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I don't think they hate bad boys lol. They hate / bitter towards the women who choose to fuck someone else other than them. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 02:41 AM
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There isn't. Why would any sane woman sacrifice her peace for a partner she's not satisfied with? Isn't that the whole premise of the "male loneliness epidemic"?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:28 AM
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Really? Lol. Just count the number of news articles surrounding a women being grievously hurt after rejecting a man vs the other way round. Get a grip please.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 12:27 AM
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I think you've been watching too much manosphere nonsense. Men like to project their own sexuality onto women. Just because they'll be more than happy having countless sexual partners, they apply that same logic to women thinking that they'll sleep with any Tom/Dick/Harry she finds attractive that comes along. Sexually promiscuous people tend to get together. Same for non sexually promiscuous people. The sooner you stop wasting your energy on imagining your partners sexual history, the less like…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 04:27 PM
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50/50 only works when there's no kids involved and both parties have almost equal earning power. Any other arrangement simply builds up resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:12 AM
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I don't see a problem. Endless growth is not sustainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:54 AM
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Because some men seem to have trouble comprehending between different groups of women having different preferences. Shocker, I know. And if for some reason you can't meet the preferences of any women, well, the problem is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:33 PM
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Well, men who choose to self victimise and blame women for everything wrong in their lives will stay single, and continue whining about their dissatisfaction while dodging accountability online. Those who don't, will thrive better. Same as always. Also, from the ridiculous assumptions you seem to make about women from your post, I don't even think you seem to like them that much. So why try to date women at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 06:50 PM
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Are we supposed to feel sorry for you that you can't pay to date the women you want? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 01:14 PM
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Have you actually met a much younger woman who was willing to date you, or is this yet another hypothetical scenario for you to be mad at women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 07:36 AM
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Frankly, she's a grown ass adult. Her mental health is her own problem to fix, so long as you're not contributing to its decline. Just move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:52 AM
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Pigs will be pigs. There's no logical way to counter their lust and/or misogyny. It's a gym, dress what makes you work out comfortably so long as you're not breaking any gym rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:49 AM
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She found a new sugar daddy. But then again, she might have a different side of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:48 AM
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Nah, I think it's just people finding self-fulfillment in things outside of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:46 PM
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Men have always been the shallower sex when it comes to looks. It's pretty funny to see them crash out when beauty standards are now applied to them. Look how many whine about their height 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 12:32 PM
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It's "discouraged" because when a guy goes to such events for solely trying to hit on women, it's exceedingly obvious and comes across as desperate and pathetic. And also, it's because at some point, us women have seen/met such a guy before. No, it often doesn't work and we just laugh at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:36 PM
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Yet another example of OP projecting his own insecurities as some sort of "meaningful" advice or commentary. And frankly, this reminds me of broke men complaining about gold diggers 🤣 Buddy, no one has the time or energy to be in a relationship they're not interested in. Especially when there is no societal obligation to. We have work, school, hobbies and friends typically. If we make time for you, it means that there is interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:57 PM
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Lol. I don't think you'll be meeting 'good women' anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:12 AM
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Lol. Your flair is fitting, dodging all accountability as usual and blaming women for your personal flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:52 AM
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No supply without demand. You should ask your fellow men to be less horny. How is paying for sex work any morally better than actually doing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 10:45 AM
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Do you have that little self-respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:39 AM
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The "good men" you're referring to in this whole spiel is really just you right? And the not "good women" are just those who I'm guessing rejected you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 03:35 AM
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Depends on the men you're competing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:04 AM
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I'm OK with bringing back shame. The audacity of some people is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 02:01 AM
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Men walk away even if the child is biologically theirs lol. Is the reason why paternity fraud seems to be so contentious that you literally can't find any other equivalent example of women getting screwed over by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:06 AM
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Why are western men so hateful towards women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 05:37 AM
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It's not an airport. You don't need to announce your departure.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:25 PM
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It's just easier and more peaceful. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:02 AM
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About the same as single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:39 PM
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Or you can aim for someone less attractive. Mind blowing right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 11:54 PM
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Bear is not a victim and neither are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:12 PM
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Lol. A movie about a man's utter selfishness ruining the lives of everyone around him, and of course, you managed to make it about how men (or you) are victimised. Give me a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 03:48 PM
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Lol. So this has nothing to do with "compatibility" isn't it? You're worrying about your imaginary girlfriend's or wife's promiscuity mainly because you hadn't had the chance to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:28 PM
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Like you said, prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 09:25 PM
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I disagree. You can always set a date for signing that legal document. But understanding each other's living habits is extremely important. And you can decide how to split chores / finances in a way that works for both of you. Sort of like a trial period. Good thing is, if he's a total slob or manchild when it comes to domestic work, or that you're doing unfairly more, you can dump him without going through the hassle of a divorce. Which is kind of the whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:07 PM
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How would I know? Ask those women. Dishonesty isn't gender specific. My point to OP was applying self control on the basis of anyone besides yourself is frankly stupid. Like you said, the person you're imagining might not even exist. What's to stop her from lying about her sexual history? Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:02 PM
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Honestly, I find the premise of restricting yourself for someone you don't even know ridiculous. Do women perceive there are ANY restrictions on their sexuality, for their own good? Frankly other than the risk of STD and unwanted pregnancies, no. If they want to fuck badly enough, they will. Same goes for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:38 PM
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This question doesn't make sense. If a woman has to suppress a part of herself, how would that man be compatible? And you realise something like body count is extremely easy to lie about and virtually unprovable right? Why would a promiscuous woman have to restrict herself when there are basically no consequences?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 02:30 PM
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Men overwhelmingly choose women based off their character. I don't think you're living in the real world, at all. Do you have any male friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:17 PM
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Have you ever tried basing your views off couples in real life rather than your social media algorithm?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 05:54 PM
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I don't really care where someone finds love, if it's 2 consenting adults. What disturbs me is when you see them talking about women liking picking products off a shelf. That's pretty much the entire passport bros sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 02:06 PM
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Yes, men want the power to control women and their bodies. We all know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:27 AM
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You should take your own advice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:55 AM
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Pity?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:20 AM
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If you want a pet, get an animal like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:12 AM
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I don't think you're awakening anyone, other than sounding like sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:08 PM
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I don't understand why this is even a topic of contention. If you suspect that the child is not yours, just get it done privately. You don't need the consent of the mother. Or is this yet another some ridiculous fantasy you made up to get mad at women for no reason? What are the chances of this even happening to you? Is your partner pregnant? Do you even have 1 in the first place? Or are you making up reasons to divorce your imaginary wife? It's an illness, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 12:40 PM
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Do you work?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:42 AM
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If that's one of your criteria, nothing wrong with it. But from your post history, you seem to have an extreme gripe with women in general. If you dislike / resent us so much, why spend so much energy even trying to date in the first place? Or are you just trying to comfort yourself by pre-rejecting women who you know won't even give you a chance in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 11:21 AM
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You don't seem to grasp the difference between criticism of your logic vs hate or misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:13 AM
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Most women don't spend time or energy hating men they're not interested in fucking. They just don't care / are completely indifferent. No one's out to get you 🤣, you're not a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:06 AM
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Nope. Grown adults can control their moods and libido. It's not a mind blowing concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:26 PM
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Sure, but that doesn't mean it can't be controlled. And I disagree with the overall message of your post, which is that women need to always accommodate their husband's sex drive. The onus should be on men to control it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:17 PM
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If it's no, I think you're underestimating the effects of taking care of young children and the strain it takes on your mental and physical well-being in general. You'll probably want to revisit this once you've done a month of graveyard shifts. If it's yes, I think you're underestimating the effects of taking care of young children and the strain it takes on other women's mental and physical well-being in general, and how much it varies women to women. Some can bounce back like it's nothing, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:06 PM
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I'm curious, do you have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:57 PM
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Of course it's about you, but you seem to lack the self awareness to realise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:54 PM
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A prime example of what porn addiction does to a mind. Thinking that any slightly attractive woman is there to be gawked or leered at. Try to control your lust rather than blaming women for a poor lack of decency and self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:48 PM
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I think it's actually him lol. I find it ridiculous that anyone would believe that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:07 AM
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When you get falsely defamed for someone you didn't do, with your name attached to some wild and degrading story tied to your professional career for the rest of your life, perhaps you would understand "her problem". But even then, I highly doubt you would be able to empathise with anyone outside your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:03 AM
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Men like OP are the reason how some guys like Andrew Tate are still relevant. Even after they're proven to be in the wrong / committed illegal acts towards women, they still somehow manage to convince themselves that the women somehow wronged them. Pure delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:01 AM
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Are you him by any chance 🤣 He's not a victim, it's pretty obvious from any report regarding this case. Her name however was smeared and will forever be attached to some man suffering from delusions. But then again, you seem incapable of holding your fellow men accountable. Frankly, I hope she gets the full amount and more. This idiot will probably have to declare bankruptcy and no longer be able to find work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:54 AM
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I hope she gets the full amount she wants from that idiot. You want so badly for men to be victims 🤣. The vast majority of sexual harassment assaults are committed by men against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:49 AM
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But your perception or what you see on social media is more valid / accurate? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:43 AM
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Then find 1 quality to prioritise
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:00 AM
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So you're hypersexual, but complaining about promiscuous women? No one's knocking on you for your mental issues, but your hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:25 AM
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Well, if repeating that helps you cope, sure 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:14 PM
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And I'm honestly saying, I can count on one hand the number of times the man was more attractive than the woman in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:09 PM
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They don't. Step outdoors and look around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:25 PM
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Pretty much anywhere. Probably not on porn websites.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 10:13 PM
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If you look at his comment history, he talks about jacking off so much that it’s leaving scars on his penis. Oh I'm not looking, but that's hilarious 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:56 PM
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Then find women who are not promiscuous if it bothers you much. Simple, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 09:38 PM
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Then don't approach strangers you don't know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:47 PM
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Frankly, if you're unsuccessful on dating apps, you won't have much success cold approaching in real life either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:43 PM
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Because men have higher libido and more desperate for sex. Is that a new realisation for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 01:18 PM
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However you must acknowledge when you take away men's main leverage, their ability to provide, it means half or more of men end up single and childless. Again, if this is a man's main leverage, it's his problem, not society's. I'm not saying any of this is right or wrong, I'm just trying to point out what the problem is for society. The problem with society is, men haven't learnt how to be women's equals when it comes to domestic labour and child rearing. And frankly, I don't even seen it as a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:36 PM
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Men who don't have anything to offer other than a paycheck have trouble finding relationships when most women are financially independent, shocking. But no, it's all women's fault right? And nothing to do with these chronically single men's unattractiveness both physically and personality wise right? Anyone who wants a relationship bad enough would be willing to put in the effort to improve their chances and be as attractive to women as they can. Why do you make it sound like men are helpless in…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 12:08 PM
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Sure you do buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:57 AM
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Not more than 4' taller than me, and I'm pretty short. You're not as good as pretending or masking your real attitude as you think you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:54 AM
