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You don't need a man, just a man's weight in lime. Just melts that shit away.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:16 AM
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I guess I've been super lucky to avoid men like this. I've only ever come across one porn addict in my dating life as far as I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 11:41 PM
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It's weird that memory loss was included. Most of those things seem like pretty obvious red flags to me even using mind altering substances to the point of memory loss , but I probably wouldn't have made the connection with violence on my own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:50 PM
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Since graduating I've noticed that get weird when they find out I'm more educated than they are. I'm getting less interested in "dating down" education wise too unless they're especially nerdy when it comes to science. Tbh men have such delicate egos she'd be better off trying to find someone with similar education. Or just look for a much younger guy with good stamina/chemistry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 07:17 PM
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Wow men... Sending good wishes your way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:23 AM
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Thanks for this! It's gross but need to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:19 AM
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Autogynophilia vs dysphoria. A trans woman with dysphoria will go to great lengths to avoid being perceived as a man. They won't try to present as hypersexual teenage girls, they'll dress their age, and they won't try to trick you into sex or surprise you with their genitals. Autogynophiles will be hypersexual from the beginning. They'll ask inappropriate questions and mansplain constantly especially about feminism or women's issues. They're typically active in kink and will almost certainly ask…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 07:53 AM
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You may need to level up some but there's no such thing as a low value woman. Those slots are all filled up by men. Congrats on starting your new life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 05:42 AM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 04:31 AM
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Lol I don't do it often enough for it to count as a hobby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 04:27 AM
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This was almost me. My views have always been pretty GC, but I also support everyone's basic human rights, and I'm pretty empathetic. This led to me confronting my opinions on trans women to the extent that I even tried dating one. Long story short "she's" definitely a man. I know because we dated for six months and never had an orgasm. I had to end things b/c I had thyroid problems which made my periods super heavy and unpredictable to the point that I was having panic attacks over missed perio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 03:12 PM
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I like tinder because it pleases me to reject 60+ men per minute. It helped to counter the lifelong programming I got (on account of being a woman) that I should give every man a chance. It's good to practice rejection and learn f*ck boy behavior. Full disclosure I've never used it to get a date. So far everyone I've talked to through the app so far has just been really gross. I literally only use it to reject men 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 12:43 PM
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Idk I don't need to keep watching those MFs, they're someone else's problem now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 11:30 AM
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It's supposed to be billed to your state's victim relief fund.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 02:36 PM
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That's awful. I'm so sorry. It sounds like you got a rape kit. Just FYI they're supposed to be free. If the hospital tries to bill you for it that's illegal. I'm not 100% what you can do if they do charge you for it because that depends on what state you're in but they are supposed to be free in every state
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 10:33 PM
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Lol that's me. I'm a monster
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 02:17 AM
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I'm on tinder mostly because I really like rejecting 70+ men per minute and instantly being able to silence men who ask for sex. Why can't real life be like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 01:14 AM
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I used to care, try to engage and change minds, but I've had enough. The one or two reasonable men there are being piled on and downvoted. I got tired of dealing with shit like that to have the same three convos on a loop and never make progress. If more men were willing to step up and do the work maybe I'd still care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 09:47 PM
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Idk if it's a red flag or not considering how close it is to Japan but it's certainly going to be safer to filter these men out. Some number of Japanese SEA tourists are going to buy sex. TBH Japan is super sexist in the first place. You can probably expect a reasonably honest answer if you just asked them if they paid for sex because it's not super taboo for men in Japan yet. I'd only be willing to give SEA travelers the benefit of the doubt if removing them from my dating pool was severely int…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 09:34 PM
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Lol I don't think I've ever met a man who didn't need therapy 😂 It's funny even though it's so sad Edit:a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:58 PM
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Shit like that is why I only participate in female only subs. Like I don't have to debate my right to exist enough irl I have to do it all the time online too? I'm sick of subs like that one where 9/10 posts are men jerking each other off and blaming women for all their problems. It's sickening and exhausting and I love myself too much for that nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:11 PM
