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9

I had to learn to take things slow. When you think about dating, it's pretty crazy to think you can find a life partner after one date. Nowadays, people are closed off, so you have to take your time to get close to them. You can make your intentions known, but dont push for anything. If you get rejected early on, that saves you time.
/r/seduction06/07/26 06:38 PM
-4

Wouldn't that make you a creep if you asked her to fk, and she said no?
/r/seduction06/07/26 06:35 PM
3

Maybe its the psychological need fir her approval, and not standing up for yourself.
/r/seduction19/06/26 02:14 PM
1

I assume you're an introvert, while your friend is an extrovert? If that's the case, I can understand the beta thing, but that has nothing to do with you, really. You mention you haven't been close to your gf in a while, so theirs some issues to unpack. Realistically though, you cant stop her from liking someone else.
/r/seduction02/06/26 03:53 AM
6

Did you lose weight to pull those girls?
/r/seduction27/05/26 11:05 PM
2

Yeah, forced conversation is so bland.
/r/seduction27/05/26 11:04 PM
1

I think youre right about being "natural and in the moment". It feels strange to me as an introvert. Im constantly thinking how other men get into relationships. "That guy wasn't scared of approaching and being called a creep? That guy touched her waist and she didn't slap him for it? That guy is dancing and singing, and hes not embarrassed?" I think my mentality stems from social media, and always wanting to be a nice guy; also my own sense of preservation. I had casual sex too, but no relation…
/r/seduction27/05/26 11:04 PM
1

Hookup status.
/r/seduction27/05/26 07:08 PM
2

I wonder what these incompatibilies really are. Youre able to tolerate alot of crap when you like someone, so I question her true level of attraction to you. Its good to have foresight about potential issues, but seems she didn't care to try and talk about them. Oh well.
/r/seduction27/05/26 06:29 PM
6

Yeah, its pretty clear when their annoyed.
/r/seduction24/05/26 02:33 AM
4

Hard to see which situation is accurate. I see so many men harrarrasing women everyday, I dont want to take my chances. Women go through this stuff everyday, so hard to not feel like a creep. If I do approach, it's just a short conversation before I leave quickly.
/r/seduction24/05/26 02:25 AM
2

Is this something that youre emotionally invested in, or just for fun?
/r/seduction18/05/26 05:28 AM
19

Not really manipulation, but I'll lose attraction if youre sleeping with one night stands, and im supposed to wait. Its just doesn't come off as serious interest.
/r/seduction13/05/26 11:32 PM
1

Its not hard to say yes or no. Think you got ghostes.
/r/seduction07/05/26 11:10 AM
3

Bad time and place. Shes not a random stranger that can walk off and ignore you. She has to respond to you, and every other guy that asks her the same questions daily. You said she was tired, so I know she didn't even feel like having a long conversation. Its just not an equal playing ground. Sure, it can work, but context matters. If I talk to someone at a job, I make sure they're by themselves, and not busy.
/r/seduction06/05/26 05:54 AM
2

Good point
/r/seduction06/05/26 05:52 AM
4

I'm with you on this. If you like me, why cant I just ask if you want to date or hookup?
/r/seduction04/05/26 06:35 AM
1

Your bad for trying to know people, I guess.
/r/seduction03/05/26 06:35 AM
0

Offer your number.
/r/seduction01/05/26 12:49 PM
1

I agree with that comment that women generally don't chase you, but everyone else. I've never been chased.
/r/seduction22/04/26 02:56 AM
1

How?
/r/seduction22/04/26 02:56 AM
76

Real shit
/r/seduction22/04/26 02:56 AM
5

Whatever you do, don't double down with a rejection. Just walk away.
/r/seduction20/04/26 01:13 PM
3

Are you generally open to being approached?
/r/seduction20/04/26 01:13 PM
1

If the girl your with thinks you're lame by not being loyal, then youre with the wrong person. This is way to complicated.
/r/seduction18/04/26 05:40 AM
5

Idk, but that feels a bit disrespectful, unless its a casual relationship. Id hate to go on a date with a woman thats just "practicing" on me.
/r/seduction18/04/26 04:37 AM
2

Idk, in the end, you still meet in person. Cold approaching has worked for thousands of years, so thats the default. It is hard to who's interested though, but got to talk to everyone.
/r/seduction17/04/26 03:50 PM
4

Absolutely pull back. From a personal perspective, it feels like you're begging for attention, and thats not fair to you.
/r/seduction17/04/26 11:08 AM
1

I just think they never cared to begin with. Youre meeting a stranger.
/r/seduction17/04/26 05:19 AM
1

So more money?
/r/seduction17/04/26 04:49 AM
1

I'm saying to keep up a conversation
/r/seduction12/04/26 04:36 AM
2

Match energy. If they text, you text.
/r/seduction12/04/26 03:57 AM
1

Being an introvert makes anything social,more difficult.
/r/seduction06/04/26 06:06 AM
8

There always "something " wrong right? Think you dude the right thing, because she deserves someone thats completely attracted to her. Some people do settle on physical attractiveness, but not you.
/r/seduction04/04/26 04:43 AM
1

Why would you kiss her neck when she denied a kiss?
/r/seduction31/03/26 07:03 AM
1

Don't know what the hell these other comments are talking. " she's taking longer because she's getting dressed for you. This is an opportunity to get her attention. Arrive 15 minutes early". She lied to and disrespected you, thats it.
/r/seduction29/03/26 06:02 AM
9

She didn't immediately set up a different date?
/r/seduction29/03/26 06:00 AM
5

Respect yourself and mofe on; they like someone else more.
/r/seduction26/03/26 12:26 AM
1

Social awkward introvert here, and went through the same thing. Always hard to date and still is. Biggest obstacle wasn't my physical appearance, its just my lack of social skills. If I can't talk to a random person, how am I going to talk to a woman im attracted too? Maybe cold approaching works for some people, but im a person that needs their personality to shine a bit more.
/r/seduction17/03/26 08:50 AM
1

If their nkt interested in my topics, why would I be interested in theirs?
/r/seduction07/03/26 05:40 AM
3

I hope it works for me.
/r/seduction06/03/26 11:22 AM
4

Luck?
/r/seduction06/03/26 10:38 AM
4

What happened on the first try?
/r/seduction06/03/26 07:59 AM
5

It really doesn't matter. If she doesn't like your boring Instagram, then its going no where anyway.
/r/seduction28/02/26 06:55 AM
10

