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Hmm, I'll see. Btw I already suggested another dude a strategy that almost worked on me and I'm sure would work if my ex could last. It almost made me orgasm but he always stopped or finished at the wrong moment. Finger her ferociously, then fuck her in doggy, should work like a charm if you last.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:34 PM
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No I get it. I was mostly saying sex feels meh for women in general, men are not even at fault necessarily. He could be tried his hardest to make a woman cum and she still won't. Many stories like that. It's just how women are biologically built.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:28 PM
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I didn't go on a date for like almost a year. Last guy I rejected was yesterday. It was two guys actually. So yeah I'm true to my word and single. For now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:25 PM
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I mean yeah. Sex is supposed to feel good from the start, if we both have to work hard for it is it really worth it then. I'd rather fake and then jerk off alone later (what I did basically)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:23 PM
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WAIT. you made me remember. My ex could made me cum but he was too limdick for it, or would stop and cum when I was close. He was 6 years older than me so that's why. I was adviced to try a teenage 18-20 year old boy cus they have hard cocks for a long time. I'll consider it. So, anyway, you might wanna try this on your women if you have not already. Finger her with two fingers very fast for at least a minute. Then fuck her with you on top for a bit, THEN, fuck her in doggy. He did this to me ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:21 PM
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As a virgin at 20-21, my experiences were ____. Now I'm 22. I had a relationship since 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:18 PM
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Okay I believe you. Good for you. Hope you made enough women happy XD. Also I still masturbate. Since like ughhh 8. So I know what orgasm is like. It's sex that's not worth it for the sake of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:09 PM
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Hmmm, women deal with assault and all this bullshit and when we dare point this out, here come non emotional non hysterical men and non emotionally hate us. Yeah sounds like within the scope of what men are able to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:48 PM
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What I said is true, my friend and you need to calm down. It's not your fault you were born a man. You are not responsible for the actions of your fellow XYs as long as you didn't commit any of that yourself. Like I said, you are strong and you can get over my comment. Your inherent sexuality is deeply flawed and rooted in violence and evil and admitting it is just being a mature man. Nobody blames you for stuff you didn't commit. P. S. It's mostly other men who make fun of you being a virgin, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:45 PM
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Because men are not these almighty moral police guardians they try to appear to be. They are human, and flawed ones. Men tried to make women believe that 'be a good girl, and receive a cookie and good treatment, commitment and no rape', 'be a bad girl and it's your fault you got used for sex or got assaulted'. It does not work like that at all. Good loyal and virgin girls get used for sex all the time, and high n count women get men to commit to them and marry them all the time too. So rid your …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:41 PM
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Absolutely. Agreed 100% However my quote was about something different. Men want women to agree to poverty to begin with, to date them while they are broke. It's well within my rights to want a good life, and to reject broke life and broke people. It's different when your husband went broke, then that's just a near obligation to stay with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:35 PM
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I don't defend those wh0res. I'm just saying it's not sex drive. But it's a different kind of devil. And trust me girls who do it will suffer punishment sooner or later. They'll pay the price. Imagine being a 60 year old with everyone knowing what you did 30+ years ago. That's being trashed for your entire life. That's why they try to normalize it. They already fear the consequences. But this shit will never be normal and they will never be respected as regular people. But them let enjoy their m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:16 PM
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Ohh okay alright. Good on you for agreeing. That's rare for a man. clean chit to women Totally it's just that we were talking about male sex drive initially. But of course men do not bear the sole responsibility over some of my points, like abandoned children would definitely still exist if men's sex drive was critically low. My point is that world would overall be cleaner and better if male sex drive was as low or lower than women's. Imagine. I could finally go outside at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:13 PM
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If you really think that children are all grateful and appreciate what their moms do you live in a fantasy world. Most kids and teens and young adults only can tell 'mom f*ck off leave me alone'. No, being a mom is a very very ungrateful job. Also are you saying women should forgive his cheating huhh ?)) farther preference custody or at least highest earner preference custody. 100% agree. worthless crap they throw out in 3 weeks. Ding dong. Yeah. Men always think it's worthless crap. But if it m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:10 PM
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Idk... Deal with it? You are strong you can do it. Admitting terrible things about your nature is part of being mature. I'm sorry I hurt your feelings baby boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:04 PM
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Nah it's just cus our women have dirt low standards. As long as a man does not piss and shit himself, he is a good one. Women will fight for the chance to serve him! That's just women's mentality here. But our women do wake up, and men resist and respond with hatred and violence. They don't understand that instead of threatening us, they could just go and become at least a little bit hotter and better as humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 06:02 PM
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Men say all the time they built the whole world, build at least your ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:59 PM
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And yeah those women who created pedo content suck but they do it for money mostly. They are immoral too. They are still not harming anyone directly. What these women do is rarely sexual drive. It's business. Men who consume this content are the main problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:59 PM
