Altruistic_Ad_0 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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49	The phenomenon of passport bros is natural selection at work The act of moving to find love is not new. The attitude passport bros have probably isn't either. But like everything else the Internet touches. It makes things more extreme or at least appear that way	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/04/26 12:54 PM
5	Men think women “have it easy” on dating apps. Let’s run a thought experiment. Dating apps do not exist to reduce the prevalence of singles in society. Most apps are run by the same parent company whose only goal is to make as much money as possible. Male and female dissatisfaction while using dating apps is intentionally designed. But the sexes will miss the forest for tree by blaming their experiences on each other. There is nothing to be gained by highlighting how bad is vs them have it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/02/26 03:52 PM
2	Many men and women basically operate as a hivemind. Say it with me. We are all individuals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/02/26 03:02 PM
–	Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive? Nothing stops someone from finding 17 year olds attractive. Laws don't change attraction.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/02/26 01:19 PM
8	GenZ women's "icks" are just a manifestation of their innate preference for rigid gender roles and archetypes. No it's a manifestation of anxious avoidant attachment styles	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/02/26 05:32 PM
1	Masculinity is shamed while femininity is celebrated My man Dan? LMFAO. You must have done zero background research on that guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/26 02:44 PM
1	Women wouldn't hate men so much if they were attracted to them I mean. Just going by your title. This is what really happens in the real world. If you are attracted to someone or love someone we tend to overlook their faults. When we are not attracted to them, become attracted to someone else or were never attracted to them in the first place then we are way more likely to focus on the negatives.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/26 03:03 PM
11	Men will only be happy the day that rape becomes legal, and women will only be happy when medicine will be at its peak What the fuck?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/25 07:40 PM
1	For many women, dating and relationships are basically a business where they try to make as much profit as possible. It goes both ways. But it also depends on the way you grow up. I have a few Scandinavian friends and Slavic friends. The Scandinavian is not very concerned at all about what the man, "brings to the table", as she knows she will live a comfortable life no matter what. My Slavic friends parents grew up in the USSR and told me about how carefree her grandparents were in marrying each other. It was part social expectation to marry young and have children, but also the state gave a relatively comfort…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/25 06:23 PM
0	Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ? No.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/25 02:31 PM
1	Women are vocal when an allegation comes out but go silent when it’s proven false I think what your are describing is called emotional investment. Outage is eye catching. And once the outage stops. It doesn't reverse but instead putters outs	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/25 03:31 AM
3	Female written romantic literature is insanely patriarchal I'd go so far to say that people want their cake and eat it too. There are endless examples of this IRL. But the specific case might be here to have the option of being more or less free and equal while single. While having the option greatly elevate your status by getting involved with the right man. Humans also have incredible empathy for ourselves but rarely for other humans. We are in tune with out own needs, and not anyone else. Even if our needs and wants are impossible to manifest in real…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/25 05:19 PM
2	To women love means power and to men it basically means enslavement. This goes both ways. Humans hardly have a single interaction with eachother that is not on some level manipulative. Whether it is carrot or stick. What I can say is that I personally believe state involvement in relationships if harmful. If people were able to freely associate with one another no one would have to consider staying because of the house, visitation of the kids, shared assets and so on. Sometimes the best medicine for relationships is having your own time apart anyways	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/25 11:20 AM
1	Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equality It's a mixed bag. Some do. Some don't want equality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/09/25 10:54 PM
1	Women are the ones red pilling men, not the manosphere I'm not sure why it has to be one and not both. Every other post here is a false dichotomy	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/25 11:11 AM
2	Why are the good men so opposed to marriage recently? I am a man. But I say this not as a man. I oppose marriage as an institution. People should be free to associate and disassociate at will. And that includes their children. Children are the the property of their parents. And parents should not have to stay in a relationship any longer than necessary because of lifestyle or money and so on. Instead of women want children to be a parent as a society we should accomodate them. Parenthood is not just between a nuclear couple. It also requires work o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/25 03:22 PM
5	The orgasm gap is because women genuinely need fantasy level attraction towards the man they’re having sex with and physical stimulation No. Every woman is different. Learn your partner and do what works best for both of you. Try new things, educate yourself, and do things to stay physically attractive and loved by her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/25 12:54 PM