So what's the line between friendship and sex? Are you supposed to just hang out without anticipating sex? It just sounds like dating at this point.
/r/seduction22/02/26 07:02 AM
141

You guys have rosters?
/r/seduction09/02/26 05:36 AM
2

Talk to anyone men within a few feet
/r/seduction09/02/26 04:18 AM
15

1 year of no sex with a gf is crazy dude. She's either not interested in sex, or having it with someone else.
/r/seduction08/02/26 07:59 AM
1

I think its a numbers game for men. 80% of women there, so most likely a woman will approach you first. It should be that easy.
/r/seduction01/02/26 04:56 PM
0

Yeah, screw that bs dude. She asked to French kiss, you asked to escalate, and she said no. She threw a tantrum over nothing, especially when she said that she likes direct communication. Sex is a yes or no question.
/r/seduction27/01/26 07:42 PM
3

You can't force attraction. It's already there, or it isn't.
/r/seduction26/01/26 04:50 PM
7

If you need to fart, go to the bathroom. I get your point though, don't try to hard.
/r/seduction17/01/26 09:27 PM
0

Yeah, you sounded like a jerk.
/r/seduction12/01/26 03:53 PM
6

Lesson learned, believe them the first time.
/r/seduction12/01/26 04:52 AM
2

I wonder this myself. Don't think I would miss being single. Its such a bore.
/r/seduction12/01/26 04:43 AM
3

What did you do in the first relationship that made it end?
/r/seduction12/01/26 04:42 AM
1

They wanted your time?
/r/seduction12/01/26 04:41 AM
2

So only a fling?
/r/seduction12/01/26 04:40 AM
1

Wdym?
/r/seduction12/01/26 04:40 AM
1

I would have plans after as well; im not going to waste time with someone that might not show up, or I dont find interesting.
/r/seduction12/01/26 04:31 AM
1

I literally asked a question.
/r/seduction10/01/26 11:30 PM
-9

Video games are for kids?
/r/seduction10/01/26 10:43 PM
1

Word of advice, dont assume sex is on the table. She could easily change her mind.
/r/seduction09/01/26 05:35 AM
12

Probably likes you, but her moral character is trash. Rip to coworkers affair victims.
/r/seduction07/01/26 06:14 PM
3

You just threw your gf away?
/r/seduction07/01/26 11:19 AM
11

How did you fumble
/r/seduction07/01/26 11:18 AM
1

Just let it happen
/r/seduction05/01/26 06:47 PM
3

What issues?
/r/seduction05/01/26 06:46 PM
1

I got hit with a balloon by one. I was too busy cleaning up vomit to respond.
/r/seduction01/01/26 12:02 PM
1

Can never tell, best to leave
/r/seduction30/12/25 07:49 PM
16

When she starts showing disinterest, don't chase. You deserve someone that wants you.
/r/seduction26/12/25 02:46 PM
2

Sure you're not the ugly one?
/r/seduction25/12/25 08:03 PM
2

Yeah, idk about not seeing the message. I hate when people start a conversation, and go awol. I dont think you were wrong in saying to meet up soon. Shes interested or not. In this case, probably not.
/r/seduction23/12/25 10:22 PM
1

What makes you think kissing and sex means they like you? Still very possible to get ghosted after.
/r/seduction22/12/25 06:47 AM
-16

Women can do the same thing.
/r/seduction21/12/25 10:43 AM
23

Your best guess is still a guess.
/r/seduction19/12/25 09:49 PM
1

Yeah
/r/seduction19/12/25 06:22 PM
1

Damn. More friend vibes.
/r/seduction19/12/25 06:10 PM
1

Sounds good. Grew apart?
/r/seduction19/12/25 05:07 PM
59

Yeah, signs can just be politeness.
/r/seduction19/12/25 04:49 PM
0

Risky
/r/seduction19/12/25 04:48 PM
60

Guys dont want to get labeled creeps.
/r/seduction19/12/25 04:48 PM
12

Hey, you never know.
/r/seduction19/12/25 04:47 PM
1

In general
/r/seduction19/12/25 04:40 PM
1

Whats your dating history like?
/r/seduction19/12/25 06:53 AM
5

I would say its more like you dont invest in someone thats not putting effort in. Alot of men have fell into the simp trap at a certain point in time, so they understand it leads no where.
/r/seduction13/12/25 06:30 AM
1

Have a bit of a problem with my rushing. I dont want to overextend the conversation, so I do get to the point. You see the look of annoyance pretty quickly.
/r/seduction08/12/25 06:28 AM
1

Would it matter if you were attracted to them anyway?
/r/seduction08/12/25 06:27 AM
6

I like this mentality
/r/seduction05/12/25 08:57 AM
1

I agree that men fall in love quicker since we dont have as many options. Who knows if she found someone else, but you eventually have to move on. Remember if they wanted too, they would. It does hurt though.
/r/seduction04/12/25 06:10 AM
3

They also dont have to put themselves in the rejection seat. Its easy to play defense then offense. I really hope that changes nowadays.
/r/seduction04/12/25 05:44 AM
3

Like no jobs when you applied to 100s of them.
/r/seduction04/12/25 12:59 AM
2

Its just literally getting rejected every time you try, and of course no one coming up to you, thats the worst part. You're always the one that has to risk and lose everything. Yes, rejection has made my tolerance high, but no success has dampened my confidence.
/r/seduction04/12/25 12:57 AM
7

Men are selected based on status, so no surprise.
/r/seduction30/11/25 05:40 AM
1

I feel like a good line is something environmental or personal. Instead of saying something cringe, ask what they just bought at a mall, what they think of politics, what their hobbies are, etc. Also add in a compliment; anything to get a genuine conversation going.
/r/seduction29/11/25 06:40 AM
-2

It definitely feels like it these days.
/r/seduction28/11/25 10:12 AM
5

I get your point. If youre going for younger women, you need to match their energy. Women don't want to date a grandpa that doesn't like a fun night out, and think throwing money at her is all thats required.
/r/seduction28/11/25 10:11 AM
-6

I think its just your personality or energy. I see plenty of older men with younger women everyday. I had a younger girl interested in me, I was 25 and she was 21. I didn't even approach her. I try to date older women, but like you said, their very jaded and have high standards.
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:05 AM
6

Explain more of the process.
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:02 AM
2