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You really focus on porn and sex work some willingly took part in, and ignore the much worse stuff on the list? That's the thing, porn is mostly bad BECAUSE the victims (women) are often forced into it, if she consented, whatever, let her handle the consequences later on, but at least she consented. That's like very rare in those industries.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:57 PM
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Ehh men are strong and can handle it. I'm sure. You are stoic and the strong gender. Plus there is nothing appalling about admitting your nature sucks. Look at misanthropes. They said they loathe humans because humans tend to fall to jealousy, greed, pride, lust, envy and other not nice things. They admit it and well they didn't die. I'm sure men can handle admitting the not nice truth. After all, commenting 'hear me out' under a post of 7 year olds was more fun than reading my comment... I gues…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:55 PM
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I shamed male sexual drive. Not you specifically. If you felt offended realize that it's because you were raised to believe in male solidarity. But you don't have to support monsters. Admit and be glad u are not like them. Nobody here says that all men are the same. Calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:51 PM
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Lack of sex drive and testosterone. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:50 PM
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Maybe but prostitution and porn is still MALE GAZE and male sexual drive. It's not female sexual drive. So yes my point totally valid and relevant. You are uncomfortable with the truth. I don't know why it's so hard for men to admit that your gender has a lot of monsters. Its true that without male sex drive hardly any of the atrocities I listed (and the ones I didn't) would be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:49 PM
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Ehhh so how women participate in serial killers, maniacs, rape, pedophilia and sexual trafficking? Love how you remove responsibility like that. If you don't think you are one of them men to watch abusive porn/cp and contribute to any of these points, just say you are not like that that's it 🤷🏼‍♀️ why deny that your gender has lots of monsters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:47 PM
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Oh yeah but still it's good that divorce is easily obtained now. Really. It has some drawbacks like people rush into divorce and don't try to make it work, but overall, it saves people from being trapped and forced to stay, so I guess it evens out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:45 PM
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Another guy who didn't trash me for this opinion 😭 Thank you. I low-key (high-key) expected being judged and told I only want money yada yada. But no. It's just we don't wanna be used and taken advantage of just because we are nicer than their exes. We don't wanna you put less effort in us and relax like that. It's insulting.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:43 PM
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Unlike men, women's high sexual drive is hardly ever a threat. Well, they contribute to unwanted children, cheating and overpopulation, but not nearly as much as men who contribute to ATROCITIES.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:41 PM
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I typed it quickly. I thought about it long ago so had the points memorized.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:40 PM
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Stop making it awkward and stop shoving your sex drive everywhere. We get it, you are a horny gender, we are done with seeing it everywhere. All the 'hear me out' under posts depicting anything are tiring. We don't wanna hear if you are a boob man of an ass man anymore. Stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:40 PM
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Women only ever participate in porn and sex work cus they wanna take advantage of male sex drive. That's it. If not for male sex drive none of this would ever be a thing. There would not be a market for that to begin with. Also men sell women far more often than women sell themselves. Human trafficking dates back millions of years. Men sold women for sex and kept money for themselves. Including children. Very profitable business.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:37 PM
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Shows high standards do work actually. Men in my country will look like spaghettis and they won't change it cus they know they will still get hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:33 PM
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Because most worlds problems are a result of male sex drive. Not listing all of the issues but here we go: rape and serial killers whose main motivation was sexual, who brought suffering on millions of mostly female (but sometimes male like Jeffrey Dahmer) victims and took away their life pedophilia, childrens ruined life, and other paraphilias - zoo, necro, and other stuff. abandoned and unwanted children - men cause 100% of pregnancies, pregnancy will happen because of a male sexual drive, a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:29 PM
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How am I being an ass? By not sleeping with them on the first date? I mean those men were ecstatic about me, I was not ecstatic about them 😂. What's hard to understand baby boy :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:15 PM
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Sorry what does the last word mean. picked some asshole who couldn't even make you cum What if I tell you that's 90% of women and you are also an asshole who never made anyone cum :D My ex does not even know I faked every orgasm because I forgot to tell him that I faked. So sorry to disappoint you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:11 PM
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Ehhh, better than getting married, washing his socks, sucking his dick, birthing his kids, cooking his food, to have him decide he is bored with eating one dish, or wants this hot waitress, you leave him for cheating and apparently you don't even deserve half his stuff he earned while married to you. Then you are left with nothing, with kids, no job skills. Or alternative - you stay married, but he constantly withholds money and does not let you spend for anything you want or need. I'd much rath…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:09 PM
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Bad wording. I was dating as a virgin when I was 20-21, but I lost it two years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 05:04 PM
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Having sex over the phone first might be good. It might help throw a light over if he has some weird kinks she would be uncomfortable with (what he's into) and whether he is an attentive lover :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:58 PM
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Just wanna be single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:55 PM
