/21 05:21 PM
0

i suggest you do some more research, they’re not just expectations. and are you really asking me that? if what you want is perfectly equal reproductive rights abortion bans are not the way to go. it takes away the choice for the mother and father
/r/MensRights20/11/21 05:19 PM
-14

i can’t tell are you being sarcastic??
/r/MensRights20/11/21 03:34 AM
1

i’m not saying the idea is flawed, it’s the execution. tons of people complain about how it isn’t further celebrated, but there’s little action taken to drum up support
/r/MensRights20/11/21 03:32 AM
-24

abortion rights edit: why am i getting downvoted for stating a fact? i’m not saying it’s mens fault or anything like that, but women do not have full reproductive freedom
/r/MensRights20/11/21 01:18 AM
-47

unfortunately that’s quickly disappearing:( edit: i’m talking about abortion bans, not sure why i’m being downvoted here…
/r/MensRights20/11/21 12:12 AM
0

if something is flawed the best option is usually to change it, not throw it out. i (usually) don’t think we should kill criminals for doing something bad, rather reform them
/r/MensRights19/11/21 11:51 PM
1

yes but how is that iwd fault? it’s whoever runs the account which we need to talk about, if that’s the outcome you want but aren’t willing to start nothing is going to change
/r/MensRights19/11/21 03:59 PM
1

i don’t think you’re listening to what i’m saying
/r/MensRights19/11/21 03:40 PM
-1

no, what i’m saying is the black lives matter already exists and it’s undeniable that black people experience more injustice than white people. so if someone says “black lives matter” and your response is “no, all lives matter!!👹” it’s disrespectful because not only is black lives matter not saying they’re the only ones that matter but it completely robs the movements purpose
/r/MensRights19/11/21 03:38 PM
0

what i’m saying is it’s nobody’s individual job to recognize something of such a large topic, that’s why people need to work together
/r/MensRights19/11/21 06:37 AM
-5

there are two though? mens day just isn’t as recognized, and it’s us as the people that can change stuff like that instead of tearing other groups down. you’re right we don’t need a mens day or a womens day, however it’s definitely an interesting idea that can have educational benefits
/r/MensRights19/11/21 06:30 AM
1

i get your point but i’m still not sure it makes much sense, how would they get money from paying men less than women and other people?
/r/MensRights19/11/21 05:48 AM
-14

that’s not true? if there’s both a mens day and a womens day then neither of them are inherently sexist. and if there isn’t one or the other there’s nothing stopping us from making one
/r/MensRights19/11/21 05:41 AM
1

that’s not what i’m saying at all though, i mean that no greedy person would take away money from themselves even if it’s just a little on purpose
/r/MensRights19/11/21 03:38 AM
1

they can totally be sexist i’m just unsure why they would purposeful pay men less when they themselves are men and therefore would be digging their own graves
/r/MensRights19/11/21 03:10 AM
1

anything that pushes people to stay at home with each other does contribute to domestic abuse (nothing to do with gender imo)
/r/MensRights19/11/21 03:07 AM
3

honestly i think the bigger issue for women is how they’re expected to act perfect, unlike men who are often expected to act poorly (both of which are horrible standards)
/r/MensRights19/11/21 03:03 AM
-53

why take away something important for both instead of working to celebrate both?
/r/MensRights19/11/21 03:00 AM
2

if abortion is legal men shouldn’t have to pay child support? what’s your opinion if the man and woman are together having the child and he leaves after birth
/r/MensRights19/11/21 02:58 AM
6

i thought google was made by two men will the largest shareholders being men??
/r/MensRights19/11/21 02:56 AM
-12

it completely depends what the context is. sometimes it’s like saying all lives matter to black lives matter (because all lives do matter, but it’s taking away from black people when you say that phrase in response)
/r/MensRights19/11/21 02:53 AM
0

suicide can be driven by people, but unless there’s literally a gun held to your head it’s by definition not murder. if we included suicide in statistics it would fuck them up and make everything unreliable
/r/MensRights17/11/21 08:54 PM
0

uhh… honestly i have no idea where you’re getting this from because it’s not me. get it out of your head that we’re having an argument because we’re not, it’s just a conversation. kinda offensive you would suggest i don’t even have my own thoughts, especially when im actively for mens rights…
/r/MensRights17/11/21 05:13 AM
0