1	Feminists somehow acknowledge men being expected to be breadwinners, stoic protectors and pursuers under "patriarchy hurts men too" while they simultaneously tell men their dating issues have nothing to do with society or women. People talk like feminism and alternatives are people. Only people are people. And people are assholes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 02:00 PM
1	Makeup skews the dating market LMAO	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 01:01 PM
2	Makeup skews the dating market I mean I don't trust looks I see online. AI is just going to keep getting better and better. I wait to see them in the flesh and without makeup. Men can also use these filters. But like I said. Men do not need to rely on makeup per se in my experience. Increasing masculinity seems to be the most important.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 12:03 PM
2	Makeup skews the dating market I guess the point I was making is that this advantage does not necessarily women only. And if someone is wearing make up to improve their insecurity, it is likely ineffective to actually making them feel like they deserve more.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 11:52 AM
2	Makeup skews the dating market I mean men can wear makeup too. But the most important thing for guys is probably just looking more masculine, smooth skin helps, but masculinity matters more. Get yourself some good cleanser, moisturizer, and sunscreen. That is sufficient.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/04/25 11:46 AM
–	As a guy, I also think that a lot of men today (especially younger generations) have very little to make them attractive on the dating market, and I don’t blame the women who don’t want them and consider themselves better off single. All you can do is try your best. Especially when what is good for relationships also happens to be good for you. Getting a good education, job and taking care of your diet and physical fitness will take care of you when you are single or taken. Whatever happens happens. People can think anything they want. But you should know what is good for you and give yourself every reason to do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/25 09:58 PM
1	Do most older males want younger females in the animal kingdom also or just humans? Human values cannot really be applied to animals. Maybe not even to other humans. I have personally bred dogs and I had an interesting experience. We had two litters of puppies at the same time and one litter was slightly older. We only had one more puppy to send to a home so he slept with me during the night but was supposed to play with the younger puppies during the day. But then I guess he smelled that they were not related and started humping them lol. Note this is just his instincts. And w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/04/25 03:18 PM
12	Do you think gender equality has had a positive effect on dating? It depends. I like it. But I have met women who do not. I am not their dad and am not going to pamper them. "Traditional values" to the women I have dated more or less means do things while I sit at home. I am not into that. Despite what people say. Both men and women get a vote in dating culture. At least in my society. Do not put up what treatment you do not want to get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/03/25 03:28 PM
4	CMV: military conscription (as in the Ukraine) is matriarchal oppression What is best for the state is often not best for the person. The state can decide whether it is better to have an army of slaves or mercenaries or some mix in between. I have no opinion whether conscription should be abandoned or not. What I can say is that the unfairness is easily solved by conscripting women	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 06:44 PM
7	CMV: military conscription (as in the Ukraine) is matriarchal oppression I am saying if you fear of being conscripted and truly fear for your life. Pull out the stops and shoot your recruitment officer if you have to. I wasn't clear so I'll clarify. I wouldn't say it is matriarchal. I don't care to categorize the world. I said it is relevant. But insofar as recent events stirring debate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 06:32 PM
3	CMV: military conscription (as in the Ukraine) is matriarchal oppression What I will say is that it is unfair, unlucky and that when it comes to killing or being killed you have the self determined right to do what you must in order to preserve your life. In our current times this is more relevant than ever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 05:09 PM
3	Marriage and kids benefit men more than women I genuinely dislike this fast and narrow black and white views of the world I often see hear. People in relationships are more complex than that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 03:00 PM
2	Why do men have this perception that going after financial stability = women finding a man ugly? Agreed. You are absolutely right that both looks and money matters. Looks get you short term relationships. Money gives you long term relationships. Both gives you Mr. Right. I am a man, and I seek out earning potential in women. If you are going to tell me do you want a woman with or without money. I am going to choose the woman with money. The more good things we hear about someone we like the more we say yes. Male or Female. But that is just me. To me I am working for my future kids. If my wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/24 11:20 PM
1	women dont love the man, they love themselves throught their man This is basically how Barbie and Ken dolls work. Barbie has the clothes and fun leisure activities to do. Ken has the occupation. The analogy can only go so far because these are toys. But it may have effects on how girls perceive what they want deserve in a relationship. Disney movies have been relatively popular to blame for unrealistic expectations and broken dreams for some of the women in my life as well. I think this also has to do with the age of the world we are in. Occupation is one of …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 11:15 AM
33	Men becoming even better, as women suggest, won't solve much If everyone is better no one is better. Disparity matters a lot in attraction. This is fairly unisex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 07:36 PM
