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| 101 | I care about the woman orgasm more than mine. Here’s why. | Inner Game | Amazing-Intention-11 | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 07:54 PM |
| 49 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day. | Outer Game | Amazing-Intention-11 | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:24 AM |
| 4 | Never compliment a girl on her looks in the first few encounters. | Inner Game | Amazing-Intention-11 | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 03:39 AM |
| 3 | The best time to approach is the day after you bang a dime. Nothing will phase you. | Field Report | Amazing-Intention-11 | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 01:09 AM |
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| 1 | I care about the woman orgasm more than mine. Here’s why.calculated roi hahaa fuck yeah | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I care about the woman orgasm more than mine. Here’s why.This post isn’t based around that idea. and every girl I ask about it says there’s that dudes can’t make them cum & flat out have terrible sexual encounters. | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 02:50 PM |
| 4 | I care about the woman orgasm more than mine. Here’s why.No I don’t practice that religiously. But I don’t jerk off much so I guess? And when I have sex I usually cum but sometimes I don’t and can go for hours without going. If you hold it back during sex and let it pass it’s hard to catch that feeling again for some reason. Those are the times I don’t go and can fuck for hours. | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 05:13 AM |
| 3 | I care about the woman orgasm more than mine. Here’s why.can you elaborate on what SR is? | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 04:34 AM |
| 7 | I care about the woman orgasm more than mine. Here’s why.Yep. That’s what i’m going for, well said. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 10:34 PM |
| 3 | I care about the woman orgasm more than mine. Here’s why.Hell yeah man. Be the outlier 💪🏼 | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | How traditional feminine seduction differs from its male counterpartAbsofuckinglutely. I’m always touching and building up the sexual tension to get her mind flowing of the idea of me sexually. The sensual leg touch behind the knee is a great spot to hit while dancing. And my all time favorite, collarbone side neck area to a slight grab behind the ear and head. THAT SHIT STARTS A TSUNAMI! | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 08:49 PM |
| 17 | I care about the woman orgasm more than mine. Here’s why.I have done a lot of research. I mean like… a fuck ton of research on women’s orgasms.Specifically anatomy, thought processes & ultimate gratification. You want to have a very clean space ‘if possible’ to fuck in. My room is always clean, comfortable sheets,and smells good with a sweet candle going. I’ll have a very chill background movie going on low volume. And put on some lofi music that over plays it slightly. Its easy foreplay, I ask her music preference ‘which doesn’t matter’ because regar… | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 08:28 PM |
| 2 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.I like where your going with this buddhist. specifically for the bar setting, that you don’t want to chase the woman with no established interest. the indicators are definitely important thus, you giving you a higher success rate. In my experience, girls who are a 10 guards are so high they’re almost not even personable on a surface level. Like they’re just plain out boring and are actually the ones who may treat the encounter as a ‘ okay what do you got’. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Where to meet young women other than the bar/clubNothing wrong with that i think it is a good spot as well. i’m merely saying don’t make it your goal when you leave the house. If you get coffee on your own time and see a woman you think is attractive, shoot your shot by all means. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 04:03 PM |
| 1 | I gained a lot of confidence but I’m still scare of showing interestI have had bad days where the confidence is low and the insecurities are high. In these moments I take a very macro approach to life itself. It goes like this… Life is short You have nothing to lose, only stand to gain Fuck what people think We’re all human, communication is deep rooted. People aren’t thinking the negative things that you think they are thinking about you. And my personal favorite- Your not getting any younger. Get moving. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!I can get behind that as I value listening in every conversation man or woman. I’ll even bring up a small detail someone mentioned earlier to show that I value their ideas, opinions, etc. However, for this specific encounter I’m rolling with the ‘walk away’ approach that establishes values. So we can say it’s just a different method, and I can attest that I have had some successes with it. It really depends on the woman at the end of the day. Some will take the challenge because it’s more of a t… | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 02:01 AM |
| 1 | So many hot girls in the gym but nobody is approaching?I like the insight here greyman. That’s definitely going to invoke me to read the room better to get more quality approaches. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!Okay so fair point, you don’t want to attack someone’s character ( especially a stranger) Though, the friendly tone of voice in person is what’s going to make this encounter not confrontational, but more of a slight challenge. I’ll give you an example: You know how you can say something to your friends like ‘ah fuck off’ but it’s friendly? But that same ‘ah fuck off’ can be very confrontational with a different tone. That’s how I approach these interactions. “It’s not about what you say, but how… | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!I had no malicious intent here stormy. Just was one of those situations where examples imitate reality without trying. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!Well this post is directed around the subject of not doing the basic ‘man seeking her approval’. Just by your reaction to this I can see that the method of asking you questions like that clearly weeds out what a dude isn’t looking for. Like OP said we walk away here. I’m not going to give you my all if you can’t even tell me one thing your interested in or seeking. People generally love speaking about themselves and it’s a fairly common rapport building technique. That’s the vibe that makes wome… | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach in EuropeDude I’m literally so excited for you! I went to London and slept with two women in 7 days there. Granted this is the most westernized part of Europe so I’d assume it’s even easier in other European countries. My buddy who lived in Hungary for the majority of his life, says in Europe they say ‘ a fuck is just a fuck’ it’s nowhere near as monogamous as we make it in the states. Plus, you can have a lot of success just for being an American because your foreign. Just play it cool, ask questions ab… | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | So many hot girls in the gym but nobody is approaching?in what world do girls initiate first contact tho? I’m talking about really attractive girls… they have so many options there’s literally zero incentive for them to approach. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!and from there I would say ‘oh yeah that’s it?! You don’t have any goals or anything? This usually hits people’s pride… and they’ll proceed to tell me more about them to show their somewhat interesting . If not… than I’d walk away because clearly their too closed off and not what I’m looking for. Just makes the search easier :) thanks! | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!elaborate | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 09:23 PM |
| 1 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.Fair point. I thought that until I started to come home to the same girl for 2 years. The sex got old. I’m only 23 btw. So I can afford it for now. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 08:24 PM |
| 13 | Where to meet young women other than the bar/clubI would recommend to not actively go to grocery stores, coffee shops , or public places in search for women. Your day will be consumed by that thought in itself and more than likely waste your energies. I will say, to always take care of your appearance. Always look fashionable, and groomed so when your going about your everyday business you can approach a girl. I know you see them through passing doing everyday stuff, like shopping, bank runs, etc. That said, value your everyday appearance so y… | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.I actually drove a girl home right after I smashed once… that post but clarity made me hate her- disrespectful af | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 05:30 PM |
| -1 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.I do have a point thank you. People just get all sensitive bro. All good, the subs here for people who can take positive from it anyway. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:52 PM |
| 4 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.There’s people in this sub that don’t have even the courage to approach girls, but desperately want sex. It’s simply words of encouragement man… don’t look too deep into it. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.Hahaaaa I hope everyone here visualized it 😂 | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:43 PM |
| 1 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.Hell yeah bro. I like the do something funny or remarkable approach you suggested. What do you have to lose !! | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:41 PM |
| -35 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.It’s a mindset bro, lighten up 😂 | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 05:51 AM |
| 3 | Should I message her?It could’ve been you got too emotional and romantic during pillow talk. That shit will ruin your future chances with the broad. I struggled with that after me and my ex broke up. I was stuck in that romantic sex wave and In hindsight felt like I was being too clingy with new tail. Freaking CRINGE boys. However, I learned from that and now I just dog the hell out these bitches and give them mixed signals. Shit drives them crazy… everyone wants something they can’t have. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Never compliment a girl on her looks in the first few encounters.Hell yeah bro. I try to not reveal my intentions early on. You hold all the power when you don’t. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 04:47 AM |
| 1 | So many hot girls in the gym but nobody is approaching?Okay so that’s definitely something I can get behind. I always thought ideally it would be great to see them in the walk up or walk out. But yo, it hasn’t happened. It has to be legit perfect timing for you to walk in or out at the same time. But yeah the more I read people saying ‘women don’t like to be approached in the gym’ just makes me think the opposite. I think it just depends on the girl so I might as well try. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 04:45 AM |
| 5 | Any of you guys ever hooked up with a girl you met at a concert, rave, or festival?I got a hand job from a milf in a club. She wanted to move it to the bathroom to fuck, which was sick. But she was adamant about having a condom. She was married with two kids… guess she didn’t want to risk another shit show. Anyways, grabbed her number after that and tried fucking her on a later date. I was in college in the dorms so the logistics sucked. She told me to get a hotel and we can do it there but like I said I was in college broke af. Couldn’t even afford that shit. Definitely a bum… | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 04:33 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Everyone listen to lamb of death on this one^ being aloof towards girls in public is gonna get you ZERO ass. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 04:23 AM |
| 2 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.I’m just putting things into perspective that you shouldn’t overthink it. Everyone wants to fuck. As far as initiating… practice bro. Talk to random girls to build your confidence. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 04:18 AM |
| -16 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.Okay I see where you coming from. But this post was just to put things into perspective of sex. Im here to encourage not to preach sex Ed. By the way I personally never wrap up. I live by the sword, so I’ll die by it. - respectfully | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 04:04 AM |
| 17 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!I usually start with ‘ so what do you want out of life’ this leads to so many avenues of personal questions related to the woman | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 03:34 AM |
| 1 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.that’s what I’m here for 🥄 | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 03:25 AM |