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Sounds good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:34 PM
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I mean I did put up with it for few months, but I left him eventually. And he didn't care whether I didn't want sex, or sex hurt, or I didn't enjoy it, or if I was upset or angry about something as long as he got what he needed from me :) that's why all my complaints were basically 'stop nagging me', because I was supposed to shut up like I did before. It was also hard to leave him as he would not let go that easily and swore his love to me. Also funny when he told me upon breaking up that he's …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:12 PM
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What a sad, breeding life, no better than a cow lying there and breeding non stop. I'm always surprised how women from poor countries, I'm referencing Africa with their 7-9 average children per woman, can find strength and health to bear so many children.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:54 PM
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The reason - I don't like sex and don't think it's necessary. And also don't want to get pregnant. Good enough reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:49 PM
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Really? Have you talked to these women. They HATE the parents of their husbands. Being a kelinka is considered the worst fate ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:35 PM
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Well some westoids do seem to create problems out of nowhere. I'm afraid to say cus I will get banned but woman man not a woman man basically. You get the point. I disagree with the first part. They made them not strong, but scarred and traumatized. Only they refuse to admit it cus depression didn't exist in Soviet union and all that is just invented by lazy teens, ya know 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:34 PM
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These women are stupid for telling their men for casual sex they had. If you had a mistake ANALYZE IT and move past it. Don't EVER tell a dude about it. I know one stupid girl like that. I don't like woman hating terms but yeah she slept around a looooot. Like she even compared which ethnicities dicks were bigger. I'm afraid to guess her body count. She married to a good wealthy guy when she turned 29-30 who wanted kids with her, but since she is stupid ontop of being a sl1t, she told his mom al…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:26 PM
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On the second thought who would not wanna someone to subsidize their life without them having to have sex with that person. In a world where people dream of winning a lottery or finding money under their pillow, it's not an unreasonable desire :D Plenty of girls do get money without them dating those dudes so it's even more possible than winning a lottery 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:19 PM
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Oh yeah I know this phrase. Also I might have sounded too harsh in my text, I always do but I'm actually quite kind (or not). I love to cook for people but don't make me babysit anyone under 12 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:16 PM
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Nah that's just my response to 'go back to the kitchen'. I reply 'i wish dude!!! I wish someone paid all my bills so i didn't go to work'. I'm a gamer so you can imagine. But actually that's just a witty retort really. I'd rather work and pay my own bills! I'm just remarking on dudes hypocrisy there. They get angry when woman are traditional and don't work, and they get angry when she works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:13 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:04 PM
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Maybe. But dudes actually care a lot less about love and feelings than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:03 PM
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Well, maybe. I don't know that many single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:00 PM
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Ohhhhh the pushiness!!!! Oh hell nah. I'll admit I found Russian men sexy for some reason (I'm not Russian as you probably guessed), but after the war and all that they showed their true colors, and well, I don't like them anymore. The worst experience I had was in russia. Men there will not leave after the first no. Now I live in a non white country, that Russians call savages and rapists. But hey, I never felt as safe there as I do here in a non white country! Men actually almost always leave …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:58 PM
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HAHAHAHHA sorry that was funny. No, men are just simple. That's it. Women are complicated. You guys are better ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:54 PM
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Why? You are telling me men really care about feelings and all that rosey bullshit. Between love and sex, men would choose a woman who gives them sex. Between love and money, a lot of women chose and choose love.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:53 PM
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What it explains dear ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:52 PM
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HAHAHAHAHHAHA REALLY PLEASE TELL ME. any fun and scary stories. If you'd like of course 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:52 PM
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What a good girl you are. I would give you a cookie. Yes daddy 😘💕😘 sounds scary. You can't imagine 😏 terrible at it. Oh that's true. If I like him emotions get in the head, all that. And father's brothers were better cus they were not in love, rose glasses. Mothers and sisters are just as good tbh. Ever met a mother who was against her daughter dating that guy? And years later daughter was like YES MOMMY U WERE RIGHT. Ughhh, that's why. What is it in there? You guessed it. Would you be offended …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:50 PM
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Oh they are not, when in a relationship. It's actually very very common. It was not like brutal force either, I 'consented' to avoid argument, and felt like trash later while he slept happily. He is Russian btw :D
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:46 PM
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I felt attracted to him initially, wanted to bang often, he could not handle me. But he got comfortable. He got used to it. He stopped putting in effort and showed me his abusive side. He thought I won't leave him cus I adore him. So he felt comfortable saying sh1t like 'Jews deserved what happened to them in the 30s/40s' and '12 year old girls are hot'. Among other things. Also told me he will cheat on me if I won't have sex postpartum. Yeah 🙂. Naturally I lost attraction and started hating him…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:44 PM
