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AdviceAmateurWarlord/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 03:33 AM
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I would be very hesitant to have biological kids for fear of passing on my looks and autism. Surrogacy is very expensive: about $170k per attempt where I live. I would still have to meet with the surrogate and convince her to carry my child. Considering the fact that I can't even get a woman to look me in the eye, that seems unlikely. Solo adoption is technically an option, but the agencies I spoke to made it clear that a single man is not the kind of parent they're looking for. I'd also be worr…
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 06:40 AM
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I approached hundreds of women, some of whom were obviously disabled and/or very poor. I tried many dating sites, and paid for several of their premium services. I suppose I could go to the nearest urban area and start hitting on street-corner beggars, but what kind of life is that for a child? "I'm going to work, son. Make sure your mom takes her heroin at noon."
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 06:27 AM
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It's cool that you can find some purpose through those activities. I only work and exercise out of habit at this point.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 06:06 AM
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As I said in the other comment thread, I wanted to adopt.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 05:51 AM
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I'm already undesired by 100% of women. What's the difference? The scariest thing about getting divorced would be the potential of losing my parental rights. Considering I'm not a parent anyway, I wouldn't be risking much. Sure, a divorce could cost me money. But, what good is money when you have nothing and no one to live for? I'm financially comfortable now, and I spend every waking moment of my miserable life fantasizing about what it would be like to read bedtime stories to my kids.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 05:33 AM
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I would if I could, but nobody wants me. No amount of money/simping can compensate for my autism and looks.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 05:20 AM
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A woman divorces her first husband because he's abusive. She divorces her second husband after he runs away with his secretary. She divorces her third husband after he becomes impotent. Frustrated, she puts a classified ad in the newspaper: "WANTED: A man who won't hit me or run away from me, but who can satisfy me in bed." A few weeks later, her doorbell rings. When she answers the door, she sees a man with no arms or legs sitting in a wheel chair. He says... "I think I meet your criteria. I ha…
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 04:57 AM
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"It feels like only sub5 men would ever think like this." What makes you say that? I work with a guy who I would definitely classify as a Chad: 6'4"-ish and freakishly handsome. He looks a bit like a younger Joe Manganiello. He got married to his college sweetheart and started having kids at like 21. He doesn't seem to think about anything but his family. Every conversation eventually circles back to "My boy Caleb is a fucking genius, man! He reads at an 8th grade level, bro."
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 04:32 AM
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Well, for a while I had myself convinced that it would be okay for me to adopt once I found a partner. That way I wouldn't pass on my issues; at least not genetically. You're definitely right, though. The only thing worse than feeling this way would be watching my children suffer the same fate. The guilt would be unbearable.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 04:03 AM
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If I doubted my ability to honor the vows, I wouldn't make them. The world doesn't need another lying asshole.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 01:51 AM
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When I was looking for a partner, I had the following standards: Biological woman 18 or older Single I approached women who were 30 years older than me, morbidly obese, visibly disabled, single mothers, etc. I got rejected by a literal grandmother in a wheelchair. My situation is not at all analogous to that of a woman who's lonely because she rejected her suitors for being "creepy" (read: short and/or ugly).
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 01:04 AM
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If the number of men and women is roughly equal, then the number of sexual partners for each sex must necessarily also be roughly equal (assuming we only count opposite-sex partners). Imagine a hypothetical population composed of 100 men and 100 women. Each woman has sex with one of the top 20 men. The average for both sexes would be 1 partner. Yet, there are 0 female virgins and 80 male virgins. In real life, both sexes average about 8 partners in their lifetime. However, the number of men who …
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 09:13 PM
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I never suggested that men don't engage in leisure travel. Plainly we do. OP asked why we only do so half as often as women. My speculative reasons included, but weren't limited to, women having more free time on average. I'd guess that differences in free time are probably the weakest factor of those that I put forward, because women also dominate purchases of cars, houses, etc.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 08:52 PM
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Most people I know work around 40 hours/week. The people I know who do work 60+ hours/week are all men. The adults I know who work less than 35 hours/week are all women (excluding students). If you imagine a chart showing intersecting bell curves for men and women: the median for men would be 41 hours/week, and the median for women would be 36.3 hours/week. The extreme left tail would be dominated by women, while the extreme right tail would be dominated by men. OP didn't link his sources, so I …
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 08:17 PM
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Federal law defines full-time work as 30+ hours per week. If Alice works four 8s while Bob works six 10s, they're both full-time employees. That doesn't mean they have the same number of days off. Three-day weekends (which Alice has every week) are often used for travel. Adults who work part-time often do so because they can afford it. If your family, partner, etc. are helping you with your bills, you can afford to work less and engage in more recreation.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 07:16 PM
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Colttaine defined feminism as "Any social movement serving the collective interests of women." Since hearing that, I have yet to see anything which contradicts it.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 06:30 PM