Heavy on talking to everyone. You got to start somewhere.
/r/seduction28/11/25 07:44 AM
3

Don't talk to anyone that doesn't want to engage with you. If the vibe is off, then bail. Some people aren't going to like you regardless.
/r/seduction28/11/25 07:39 AM
4

Experience for a job, but need job for Experience.
/r/seduction23/11/25 04:50 PM
21

Yeah, I dont do well with flirty stuff. I just want to be sure.
/r/seduction22/11/25 09:54 PM
64

If you wabt sex, do you just ask for it outright?
/r/seduction22/11/25 09:45 PM
1

Literally all you can do. If no one wants to date you, what else can you do?
/r/seduction21/11/25 09:52 PM
3

You dont get it.
/r/seduction21/11/25 09:39 PM
13

Play the same game king.
/r/seduction21/11/25 02:35 PM
22

When you stop putting on an act, you get genuine results. A woman will like a nerdy guy over a bland one; one of these men is showing uniqueness.
/r/seduction21/11/25 02:34 PM
0

Its easiervto just take what you can get, even if its only one sided.
/r/seduction21/11/25 02:22 PM
1

Thats different from wanting a relationship though.
/r/seduction21/11/25 11:00 AM
3

It actually makes me more relaxed; im not focusing on a goal, or performing for their entertainment. I do understand the spite that comes with constant rejection. " Why do they reject me, but settle for someone thats toxic"? If that's what someone likes, then nothing you can do about it. You'll probably see them post something like why their relationship sucks so bad later on. You have to think of yourself like a prize too; you know damn well some women are completely dedicated to their man. I w…
/r/seduction21/11/25 07:54 AM
21

I dont want to be with anyone that's settling for me, or doesn't want me. That kind of makes them less desirable to me. Rejection isn't personal; its just saying they dont see you in a romantic way, and thats fine. Also you put them on a pedestal, and it makes you become more desperate. Since men have to usually initate, you eventually get numb too, or just expect to get rejected.
/r/seduction21/11/25 06:50 AM
2

Genuine question, are you sure that's not in your head?
/r/seduction20/11/25 02:54 PM
42

In my experience, you literally gotta survive off sheer determination. You dont exhaust yourself trying to catch attention, you devote that energy back into yourself. No one wants to give you a chance? Fine, time for self preservation, like a phone that turns off certain apps when it loses power.
/r/seduction19/11/25 09:17 PM
1

Do you both have the same libido?
/r/seduction18/11/25 09:25 PM
3

You can learn from data though.
/r/seduction18/11/25 05:25 PM
2

Student from school? Anyway, observational behavior is a critical part of learning, but so is applying what you learned. I see so many dudes hitting on women, and their just creepy as hell. They look suspicious, they drag on conversation, they get rejected and start following the women around, and they just come off as very awkward and aggressive. You can tell they put women on pedestals, and treat them like porn stars. You really think a woman wants to be asked if you can send her a Dik Pic? Yo…
/r/seduction18/11/25 05:24 PM
1

I get it though; a woman can literally kiss you on the lips, and say youre just friends, so idk either.
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:34 PM
5

Damn, she told you to sit down and gave you a little strip tease. That was your chance dude.
/r/seduction18/11/25 02:28 PM
1

You got the right idea. Just talk to people, not just women in general. Start with genuine questions or compliments, not just directions. Nice hat, shirt, ring, etc. Don't go into situations with the goal of numbers, just get to know people.
/r/seduction18/11/25 09:06 AM
3

If shes already escalating, be glad you dont have to make the first move in that area. In raw terms, a woman doesn't mind being sexulized by a person they like. If she asks how her body looks, shes basically saying to call her sexy. You have to flirt to get out of that friendship stage. You might have screwed it up with this girl, since she can clearly see you aren't ready to go to the next stage with her. Some women will be more lenient if you express your lack of experience, but you got too ge…
/r/seduction17/11/25 11:40 PM
9

Usually a no thanks, or ew. Wonders for my confidence.
/r/seduction17/11/25 11:22 PM
1

Whoa wtf?
/r/seduction15/11/25 07:17 PM
1

So they dont know what they missed out on? Sounds narcissistic.
/r/seduction15/11/25 07:15 PM
2

How do you approach women?
/r/seduction15/11/25 07:14 PM
1

You should really just live your life without a daily quota of numbers or interaction with women in general. You set yourself up to fail. Its pressure on yourself to perform, and pressure on women to give you the answer you want. You stay positive by setting your expectations really low, and focusing on yourself.
/r/seduction15/11/25 07:13 PM
20

Is he always initiating? That can be a libido killer.
/r/seduction14/11/25 03:38 PM
17

Hes not going to initiate; you need to just speak your mind. Men do not want to make women uncomfortable.
/r/seduction13/11/25 03:58 AM
1

Im good on that stuff too.
/r/seduction12/11/25 03:25 AM
1

Thats bs. You want something, but won't tell me what to do?
/r/seduction12/11/25 03:22 AM
1

Like they had low Libido?
/r/seduction12/11/25 03:13 AM
1

Well you have to be in a relationship first before the dirty talk sets in. Id hold off until its official.
/r/seduction12/11/25 02:51 AM
1

Do you mainly mean cussing? I don't like cussing at the girl I'm attracted too, but some of them like the disrespect.
/r/seduction12/11/25 02:48 AM
1

Wdym?
/r/seduction12/11/25 02:47 AM
1

Is it because of being afraid your harassing a woman? You get more careful of that stuff when careers and reputation get involved.
/r/seduction11/11/25 10:12 PM
1

I mean the answer is yes right? You want something serious.
/r/seduction10/11/25 09:22 PM
1

We all go through that phase.
/r/seduction10/11/25 11:36 AM
7

Maybe its not that youre a nice guy, youre just a socially awkward guy. "Bad boys" tend to have their personality be the forefront of their appeal; they dont care about what others think of them. Its more attractive then a man that shows no distinct personality. Ive experienced it myself; being more open has made me be more appealing to people in general.
/r/seduction10/11/25 07:33 AM
1

Damn
/r/seduction10/11/25 05:03 AM
8

I consider myself basic as hell, but people assume I have consistent sex. Like no dude, I'm basically a virgin, only had sex once. Maybe because sex is so normal to other people, they just assume everyone experiences it. The climate we're in now suggests otherwise
/r/seduction10/11/25 05:03 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction09/11/25 12:01 PM
1