you guys? i am one person stop looping me in with whoever it is that you hate lmao
/r/MensRights17/11/21 03:38 AM
0

yeah can you stop referring to feminists like one evil person, you don’t even know me. and i can only do what i can, it’s not my sole responsibility to fight against every injustice as that’s literally impossible
/r/MensRights17/11/21 02:27 AM
0

again, those are not feminists. stop falling for internet trolls and 10 year olds who don’t know any better before getting angry at me and other real feminists
/r/MensRights17/11/21 12:57 AM
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i’m not sure if you understand lawyering. often times there are court appointed lawyers, or if the offender has money there’s supply where’s theres demand. it would be bad if the lawyer was doing charity work for something they believe in if we looked at this lawyer as immoral or as a “gremlin” it would knock out a huge percentage of lawyers (i.e. those defending sexual assault, murder, terrorism, etc…) just doing their job. we need lawyers (legal representation) in order for the justice system …
/r/PussyPass17/11/21 12:28 AM
4

where i’m from sex education is actually pretty good. the boys and girls weren’t separated except on very few specific occasions and there weren’t any passive aggressive broad hidden statements. So it seems to be progressing for the better (IMO) but not fast enough and not everywhere. many places still PREACH abstinence and refuse to teach kids about sex let alone sexual assault which needs to change
/r/MensRights16/11/21 06:05 AM
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i mean he’s getting paid to do it, serial killers and everything still get lawyers but it doesn’t mean they agree with them
/r/PussyPass16/11/21 05:59 AM
1

yeah obviously mental illness and life struggles aren’t an excuse for whatever someone’s doing, but its sickening that people use it against each other
/r/MensRights15/11/21 11:56 PM
0

her mental health history is none of your business
/r/MensRights15/11/21 09:23 PM
1

it’s like saying white people are racist, yes there are plenty white racists but it doesn’t make the entire race bad
/r/MensRights15/11/21 09:22 PM
0

it’s not feminists responsibility to do that lmao… others should be able to tell themselves
/r/MensRights15/11/21 08:06 PM
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trust me most of us don’t. i’m pretty sure what they may be talking about is the misconception many men and women have that fore skin is unsanitary (which just isn’t true) unfortunately there’s still lots of debate about this topic but if you’re doing the bare minimum of cleaning foreskin poses no “danger” i’ve even seen circumcised men calling intact ones things like “worms” which is just bizarre 💀
/r/MensRights15/11/21 05:55 AM
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sometimes i see girls and some lgbtq guys saying they want something along the lines of a “sickly skeleton pale boy”…. and then when someone calls it out half the time they’ll play it off as a preference, but it’s not normal to have a preference for a dying person. i’ve also had disordered eating for a long time and over the years as much as i wanted to be liked, i knew it would be weird for someone to love my body. all the “gym bro” “gains” stuff is so toxic too, and pressuring boys to go at so…
/r/MensRights15/11/21 05:44 AM
0

no that’s not what i said at all. i mean that it wasn’t true what the other person was saying
/r/MensRights15/11/21 03:52 AM
1

are you not defending the article?
/r/MensRights14/11/21 10:11 PM
0

yeah that’s my point describing to the other person why making women abnormally beautiful isn’t an actively good thing that’s supposed to be empowering or whatever
/r/MensRights14/11/21 10:10 PM
1

the males in the show are generally bad, however if you’ve watched the show and line it up with the article the information doesn’t match up completely
/r/MensRights14/11/21 10:08 PM
1

that’s not even remotely true, do you expect every show to be completely sunshine and rainbows? because it wouldn’t work at all…. i sure don’t see anyone complaining about stories about criminals, the holocaust, racism, etc… at least not to this degree saying they shouldn’t exist whatsoever, it’s erasing an entire real life experience that does happen to some people maid is not a show for “man haters”
/r/MensRights14/11/21 06:53 PM
1

definitely not the same but “wonderful” isn’t exactly right either. women are often portrayed in the media in a way catering to men, super overly sexualized, meek, etc… which is harmful especially to young girls and boys who expect some to behave that way
/r/MensRights14/11/21 06:48 PM
2

there are definitely a good handful but should be more
/r/MensRights14/11/21 06:46 PM
-1

just trying to have a mellow conversation, you can respectfully disagree instead of downvoting or whatever lol, i wanted to hear you out but i understand the frustration as well…. have a nice evening
/r/MensRights14/11/21 09:43 AM
-3