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"for black pillers, the only fix is therapy and social interaction." My therapist told me that love and intimacy are fundamental psychological needs, and that I probably won't be able to sustain any kind of happiness without them. She also said, "I think you need to be realistic and come to terms with the fact that your looks are probably going to prevent you from finding a partner." My experiences of social interaction are what led me to the black pill in the first place. I spent my entire yout…
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 05:40 PM
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Any sex isn’t better than waiting to have sex with someone you’re actually attracted to or you know is good at fucking. Many men will never have the opportunity to have sex with an attractive woman. Some men will never have the opportunity to have sex with any woman at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:28 PM
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I can't vote as I fit into multiple categories. However: Ugly Balding Autistic Old
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 05:06 PM
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I would compare them to people who deform themselves through plastic surgery. Both bodybuilding and cosmetic surgery can genuinely improve your appearance, but you have to be able to recognize the point of diminishing returns. Sometimes people reach that point and still aren't satisfied with their appearance, so they just keep going. They usually end up looking worse than they would have had they done nothing at all.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 04:59 PM
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Based and cerebralhypoxia-pilled.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 04:47 PM
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I guess I should consider myself lucky. I didn't experience any downgrade in treatment when I started shaving my head because I had always been ugly. It's not a let-down to me because I don't know what it's like to be treated like a human being.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 04:22 AM
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Yorgos Lanthimos could never write a post this comprehensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:12 AM
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Every conversation I've ever had with a red-piller has gone like this: Me: I can't find a partner. RP Guy: You black-pillers are just too lazy to improve! Me: How should I improve? RP Guy: Lift weights, make money, learn game. Me: I already did all of that. I still can't find a partner. RP Guy: Well, the red pill isn't for ugly guys. Me: So, what's wrong with ugly guys being black-pilled? RP Guy: Black-pillers are just too lazy to improve!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:16 AM
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A 50-year-old woman can download Tinder and get laid within 24 hours. When I worked in elder care, I routinely saw women in their 90s with multiple suitors. "The wall" is cope. Women's desirability obviously declines with age, but they are always more desirable than their male equivalent by an order of magnitude.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 02:37 AM
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When people say "Women are happier single than men are," they're speaking in generalities. My explanation is thus a generalization. Some women get little attention. Some men get tons of attention. Nevertheless, the average male experience of singledom is very different from the average female experience.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 01:43 AM
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To be fair, I'd rather get shot in Rio than starve in Nampo.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 01:38 AM
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Another thought: women typically score higher on tests of "openness," which is one of the big five psychological traits. People with higher openness tend to seek out novel, foreign experiences more often. Obviously, that could motivate travel.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 01:31 AM
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I can guess a few contributing factors: They control 85% of US consumer spending. They're less likely to have full-time jobs (which impede travel). Those who are employed full-time work about 5 hours less per week. They're less likely to be disabled or imprisoned. Anecdotally, they seem more likely to use social media for status-seeking purposes.
/r/AllPillDebate21/10/23 01:27 AM
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It's important to remember that you're sampling a biased population. Reddit users skew younger than the general population; at least in the US.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 11:21 PM
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You know as well as I do that 99% of the guys on AllPillDebate are ugly. This forum was specifically created as a refuge for black-pillers after their opinions were banned from PurplePillDebate. I understand that red-pill content is allowed here ("all pills" after all). I'm just asking why you would come to this place in particular, when you know that your advice is useless to almost everyone here.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 11:15 PM
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I put years of hard work into "self improvement." It was all bullshit. If you want to sell your delusions to gullible simps, you'll find plenty of marks elsewhere. Why come here?
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 10:41 PM
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Men and women mean completely different things when they say "single." "Single" to a man means a life of celibacy and isolation. "Single" to a woman means unlimited sex on tap and constant attention from simps/orbiters. It's a textbook equivocation fallacy.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 09:47 PM
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Has it occurred to you that different people have different life experiences? Or, perhaps that women respond differently to different men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 09:30 PM
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Yes, I tried online dating: Tinder, Hinge, eHarmony, Match, OkCupid, and PlentyofFish. I tried to match with every women within a 100 mile radius. By my estimates, I approached 40 black women and 90 Asians (mostly Indian). Keep in mind that my area was about 80% white, so I was going out of my way to interact with non-white women.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 08:59 PM
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I thought about it for a while and built a pretty good mental picture of the sorts of women I was approaching. I would say that my lifetime total is about 400 approaches, which break down to: 60% white 20% south Asian, middle-eastern, or north African 10% black 5% east Asian or Pacific islander 5% other (very few Hispanics in my area) I'd say the average facial attractiveness was about 3/10 (think Rachel Dratch). Most were overweight or obese. Average age was probably 30-35, while I was in my mi…
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 05:42 AM
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I was generally shooting for women I considered below-average. The most attractive woman I ever approached was a dead ringer for Mindy Kaling (whom I would rate as a 6/10). The ugliest was a morbidly obese, wheelchair-bound woman who was 30-ish years older than me (2/10).