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I'm currently poly and agree with most of this. It works for me probably because all but one of my boyfriends are monogamous with me. The one that's not wants stuff I won't do (sex) 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 07:15 AM
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Establishing and enforcing boundaries will set off all the shitty people in your life. It's normal to have mixed feelings when you get rid of toxic people. They're toxic, but they're familiar and they were yours. At first it will be hard and lonely at times, but you're making room for people who will care about YOU and not just what you do for them. Just keep your head up and look for a strong female support system. Keep building yourself up! I'm so proud of you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 09:54 PM
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I get experimenting with long term partners, so no one gets bored but this is sickening. I've never seen so many red flags from a woman before. Blegh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 07:20 PM
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I tend to interpret that as code for, "I expect you to have no needs, demands or boundaries. Don't ask me for anything or be act like a real person." But you're probably right in a more nuanced way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 09:39 AM
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WooHoo! I got one too! Best. Decision. Ever. He's such a good boy Edit: I got my doggo more for physical therapy after a long illness but he's been great for treating everything! LITERALLY EVERYTHING Edit: Ok maybe not everything but I wanna give him credit because he's such a good boy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 09:05 AM
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Thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 04:17 AM
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Well it could be antidepressants but bad kissing/vibe killing is enough reason to end things imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 02:55 AM
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I just realized that it might look like my comment took a weird turn at the end there when talking about trans women. For context I used to date a trans woman and spend a lot of time hanging out with her trans friends. I'm still unpacking. Pretty much every conversation we had about sex positivity always veered into this weird conversation about how upset they were that lesbians wouldn't consider fucking them. You apparently can't be sex positive unless you have absolutely no boundaries or stand…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 11:55 PM
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So there are some good aspects of sex positivity: saying out loud that women can have orgasms, have the right to expect them during sex, and should learn to give themselves orgasms is pretty much it though. A lot of the stigma around female sexuality/pleasure has been removed just in my lifetime and that's been pretty good. The issue is (like with any feminist issue) men are experts at co-opting female empowerment for their own gain. The conversation changed from talking about how women deserve …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 11:21 PM
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All my houseplants die 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 10:28 PM
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The first time this happened to me I cried. I had just been convinced that my caution around men was unwarranted/unfair or sexist (lol) by a few friends and I decided to take a chance and go on casual dates. I was 19-ish and a guy I had a huge crush on messaged me. I just didn't notice until a few hours later. He asked me to go to a movie or something and I was typing back "yes I'd love to" or something when the second one came in calling me a slut and threatening me. My first impulse was to apo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 09:46 PM
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I used to get this. Luckily I have a short temper so a guy had to be really subtle or genuinely suffering to get me to expend a lot of energy on them. I still fall victim to that on occasion but it rarely lasts longer than a month. Maybe you should try practicing getting angry. Focus on the empathy and sensitivity that you are owed (and statistically aren't getting enough of). If they're not willing to put in energy for you why should you give it to them? Practice being defiant. Meditate on the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 09:00 AM
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I wish I had been more insistent on that first point: making men pay for dates. Every. Single. Time. When I agreed to split costs on dates I ended up mothering some fuckboy. It's insulting that a dude with less education, experience, and skill can make more money than me and still feel ok to ask me to pay for anything. Also on the BDSM topic. It's fine for some people in committed relationships but NOT in casual dating. It's a recipe for contempt, consent violations and straight up rape. I'm in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 08:51 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/privacytoolsIO/comments/azmpwf/a_way_to_watch_youtube_videos_without_giving_it/?utm_source=amp&utm_medium=&utm_content=comments_view_all Idk if reddit can really be trusted tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 08:22 AM
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I had to cut a toxic ex out of my life recently. It's such a relief! That bastard had been concern trolling me for weeks after the breakup even though I asked him repeatedly to leave me alone. This irl so blocking isn't a real option, and I have to see him occasionally due to work. I had to publicly insult him for him to finally get the message that I wasn't going to be his friend, and that I was 100% done with him. I hate having to escalate to that, me saying no should be enough, but Hera's Tit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 08:08 AM
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Just one of these should be enough to end things btw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 11:50 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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