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| – | Debate: the problem with the dating market is women’s standards are too highIt seems to be heavily mixed with MGTOW for some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Madonna/wh*re complex is why so many marriages end up being sexless.I was just talking about something similar like this with my wife the other day, how some women who want a little degradation-play in the bedroom for fun have a man who will say/have the thought process along the lines of "I love and respect you too much." Didn't know it had a name behind that line of thinking. Sounds boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Question: If a woman asks for a divorce over emotional needs, is it okay to divorce over physical needs?The idea of a physical community is dying for most, and this is one of the side effects. IMHO, we are just smarter monkeys that can manipulate our environment, but still most require a group/community to belong to prosper emotionally and physically. The internet is being used to replace it...but that's only creating echo chambers, instant gratification, and loneliness. As for your topic, I think both alone are not "good"(morality, and everyone has their own morals) reasons, unless every attempt … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Question: If a woman asks for a divorce over emotional needs, is it okay to divorce over physical needs?Nice flair. There are quite a few women on r/deadbedroom with their physical needs not being met. My mother HATED the show "Married with Children" because of how the wife was portrayed. Wasn't till years later I was able to figure out it was her seeing a reflection of her own marriage(she wasn't a stay at home mom tho), through comments here and there that seemingly seem generalizing...but with hints through intonations and body language that it hit close to home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Question: If a woman asks for a divorce over emotional needs, is it okay to divorce over physical needs?I assume it's about social acceptance or whether it is "fair/equal." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Question: If a woman asks for a divorce over emotional needs, is it okay to divorce over physical needs?I agree with you. There's a big difference between an ultimatum and asking/telling your partner that there are aspects that need to be worked on. If they don't seem to care enough to work on the issue, then an ultimatum may just end up being a band-aid if anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Guys spend way more money on dating, get wayyy less than womenTinder I'd start by walking the fuck away from this. I'm sure there are some great stories of a happy couple first meeting up from Tinder, but it has a very strong pull on people that want instant gratification. Try other dating apps/sites if you'd prefer finding someone online to meet up. The more common suggestions: Depending on what kind of woman/wife you want, you could become social in a church(some areas even have more secular leanings, but thought I'd throw that in here)/club, group/etc t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Unsolicited dick picsSeems fair to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Unsolicited dick picsOh well. Hope your mom likes it. Because each and every one gets immediately sent to his partner and the first five or ten people I can find on his social media feed. Nope. I'd never send an unsolicited nude Do you ask the partner/random friends if they want to see X masterbating before you send it? Either way, I think it's pretty hilarious imagining some dude doing the Pikachu face after sending nudes/lewds with blatant, easy identification(face, name, etc.) in the same vid/img, especially when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Are there more lonely men or lonely women?Yeah, 100% agreed. My wife definitely helped me from being tempted by their "fun" in the year leading up to our wedding. I knew it'd fuck everything up straight out of the gate and most likely doom the marriage. I think many men need an "anchor" and/or a purpose. Makes me wonder if required military/police service for a few years after highschool would help. Can lead to finding and learning some skill, engineering or tech etc., that can lead to a more stable life path. Suicide rate points to som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 09:36 PM |
| – | Are there more lonely men or lonely women?For me personally, the opioid epidemic and then the Great Recession royally fucked up my circle of close friends. In addition to me moving to another state in my late 20s. If the culture was already screwing up people, those two just accelerated it for many. Suicide and accidental/intentional overdoses. Even had one of my brothers, who I was closer in age to, turn addict and then kicked the chair when he was about to go to prison for breaking and entering (I think with a weapon, like a bat or cr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Does it really matter if women don't actually have a headache when they just don't want sex?Context and Pattern ...and trust whoever is telling you their wife always has a headache when they try to initiate sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/23 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you break up with a girl because she's boring?I'm married now. But Back in high school, I was a real asshole. I dumped a gf for eating tomatoes and mayonnaise. No, not in a sandwich or anything at all. By itself. Before that, she was boring me by not being able to have complex discussions. Boring? No. But a strike? Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 12:27 AM |