Your experience?
/r/seduction09/11/25 08:50 AM
1

You got a gf before, so dont you already know how to date? You keep chasing, and thats getting you no where.
/r/seduction09/11/25 08:49 AM
8

Making women your god is pretty on the nose. Hes not actually having fun, he's looking for sex, and thats turns into a chase.
/r/seduction09/11/25 08:48 AM
1

So you just info dumped since you've been isolating for so long?
/r/seduction09/11/25 06:38 AM
2

Its like a bird trying to flex its feathers for attention; we're trying way to hard to impress women, but thats in our nature too. Also not every situation needs to turn into an opportunity to hit in on women either; it could just be a person helping you out. Imagine her perspective: "I picked up a guy, but now he's hitting on me in my car. This is why I dont do nice things for guys". Maybe you could have scored some digits, but its also confidence to assume you dont have to take the bait everyt…
/r/seduction09/11/25 06:37 AM
6

I lean toward rejection myself. Im tired of trying my best, and getting friendzoned every time.
/r/seduction06/11/25 12:30 PM
5

Gotta have your own life still. Most importantly.
/r/seduction05/11/25 12:04 PM
5

Not shi t?
/r/seduction05/11/25 12:03 PM
13

I say nice guy as in being a pushover. Letting people put me on the backburner and begging to spend time with them, taking maybe as a sign that I need to try harder, and spending money to show im responsible. End of the day, you dont get taken for granted. Women will tolerate a crappy man because he doesn't prioritize them.
/r/seduction05/11/25 12:00 PM
28

Bad boy mentality: you dont chase/ beg for attention. It makes you gain respect and interest. Alot of women are used to simps, so their used to that treatment. I stopped being a " nice guy", and its helped.
/r/seduction05/11/25 08:55 AM
2

You still got options.
/r/seduction03/11/25 01:50 PM
2

Overstated advice, but truly be yourself. If you approach a woman and they dont like your personality, then oh well. You hear the term "nice guy" alot, and that basically means someone that comes across as generic and boring. You hear how women hate when men approach them, and their not introducing anything new; its just the same boring responses. Its like going to an interview, and you come across like every average person applying there. You got to mix it up with your personality; if they dont…
/r/seduction02/11/25 03:12 PM
3

Nah, if she didn't come back, it was clear she didn't want to continue the conversation. Idk, but I see women rejecting me as a filter to find my lover. I dont want someone that doesn't want me, and I'm not looking for flings. You got to have self respect to walk away, and not accept less.
/r/seduction01/11/25 06:07 PM
1

Its really to complicated. They either like you, or they don't.
/r/seduction01/11/25 01:47 PM
9

I get you dude. Its so hard to even generate interest, let alone start the flirting. Them passing out condoms, adds on pressure too; like you know everyone else is going to get some. Some people have an easier time talking to others, and thats always going to be an advantage for them; as a homebody, youre likely an introvert too. Its pretty much understood that as a man, youre likely going to strike out with most women you talk too, so no surprise there. Theirs personal preferences at play; they…
/r/seduction01/11/25 01:46 PM
-4

Assume its because theirs a belief your genitals are small.
/r/seduction30/10/25 01:55 PM
7

Just suffer then?
/r/seduction30/10/25 01:54 PM
2

Well you got other options, which is the point.
/r/seduction30/10/25 02:17 AM
32

Why even mention your horny if you dont want to follow through on it?
/r/seduction30/10/25 12:59 AM
15

Different realities.
/r/seduction30/10/25 12:59 AM
1

Im just being realistic.
/r/seduction28/10/25 04:15 PM
5

Sounds like some AI slop anyway.
/r/seduction28/10/25 11:57 AM
8

The issue is when youre constantly confronting your fear, but never get rewarded for it. Every woman you talk too, ends up rejecting you in the end. Sure, the real reward is building up confidence, but it sucks when it leads no where. Men and women live in different realities when it comes to dating. A man can ask out 10 women and get completely rejected, while a woman can ask out 10 men and 8 will say yes. Theirs a higher degree of success as a woman in general.
/r/seduction28/10/25 11:49 AM
5

We can share finances, but I mean trying to involve yourself in her life every second of the day.
/r/seduction27/10/25 12:43 PM
1

You describe an example where you were already riding a vehicle together, and an example where someone is in a park, clearly not in a rush. Some people aren't going to stick around that long, because they have other stuff to do. Cold approaching is just trying to get your point across as quickly as possible.
/r/seduction27/10/25 02:16 AM
88

Don't cling to her leg, its annoying.
/r/seduction26/10/25 10:47 PM
1

Not sure about me? Im not proving anything, I'll find someone else. Best believe shes sure about the person she actually likes.
/r/seduction26/10/25 02:41 PM
4

Yoooo facts.
/r/seduction26/10/25 02:40 PM
3

Stop punishing him for someone else's actions.
/r/seduction25/10/25 10:15 PM
1

It depends if they like built men.
/r/seduction25/10/25 01:52 PM
2

Other girls have seen her naked?
/r/seduction25/10/25 02:01 AM
7

Im.just happy to see it.
/r/seduction25/10/25 02:00 AM
-7

I'd want to know sooner than later.
/r/seduction24/10/25 06:46 PM
1

When do you escalate to sex?
/r/seduction24/10/25 06:35 PM
1

Oh no.
/r/seduction24/10/25 04:49 AM
3

If I have to spend alot of money to impress someone, its not worth it.
/r/seduction23/10/25 11:46 PM
1

What happened in your marriage?
/r/seduction23/10/25 10:14 PM
1

Thats how it should be...right? Doesn't matter if you're going on a coffee date, you're spending time together. Doesn't matter if the other person doesn't text as much, you still keep in contact. They dont want to have sex right away, thats fine, but you're not going to wait around forever.
/r/seduction23/10/25 10:13 PM
3

Its sad that when a woman shows interest, we think its a scam. Idk, she sounds sketchy. Why ask for your number if she couldn't even give her name.
/r/seduction23/10/25 03:02 PM
1

Maybe theirs some truth to what we're saying. She says no, kisses you back; thats peer pressure. If she was testing you, that's still toxic because she doesn't mean what she says. Its a sign that you dont take no as an answer, and thats a red flag.
/r/seduction22/10/25 12:28 AM
1