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This is yet another example of what happens when you try to develop your perception of women and dating purely from social media. It's easier to blame dating failures on your height rather than your personality 🤣 If I can detect such obvious resentment and bitterness simply through text, how do you think you'll come across in real life? Hopefully, this is just a phase for you that you'll grow from eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:52 AM
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Sex without any effort on their end. It's not hard to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 09:49 PM
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No, because race is not the cause of crime. Poverty, inequality, and over-policing are social conditions, not proof that Black people are inherently dangerous. Women being wary of men is different because the risk is specifically gendered. Sexual harassment, stalking, domestic violence, and sexual assault are overwhelmingly committed by men against women. That does not mean every man is dangerous. It means women cannot always know which men are safe, and the cost of being wrong is high. Telling …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:48 PM
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I think you're overthinking. It's just a matter of effort. Dating apps are pretty much the lowest form of effort one can perform when it comes to getting into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:39 PM
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Guess why there's a need for female only spaces in the first place? Men committing violent acts towards them. Looks at female only trains in Japan. Why are you so willfully blind to the disproportionate danger that men pose to women vs the other way around? Are you completely disconnected from reality? Or do you think that the risks that women face are completely bs simply because they are far less likely to happen to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:36 PM
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What anonymous sources exactly? All you need to do is look at news articles. They aren't hard to find. Whose fault is that? Your fellow men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:32 PM
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Why not? They're right. The world doesn't resolve around you. Why should women let down their guards for your comfort?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 07:27 PM
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Take a moment to guess who told us to be wary of men. Most girl dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 06:58 PM
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I agree with the title, but not for the reasons you listed. Having a family is simply too expensive in most developed countries for the average earning worker, even with 2 incomes. Moreso the case if 1 needs to stay at home if they have no familial support and/or egregious childcare costs. The main goal of a LTR was usually to get married and have kids eventually. If there is no such incentive since the opportunity cost is so high, the motivation of finding a LTR is really not there. I feel like…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:39 AM
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I suggest you put up a woman's profile and try to sift through the swamp of shit that is in your inbox. Just because you have that perspective, doesn't represent how we see men behave once it gets down to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:32 AM
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They don't actually give a shit about birth rate. Whenever some guy is spouting off about it, it's really just about controlling women. That's it. Same for the abortion "debate", if you can even call it that. They don't have control over women, and are trying to find ways to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:34 PM
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If this is yet another way of expecting pity from women for men who can't get laid, the answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:53 PM
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Oh well. You're going to be single for quite some time, at least till you grow out of this immaturity. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:22 AM
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I suggest you gain some self-awareness, it's pretty clear when the common denominator is you. Grovelling for pity from online strangers won't help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:58 PM
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You don't "deserve" attention from women who are not attracted to you. No one's depriving you of anything, you're simply not attractive enough for the women you're trying to attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:53 PM
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Just because I don't agree with you, doesn't mean I grovel for the approval of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:23 PM
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If these 3 women were completely unattractive, I don't think they would give a fuck. And alot of the men complaining here are more the exception, not the norm. They have to come here to express their otherwise socially unacceptable views on women and dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:18 PM
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His opinion which is basically "it's unfair that women who are not interested in me but I'm interested in won't reciprocate", is illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:57 AM
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Rejecting men we're not attracted to apparently 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:14 AM
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You make 0 sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:39 AM
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It's because you've been fed the false idea that relationships should just fall into your lap without requiring any effort, especially if you're not exceptional or above average in some way. Why would you expect online strangers to feed that sense of entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:18 AM
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It's desperation and horniness that causes the imbalance. That's really it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 06:23 PM
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Doing 80% or 90% of anything sounds terribly boring and tiring. The homemaker thinks the other is a lazy shit not cleaning up after themselves. The breadwinner thinks the other is a lazy shit for just being at home all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 09:59 AM
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It's called a honeymoon phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:19 PM
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For control. Always has been the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:55 AM
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You don't lust after average women either, just the ones you notice. Some self awareness would benefit you 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:50 AM
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Loneliness is not a gendered issue, but a personal one. Do you not have any friends or support circle? It'll help to actually shape your perspective of women outside of social media. Self victimhood won't make your life any better, and your bitterness towards women won't improve your chances with them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:14 AM
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I think the only actual privilege is just being rich / from a rich family. Men who think that women in general have an easier time in life mistake male horniness and desperation as some gift to women. The ones you see complaining here just a few posts ago simply can't handle being undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:16 AM
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I think most guys are pretty apathetic to such women. The louder men just like to find any way to bash pretty women they know they can't fuck. These women don't even need to be sex workers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 11:09 PM
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Sure, I'd rather a pet rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:09 PM
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It's who he can get consistently. Same goes for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:46 AM
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Because they can They think of less successful men as beneath them. I'm not sure why you seem personally offended over the requirements of women you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:05 AM
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Need? 🤣 Just because you want something, doesn't make it a need. And where did you get the idea that most women are just sleeping with men they barely know left and right? Or are you projecting your fantasy yet again? And I don't think most men need a whole gender to validate their self esteem or emotional well-being. How pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 11:45 PM
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While you openly allow misogynistic posts like these. Make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:25 PM
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Ironically, this post is a prime example of a man or maybe teen who has not "socialised" enough, and is stuck if some sort of grandiose self delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:57 PM
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No shit. It's when men who are already unattractive try to delude themselves into thinking that having an awful personality will make their chances any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 03:51 PM
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Why do you care about someone else's feelings more than your own discomfort and disgust? You don't want to do it anymore, just say you changed your mind and get out quickly. It's not like you'll ever see this person again, what's the big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 04:08 AM
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Why would a woman you don't know or are not close with, have any obligation to share every detail of her romantic life with you? Or even anything to do with dating in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:11 AM
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Lol, what's this whole rant? It's as simple as stepping outside, how often do you see couples where the men are more attractive than the women? Almost none. Even in any form of media, you don't see an unattractive girlfriend or wife that's not used as a punching bag. I'm not complaining either, just pointing out some very obvious delusions. But hey, if it makes you feel better, go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:07 AM
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I'm pretty sure the idea behind that is that you're overestimating your league, and going after pretty girls is basically a fools errand. No one said that dating less attractive women meant a successful relationship, just that you had a chance at one in the first place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:26 AM
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Do you think this is some ground breaking knowledge 🤣? Women are very keenly aware how men shallow can be when it comes to dating. It's men complaining about "Chads" these days, and it's pretty funny seeing how much they whine when the same beauty standards they've had no issues imposing on women are flipped on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:19 AM
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What do you mean men are getting shamed for being sick? Seriously, is your view that warped?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:56 AM
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From your replies, why do you think that having the "love of your life" means that everything else is negligible? Your whole life shouldn't resolve around 1 person. It's unhealthy and dangerous to be completely dependent on someone financially and emotionally. Love is a feeling, not a insurance plan or pension. That's an extremely naive and immature mindset to have. Life isn't a fairytale, you need to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:53 AM
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Because the person who loves you won't be the same person in 5, 10, 20, ... years. No one has a crystal ball. The only rational thing to do is to ensure your own financial safety net, especially if you're not already rich or have wealthy parents. You're very naive to think this is even a viable option in this day and age.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:22 AM
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What makes you think I give advice lol 🤣 I just point out the delusion that's so apparent in some men simply from reading their words.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:20 AM
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Career woman. Romantic relationships aren't a priority to me. Children are a liability. Being financially dependent on a husband is pure stupidity and being isolated from any friends or social circle is a situation ripe for domestic or financial abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:44 AM
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Sure. Will the women wanting to do 50/50 be interested in you? Because then, you'll need to bring something to the table other than money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:31 PM
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Unfortunately, most men seem to throw away their intelligence when it comes to attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:30 AM
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What is this drivel / point of this question exactly? If a woman wants to be promiscuous, literally nothing is stopping her. You realise that people can lie about how many people they've slept with right 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:18 AM
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Surprise surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:55 AM
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I find it pretty funny how some guys get so offended when generic dating advice doesn't magically get them laid
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:24 AM
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Nope. Homelessness is a systematic issue. Sexlessnesss is not, it's not a basic need. I have empathy for the former. Hell, even a homeless man can get laid. It's a personal choice to let something like that affect your quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:50 PM
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Because letting another gender determine your entire emotional well-being is a personal fault/failure. Only therapy can help them. Why should I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:23 PM
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No. Frankly, I wouldn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:49 PM
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Nice way of dodging personal accountability for poor choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:22 PM
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Oh wow... All I can say is, good luck to your fiancee. I hope she wisens up before having children or making any permanent decisions with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:31 AM
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I gave you a very clear answer. But you're choosing to ignore my point. Oh well 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:51 PM
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His "league" is what he can get. And unfortunately for him, he's even more unattractive than he percieves himself to already be. What's so hard to understand? Why do you feel entitled to decide which men she can attract or date?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:35 PM
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You can try to define your own "league" or make up your own SMV all you want if it makes you feel better. If the women you're approaching doesn't want you, the problem isn't them. It's you. a fat poor man and a fat poor women is on the same level no? but she can get out of her league. The vast majority of people together are from the same socioeconomic background. You'll do better focusing on who you can actually attract, rather than worrying or being bitter about the women who've rejected you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:13 PM
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Your "league" is who you can get. If the women you're approaching consistently ignore you, then you are overestimating your "league" aka your own attractivess and charisma. It's a very simple concept that alot of men here complaining don't seem to get. You're selecting for attractiveness first and foremost, not just some beggar asking for change. Have some self introspection why you're constantly disregarded when it comes to relationships. You're selecting from a small pool of women too, why are…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:04 PM
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What advice do you expect, honestly? Do you think online strangers can automatically tell you anything regarding something as personal as your dating life? You're trying to blame your failures on the "advice" aka random strangers, rather than yourself. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:45 PM
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Ok then don't. Continue being in your current state and complain why women won't give you the time of the day for the rest of your life. Is that better?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:39 PM
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I wonder if the male posters here just make up scenarios in their head to get mad at, when in reality nothing similar will ever happen to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:03 AM
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Yes, not looking desperate or needy helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:39 PM
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From his replies, it's pretty clear that he's extremely bitter that women are the more desired sex. Every failed relationship is by default, the fault of the woman for not choosing better. So he wants a world where women have limited freedom and by extension, little to no say on who they choose to be in a relationship with because that's his situation: no options. He doesn't really give a shit about birth rates. Because then the conversation would be how to make motherhood more appealing to wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 09:01 PM
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Yet, I have a feeling that women don't need any help filtering out men who need a contract to get laid since and can't otherwise 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:47 PM
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Oh he doesn't care about that, the only benefit he cares about as he states very clearly is to get regular sex. He knows he cant get that otherwise. Men can do no wrong in a marriage, causes for all divorces are due to fault of the women 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:39 PM
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This is a great post for all the men who shouldn't be in relationships to come out 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:36 PM
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Why would husbands want this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:12 PM
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I don't consider these "some". And I don't think women are oppressed either, but it's funny how you see women being treated less badly than their predecessors as "privileged".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:44 PM
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Life as a man is so much easier than a woman. When it comes to dating, you seldom have to worry about being stalked, or raped. When it comes to work, all you need to do is not be a complete idiot, while women have to prove themselves to go above and beyond. And you'll fit right in with C-suites, who are also mostly male. If you get promoted or have any kind of accomplishment, you don't need to worry about being accused of having slept your way up. When it comes to family planning, you won't need…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:22 PM
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Really, you can't see the relevance? You're framing men as some sort of victims for not being able to acknowledge their privilege and reality, and women as some sort of perpetrator for refusing to accept men into their lives who'll lower their quality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:57 PM