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I'm sure you are very sexy in real life🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘I'd love you on me rn🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰YES DADDY 🥺😭🥱🥱🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:39 PM
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Yeah all this love bullsh1t is really only for women and very young men. Like teenage and 20-21 max. And for poor men :D That's why it's important to remind women to never believe in men's lies that ever involve love. It's a trap. Men never care about 'finding true love' or 'feel 20 again', or 'feelings 🥰🥰🥰🥰'. She got tits, she does not annoy you, she cooks and she is hot? Hell yeah. A woman well, can be more delicate than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:37 PM
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Maybe it's a good thing I'm not a man after all. I didn't have sex in a year and I'm immensely happy and grateful as a result. I literally felt my happiest after the break up with my long term bf, because I don't have to have sex anymore. It was a freeing feeling, like a weight off my shoulders and chore I don't have to do anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:34 PM
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Cus men get benefits even in a loveless marriage. Because men don't need feelings, love, romance and all that falling in love sh1t. As long as he thinks she got a nice a$$, they have good sex, she birthed him his own kids, cooks at least occasionally, cleans at least occasionally, and talks to him/listens to his problems, and does not fight with him or actively hate him, a man will do just fine in a loveless marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:31 PM
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Yeah that's why arranged marriages generally benefit men. Because they still get what they want from women. Men don't really need all that fluffy romance love, as long as a man gets sex, food, his own kids, and a cozy house, and some support/companionship, they don't really need anything else. Most men will live fine and they don't need to fall in love, feelings all that, good sex, food will do. Women need it more. In arranged marriages and marriages where women settle they are less happy than m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:27 PM
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In case. I said in case. A hypothetical situation. I didn't say I want it. Also, I said in my last comment that I lied and made uo this whole 'i won't have sex' scenario as a bait to have men disprove their favorite 'we are saints and love women for who they are and expect nothing while men are only loved for what they provide'.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:23 PM
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Alright, gotcha. Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:20 PM
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All I said is that I proved men don't in fact love us unconditionally. I didn't even say I wanna loved unconditionally. Who's making uo fake scenarios again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:18 PM
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Nothing really. Just asking if you are also a hypocrite who's against career women, and women who save up money away from their husbands while married just in case. A lot of dudes are also hypocrites who say we belong to the kitchen, that women should not work, and then say sh1t like that. I wonder if that's you or not. If you are not against career women or women who work, or childfree women. Then I have no problem with your statement like at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:17 PM
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Your reasoning is pretty anti stay at home moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:14 PM
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I'm sorry. I was talking about my experience as a virgin who actively went on dates. That was almost 2 years ago. I had a relationship and a fling since. So 2 sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:13 PM
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Make all men run My dear friend, how else do you suggest me vet out married men if not ask/check their status. Men lie. I need to find out if he's telling the truth by checking. How else do you want me to check if he's abusive if not to check his background or note some red flags. Don't forget men lie. They will say anything to get in my pants. I don't believe words cus I'm smart, I believe actions. And I dig up the past! You don't make sense to me. You are asking me to magically sense if he's t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:11 PM
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You are trolling, my friend. Have fun trolling. I'll go play some cs go, men troll better there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:08 PM
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Because these chicks will themselves admit that birth is terrible and motherhood is awful but babies are a miracle and oh they are pregnant with Brynlee #5 😚😘🥰🥰🥰 I don't need telling them anything they experienced it themselves they know XD. It's just they still want it regardless. because you think everyone thinks like you. Hmmm..... Can I say I believe something is terrible without also specifying that it's my opinion. Sir? When I say cola tastes amazing, I don't mean EVERYONE thinks cola tast…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 02:03 PM
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I lied. I created this whole discussion to have men prove that they don't in fact love women unconditionally. I'm just tired of men saying they are angels who love women for who they are, and women are evil harpies only love men for what they can do. Remember the quote 'only three things are loved unconditionally, women, dogs and children'. Plenty of men incl u proved that men love us 'unconditionally' on a condition we have sex. Checks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:58 PM
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Or have your partner wear a condom. It takes two to tango. I told you five times, condom or no sex. That's my approach. I'm not ruining my health over sex that probably he insisted on. You guys can't even stay consistent with your own arguments. "Motherhood is terrible, but we want more of it and with less support." Jesus Christ. I explained it to you like you are 5. I said there are women who will have kids regardless of how terrible it is, they will taste this 💩, and say yummy I want more of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:52 PM
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Hard to believe when even legit victims don't get believed. Especially if it's by hands of a boyfriend or a husband, in that case in court I will get laughed at and told that I should have given more sex to my partner. In what paradise do you live in where women actually get believed, and where spousal/relationship rape is treated the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:41 PM
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Oh surely they do, and that's unpleasant. But on the grand scale of things, generally, men react much worse to being rejected. Hence why feminists complain all the damn time about men not taking no for an answer. Honestly almost never met men who complained about the same thing. women never put themselves in situations where they get rejected. Even if they did they won't go and poison that dude's coffee. Or at least that's a lot, a lot less likely than the reverse. Women get harassed all the tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:36 PM