She kept saying no...
/r/seduction21/10/25 11:47 PM
1

Nvm
/r/seduction21/10/25 08:23 PM
0

Is what it is
/r/seduction21/10/25 08:12 PM
1

My memory is a fog
/r/seduction20/10/25 02:14 PM
1

What do you usually talk about?
/r/seduction20/10/25 12:42 PM
3

I prefer being direct. Flirting isnt my strong suit.
/r/seduction19/10/25 10:31 PM
7

Cringe looks cool
/r/seduction18/10/25 02:35 AM
10

You dont text, you show that you're not clingy. Probably a drastic change for them.
/r/seduction18/10/25 01:58 AM
7

Drastic change somehow.
/r/seduction18/10/25 01:57 AM
1

Never know
/r/seduction17/10/25 10:48 PM
1

That busy schedule sounds a bit suspicious. Why even give you her number if shes not free?
/r/seduction17/10/25 10:33 PM
15

Whats wifey type?
/r/seduction17/10/25 02:54 AM
1

Got whatvyou wanted though.
/r/seduction17/10/25 01:33 AM
4

Hookups don't do anything for you?
/r/seduction16/10/25 10:10 PM
3

If she actually wants you, then maybe.
/r/seduction14/10/25 09:53 PM
1

What did you talk about exactly?
/r/seduction14/10/25 05:15 AM
1

Their punishment is their relationships not working out.
/r/seduction13/10/25 06:09 PM
1

Confidence is being your natural self, and believing in your ability to attract people. If you need to change who your are for social purposes, then you're not confident. If someone doesn't like you, you just move on; you don't try to win their affection.
/r/seduction13/10/25 02:10 PM
1

True.
/r/seduction13/10/25 02:07 PM
2

Why try for a second date, if they don't even bother to be consistent?
/r/seduction13/10/25 01:51 PM
3

You may just be making up scenarios in your head. Women stare at men for different reasons; mainly because they need to be aware of their surroundings.
/r/seduction12/10/25 01:47 PM
3

Yeah, you can't win sometimes.
/r/seduction12/10/25 01:44 PM
1

I saw 28f, guess you ment yourself.
/r/seduction12/10/25 01:30 PM
1

You say that you fell first a woman, not a man, but the same thing applies. You can never really tell who's truly flirting, or if their playing around. Even if you end up dating, they could be an entirely different person. Its really frustrating.
/r/seduction12/10/25 11:51 AM
1

What happened?
/r/seduction12/10/25 11:20 AM
1

Im definitely not a ladies man; you have the general idea down. Just a quick conversation with no expectation of reciprocation. Acting natural and intelligent. Got to accept not everyone likes your style, but thats what makes you unique too. Rejection hurts, but its also redirection. I'd rather find a girl that likes my weirdness, than getting shamed for it. Hope this helps.
/r/seduction12/10/25 11:16 AM
1

Maybe their advice about you being too pushy is right. Women want sex too, but they may feel like you're pressuring them somehow. Are you immediately going in by flirting with them? Are you asking them to hangout at your house immediately? Do you display an air of desperation around you? Idk, but you probably need to take a step back, and get to them personally first. Sounds crazy, but women definitely have a six sense for touch starved men, and you're on their radar. Im not in college anymore, …
/r/seduction12/10/25 01:38 AM
14

Youre sort of right in a way. Dbags get the girl because they enforce their standards. Nice guys get friendzoned. Though I wouldn't want to date someone I have to act like an a$whole too.
/r/seduction11/10/25 02:58 PM
1

Getting more testosterone isn't going to make me more extroverted. I have been rejected alot, so I just stop trying.
/r/seduction11/10/25 12:30 AM
1

The world isn't ment for introverts.
/r/seduction10/10/25 11:42 PM
1

Thats a good approach. Its more of a "in the moment thing". For men, we really do need a multifaceted arsenal; women aren't usually coming up to us.
/r/seduction10/10/25 10:34 PM
6

Yeah, it really depends on who you meet.
/r/seduction10/10/25 07:53 PM
5

The more you interact with someone, the greater chance you might find them attractive. You see a beautiful person, and you go for it. You like their personality, and you pursue them. Anywhere else, its just a quick interaction, and you go about your business. Online dating basically relies on physical attributes, and thats not everyone's strong suit. Also working with a partner is pretty neat.
/r/seduction10/10/25 07:53 PM
2

Depends how long since the date, but I wouldn't message again. Just assume they moved on.
/r/seduction10/10/25 06:14 PM
3

If they were already a friend, then maybe, but not in a dating scenario.
/r/seduction09/10/25 06:33 PM
6

Backup option.
/r/seduction09/10/25 01:31 PM
1

Not sure that's even a thing. Maybe if their staring and smiling, but I'm not guessing anyone's intentions. Just come up and talk to me.
/r/seduction09/10/25 12:48 PM
1

Not sure that's even a thing. Maybe if their staring and smiling, but I'm not guessing anyone's intentions. Just come up and talk to me.
/r/seduction09/10/25 12:47 PM
1

Yeah, screw that.
/r/seduction09/10/25 12:46 PM
2

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. A little pain for reward later. Yeah, its all about taking risks.
/r/seduction08/10/25 12:48 PM
1

Not everyone can brush off rejection easily. It takes a toll. It's awful advise to say you can't protect yourself.
/r/seduction07/10/25 11:26 PM
3

It feels like a waste of time.
/r/seduction07/10/25 02:21 AM
2

Also when sh me said what crimes you were committing, you could have just said world domination, instead of cosplay. Idk, its not obvious what would work, but she appeared to just be really playful.
/r/seduction06/10/25 11:53 PM
19

Easier to not assume anything. Too many times a sign has just led to rejection.
/r/seduction06/10/25 11:50 PM
2

Too much texting.
/r/seduction06/10/25 10:16 PM
10

I hate loud people
/r/seduction06/10/25 10:13 PM
20

How do you know she even wanted your attention?
/r/seduction06/10/25 10:13 PM
1

Not sure if you mean happy, but the idea is to be calm at the very least.
/r/seduction06/10/25 10:06 PM
3

Most men are just happy they get to see them.
/r/seduction06/10/25 08:13 PM
1

Yep, too much pressure on yourself. Take it slow.
/r/seduction06/10/25 06:16 PM
0

The world is made for extroverts unfortunately. Good luck on getting approached yourself.
/r/seduction06/10/25 06:15 PM
4

