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4

Nothing. Get distance from your ex and enjoy your new life
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/26 03:20 PM
1

You posted this as if you're the original poster. It's confusing honestly and can easily be read as if you're supporting the original message of their post. Plus both this and the original post will be deleted in like an hour. Edit: annnd it's dead.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/26 08:25 PM
1

Just date a woman your own age, dude. What you describe as the "man they seek" is what 40 year old divorcees want. A 28 year old doesn't give a shit about any of that.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/26 02:09 PM
1

Then, buddy, she's too much if a mess to date, let alone be married to.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 07:23 PM
3

Half of these are breadcrumbs and half aren't even that, you just want them to be. Keep living your life and making it better. If she wants to get back together, she can put her big girl pants on and ask you
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 07:19 PM
1

Then you get that divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/26 05:30 AM
2

Reconciliation for yourself (while typically a pipe dream) is actually fine because you'll be committed to making the relationship better and the kids will see a better relationship if it succeeds. This way, your son will just see the both of you miserable in a shit marriage for his whole life.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/26 03:55 AM
1

Phone goes in a drawer during your custody time
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/26 04:55 AM
1

Despite the avatar, Swedish Eagle is a man who has been posting her for years
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 11:45 PM
3

They wouldn't still hang around here if they did
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 07:36 AM
4

Get a good lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/26 07:08 PM
2

Because he called dibs on going out that night, so she's going to have to stay home instead of be with the new boyfriend. It's just vindictiveness.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/26 05:35 PM
3

This is AI fishing for engagement
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/26 07:35 PM
1

Why were you the one to move out?
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/26 06:34 PM
12

This reads like a handbook to becoming a sociopath
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 07:48 PM
3

Sure, and let him worry about that in therapy after he's gotten her out of his business.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 04:35 AM
9

Get the divorce, kick her out and never speak to her again. All communication through parenting aps. You don't have a control problem you have a wife problem. So get rid of it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/26 08:31 PM
2

Just divorce her. You never have to speak to her again .
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/26 10:52 AM
2

Oh, judge all you want, but you'll probably end up doing shit that your friends will think is equally stupid during your divorce. Just step back abit. You'll probably laugh about this together once he's done divorce #2
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/26 12:03 AM
1

You will have your daughter 50% of the time. That's the only way this ends. Better to get it over with sooner than later
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/26 01:08 AM
1

If her issue is you not being willing or able to buy a house, then cohabitation would make that even worse. Give her what she says she wants and leave (after making sure you have a new place that can fit your kids).
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/26 05:12 PM
15

She's leaving dude. Lock down your own accounts, divide any joint accounts and call a lawyer for a consultation.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/26 05:09 PM
3

Open your draft, select everything after the first sentence, delete it, then send it. None of the other stuff you talk about after you say the word divorce matters once you're not in a relationship with the person and all of it will be taken negatively by her when she reads it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/26 10:09 PM
1

If it's not that adversarial, text her asking to have a call about pickups and logistics. Unless this is because she fucked something up. In that case, skip the conversation, you'll both probably be too defensive to have a productive one
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/26 05:56 PM
6

They mean don't let her take the kids away overnight until you have some sort of custody established
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 05:38 PM
2

Does she know it's coming?
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/25 11:48 PM
1

Question: is he flying alone? If so then that isn't a crazy request. It's just a cheap phone for her to track that he got home okay. It's when your specific history comes into play where it becomes a little concerning. I'd say yes, but get one of those faraday bags that stop phone signals and keep it in that when it's at your home.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 04:14 PM
1

The longer you wait the worse the impact legally
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/25 11:41 PM
8

Smash the mug
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/25 11:27 PM
9

If they wanted emancipation, not adoption, no one is getting child support.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/25 06:53 PM
1

No, like I responded to the other person, you're fully morally in the clear. But if she hasn't finished the divorce, she simply hasn't gotten her shit together yet. And you don't need that extra mess.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/25 05:58 AM
2

She's "mid divorce", which implies that divorce is filed and they're at least separated. There's no moral problems here and likely no legal ones either. It's just that it's dumb to date people going through a divorce because they're a huge ass mess.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 10:08 PM
10

Break up with her and make sure the next woman already has the divorce decree in hand.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 05:23 PM
19

Simply demanding the house is sold is almost under reacting. Stick to your guns.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/25 08:07 AM
7

Agree with her and kick her out
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/25 05:31 AM
3

He's gay...
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/25 12:27 AM
9

Dude. Tell your mom. Just call her, tell her, cry and get it out. The rest you can play by ear, but just call your mom or dad.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/25 12:06 AM
14

If you're not out for revenge, stop short of coworkers and don't blast it out to the world. But absolutely tell your support system. Your parents and closest friends. They can only give you the help you need if they know what you're going through
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 11:55 PM
1

Not if he gets charged for assault for this
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 06:11 PM
6

Chasing someone never works, they just run farther. Live your life as if she will never come back, build a life where you can be happy doing what you want to do. That way if she doesn't (she probably won't) you'll survive just fine. And if she does come back, then she knows that what she sees is what she gets and you're not putting on a show to win her back.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 06:07 PM
3

Speak to a lawyer. Depending on the local laws, her living at her boyfriend's would void spousal support
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/25 08:17 PM
4

He's telling you to use hookers.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 07:05 PM
3

Other subs for people dealing with marriage issues would at least be a start. Because you're only going to get men who couldn't save their marriage in a sub called r/divorce_men
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 08:19 PM
3

This is literally the worst place to use as your sample size for that question, lol
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 07:12 PM
5

