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Rejecting advances is perfectly fine, just understand that if you’re a girl, and you’re friends with a straight male, there’s a decent chance it’s not because he also wants to be your platonic friend. I’m not saying that is always the case, just don’t be so naive.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/19 06:26 PM
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I appreciate the unlimited power reference there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 04:13 PM
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Fake account. Look at post history, later on this person posted another similar post but said she was older.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/12/18 04:27 PM
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Lmao I understand why this guy would feel uncomfortable with that cause he only has a partner count of 6, but if I’m going to be honest 20 is pretty average nowadays for women and guys who started getting laid in high school.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/12/18 08:06 PM
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I still don’t buy it as a concept nearly as hard as other RP concepts. Sure people will say one thing and do another, that definitely true, but the reason I still don’t think that this is that huge of a phenomenon is because if it was there’d be a lot of cheating wives who would be getting their unfaithful asses killed if these types of situations happened on the level that TRP would have you believe. Wow, I can’t believe I’m actually arguing against TRP rn, hahaha!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 08:53 PM
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As someone who leans RP the vast majority of the time this is one RP scare story that I don’t buy at all. I’ve literally never met a woman who thought having another man’s baby and then passing it off as their husband’s was acceptable to do at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 05:08 PM
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Yanno this is one area where literally every woman I know IRL totally agrees with the idea that paternity tests should absolutely be available for fathers if they so desire one. Not necessarily mandatory, but easily accessible and available if felt necessary. I’m very RP leaning but I have never in my life met a woman who thinks that having a kid that is not their husbands is okay in any way. That’s only something I see on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:58 PM
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I’ve had this situation before. I’ll just say something as simple as “alright, I gotchu”, but then just keep escalating. If she really doesn’t want anything to happen she’ll stop you, and if she stop you a second time, then for sure stop. Can’t tell you how many situations I’ll be in where that line is thrown at me then I just slow down a little but keep escalating and then in no time you’ll be banging.
/r/seduction03/08/18 04:40 PM
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Was a musician in my region for a few years post high school... can confirm that this shit absolutely happens
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 10:34 AM
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I was bullied from K-8th grade, mostly due to being fat. It lasted till one day I got violent and attacked one of the kids who was bullying me. Ended up get expelled from my middle school cause I wouldn’t apologize when the principal ordered me to. This may be a little fucked up, but now that I’m older I see my experience being bullied as necessary, although I would be lying if I said it didn’t come at some mental/emotional cost. The hard truth is that I was fat, weak, awkward, nerdy and weird, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:38 PM
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Somewhere down the line (probably the late 1960’s), liberals in America just shifted massively to the left. However, they always kept referring to themselves as liberals despite adapting what Europeans would call Leftist ideology. Basically, nobody ever corrected them, so liberals in America = leftists in Europe. The difference between liberals and libertarians is that liberals want big government where as libertarians want small government. American liberals also flirt with socialism. For liber…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 10:40 PM
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Totally. Most people are there for themselves, just like you are. When I’m working out, all I’m thinking about is doing what I’m doing, I️ don’t care about the other people around me.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 01:54 PM
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Every woman or girl I've ever met. Women constantly complaining men don't treat them right, but then they go off and have sex with those men. It's just a logical fallacy I've seen among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 02:29 PM
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Lmao you think I'm afraid to say this to a woman's face? I was inspired to post this after a discussion with one of my FWB's.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/17 02:27 PM
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I actually think no matter the demographic, society should get out of this "well, as a blah blah blah... I think that..." type of thinking. Just because say you're a specific demographic, why then does that give you the ability to speak for that demographic? It takes away individuality and agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 01:16 PM
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"First of all I'm not a woman" Yet here you are acting exactly like one. By wife, I sure you actually mean life-sized anime waifu that is all worn out because of how many times you fucked it. Nice projection on the "used a lot of words to say nothing". Enjoy your nature documentary which I'm sure isn't in actuality some faggy anime film with your "wife". LMAOOO 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 01:07 PM
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I agree with this. I also think that it makes sense for men who don't get laid to hate it, because they're not getting laid. At the same time though, some of these guys who do get mad are just weak men who don't want to change to get something they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 01:22 PM
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If they don't know it now they'll find out the hard way like this woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/17 01:21 PM
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I'd actually be happy to tell you all you want to know but I'll PM you as I don't want to put all my family background for everyone to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 01:44 PM
