AlwaysHeartbrokenG Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Was on a morning commute when this song comes up. Wow is this how low of a pickmeshea bar modern men expect us to stoop to?	PICKME CULTURE	AlwaysHeartbrokenG	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/21 12:47 AM

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2	My boyfriend asked for a 50-50 split on the trip For me, it depends on comfortability. If you don’t feel comfortable or feel off about something (whether about giving the virginity, or him not paying the tab, or somehow they’re related), then something doesn’t fit you. Be it your preference, your values, etc. I’d say to you, don’t do it. You’ll found out what about it that doesn’t fit you. And it won’t work out long term because you have to lower your values/comfort. I felt off when i was gonna lose virginity to this one guy, i did it anyway, …	/r/RedPillWomen	31/10/23 04:33 PM
5	What does your RPM do for you daily? Me too! For awhile i got so down for not meeting the right person yet; then i realised i only need to get 1 right! And perhaps, it’s not the time for me yet! But reading all the comments made me so incredibly happy!	/r/RedPillWomen	23/02/22 01:22 PM
4	Subtle signs a man isn't HVM Somehow every red flags in the post and comments are my ex. Haha 🥲 He likes anime/manga, which i found is not a red flag per se. But the video-games, he would play 5-6 hours daily, more in weekend. He’d finish a triple A title in a week or two. (That’s over 150 hours worth of game without platinum-ing it). He would make plan and cancel because something comes up with his family or the day comes and he got exhausted, didn’t have enough sleep etc. (We lived together). He also didn’t have a stable …	/r/RedPillWives	15/12/21 12:22 AM
-1	Subtle signs a man isn't HVM Tbh, i never spend more than 5 hours max a week on social media. I used to. Then i realised i could finished a lot of things in that 5 hours - including learning something new, bettering my resume, etc. I realised that my more than 5 hours per week is possibly could be why I was still stuck in a dead-end job.	/r/RedPillWives	15/12/21 12:03 AM
1	Looking for advice on an argument I had with my bf Have you read the books: “surrender single” and “empowered wife” by Laura Doyle? I think it will help your case, and it’s definitely RPW-friendly. Weirdly enough even though people found different female dating/relationship movements different from each other, i found them all based on the same thing: know what you want, communicate it in the honest ways and go for it. And they all agreed on one thing: that it mostly works on husbands, because they had loved you and chose you to spend the rest o…	/r/RedPillWives	20/11/21 08:36 AM
2	Dating tips for high quality women As a girl, I’m honestly asking whether you find spending time with 70+ women over 6 years tedious? I mean 70 women/6 years. Meaning you’ll averagely at least be going on dates with 10 women a year. About one new woman each month as some may lead to sex and some may not. And per number 4 and 10, you have to keep up with small details of their stories. I mean, is it enjoyable? Or are you just those extroverted person who do enjoy meeting new people? I’m wondering whether modern dating is enjoyable…	/r/seduction	23/06/21 03:06 PM
18	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In I need to drop in a rant here in the comment that’s super triggering for me. I have so many male friends who admitted/saying that they don’t believe in marriage or don’t see themselves getting married, but they’d be having one girlfriend for years and not being “clear” about their intentions. Recently an old friend from middle school admitted this to me and added “i know i’d been with my girlfriend since 2017, but honestly I don’t think i’ll marry her ever.” And I remember asking “have you told …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/21 01:00 PM
1	More young men are living at home, not participating in the workforce, and playing more video games. What a surprise! /s This is the story of my ex-fiancé. When i met him when were young (highschool/university), he seems to be a potential HVM. He had big dreams, he carried high GPA, he had done many big projects and i had no dreams (or rather I didn’t think i had rights to have dreams because of my background). He inspired me to grow and i grow, graduate and go on to live and work to support his dreams. Soon enough i’m making ends meet and saving up for this big business he had dreamt off, while he just “gave up” …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/21 04:42 AM
20	I'm out of words. I was skeptical about "They won't even like you yet they will stay with you for s#x", but this has over thousand upvotes and no one judged him for this. Honestly, i believe women are more perceptive and instinctive than what we had allowed ourselves to be. If something felt off, don’t push it aside. Theres too many people telling us “you are overthinking it.” Or “you’re too sensitive”. Just believe in yourself, Sit with the feeling, analyse, and don’t give the benefit of doubt more than twice i believe. If a HVM really likes you, you’ll know. You won’t question. You’ll feel comfortable, loved, cherished. If you are just his pretty bangmaid, you’…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/06/21 02:12 PM