| 3 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.it just means like ‘ahh shittt let’s go’ it’s a hype up to gas your homies up. I usually say that if my mans tell me he slammed a 9 the night before. I’ll be like ‘ohhh talkkk to me niceeee’ | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 03:10 AM |
| 3 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.the one in jersey son right over the bridge | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 03:05 AM |
| 4 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.urban dictionary it. It’s some ny shit can’t really explain but you’ll catch the vibe | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 03:01 AM |
| 2 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.ah shit must’ve I left it at your girls crib | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:59 AM |
| 1 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.That’s the energy that I’m looking for in this sub let’s go!!! | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:56 AM |
| 8 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.Cmon I thought you were cultured spoony😒 | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:55 AM |
| 1 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.haha talk to me niceeeee!!! 🥄 | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:50 AM |
| 6 | At the end of the day everyone wants to get laid every single day.This has to be the girl with the hairbrush. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:46 AM |
| 22 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!Great post for the seduction community to see. I can sum it up to say- You ask girls questions that make them prove there worth to you. From here, they’ll actively try to sell themselves as a desirable being. If some of those traits are intriguing to you, than try to bring the encounter full circle. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 01:56 AM |
| 0 | So many hot girls in the gym but nobody is approaching?Jeez I feel like people at the gym need to lighten up. I’m ripped go 6x a week & still make convos with people. Nobody’s too cool to spend 30 seconds or so talking to someone there. Sheesh | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | So many hot girls in the gym but nobody is approaching?Rule #2. Never forget rule #1. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you get a woman to actually pursue and want you?A man of the people. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | So many hot girls in the gym but nobody is approaching?It’s such a shame though don’t you think? We already have the same hobby built in prior to the encounter. Men like girls who work out, and women love men who work out. But just so happens at the hub where this goes down, No1 does anything to further this relation… haha what a complex. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 06:19 PM |
| 1 | So many hot girls in the gym but nobody is approaching?Noted. Problem with bars is there only good for one night stands or flings. Nothing long term as far as I’m concerned. I feel like girls want a good ‘how I met him story’ opposed to just meeting all drunk out and about. All my encounters are basically there and don’t have much future value. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 05:48 PM |
| 0 | So many hot girls in the gym but nobody is approaching?Well that was good to hear a women’s insight. That makes sense. I’m kind of a what do I have to lose type of person and I typically don’t make situations awkward. I personally don’t see an issue with maybe just friending a girl at the gym as a seed plant and after like a few weeks of regular encounters maybe can go from there. What do you think about that? | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 05:31 PM |
| 1 | So many hot girls in the gym but nobody is approaching?Well then it’s important to establish I’m a 23 year old guy. Looking at girls similar to my age. These girls aren’t married, and more likely single than dating in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | So many hot girls in the gym but nobody is approaching?Yeah & that she met him at the gym at some point haha. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 04:29 PM |
| 1 | So many hot girls in the gym but nobody is approaching?That’s a bold assumption don’t you think? | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 04:25 PM |
| 0 | So many hot girls in the gym but nobody is approaching?Okay I understand the don’t force it aspect. But why are we now days saying things like that are harassment. How the heck do people meet? Seriously. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | So many hot girls in the gym but nobody is approaching?Fair enough mate. I might just do that | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | So many hot girls in the gym but nobody is approaching?I never even thought about saying ‘what are you working out’ thats simple. Just a little generic for me. Because I can clearly see they’re working out legs, back, etc. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 02:50 PM |
| 0 | So many hot girls in the gym but nobody is approaching?Well that definitely makes me feel better for not approaching. However, these girls are smokes man and I catch the vibe they might be looking for me to approach, but who knows. Me and my friends talk about this here and there, and chalk it up to- ‘pick up in the gym is elite status pickup’ so many barriers… | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Never compliment a girl on her looks in the first few encounters.Haha yep if she’s not attracted ya fucked mate. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Never compliment a girl on her looks in the first few encounters.Personality, charisma, humor, charm are usually what gets it done. I can’t give you a Play by play it’s all situational based on the girl, setting and vibe. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Did I blow this interaction?The interaction was over once you downloaded tinder. Go outside and find some beautiful birds to talk to. Tinder is for girls to promote their instagrams to thirsty dudes for followers & get validation. Real life interactions are everything. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 07:00 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]The girl who told you to lower your standards prob wants to fuck. Maybe she wants you to stoop to that threshold lmao. Nah but seriously, don’t lower your standards ever. Just increase your sexual market value. Which is basically your worth. Look into that ! You’ll be slamming nines in no time. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 06:51 AM |
