| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 24 | Classmate texted me randomly and suggests meeting at her place to study but then mentions she has a partner? What do? | Field Report | Alucard1331 | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 03:36 AM |
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| 5 | Any older guys (35+) look super young for their age?Same boat here, 30 but am often mistaken for like 21-22, I’m in law school so everyone thinks I’m their age. Looking young used to suck but not it’s finally starting to be a positive. Girls don’t care about age that much if you’re attractive to them so it’s a huge boon. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 09:38 AM |
| 3 | How do you text with girls on insta?If she ignores you and doesn’t respond you ignore her back for a while. If she reaches out great, if she doesn’t you have to read the situation and maybe hit her up again. If she doesn’t respond again than it’s time to drop it forever unless she reaches out to you imo. Move onto to other fish. | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 04:47 PM |
| 5 | How do you lads get women through Instagram or Facebook.Complimenting their appearance as the first thing you say is generally a bad idea because it immediately makes them think you just want to sleep with them. Which is probably true. Instead, try to open with something else, introduce yourself, tell them you would like to get to know them or see if they want to go get a cup of coffee, then ask them their name and go from there. | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 04:34 PM |
| 22 | Not giving an inch or folowing up. I think that's my problem. Yes/no?Sounds like you don’t view women as people to be blunt. Women are people and have lives outside of you. Be a person man, don’t let people play games with you but at the same time don’t be a dick. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 09:48 AM |
| 9 | Girl I met a bar 1 month ago had told me she was talking to someone, now she came up to me by herself asking me many personal questions.A girl asking me how long I’ve been single for is a red flag to me. Don’t worry about how long I’m single before we were even dating lol | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 08:30 AM |
| -2 | My gf had a threesome in the past now I want to have one tooNo that’s fine for sure. What’s not fine is having this be such a big deal when you’re already in a relationship and wanting to get even or whatever. That’s dumb, just let it go and don’t give a fuck about this stupid shit. If you love this girl then this is seriously stupid to be thinking about, very immature. | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | My gf had a threesome in the past now I want to have one tooThis screams insecurity | /r/seduction | 24/09/24 02:36 AM |
| 71 | how do you organically transition from "friendly" to "sexual"?Imo teasing is the best way to increase the sexual tension from friendly to something more. It’s also good because it’s easy to tell if she is taking the bait so to speak. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 10:20 PM |
| 17 | 3 Worst Texting Mistakes Guys Make On Dating AppsGood post, have an upvote | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 08:54 AM |
| 6 | What she could have done on Telegram ?She’s your ex so why are you being weird about this type of shit? | /r/seduction | 18/09/24 09:26 PM |
| 4 | Do men get weirded out/overwhelmed by sudden affection?Damn I would love it if a girl took interest in what I’m doing and I didn’t feel like I’m the one who has to carry the relationship. Maybe I’ve just been in shit relationships.. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 06:43 PM |
| 22 | How do you find NSA relationships? Women I (M,32) meet ask about relationships during dates and I'm open that I'm looking for casual. But that doesn't end well. Dating app matches looking for casual never show up for a date. What works for you ? What should I do differently?Don’t mislead someone but also don’t tell people what they don’t want to hear in my opinion. You keep it ambiguous. You say things like, I’m not sure what I’m looking for but if I meet the right person I could see being in a long term relationship, or something to that effect. | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 06:28 PM |
| -7 | Has your views changed since learning gameThis is misogynistic. Why is it fine for men to sleep with a woman on the first date but not for a woman to sleep with a man on a first date? | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 09:58 AM |
| 25 | How are you navigating the insanely flaky nature of the dating scene right now?I think after Covid and with the way modern social media and the internet is people honestly have worse in person social skills which causes a lot of people to have social anxiety. I think this increased anxiety combined with women often having a ton of options, due to the way online dating works, it makes them much more likely to flake. Maybe I’m way off base but I think that’s a big part. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 01:11 AM |
| 3 | She's down for a hookup but dont have a place to meetHotel | /r/seduction | 11/07/24 02:18 PM |
| 8 | How to deal with a girl I dated briefly dumped over and is ignoring meSounds needy, not gonna attract a girl when you seem needy and you will the way you’ve put her up on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 09:28 PM |
| 5 | She gave you her number and then ghosted you? Here's whyHelpful comment with actual issues and methods to fix. | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend?It’s not as big of a deal as some guys make it but it is a disadvantage no question about it. | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 02:04 AM |
| 7 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend?The fact that I live at home with my parents to save money while attending law school. Being 5’8” doesn’t help. | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on posting old photos to IG?If a girl is only interested because she thinks an IG profile is popular I don't want to be with her. | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 08:33 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on posting old photos to IG?Fuck IG lol | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 07:45 PM |
| 7 | Why do women ghost after giving great vibes before hanging out?Place a high value on yourself and be able to move on. In order to do that you have to always be focusing on yourself via self improvement. The cliche saying is true, chase the money and women will chase you, chase women and you won’t get either usually. Money being a metaphor for generally improving your own life | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 10:12 AM |
| 5 | Overcoming Breakup and Starting AgainHit the gym and talk to girls | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 02:16 AM |
| 4 | Going for drinks after work w my female co worker.I never said it was his fault | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:31 AM |
| 9 | Going for drinks after work w my female co worker.Look I know women have their own agency and will do what they want but if someone tells you they’re in a relationship and you still actively try to make them cheat, that’s unethical imho. I’m not saying I’m an angel and if a hot girl with a boyfriend wanted it I wouldn’t try but I still would think it’s wrong. Just throwing that out there | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Hornymodcheck | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 03:30 PM |
| 49 | How to use use money to improve my attractiveness?Gym membership, eat well, tailored clothes, nice haircut, good skin care products, books and other materials to learn. I.e. products and services to improve yourself which make you more attractive. | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 03:03 AM |
| 11 | how to lay girls guide still works?Models by Mark Manson is what you should be reading, it is excellent. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 01:47 AM |
| 1 | What type of Girl do you actually want ?Intelligent and cute | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 11:12 PM |
| 15 | Socializing with locals in Japan as a foreignerIdk if this is gonna be allowed or deleted but the truth is that lots of Asian cultures are racist | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 10:19 AM |
| 14 | Tinder, Photofeeler and success for men over 40?Tinder and dating apps in general are designed to extract money from you and are pretty awful. That doesn’t mean they can’t be a good way to get some dates but just be aware that it is purposely designed to make you spend money, not to find you a partner or a date. By far the best way to pick up women is in person but in the modern world obviously that can be difficult. | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 07:47 PM |
| 2 | What is your guys' favorite cologne?YSL -Pour L’Homme | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Can you pecock with a hoodie and sweatpants if you style it right?Style is something you need to develop for yourself to fit your personality and style. People on here are not gonna able to give you specific style advice and tbh it wouldn’t be a good idea to take specific style advice from randoms on the internet. There are general good practices but even those depend on your lifestyle, circumstances, age, etc.. | /r/seduction | 17/02/24 02:44 PM |
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