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Now look up how often women get killed after rejecting. No way you replied to my 'some men kill women for rejecting them' and said some BS like 'oh and some women will get angry for being rejected' like it's the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:32 PM
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Like there is a difference between staying with your husband after he lost everything, and refusing to date a man who does not even have that everything to begin with. 'for richer, for poorer' as the vow goes, but for these men it will only ever be 'for poorer' part. You will never get to the rich part.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:31 PM
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Oh yeah. But on the grand scale of things I'm just saying that men being told they are not entirely to a yes, has it's own roots and reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:28 PM
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Oh if you mean that annoying cockroach of a dude, who followed me around for 5 hours, where I kept rejecting him, and I simply dared to like another guy and approach that guy. Who acted like a sore loser and tried to get that guy to stop talking to me by lying I'm his gf. Also called me names, like wh0re. For simply rejecting him. I was very drunk so I got angry and beat him up. Do not regret it, would do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:17 PM
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Honestly I lied. I created this whole discussion to have men admit, that they don't, in fact, love us unconditionally. They took the bait tbh. I'm just tired of them acting like they are saints who love us for nothing in return while we are evil harpies only want them for what they can do for us. Men and even women, collectively proved that men love us unconditionally on a condition we give them sex. Checkmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:13 PM
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Obviously not. It's just that drunk and junkies does not equal regular women. My point is both regular men and drunk men act inadequate after rejection while for women it's usually when they are really really drunk. Saw it with my own eyes. That's why I made a distinction, I was not excusing, just separating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:11 PM
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That's actually crazy. I have no words. Sorry for those dudes. I only ever wish men reacted to me rejecting them the same way I handle approaching guys. I approached very few guys in my life, but I did so respectfully, even when drunk. If I even sense a whiff of him being uncomfy or not liking me enough I withdraw, even if I want to cry my soul out from pain. I even ask for consent before complimenting the guys I find cute. I really wish more people had the same energy. I had way too many inadeq…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:08 PM
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Women hardly approach guys in the first place for there to be enough bad cases cus of them being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 01:02 PM
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Not always even then, you are being generous :D some will become even more misogynistic after having a daughter because he wanted a son for example, or because he's scared she'd get an OF, or other crazy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:59 PM
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And how many men got killed after they rejected a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:58 PM
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Those are drunk women. I also acted crazy when drunk :D I nearly beat up a guy I kept rejecting after he called me a sl1t for pursuing another guy. I would not do it while sober, I'd just lol at him for being a sore loser. Also even they still didn't kill or throw acid or otherwise ruin these men's lives. Just acted like average crazy/drunk chicks, that's it. Not even comparable to what men do, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:56 PM
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Plenty of men pursue single moms for this very reason, to prey on her desperation and low self esteem, her desire to prove men 'she still got it' and her desire to secure a stable relationship. So they bang her and milk her out of her resources then dip as soon as she wants her energy met or wants a relationship. Same with any disadvantaged women, fat women, 40 year old women, ugly women, poor women, orphaned women. Some men will absolutely pursue them just to use them, while absolutely hating e…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:54 PM
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I mean I don't really want the traditional marriage kids and all that it entails. I doubt I even want marriage at all. I do, with a liberal non religious guy whose parents won't meddle in our relationship. Btw I don't mind sex, if its like few times a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:49 PM
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Hmm, case in point on how mothers are treated really. Reminds me to never have kids and stay childless 🙏🏻 Once, SM starts thinking that a man is on the hook, it's time to run. I think it's different. She does all of this, food, BJs, great sex, yeah mostly cus she is desperate. But then she sees two months in she gets nothing in return. Her energy is not being met. Naturally she complains. But I see that men want to milk her out of her resources and use her and then get out. I'm not sure how that…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:39 PM
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I never thought about the price for which I'd agree being eaten alive tbh. I think it's mostly because I was never really offered. But that's probably worth considering, just in case! just don't complain if men run from you. Isn't that kinda the point of vetting anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:35 PM
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I think it's because of nuances. In other words, men and women behave differently under similar circumstances. Men, when unable to find a gf, or when met with a rejection, or when being friend zoned, react very poorly. Hence why all these violent incel subs exist. In short men act very entitled and hateful. There are a lot of stories where women got killed, or acid thrown on the face after a rejection. That's extreme ofc, but you probably never see the reverse happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:33 PM
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You , and other people on here are saying, that since I don't want sex, I have to stay single forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:28 PM
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Met a good quote - 'For men, love is a woman's willingness to live in poverty'. Absolute truth. Remember the popular trend on TikTok/ig, 'as long as you love me, we can be homeless we can be broke' and girls reacted 'nah find someone else for that'. Read men's comments 'so you don't believe in love, love does not exist for women yada yada'. So absolutely, for men, true love is a woman's willingness to accept dirt poor conditions and never ask for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:27 PM