| 1 | What incentive someone who belongs to a negatively stereotyped group like men has to behave well or he's still going to be judged by the stereotype?😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 12:20 AM |
| 1 | What incentive someone who belongs to a negatively stereotyped group like men has to behave well or he's still going to be judged by the stereotype?If you're gonna go nuts, and not be a good little boy anymore, do you think you can somehow get on one of the late(late) shows? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 12:17 AM |
| 5 | Women overestimate the times they are being "hit" by menAfter the 3rd punch they really start to exaggerate how many times you continue to hit her./§ But seriously, this is why prepositions are as important as commas 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 07:43 PM |
| 3 | The men here fail because they refuse to take any risks100% agree I had young parents. Mother had me at 17. I'm basically a "X"illennial. Gen X(and some older millennials) indeed had the most "freedom" to find their identity, make more risks, learn to resolve conflict when compared to every generation after Gen X. There were some Boomers who begun the helicopter parenting...but it went into over drive in the early 90s. My childhood was vastly different to my younger brothers...and I was babysitting at 10 😆 CPS could get on your ass for that now. I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | High libido is a curse for unattractive people"And so what? Who gives a fuck?" -Margaret Sanger, Dec. 10th 1939. 😆 If you're a troll, I applaud your bait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: if you feel it’s fine to ask your wife for a paternity test without cause, you should also be fine with a wife choosing to live outside the home for fear you might kill her.you don't trust that she would never have sex with somebody else? Well why should she trust that you won't kill her? Slightly reminds me of the scenario pro-choice/abortion people bring up: Are you okay with someone being forced to be "attached" to someone else's heart/lungs/etc to save their life? Are you really okay with forcing someone to do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/23 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Men are told to "touch grass" and "talk to women" but if they fumble they get to be creep shamed on social mediaYeah, some can be as intense as the stereotypical feminist who finds almost everything toxic and sexist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Women asking to be "treated as human beings" are really just asking to be treated as royaltyTL;DR:I think it's a two way street here(as in how some men treat women as "royalty"), and of course NAWALT. I've heard of a saying in regards to how men sometimes act when it comes to women, "Save the eggs!" 😆 But, I would be interested in seeing a study about how men expect, or perhaps feel entitled, to be treated vs. women on dates. Maybe a commenter here has one? IME, I've encountered a few women who have this mindset in a way. I had one date who was extremely upset I wore jeans to dinner an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 07:41 PM |
| 1 | One of the biggest mistakes men make is marrying women who want to be SAHMsStay at home mom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 07:15 PM |
| 1 | One of the biggest mistakes men make is marrying women who want to be SAHMsI became a SAHD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Censorship of TRP has gotten out of control, leaving virtually nowhere for men to safely vent about the horrific dating conditions they deal with and has turned formerly neutral places like this into Blue Pill echo chambersWhat do you mean by "safely"? Safe from getting banned? I'm sure there's a few discords out there where guys vent. I believe TurdFlingingMonkey has one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you define “Chad”The "chad" definitions only make sense to me slightly($$$, looks, etc. Obviously will increase attraction for many out there). The majority of the women I dated/slept with in HS/College chased me(the only woman I actively chased was my wife.) They also either went 50/50 on dates, or paid for me. This was around the late 00's. Only two women weighed more than me. Don't think I got the same energy as the "chad" memes. I didn't(don't) work out. I'm overweight. I'm 5'8. The only thing I could see as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 05:08 PM |
| 1 | The fact that blue pillers never have genuine counterpoints or refutation to the countless valid TRP grievances, and only seem to be able to respond with insults and ad hominem attacks, is a strong credit to the legitimacy of TRP.Ideology is a hell of a drug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 09:22 PM |
| 14 | The fact that blue pillers never have genuine counterpoints or refutation to the countless valid TRP grievances, and only seem to be able to respond with insults and ad hominem attacks, is a strong credit to the legitimacy of TRP.I decided to check to see if they were lying about you... But there are several examples in your comment history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 09:00 PM |
| 9 | How is it that some people see being used for sex as sexually liberating?Nah, the clitoris is just a myth invented by feminists to make women more like men. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here regularly visit sex workers?Probably the same guys that are into having sex with shaved Orangutans dressed as a woman and used in a brothel. https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/prostitute-orangutan-screamed-defecated-brothel-13652061 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 03:01 PM |
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