20	Posted on FDS a few months ago during a breakup. We broke up. I bought my own house and took possession this week I love how the comments here are all concern about her safety first!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/21 04:41 PM
5	Daily reminder that he ain’t shit. I don’t know if ya’ll have watched “Bling Empire”, it’s so cringey but there’s one quote by this Russian-Japanese Anna for the pickmesheia of the group: “There ain’t no dick that good!” And this is my reminder everyday haha	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/21 01:00 PM
10	When it comes to snooping & men hiding things from their SO. The truth hurts! Let us normalize "snooping". Actually if a Queen is with a HVM, snooping doesn’t exist. Because the HVM will be open about everything. The password, the phone, any devices available. Don’t ever stay with a man who tried to hide their things from you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/05/21 01:10 PM
2	New to the redpill at 25, how can I get myself ready for being single again at 26. Help? Yes. I believe Surrendered Single will be a good book for you :) followed by Empowered Wife. She has been mentioned in this thread couple of times! But i do suggest you to work on your abandonment, rejection, (codependency? If u have) etc, as well :) this one is a little hard, as different people work on it differently. Took me 1 year stringing along my relationship thinking i’ll be ready to breakup, 2 years after the breakup to fully detach, and i still love him, so codependency is my biggest t…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/05/21 10:19 PM
4	New to the redpill at 25, how can I get myself ready for being single again at 26. Help? P.S. i also have issue with rejection, abandonment, etc from childhood and my parents volatile on-off marriage/divorce and my dad’s affairs. After the breakup i worked these issues through Laura Doyle’s intimacy skills, therapy, adult chair podcast. And if you do the works, i promise you it does get better. I was shocked at how “mature” i was when i voiced my desire of marriage, no begging, no fear of rejection i just surrender to my desire and believe that if he was the one for me he will want …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/05/21 03:13 PM
3	New to the redpill at 25, how can I get myself ready for being single again at 26. Help? Here’s a hard cold truth: i was in your place. I felt exactly like you. And relationship can only be build by two people who know what they want, want the same thing that other wants, and willing to grow and build together to meet those goals. Love isn’t enough. Was with my ex partner since i was 19. I love him to bits, still do. There are things i’ve done pretty wrong (after reading Surrender Single by Laura Doyle): I moved in quite quickly into his family home, did everything for him and his f…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/05/21 03:04 PM
6	HVM are always HVM, even if they’re your Ex This is 100%. Scrots can pretend to be HVM all they can, but they’d failed at it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/05/21 09:09 AM
4	I really like Laura Doyle's Empowered Wife book. Here are my favourite tips. What are yours? Empowered wife and surrendered wife are very much similar, but i like empowered wife better as the 6 Intimacy Skills are lay out properly and she does some revision in empowered wife to what she said in surrendered wife book.	/r/RedPillWomen	22/04/21 10:30 AM
14	But only if he can't go in dry Oh yeah. Haha Weirdly enough i always got UTI, and I never though it was from the spit! It suddenly makes sense now. And sadly enough I thought the spit thing was a common thing that every guys do. I feel so stupid now haha	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/04/21 10:44 PM
11	Need Perspective Do not let this get to you at all! You are not at fault. How he gets the number, be it a screenshot, a contact, a number, it doesn’t matter. He just asked for a phone number, in what form he receives it does not allow him to be a big whiney brat. In that aspect, knowing this is his drawbacks, do not let this get to you! You are not at fault. You don’t have to go at him or justify “this is not my fault yada yada” because he will not listen to you. Just let him throw all the big tantrums. When he …	/r/RedPillWives	27/03/21 12:46 AM
5	Paying For Dates? Best way usually is to see how he does it: reach for the bill or not at all on this second date. If he reaches for the bill, thank him and say you appreciate it very much and that maybe you can get the next time? For coffee or something? Sometimes i just made a laugh n said “nothing too expensive tho, I can’t afford something like that. Haha” Or something like that. Make it light and carefree. And i agree: don’t apologise for something you believe in. But since he got you the first date n u guys…	/r/RedPillWives	07/02/21 01:51 PM