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No it takes a real idiot to hit on a woman in the gym. Leave us alone there. This is the nr 1 thing women don’t like about the gym. In the gym I am focusing on selfcare and don’t want to be distracted by clowns that want to get validation, who I then have to argue with that I don’t want to go out with them. Focus on yourself in the gym
/r/seduction22/04/21 09:25 AM
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And also a super annoying experience for a woman. Just let me do my thing in the gym and leave me alone.
/r/seduction22/04/21 09:22 AM
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Yes. It sounds like OP was like: ‘oh well, she turned me off a bit so I decided not to’, when the reasoning should be: she was not conscious enough to make decisions, so not conscious enough to give consent for sex. If a guy would be drunk and half consciously said some strange flirty things and a gay guy would take it as a hint and “only” touch him while he was drunk, I’m sure he would feel violated as well, let alone full blown sex
/r/seduction19/04/21 01:00 PM
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Being drunk means she is not in her right mind to give consent. So you did the right thing. If you would have taken advantage of the situation, that might have ended badly
/r/seduction19/04/21 12:25 PM
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I think he meant a coffeeplace type of bar. If not: then I suggest that haha
/r/seduction19/04/21 08:55 AM
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Bullshit. You don’t understand women when you say crap like this. Most women want a relationship and sex is easy for a woman. That’s why a guy only looking for sex 99% will get rejected. We don’t beat around the bush just to not seem “easy”, women usually don’t want just sex. Because we get hormones after sex, the same hormones women get just after child birth. After sex the dose is obviously much lower. But that’s why we don’t want to have sex with ransoms, we biologically bond to them so if a …
/r/seduction18/04/21 03:01 PM
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No I am saying that many women are open about wanting a relationship and many guys ignoring that to try and just have sex. Which is a huge waste of the woman’s time. If a guy just wants to have sex, he should just be clear about that. So he can meet and match with the women who only want to have sex as well and nobody’s time gets wasted. No need to write pages and pages about it like OP.
/r/seduction17/04/21 08:47 PM
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So guys don’t waste women’s time when all they want is sex, but they hide that?
/r/seduction17/04/21 12:36 PM
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I agree, saying whatever you have to say to a woman just to have sex and leave after is straight up emotional abuse. And it will reduce your own chances of love as well, because you strip love from sex. It gets you used to women that are desperate and act based on emotional trauma caused by you and not because of love.
/r/seduction17/04/21 12:35 PM
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Wow OP you are one messed up guy
/r/seduction17/04/21 12:28 PM
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Thanks so much for your kind comment :) I am taking good care of myself :)
/r/seduction17/03/21 06:14 PM
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I only started looking since corona. I get plenty of messages and matches and conversations but the meeting up part is just impossible. And when it was easier last summer, at least the ones that I ran into were looking for sex only and trying to cover that up
/r/seduction17/03/21 06:13 PM
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Hahahahha thanks that makes me lol😂
/r/seduction14/03/21 08:24 PM
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No but also in Europe. Sorry to hear you guys are also this locked down!
/r/seduction14/03/21 07:35 PM
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Thanks so much, you too sis😘
/r/seduction14/03/21 07:17 PM
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Thanks! :) Wishing you the best as well! :)
/r/seduction14/03/21 06:19 PM
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29F here, I feel the exact same way. The last guys I dated turned out to be assholes and now with corona lockdown it is too difficult since after 9pm we can not leave the house. And in the weekend it rains and it’s cold. All stores bars etc are closed, except supermarkets and pharma. I deleted all my dating apps because I felt like I needed a break. It is just too difficult now. Then a guy that I talked to 2 years ago send me a text. Thought I’d give him a chance. That’s a week ago and he is alr…
/r/seduction14/03/21 05:53 PM
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Plus: be honest about future intentions or the lack thereof, whether you actually like somewhat or just superficial
/r/seduction13/03/21 08:05 PM
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Indeed you don’t know where I’m from. Sinkage leave the judgement? I’m Dutch! Most guys here are like me, freakishly tall. I’m the shortest in my family, all the guys are like 192+. And in general I think the average for guys here is like 185? Maybe taller. So there are a lot of guys that are within this bracket. If you think 10cms shorter is barely a difference, well I don’t agree. So yeah maybe don’t assume and project your frustrations onto me. I have no insecurities about height. Only prefer…
/r/seduction11/03/21 05:09 AM
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Yes that is true. Well to be fair, I don’t care a great deal, but if it’s 10cm shorter than me I do care. And I am 182 so this is very possible: And ofcourse they would be the ones wasting their time, but I did not want to be so rude to say to you that they waste their time with you. If your method does not give you negative results, then why not. Do what works and feels best to you. I would think that does not work out, but who am I. I don’t think you have to care about your height at all in a …
/r/seduction11/03/21 02:13 AM
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Yeah I get what you’re coming from. But don’t you just waste your time then? I’m a tall woman so if someone is (IMO) too many cms shorter than me then it’s just really not going to happen. For this reason I usually ask this pretty quick though
/r/seduction11/03/21 01:21 AM
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Well that in itself sounds super insecure tbh. It’s not cruel to have dealbreakers, everyone has them and there’s nothing wrong with that. I’m pretty sure you have them too and you’re not willing to start something with a completely random person. Almost every guy states it on his profile, not doing so looks way more insecure, like there’s something up with it.