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I'm glad. Having a relationship or wife or girlfriend is not a reward for fulfilling basic adult responsibilities. Men have been entitled to women's domestic and emotional labour for far too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:47 PM
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I don't see anything to "save". People can now choose what they want to put up with, nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:29 PM
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The fact that you feel a need to continuously explain or justify your actions to complete strangers means at some fundamental level, you know it's wrong. You're just trying to make yourself feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 04:22 AM
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You do what's best for you. All I'll say is, for guys I've known who've had to travelled abroad out of desperation because they were unable to find partners at home, did not exactly have long lasting relationships or marriages with their foreign partners. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:32 AM
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I don't know why a man who is fulfilled in his relationship abroad will find the need to demean or insult the women from his own country.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:27 AM
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I'll give you a clue: exchange rate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:07 PM
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Indifference doesn't mean they don't respect you, they just don't care about you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:06 PM
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We don’t only offer money, Frankly if you did, you wouldn't need to flee to other country to find a girl where your main advantage is the favourable exchange rate. Why lie to yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:53 AM
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Lol. If all you have to offer is money, no wonder you think of relationships this way
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:36 AM
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It's another thing to sound like you're shopping for a girlfriend or wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:05 AM
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I don't care if people want or need to move abroad just to find a romantic partner. I do judge people who view these partners as objects basically that they pick up. You should visit the passport bros subreddit to read how some men view or talk about their partners or picking women. It's dehumanising and quite disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:33 AM
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Nah, learned helplessness is not fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:22 AM
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I don't think it's just about some outdated notion of submission or whatever. For some women, depending on a guy for survival is easier than earning her own money. She leaves all the thinking to her partner just because it's less stressful than making all her own decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:31 AM
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How do you expect complete strangers to give you personalised dating advice? What do you think is going to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:15 PM
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Really? Just count the number of male posters here complaining how it's the fault of women they can't get into a relationship in the past week.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:09 PM
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They don't care much for your pursuing or your affection. If they find you unattractive, certain actions you think is romantic can be completely repulsive to them. I think you're overthinking things. If someone doesn't reciprocate, just leave them alone. Very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:48 AM
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It's pretty clear that you're trying hard to extrapolate from your own experiences on all men in general. So my qn to you is, how do you know if she is genuinely oblivious or choosing to ignore you deliberately?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:30 AM
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You're right. Your attitude should do it, you don't need bad luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:14 AM
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They can't even recognise that they've been brainwashed into thinking that an above average looking women is a baseline. Posts like these literally reek of entitlement and lack of any self-awareness. And he even acts offended when someone tries to point it out, it's hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 06:34 AM
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If you want to replicate the feeling of being used, think of women who only go out on dates with men for free food or gifts with no intention of having any relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:30 AM
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The fact you're making this post shows resentment. So it's not really about women in the first place. I suggest doing self reflection, this bitterness isn't gonna give you any peace of mind anytime sooner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:18 AM
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a lot of women fail to do what they’re supposed to be good at (looking good). If this is your mentality, good luck finding someone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:54 AM
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Fat women date fat men. Trailer park women date trailer park men. The better question is, if these people who you obviously consider "less than" can have partners, why can't you? People tend to date those within their social class /"SMV". Bu I guess it's always easier to blame women for being too "selective" rather than doing some self-introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:53 AM
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How often do you see a guy with a less attractive girlfriend, even amongst young people? Lower your standards, if no one's buying what your selling. The people who you're attracted to aren't attracted to you, it's not that hard to figure out if you have some self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:21 AM
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Why is the rich man tryng to equalize the trouble of going to a 5 star restaurant to a man barely finding food? Your analogy is faulty. It's moreso that the poor man is trying to buy his food where the rich man usually dine. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:06 AM
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It's not a privilege, but a necessary precaution. Women in general have alot more to lose and fear when it comes to being in a failed relationship and/or meeting a guy they don't know for the first time. But seeing how you're dismissing women's concerns in the comment, I don't really think you care that much either, so this post is moreso for complaining. And frankly, your phrasing is pretty gross. Women aren't "taking" anything from you. Blame media and those around you for giving you the idea …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:59 AM
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Depends on the age they met, and whether they interact primarily through a friend group or 1:1.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:18 AM
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Because the safety of women and children is more important than you not being able to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:46 PM
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Yes, what did you think it was?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:55 PM
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What a stupid question. They may wear a mask for some time, but it'll slip eventually once they get a women comfortable in his presence.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:41 AM
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Except one is structural problem fueled by centuries and decades of inequality, the other is simply a personal failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:04 PM
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It's because their children are their retirement and safety net, they can't afford to otherwise. There is none / extremely limited government pension. Use some critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:35 PM
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What does it mean to be "equal" in dating? It's a free market place. If no one's buying what you're selling while other sellers seem to be doing fine, it's not the customers that's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:28 PM
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The uncomfortable situation is, for any rational adult who does not have wealthy parents, not in a top percentile income and intends to plan their own retirement, having children may lead to a lower quality of life (at least materialistically) and delayed retirement. Men have not developed the capacity for house hold chores and child rearing to the same extent as women have been able to develop the ability to be financially independent. I cannot think of any logical reason why having children wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 01:21 PM
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Because men are more desperate. No one's fault other than theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:08 AM
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The only self defeating mindset here is a failure to take personal accountability for your lack of success, then attempting to blame everyone else for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:46 PM
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Your incentives aren't men's incentives, and you don't sustain yourself, nobody does, everyone survives in group. I don't place the state of my emotional and financial well-being on another gender, unlike you. Don't claim dating as some sort of group responsibility when it's your personal failure. You're entitled because you think everything you have is earned solely by yourself and those things are granted. Entitlement is thinking you deserve something when you've put in no effort to earn it. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 08:45 PM
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Being a productive member of society does not automatically make someone an attractive partner, I don't see what's so hard to understand about it. If it were a "core biological directive" or that important to him, OP would have tried to make himself more attractive to women, beyond the noble pursuit simply having a job. But no, he's whining instead, so how important to him can it really be? It's more of complaining about having to put in effort, rather than just about incentives. Don't make excu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 05:27 PM
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My incentive to be a productive member of society was so I could afford to sustain myself and not be a liability to others around me. Entitlement is thinking that doing what any fully abled adult would do = having a relationship fall into your lap. This is OP's case.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:03 PM
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They only value financial contributions and view domestic labour as 2nd rate or completely dismiss it. It's that simple. No wonder women would rather cut out the middle man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 03:00 PM
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Class unfairness, sure. But just because some men still have the antiquated idea that being an adult makes you an attractive partner, doesn't make things evil or unfair, it's just adulthood. It's just laziness and low self-worth. Nothing to do with relationships or even women in general, but I guess it's a convenient excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:50 PM
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Name one thing you've done to contribute to this "foundation" that you're speaking of.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:33 PM
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I think a self-defeating mindset like this is more of a mental and self-worth issue. There's no point in good-faith engaging other than them seeking therapy. No one can help other than themselves and growing out of this immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:25 PM
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"This is not an airport; there's no need to announce your departure." If there are men who seem to think that fulfilling adult responsibilities entitles them to a relationship of their choice, without which they "lay flat", what's society losing anyway? It's pathetic that some men need the incentive of female attention to do anything for themselves, and wallow in self pity when they realise that being an adult doesn’t automatically make you an attractive partner. Good riddance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 02:15 PM
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This advice is for little boys who still believe in the fantasy that attraction or interest is a given. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:49 PM
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Nah, you'll be above average which should make dating easy. If for some reason you're still unsuccessful, your personality is repulsive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:47 PM
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The 1st is pathetic, the other is a slut with no self control. I have no respect for either. Let other women have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:46 PM
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Dependent on your wallet
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:31 AM
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Nothing I said was extrapolating your points. You want to whine, then whine. Don't try to justify it or make it some noble conquest behind the excuse of children just to make it sound less pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:32 AM
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Lol. It's cuz you can't prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:27 AM
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What are they? If you're so adamant, show ne the statistics between the discrepancies between adoption rates for single women vs single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 08:07 AM
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Lol. Lemme know how that works out. Egg donors are already a thing. Go see how much they cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:59 AM
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Get an egg donor and a surrogate. So it's not really about kids or wombs is it 🤣 Just another post whining about how you can't get laid under the guise of some bs of having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:59 AM
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If a man wanted to be a single dad, they can. What's stopping them? It's really just about male horniness. Posture to your fellow men. Women don't have the upper hand you think they do It's more of too many men can't think beyond their little head.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:47 AM
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Do you understand the difference between egg extraction vs sperms extraction? What an uneducated take.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:46 AM
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Another example of men hating how much they want women 🤣 I'm sure this is a healthy coping mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 07:38 AM
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Then go for someone who's more your look match. To someone like you described, she only finds you appealing when other attributes make up for the lack of physical attractiveness. Why would she not leave once you dont have those attributes, Choose better, is always what RP men like to say right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:05 AM
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If she's attractive, she has options. Especially when she's more physically attractive than you. What's the big deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:26 AM
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Then have something to offer in a relationship other than money. Easy, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:15 AM
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Good
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:00 PM
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They develop a parasocial relationship and pay for texts from some guy in a developing country or chatbot for some sliver of female attention who wouldn't cast them second glance otherwise. It's so pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:45 PM
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So what's this incessant whining about "Chads"?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:40 PM
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They then complain about how women's standards superficial when this is how they act 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:33 AM
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Surprise, it's all of them. Different women prioritize different things. The lack of critical thinking is astounding
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:16 AM
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Men want a "traditional" wife while not playing the role of a "traditional" man. Then whine about how come they're alone or how there's "no good women left" because they can't see how unattractive that arrangement is to women 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:59 PM
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I don't see a point criticising what or how someone likes. So long as both adults consent, who cares? If a guy chooses a partner simply based on looks, without caring about her career, then don't act all indignant or complain that you'll bear majority or all of the expenses, or in the event of a divorce the amount of alimony they'll have to pay. Similarly, if a women chooses a guy purely for materialistic or financial gain, don't act surprised when he treats you more like an object he can placat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:52 AM
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"When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:51 AM
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It's because men have a tendency who insult or shame these women who don't meet these "standards". Go on any social media platform, and you'll see this trend. In fact, you can look at any form of "news", be it magazines or trashy tabloids before social media was even a thing. Just count the number of headlines trashing women's bodies compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:58 PM
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I don't consider it evil or morally wrong to remove what's essentially a parasite. From your phrasing, you're probably still quite young. Hopefully, you'll gain better critical thinking skills and nuance once you get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:27 PM
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Doesn't it get tiring blaming a whole gender for your personal unsuccessful attempts at dating? Or do you genuinely think that women are suffering by not picking men they're not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 12:37 PM
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What's "happening" is likely you mistook simple conversation for romantic interest or something you said made their interest turn into disinterest lol. Instead of this deluded conspiracy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:59 PM
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Do you make this stuff up in your head to rationalize why women aren't attracted to you, or do you simply regurgitate nonsense you see on social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:50 PM
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Young men need to learn to be more attractive to women. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:04 AM
