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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | It definitely is. There's nothing more disgusting than being left on read.i like the send over a pizza guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:10 AM |
| 1 | It definitely is. There's nothing more disgusting than being left on read.yes. it’s mean as fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:10 AM |
| 7 | It definitely is. There's nothing more disgusting than being left on read.what is left on read? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:57 AM |
| 3 | sneak peak into the realities of a pickmeishaI heard it was fantastic but have been afraid I will see that it is just a secret biography of me. and I will be mortified! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020I’m right there with you. Everything feels like a compromise right now. Until someone is a positive 100% i’m just working on myself, home, kids, work, passions, exercise— all these are 100% rewarding | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 09:08 PM |
| 5 | OOF.BRILLIANT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 08:50 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered March 15th 2020Fuck fuck fuck. He got me again. Said he wanted me back. I asked why? You had good reasons I said. And I went anyway. He flew me down to San Diego. So I could accompany him in his sabbatical road trip. He said he wanted to be together. Then he acted differently, coldly, chillingly. It felt wrong. I tried to talk to him. He closed his eyes. Shut me out. Refused to talk. “Ultimately we cannot give each other what we need.” That’s what he said. Refused to explain. Or discuss at all. Once again I’m … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/20 08:32 PM |
| 9 | Withdrawal Survival GuideI feel prepared to finally let go and move on from the stagnant place I’ve been. This was so timely. Thank you for this useful, supportive and comprehensive post! It’s exactly what I needed today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 07:38 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020I just want to send you a big hug. Sorry you had that awful date. It’s hard finding someone wonderful who’s also a good fit. I go in and out if dating, and the time/effort it takes to remain open and optimistic. When I lose energy, I take a break and focus on myself and elements of my life that bring me joy. Putting time and energy into myself is ALWAYS worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 05:18 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020No time for that. Move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020Yes! Watch and wait. Don’t go out with someone just because they’re interested. Write a list of qualities you value in a partner. And wait for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Never take a man back.Reading posts like yours really helps! It boggles my mind that knowing what I do, rationally, I’ve continued to make errors in judgment. Happy for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 01:02 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020Thank you. I need this. Those were my words, not his... but they are valid because that’s the way his words make me feel. But you’re right, he spent the night. And didn’t seem to really want me to join him on the trip. He could have made it happen if he’d wanted to. It felt pretty shitty when he left in the morning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020Yikes! And yuck! What a jerk. You definitely need to pull back and evaluate how you choose men you allow in your life,bed, and heart. While I’ve made many many mistakes, and struggle to leave and get over the guy im currently attached to, I’ve been fairly good about dating in general. I try to live by simple rules such as a guy must earn me. — my time, my attention, even just my texts. I’m extremely affectionate and attach deeply, but they must be absolutely fantastic to me to get into that inti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020Don’t know how this is still so hard for me...guy I’ve been seeing on and off for nearly 5 years told me he isn’t certain I’d be a net positive (my words not his) in his life if we are together long term... This week we got together after him asking for time and space to figure out “where to go from here”... trying to determine “if he can live without me”... He had some first dates lined up. Then after only a week, invited me away on Thursday. I said I could possibly go if he helped me cover los… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 11:56 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 2/28/2020I’ve been there. Most harmful was the gas lighting he subjected me to. Telling me I was crazy to be jealous or suspect anything... and how he blamed me nonstop for his unhappiness. He was the most unhappy and critical person I’ve ever known. Anger all the time at home— and directed at me and others in his inner circle. His public and private personas were completely different. Sorry you’re going through this. It took me time and effort to get over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 03:42 PM |
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