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Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive? No, this is what dating would look like if women were brutally honest. Polite Woman: "Josh, thanks for taking me out to Applebee's last night, that was really sweet of you. I'm not really looking for a relationship right now, but if you want we can still be friends." Brutally Honest Woman: "Josh, thanks for taking me out to Applebee's last night as i'm broke and need a man to buy me free …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:52 PM
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Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive? If women were more blunt and "brutally honest" about their dislike, then men would probably be more likely to suffer from low self esteem after getting rejected by a woman. If some woman was like "I don't like you because you're ugly, fat, and dress like a hobo" to a guy, i'm sure his self-esteem would suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:39 AM
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What age should you prioritize marriage? Don't have to worry about it since i'm an ugly incel that will probably die alone, so don't have to worry about no marriage anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:18 AM
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I think a lot of people here use Instagram and media for their representation of the average human being. And then imagine then thinner of these people in bathing suits, I promise you most of them won't be super fit. The people who make a living off of being an instagram model, are the really attractive people. I'm talking top 5% in terms of physical attractiveness. The majority of us are not that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:14 PM
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Men are only forgiving of a woman's past if she's hot I mean you could argue that a lot of things will be forgiven or overlooked if someone is attractive. That's just life. My sister's an unemployed, non-college educated, alcoholic, with clear daddy issues. But because she was a young attractive blonde, that didn't stop her from finding a new boyfriend with the snap of a finger. Keeping one? That's a different story, but you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:36 PM
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If you want to know whether or not you're a girl's physical type, look at her past boyfriends. If there's a clear pattern and you don't fit that type, then I have some bad news. On the other hand, if all her boyfriends have been different shapes and sizes, maybe that suggests that she's fairly open minded when it comes to physical appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:05 PM
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What do you think would be some underrated dating advice? There are multiple different ways of dating and finding a girlfriend, and what works and doesn't work for you will mostly depend on your overall strengths, traits, and personality. The key is to find your strengths and play to them. For example, some men would really excel at bar or nightclub game. Being tall and masculine looking, extroverted, and being physically and socially dominating, would give these men an edge in that type of envi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 02:53 PM
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As a 5'2 tall man I already knew these stats were going to be depressing lmao. I feel like I have a better chance building a staircase to the moon than ever being in a relationship. Go for asian/hispanic women. If you know Spanish, look for women in South America. There's lots of countries in that region where the average woman is about 5 ft 2. You can do your research and pick any country you think is the best fit for you. If you only know English, then your best bet is The Philippines. Women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 07:34 PM
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I mean I found somebody. So if I can find someone, what's your excuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:47 PM
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Do you think men with autism are doomed in the current dating world? It really depends on how your autism impacts you. Autistic people come with various strengths, challenges, traits, personalities, and interests, that are unique to the individual, hence why it's called a spectrum. With that said, many autistic men do struggle with dating, and virginity rates are probably higher among the autistic community than the neurotypical community. This is too bad because I know that many autistic men ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:45 PM
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Well let's see. Pros: - I have a lot of hobbies and interests. I play the guitar and piano, i'm sporty and athletic, i'm big into fitness, I love working with video and audio design, and I am a fairly creative person as well. - I'm going to school for IT so I have a lot of potential to have a good paying job. - I'm fairly laid back and easy going; I don't get angry or upset easily, and i'm a fairly good listener. - Not addicted to drug or alcohol. - Have a good family support system as I knew up…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:01 AM
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When I was a kid, I thought I was going to grow to be 6 ft tall, have a couple girlfriends in high school, and then eventually get married by 25. I think a part of that was because my sister and all of my cousins dated as teens and high school movies always had the protagonist and their friends date in high school. Anyways, high school came and I was super short, underweight, and socially awkward, and I never dated at all. In fact, this lasted all throughout the first half of my twenties too. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:37 PM
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Thanks, I'm autistic and I'm gonna go the Philippines now lol You 100% should. Although I recommend signing up for FilipinoCupid and trying to meet a woman from there, and trust me YOU WILL MEET A WOMAN THERE. This isn't like American dating sites where you send out 100 messages and only 1 or 2 respond back. You'll send out 200 matches and at least 100 will respond back. You'll still be ghosted and left on read but you'll always have someone new pretty quick. Whichever ones you like, and you've …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:27 PM
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This is a good post. Every man I’ve ever known who was still a virgin at 30 was autistic. There’s definitely a connection. Either autistic or has autistic traits. A distant relative of mine, he was my grandpa's brother's son to be exact, didn't really start dating until his 40s. He was a bit "odd and different" and my mom suspects that he was probably somewhere on the autism spectrum, it's just that back in his day, autism wasn't widely diagnosed unless you had it very severely. Anyways, the sto…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:25 AM
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Face and Status is way more important then Height. Height doesn't start to matter until you get to the extreme end on both sides. A 5 ft 7 man might experience some discrimination for his height in dating, but it's relatively minor and easy to overcome. Height doesn't really start becoming a disadvantage until once you become shorter than the average woman in your country. If the average woman is 5 ft 4 in your country, than men 5 ft 3 or shorter, might be at a fairly large disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:09 AM
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While looks are definitely a factor, it's not the deciding factor. After all, plenty of unattractive individuals manage to date and find someone in their twenties. Perhaps one reason why some ugly people may struggle with dating is that they're looking in the wrong places or are going after the wrong kind of women. I'll give you an example. If a 30 year old overweight neckbeard guy who liked playing video games all day, exclusively chased 22 year old super hot girls from the club, he'd probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:42 PM
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Which group of women do short men have the best luck with? International women from countries which traditionally have shorter men and women. Countries in South America and South East Asia are all good examples. A 5 ft 4 man in Mexico or The Philippines is going to have a much easier time than a 5 ft 4 man in America. The irony is that short American born women have a tendency to be quite picky when it comes to height. For example, most of the under 5 ft 3 girls from a big group I went to, were …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:47 PM
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That physical attraction is a far smaller part of attraction for women than men here assume I'm not sure about that, maybe for some women, but I think there's a lot of women (even if they don't admit to it) who are just as shallow and looks-oriented as men are. My sister is a good example. She is a very blunt and honest person. She's currently single and looking and when my mom suggested that she give a guy we know a try, her response was "ewwwww he's not that attractive". Also admitted to not f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:10 PM
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A lot of average/below average women have terrible personalities I guess that depends on what your definition of a bad personality is. For me, I would say a "bad personality" is someone who is mean-spirited, always grumpy, likes to talk bad about other people frequently, very lazy, a racist, always negative, quick to lose their temper, has high levels of narcacissm, etc... In my opinion, there is no correlation between physical appearance and level of personality. I've met some attractive people…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 09:37 PM
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NOTHING works for men below average Definitely not true, otherwise ugly people wouldn't ever be getting into relationships. My roommate is (no offense) not the most attractive man in the world, yet out of 4 guys living in an apartment, he's the only one with a steady girlfriend. And he's definitely not rich or super charming by any means either. I truly believe that anybody regardless of what they look like can find a partner. Sure being good looking is an advantage, but it's definitely not a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:43 AM
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Personality can (somewhat) change over time. I was very hyper and talkative as a kid, and then kind of mellowed out as an early teenager. Then between the ages of 17-20, I became a lot more talkative and kind of silly, then started to become a lot more quiet and socially anxious at 21+
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:21 PM
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Really cliche but honestly, learning social skills and putting yourself out there is 90% of it. There's plenty of average, even below average guys in relationships and I think a big reason why they are successful is because they simply put themselves out there and had decent enough social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:17 PM
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