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By "decent men", you're really just referring to yourself aren't you 🤣 Sorry to burst your bubble, but you don't get to decide what women consider "decent" dating material. If you've been unsuccessful despite your best efforts, you're below average, not "decent".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:45 AM
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It's not up to women to fix men's dating problems. Get over yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:55 AM
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We all like looking at attractive people. Groundbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:02 AM
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I don't see the logic in a woman writing about her rape fantasy, then some guy reading it and deciding to do it to some stranger or assuming all women are into something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:31 AM
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I find the notion of safe space quite ridiculous. It's human nature to judge. Just write it in a diary or smthg if you're afraid of others judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 01:13 AM
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I'm curious, has this actually happened to you? Or are you getting worked up over an imaginary scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:52 PM
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Because I don't see most of them as "objects of deire". Male and female sexuality is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:34 PM
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You want a pretty woman, but can't deal with the male attention that comes with it 🤣. Blame your fellow men for trying to hook up with anything attractive they come across. Otherwise, date someone uglier then, problem solved
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:31 PM
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They could give the straights grooming and fashion advice lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:55 PM
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This sounds like copium. Dating advice is the same as ever, choose 2 out of 3: attractive / financially stable/ charming. If you excel at any one of them, you get to skip the others. Don't blame the dating advice or others. It's just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 01:07 PM
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Does it matter? What difference will dating advice from online strangers make to your personal dating life? Or do you think just because someone else had more recent success than you will have some sort of skeleton key or magic wand to fix all your problems?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:35 PM
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Why can't she just get with an asexual man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:17 PM
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There's this pesky thing called pregnancy, ever heard of it? Birth control is not foolproof.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:29 AM
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I think they really mean guys without a backbone. Yes, that's unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:34 AM
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They're influenced by media portraying love as first sight or similar BS, it's just a sign of immaturity. Also, I find it funny how much men whine when getting a small taste of the beauty standards they've had no problem imposing on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 02:07 AM
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It's usually just indifference when it comes to physical appearance. I don't think you'll need someone to tell you if you're truly unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 07:59 AM
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If a random online stranger can sense the desperation and self victimhood from just reading what you write, how would you think others will perceive you in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:35 PM
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Yet another post, "it's all women's fault for my own dating problems".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 10:58 AM
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But it's about you feeling entitled to a relationship simply by existing right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 09:47 AM
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They expect to be the male protagonist of some movie 🤣 I can't fault teenagers for getting the idea that a pretty girl will magically like them just because, since that's such a prevalent narrative in basically any form of media. But for grown men to think like that, what a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:11 AM
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I don't think they demand exceptional results. Just that they expect some girl they find attractive to magically fall into their lap, requiring 0 effort on their part. When they realize they do need to put in the work or compensate otherwise for a mismatch in physical appearance, it's then "Chad" will never need to do it or some other fictional character they can blame all their dating woes on. I'm not sure where some people get this notion of attraction needing 0 effort. Life isn't a romantic m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 12:01 AM
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I don't understand adult men or women having this notion that they "deserve" having someone falling head over heels, simply by looking or barely knowing them. It screams immaturity. That doesn't happen for most people, attraction needs to build over time. I don't know who lied to men, saying that the only relationship that they should be getting into is with women who go "yes, I'll fuck a total stranger". It doesn't happen for most men, especially not particularly good looking ones. You can cont…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:54 PM
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Sure, you'll be doing them a favour
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:25 PM
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Multiple women are refuting and explaining why its wrong. If you're this insistent in persisting in victimhood and assuming how women think, why bother asking 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:33 AM
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False. You don't need to be exceptionally good at anything. But there has to be at least something or commonality that sparks the other person's interest. It's not that different from making friends. Don't play victimhood by mistaking a lack of social skills as some sort of unrealistic expectation from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:22 AM
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Wow ok. You can't really fuck someone you don't notice. Is that clear enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:11 AM
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Lol, why bother asking a qn if you don't want to hear the answers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:06 AM
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Would you notice a women whose looks and personality was as plain as wallpaper?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:46 AM
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No. And I don't understand the guys trying to make you shoot yourself in the foot lol. If she's interested in you, just go for it. Like it or not, being skilled at something is part of who you are. If you're not particularly blessed in the looks department, don't expect women to trip over themselves the first time they see you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:47 AM
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Because they know what women are looking for and aren't obliged to be nice to you? If you're desperate enough to have to seek help from online strangers, I don't see the big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:01 AM
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Which women are you asking? Online strangers? If you want a raw, unfiltered opinion, pay for a traditional matchmaker who'll tell you exactly where you stand. Else, don't expect people who don't know you to give any meaningful advice then act bewildered when it doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 11:30 PM
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Pretty much any women panning to the manosphere you can use as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:31 PM
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Finding a person you're mutually compatible with and are attracted is supposed to be difficult. Too many people are influenced by media and the notion of love at first sight or some bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:24 AM
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You should tell that to the men here continuously complaining that no women means an unfulfilling life. Maybe they'll take it better if it came from a man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:12 AM
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Another example of men projecting their horniness on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 09:59 AM
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Alot of men misunderstand women's "hypergamy". Most times, they are not competing with other men, but with how content or comfortable a woman's life is staying single. If there is no tangible value-add, what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:18 AM
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I don't understand men's insistence on making their own dating life harder, considering how much they complain about it as is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 08:16 AM
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Yes. Again, it's possible to have a fulfilling life without a romantic relationship or children. It's getting more and more common these days for both men and women. If they can't, they need to learn how to. It's as simple as that. Your argument is that men need women to have fulfilling lives. I'm disagreeing with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:34 PM
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"The fact that women have a monopoly on everything men need to be fulfilled and men can't get it without a woman's consent creates an inequality that can't be solved until that monopoly is broken." It's honestly a pathetic mindset to be so reliant on another human for your own well-being.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:25 PM
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Just go on instagram and see the number of men, insulting a woman when she posts about her single or child free life. Seriously, any one them. In most of these videos, not once was any man mentioned, but the number of random strangers feeling personally insulted by a single woman is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 04:22 PM
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Really? Else I don't see the value in your proposition. Men asking for "traditional women" while not fulfilling their own traditional roles never ceases to amuse me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 10:09 AM
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I don't really understand why the issue of Ncount is so contentious. Having the preference of not liking your partner to have casual sex or ONS or fwb before you is not a gendered thing. I would never get into a relationship with a guy who enjoyed casual sex outside of LTR, and I make it pretty clear to anyone I've dated as well as my now husband. I don't want to risk getting STD's, and sex to me is something that should only happen when there's a deep emotional connection not just a purely phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:56 AM
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Sure, so long as you're OK with being an ATM
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:50 AM
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Vetting is important. While I obviously pity her, it was a stupid thing to date a man who had a known (and very publicized) history of cheating. These women who suddenly go on about all men are cheaters were already insecure in their relationship. And seeing a more beautiful woman of higher social status getting cheated on only amplifies those insecurities and already existing fractures in their relationships. They are not blaming all men, it's really just their man in particular. Loud minority …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:28 PM
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I agree. A man who thinks it's some extradinary contribution to contribute equally to chores will make for an insufferable marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:16 AM
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It shows that you should not date someone with a history of cheating. And it's silly to give wife treatment when you're only a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 02:21 AM
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Those that can already do. It's the ones that want to but can't you see complaining here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:20 PM
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It's funny how men like to frame sex as an equally enjoyable activity for women when they're quite bad at it. There's this thing called the orgasm gap, you should look it up. Oh, and this pesky thing called pregnancy which men don't have to bear the risk of. Each scenario is one party benefiting at another's expense. Nothing wrong with it right? Many factors for a dead bedroom, it happens to both men and women. But I can tell you how a good majority of dead bedrooms happens, in this case why wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 07:11 PM
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If a woman went hard at the gym. Learnt game. Got a new wardrobe or plastic surgery. All to get money from men. Is that bad, in any way? If yes please explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:32 PM
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Whenever a man says his standards are "low", I'm extremely curious to know what he looks like and what he thinks he should be able to attract, as well as what traits he thinks he's bringing to the table and what he expects from a partner. Too many people / media coddle men when it comes to having realistic standards in dating. You will never see an ugly girlfriend next to a male protagonist unless she's being used as a punchline. And similarly, seeing a couple where the female partner is uglier …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:09 PM
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You realise that men and women are not separate species right? Just apply whatever questions here to attractive women. It's the same answers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:00 PM
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Sure, both men and women enjoy sex. Problem is, alot of men are bad at it. Ever heard of the orgasm gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:39 PM
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No to all. And thanks for showing the delusion OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:26 PM
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I think for some of these men, they get their ideas of what women think or feel from bs red pill podcasts or fantasy novels written by men or smthg. Ngl, it's funny to read 🤣. You can just tell they've never had any female friends or girlfriends before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:58 AM
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I think previous generations of men had their value inflated simply because women were more financially dependent on them. Now, it's just starting to even out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:18 AM
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Yes, and I again, I don't understand how you can centre your entire wellbeing around something as fickle as a romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:00 PM
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If you fulfill the standards you set for a potential partner, idk why you need to care about the opinions of strangers much less feel compelled to post about it. You're the one getting into the relationship. I judge a promiscuous man wanting a low body count girlfriend as much as I judge a poor woman wanting to only date someone significantly wealthier. They're both being hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:52 AM
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I think you're overestimating the number of people who cares about your standards. Something something loud minority. You have a certain preference, good for you. But don't pretend shocked at the supposed backlash when you insult everyone else who doesn't meet those standard, and especially when admitting you don't even meet the standards you've set yourself. "I prefer someone who has a low body count" vs "I prefer someone who has a low body count, since those with higher are usually sluts". Get…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:41 AM
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I don't think you're getting it. You don't need a relationship to live. I don't understand people who make it their own identity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 10:12 AM
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I agree. I honestly don't understand why some men are so distraught over not having a romantic partner. What's the big fucking deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 09:44 AM
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If you have little success on dating apps, chances are you'll have little success in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 01:27 AM
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No, it's when they expect others to find them desirable simply for existing
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 02:04 AM
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Unless you're stupid and blind, most abusers don't come with a warning label. They maintain a very convincing facade to friends and most strangers, but reveal their true selves only with you. That's where the danger is, their modi operandi is to make others believe him over you. BTW, this isn't gender specific. But unless the other party or woman in this case chose to ignore glaring red flags that her close friends and family have pointed out, there's no way of truly knowing someone's character …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:46 AM
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It's a very stupid thing to regard your personal safety for strangers. My 13yr old younger brother could pin me to the floor when I was a grown ass adult. Why wouldn't I be wary? Just to be clear, I've never been sexually assaulted. But it's because I've been careful and mostly lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 01:29 PM
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If it's really as simple as a need, just pay for it and get it out of your system. But what they're truly complaining about is being desired. Why should someone cater to that? If you're undesirable, it's up to you to fix it. Not the whole other gender. And it's ironic you're comparing to animals. Ever heard of natural selection? Those with disadvantagious genes don't get the chance to propagate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 07:09 AM
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Because it is entitlement to think that you deserve to get laid or get casual sex, especially since it involves another human being. It's like a poor person complaining how they can't get a lambo. Tough shit, you can't afford it, whining won't give you the money to buy one either. Get a cheaper car or shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:10 AM
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It's just immaturity and a sense of entitlement. For alot of these posts, it becomes pretty funny once you see them for what they really are: debating about some made up "trend" about women when it's really them complaining how they can't get laid and how women should cater to them instead
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:59 AM
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Yet another rant about women when it's really just about you not getting laid, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 12:19 AM