Is what it is.
/r/seduction06/10/25 06:14 PM
1

You're meeting someone that has no attachment to you. Chances are they don't find you attractive or interesting, so of course it may not work out. Its a numbers game for men in general. Women don't have to approach, so its not something their desperate to make work. Its just a meeting, not a date.
/r/seduction06/10/25 06:14 PM
1

Hopefully its enough
/r/seduction06/10/25 02:36 PM
1

What signs?
/r/seduction06/10/25 12:51 AM
10

Literally everyone I know has been in a relationship, aside from me. I'll probably die alone.
/r/seduction05/10/25 10:03 PM
3

Might have? I hope so, because its solo life if not.
/r/seduction05/10/25 10:01 PM
15

Cold approaching is so mentally exhausting though. You strike out alot. Close proximity is so much smoother.
/r/seduction05/10/25 08:13 PM
54

Thats the problem with the loniness epidemic in general. Work or school, takes up most of our time, so if you don't find anyone in those places, you're sort of screwed. You can join clubs, or go to events, but those people are probably in relationships already. Online dating as never worked for me, I'm not genetically gifted. I'd probably date someone I know, over a stranger too.
/r/seduction05/10/25 08:11 PM
1

You had people to fill the loniness gap, so you can definitely find a partner.
/r/seduction05/10/25 01:57 PM
3

Whats the difference between a casual and serious relationship?
/r/seduction05/10/25 01:56 PM
3

No, if you don't find them attractive, then don't date them. You want to compliment the person you're attracted too.
/r/seduction04/10/25 11:55 PM
7

I just like seeing the best parts stand out. :)
/r/seduction04/10/25 12:41 PM
1

For women, it's when their just posting themselves in a bikini. I assume they have alot of confidence in their body.
/r/seduction03/10/25 10:14 PM
2

Ask them.their thoughts on different subjects.
/r/seduction03/10/25 08:15 PM
-3

Ok, ok, jeez. That's alot of insults in this post.
/r/seduction01/10/25 10:46 PM
4

If they lose interest, thats their disorder. Not anything to do with you.
/r/seduction29/09/25 03:28 PM
1

Just text. If they dont text, then why would they want to talk on the phone? Those other girls were just too immature anyway
/r/seduction29/09/25 02:38 AM
1

Id want to ask her does she really like me, or is she just using me to get close to the friend. I dont like feeling second place either.
/r/seduction29/09/25 02:17 AM
9

I just assume she thinks im harassing her, and walk away.
/r/seduction28/09/25 11:54 PM
21

Play games with women, and they'll play games with you.
/r/seduction28/09/25 09:02 PM
1

Use it or lose it.
/r/seduction26/09/25 04:54 AM
6

You should stop when youre realizing your chasing. A woman thats interested in you, won't actually make you chase her; she'll meet you halfway.
/r/seduction25/09/25 10:49 PM
5

Some people have their skill points into different classes. He might not be a responsible person, but he is good at making women feel special. It's just like how you might be good at making money, but that doesn't mean you can flirt well. I know men like your friend that have the same situation going on. There are also broke women that can charm high status men. Its just a natural ability.
/r/seduction25/09/25 10:39 PM
13

Exactly like you said, their actually hit on less. That ego stuff is a turn off.
/r/seduction25/09/25 12:45 PM
1

"Sup"
/r/seduction24/09/25 07:04 PM
1

Lol ok
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:43 PM
1

Since its a work setting, I wouldn't recommend it, but I really value touch. You come up to me, give me a hug, rub my back, and put your hand on my leg when we're near eachother. You can also bring some gifts that he likes; buy him some food or whatever else. Its already tough to tell if a woman is interested in you, especially in a work setting. Better to be wrong, than make her uncomfortable, is usually the male experience.
/r/seduction24/09/25 03:09 PM
1

Idk man, im more direct. I just want to know.
/r/seduction24/09/25 02:10 PM
1

" can I ask you a personal question? Do you find me physically attractive? I wanted to see if our relationship can be something more. "
/r/seduction24/09/25 09:49 AM
1

Yeah, thats what I expect. Their has to be some attraction to even transfer to a romantic relationship.
/r/seduction24/09/25 07:21 AM
1

Only way to find out m, is too send that risky text.
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:40 AM
1

We're you attracted to hom beforehand, or did it grow over time?
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:39 AM
1

How'd you specifically get out of the friendzone?
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:39 AM
1

Did you always initiate the romantic side?
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:38 AM
1

If youre dead set on it, I would just compliment her dedication to the workout, and go from there. Maybe if youre already on your way out, and shes taking a break, you can talk for a quick minute and leave. No awkward silence if you were still exercising afterwards.
/r/seduction24/09/25 05:34 AM
0

Youre more likely to get approached for money, rather than a genuine relationship. I talked to a few women about dating guys they find attractive, but don't have alot of money. They said they'd still date their crush, regardless if their momentarily broke.
/r/seduction24/09/25 04:49 AM
1

Didn't lose my virginity until I was 26.
/r/seduction22/09/25 06:11 PM
15

You can socialize once a year when you take pto.
/r/seduction21/09/25 10:38 PM
1

Do they usually come to you?
/r/seduction18/09/25 10:06 PM
1

Why 40?
/r/seduction18/09/25 09:49 PM
-2

Why?
/r/seduction18/09/25 09:48 PM
1

Way overthinking it. Go get you're woman.
/r/seduction18/09/25 09:48 PM
2

A woman will date a 4/10 if she wants you. They'll always make exceptions for the people they like.
/r/seduction18/09/25 09:01 PM
1

Wasted your time.
/r/seduction17/09/25 01:29 PM
1

A fake dominant?
/r/seduction17/09/25 01:24 PM
2

Appreciate it. Worst thing you can do is start jumping the gun, and think shes flirting with you. Sometimes a compliment is just a compliment. Women usually dont give put comments, because they know where it leads.
/r/seduction17/09/25 12:28 PM
6

You did it before, and you can do it again. Definitely focus on your living situation for now though.
/r/seduction17/09/25 04:34 AM
2

Holding his chin and kissing him works.
/r/seduction17/09/25 01:17 AM
1

Why sex less?
/r/seduction17/09/25 01:16 AM
2

Makes sense.
/r/seduction16/09/25 02:19 PM
3

Idk man, every dynamic is different. Some want to flirt a bit and wait; some just want to jump your bones after the first date. I'd rather just be upfront about it, and see if their can be compromise.
/r/seduction16/09/25 01:55 PM
3

