Alu71 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	Learning about detachment.		Alu71	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/26 12:28 AM

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1	Learning about detachment. Money is stopping me from moving. I have a fairly substantial fund put away for my daughter's education - like, $100K, but I refuse to touch it because it feels like I'm taking from the only thing I have left to offer her. So I exist on the limited amount of benefits I have coming in... not enough for a move.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/26 07:33 PM
1	Learning about detachment. We have a 17 year old daughter. I feel really bad that she lost out on having a mother and father around. We're only texting. She keeps asking me to go for a walk and talk and I keep making excuses why we shouldn't. I'm kinda drifting between the grief stage and the anger stage and seeing her gives me a gut feeling that I'll either get sad, or very mad.. emotions I'm attempting to gain control of. Thanks for the texting tip - I continually fuck up with my words - I say too much to her, when it s…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/26 06:55 PM
1	Learning about detachment. During an earlier breakup (mid-30's), I went straight into meditation, breathwork, and yin yoga... it helped a lot. This one is different. I just can't find acceptance and I'm immobilized from grief. I literally quit my job, went on disability for anxiety and depression, and now I spend the majority of my days sedated and lying in bed, trying to forget about her and plan my next move. I think I'm going to have to move out of town to let this one go.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/26 06:49 PM