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 04:51 AM
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To be fair, I don't have the sort of physique that stands out while fully clothed. Think UFC lightweight. My point was just that I'm not "fat," as OP insists must be the case.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 04:15 AM
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C'est la vie.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 03:41 AM
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I thought I was over this until just this morning. I was going to walk down two flights of stairs. I saw a woman enter the stairwell, and decided to wait 10-15 seconds before following her because I've heard women complain about feeling uneasy in such situations. Sad to admit. The hard part is realizing I'm doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 03:39 AM
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"You ever had girls who were clearly attracted to you..." Let me stop you there, bucko.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 03:26 AM
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I'm white, 178cm tall, and in pretty good shape. I tried flirting with plenty of women of every race/ethnicity. I actually find white women less attractive than most other races (on average). I am mildly autistic -- which you might consider a "mental illness" -- but the vast majority of these women rejected me before they could possibly have inferred anything about my personality. We're talking obvious non-verbal signs of disgust/hatred within 500 milliseconds of noticing me. I don't have any di…
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 03:19 AM
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u/CountMandrake didn't say that promiscuous women were "bad" or "less than." He said "I do not judge them nor think they are evil people or whatever..." Promiscuous women and unemployed men aren't bad people. They're just considered undesirable partners by a large portion of the opposite sex. My appearance and autism make me undesirable to most/all women. That doesn't make me a bad person, it just makes me single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 12:06 AM
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No woman has ever been willing to tolerate my looks long enough to learn anything about my personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:06 PM
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Hypocrisy is the practice of claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one's own behavior does not conform. CountMandrake made no moral claims. He merely stated his personal preferences. If a woman who wants to be a stay-at-home mom only dates men who work, is she being a hypocrite? Or, is she merely realizing that people are different and want different things?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:00 PM
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No woman has ever spoken to me for long enough to know what my personality is like. Physically: 5'10" White Slim/athletic build 3/10 face (after surgeries) When I was looking for a partner, I had no standards whatsoever. I was rejected by morbidly obese women, women in wheelchairs, women with obvious facial deformities, women 30 years older than me, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:55 PM
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My experience was that most red pill "self improvement" advice was useless or counterproductive. I spent tons of money on clothes, cosmetic dentistry, plastic surgery, skincare, and so on. None of it had any effect on my ability to date. At a certain point I had to accept that my appearance was a lost cause, and that my resources would be better spent on other things. I still eat a healthy diet and exercise regularly for health reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:34 PM
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Men and women are different. They've evolved to practice different sexual strategies. Why would you expect two completely different groups to be held to identical standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:32 PM
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I don't use social media outside of Reddit and YouTube. If I did, I can't imagine using it in this manner. For reference: I've never done this sort of thing in real life, either. Women either like you or they don't. I learned very young that I was in the latter category, so I didn't see the point in groveling for attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:26 PM
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I can only speak from my personal experience as an autistic person. If you're neurotypical, you'll probably have a much easier time of it. I found that I was able to marginally improve by learning general codes of behavior. For example: don't offer unsolicited advice, make eye contact for 3-4 seconds at a time, avoid certain topics, stand at least arm's length away, etc. I had no luck learning the "intuitive" social skills. I can't understand body language, facial expressions, or vocal inflectio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:11 PM
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I would argue that your standards are only too high/low if you're getting suboptimal results. There's a minimum threshold beyond which engaging in a relationship is "worth it" (i.e. is better than being alone). Your selection criteria are useful only insofar as they help determine who will be a net negative/positive influence. If your criteria are consistently eliminating people who would genuinely add to your life, they're too strict. If your criteria are consistently causing you to engage with…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 03:05 PM
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There are fewer social/financial incentives for women to settle down. Men are less ignorant about female behavior, and are warier of being used. The shift from in-person interaction toward the internet has increased the importance of looks. Promiscuity and polygyny have become more socially acceptable. I think these changes have had two major results: Fewer men are content to be "husband material," a "betabucks," etc. Fewer women are willing to settle for a man they consider unattractive, even i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 02:26 PM
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