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And the "solutions" they talk about are all basically at women's expense or how women should make it easier for them to have casual sex. But they still have the nerve to say that women should not interject if the topic has nothing to do with them 🤣. Such men deserve their loneliness. How fucking entitled
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:20 PM
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Agree with everything you said. I have no empathy for men's dating problems, especially when the consensus among them is that woman have it easy compared to them. What a fucking joke
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 11:10 PM
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Then don't have the discussion revolve around shitting on women's concerns which it inevitably does. What's so difficult to understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:46 PM
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Good lord... 😮‍💨
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:33 PM
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And I'm saying, conversations surrounding men's concerns or issues always end up invalidating women's. You want to have the discussion, then be an adult and have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:24 PM
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Involuntary draft and the general expectation of men needing to put their own lives before womne and children. That's pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:18 PM
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Then have the conversation without dismissing women's valid concerns. Simple, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:18 PM
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It's the entitlement that irks me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:33 PM
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Ahh there it is. Rants about women like this are really just about you not getting laid right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:43 PM
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Once again, why on earth do you expect online strangers to give you advice on something as personal as dating? We don't know how you look, how you behave around women or your personality. And you complain that generic and vague advice don't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:14 AM
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It's funny how some guys are so oblivious to their double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 04:23 AM
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Me too 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:16 AM
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I think people who are obsessed with peaks are just finding a way to cope with their current undesirability or failure to get a partner they want, and are hoping that they'll magically be able to do so in the future without any further self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:47 AM
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Lol you make it sound as if men are helpless in controlling their lust. If you're so pressed about women making money by objectifying themselves, then tell your fellow men to stop being so horny. There are women who make money off doing things like this, and another group of women who are just working regular jobs like you. Why are you having trouble understanding that it's the latter who's telling you not to objectify them? It's not complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:00 PM
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Why would a woman try to pursue a relationship with someone whose personality she's not attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:16 PM
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Why should I care about what the average is across the whole population? In my social circle and workplace, the average man is relatively fit, well educated with a pretty good salary. That's what I expect, and I've had no issues is selecting partners fulfilling this criterion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:40 PM
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Just because a woman isn't fucking you, doesn't mean she's sleeping with a dozen other imaginary "Chads". Young men need to get over their immaturity and understand that other's lives don't revolve around them. And for women who have financial independence, it means that they are less likely to pick someone solely because of their paycheck and are more likely to take other factors into consideration such as physical attractiveness, personality and compatibility. You have it the other way around,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 08:29 PM
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I don't really care what 2 consenting adults do tbh, unless it's something egregious like the much older person met the partner when they were kids and stayed around to groom them until they were acceptable legal age. Maybe there's genuine attraction besides physical appearance for the younger partner, or the financial stability that the older partner provides. Regardless, I think that the person who holds the pursestrings has the most power or leverage in the relationship. A romantic partner is…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 10:27 AM
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Yes, more young women are wising up thankfully, and understand that most men don't have much to offer when it comes to parenthood. That's why you see all the incessant whining from young men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:21 AM
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Ok, so what? If a guy knows he's not attractive enough to get casual sex, what's he gonna do about it other than self-improve? Does he think whining about it is gonna help?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:50 AM
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Far too many men want to have children, rather than be a father. Women are the ones going through pregnancy and are still societally expected to carry majority of the child rearing burden. Unless the wife is rich or her parents are, it's a shit deal for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:48 PM
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Considering most men will need to bring something other than an income to the table when it comes to dating since women have their own, yes, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 12:36 PM
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Why do you need random strangers online to give you any advice on something as deeply personal as getting a girlfriend? Do you think there's some skeleton key to unlock all the secrets of dating or do you expect someone to hold your hand while you try to pick up girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:20 AM
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When your worldview is one of taking away my rights, I really don't care about redemption.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 10:29 PM
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Because I don't see a guy not getting laid as having a problem, much less one deserving of help.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:14 PM
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Why do you feel entitled to women's help when it comes to casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:59 AM
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Would you help an unattractive woman get a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 08:25 AM
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She was an escort who played a horny, rich idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:17 AM
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It's not willful ignorance, just influence. In every movie or show, you will never see an ugly girlfriend not meant as a punchline. Ever. Regardless of how unattractive the male actor / character looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 12:12 PM
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You have bodily autonomy. You don't want kids, either abstinence or vasectomy. You're an adult, actions have consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:48 AM
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Good lord, you're saying you don't feel an obligation to pay for your own child? If you're a deadbeat, just premise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:20 AM
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I'm OK with my tax dollars going to underprivileged families. Do you think single men are the only ones paying taxes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:13 AM
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You can start by thinking beyond your dick / lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:50 AM
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None. They try to justify their equally superficial standards as "biological needs" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:49 AM
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You're confusing being an adult with being someone attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:01 AM
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Playing mommy to a manchild
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:00 AM
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Sex can (and should) be enjoyable for both parties. The thing is, men are often bad at it. Ever heard of the orgasm gap?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:59 AM
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If all you can bring to the table is money, then what do you expect? If it's a repeated pattern, then take some accountability and relook at how you choose partners. And you've kind of realised this in your own post, haven't you? Date less materialistic or looks-obsessed women == Less chance of getting taken advantage financially of. Mind blowing, I know. The lack of self-reflection is astounding 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 05:22 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 01:04 PM
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Guys who have nothing else but a wallet to offer and are not willing to lower his physical standards will.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:57 PM
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I'm so glad you started this thread. Many men have the same or even more stringent superficial standards they complain women have, and they don't even realise it 🤣. It's a baseline thing for them, if they don't like how a woman looks, nothing will change their mind. For alot of women, it can be make up for in other aspects. How often do you see a couple where the male partner is more physically attractive? Also, to answer your question, it's a character flaw. Men who treat women this way don't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 12:52 PM
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All this complaining is based on school? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:37 AM
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Chad is imaginary. You're 19, date girls in college instead of regurgitating manosphere nonsense and complaining women online. And no, reading tweets is not the same as lived experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:25 AM
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I think they should learn that it's OK to be alone instead. It's ridiculous how some men get so affected by women who don't even know them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:13 AM
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What's "normal"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:43 AM
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Why don't you just ask your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 02:14 AM
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Dude... 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:15 AM
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You're 19 years old. Is this lived experience, or just regurgitating manosphere nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:08 AM
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I think when people say "peak," it's really just referring to the age where they are typically most attractive. It's not necessarily a fixed range. Someone can be most attractive in their 20s if they've maybe had kids and let themselves go since then. Someone can be most attractive in their 30s or even 40s if they've spent their early adulthood obese and then lose weight later on. Anyway, it's really just a silly insult I often see men hurl at older attractive women they can't fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:54 AM
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If I was in a rush annoyed, otherwise indifferent
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:32 PM
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You choose who you date/marry. If you have a problem with it, don’t date them? Of course. Good thing more women are more privy to not putting up with such low quality men. Unnecessary whining Keep this energy when men complain about the male loneliness epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 07:05 PM
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In addition to being a wife, a mother, she now has to take on the role of a project manager. How enticing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:03 PM
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Both are terrible. Where on earth are you getting the statistic that "99%" are choosing to do it? Please exercise some critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:16 PM
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You've made multiple posts complaining about women. My question is, why are you wasting so much mental energy on women you're not interested in anyway? What do their preferences in partners or choices have to do with you? Edit: OP, you're 19 years old. I hope you get over this phase of immaturity and lack of self-awareness. You're a STEM student, you should know better than to use tweets as a citation and actually READ the papers you claim to support your point beyond just the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:01 PM
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What narrative? The feminist movement did not spawn out of nowhere. Great that your relatives were lucky enough not to have to suffer through horrible marriages, but they were common enough. It's funny how you're so adamant about your own viewpoint that you ignore historical events.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:09 AM
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Wrong again. You can't seem to grasp the concept that alot does not mean all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 03:05 AM
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Dude, see my comment again carefully and improve your reading comprehension. There is no "gotcha", just a hard reality that many men like to cover their eyes from and pretend that women in the past were completely content being servants to their husbands with no way to escape abuse unless they came from rich families who could support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:40 AM
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Again, never said most. But they are not a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:21 AM
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Having to be financially dependent on someone for the rest of your life is not a privilege when the alternative is to be destitute is a form of oppression. Never did I say that all men were trash partners. But they are not a minority. And guess who were the women pushing for feminism in the first place? Women who had to suffer at the hands of their husband when they were treated as second class citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:13 AM
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Most of your points can be rebuffed if you simply talk to an elderly female relative. Any one of them. Ask them if they truly liked their husband when they got married, if they still liked their husband now, and if they had a choice, would they do it again? For a lot of them, the answer is a resounding no. Your idea of a 1950s household is a fantasy, nothing more. Women having more agency now is a good thing, sucks for men who can't provide anything more than a paycheck, but who cares? It's surp…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 02:01 AM
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How fun, another post blaming women for all of men's problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 11:09 PM
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It's easier to convince lonely men that the fault lies with the other gender rather than having them reflect on reasons for their undesirability. "Red pill creators" know this, and aim to exploit these men's vulnerability and angst for financial profit. They don't actually give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:51 PM
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At least in developed countries, the pay gap stems from mothers still disproportionately responsible for majority of childcare or childrearing duties compared to fathers, forcing them to take time off work or having to neglect work more often than fathers. This doesn't even include the effects of pregnancy and post-partum. I don't see what's so hard to comprehend. How many SAHM do you see compared to SAHF? Societal expectations on mothers are magnitudes higher compared to fathers. That's the unf…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:35 PM
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Most men don't make enough to support 2 adults. Why are you getting outraged over an imaginary scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:54 PM
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Yup, pretty much. They complain about women having extraordinarily high standards while not being aware of their own. How often do you see a woman being less physically attractive than their male partner, especially for young couples? I can count on 1 hand the number of times I've seen it. They're not attractive enough for their standards, and like to whine incessantly when women they want won't cast a second glance at them. Your SMV is just what you get, nothing more and nothing less. If all yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 07:56 AM
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Why would "good" women want you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 11:35 PM
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It's not some herculean task, it just means you're not attractive enough for your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 08:10 AM
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Sometimes, I think the male posters here intentionally give dogshit dating advice to reduce competition for themselves 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 11:12 AM
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Why would you want to be the rebound? You should be thanking her for telling you upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 08:21 PM
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It's called marketing for their next venture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:55 PM
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For men like you who repeatedly create posts fantasising about replacing your wife with a younger model at any given time then yes., Choosing to have children with, much less being a SAHM and having to be financially dependent on a husband like you would be a moronic decision made by women with little sense of self-preservation or self-respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:27 PM
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Did you read the whole comment? 40 years ago, it was much more heavily stigmatised for a woman to be single and childless. The value add that your father provided to her was the opportunity to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 02:46 PM
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Almost all of your points are a wealth inequality issue, not a gendered one. And if you want fewer men to be in prison, tell them to commit less crimes. Not hard right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:58 PM
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It's funny that you've purposely labelled this as "Red pill only" since they're the least likely to challenge your point. Women do not need men for financial dependence like they did before. Delaying kids for a career or not having them at all is no longer as stigmatised. The choice has come down to are you content being single, and if so, the man will need to significantly value add to some aspect of her life to justify that peace being disrupted. And don't pretend as if women are the only ones…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 01:51 PM