| 7 | How do you get a woman to actually pursue and want you?Telling people to be themselves is exactly what hinders them in getting laid. It’s too vague and just bad advice. However, I see where your coming from that it seems people take it too serious, the whole science and makes thing less natural. We have been reproducing years before this knowledge or theories became evident so I bet a lot of older fellas feel this way as well. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Got my first number from a random girlHell yeah brother minor victory for sure! You’ll be slamming a nine in no time. It’s good your focusing on fundamentals, and elevating the physical anti is definitely a better route in my opinion. Do your best! | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 05:00 AM |
| 3 | Got my first number from a random girlCheers to you for getting out there bro. As a single guy right now playing the field I would say you have to build more rapport in the first encounter before you ask for a number. Doesn’t sound like there was a whole lot of that. Girls are so agreeable they will almost always give out their number. A girl friend of mine gives her friends numbers out to guys she’s not interested in, just because they walk away after. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Never compliment a girl on her looks in the first few encounters.Ask an open ended question. I try to ask them to everyone just so they flow more naturally. It’s a great rapport building technique. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Never compliment a girl on her looks in the first few encounters.Hmm, Interesting how you mention intent. I can see your point, however I’m not one to reveal intent, I like to keep them guessing. If you build rapport and things start flowing there’s so many ways to close. At the end of the day your not here to tell her what she already knows. The close NEVER comes from telling a girl she’s good looking. Other areas get that done, and I’m sure you can relate to that. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 04:06 AM |
| 0 | Never compliment a girl on her looks in the first few encounters.We’ll surely your more interesting of a guy than that. You don’t have to state that you noticed her… clearly you did because your talking to her right now! It goes back to the same thing… don’t state what’s already known. People over think openers, make a general statement or compliment her on something non-physical. If she’s interested she’ll make an effort to communicate. If not, move on. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Slid into her DMs and got rejectedThis is a strange topic. I don’t dm slide because you have to be realistic. What’s the chances of you banging this girl from a dm? Girls want organic experiences. Think about if a girl you didn’t meet dm’d you? Personally, I’d think less of her off rip. However, I meet girls out and get there ig, see if there’s any mutual followers and get a little more info from that. Even these girls I don’t dm slide on! because it feels corny. I just hope I run into them later and than I can go from there. It… | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Slid into her DMs and got rejectedLMAO | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 03:03 AM |
| 4 | The best time to approach is the day after you bang a dime. Nothing will phase you.TRUE!! I originally wrote 8+ but I wanted to avoid numbers. Thought it might be perceived the wrong way. I haven’t even banged a true dime, they don’t exist lol. | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Best one night stand story from a bar/dance club?join a frat. case closed. | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 11:41 PM |
| 5 | Best one night stand story from a bar/dance club?College was the easiest lays of all time. You realize that once you graduate sadly hahaa | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approach worksHit it right on the head Hahaa | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Going out with extrovert friends indirectly kills my confidence with girlsWhen your out with dudes you go into pack mentality and your no longer trying to impress the girl. Your trying to impress your boys. That’s why I always walk away from my boys and venture to find a girl by myself. The benefits to this is that your target is clear, with no sense of being overzealous for ‘the boys’. My favorite part about this technique is that it makes you look extremely confident approaching a group of girls by yourself. It will only make your game stronger. Do your best bro! Yo… | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Another night of approaches and eventually found the oneCouldn’t agree more. I always make talk with people smoking outside the bar, it’s such an easy going convo. If there happens to be a pretty fox out there with you, it’s game on. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Confidence ChangingInterestingly enough I am experiencing the same thoughts recently. It’s not my first realization of this fluctuation though it happens time to time. Sounds like you are lacking in at least one area of your ‘self worth’. I say this because I’m currently unemployed and desperately job hunting, which in turn is affecting my confidence. It feels as if I have no leverage because most attractive women I know & am interested in all have great jobs- nurses, p.a’s, financial analysts, etc. That said, I r… | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Something done poorly is still something doneGreat post dude. Action is everything. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 04:24 AM |
| 5 | How do you prevent yourself from being nervous around extremely attractive people?Solid analogy hunter | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 11:51 PM |
| 2 | How to approachAbsolutely you can build confidence! Nobody is born confident… it’s developed through an accumulation of wins. The more successes you have in any given domain will make you more confident. As for your social skills maybe you should consider talking to a professional about that if it really hinders your ability to communicate. My good friend did just that and it helped him immensely! Also, there’s a ton of stuff on YouTube that can give you great insights. Isn’t the internet just great? | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 04:23 AM |
| 9 | How to approachWhat’s critical to understand is that your not getting any younger, and game is simply a numbers game. The more you approach…the more likely your going to get laid. The opener doesn’t really matter to be honest, you just have to play it cool and not creep her out. Don’t be too serious, you have to come off as a larger than life type of stranger. You know like the strangers you meet? And your so intrigued by them. Think about those conversations… what did those people make you feel? Try to apply … | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 04:09 AM |
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