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| 3 | Has studying/learning about men actually made you a better partner or dater?Me too! So incredibly grateful for Alison. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/25 08:36 AM |
| – | Is a spark important in a relationship?I'm just happy it was useful in any way! I think for a lot of people it doesn't seem like a big issue from the outside, but I was seriously questioning our relationship then (two years ago). Thank goodness I came to terms with it. Now, when a woman dismisses a man after the first date if "he was nice and we had fun, but I didn't feel the special spark, you know"... I want to shout: YOU JUST MET HIM, WHAT DOES THOSE WORDS EVEN MEAN?! 😅 | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/25 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Is a spark important in a relationship?I understand you so well! I had the same dilemma while dating my husband. I was so worried about "the spark", but also the "having a crush"-part while dating. I'm not sure if both those apply for you or not(?), so I apologize if a lot of this isn't relevant for you. People around me talked about being in love as having a crush, big feelings, not being able to keep your hands off each other, it all starting with a big spark, and thinking about him all the time. But I didn't have any of that. We g… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/25 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Torn Between the Love of My Life and My Family - Need AdviceThis is a difficult decision you have in front of you. All I can contribute with is that I would not consider moving unless you absolutely for sure knows he wants to marry you and spend the rest of his life with you. If there's any vagueness about his long term intentions, or if he avoids the marriage/children-talk, it would be out of the question for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/25 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Nervous to reach outThat's fantastic! I'm really so glad to hear that. Oh my gosh, yes, I could barely count how many aha-moments I went through😄 | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/25 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Nervous to reach outYou're welcome! I hope they'll be useful. Especially the first two were very transformative for me. Both laughed and cried while listening😄 I was leaning more towards the unhealthy feminist who for some reason thought most men were hopeless, rude, exploitive, and arrogant. ...even though my father and brothers are all great men, and it's my mum who's not the best. Still don't get how I managed that🤷🏻♀️ Anyways... Alison is very clear, direct, and funny. I hadn't really dared to be honest and ra… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/25 01:18 AM |
| 2 | Nervous to reach outShe's not a Christian. But I honestly found her content to be quite biblical. ....Whether she's aware of it or not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/25 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Nervous to reach outI simply cannot recommend this woman enough: Alison Armstrong. Audiobooks, in recommend order: 1) In sync with the opposite sex 2) Understanding women 3) The amazing development of men 4) Celebrating partnership Audible (amazon), iBooks. They might also be able to buy via her own app. Best money I spent. Here is a short video of her: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nSPTlWWB1TU&t=217s I learned so much about myself (not all good) and all the men in my life, be it family, friends, colleagues or po… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/25 02:00 AM |
| 4 | For those in a happy marriage, what qualities did you look for in a man when dating?I think your list looks great. Especially the one about money. It's extremely important. Financial infidelity is a real thing. We knew early on (but after we both knew we were serious) exactly how much each of us had in debt, and how much savings. The most important part was really that none of us had credit card debt and similar. Before we got engaged we even showed each other our credit checks (in our country you can find them online), just to show we had no debt hidden somewhere. I don't thin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/25 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Do you let men help you?I think we're so set on whether we "need" the help or not. That's not the point. The point is: Would you like some help? Would this help make your day a tiny bit easier, and do you want that? I used to always say no and be very annoyed/offended. But after I listened to A.Armstrong audiobooks etc, I realised they actually want to help you. They genuinely want to make our lives easier, if only in a small way, when they get the chance. They know you can do it yourself, but.... . ..you don't have to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/24 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Are My Hobbies Too Masculine?I agree with the others, either there is something else than just your hobbies that make them not interested...or.. maybe you've been unlucky and just met men with quite twisted priorities of what's important in a relationship, and who don't understand what makes a woman a woman? I love your hobbies, they sound so cool! 😎, wish I learned to hunt. I've always had quite "male" interests (football/soccer, technology, sound engineering, carpentry, but also hiking, cooking and gardening etc). If a ma… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/24 11:33 PM |
| 7 | First date etiquetteI found the most useful tip is to think that you have two main tasks to do on a first date: 1) Be yourself 2) Find out if you like him If he likes you, is his job to figure out. Not yours. And if you're not pretending to be someone else (typically adapting into the type of person you think he likes...women are unfortunately great at this), he gets to find out how much he likes the real you. Btw, please don't expect that super special "spark"/"tingle"/"crush"/etc, on the first date. If I had list… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/24 10:40 AM |
| – | New to Red PillYesss!! And "The amazing development of men". Very interesting to hear what different "stages" men have. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/24 12:12 AM |
| – | New to Red PillAlison Armstrong audiobooks: "In Sync with the Opposite Sex", and "Understanding Women". Gold mines! Changed my views on so much in my life, thank goodness I found them and communities like this one, 'cause I was not raised like this... | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/24 11:34 PM |
| 5 | Relationship with in-lawsFirstly, this does not sound like okay behavior, and you are being treated badly by your FIL. And no one around you seems to mind. Men usually don't change after marriage, like women tend to. So your financé probably isn't going to magically change opinions or his actions after that ring is on his finger. Please don't expect his level of defending you to suddenly increase from what it is now. He said he'd definitely be on my side and defend me if his parents ever overstepped towards me or our ki… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/24 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Relationship PrioritizationI moved in with my husband just last year, and what I find is that yes, of course it's about prioritizing the family unit. ...But also: I'm one of many introverts. I mean, I love spending time with my friends, I need it. But now that I live with someone and we share a household... I don't have nearly the same capacity for being social as I had when I lived alone in my apartment. If I spent as much time outside my home or "actively" socialized with people as I did then, I'd be exhausted. I've tol… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/24 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Why are all the high value and marriage material men already taken?Could also be that many men aren't "discovered" as great potential partners until they already have a girlfriend. So many times have I seen a previously single guy I'm acquainted with, get a girlfriend. And that's when it hits me what a great guy he is, when I see him in a relationship. I think there are so many of those. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/23 08:47 PM |
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