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So when you say "women", you're really only referring to attractive women. I'm not sure what the point of your "debate" is then. If you have high standards, don't complain or whine about others also having similarly high standards. It's not some revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:56 AM
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Yes. You don't need an amazing personality or be extremely good looking to get a girlfriend for crying out loud. Stop forming your views based off social media algorithms and just look around you at any young couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:38 AM
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No, you're missing my point. I'm saying that the lack of one can make up for the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:29 AM
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The idea is that in dating apps, the only thing you have to go off is looks. That's literally it. In real life, you can talk to her and at least showcase some degree of personality to make her feel at ease / interested, and you don't need to rely only on looks to get past the initial talking stage. I don't see what's so difficult to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:14 AM
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I feel mostly indifference. But that turns to active disdain when they start whining about women as a whole and acting like victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:12 AM
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There's no debate here. It's really just 1 person's sad view on relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 12:01 PM
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If you're a woman, I think it's a stupid point. If you're a man, it's just fucking sad and reeking of desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:58 AM
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So, man?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:54 AM
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Are you a man or woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:48 AM
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I mean, yes? That's online dating for you. The "getting to know" the other part comes after.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 10:01 PM
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I don't care that much about age-gap relationships, and I only judge when it's something really egregious like if the younger partner is barely an adult ie. 18 to 20, and the older partner is like 10 to 20 years older. Age gap or not, the younger one should never allow themselves to be financially dependent on the older partner. If someone can feed you, they can starve you. It leads to a dynamic ripe for abuse and manipulation for both you and your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 08:01 PM
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It's honestly hilarious how so many men here are so obsessed with this imaginary idea of "Chad" , that they automatically deny themselves any form of relationship due to the crippling fear of being second choice or the one settled for, simply because of social media and listening to RP grifters whose sole purpose is to get money by exploiting insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 11:27 AM
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Imao, imagine being so in your own head and victimhood that you feel entitled to sex and think that women have some grand conspiracy just because you can't get laid 🤣 And I'm not sure who needs to hear this, but Peter Thiel doesn't care if you can't get laid, he just wants your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 09:27 AM
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Some people are meant to be alone. Others don't have to accommodate them or give them charity. Can mods please ban these types of "I can't get laid, please someone take pity on me" posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 05:16 AM
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My understanding of it is simply men who can't get laid / can't get a girlfriend despite trying. I'm not sure if it's necessarily a friendship one, I don't think there's really anymore to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:53 PM
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Relationships die due to incompatibility over time, people change. Having kids is the true test of relationships and will amplify any strengths/ weaknesses or new things you haven't uncovered about each other yet. It astounds me how some couples think that having kids is the way to strengthen a weak relationship. So fucking dumb. Unless you're well-off, having children is a primarily emotional decision, not a logical one. Each partner should have a very thorough discussion on what they expect th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:42 PM
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Thank you, keep it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:03 PM
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I don't think you understand what feminism means, nor have you actually explained how you interpretate it in your post. And most people, male or female, dislike Andrew Tate not just because of his abhorrent views on women, but also the fact he's a convicted human trafficker and rapist who's had to bribe their way out of prison more than once now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:16 PM
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Ignorance is not bliss, just delayed hurt and compounding loss. Imagine having a child with a cheating partner or finding out you've contracted some sort of STD from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 01:02 PM
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I think alot of it is really just a massive cope. They know when a woman is too attractive to even cast a glance at them / give them a chance, so they comfort themselves by accusing her of promiscuity and how they would only settle down with a "low N count" woman, when they really have 0 way of knowing how many people she's slept with in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:13 PM
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Hate drinking and clubs, so dating apps were basically a godsend to me. Much less pressure than trying to swat away sweaty/angry guys, with more options to choose from. I feel that guys who had to get girlfriends from bars were very much below average, which was why they had to ask girls who were drunk with impaired decision making. It was pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:48 AM
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These men use it when they're not attractive enough for their standards, and are trying to compensate for it by insulting women who are disinterested. That's really it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:47 PM
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I don't think there any way to even start guessing these things, nor is there a point to. It's really about supply and demand / how comfortable you are being alone. A woman who's not willing to have sex in 30 days does not need to compromise if she knows she has other suitors or is OK with staying single. Similarly, a man who's not willing to pay for everything on the get-go does not need to compromise if he knows he has other dates or is OK with staying single. It's really just about what you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:12 PM
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Depends how you look at it. Wife gets legal protection in the form of alimony and child support. For a financially dependent mistress, no such protection exists. I think that knowingly being a mistress is a form of self-degradation, especially if they wife is not aware of the affair or the marriage is not an open one. Being a dishonest man's plaything is the furthest thing you should be aiming for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 09:43 AM
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None. Just remember when they say "good" men, they're usually referring to themselves. Specifically, when they claim that women pass over "good" men, they're really just complaining about how they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:53 AM
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It's not a "price", just intentional
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:50 PM
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Who's stopping you from becoming a passport bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 09:48 PM
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They're free to pursue other options. "Good" to me means willing to wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:35 PM
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Establishing you won't have sex for the first 4 to 6 months eliminates most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:27 PM
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Communities run on gossip, and I do not want to be the subject of that gossip.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 02:39 PM
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You’re conflating demand with advantage. The fact that some men will pay for access to women’s bodies does not mean women “have it easier.” It means women are more easily commodified. Being easier to sexualize and sell is not the same thing as having better options, more power, or an easier life. You’re also pretending sex work has no meaningful barriers just because they aren’t the same as the barriers in physical labor. Physical labor has strength requirements; sex work comes with appearance p…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:37 AM
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And I'm saying the option isn't "easier", I'm not sure what's so hard to comprehend. Men have the option of doing heavy manual labour jobs that women can't do, does that make their lives "easier" too? Does it matter if the demand for women when it comes to sexual services is higher because men are more desperate for sex? Your whole argument is one of choice. If men want to, they can offer themselves up too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:19 AM
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No supply without demand. And saying sex work as an "easy" option is a real stretch. What's stopping men from providing sexual services? It's not like women are the only ones who do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 11:59 PM
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If you're referring to online dating advice, anyone taking it seriously is plain idiotic. No one knows how you interact or behave with women in real life, exactly what were you expecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 04:42 PM
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The funny thing is, as many times as guys try to tell themselves this, they'll forget about such simple logic in less than 10s whenever they meet a woman they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 01:10 PM
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Why do you not like going on dates? It's supposed to be an enjoyable activity for both people, a break from work and household chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:08 AM
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Alcohol lowers self-inhibitions, and these men want an easier time persuading women into sex on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:43 AM
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I wish people would just stop using the terms femininity or masculinity to describe traits they like in a partner, instead of pretending like it's some sort of social construct. Ffs, if you like something, just say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:39 AM
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Yes, it's extremely irritating when they try to talk to me after seeing my headphones are in, I'm clearly trying to get something done and not making any eye contact. Just completely ignore them and walk away
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 03:32 AM
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Only those who ask crude questions or sexual jokes during the initial texting phase or during our first meetings. I don't do hookups or casual sex, so men like that are LVM/quite disgusting to me. They can ask, sure, but only after we've established some sort of exclusive relationship and are comfortable with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:35 PM
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I get your point, but I like low-value men to out themselves early on so I can filter them out faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:25 PM
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Don't bother arguing. Any sub primarily comprised of men talking about dating issues, will always end up about them whining about women's preferences, while having justifications on why their own are perfectly reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:15 AM
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I agree. It's like another recent post on here deleted, men have no issue imposing warped beauty standards on women, and now when it happens to men, they all start crying and whining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:25 AM
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I agree. We should start telling them to pick better women instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 03:08 AM
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they began killing themselves in ever-increasing numbers? Who's "they"? Men don't have that problem now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 02:55 AM
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Yet men choose not to do that... You're joking right? Example B. Men have imposed beauty standards on women for so long that it's a minimum, so they can't even see it. Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:50 AM
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🤣 Example A here folks. Thank you for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 01:48 AM
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Normalize people not being attractive enough for their preferences. For men, yes, financial stability used to suffice for getting a woman they were attracted or were much better looking than they were. Now women can make their own money, and money isn't the only priority anymore. Many people think they deserve better than what they're getting based on self-rating, and it makes me laugh every time they complain about not getting what they want. Men are getting a little taste of what having strict…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:27 AM
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No I'm not, you're not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 03:23 AM
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It's simply that men are more desperate for sex than woman, that's it. It's not asymmetry, just a weakness and poor self-control.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:21 PM
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Men have every physical advantage over women, and up till women were given the same working opportunities, every financial advantage as well. Only people who want to have control over others actively seek to have an advantage. Get over yourself, you're not a victim just because you can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:37 PM
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It's only when they blame or generalise the other gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:23 AM
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I'm of the stance if the guy is the one initiating yet expects 50/50 from the first date, it just signals he's jusy looking for a relationship with minimal effort. It also means the woman has more options to pick from than the guy wanting to go 50/50. Shocker, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:46 PM
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Then don't, there are plenty of women more than ok with it. I prefer not to pay on a first date, it's an easy way to filter out low effort men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:57 PM
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Whenever a guy says something along those lines, it makes me laugh. They're really just referring to themselves when talking about "good guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 12:14 PM
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Are you a man or woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 02:52 AM
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For most of it, yes. It's simply not a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 10:43 PM
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Not having a romantic relationship really isn't the end of the world. It's baffling how some men and women get so depressed and self defeatist over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 10:03 PM
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You don't want kids? Get a vasectomy. If you don't want kids, it's your responsibility to make sure it doesn't happen. You have bodily automy too, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:31 AM
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If he's the one initiating the date and suggests somewhere expensive even after I've told him my budget, then I fully expect him to pay. Otherwise I offer to pay. The only exception where I insist to pay my share is to get the hell away from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 08:22 PM
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Doesn't make it any less true. But continue being in your own reality if it makes you feel better about your gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:57 PM
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Because women get blamed for being with a shitty father for their children, rather than the shitty father themselves whose behaviour is treated as expected and so gets a pass. Society constantly tells women to choose better to avoid a miserable life for both herself and her children, so what do you expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 04:16 PM
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It doesn't hurt anyone else, and if it makes them feel better or less lonely, why not? I don't think women care as much as you think they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 12:50 AM
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It means that I know a guy doesn't need to be 666 to get a girlfriend or whatever ridiculous drivel that male centred communities like to spew. And that someone who had consistently been unable to find a partner despite putting in effort for a long time has serious flaws in terms of looks, personality or both. What gives you credibility to generalise dating for all men, when your dating life or experiences is below average?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:12 PM
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Funny how you can't apply the same logic to yourself. Most of them are in long-term relationships. Don't generalise your failure to all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:35 PM
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Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 10:15 AM
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Because I have young male friends and relatives who seem to be doing fine, and who we regularly discuss dating and our relationships in general. It's just a certain subset of men, who seem to like blaming or generalizing women as a whole simply because they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 09:36 AM
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What is there to debate? Tell your fellow men that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:58 AM
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How contrarion to your user flag... yet another post here by men who can't get laid trying to make it someone else's problem
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:50 AM
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Yeah, no it doesn't...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:11 AM
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An easy way to avoid divorce rape would be to marry a financially independent woman with a good source of income and little debt, who are usually older ironically
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:26 PM
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Sure, who's stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 03:42 PM