1	Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists. What got my aunt who is a feminist and a therapist to be more understanding is having many young boys and men as clients at work. It is important to understand that people understand themselves best because they perceive the entire world from their own perspective. Which includes anything from, "I'm hungry, thirsty, horny, tired, bored, angry" and much more. Only a miniscule fraction of the time is spent considering another persons point of view. It is then easier for us to use people like us as…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 04:17 PM
1	Women who get the ick = porn brained men Everyone should read about the anxious avoidant attachment style. People who keep finding negative things about people who they know, or even do not know or who keep finding negative associated traits to their love interests are likely avoiding getting close to people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 02:00 AM
3	If the women in your life don't support you, how would debating about it, especially here, change anything? I am personally very interested in what advice people have. Nevermind the last statement from OP. I read that from people too, its just not as important as my in person relationships. It is just that I am at my wits end. This year has been awful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 02:34 AM
2	Women would become less picky if men increased their parental investment This is separate from your hypothesis above. At least for general interest in men. Women would be less selective if there were less men. Supply and demand. Same goes for men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/24 06:05 PM
1	Feminists call for "vulva diversity" but shame small dicks in mainstream media I don't think the people who do this care about how men feel. However they are intimately aware of how self conscious they are. It is sad to say that I don't expect people to have sympathy for others who are not like them. But it has been proven to me with life experience that this is the case. Pointing out hypocrisy is not effective, being understood as being apart of their tribe is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/24 11:59 PM
5	Do Red Pill men get desensitized to female beauty? Desensitization will happen to anybody. Male or female. With the internet we already know beauty standards are rising. And probably because some people are better at Photoshop and Instagram filters than others. We subconscious prefer people who are pretty. This is a well known fact. Our feeds get filled with these pretty people. And our perception of the world changes as a result. As a young teen who only followed people who I knew years ago, I did not get this. But many of my friends did. Celeb…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 07:14 PM
2	Do most men on dating apps just try to match with virtually every woman? It is a supply and demand thing. There are more men on dating apps. So more men lower their standards, while women raise their standards. I had the opposite happen to me in college as a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/24 06:55 PM
–	Do we have to pin women down to a science. People should try their best to learn about other people. Because most of the time they only think of themselves. Which is only a part of the whole equation. If someone is thinking too much of women and not interacting with them, then there needs to be a balance. That goes without saying for most things in life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/24 10:36 PM
0	Submission is earned. No not really. I'm talking about that sort of desperate situation people can get in when they meet someone who they would do anything for because they don't want to lose them. These people are an absolute catch to the person in question and don't want to make it harder for themselves to catch them by making too many demands. I hope this clears it up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 08:03 PM
-3	Submission is earned. I would make a caveat and say submissiveness is also a measure on how much someone wants you. And is not limited to traditional roles. Can you make them do anything for you? Congratulations, they are very attracted to you. The next thing to think about is whether this is sustainable behavior long term. If she can't or I can't keep up appearances and performances during the later stage of a relationship, then there needs to be a talk	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 01:48 PM
1	Why do men seem to almost exclusively focus on physical things? Romance is bodies seeking bodies. Physical attractiveness is always going to be a big factor. The truth is that men are interested in the mental emotional side of connection. However they are going to want to give it and get it from women who are physically attractive to them personally. Unfortunately many men are put into the giver role too often, and put out emotional and mental support more often than they give. But I suspect this can change somewhat in the future on average. Given how there …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/24 01:44 PM
1	Do Modern Men Want Women to be More Submissive or more Masculine? We no longer live in a society where the cost of living is cheap enough for a single income household to be a reality. It if ever was. So while I have met lots of different women. I tend to pass on women who don't have earning potential. Which is not normally a problem, as most women seem to have something going for them monetarily. If you consider this a masculine trait. Then I suppose that is so. I have met women who wanted me do pay for everything. But I did not have all the money. Needless t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/24 01:28 AM
1	Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspective Disrespect is not a good look early on in any relationship, romantic, business, familial anything. As a man. Yes I am attracted to young adult women. Walking down the street or sitting on a park bench people watching I have a good grasp of what I like. And there is some biological component to my personal male heterosexual preferences. But when I see someone I don't like, I ignore them, I don't disrespect them. So much in life can be solved by not opening your yap about what you think about othe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/24 10:33 PM
