| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 17 | Is this what maintaining Frame looks like? | AltrusiticPound | /r/askMRP | 07/04/20 11:47 PM | |
| 2 | Main Event | AltrusiticPound | /r/askMRP | 08/04/20 12:43 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | The Baby TrapA cyst isn't built in contraception she WILL get pregnant. This didn't happen to me, but I know someone who it has happened to. Added this comment just to caveat off of your experience. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/10/20 03:36 PM |
| 0 | Main EventI’m not leaving my daughter. I was sad to leave. | /r/askMRP | 08/04/20 01:21 PM |
| 0 | Main EventOuch. At least you have the age totally off. | /r/askMRP | 08/04/20 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Main EventMy family has a house .7 miles from my in-laws. I’m there with all my shit. I’m not contacting her first. I am making plans to leave. I don’t want to end my marriage. I actually started this to try and save it, but I don’t feel like she respects me. | /r/askMRP | 08/04/20 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Is this what maintaining Frame looks like?need to DEER and communicate needs to go, bro, it is holding you back. I honestly didn't think I DEERed. When she wanted to talk about me I brought it back to her. | /r/askMRP | 08/04/20 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Is this what maintaining Frame looks like?When you get home: bring energy, bring fun. Imagine yourself as a weather system, when you walk in the room the sun starts to fucking shine. A little puddle of mutter from a temper tantrum evaporates pretty quickly when it’s sunny. Sounds like solid advice. I will start acting cheery AF when I get home. | /r/askMRP | 08/04/20 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Is this what maintaining Frame looks like?You're a career beta. She knows it. Everyone knows it. Except you. You've found MRP, and now you're a child playing with dynamite. And shit blows up some times. 100% accurate. She's just had a baby. You're in NY. Coronavirus is fucking up the world. She's at HER PARENTS house. (hint: she's not at your extra house in the Hamptons). SHE'S SCARED AS FUCK. And, she has no alpha, no oak, no man around to help her know it's all going to be okay; because that sure as fuck isn't you. She had a baby a ye… | /r/askMRP | 08/04/20 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Is this what maintaining Frame looks like?I don't think he was saying he told her about MRP, I think he was talking to us but just didn't separate the sentence context better for clarity. This is correct. | /r/askMRP | 08/04/20 10:45 AM |
| 0 | Is this what maintaining Frame looks like?6'1", 190 lbs. Never measured BF, but I've been athletic and physically active most of my lift. I read NMMNG and am reading MMSLP and WISNIFG. To be honest, I've been slacking in my reading. Mommy is glad you’re taking orders so well. Does She tell you when to poop also? Can you see how it’s We live in NY and work on Long Island, which is connect to Queens, NY. Queens has the most cases of COVID. Her parents are both over 70 and her father has breathing issues from Agent Orange and 9/11. Me taki… | /r/askMRP | 08/04/20 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Is this what maintaining Frame looks like?I agree with what you say. Financially I can't leave her right now. I have debt I need to pay off and I need a better paying job. I have a plan that I'm following for both. The following morning I had my bags packed, I made arrangements to stay at a family's members house, and I Was ready to leave. I didn't want to because I want to unfuck myself as a man first. If we haven't made any progress in a year I'm out. | /r/askMRP | 08/04/20 10:34 AM |
| 5 | Is this what maintaining Frame looks like?Show a half effort of controlling you with that magic vagina - to let you THINK you might have won - but pulls it right back away from beta Billy. And then you come here asking/thinking you won. That woman is genius. You're a blind man. Totally right. Thanks for pointing that out. | /r/askMRP | 08/04/20 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Is this what maintaining Frame looks like?Financially, I cannot leave my wife yet. I'm hoping to by the end of the year. Normally, she doesn't talk shit, but when we meet at the end of the day, after work, she always comes at me like I'm one of her employees. I've brought it up to her one other time (last December) that I don't like her attitude when she comes home. | /r/askMRP | 08/04/20 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 07, 2020OYS 7 Stats: 6’1”, 195lbs., 39 y.o. Married for 3.5 years (together for almost 7) and we 1 10-month-old baby. Sidebar: Finished NMMNG and Rationale Male on audiobook. Currently reading WISNIFG and MMSLP. Current Workout Program: Working out using a 30 and 50 lbs. kettlebell and a pull-up bar. I’m also doing running/sprinting workouts. Current Diet: fruit and veggie smoothie in the AM with vitamins, meat and veggies for lunch and dinner. Personal: I need to spend more time reading the sidebar. La… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/20 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2020Yes, my wife will not overtly tell me she wants dick, sadly... Edit: typo | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/04/20 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2020You're date night is a fucking big fat obvious covert contract attempt to get laid. I mean, is a covert contract if my wife agrees? I suggested we go over there for "alone time" and she agreed. She even brought it up this morning. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 02/04/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 31, 2020OYS 7 60DOD Stats: 6’1”, 195lbs., 39 y.o. Married for 3.5 years (together for almost 7) and we 1 10-month-old baby. Sidebar: Finished NMMNG and Rationale Male on audiobook. Currently reading WISNIFG and MMSLP. Current Workout Program: All gyms in New York are shutdown so it’s all bodyweight exercises. Current Diet: fruit and veggie smoothie in the AM with vitamins, meat and veggies for lunch and dinner. Personal: I haven’t been reading the sidebar enough. My Goal 1 is to develop a Frame by the e… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/04/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Lilyhammer is a great red pill show.Remember Silvio Dante from The Sopranos (a.k.a. Steven Van Zandt of Bruce Springsteen's E Street Band)? Yeah, him. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 24, 2020And NMMNG: did you do the Breaking Free exercises and write your answers down? I didn't, but I'll definitely go back and do them now. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/03/20 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 24, 2020OYS 6 Stats: 6’1”, 195lbs., 39 y.o. Married for 3.5 years (together for almost 7) and we 1 10-month-old baby. Sidebar: Finished NMMNG and Rationale Male on audiobook. Currently reading WISNIFG and MMSLP. Current Workout Program: All gyms in New York are shutdown so it’s all bodyweight exercises. Current Diet: fruit and veggie smoothie in the AM with vitamins, meat and veggies for lunch and dinner. Personal: I’ve revised my goals last week. Right now I have two strategic goals. Each strategic goa… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/03/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 17, 2020The replies aren't bad but this comes off to me as more concern which just needed Fair point...probably is. Question: my wife ends most of her sentences with, "don't you agree?". This irritates the shit out of me because I feel like it's manipulative. Am I being an overly sensitive passive aggressive beta faggot, or is she being manipulative? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/03/20 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 17, 2020OYS 5 Stats: 6’1”, 195lbs., 39 y.o. Married for 3.5 years (together for almost 7) and we 1 10-month-old baby. Sidebar: Finished NMMNG and Rationale Male on audiobook. Currently reading WISNIFG and MMSLP. Current Workout Program: All gyms in New York are shutdown. I have 2 kettlebells and a pull-up bar at home, so that’s all I got for at least two weeks Current Diet: fruit and veggie smoothie in the AM with vitamins, meat and veggies for lunch and dinner. Personal: Last week u/ImNotSlash said “So… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/03/20 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 10, 2020Yup, you’re right. It’s an excuse. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/03/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 10, 2020So I started writing a reply and had a couple links gathered. But then i realized I wouldn't do my son's homework for him. Why would I do yours? Don't spoon feed faggots...I got it! Find one thing to focus on, come back next week and tell us what it was and how it went. All other things you keep normal. This was helpful. Thank you. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/03/20 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 10, 2020Honestly man, if my not greeting her with hugs and kisses anymore is passive aggressive, then shouldn't I stop that behavior? I'm starting to find the response a little confusing. Your response indicates I'm wrong for not being affectionate. Then, shouldn't I do the opposite? Did I stop with XOXOs when she gets home because it wasn't reciprocated? Yes. Was it a covert contract? Yes. I am also trying to be a little more stoic, I guess. I don't talk about my feelings that much. I try not to talk a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/03/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 10, 2020[My note: it does. You're a "woe-is-me" bitch Got it. I'll go back to acting like I did before I realized that my life and marriage are based on covert contracts. These are related. You figure out how and why. The passive aggression and the covert contracts are related. How and why? Because I didn't get what I wanted out of the covert contract and now I'm mad and taking out on her. And it is unjustly to her. I don't know if I want/should stay with my wife, but I will go back to being affectionat… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/03/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 10, 2020You're 90% right. I don't blame my wife, not at all. I lay the blame entirely at my feet. 100% of the responsibility for my life working out the way it has is because of decisions I've made. But I'm here. I'm reading the sidebar. I'm STFU. I'm participating in OYS in order to get my life back on track. The hard truth that I'm facing is that maybe I shouldn't have married my wife. Not her fault at all, but it's the truth. Do I just go about faking the funk? When should I start to act like myself … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/03/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 10, 2020You ever wonder - while you're smoking weed and throwing mushrooms into yourself - why she ever got sick of your shit and stopped fucking you? You ever stop to think that the reason that you're not 'in love' with her is because you've turned her into something you cannot stand to look at.. your own reflection? You don't know what to do with my comment because you are completely and utterly fucking incapable of any sort of productive self evaluation. I have an idea why. I thought if I left the mi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/03/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 10, 2020I wasn't trying to be passive aggressive. Am I just supposed to fake like I'm still in love with her? I don't have a short temper with her and I still do all of my housework, I'm just not overly affectionate. I used to be overly affectionate thinking the more I love her and the