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Women are a gender who carry babies and subsequently are forced out of their jobs so it's pretty logical some will have less financial means than their husbands. It's why property is split after the divorce, so that a wife who cleaned your socks and s*cked your d1ck, carried your babies and cooked your food, was not thrown out with nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:24 PM
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Yeah forgot to mention it. Absolutely true. I faked orgasms just to get it over with 100%. But also to not ruin the vibe like I said and to make him happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:22 PM
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No woman will dump a good guy because sex is meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:21 PM
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I mean expecting a man to pay the bills is like uhmm, bare minimum. Especially if he ever wants me to have his kids. Now whether he buys me a car or a house that's yeah, I might not find someone who will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 12:19 PM
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No it should be money, because the things you mentioned I can do for him as well. Most women are forced to listen to a man's boring day at his work and his shitty clients. Man's basic desire is sex, a woman's basic desire - financial security. You can't expect me to have regular sex with you, that one monent, I don't even like that much, without at least paying for all our bills and getting me gifts. I work so I can manage the rest stuff I need.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:39 AM
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Aren't equivalent but it's what both genders generally (GENERALLY, key word, don't come at me that you are notlikethat) want from each other - men sex, women money. Men usually leave for a younger more beautiful woman, women usually leave for a wealthier man. It's been proven a man's basic need is sex, a woman's basic need is financial security. Men don't care about women's money and career, women don't care about whether he is able to make her cum. And so on. Oh and I do earn my own money, god …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:38 AM
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Gonna use men's go to phrase, but reversed - 'its cus you don't offer anything other than money', 'what do you bring to the table other than money'. In a world where men can leave their wives for a slimmer, more beautiful, younger and healthier woman, it's fair that a woman leaves a husband for a wealthier man. Also your article can be viewed from another perspective. These women were trapped in a marriage with no financial means to escape, as soon as they could afford to ditch the abuser/loser …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:34 AM
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I dated a guy without money, loved him without money, when he could not love me without sex and servitude. So now if they want sex, which of course they do, please arrange the dates, pay for the stuff, and get me gifts. Or of course you can dump me and go for a girl who enjoys sex, but she will probably have a much higher body count than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:30 AM
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I'm eastern european. Also you contradict yourself. You say it's my fault if I end up with an abuser, but also say it's toxic to make sure he is not an abuser. Make it make sense my friend. paranoidal You can inquire without being paranoid. eat her piece by piece. eat her out piece by piece, I agree. Otherwise yes, I'd prefer not being eaten alive for free :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:28 AM
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I meant to say in case I want a relationship, like really want, but no sex, and no cheating. They say it's impossible. They got mad at me actually. Even though I just said hypothetically. So this is only fair that just like most women I'll be forced to have sex and pretend I like it if I want to be in a relationship. My point was proven 🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:25 AM
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Well in that case it's fair to say men don't deserve to be loved without money💅🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:24 AM
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WTF Wake up to the real world. Single mothers are pursued by p3dos as well. It's a plot for Lolita that dates back last century. I have a sin of touching single moms, too, heh. Through all my 20s I'd been a kinda SM magnet, still is. Ehh that's what I'm talking about. Men never complain about stuff they don't care about. And since they complain about SM all the time it means they still deal with them and pursue them. For example they don't complain about 90 year old women because they don't date…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:17 AM
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Girl you need to read better. I said sex isn't worth it without orgasm, not a relationship. I want a relationship, without sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:10 AM
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So you are disproving the woman I replied to words where she said no one forces me to have sex. Yes I'm still forced to, like it or not, if I want to be in a relationship. sacrifice one of their basic needs all while selflessly fulfilling your need for love and companionship? What if I'm also giving him love and companionship? Is that not good enough? Can't I be loved without sex? I can love a man without money, why can't I be loved without sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:08 AM
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single moms/ Trash, that shouldn't be touched by any men out there. Unfortunately they are still touched because men want an easy desperate lay, or in darker scenarios, access to the 'milf' (the mother) and the 'loli' (her little daughter). That's often why single moms are being pursued still. They want an easy lay out of a poor desperate woman, a lot of dudes pursue them for this reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:06 AM
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It women's problem that they date married abusers, Yeah and that's exactly why we vet for his marital status, if you get his full name you can check online and see if he had any charges pressed against him, if he even did jail time, if he was or is married, stuff like that. To make SURE we are not seeing a married abuser. What I'm saying is all men get upset when I do these kind of searches upon meeting them. But if I don't then It women's fault that they date married abusers
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:04 AM
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I meant marital status, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:02 AM
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Also that woman said that nobody forces me to have sex, and you proved that actually I'm forced to, if I want to stay in a relationship where I don't want him to bag other women. Sigh, yeah. You can't love women without sex yet you expect us to love you without money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:01 AM