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"I was friends with my husband for 4 years before circumstances got us dating, and 2 years later we we married. My marriage probably looks very different from what you want though." LMAO you can say that again, that's the exact nightmare I'm trying to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 01:22 PM
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You know I'm not like any of these desperate guys on this sub right? I have no problem getting laid and if I wanted to I could get a gf too it's just the personality of women my age I find repulsive. So don't talk to me as if I need advice on how to get get women, because honestly in this age of tinder and other dating apps, I think it's easier than ever. I have many interests like running, lifting, hiking, rock climbing and I play guitar. I mean I'm a bartender and at least twice a week I'll ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 12:48 PM
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Women today are encouraged to continue this lifestyle outside of college, I don't believe you. Also I have it's not some fictional ideal. I don't want to settle down and marry a damaged goods former whore. I fuck these girls now I don't care how much "growth" you do, I would not be able to respect my wife if she went through that "wild phase" like that. And honestly I also don't respect people who need to go through a wild phase to be able to "find themselves". I find that type of person to be i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 12:13 PM
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I don't know if you're just older or you live in a different universe but I'm 20 years old and in college and ALL these girls are riding the CC and some even feel proud about being total sluts and whores and brag about not getting married and how much dick they can get. I'm telling you I witness this shit first hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 07:50 PM
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So imagine an absolute terrible scenario. Maybe a meteor or asteroid hits the Earth (which is way more likely then you would think according to astronomers), or an EMP goes off and then there's no more lights or internet, or hell, maybe climate change just begins to fuck up the environment in such a way that people need to fight over resources... our society is literally so fucked in a scenario like that, especially western societies. In scenarios like these, men would have to step up to the pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 07:28 PM
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I mean I do agree with a lot of people on here that society will find some way to balance it out i.e men "enjoying the decline". But at the same time, this remains true only if our society and civilization remains stable and upward like it has been essentially since 1945. If some sort of terrible crisis happened, where "men" so to speak need to step up, it will be really bad because there won't be any men to step up to the plate. Lotta people nowadays are under the illusion that we can't go back…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 07:18 PM
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You're wrong about that. If there really was a girl that I was attracted to AND genuinely liked as a person I'd have no problem being completely monogamous to her. If all women decided not to have sex till marriage I mean yeah that would suck but I would still like and respect that kind of girl more than girls today. I mean isn't it common knowledge that sex is better when you actually have feelings and care about the other person? Yeah, I've never experienced that. I mean I'm young so on some l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 07:05 PM
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So here's how I understand what you just pointed out. Ideally, RP guys and myself would want to settle down and get married young. BUT, because of the sexual revolution, that dream has been ruined. Because of that, we don't have much of a choice except to spin plates for the rest of our lives. Ideally, I wouldn't want to do this, but because there is no longer marriage worth-women, what else I'm I suppose to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 11:40 AM
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They can't say what they mean because they know how it's going to be taken. 'Empathy' is just the best way they can say it without being outright. You hit on an interesting point actually, and one that I agree with. You said these men are acting like women because they don't say what they actually want. Although the men are doing it for different reasons, you've identified the problem! They act like women, which may be one of the roots as to why they can't get a girlfriend or get laid. I've only…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 09:03 PM
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That's really surprising because I've never seen men get it easy from anyone male or female for cheating. In my experience when the girl cheats everyone comes to her defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 03:41 PM
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I mean... are you serious? I can't even believe we're in the same universe if you think that that's an absurd claim. I already told you everything about Europe, which I thank my lucky stars I'm not there. They're terribly fucked. If then don't stop now by 2030 Europe is majority Muslim. If you don't see a problem there you're just naive. In America, Americans hate their fellow citizens! I mean, that's really fucking bad. You got pro trump and anti trump people going at it as if they are not the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 12:04 PM
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LMAO I never said it's the most unrest in history!! Lol fucking READ. I said it's one of the worst times, not THE worst. And it's relative as well. We've had more or less a pretty stable society for a long while now. So although the unrest isn't as bad as past events, the fact we've gone so long stable and now having some unrest is particularly unnerving because we've gone so long with relative peace and stability. I'm not making the argument at all that our society has the most unrest in all of…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 11:46 AM
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Lmao you sound like you can't even read period if you read what I wrote and came to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 11:19 AM
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See but people aren't like you. People don't just do it with friends, they get in your face, and if you disagree with them they get really fucking pissed. Also I don't watch any TV news (you assuming bitch), just do math. If the European birth rate is low and migrants keep coming in and their birth rate is high, eventually Europe will become Europitstan. There's no other way about it. Don't tell me you're naive enough to think they can actually assimilate. Yay multiculturalism! LMAOOOO. Hate to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 11:04 AM