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No, people stop doing their best when they take their partner for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:51 AM
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At least for me, it means I felt at ease and the conversation went smoothly, it didn't feel like pulling teeth or talking to a brick wall. Also, it didn't feel like I was being catfished.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:59 AM
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What is there to discuss about that honestly? Everyone knows the better looking you are, the easier of a time you have. Exactly what points so you want to prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:56 AM
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I'm not a single mom, and at no point did I feel a need to care about other women's standards when it comes to choosing a partner. You sound alot angrier ather than interested, but cope harder I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 01:52 AM
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Why make a long ass rant on someone you have no interest in? Did someone get rejected by a single mom 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 12:15 AM
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You mistake indifference for disdain
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:46 AM
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You can keep repeating your drivel about dating marketplace. All you need to do is step outside to see young couples where neither is a 8 or 9 or 10. And "normal" men who I assume your referring to as average, are in relationships. If you're not able to find one despite consistent efforts for a long-time, it means you're below average, not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:28 AM
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Why is dating a a normal Men, as a normal Women "tolerating nonsense"? Emotional/physical/financial abuse, incompatible values, inability to pull their own weight in household chores or child rearing when both parties are working full time. This is exactly what i mean. Your Mindset creates market imbalance. i am a 5 but a 5 Guy is no Option. Minimum 7 Yeah, I don't care about stupid self rankings. Your "rank" or "smv" is simply what you can get. In your case, it's pretty clear that your overesti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 04:16 AM
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Yes, women don't need to tolerate nonsense from a man when they have full financial independence and can decide their partners on other factors rather than basing it entirely on financial stability. What a tragedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 03:59 AM
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If you think these comments are hateful, you should see the comments men leave on any video where a woman seems to be living happily alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 10:45 AM
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Why reward these men for nothing? Physical intimacy should only come once you feel comfortable with the guy, it shouldn't be the case where you ignore your discomfort just to get the attention of a guy you barely know. It's not conducive for a healthy relationship in the long run. In my opinion, work on yourself, your education and your career. You're only 21. Coming from someone older, the best relationships happened for me when I was actively trying to improve my life and wasn't even looking f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:32 PM
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I agree. No one has more disdain for a woman than a man who can't fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 12:24 AM
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Sure you do buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 04:01 AM
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Another example of a man over estimating his "league". Your SMV isn't based on some stupid self ranking, but simply who you can attract. Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 03:55 AM
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If common advice doesn't work for you, doesn't that make you below average? Exactly what do you expect someone to do for you? Hold your hand or talk in your ear via Bluetooth when you're trying to talk to a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:51 PM
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Perfectly put. These men think they deserve better than whatever they're getting based on some stupid self ranking. Your "rank" or "SMV" is simply what you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 03:20 PM
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These men are too caught up in their own loneliness and desperation for sex/companionship that they can't think from the opposite genders perspective, let alone empathise. You're wasting your energy talking to an empty void here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 04:42 AM
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Really? You think going through invasive surgeries, keep up with expensive injectables, regular dermatology / aesthetic treatments, effort to learn/buy constantly applying makeup is easy? Some men truly deserve their loneliness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:19 AM
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It's funny how some guys think they can somehow correctly estimate a woman's body count. That insult is usually just thrown around when they see a girl they want to fuck, but know they have no chance of getting, with a another dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 11:09 PM
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I think the sacrifice and expectations on mothers are immense compared to fathers. Whether or not that's a good or bad "deal" is entirely up to the women in question. No matter what, it's an experience that can be made ×100 harder if dad does nor step up. I'm honestly glad that many younger women are stepping away from motherhood, being much more aware of the risk/reward ratio. Many men want to have children, rather than being fathers. Or another saying, "men want children like children want pet…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 02:18 AM
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DEI simply means giving every qualified person a chance, which aren't exclusive to only women. Previously, POC/women would have to be egregious overqualified to stand the same chance as a white male, now less so, that's it. When you're used to privilege, equality feels like repression.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 01:12 AM
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In other words, you can't cope. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 03:48 PM
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I think they're desperate for sex more than they're desperate for a relationship. I feel that for many of these men complaining, their main metric for measuring desirability is the ability to get casual sex from women. They're not able to, because they're not that attractive. And that's what they're whining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:09 PM
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I think it's mainly down to a couple of things. Fewer men can earn enough to support a whole household. Even amongst those that don't, not many are actually able to perform household or childcare/ childrearing duties to the same extent as women. Men need/are desperate for sex, a lot more than women. Many more women than men have strong emotional connections outside a romantic relationship. I don't think such a woman has to necessarily be "top-tier" in terms of looks. Simply, if a woman is self-s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:59 AM
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deserve better than competing with people below us? Women aren't beneath you, dude. But all the good deed we have ever done, is taken for granted now. What good deeds exactly? List them. What contributions have you done for women? Spell it out. It's not entitlement to have your seat which is rightfully yours It was never yours to begin with. Yes, that's the definition of entitlement. You sound extremely immature, misogynistic and entitled. Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:50 AM
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So you can't cope with competing with women for jobs? Just say that, then. They weren't "your" job to begin with. The male entitlement is reeking again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:22 AM
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It's a class war, always has been. This gender war BS, is just that, BS. Women aren't trying to repress you or take away your opportunities. Your loneliness is not some personal slight against you by women. Get your head out of your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:53 AM
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Having high self-esteem is better for the individual in general. But I don't think that makes someone a better match for another person necessarily. That depends entirely on the woman in question, what she sees a "better". There's a quite a bit of survival bias in general. Men who do better with women tend to have higher self esteem in general. It's the outcome, rather than the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:30 AM
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Uhm, OK... so what's the debate in question here exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 02:14 AM
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And some women don't want men who only value them for their physical appearance. Shocker, I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:32 AM
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Who's stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:27 AM
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The only true love I believe in is parental love. Any other relationship is transactional in some way. It's funny how some men like to think they're above it somehow, when their standards are just as superficial as the women they're complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:55 PM
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You are free to set your own boundaries, and it's good that you already have an idea of how you would like a relationship to progress. Again, these are YOUR standards. If this is what you're looking for, the onus is solely on you to communicate these expectations and boundaries. However, other people have their own pace and expectations, and they by no means are required or obliged to follow you. You're expecting everyone to somehow agree on and follow a certain set of rules, and yeah, dating do…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:28 AM
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Yeah, you're trying to gamify dating, there's no such thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:20 AM
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You put more effort into strategizing when playing video games than forming a romantic relationship, really?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:08 AM
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I don't think it's disrespectful. Now that women don't need to rely on men for financial support, many women start to place more emphasis on physical attractiveness, something that men never had any qualms of doing to women. The term "gold digger" is used to mainly describe women get into relationships with men purely for financial gain. Yet, there's no equally derogatory term used to mainly describe men who get into relationship with women for purely their youth and physical attractiveness. It'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:57 PM
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Hmm, I think guys who want to cold approach should stick their credit score + criminal background check + monthly income on their shirt instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 12:49 PM
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Then good on those women who don't entertain men who only want to use them to practice their social ineptitude. Like that's a more noble fucking motive. Complain all you want. Just don't act all butthurt or bewildered when people call you out on your hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:29 AM
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Again, I'm not sure if you're being deliberately obtuse. Women who complain online and those who are completely resistant to cold approach are distinct groups, yet you seem to have trouble grasping this rather simple logic. If you want to cold approach, who's stopping you? There's no law against it. Just as you have a right to talk to them, they have the right to turn you down and complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 05:18 AM
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Again, work on your phrasing. Long wall of text yet your questions aren't clear, and just come across as incoherent rambling. There's no cognitive dissonance, women who complain online and the women who are repulsed by cold approach are distinct groups. I'm not sure what's so hard to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:31 AM
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You answered your own question. They're complaining about attractive men specifically. And it makes me laugh everytime guys try to complain about this. You cold approach a woman solely because you find her attractive, but suddenly it's unacceptable when a woman applies the same physical standards on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:28 AM
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I don't understand your incoherent rambling
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:23 AM
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You realise the group of women afraid and extremely turned off by cold approach and the group of women lamenting about men not approaching them are separate groups, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:17 AM
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I'm not sure if you're being intentionally obtuse when I was referring to childish behaviour. It's referring to a 29 year old man who still depends on his mother to cook for him, then complaining on reddit that women don't find such a "man" attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 11:04 PM
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Women don't want to fuck someone they see as a child, is that hard to comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:45 AM
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Yeah, it's called a joke. Step outside and see any young couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:18 PM
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No, I don't. The dating culture in the US is a lot more casual than other places, saying this as someone who has lived there before. Much fewer expectations placed on men. Even an unemployment basement dwelling gamer can find a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:05 PM
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Women proposing an "open" relationship mean 1 of 2 things, and the same applies to men asking. There's someone else she wants to fuck, but doesn't want to let the guy go yet. She's already fucking someone else. Poly relationships very rarely work out when the initial relationship was agreed to be an exclusive one. If your partner brings this up out of a sudden, just break it off before you catch an STD.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:25 PM
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I was referring to cases where these glasses would be used to record people without their consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 11:40 AM
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The only accessory I found that was a complete turn off were Meta Glasses. Why would a smartwatch be?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 08:59 AM
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I would categorize this man as soon to be divorced. Maybe not soon, but eventually. There are certain things in a couples history that are very difficult to move on from, one of which is sleeping with a guy immediately after a break-up, when said guy was a factor in the break-up. Your insecurity / lack of self-confidence will also be a confounding factor, and over time, this guy will come in different versions. And each time, the relationship will get more fractured. I'm just a stranger, but rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 10:04 PM
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This won't end well for you, good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:56 PM
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When the people around her has to constantly hear about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:52 PM
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The relationship is the cause, not the symptom. Besides, if it was surface level, it's not a loss to either the guy or the girl. What's the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:12 AM
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How does women moving on from relationships destroy dating? Just because it makes the guy feel bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:28 AM
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Alot of men here seem to think: women not caring about them not getting laid = women not caring about men's issues at all. It's not true. Most women don't care about that because you not being to be in a romantic relationship despite wanting to is a personal failure, not some systemic issue that needs to be researched.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:17 AM
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For apps to allow users to put some sort filter / ban words for chats. As someone not looking for hookups, I don't want the trouble of having to manually block so many men asking for pics or sending crass messages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:05 PM
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Yet another misery begets company post by u/Maleficent-Remote580 OP, I think your mental health would benefit immensely if you stop having the mindset of "all women deserve my vitriol because I can't get laid." A lack of interest from women simply shows indifference, not the active disdain that you're imagining and showing towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:40 PM
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Yes, many issues frequently complained about here can be avoided if men were just less horny and desperate for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 03:26 AM
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So at the end of the day, it really just boils down to "women bad", all because you can't get a relationship. Really just another incoherent rant on women and why they "deserve" anything bad that happens to them, like all your other posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:28 PM
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There are women who seek out relationships with abusive men, and women who get into relationships with men then find out they are abusive later. The former might either be a bad person herself, or had been in previously abusive relationships (not just romantic) and is simply continuing the pattern of abuse since it's what she's used to. The latter is a victim who had trusted the wrong person. This isn't gender specific, and happens to alot of men as well. OP, do you not understand how deceptive …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 09:01 PM
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He treats me well, is financially stable and I find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 02:28 PM
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First off, I did read your post, and it seems like you’re missing the point entirely. When I brought up bodily autonomy, it was to highlight the distinction between the actual physical risk of pregnancy (something men don’t experience) versus financial obligations (which both genders share). Forcing someone to bear a child is a much more invasive and significant consequence than forcing someone to pay support. It’s not just about freedom of choice; it’s about bodily integrity. As for your compar…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:43 PM
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Because you're not bearing the risk of pregnancy, it's not an issue of bodily automy for men. I don't understand why it's such a hard concept to grasp. Sulk all you want about it: forcing someone to pay vs forcing someone to conceive is not comparable. It comes down to simple economics. Which would be less burden on the country: making the father pay for his own child or having to deplete government resources? For men who complain about potential child support: you don't want a kid but still wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:12 PM