that’s not what maids doing though, it’s a story about abuse, therefore they need an abuser. maybe an extensive disclaimer at the end or beginning would be helpful to clarify the story isn’t meant to describe all men because it’s not, but IMO not allowing shows like this to be made at all is just as harmful
/r/MensRights14/11/21 09:38 AM
0

maid never said all men, plus a false accusation can’t be made in a show since it’s fiction (unless it’s actually about a false accusation) do you think it’s better to completely erase shows with bad men in them? not sure what the alternative is here…
/r/MensRights14/11/21 09:31 AM
-1

i haven’t watched those although i’ve heard of some. you do understand that shows and movies usually aren’t actually portraying how society really is? (prime example being the hand maids tale) it’s why it’s a show for entertainment and not a scholarly article unless i’m wrong and it does state in these examples that this is how real life is and always is, i don’t see the issue. as long as it’s not making false claims
/r/MensRights14/11/21 09:12 AM
0

are you looking for them?
/r/MensRights14/11/21 08:54 AM
1

honestly this goes for everyone IMO, don’t walk closely behind someone alone in the dark it’s just creepy. and i don’t even mean in a gender issues way it’s just weird lmao
/r/MensRights14/11/21 08:36 AM
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Not sure that exactly makes sense, unless you’ve got a really good disguise or are doing it online it’s hard to really experience what being another gender is like
/r/MensRights14/11/21 08:33 AM
1

i know you’re trans, but nobody’s experiences are exactly uniform. for many trans people it makes them extremely dysphoric to use a certain bathroom. and it’s not exactly a vanishingly small minority. adding some sanitary products to a bathroom isn’t redesigning a building either, it’s super cheap
/r/MensRights14/11/21 08:29 AM
2

it does say that but many people don’t understand the difference, and it doesn’t elaborate
/r/MensRights14/11/21 08:25 AM
1

it’s a film about abuse and how the woman experiences constant hardship and injustice… if they made almost any character good it would make no sense
/r/MensRights14/11/21 08:24 AM
3

they’re both a bad thing, we need to represent things as they really are
/r/MensRights14/11/21 08:20 AM
3

Nate didn’t even boot her out for not sleeping with him, it’s because she slept with someone else. If every show was like this it would be a problem, but 1 show with quite a few problematic male characters isn’t an issue. It’s a story about constant injustice and abuse… not sure how they would make it work without the injustice and abuse
/r/MensRights14/11/21 08:17 AM
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is this article talking about cases that were thrown out/withdrawn/etc… or ones proven false? very different things and i can’t tell what they’re trying to say
/r/MensRights14/11/21 08:12 AM
7

the thing about shutting boys up but not the girls is definitely a problem. however the free points thing might not be since he gave an explanation and it’s a thing a ton of teachers do so nobody gets upset and makes a huge deal or even complains to administration (of course i can’t tell the dynamic of a class that i’m not in, if you think he’s being sexist you should 100% talk to the principle)
/r/MensRights14/11/21 07:58 AM
1

“Living in a country with gender equality benefits men’s health and shows up as lower mortality rates, higher well-being, half the risk of being depressed, higher likelihood to have protected sex, lower suicide rates and a 40% reduced risk of a violent death.” -WHO While it’s still debated and some things are difficult to prove, in the paper the WHO concluded that men don’t die younger do to biological differences. instead they die younger from societal pressures in countries with bad gender ine…
/r/MensRights13/11/21 10:47 PM
1

when did i say that? feminism has done lots for us
/r/MensRights13/11/21 09:33 PM
1

the government gets money from taxes to add to their giant pool of money, trust me they have enough (usually)
/r/MensRights13/11/21 09:09 PM
1

yes that makes sense and would be a perfectly good idea. (although it would still be best if we just made service optional) since that doesn’t hurt either gender, and is just bringing one up from a bad situation (even if it’s just a little difference) as long as we’re not assuming every man in the military could’ve mad the top most salary (they should be decompensated the same amount based on time served) otherwise it would be unfair yet again
/r/MensRights13/11/21 09:08 PM
1