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I mean I don't know if you're in America, but saying your political allegiance in front of the wrong people can cause you BIG problems. To me that is unnerving. In Europe, the continent is pretty much killing itself with the migrant problem. With Trump as President, many of our European allies are really starting to question America as a reliable ally, meanwhile America is getting closer than ever with Russia. Also I'm in college, and usually every other week there would be some sort of demonstr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 10:51 AM
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The point I always make is that basically your effort is futile. I mean sure, you can make all the arguments they want, and they may be logical, but at the end of the day, you will never be able to convince a heterosexual man who can't get laid that he isn't on some level a loser. Of course getting laid shouldn't be your #1 source of validation as a man, but it is definitely up there. I've seen a lot of people talk and post about this topic, and it pretty much just boils down to the fact that YO…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 10:45 AM
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Any real man working towards improvement does not blame women or anything else except himself for his problems. I don't think you understand what these types of guys mean when they say they want "empathy" from women. Your effort to empathize with men who can't get laid is futile. When men who can't get laid say "women have no empathy for men!" what they're actually saying is "why won't a woman give me a pity fuck?". For obvious reasons they can't come out and say the latter but that's what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 09:45 PM
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Because to these men who can't get laid, they don't want your sympathy or empathy. Men aren't women. If you understood male nature, you would understand unlike women, when men feel bad about something, most of the time, they don't want to be told that everything is going to be okay like you would a woman. They want to fix whatever it is that is giving them an issue, not to be sympathized or empathized with. These guys want to get laid. That's it. They don't want to hear your "ohhhh don't feel ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 07:40 PM
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It actually does add up. It adds up because what it means to be a man is different then what it means to be a woman. I really don't even know what point you're trying to make with the whole "women want kids sooner so therefore they value their ability to pass their genes". I mean... okay? I never said that women didn't value their ability to pass on their genes. All I said was that a man's ability to get laid is a big part (but hopefully not the biggest) part of how he views himself and his self…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 06:51 PM
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In terms of material stuff yeah, this is the best time ever. But in terms of societal unrest, political unrest, and how citizens of the same country view each other, it's probably the one of the worst times ever. I mean, people fucking hate each other. Gender relations are worse than ever, and to some extent racial tensions are the worst since the 60's. I'm just waiting for when alt right and progressive people actually literally start killing each other cause that's where it seems to be going.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 05:51 PM
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Honestly everything. I think stuff that's posted on this sub is just a reminder about how our culture is pretty much rotting and decaying from the inside out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 02:14 PM
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Again, like I wrote in my first comment getting sex shouldn't be your #1 source of validation. However, for most men I would bet it still is important source of validation, just not THE most important source. I mean just think about it, if you're a man, it's kinda your biological mission to pass on your genes. Never getting laid is basically saying that everything about you down to your very genetics is shit. I just read r/incels for the first time and tbh they do go way too fucking far, and a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/17 02:04 PM
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Okay perhaps I shouldn't have used the word "traditional". I didn't mean it in the sense of the mother staying at home and the father working, I meant it just in the sense that the mother and father are prominent figures in the child's upbringing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 07:28 PM
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Yeah, but the mother-father dynamic is extremely important. In fact, my buddy and I were talking the other day and concluded the only reason we'd ever stay monogamous with a woman would be to raise a kid, since almost all studies show that kids raised under the traditional mother-father dynamic generally fair better in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 07:24 PM
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First of all, I don't identify with any of these different movements here on Reddit. From what I've read so far RP is just pro-man and BP and feminism is pro-woman. So don't attribute me to any of these different groups cause to be honest I can't even really tell you what RP stands for other then being more pro-man overall. Also if you read what I wrote I put in parenthesis that getting sex isn't the biggest factor in a man's self esteem, but it is definitely up there. Definitely I agree that it…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 07:19 PM
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Alright sweetie if that makes you feel better go right ahead and think that 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 05:38 PM
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Well, first off, I am not MGTOW. Very few of those guys actually do what they say they do. Why? Cause they're posting here on the internet about it. Look at my post history, I literally just found out about this stuff. I think it's interesting that communities on Reddit like this exist just bitching about society. I think that labeling yourself with MGTOW, or WGTOW or RP or BP or whatever just makes you weak and takes away your individuality. Your consciousness isn't male or female. Second, it r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 05:09 PM
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I completely agree with you. Feminism and social justice are problems within themselves no doubt, but they are actually symptoms of a larger and greater issue, the death of western civilization. It's kind of like if you get cancer, you'll start feeling weak, maybe you'll get a fever or you'll lose your appetite... however the weakness or the fever or the loss of appetite isn't the root of the problem... the cancer is.