It's basically an evergreen rule that if a post here goes over 50 comments, that means r/amithedevil is brigading again.
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 10:15 PM
1

Are you high right now?
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/25 05:56 AM
2

No, it was how can she maintain FWB arrangements. He said in his post that he has no problem finding hookups, but they always want to be either relationships or one night stands.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/25 03:24 AM
12

Dude, what you're describing doesn't have anything to do with women or men. A lot of guys have a problem getting matches, but that's not your issue at all. You've had an easy time dating. The difference between her and you is that you don't want to settle for a shallow relationship with avoidants and picked your one FWB carefully, and she is not as discerning.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/25 08:08 PM
3

They're probably not still posting in divorce_men if they undivorced.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/25 06:06 AM
2

Just start going out every night.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/25 06:32 PM
3

Needing therapy and being normal are not mutually exclusive.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/25 09:05 PM
7

If you asked for divorce: see your therapist to make sure you're doing this for the right reasons and actually have hope that the relationship can be worked on and you're not just doing it out of guilt, which will land you right back here. If she asked, she will not care. She did this, fully aware of the damage it will cause and still made the decision. Bringing it up will only piss her off and make her more difficult during the divorce. And your goal should be to get this done as fast as possib…
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/25 07:30 PM
2

If you are instigating the divorce, tell your therapist before you tell your wife If she is instigating the divorce, never tell your wife.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/25 07:18 PM
2

You're morally in the clear, you wouldn't be hurting anyone and you wouldn't be cheating. But the potential for mess and drama is huge.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/25 06:26 AM
4

Wrong? No. Smart? Also no.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/25 02:15 AM
14

Yes. It has. But bud, if you're not the one who asked for divorce, and she's not trying to win you back, then you have to shelve that thought. It does you no good. Live your life as if she's not coming back, build yourself the kind of life you will be happy to live in on your own. Then if she comes back, she'll see a happy, confident person that didn't need her. And if she doesn't, then you're totally fine. Cross the reconciliation bridge when you come to it. For now, heal.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/25 11:51 PM
39

What the actual fuck? This doesn't belong here.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/25 08:00 PM
1

By filing first. That's the best protection. That and having a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/25 03:48 PM
6

If you have no kids you should block her even if the divorce was amicable. Which yours is not.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 05:33 PM
2

It's typically a kind of cheating, yes.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/25 07:00 PM
1

It kinda did though. He got the support of his peers and his message was amplified to thousands. If it weren't for amithedevil, the post would have died in obscurity.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/25 02:35 PM
1

And looks like they had to close their thread because of it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/25 02:20 PM
1

Saw the comment total and immediately knew the sub got brigaded by r/amithedevil again, lol
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/25 05:36 AM
1

Those groups definitely have their problems, but if you are in fact dating several women at once, getting labelled a "serial dater" would only be a problem if you're not telling the women you talk to that you're seeing other people.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/25 05:43 PM
1

Your kids will not look down on you for staying single. They would look down on you if you use them as your therapist and vent all your feelings about their mother into them. Which it doesn't sound like you're doing. Just express your hurt away from them and you'll be fine.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/25 08:07 AM
9

Call a lawyer. And honestly, you should be divorcing her.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 05:03 PM
1

Those aren't mutually exclusive. Couples counsellors can help fix, but they can also help you end a relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 03:47 PM
0

Well, that doesn't sound like your chances are great, sadly. But if you're giving her another chance, then still do the counseling. It'll give you a stage to bring up the problems. But you don't need to give her another chance. And remember: if she gets another chance this time, it's her last. She has this one opportunity to improve and if she doesn't, you're gone. Therapy is one of many tools to help, but they're just tools, the onus is on her.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 04:54 PM
6

A bad marriage is to be fixed or left, not stayed in. So book marriage counseling, sit down and hash out exactly what needs to change and come up with a plan to change it. Be open to having to do work on yourself too, but be firm about the changes you need from her. And then set a deadline in your head that no one else knows. And if you don't see real change by that deadline, leave for real. I hope it works out and she steps up, but don't stay just because she "might".
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 04:04 PM
1

The men would admit it at the same rate. You're paying attention because you're hurt and you recognize and remember similar situations. Which is fair and understandable, but not great for being objective. But a simple, unscientific way to see is to look at the subs. Divorce has more men posting about their cheating wives, but the subs just about being cheated on have almost gender parity in posts and members. And the subs about trying to fix your marriage after cheating have more women then men.…
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 12:41 AM
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Every study of pretty much every size shows that men and women cheat equally. What's changed in the last few generations is women having the same economic power as men. Before, men cheated more overall, and then since the fifties, women have been cheating more and more until it's now at par and stayed there. We hear about women cheating more because often when caught, women leave and men try to stay. So the wronged wife isn't going to put him on blast if she stays too. But it's half and half.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 12:25 AM
9

If you're only trying to date younger women, yeah it's a creep thing. But yeah, OP confirmed I'm right, that he's more talking about women who are similar to his wife turning him off, not that he's only attracted to young women, so it doesn't matter.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/25 07:42 PM
6

I think that's exactly what he's saying. His feeling for his wife is making it so he can't find attraction to other women who are in her cohort. And he's looking to stop that. At least I hope that's what he's saying and not "I'm all horny up over 25 year olds"
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/25 03:51 PM
3

Do you have a source for that? Because most stats I can find say 1st marriages fail about 40% and the higher rates of failure in 2nd marriages are what brings the total stat to 50%.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/25 03:58 AM
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