sweeter I am, then the happier she'll be. For all that I have done to make her feel loved and comfortable it doesn't seem to have paid off. I'm really trying to change my life and improve based on what I learn from the si… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/03/20 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 10, 2020OYS 4 Stats: 6’1”, 200lbs., 39 y.o. Married for 3.5 years (together for almost 7) and we 1 10-month-old baby. Current Workout Program: CrossFit and other functional workouts. Current Diet: fruit and veggie smoothie in the AM with vitamins, meat and veggies for lunch and dinner. Goals: · No pot during the week. Unless I wake up with the baby and can’t go back to sleep, I don’t use during the week. It kills motivation, it gives a false sense of happiness, and it’s another expense. · Study for the … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/03/20 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 18, 202039 yo. 6’1”, 205 lbs. Married for 3 years (together of 6.5). 1 baby. This is my third OYS post. I just finished NMMNG and I will go thru it again. I’m listening to The Book of Pook right now. I’m waiting for MMSLP to arrive in the mail. Mission Be the leader at home and at work that I know I can be. Fitness I got a gym membership today and lifted weights for the first time in 1.5 years. I stopped lifting because I had some injuries and then I had a baby. When I was a kid I was very unathletic an… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/02/20 09:34 PM |
| 25 | Boxing teacher gets overly aggressive. What would you do?when I asked why he said "I'll show you" and a few minutes later in a similar situation kicked me hard in the head. Leave this fucking gym immediately!! I'm all for martial arts, especially striking, but if you're not a pro or trying to go pro, then you have no business letting some cunt fucking head kick you!! Are you a punching bag? No. Are you this POS's wet stone? No. "this is not judo, you don't tap out." This POS does not respect you. The Kru (instructor) does not care about you or respect… | /r/askMRP | 13/02/20 03:01 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 11, 2020Thank you. I really needed to read this. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/02/20 02:52 PM |
| -1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 11, 2020And for fucks sake, STFU and don't talk about fight club. Okay...but the Breaking Free Activities in NMMNG tell you to share things with your partner. If I completely STFU about fight club how am I supposed to be honest with her when it's time for me to go to a NMMNG support group meeting? Am I also supposed to hide when I start reading Married Man Sex Life Primer? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/02/20 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 11, 2020I don't "need" to smoke pot, but I like to because of how it makes me feel. It makes me feel happy when I am not terribly happy. It allows me to disconnect escape my reality. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/02/20 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 11, 2020I see your point, but what happens when she only initiates when I want to go to bed? She could solve this problem if she started going to bed at the same time was me, but she rarely takes my suggestions. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/02/20 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 11, 2020Look, I need my sleep. If I have to get up at 5 AM, don't try and fuck me at 10:30 PM when I'm trying to go to bed. I'm almost 40 and have a 9-month-old. I need my sleep! We've discussed this before. She knows how I feel about my bedtime and sleep. It's a boundary she needs to respect. Plus, she had all day to get laid, so... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/02/20 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 11, 2020OYS Stats: 6’1”, married, 1 9-month-old baby. 39 years old; 205 lbs. Current Workout Program: Body weight and HIIT exercises 3x a week. Current Diet: fruit and veggie smoothie in the AM with vitamins, meat and veggies for lunch and dinner. Fitness and Health I just started working out again last week, so I haven’t seen any results. I have joint issues from years of lifting and being in the Marines, so I can’t lift right now for the sake of my knees. My goal is to get definition and strength back… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/02/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 28, 2020How am I unattractive? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/02/20 08:22 PM |
| 1 | OYS posts are for you to own YOUR shit, not to blab about shit that's out of your control.Week 1 on MRP Age: 39 (M), 39(F), Married 3.5 years (been in a committed relationship for 6.5 years), one 9-month-old daughter HT: 6’1”, WT: 205 lbs. Diet: low-carb Workout: bodyweight HIIT exercises 3x a week Reading: The Five Love Languages Sidebar: Listening to the BP Professor’s free audio and visual class on marriage and sexual attraction, listening to the Book of Pook on YouTube, and reading posts on r/marriedredpill. This week: I am new to the journey. I’ve been listening the materials ab… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/02/20 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 28, 2020Age: 39 (M), 39(F), Married 3.5 years (been in a committed relationship for 6.5 years), one 9-month-old daughter HT: 6’1”, WT: 205 lbs. Diet: low-carb Workout: body weight HIIT exercises 3x a week Reading: The Five Love Languages Sidebar: Listening to the BP Professor’s free audio and visual class on marriage and sexual attraction, listening to the Book of Pook on YouTube, and reading posts on r/marriedredpill. This week: I am new to the journey. I’ve been listening the materials about and frame… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/02/20 04:54 PM |
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