/r/MGTOW17/07/17 12:33 PM
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I'm 20 and so far I've had 5 different partners with 2 being a FWB's type deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:35 PM
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I'm not doubting you at all, I've encountered guys like that in my life, and guess what? Everybody fucking makes fun of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:19 PM
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MGTOWs and incels are also very tiny really. Honesty the only people who know all this terminology are people on these kind of subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:14 PM
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Obviously our definitions of feminism are different, because the women who did that are just for equality. Feminism is different. Maybe in the 60's and 70's feminism was a force for good but not today.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:10 PM
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I've seen a lot of people mock MGTOW and come up with clever ways to troll them I thought that this was just another case of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:08 PM
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In my life I've seen the complete opposite. Men including myself will start to kick themselves in the ass after repeated rejection. I lost weight and started working out, running, going for hikes, riding bikes, etc. I know a guy who decided to take up boxing. Those guys who lash out are just immature and don't know how to manage themselves. From my life experience it's always women who don't ever want to look at themselves, and tend to blame others for their problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:07 PM
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My problem with MGTOW, like feminism, is that they say they aren't about hating the other gender but clearly deep down, they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:02 PM
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I think just like MGTOW's have dealt with shitty women, WGTOW's dealt with shitty men. BTW, most people, men and women when they're mad or upset never like the possibility that maybe their situation is shitty because of their choices. Has nothing to do with testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 09:40 PM
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It's not a conspiracy, it's a subconscious effort on women's part. They're not even aware of what they're doing, but they are doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 03:26 PM
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I'm not saying it's their fault individually, society has just fucked them, and since this indoctrination of anti-male values have been going on for nearly half a century, I don't see how you can help them even if you wanted to. What's going to happen is sometime during this century there will be a crisis that will force the rebirth of the traditional masculine man because the masculine man will be the only type of person who can step of to the challenge. It may be something like a WW3, or somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 01:33 PM
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I will never forget in 5th grade when this 30-something teacher told me and the other group of boys that we can't play tag, kickball, or dodgeball because "someone might fall and get hurt". The school system is totally tailored for girls to succeed over boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 01:26 PM
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I actually think their already is a scarcity of men, in the sense every man for the past generation (arguably past two generations) have been raised to be weak and soft, and not really men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 01:23 PM
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In elementary school this teacher (who in hindsight was probably a raging feminist) made us stop playing tag because someone might "fall and get hurt".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/17 10:20 AM
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I was thinking about this the other day but couldn't quite put it in words the way you did. If too many high quality men/alphas learn of RP/manosphere concepts, women will not like it at all. This knowledge will have an effect on society when enough people know about RP, and with the way things have been going politically and culturally, it is certainly possible that we will see more and more men adapt the new way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 10:51 PM
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Oh really?? I never knew that. That's dope!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 04:06 PM
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This is true they're slightly different, I've only done DMT and not Ayahuasca because you can pretty much only get Ayahuasca in Peru. For a very brief period of time in 2015 there were retreats that opened up in the Pacific Northwest somewhere that offered it that was shut down by the Feds. I frequent the websites of these places cause they're still up and the last update from October 2016 says they're close but still haven't obtained religious expedition but say they probably will get it soon. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 03:52 PM
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Which is why most people use either the deep web or save up and go to Peru to do a liquid form of DMT, ayahuasca. To be honest for like 85 percent of people you only need to do this shit once and then you're good.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 03:38 PM
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I personally don't fuck with LSD because while it is a psychedelic, at the end of the day it is a substance that was synthesized by humans (drugs found in nature have been shown when used moderately to have no negative long term or short term effects) and also you're more prone to bad trips that aren't even profound or teach you anything, they're just bad trips.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 03:34 PM