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So you are saying I don't deserve to be loved without sex? .. it's fair to expect not to cheat, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 11:00 AM
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To stay in a relationship with a man it's almost a necessity. You really think that you can walk up to 99% of non asexual men, you can just say, hey friend, I have decided no more sex from now on, and he will accept it and will continue to love you and date you and will never cheat on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:45 AM
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I don't boil anything down to sex, I was simply replying to a girl choosing to stay a virgin by saying that well, maybe she is making a good choice, because the alternative is not that good.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:43 AM
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The pill is not the only option, but they are problematic due to being hormonal. Other forms of BC are also hormonal. There are non hormonal ones, like the coper IUD but it causes hell side effects such as super heavy constant bleeding (heavy periods) and intense pain that can last, pardon, for one year! That's why many opt for the hormonal, but like I said they cause worse effects in the long run that are less noticeable while they are still young. But they will have to pay for it later. We don…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:38 AM
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Way way way too common.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:28 AM
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Which is why we fake. For their satisfaction, and so as not to ruin the vibe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:25 AM
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I am not sure friend I never gave birth or saw anyone give birth. Never even been to gynecologist. But way too many gynos and nurses are abusive to women. If you subscribe to some childfree subs you will see men confirming that nurses became less violent when men entered. You literally have 40+ forms of birth control. Aaaand they all cause side effects to women. Sex is not good enough (I never 0rgasmed) to endure weight gain, hormone fck up, acne, and more serious health risks as my mom had apop…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:22 AM
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I agree ;) sorry for misunderstanding your words, English is clearly not my native language. Oh trust me women are scared as well! The fear that if I stop giving him sex he will gradually call me less and less and will look for someone else is always there, worse when you know if you stop giving sex he will break up with you. Also don't worry just because a woman does these kind of searches about you or wants a financially stable man does not mean she wants to use you, quite the opposite ;) she …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:15 AM
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Thanks for agreeing with me I didn't expect it. but will be stingy/frugal with a woman who shows him all her love. You can see it when these people (men and women) tell you 'you are not like them, you are a nice guy/girl" it usually means you are convenient. It makes sense that you want to feel more or at least just as desirable to your partner as their exes were to them. Glad we agreed again ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:09 AM
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If you go from dating the assholes to dating the good providers, though... that's what we don't like. This sounds like you don't believe in redemption and believe that if someone makes a mistake once, they have to keep making it until they die and don't deserve to change their life for the better. Just because my ex was an abusive low effort asshole does not mean I can't go for a good guy now, my friend. Same with men. If your ex was crazy, you still deserve a good woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 10:05 AM
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To every girl I'd say, not just my family. sounds really niche I don't know friend. A lot of married men cheat it's not unreasonable to make sure they are single before going on a date. Nowadays don't even need the papers, just his full name and you can see online if he has any arrests, debts, ex wives and jail time. And they can't even give full name sometimes, they are offended you don't trust. But the same applies to every other standard/vetting strategy really. We are told we make poor choic…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:57 AM
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It does have to do with your comment, as how society treats mothers, whether married or single, is perceived by them everywhere, starting from them being pregnant in the public bus where no one gives up a seat, to a nurse violence during birth, to people telling her her pp body is awful, to, God forbid they divorce, men telling her she is useless for having a kid. So yes there is a relation. You said society treats mothers normally, I said they don't. And even in US some states now banned aborti…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:55 AM
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Idk men seem to be pretty mad when I demand paper proving their single marital status. I'm not even rejecting them yet, they just dislike that I 'dont trust' them since the beginning and use sweet words like 'relationships are built on trust blah blah, if there is no trust since the begining it won't work'. When there is an epidemic of cheating married men in Russia, who can be as young as 22! I date younger guys now, who are in their late teens, so I won't meet that problem anymore, but when I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:47 AM
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It's not worth it anyway, you won't even 0rgasm. Men don't care whether you do, even if they love you and are in a relationship with you. So basically sex is something that benefits men and that you give to men. Whether what you get in return is worth it is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:39 AM
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Women are the same I guess as I was upset at my ex who spent a lot of money on his ex gf, but being stingy with me because I showed myself as a good non gold digging girl who will love and fck him for love/for free. When his ex would demand money and gifts, and he conceded every time. I felt pretty trashy ngl. Won't be a nice girl ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:33 AM
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Even bear vs man debate is simply women being careful and not taking the risks. Because we know for sure whenever something bad happens to her, all the men run to blame and pinpoint where she was not careful enough. I really don't understand how men get upset at bear vs man generalization in a world where 'woman moment' 'women can't drive' 'false accusation' 'divorce steal 50% yada yada' exist. We all know men are the biggest generalizers. At least we are nice enough to say 'not all men' when I …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:30 AM