starting near the bottom, the “ok symbol” thing is ridiculous. just like the word feminism, it’s cowardly to surrender a good word and movement to a few selfish people twisting it for their own benefit. did you know that the “ok symbol” is also F in sign language? i’m not going to stop using a letter in my alphabet because some white people decided it’s theirs i still don’t think you’re getting my point. those “feminists” are not the majority of the movement (or a part at all) because they do no…
/r/MensRights13/11/21 09:04 PM
0

i legitimately mean no offense but it sounds like you read one source such as the boy crisis and refuse to look into the other history of real gender rights activists. language is constantly evolving and so are different groups of people with different beliefs. it’s people like you who are defining feminism as something bad. very few people say they hate (for example) christianity because there’s so many racists, sexists, pro life, homophobe, etc… people in the religion, because we KNOW that’s n…
/r/MensRights13/11/21 08:55 PM
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giving a man a feather has no legal value. i highly doubt women do that today anyways, and even so as i said it’s not all women or even close to that. even if some women are attempting to manipulate men into joining the military we cannot blame an entire gender, it’s just as sexist as making an entire gender join the military. that’s like saying because some men illegally park all men should all be fined
/r/MensRights13/11/21 08:46 PM
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it’s like saying that because you’ve never met a therapist you like “i don’t like therapists” when it’s such a huge category of people trying to do something good. all of the things you listed that were told to you by “feminists” weren’t actually feminists. they were most likely either: 1) trolls 2) sexists hiding under a label 3) uneducated/misguided i see why people are angry it’s called feminism but it’s merely because they usually don’t understand the history and are falling for insane troll…
/r/MensRights13/11/21 10:14 AM
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again though, that’s the goverment making the men pay, not women. instead of making women do the same bad things, we should be taking away the bad things from men tax for military service for those who don’t want to go is debatable, but it should never be done where the military isn’t optional (we’re not talking abt america in this discussion if that’s what you mean) although i’m also pretty anti violence so i’m not a huge military fan in the first place. if the military is going on it should be…
/r/MensRights13/11/21 06:32 AM
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feminism isn’t just for women or about women though, just because it has fem in the name doesn’t mean that. it’s like when a person discovers a new element and names it after themselves, anybody can still use it, and the element doesn’t actually have anything to do with them alone. i’m not sure what meninism would be but it could be a gender neutral movement, after all it’s just a word it’s like when people hear “black lives matter” and assume only black lives matter, but that’s not what it mean…
/r/MensRights13/11/21 06:30 AM
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are you saying the term “fem” in itself is sexist…? because by that logic words including but not limited to: man human female woman femboy fem feminine femininity feminize businesswoman congresswoman underclassman assemblywoman manifestation manicure sportsmanship dehumanized dehumanizing manage manageable craftsmanship manufacturing businessman romantic romanticism pyromaniac showmanship manneristic ETC…. are all sexist
/r/MensRights13/11/21 06:05 AM
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i understand exactly what you’re saying, which is why using feminist/feminism as bad words is such a harmful idea. not only is it making (whoever’s using the words negatively) look bad and make it unlikely for them to be listened to, but it’s erasing the real idea of feminism. when people say “i hate feminists” “ugh stupid feminists”, etc… it makes them look really bad, especially to feminists who believe in the real principles since it would basically be saying “ugh i hate women that support eq…
/r/MensRights13/11/21 06:00 AM
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wether or not you see it as punishment that’s what taking away someone’s money for something they didn’t do is. the first inequality doesn’t have a reason to exist, which is why we have the power to change it. it’s cowardly to just dig more graves instead of trying to cure an illness. there’s nothing to stop us from being racist just like there nothing to stop tax evasion, unfortunately when there’s a will there’s a way. do you think it’s fair to make someone pay for something they didn’t ask fo…
/r/MensRights13/11/21 05:51 AM
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that’s a huge generalization… anyone you see doing that isn’t a feminist
/r/MensRights13/11/21 05:45 AM
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yeah and it sucks when people are more privileged than others, but it gives us no right to punish them for something they didn’t ask for. it’s like saying we should be racist to white people because black people experience racism
/r/MensRights13/11/21 05:27 AM
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i’m not sure what you’re saying in the beginning but either way the government should be paying. because you understand that it’s not random women doing the harm?
/r/MensRights13/11/21 05:25 AM