/r/seduction10/03/21 06:21 PM
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I think there is a difference between being super insecure about something, being ok with it and boasting with confidence. I am 182 myself and I find it a turn-off when guys act extremely awkward around their height. But i would love a guy that is neutral about his height. It really does not matter a lot to me.
/r/seduction06/03/21 01:50 PM
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I do think it is smart to say beforehand, because some women care and see it as a dealbreaker. And indeed younger girls care more than 25+. But I am 1.82 myself and I don’t always care about it. As long as the guy does not care himself and make it awkward or weird.
/r/seduction06/03/21 01:34 PM
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Yeah true, I am 29 so maybe that does make a difference indeed
/r/seduction06/03/21 01:32 PM
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I got that
/r/seduction06/03/21 12:32 PM
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I’m a girl. A goodlooking one might I say🙈 It’s not an instant turn-off, at least to me. People are insecure about certain things, men are people. As long as someone is not insecure in all areas of their life and not insecure about everything on a date, then why care? I want someone who understands me when I am insecure about something as well. And can react with empathy. Because I do (and should do) the same. Sounds like you are overthinking this a bit too much. I don’t think there are big “ins…
/r/seduction06/03/21 12:13 PM
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I think ‘I’m quite short indeed’ is a super confident thing to say. No reason to break anything off just because someone says those words..
/r/seduction06/03/21 11:50 AM
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What’s with the aggressive tone
/r/seduction15/12/20 06:03 PM
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As you can read I am not saying I do. Just giving my opinion to state this is not true for all women.
/r/seduction15/12/20 03:18 PM
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Well it certainly does not attract me. And the whole live in the moment type of guy is the least interesting for me. It just signals lack of a longterm vision or care about that.
/r/seduction15/12/20 01:16 PM
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Plenty of people outside of that 4% are
/r/seduction07/12/20 02:12 PM
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Thanks haha. But yeah you get my point, that percentage is super small..
/r/seduction06/12/20 07:33 PM
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What percentage of people is?
/r/seduction06/12/20 06:56 PM
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If I like the guy I would not care. Just don’t do the physical activities and with sex, there’s plenty of things to do.
/r/seduction06/12/20 06:51 PM
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Way to go! :)
/r/seduction17/11/20 02:47 PM
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Yes in the end it is the testosterone rush that is highly addictive. I am glad to hear it is not affecting you :)
/r/seduction13/11/20 07:20 PM
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Indeed, porn is such a big risk for guys mental health! As addictive as cocaine to their brain and messes with them on so many levels. From low testosterone (and therefore confidence and happiness) to not being attracted to “normal” girls because they “experience” sex with the hottest all the time, to ridiculous ideas of what sex should look like and what women like, should like and do in bed. You can only loose! As a woman with a very high libido (I prefer multiple times a day when I’m with som…
/r/seduction13/11/20 06:24 PM
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I mean “you” in general, no need to take it personal. And yeah just another guy telling a woman how she is.. Sure, you know better than us women what we want. You got it. I don’t have too much experience in this field?!😂 Are you joking?? I am a psychologist, preparing to make the switch to couples therapy. I am 29 years old having dated a lot. I am considered good looking and have many guys asking me out. Many (girl)friends in the same area. But no you got me all figured out ;). Don’t be so dumb…
/r/seduction12/11/20 11:40 AM
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I am a woman with a background in psychology and yes that is normal to me. There are plenty of women for whom it takes years as well. Especially if your social skills are less good or you have some problems with mental health or confidence. It takes time to figure out how to bridge the gap to the other sex and how to sustain a connection. That’s life! No need to come up with grande out of proportion statements to make up for the fact you haven’t found your way yet. But in case you want a woman w…
/r/seduction12/11/20 10:58 AM
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So all women only have sex with either famous or rich guys? That comment is just crazy, how would those stats work? The few rich/famous guys have sex with all those millions of women? Come on now, your anxious brain has led you to believe and say silly things. To be clear: women, like all humans, just want to be LOVED. That is way better than validation and for sure way better than mistrusted based on some silly views.
/r/seduction12/11/20 02:39 AM
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