–	Men are shamed for basically having sexual desires This happens to me all the time. I try to remind people politely but firmly that there is nothing wrong with my male heterosexual masculinity, and that there is a lot of overlap between how men and women work. Hell some of these same women have groped me. Nothing threatening from my perspective, but just something I note. Double standards also may exist for a reason. We know people like to have their cake and eat it too. Again both sexes. But to justify the double standard and believe that there…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 03:07 PM
–	Why aren't males attending singles events anymore? I am a totally different person when I am comfortable with people. Singles mixers sound very business like and straight forward. I think in many ways that is a relief. But I personally prefer a more well rounded social function. Going out with expectations is not my favorite. Even if I don't get home with someone's number in my pocket I still like to just socialize. Whatever happens happens. From my outsider opinion, it would probably be too much judgement to me. I'd give it a chance at last onc…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/24 03:23 AM
–	CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted. There is a phenomenon in antelope where they will groom the antelope they have seen more than once but will not to a complete stranger. This is because if they have seen you more than once they know that they have to work with you to survive, so they invest their time and energy in grooming which is easiest when you have a friend helping you out. The same thing goes with the bystander effect I would presume. Someone is being dragged away or someone is having a heart attack and no one intervenes.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/24 02:50 PM
2	Q4M: Do you find it sexist when people say "Man up!"? We should make people as strong as we can according to our best understanding. Telling someone to "Man up" says more about how uninvested the teller is to the man having trouble. If it were that easy we would be ubermenschen. These days people are having issues, and yet we face a system that is more uncaring than ever. There is no love in "Man up".	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/24 12:59 AM
1	Marriage is not a requirement anymore and you don’t need to do it if you’re not fully committed to the whole thing In my Western country marriage is more of a liability than a benefit in anyway. Being roommates provides the same amount of economic benefit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/24 12:52 AM
15	Some research or survey came out saying 45% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women. In my 20's and I have approached women. Every single time they turn me down. And I think I know exactly why. You have to be all show in order to ensnare a women you just found out somewhere in public. Maybe you are much handsomer than average. Maybe you have big muscles. Maybe she can tell you spend a lot of money to look the way you do. I am none of those things. And male or female we always set the bar a little higher for people who we do not know. Men and women both seek to horde the opposite…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 01:25 AM
1	If sex is the universal "carrot on a stick" for women, what would the male equivalent be? More complicated question after a second thought. Men can do a lot for women. But women can also get those things elsewhere. Albeit not in a way that is male shaped. Attention, monetary support and so on can be provided if the woman has a strong enough network. I would say the same for men. Men have numerous options for sexual activities that do not include a women who they are in a relationship with. It is just that they probably prefer the idea of a girlfriend or wife. Men and women can exchan…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/24 05:12 PM
2	"Men need to treat us like human beings " is deceptive A rule that I have discovered through my own life experience and whispers from other people is that people want to have their cake and eat it too. Simply put, people are hypocrites. And they are probably right for being hypocrites. While being exposed as one can hurt your reputation. The purpose of having rules apply to everyone else and not to you, is a core part of maximizing agency, power and setting boundaries. Maybe the people around us are not in the mood to take power for themselves or ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/24 07:30 PM
1	Men's romantic success depends on their ability to succeed at patriarchy and capitalism I wonder if this is different in clan based societies if that is the right word. I do not live in one so I can only speculate. I always felt that a nuclear family was a modern invention and did not fully encompass what was possible for human organization in eventually raising children. Having an extended family or close knit group of real friends to help with childcare would not ever diminish how women are attracted to men, but give men more ways to be attractive to women if they come from a goo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/24 11:56 PM
1	Divorce is Contagious I have only been in the mood to j walk if someone else did before me. Everyone is subjected to these social forces. But I'd also argue that marriage, pregnancy, infidelity all rub off on all of us too. Not an exclusive list.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/24 03:52 AM
2	most women want to be freed of all traditional female gender roles, but they want men to conform to male gender roles that benefit women, and abandon male gender roles that harm women In broad strokes. In general people are self interested. They know and feel their own needs far better than they know someone else's. I don't actually think this behaviour of having your cake and eating it too is actually a bad thing. Being a hypocrite seems to be how you advocate the most for yourself. And some people actually get their way. Both men and women do this. And if only women did it, we should be telling men to do it as well, vice versa. The truth or logic is really secondary for hum…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/06/24 10:30 AM
1	How would legal prostitution change society in America? It would change nothing	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 05:45 PM