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Order from the deep web, make it yourself or go to Peru with the Amazon elders and do ayahuasca (liquid form of DMT). I know the 'make it yourself' sounds crazy but hippie communes in the US figured out how to do it so it is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 02:44 PM
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Get it from the deep web or if you're really ambitious you can actually make it yourself. I know that sounds crazy but if hippies can make it in their communes then for sure you could. DMT is found in nearly all plant life you could get it literally from grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 02:42 PM
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So I didn't explain this in my post, but don't think I haven't thought about that. Basically, the way to approach that is to just never commit to a woman, and if you're high enough in SMV you can straight up tell them this and they usually understand and if they don't just next them. I'm seeing four different girls rn and one of them just recently said she wanted a relationship but I straight up told her no because of the fact that she's basically a hoe. They usually think over time you'll commi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 01:58 PM
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Calling you a faggot isn't so much a negative mindset as much as stating a fact lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 01:22 PM
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Hey man just because you didn't need to doesn't mean other people don't. You have the tools you need, good for you, some of these guys need a little extra kick. Get off your high horse faggot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 01:20 PM
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Yeah but I had no talent either. I literally started from the complete bottom. I failed so many times I can't even count. I literally used to be those guys I see what they write and I get chills cause I'm like "that literally used to be be". You may fail 1,000,000 times and not succeed till the 1,000,001st. They need to be told that when they do succeed that they will be perceived to be higher in value then their boogieman "Chad", because that is the case. Chad didn't do shit to get what he got.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 01:18 PM
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I remember that was a trend back when I was in high school, tbh I don't know too much about it. My general rule is only do drugs found in nature. No man made drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 01:10 PM
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Wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 01:09 PM
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I agree and also disagree, because for me as well as people I know psychedelics made me see the flaws in my own thinking. These guys often construct mental barriers about how they "can't do it" or "it's too hard". For me at least, psychedelics made me see how those arguments are bullshit. Also, usually the bad trips are necessary sometimes, those are the ones where you learn unpleasant truths but truths that are necessary in order to grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 01:05 PM
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I understand, but I just can't have any sympathy for those people who you say are growing exponentially. Especially when in the long run, if you succeed, you're seen at top tier because of how hard you worked and how it worked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 01:00 PM
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I completely agree. The reason I say psychedelics are good though is that sometimes these guys are SO FAR gone stewing in their negativity, that something like a DMT experience really does "reset" their minds. Psychedelics are for those guys are just can't bring themselves to do those things that you said because they have constructed barriers in their mind that will forever halt their improvement. Like when guys on here say "I'm just an anxious person" or "I've always been anti social" etc. Psy…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 12:51 PM
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Well then I guess you are fucked then buddy, be happy being alone forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 12:47 PM
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I understand that not all people are not the same. I too know people who use weed daily and it it's a negative impact on their life. I just see all these guys on here complaining about their lives and I used to be in their shoes, but I was able to solve my issues, and a combination of working out, exercising, and drugs was what broke me out of my negative habits and thought patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 12:46 PM
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No, it won't. Psychedelics are for the mental part of the battle. I don't know what you look like, but as someone who literally doesn't look like the same person as before, I really doubt that your situation is hopeless. But let's assume that you're right, and you're just fucked. Psychedelics will at least mentally bring you peace in terms of social situations, anxiety and depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 12:42 PM
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What's pathetic is wallowing in just being pissed and anxious about the state your in and complaining on the internet. If something works, it works, and just cause it's drugs doesn't make it pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 12:38 PM
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I'm sorry but at that point I have no sympathy or empathy. If you don't have patience or willpower you are fucked. Nothing truest good or rewarding comes from instant gratification. A reward isn't a reward if there isn't back braking working that needs to be done before hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 12:34 PM