Dating just has the relationship part to it.
/r/seduction16/09/25 01:46 PM
3

Dont chase woman that dont want you. She needs space is code for leave her alone. Their is no push or pull, just moving on. Respect yourself.
/r/seduction16/09/25 01:10 PM
4

Waiting until marriage is crazy to me. What it your libidos are mismatched, or their sexuality is opposite of yours.
/r/seduction16/09/25 01:07 PM
5

Dating and sex go hard in hand. Idk why people act surprised when you want to have sex ASAP.
/r/seduction16/09/25 01:00 PM
3

What happened exactly to not go for first date sex?
/r/seduction16/09/25 12:58 PM
2

Its pussy to not want to make their date uncomfortable by asking for sex?
/r/seduction16/09/25 12:57 PM
5

Counterpoint, its also up to women to make the guy want to have sex with them. All these hints are childish. Just be open.
/r/seduction16/09/25 12:55 PM
17

Its a relationship, not a one sided relationship.
/r/seduction15/09/25 11:48 PM
7

Just a clown until they get bored. No thanks.
/r/seduction15/09/25 11:47 PM
9

It takes two to tango. You do your part, and they do theirs. The spark is really just mutual effort.
/r/seduction15/09/25 11:47 PM
3

If she wanted to, she would.
/r/seduction15/09/25 10:42 PM
12

So screw being introverted then.
/r/seduction15/09/25 12:43 PM
17

Tale as old as time. I'd rather they just say they have a boyfriend, and move on.
/r/seduction14/09/25 01:53 PM
1

Make it a really short one minute conversation. If they want to talk more, then cool.
/r/seduction14/09/25 04:21 AM
8

It still hurts
/r/seduction14/09/25 03:04 AM
4

That was pretty obvious.
/r/seduction13/09/25 11:57 PM
91

Please just be blunt. We dont like hints.
/r/seduction13/09/25 11:56 PM
40

Man, I need that
/r/seduction13/09/25 11:56 PM
2

Im going to read that book too, and I agree that doing things you want is the best way to avoid looking desperate.
/r/seduction13/09/25 08:37 PM
1

I would be careful because long distance relationships usually dont work out. Im not jinxing you or anything, just telling you to be prepared for potential ghosting. Sometimes like throws us a bone, and I hope it works out. How do you go from liking to loving yourself, and does it help with finding romance?
/r/seduction13/09/25 01:35 PM
39

Feels like a brag than helpful advice.
/r/seduction12/09/25 02:00 PM
1

Need the right audience. I have a tendency for datk humor, and its not always appreciated.
/r/seduction12/09/25 01:22 PM
3

Not guaranteed. If they want to meet for a second date, the chances are higher.
/r/seduction11/09/25 10:10 PM
6

If theirs not chemistry on both sides, call it quits.
/r/seduction11/09/25 08:15 PM
10

Hard truth to swallow on the breadcrumbs. Alot of men take what they can get, but it doesn't mean they should.
/r/seduction11/09/25 08:13 PM
2

If its not a solid yes, then its a no. If she wanted to, she would. Dont chase people that dont put effort in.
/r/seduction11/09/25 08:13 PM
-2

I think hugging someone you just met is a bit weird. Id probably go with a handshake. After the end of the date, then a hug if the vibe was there; maybe even a kiss.
/r/seduction11/09/25 06:06 PM
1

Probably would have invited her over to watch anime, instead of tattoo with dad. Youre 23, and still learning, so no worries. There will be entirely of other opportunities. Just some solid advice though, if they don't want to make plans to hang out, then their not interested anyway.
/r/seduction11/09/25 02:10 PM
1

Yep, never had that.
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:51 PM
5

With the way our society is set up, they should. It isn't equal effort these days.
/r/seduction09/09/25 03:30 AM
4

So make sure she spends money on you. Got it.
/r/seduction09/09/25 02:05 AM
6

I like women with strong personalities, so straight rejection is fine.
/r/seduction09/09/25 01:16 AM
2

Nope
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:17 AM
3

I take it as I disgust them.
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:17 AM
7

Even if they have kids, they'll still make time.
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:16 AM
-1

What sign that a girl is into you?
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:16 AM
9

Id rather just get rejected outright
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:15 AM
5

Wdym your mistake?
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:14 AM
15

Thats pretty blunt.
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:13 AM
8

Why below your leauge?
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:13 AM
2

What do you do in your free time? " I just sleep all day." I heard that line too, amd I know its a lie. Just tell me you aren't attracted to me man.
/r/seduction09/09/25 12:12 AM
3

Hmmm maybe, but id hold off until later.
/r/seduction08/09/25 07:48 PM
1

I prefer directness too. Being subtle is hard.
/r/seduction08/09/25 03:34 PM
3

Sounds like you're giving yourself a hard time. You talked too two women, and had chemistry with them. Flirting can be seen as annoying if their not comfortable around you, but looks like you didn't have that problem. The second girl was more obvious with the touching, but I can understand your apprehension. My advice would be to not overthink. You got the number, had a good convo, and now you see if you can escalate it. Invite them out, and state your intentions.
/r/seduction08/09/25 03:32 PM
9

Accept that I might get rejected, but its nothing new. Keep it friendly, and non sexual. Soon as a guy starts getting explicit, its pretty much a turn off. Dont be one of those old dudes, catcalling women. Its embarrassing, and never works.
/r/seduction08/09/25 01:38 PM
1

Its tough to do on the fly.
/r/seduction08/09/25 01:37 PM
4

Im not standing in line; im in my own lane.
/r/seduction06/09/25 01:32 PM
3

Ease into the teasing, but understand you're not everyone ls type. Im very sarcastic, so it works.
/r/seduction06/09/25 01:54 AM
-1

?
/r/seduction05/09/25 05:57 PM
-5

Isnt being funny just subjective?
/r/seduction05/09/25 02:00 PM
1

7-11 guys can have those women then.
/r/seduction05/09/25 04:14 AM
2

No sex?
/r/seduction04/09/25 11:58 PM
2

Sounds like you won.
/r/seduction04/09/25 10:41 PM
5

I can't flirt for anything, so Idk.
/r/seduction04/09/25 10:41 PM
3

Damn, what happened?
/r/seduction04/09/25 10:38 PM
13

What women?
/r/seduction04/09/25 10:38 PM
2

Wdym tease sufficed?
/r/seduction04/09/25 10:38 PM
3

I usually focus on my breathing. Also we're not the ones getting pounded, so no need to make noise.
/r/seduction04/09/25 04:46 AM
2

