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Altruistic_Swan_9707/r/Divorce_Men03/08/26 03:23 AM
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Senior manager at a tech company.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/26 04:41 AM
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Yup. That’s the problem.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/26 02:34 PM
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Well, the divorce will definitely harm them. But, you do you.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/26 02:23 PM
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You’d better believe they convince themselves it doesn’t.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/26 06:33 AM
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Is it ok? No, of course not. But it happened, and it sucks, and I’m sorry.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/26 03:26 AM
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I’m speaking on the potential relevance of the question, not what OP will or won’t do.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/26 02:28 AM
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Because it’s the difference between being able to move to India, assimilate, and be with the baby or not. Not every society is liberal when it comes to race.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/26 01:16 AM
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Hey man. It sucks. But it sounds like you realize you got the important stuff. If divorce was one mountain you climbed, rebuilding your life is another and you just started climbing. It can feel daunting, but like the divorce, you gotta take one step at a time and you will get to the top.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/26 04:13 PM
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I was married to a Type A woman who needed to plan every detail of every part of the day. I believed her when she said the mental load was unbearable and I needed to help more with this or that. But what she could never admit to was that so much of it was imposed on herself, and it was in pursuit of a perfection that just doesn’t exist. But whenever I tried to shoulder my equal load, it was never the right task, at the right time, in the right way. Now that I’m on my own, I am more than able to …
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/26 04:06 PM
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And it will still hurt for a while. Find a divorce support group if you can. Accept help from friends if you can, but realize they’ll only give so much. But one day, I promise, you will wake up and feel glimmers of yourself again. And one day after that you will feel solidly like yourself again.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/26 05:46 AM
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Interesting on the kid point. I’ve found that even women who say they wouldn’t date a dad with kids aren’t always firm to that.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 08:05 AM
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“ I’ve dated a couple of really attractive, successful women since”. These were traits I valued in my 20’s and I built a family with one over 14 years. In the end I’m more interested in finding a companion who can enjoy life. I don’t care about status except more is probably worse.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 08:03 AM
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Filed a year in a half ago. I’m exhausted. The kids are mostly ok, but this is such a destructive process. I’m divorcing a former elite athlete who knows how to grind through pain until she gets what she wants. It’s terrible.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 07:57 AM
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Yup. My divorce started amicably. We were going to split as husband wife, still be friends, and coparent together 24/7. Now I am and always have been an unstable, volatile individual, and my visitation rights should be limited and I should only get a small portion of the community property. My lawyer warned me she would rewrite the narrative to fit her wants, and I kept giving her the benefit of the doubt… until I could not do so any longer. Just wait until we get the women who come in here and …
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 01:10 AM
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I am in a very similar position and it just sucks… I don’t have any advice, but you’re not alone and it’s relatively common. Not that that makes it easier.
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/26 01:04 AM
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Ask her specifics about who her true self is and why she felt she couldn’t be that in the marriage. She won’t have an answer, but she will get hostile!
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 04:17 PM
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Hahahah. So what?
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 04:08 PM
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Thank you for your perspective. Too many women come into this sub to minimize and blame men- ironically.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 04:06 PM
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My marriage was ALL about what I wasn’t doing for her. My needs were minimized or outright dismissed. It was incumbent on me to make all changes, she was never wrong, and she believes I am 100% the reason the marriage ended. Extremely common.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 03:53 PM
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Jesus. This is the man women should be leaving.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/26 01:44 AM
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Here’s an example of something that happens in a minority of cases you wrong-o’s!
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/26 01:37 AM
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Thanks for coming onto this men’s forum snd telling us how we’re all wrong and failed to provide! I haven’t had the pleasure of experiencing this since the ink dried on the divorce decree!
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/26 01:32 AM
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Ooh, ooh! i know this one. As the husband, your issues were either you misinterpreting something, or not that big of a deal. Besides, you’re the one who ie supposed to unilaterally step up and change your behaviors since your wife was always in the right. Did I get it?
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/26 01:24 AM
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