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They want a submissive girl with no career until they hear her say 'give me money for.../give me access to your credit card'. Then they want her to get a job/career.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:24 AM
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Yeah men want women to test for red flags, to choose 'correct men', to vet and stop dating abusers/married men etc. and they also want us to be careful so we didn't get 🍇. Like we always hear them trash single moms/women for their 'poor choices'. These same men get furious when we actually vet them to choose the correct man, when we ask for the proofs of their marital status, when we drop them at the first red flag, and when we are careful around them to avoid being graped (like when we cover ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:21 AM
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As a virgin, I have met many men who were ecstatic, but also wanted me to have sex with them within few days/weeks/months. And wanted me to have sex with them everyday, in every position, even a*al (ewww). Then they were hit with the reality that I'm a virgin at 21, because well, I don't 'put out'. I also never get offended whenever told 'go back to kitchen'. It's not an insult. I always excitedly say 'ohh so there is a man who will pay all of my bills, so that I didn't have to work! Amazing'. G…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:16 AM
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Is it the same for 40+ men and women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 08:22 AM
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Does it say anything about me if I only, as a girl, ever like hot girls and try to befriend them and ignore uglies. Some hot girls also like me. But I'm a huge loner, and despite me being attractive I get disrespected by men for some reason. Like they will ask for sex 20 minutes after the 'date' (which is not even a date just a walk in the park), and won't care about me at all. I guess it's cus I'm too naive and too kind and bubbly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:59 AM
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That's my older sister. She only has to ask, and random men she barely knows will get into debt to give her the money, and they won't even dare to ask her for a relationship or anything out of respect. She dated a super rich guy in my country - for reference he had like 83-87 cars in his possession, has a large company in his name, and also filmed in a couple of horror movies. He wanted to marry her but she refused. Anyway he immensely helped her financially, paid for the VIP apartment he himsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:54 AM
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Might be. I'm russian. If you know anything about russian culture it's that a loot of them (more than you'd like) worship Stalin (who was not better than Hitler, or arguably was worse than him, at least Hitler tried for his nation, and Stalin did these atrocities not only to others but primarily to his own people), want Stalin back, want Soviet union back. Basically the time with no rights, strict censorship. So for me it's cringe when I hear 'earlier the better' automatically shows it's a stupi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 07:14 AM
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Nurse violence is a thing. Most women who would love to have 2+ babies, after seeing how terribly they are treated while giving birth to the first kid, vow to never get pregnant again. Women treated worse than cattle in birth clinics. Don't forget the notorious husband stitch that's done without the consent of the woman. Think of all the other things they do to them. No wonder women who would otherwise be willing to have multiple kids have PTSD and never come back. Yes society stops women from h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:20 AM
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Damn woman you are literally hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:15 AM
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Plus the planet is not alive anyway, who cares about whether we destroy it or not. Personally I don't. It's actually good if humans trash the planet or nuke it enough to rid it of all life. Wildlife is cruel and it's rooted in violence, murder, fear of death to work. Predators can't help it since they are scripted to hunt and kill, sometimes kill brutally and bring a lot of pain. Read about other terrible things happening in wildlife, such as dolphins using babies for self gratification. Is THIS…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 04:13 AM
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There will always be women who want children, there are plenty of those who want multiple children, and thee are also women who didn't have a choice and still had kids. Men would never let women completely stop having babies, even if miraculously all women decided to stop having kids (which they wont), abortion and contraceptive bans, forced insemination, lack of women's rights, you name it. Nobody will ever let the birth rates to fall that low.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:49 AM
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Yeah these people are one of those who seem to think that 'earlier was better' and that 30+ years ago were perfect and everyone respected each other, there were no crimes and life was easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:43 AM
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Hell nah, I'd be damned if I was forced to watch after my young cousins and niblings. They had the kid, they watch after that sh1t. Just because they had the baby does not mean I'm obliged to look after them. It's already hard for me to pretend I don't loathe playing with my little nieces whenever they come over, which thankfully, is rare. I'm 22 I don't wanna be forced into that thing. Also, living in a large multigenerational house is even worse.. imagine MILs, aunts and grandmas constantly cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:41 AM
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Its Even worse. Various aunts and grandmothers and MILs will constantly criticize mothers that they are doing this wrong that wrong, that they need to breastfeed, that they should not walk around the house like this there are men in the house, that they should cook this, that yada yada, imagine having to cook for a large family and to adapt to everyone's tastes, cus some asshole does not like cheese, another one hates onions and mushrooms. Also, I'd be damned if I was forced, as an early twentie…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:36 AM
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Why isn't every man of fighting age on the frontline to being with. Not even all Ukrainian and Russian men are on frontlines. Ever heard of the word civilian? I play over discord with hundreds of dudes from Ukraine (20-34 aged), and they lead normal lives, order pizza, go to work, laugh and play dead by daylight with me. So why are not THEY on the frontlines? Why are people like you only upset about Ukrainian women being happy and surviving, and not about millions of Ukrainian men who literally …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 03:20 AM
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