Dont put them on a pedestal. Their human like you, and have their own hobbies. I wouldn't normally start talking about their physical traits, I'd ask what their interests are, and really listen. Dont be the guy that catcalls her, and says she has a nice body. I get what you mean about freezing up around attractive women, but you have to really not care about their presence. The calm and collected man, is more appealing than the desperate man.
/r/seduction03/09/25 10:06 PM
1

Not over her ex, and is being unprofessional. Bad idea
/r/seduction03/09/25 09:03 PM
1

Working on this myself, but I think not appearing desperate is the answer; have a normal level of confidence. I remember almost pulling some fine girls, but screwed myself over with my anxious attachment. I texted too much, and was always trying to impress them; it came off as really creepy in foresight. Never again though.
/r/seduction03/09/25 12:44 PM
1

I look like crap on camera.
/r/seduction02/09/25 01:13 PM
1

How so?
/r/seduction02/09/25 01:13 PM
3

Really depends on the context. If heir eating something, I'll ask how it tastes. If their shopping, ill ask what they bought. If we're waiting outside in the rain for the bus, I'll mention the weather. I overthink too, and keep conversations short, just in case their not interested.
/r/seduction31/08/25 02:40 PM
3

I assume that as well. Wouldn't approach with another man there?
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:03 AM
2

You dont have to do anything to get her hooked; thats something thats completely up to her. This mindset of doing xyz to please her, isn't going to end well. She doesn't owe you anything, and it sets a people pleaser relationship.
/r/seduction27/08/25 11:26 PM
6

You should really start approach ling men. It sucks for a guy to take a risk, and get rejected for the billionth time.
/r/seduction27/08/25 01:59 AM
9

The part about not finding any other women that gives you attention hits close to home. It feels like you're a monster that found one good person that treats you right, but they eventually leave, and you're back in solitude. I know some women will say they experience this too, but its not to the same extent as men. Every time I double texted someone, I felt my confidence chipping away. Obviously I know if they cared as much as I did, I wouldn't have to double text, but I needed that dose of atte…
/r/seduction26/08/25 05:48 PM
3

Why do these women never text first?
/r/seduction26/08/25 05:42 PM
1

Nothing prepares you for Long term dating.
/r/seduction26/08/25 04:41 AM
1

Still in that relationship?
/r/seduction26/08/25 04:30 AM
8

No. Take turns. If they don't want to pay for anything, then they dont care about you.
/r/seduction26/08/25 04:29 AM
1

I wouldn't have went if their wasn't a response that she was on her way there. No guarantee she would show up anyway, so I would have a backup plan in place; I'd still enjoy a meal if I was at a restaurant, so my time wasn't completely wasted. She's not worth your time anyway man.
/r/seduction25/08/25 10:49 PM
5

Kind of funny how rejection takes different forms based on gender. He didn't directly say no, so theirs a chance.
/r/seduction25/08/25 01:45 PM
7

Just tell him to come visit you in your room. Whats with all these hints?
/r/seduction25/08/25 01:35 PM
2

Ask for their number, and set up a date later. If their interested, it'll be a yes.
/r/seduction24/08/25 11:58 PM
2

On god
/r/seduction24/08/25 11:56 PM
0

I dont want to be anxious all my life, so get the ball rolling now. Watch some self help videos, wave at a stranger, compliment a stranger, have a short one minute conversation with a stranger, and eventually hold a meaningful conversation with someone I like.
/r/seduction24/08/25 01:44 PM
3

Thats the strategy; small buildup over time.
/r/seduction24/08/25 01:43 PM
2

Last year.
/r/seduction24/08/25 02:43 AM
2

I've been working on this too. I went from being shy about approaching any women, to approaching an attractive woman without breaking a sweat. I still dont have a girlfriend, but its progress; much better than hating myself for never trying.
/r/seduction24/08/25 01:36 AM
1

Only thing I'd be concerned with is libido; the older partner can't keep up anymore.
/r/seduction23/08/25 06:46 PM
2

Just vibe and attract
/r/seduction22/08/25 08:13 PM
2

How do you avoid the friendzone?
/r/seduction22/08/25 07:50 PM
2

Worked for you?
/r/seduction22/08/25 06:13 PM
18

" I didn't know he liked me."
/r/seduction22/08/25 06:12 PM
23

I have 0 flirting skills, so neutral conversations are the only way I communicate.
/r/seduction22/08/25 06:12 PM
1

My question is do you even like her? Has she crossed boundaries, and turned you off? Thos whole thing doesn't sound healthy.
/r/seduction21/08/25 10:08 PM
2

Id be proud that I even approached 30 women. Only need to hit the jackpot once.
/r/seduction21/08/25 02:54 AM
1

Youre right.
/r/seduction21/08/25 02:53 AM
51

Just be yourself. Im so serious. If they dont like your personality, then oh well.
/r/seduction20/08/25 09:04 PM
1

Yeah seriously. Not you have to make a certain amount of money, dress nicely, come up with pickup phrases, etc.
/r/seduction20/08/25 03:36 PM
14

Youre not wrong; having some form of control in a chaotic world, can be helpful. Just sitting around complaining, doesn't produce results. Far as dating, especially as a man, it's important to take breaks between periods of rejection. Not everyone can keep up a confident front.
/r/seduction20/08/25 03:35 PM
13

It just shows she has low self esteem. Some women like the swiched dynamic of chasing men. He clearly has other options. I wouldn't want to mimic that lifestyle, but I understand the admiration for it. As a guy that usually chases women, I would prefer being chased too.
/r/seduction20/08/25 02:33 PM
2

I would be more concerned that shes replying less. Like sure, she wants to take things slow physically, but unnecessary to slow down conversation. I would draw back too, or move on.
/r/seduction20/08/25 12:48 PM
2

Oh yeah, alot of guarded people in general. No fun
/r/seduction20/08/25 12:07 AM
7

You got time on your hands.
/r/seduction18/08/25 03:23 PM
8

You know what? True statement.
/r/seduction18/08/25 03:22 PM
1

Stop chasing. You put in effort, and they dont want you back. Keep your standards with the other women. Its just a waiting game.
/r/seduction13/08/25 03:08 PM
1

Being scared doesnt make you a man?
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