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yeah classic manipulation, i can understand that those are legitimate concerns and makes sense why she would think that but still not really an ok thing to say
/r/MensRights13/11/21 05:23 AM
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it’s not the women that give themselves the privilege though, it’s the government if you want an eye for an eye on behalf of men go for it, i think the state of things is wrong too, but it’s not womens eyes making men be in the military
/r/MensRights13/11/21 03:03 AM
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because it’s not random female citizens forcing the men. if you were in a man in the military would you not feel guilty if you were being given money taken from people doing nothing to you? especially those who may have needed the money as well
/r/MensRights13/11/21 02:36 AM
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but that “recompensation” was wrongfully taken from someone else. personally i wouldn’t want dirty money
/r/MensRights13/11/21 02:26 AM
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i mean actual feminists. anyone who says or believes stuff like that is just a fake with a poor excuse. it’s like when people twist their religion in order to be homophobic. (radfems might as well be feminists on hard drugs, like when a group starts promoting the marriage of relatives) the idea that we should bring one person down in order to make them even with another is selfish. instead we should focus on bringing the other one up
/r/MensRights13/11/21 02:23 AM
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two inequalities don’t cancel each other out, it just gets worse. i see what you’re saying about the only fining certain women but it would simply be impossible. there’s no good way to prove what someone believes. a real feminist wouldn’t say that women shouldn’t go to the military and men should because that demolishes the whole base in the belief of equality. (honestly even an awful radfem wouldn’t say that because it implies women are weaker)
/r/MensRights13/11/21 01:48 AM
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that’s awful, good he didn’t get fired. did the friends say that she said that? i hope they didn’t hold it back
/r/MensRights13/11/21 01:26 AM
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assuming you’re not talking about america i can see where you’re coming from, but this still isn’t the right way to go about it. the government should be paying for it not women (since it’s not women as a whole drafting people into the military) although we should skip compensation and go ahead to making the military completely optional just as making men serve in the military is awful it’s also awful to make an entire gender pay money for something they’re not doing this would be moving in the …
/r/MensRights13/11/21 01:22 AM
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“No.” if she doesn’t respect that right you most definitely shouldn’t have a baby edit: if you really want to use an excuse a good one is saying you don’t trust your dna with some corporation
/r/MensRights13/11/21 01:14 AM
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that’s a part of feminism, yes, not the definition. edit: seeing as you’re someone who seriously uses terms like feminazi (offensive asf, primarily towards jewish people..) i suggest you do some research into the actual basis of feminism
/r/MensRights13/11/21 01:11 AM
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nope:)
/r/MensRights13/11/21 01:10 AM
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i support legit mens rights problems because that’s what it means to be a real feminist
/r/MensRights12/11/21 07:20 PM
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Let’s be real the whole concept of “stronger gender” is absolute bullshit, nobody cares if one gender can lift 3 more pounds. It doesn’t matter if someone’s using the argument against a man or woman it’s just dumb
/r/MensRights11/11/21 09:50 PM
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i’m not a troll or a lurker, i’m someone who’s actually willing to talk about the problems in this world without calling people feminazis or whatever the new hottest word is against whatever group. being “pro active” isn’t an excuse for violence, violence doesn’t get anyone anywhere. if you want anything to happen the people must believe, forcing them will only inspire hatred
/r/MensRights11/11/21 09:40 PM
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yeah i’m not interested in talking to someone who fails to converse normally, it’s not that hard to be civil and hear people out. good luck with whatever you’re trying to do here lmfao
/r/MensRights11/11/21 06:55 PM
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Nobody here is trying to push him down, it’s understandable a woman (yes including in America) is outraged that her life is painted as easier than a man’s. Yet again I’ll mention that I’m not defending her, merely protecting what she said against “goons” from blowing it out of proportion. She probably shouldn’t have mentioned women because it’s not what OP needed, but none of this is the appropriate response. The people I saw being the worst in his comments were men telling him to suck it the fu…
/r/MensRights11/11/21 06:16 PM
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i’m not saying what she said is good, i’m just stating this title is obvious clickbait and misleading stuff is disgusting
/r/MensRights11/11/21 05:53 PM
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i’m sorry IM homophobic? im not even straight
/r/MensRights11/11/21 05:52 PM