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Have you ever tried drugs? And I mean the good ones like cannabis, or natural psychedelics? That shit usually snaps people out of negative thought patterns.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 12:12 PM
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See but that's the thing that none of these attractive people will admit. They don't want someone on their level. They think because of the whole "accept you for who you are" thing, that they should be able to have a hot girlfriend because "Oh she sees it's what's on the inside that counts!". They don't want to change, they want the hot people to stoop down to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 11:53 AM
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Yep, it's work. A lot of fucking work. I was 250lbs at 16 years old. I'm 20 now, about to turn 21, and it took probably till I was 19 to mold my body into a normal looking state, and then after that it wasn't over, I started lifting and exercising at that point. So yes, it is a hell of a mountain climb, but if you don't start at all you'll never get to where you want to be. Either never be happy or be happy 3-5 years down the line, it's your choice, and yes it will be very difficult. Just becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 11:51 AM
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I'm not gonna lie, I actually think I that most be have the potential to be at least average looking. The reason I say this is because just a few years ago you wouldn't recognize me, I'd post pics if you guys wanted proof. I was extremely obese, had a shitty haircut, was socially awkward and was just all around unattractive in every way. Then (I know it sounds cliche) I basically just said I don't want to live like this, and literally worked my ass off every fucking day to lose weight and put my…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 10:29 AM
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I would say that a combination of 3 life circumstances lead me to taking TRP. Being fat and socially awkward and getting bullied as a kid and then losing the weight and becoming not socially awkward, Watching my parents' shitty marriage and just trial and error with dating girls my age is what molded my RP mindset. When I became RP tho, I had absolutely no idea what TRP was or what RP terminology was. Hell, at that point I only used Reddit because I just thought of Reddit as "that app where I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 12:05 PM
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This was actually one of the most intelligent theories I've ever read from this subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 08:35 PM
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Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 01:03 PM
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When civilization collapse is actually somewhat a possibility nowadays LMAOOOO
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 11:11 AM
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I've also seen this happen with girls I hook up with. They'll basically say to me something along the lines of "get a load of this guy" and show me their faggy texts and snapchats and then usually we'll make fun of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 10:57 AM
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It's because the west as a culture is dying. Fascistic tendencies tend to come out when there is a perceived or real threat to one's culture or way of life, in this case it's a real threat. I'm not saying fascism is the appropriate response, but this is what history tends to demonstrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 12:29 PM
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Really? I didn't know that was a thing. I thought girls like a guy who's experienced. And the reason I said a guy not wanting a girl who's had a slutty past is irrational is because logically I do think it's possible for someone to have a change of heart like going from being a slut to not being a slut, but at the same time I find myself repulsed at the prospect of dating a former slut. I say it's irrational because I can't explain it I just don't like that idea. I actually turned down a girl re…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 09:59 PM
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Although I do lean RP, I do agree that there are women who would fuck a "Chad" only because he's a good looking dude, and wouldn't dream of commitment from him, especially if he has a dick personality and/or is unsuitable for a long term thing. Kind of like how I'll fuck a girl I have nothing in common with, but she's hot so I don't really care. HOWEVER though, said woman better not tell her Mr. Perfect that she did that type of thing before she met her Mr. Perfect, because this knowledge would …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 02:07 PM
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"You are still young" I know this might be a weird question but really? I mean I know that being 20 is still young, but I know a lot of other people my age in relationships and I kind of feel like the odd man out. I would really like a genuine relationship one day, but I feel my time is starting to run out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 06:05 PM
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Hahaha no, there are plenty of attractive young women where I'm at, and yes I am in college. The thing is, and I'm sure you know this, men are visual, so if a girl is hot, I'm dtf, but that does not mean I'd get in a relationship with said hot girl at all. For me to want to be in a relationship with the girl, it has to be sexual attraction+I like you as a person. And the thing is, most of the girls who I find attractive are unable to fill the "I like you as a person" part of the equation. For ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 05:02 PM
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Hmm. I'm not doubting that, but in my experience it's the complete opposite. Getting casual sex/ONS is easy, all you have to do is be good looking. Sometimes not even that, there are tons of men who may be a little below average in looks but then make up for it in other areas, although that only works if you're a little below average. For me, finding a girlfriend who I'd actually enjoy the relationship with is hard. I've had FWB's and fuck buddies and one night stands but still never a girlfrien…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 04:42 PM