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Calling sex work a privilege is a stretch. Most women going into it use it as a very last resort, and even then, they will have immense regret from that experience. While you (and other male posters) continue rambling on about how unfair it is women "get" to have this avenue of work, I'm curious how often you yourself watch porn or engage sexual services. I don't see how you feel like your criticism toward these women is valid when you're an active consumer of it. There's no supply without the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:27 PM
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Women can turn to sex work, which men can't do in times of desperation. Men can turn to manual labour intensive work, which women can't do in times of desperation. Sex work might pay better, but it's more mich damaging than manual labour, in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:20 AM
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I see way more men than women complaining about dating here
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:04 AM
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I mean if you have no social circle, then dating apps. And if your not matching on dating apps, tough luck. Just need to pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 02:15 AM
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Oh, I understand. These women made the mistake of thinking he'll get better. Newsflash: he won't, and similar to his lack of effort in maintaining the household, he'll show the same amount of effort when it comes to child rearing. I sincerely hope that OP is not married, and his partner wises up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:32 PM
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/s ? I hope?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:21 PM
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I fully agree. A couple should try living together for a few months before getting married. I think there won't be as many divorces if both had an idea of each other's living habits before fully commiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 08:13 PM
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Why? Can't pick up after yourself, can't make a meal for yourself either? Have you been waited on hand and foot your whole life?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:19 PM
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Why so triggered over women asking men to do their own part in the household? Is it too difficult for you to handle?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:11 PM
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Usually because a lot of the things that need to be done actually don't need to be done. Some people don't like living in filth, dust, dirty dishes and dirty clothes. What you consider unnecessary is actually quite basic for not living like a slob. And this seems to backed up by the latest surveys in divisions of household labor. They don't say people should do less, simply that the workforce partition of women don't seem to equally diminish the amount of housework women have to do compared to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:09 PM
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You've clearly never had kids then. There are chores that need to be done daily and weekly, some less frequently for couples without kids. It's easy to say chores are unnecessary when you expect someone to pick out after you, like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:05 PM
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Bad behaviour is diminishing your partner's efforts to keep a clean home, then complaining when she tells you to do your part.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:03 PM
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Very telling how you consider bad behaviour to be her telling you to clean up, but not the lazy attitude of expecting someone to pick up after you. It's always men like this who are shocked when their wives or girlfriends "suddenly" leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:29 PM
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Why would she need therapy when she can solve her problems simply by breaking up with a manchild?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:46 PM
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Depends on whether you have a habit of leaving cups unattended for long, then expect her to pick up after you without so much as bothering to put them in a sink. nagging mouth of hers. You fail as a man when she feels more than your mother than your girlfriend. And men wonder why their wives or girlfriends stop fucking them after cohabitating for some time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:39 PM
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So you're saying men are allowed to want an attractive women that will treat him well, but women can't want an attractive man that will treat her well?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:43 AM
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If you're coming up with imaginary scenarios to get mad at / use as some sort of slight towards women, I don't think not being a Hollywood actor is your biggest problem buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:25 AM
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If you were a high value man yourself, what do you need to worry about?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:45 AM
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No, it's just called not being a slob
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:41 AM
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If a guy doesn't care much about doing house chores, what makes you think he's going to care more with a to-do list? And your wife is not your mother. Can't men see with their own 2 eyes what needs to be done around the house? Or do they think elves will automatically clean the house on their own? A chore chart will also need to be constantly changed every week, depending on the needs of the household. Your wife isn't some project manager. Having to tell another grown adult what needs to be done…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:23 AM
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Live your life as usual, I guess? If you're not willing to make yourself attractive to women, then it implies relationships aren't that important to you. In that case, just pay for escorts to get it out of your system.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 05:28 AM
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Ok lemme ask a question. Why should men do it? Because you want the relationship alot more than she does. No one's asking you to do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 04:22 AM
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I mean, unless you have rich parents to support you, aren't you doing all these for yourself? I personally know men who only care about physical appearances and nothing else, including poor spending/saving habits and lack of financial independence when it comes to women, and I can tell you they regret their marriages. These women are in for a rougher ride, financial dependence when you're out of the workforce for over 5+ years is ticket to poverty. Don't be too envious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:54 AM
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I don't know how old you are, but your replies sound extremely immature. You're looking for some sort of universal textbook to get laid, guess what? There isn't one. If you're that adamant only wanting advice from total strangers, it just tells me you're too prideful or too much of a coward to ask for honest feedback from people that actually know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:48 AM
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Debating gender related topics, I guess. And as far as I can see here, most posts made by men about women here like to frame their asinine and misogynistic opinion as some sort of debate laughably.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:08 AM
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I don't see it written anywhere this is a dating advice sub. Why on earth are you relying on people who don't know you to give any useful advice? Do you not know anyone in your life whose dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:00 AM
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Any advice here on how to attract the opposite gender is completely useless. We don't know your personality, we don't know how you look like or how you behave towards the opposite gender. I find people asking for such personal advice here really quite ridiculous. If you want advice that works, the only logical solution is to ask someone that actually knows you in real life, it's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:33 AM
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Am I supposed to feel sorry for them? So the issue isn't money then, just unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 09:03 PM
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Way to miss the point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:23 PM
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What's "everything else"? Many broke college boys have girlfriends. Many low-income men have wives and girlfriends. So it's clearly not only money they're lacking in, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:59 PM
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If all he can bring to a relationship is money, then he'll attract women who only care about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:42 PM
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I disagree with her points, I think they are only valid in very specific scenarios. Chances are men who are attractive enough to have options are less bothered by 1 woman rejecting them, since he knows he'll be able to get another one pretty easily. When a woman who says finally says yes after a guy repeatedly asks her, it's usually because of some uncertainty on her end at the beginning. If there are already certain physical or personality traits about him that she finds utterly repulsive or un…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:53 PM
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From my experience, ironically, if they're willing to wait before you're comfortable with physical intimacy. It's by far most effective filter for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:11 PM
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I don't think it's really about the women you're seeing, but your insecurity. If you see yourself as being inferior to other men, then you'll always be worried about being settled for. To answer your question directly, I don't see the logic behind a woman going out with a man she's not interested in, unless she's asking you to pay for everything and being unappreciative. I don't think most women have the time or energy to go out on dates and stringing along multiple men at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:24 AM
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By not choosing "good" men, you're actually just referring to yourself right? Anyways, I don't think women are inherently better than filtering out bad men than men are at filtering out bad women. Perhaps they can pick up signs of violent personality a little better, but I think that's pretty much it. These "filters" vary from gender, and so do the criterion or threshold each person can tolerate bad behaviour. I also think it's pretty silly for any person to think that they'll be able to accurat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:07 PM
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I'm not assuming anything. It's quite literally written in posts here if you just took 1 minute to read, but I guess that's too much effort. This post was also directly asking women about their experiences, and yet again, we have men here completely ignoring what we're saying. It's laughable that guys here like to frame their nonsensical opinion about women as a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 02:12 PM
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Nope. These women are pretty self-aware, not looking for someone rich. I'm not sure what your argument is. The point is that I see women who are unwillingly single are usually aware of their own undesirability/faults and don't have the tendency to resent or hate men for having preferences. The same can't be said for alot of the male posters here, who seem to think that it's the fault of all women they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:15 AM
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Nope. Even ugly guys here want pretty girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:44 AM
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Really? That hasn't been my experience. Just break up if that's the case, it sounds miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 07:16 AM
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I do have quite a few girlfriends who are single, although they would like to be in a relationship. Reason being I'm from a country with pretty strict beauty standards, and they don't fit into it. They acknowledge that and try to find contentment in other areas of their life: work and hobbies. I've never heard them resenting men for it, unlike how some male posters love to do about women on here. PS: OP, the last part of your post sounds extremely fake. Why would they be telling some random guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 03:56 AM
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Nah, that's the wrong analogy. It's like applying to a job with many other potential candidates, then complaining that the recruiter ignores a half-assed resume.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:50 PM
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If she's more desirable than you, then you're trying to make yourself more attractive to her, not the other way round. Just basic supply and demand. If you don't want to do that, then find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:27 PM
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Sure, but it's pretty easy to just move on if he's not showing that much interest at the beginning. Most of the complaints from women come after, when the guy gets complacent in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:55 AM
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They're complaining about laziness that comes during the relationship / after the honeymoon phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:29 AM
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I think it really only means: just perceiving yourself as a good person, does not automatically mean you're entitled to a relationship. A good deed disguised as simply a favour while actually expecting sex in return is not really a good deed at all, but a transaction the woman was not aware of. She has every right to reject that transaction. The guy does not get the right to whine about his manipulation tactics not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 12:40 AM
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Why not ask the men who put them in that position? Raising a child even with 2 parents is difficult enough, there's usually a pretty good reason why a woman will choose raising a child on her own than staying in that relationship. No, I'm not a single mum. It's really just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 11:32 PM
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You sound extremely immature. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 07:39 AM
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Why do you feel entitled to easy sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:40 AM
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Then don't simp
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:48 PM
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I would argue that it's never been easier as a man to have casual sex. All you need to do is be attractive. And if you aren't, well, you only have yourself to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 11:03 PM
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Nearly 10 years, till I met my husband. Wasn't really a thing that occupied my mind since I was busy focusing on school and work. Don't really see it as a negative thing either, since I don't see how casual sex is beneficial in any way to me. To answer your qn: I don't see a lack of sex (especially casual sex) as a bad thing, so I don't really feel any sympathy for those who can't get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/26 03:25 AM
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Ever been to a club? They already do. You mistake disinterest for cowardice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:43 PM
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If you equate food to a romantic relationship, then I'm afraid OP's post was targeted at exactly someone like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 11:37 AM
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I agree. It'll be much easier for men if relationships with women stopped being a metric for success or self-worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:31 AM
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How old are you OP? This sounds a very immature way to view relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:15 AM
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Nah, most times these girls already have a local boyfriend or husband. Foreign boyfriends pay well compared to whatever the boyfriend/husband earns, so they don't mind lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:38 PM
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I'm from a country where passport bros frequent. Everyone knows the deal here, they're called LBH (losers back home) cuz face it, why else do you need to travel halfway around the world to find someone to fuck you? You should hear the things these girls say about their foreign boyfriends behind her back. Sometimes, right in front of them too since most times, passport bros lack of language skills help to mask their lack of social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 10:32 PM
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Immaturity and inability to perceive other people's struggles aside from their own. Just because another person faces a completely different set of hardships from their own, they completely disregard it and treat it as minute compared to their own. The only women they notice are attractive ones. The rest might as well be invisible to them. Superiority complex and misogyny. From the comments here, it's pretty clear that a lot of red-pilled commenters have the underlying assumption that women are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 08:12 AM
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No, it just means she's not into casual sex and that she's filtering out men looking for ONS/FWB in search of a long-term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 02:11 AM
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It means nothing. In my social circle, its not the norm to sleep with someone who just met.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 09:43 PM
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I mean, standards for an FWB or an ONS are very different from that of a relationship. What's wrong with that? If you can't get casual sex, then I guess the closest thing for comparison would be paid sexual services. When you select, most times, it would be purely based on looks and nothing else, not based on character, right? It's not that hard to understand. I think it's valid to consider someone's sexual history when it comes to selecting for a long-term partner, we all have preferences and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:09 PM
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I'm not a mind reader, so I can't tell if a guy is trying to befriend be with no ulterior motive ie. just trying to sleep with me. Nothing wrong with being attracted to a friend, but if his treatment or personality towards me does a complete 180° and he becomes snarky/mean just because I turned him down, only then I get upset. Simply because it's pretty obvious that he just wanted to sleep with me this whole time and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 06:10 PM
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What makes you think they don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 05:57 PM
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