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I’m not saying what she did was perfect or the right response but this is over dramatic and the title is clickbait. the situation clearly sucks for everyone in the position, but OP was making quite rude remarks towards those offering helpful advice (that either had nothing to do with women or were saying it’s easier to be one) it’s a two way street
/r/MensRights11/11/21 08:41 AM
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uh you can have trauma, bipolar, bpd, etc… and live a relatively normal life. it doesn’t invalidate her opinions at all and it’s gross that you’d bring it up
/r/MensRights11/11/21 08:37 AM
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are you talking about u/sweetEVILone ?? because that’s not even what they’re saying
/r/MensRights11/11/21 04:46 AM
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i mean did you read the article though? it’s not entirely about men it’s “LGBTQ+” mainly stating gay bi lesbian and trans. Where’s your evidence for the lesbian claim? 100% not more than cishet men, for lgbtq men it’s debatable. At the least lesbians are barely respected or even recognized as a real thing to many people BTW idk if you live in the us but ellen is a terrible person and nobody likes her, the only influence she has is a weird fan base and some money. also why do you have to say “pus…
/r/MensRights11/11/21 04:37 AM
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i’m not saying tinder is great, but if it’s making you depressed or violent you’ve got other problems
/r/MensRights11/11/21 12:05 AM
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why’s it tagged activism/support?
/r/MensRights11/11/21 12:01 AM
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yeah battle and force just aren’t good tactics
/r/MensRights11/11/21 12:00 AM
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if it’s women’s problem for menstruating then wouldn’t it be mens problem for drinking a ton of beer? also i have been to concerts/festivals/sports events and let’s be real there is no good way to make things very clean regardless of gender. drugs, eating, alcohol, sex, whatever tf is going on people are bound to throw up, piss everywhere, etc… especially in portapoties that are warm, literally no air in there, nasty, and lacking in facilities. my school has over two thousand students, and that’…
/r/MensRights10/11/21 12:30 AM
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let me start by saying i don’t agree with the woman in the article either although i see your point here and agree that it’s difficult to equalize anatomy, it’s not that big of a problem if you put some effort into it. all of the bathrooms at my school are gender neutral (yes every single one) and i assure you nobody’s pissing outside. there’s stalls but not walls to the “room”, i’m not exactly sure why but i believe it’s to stop students from doing stuff that’s not allowed, or so people can’t m…
/r/MensRights09/11/21 11:53 PM
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the whole point of a gender neutral bathroom is that all genders can use it. plus how did she know the person was a man? it would be awfully rude to tell someone to go to the mens bathroom if that’s not where they wanted to go. of course we all get angry when there’s a line for something but no single one of us is entitled to first place, regardless of gender. 1 more person in line should be at most a 5 minute wait i wouldn’t necessarily say this is a mens rights issue, but it’s definitely a hum…
/r/MensRights09/11/21 11:43 PM
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i believe there’s no black and white answer, things will almost always be different no matter the situation
/r/MensRights08/11/21 12:46 AM
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not sure i understand what you’re trying to say. do you mean do i think that large statistics come from genetics and life choices?
/r/MensRights08/11/21 12:04 AM
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i didn’t say it’s not a problem, in fact i said it’s a large problem my point is that it’s not a mens RIGHTS problem men aren’t dying earlier because of their rights (yes there are cases and exceptions like being forced to go to war, false imprisonment although that’s an everyone’s rights issue, situations where men are forced to work in poor conditions, etc…) the problem with this isn’t that it’s a fake issue because it’s real, but the cause of it isn’t men having worse rights then women. (not …
/r/MensRights07/11/21 01:37 PM
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i’m not having an argument just discussing why i don’t believe this is a mens rights issue. also what assumptions and biases are you talking about? you do know that this sub is anti feminist right? (not saying anti women, don’t accuse me of that) but it is at least 85% anti feminist
/r/MensRights07/11/21 01:01 PM
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i’m sorry what? that doesn’t make sense.
/r/MensRights07/11/21 12:56 PM
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a societal problem posted in a mens rights sub implies misandry, which most blame on feminists, which are thought of as women
/r/MensRights07/11/21 12:09 PM
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i don’t know what their point is, it’s not womens fault that people drink themselves to death in russia. living longer is something you’re responsible for by yourself, eating healthier, exercising, etc… and it’s not necessarily a poverty issue either, as more women are impoverished than men. you can also end up with a healthier life than a rich person, doing so with very little. i agree the life expectancy gap is a large problem we need to fix, but it’s (generally) not a mens rights problem. the…
/r/MensRights07/11/21 08:01 AM
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