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I mean... is this even a question? I get that sex is not a need, but I do think not getting sex for a man is more bothersome for the man than a woman not getting sex. I know that both men and women love sex, and there definitely some high libido women out there, but I'd go out on a limb and say overall men's libido is higher. Put that on top of the fact that men have testosterone flowing through them and it honestly makes a lot of sense why men are bothered if they can't get casual sex. When I h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 12:17 PM
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I don't agree with OP, but I've heard this kind of argument before. Basically, these people come to this kind of conclusion because they find RP/PUA tactics "douchey", and only an insecure woman would put up with that kind of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 12:34 PM
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To be honest, I think the entire millennial generation, both men and women is the most dysfunctional generation ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 11:37 AM
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I've often thought about this and to a degree I think you're right. Some people do just think too differently. What I will say though is that I see RP go far at times, but the one thing that I agree with is that feminist/SJW type people just want to get back at white men. Yes, all that history stuff is 100 percent true. At the end of the day though, white men today didn't do those things. Yes we should remember history and historical context but I think "progressive" type people need to learn th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 06:03 PM
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What kinds of non politically correct things do you say? Is it like really fucked up dark humor or just the type of stuff that pisses off oversensitive people or both? Because for me, when I'm unapologetic, people, not just women seem to respect me for it. Unless what you say is genuinely fucked up, don't apologize for shit.
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:54 PM
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Okay, but I would go out on a limb and say that most of the guys posting on here are not those "throw a fit" type guys. They're just asking for help, and more often than not women treat these guys who are not the whiny, entitled, or temper tantrum kind of guys like they are those types of guys. These guys then get bitched out by most women and then after being bitched out do become sexist. Because they aren't those entitled guys, but women treat like they are, their reaction then becomes "Wait a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 02:45 PM
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This scenario actually happened to me when I first started getting sexual attention from girls. I hooked up with this girl from the gym I went to and we really clicked. We were FWBs for like 2-3 months, then she hit me relationship talk. I really liked her, but I felt that since I missed out so much on hooking up with girls when I was younger, I just couldn't commit. I just gained the ability to hook up with girls... why would I tie myself down with one girl being that I just acquired the abilit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 02:40 PM
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With all due respect, who cares if after years of not being given attention at all by women, once they do they decide to "fuckzone" them? I think it makes a lot of sense that a guy who originally got no attention from women but now does because he's no longer fat, awkward, or boring would want to "make up" if you will for what he missed out on when he was fat, boring, and awkward. I can tell you from my experience going from a guy who was at one time very unsuccessful with women, once I did get …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:08 PM
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I agree with you that it's wrong for a sexually unsuccessful guy to then say "fuck women, women are all bad" and such because he's sexually unsuccessful. Here's the thing though: you're assuming ALL of these sexually frustrated men think women are bad because they're always getting rejected. Now you can of course point to me cases where guys have gotten so angry over their inability to get laid that they do in fact turn into misogynists, and that's bad. But Is it really just hard for you to beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:41 AM
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I'll give you that maybe I just haven't witnessed the famous "nice guy temper tantrums", but I can't believe that the guy who just takes the L and doesn't complain and walks away without giving you trouble (like how you said you'd want them to behave) is entitled for feeling shitty that he can't get laid or a girlfriend. TBH I think it's kind of cold that you put the guy who says "fuck you bitch" when they rejected and the guy who suffers quietly from a sexless, loveless, and lonely life in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 12:18 AM
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I would say that 70 percent of the frustrated men on here fall into what you categorize as "not entitled". The thing is, is what if you're that guy who is acting as you say, not entitled, but still gets rejected every time? That's where most of the frustrated men on here are coming from. Those type of guys who throw temper tantrums when they get rejected (if they exist), yea I agree, fuck those guys, but that's really isn't most guys. Honestly, it's really hard for me to believe some of the stuf…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 11:02 PM
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Hey man I really want to thank you for this comment. I think it's the answer I was trying to look for.
/r/seduction20/04/17 08:41 PM
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"guys try too befriend the woman" I'm not THAT stupid. My problem is the exact opposite of the "nice guy". I know that women aren't attracted to needy nice guys who buy them shit and text them all the time and everything. I figured that shit out in high school, only problem is that even though I figured that out I was fat, needy, and nerdy in high school so it didn't matter. I think I unintentionally communicate to them that I'm not interested, but what I'm actually trying to do is not be one of…
/r/seduction15/04/17 06:28 PM
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But isn't it the case that women aren't sexually attracted to needy men who are always texting them and doing things for them? When I say I didn't focus on women, I meant I took the self improvement advice on focusing on my own goals in life and not pedestalizing women. I read that doing this is like the #1 you have to do in order for women to be attracted to you.
/r/seduction15/04/17 06:23 PM
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I think my issue is that I know not to appear needy, but then in turn I unintentionally communicate to the girl that I'm not interested. Even though what is really happening is that I'm trying to be not needy.
/r/seduction15/04/17 06:19 PM
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Very interesting and brings up concepts that our society is EXTREMELY uncomfortable talking about. I don't think it's fair to say that this is a small minority of men. I used to be, and still know A LOT of these types of frustrated guys. However, it also isn't a majority. It's just enough that it's noticeable. I think some sort of big event, either from outside the US or domestically is going to shake things up. I don't know how or when, but it's going to shine a light on topics like these so br…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 11:16 AM
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This literally makes no sense to me. You will have meaningless sex with a guy instantly but the guy you like you want to wait to make it "more special". It's shit like this that makes me more RP by the day. Screams AF/BB. I'm not gonna lie if I liked a girl and then she told me she would do something like that or that she would find something like that acceptable, I'd ghost her so fast. You can't have your cake and eat it too. Well, you can, but don't think people won't think you're a massive hy…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 12:12 PM
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Because in my experience a lot (not all) women tend too care a lot about stuff I couldn't even begin to care about much like dealing with a child. Yanno how a kid will say something and you'll be like "Oh yeah that's great!" But in reality you couldn't give less of a shit. I don't agree with the massive overgeneralization that they're all like children, but I can see where the stereotype comes from.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 11:59 AM
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When I had only a few sexual experiences, I cared. Only because I was nervous about how well I would do compared to people she had in the past. Learned to not care because 1, there are a lot of guys who suck at sex who aren't virgins, and 2, learning what girls like isn't that hard and once you figure out what (broadly speaking) most girls like during sex, you'll be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 11:39 AM
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No, never a "pity party". I mean, we all have those times when you're just like "fuck this" and then go get drunk and play video games and you just wanna be alone. But for me at least, it's never a "pity party". I don't ever do the woe is me kind of stuff. And then the next morning I go back to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 05:30 PM
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"Besides, I've found that giving up feels bad in a very satisfying way." Jesus. I can't even fathom that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 10:32 PM
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See, but you touch on an interesting point. Why is it that your asperger dad was able to find a wife and kids but the asperger types now struggle with that kind of thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 08:32 PM
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For a lot of them, I think that is true. For the others though, I think that they do want help or to improve, however some sort of mental/psychological problem is holding them back. A lot of people on here talk about these "incels" being on the autism spectrum. I think there is merit to this hypothesis, but then that begs a bigger question in my mind. Perhaps it's only because we didn't recognize these types of problems in our society until like the past 30 years, but it really does seem like th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 06:37 PM
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I completely understand what you mean. However, I think I know what OP is referring to. Red pill philosophy is becoming a bit of a counterculture. Is it the majority of millennials? Hell no. But it is noticeable where I'm from at least (Pennsylvania).
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 12:12 PM
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"i've seen people criticize the "everyone's a winner" kind of teaching that is given to some children and didn't much see the problem, but i wonder if it's that kind of thing that led to this kind of thinking, where being courteous to others is seen as a hardship." MANY social problems, not just male-female relationships can be traced back to this kind of "nobody's a loser" kind of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 11:24 AM
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Thanks man. I turn 20 next week been having these same concerns.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 11:32 AM
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They don't do it cause they care about men though. Modern feminists just want to flip the old 50's gender dynamic in favor of them, this is just their way of emasculating men. To be clear I don't side with either you feminists or MRA's, I think both are equally as retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate
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There's no way 100 percent of WGTOW's are doing it "by their own choice" but when it comes to men going MGTOW they're all just losers. Doesn't make sense.
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