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| 2 | There are plenty of fish in the sea, bro! If 99% of women find you unattractive, then 1% does bro! Its just a numbers game, bro!You’ve seen that pedo Chad experiment right? | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/23 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Why are indian men the least attractive?FBI website has some fascinating crime stats. Can’t back up commenters claim but there’s some interesting racial data there as far as violent crime | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/09/23 04:16 AM |
| 14 | How do you think dating will change and evolve within the next decade?Probably more like 20 years: Sex bots and AI girlfriends - men will resort to Designer GF’s that track all their data from biometrics to purchases. iGirl will be a thing. Simps don’t need to simp anymore cause a perfect gf they can likely design themselves will exist for a fraction of the emotional cost of OLD. Tyrone & Chad continue to Tyrone & Chad their way thru infinite lines of pussy available a swipe away. Brad’s (like, the nice guy Chad’s) get the leftovers of Tyrone & Chad & are happy wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what are the benefits of marriage you are willing to acknowledge?No one of import will think twice about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: what are the benefits of marriage you are willing to acknowledge?Why does her breath matter if he’s receiving a blowjob…? I don’t think I’ve once been woken up by morning head and wondered if the chick brushed her teeth yet. L | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: what are the benefits of marriage you are willing to acknowledge?Why can’t you go to a restaurant alone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/23 01:36 AM |
| 1 | The wall is not real they say, lemme introduce THE WALLThis isn’t meant to be offensive so I’ll preface it by saying I’m in my 30’s and I guess I could say I’m currently nearcel as well. I know personally what would make a difference for me in terms of dating, but it’s a bit complicated in terms of why I’m where I am that doesn’t make dating feasible so I won’t go into it. I’m basically a hermit at the moment. What would you personally be doing differently that is so time-consuming, costly, and energetically draining? As I’ve always felt - and exper… | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/23 05:48 PM |
| 1 | The wall is not real they say, lemme introduce THE WALLWhat’s nearcel? | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/23 06:56 AM |
| 6 | How will average men cope when even betabux no longer becomes an option?Makes sense. Chad is already a country too. | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/23 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Roald Dahl's Ugly Thoughts Passage: Opinions?What’s the metaphor? | /r/AllPillDebate | 06/09/23 06:45 AM |
| 0 | Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from?I agree with everything you’ve said. I think it’s wise to softly reject or merely befriend most women who are 23/24 and younger if you’re 30+. the rare attractive woman age 20-25 who hasn’t already eradicated her faith in love that the inexperienced of the same age are capable of & thus provide is still often at the whim of the tides, hormonally speaking. I won’t go into details but what ruined our relationship was thinking we could combat the fallout of her having an abortion and thereafter est… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 07:41 AM |
| -1 | Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other optionsDon’t listen to these people. Strippers & Escorts can be wonderful tools & aids if you treat them well & understand no feelings will be coming from her end. This doesn’t mean you can’t develop a healthy client - provider relationship. When I was in my prime sleeping with multiple women on rotation like clockwork I still took time for myself and was a regular client with escorts I grew comfortable with. You don’t need to fuck an escort to use her services. You’re paying for her time & any intimac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 06:05 AM |
| 0 | Escorts and strip club should be normalized for people who have no other optionsNot enough women? Does OnlyFans not count? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 05:59 AM |
| 1 | considering what constitutes an "average”How can you compare a man’s looks to a woman’s looks? You don’t say a red apple is mediocre red because scrambled eggs are brighter yellow. I’m not objectifying men & women in the same category because I don’t view fucking both men & women as comparable or equivocal actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 05:53 AM |
| 10 | Where do you think this new push to call men pedos for being attracted to 18-24 year olds is coming from?As someone who generally dated my age or older (ie when I was 28 I was in a rs with a 36 year old woman), when I fell hard for a woman that was a decade younger than me (I at 31 her at 21) I didn’t heed my own cautionary advice: she will inevitably change and I will likely remain largely the same. It was the best relationship I’d ever experienced, which says a lot. Women who’ve fucked around for a decade with 10-30+ men just aren’t capable of the same type of love a barely experienced young woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Being a "good person" or not has zero impact on your dating lifeThis is something I don’t understand how you all haven’t figured out by your late teens at least. Women do not care about morality unless it negatively effects them. This is why Tyrone slanging Xanax in high school’s a baby daddy to 3 kids by the time he gets shot in a deal gone awry. Why people like me, with zero discernible physical traits that signified masculinity, but who was a maladjusted oft drunk or high idiot could get laid but my friends who followed the rules were passed with hard no’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 03:17 AM |
| -2 | considering what constitutes an "average”No I agree, tho Michael cera like in high school movies back in the day was definitely the “average” to below average (mostly in terms of like bland, awkward, dorky personality). Hence why all his roles were just that. Lena Dunham is like a literal 1/10 Amy Schumer a 2 and the other one I don’t know so I’ll give her a 0. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 06:25 AM |
| 0 | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessWe can shit & piss where we’re supposed to shit & piss. And we’ll all take turns cleaning the shit & piss hole or be ejected from civilization. idiots who shit & piss where they shouldn’t can join the remainder of the dumbasses we’re burning likely in mass graves they’ll walk themselves to for want of whatever more we offer, only to prevent the ill-fit from reproducing, of course. We can even start now without killing anyone directly. We’ll call it eugenics. And we’ll practice with test runs lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 05:28 AM |
| 17 | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessI think your last sentence hits most truthfully to me. Humanity has proven it is vile & at least a pest to Nature, and any advanced civilization would see another Flood could free the earth of its abysmal overpopulation, and it would be doing us all a favor. In my opinion, we have, without a doubt, the technology, capacity, & resources to provide every living soul a decent life full of playful engagement with nature. Instead, we selfishly vie for power, money, and pleasure to the detriment of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 11:55 PM |
| 4 | What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating?Women aren’t capable of love in the same way men are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 08:41 AM |
| 1 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manI think it depends on how old you are & what the context is. If you’re my age (35) and called a fuckboy it generally means you look like you once got a lot of pussy and never outgrew that phase in which you got a ton of pussy. If you’re 25 on the other hand you can probably still pull a chick for every 3 that call you a fuckboy. And the reality is: who cares what anyone calls you. if they are name-calling you what they believe is a negative judgmental phrase then they aren’t worth the time of da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 03:27 AM |
| – | The single biggest mistake women make in online-dating is filtering by male heightThey aren’t saying short men are better. They are saying more men = more chances of a better man. Let’s take a sample size of 1,000 men for an average short & fat American woman (5’4” 160lb) to choose from; first, however, she gets to filter her options (like on Bimbole or Tindler or cHringe) Let’s say, for starters, all of the men are at least taller than 5’4”. Let’s also say - why not - that all of the men are above average physique - gym-goer fit. Let’s say a conservative 700 out of 1000 of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Self Improvement WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPICI’ve worked out for nearly a decade so that’s not been an issue. I know I’m in shape because it’s not unheard of for me to have strangers (men or women) comment on my physique. But that’s out in the real world. In the gym I probably just look like a slightly above average strength person - I swear humans in general are getting or have gotten larger than when I first started lifting. High school kids on steroids sorta thing. Trips me out to see people so young spending all their free time lifting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesIf they are “born again” that typically implies they weren’t Christian beforehand. So it can’t be premeditated sinning if they didn’t believe in sin or weren’t aware it was a sin. It’s a non-Christian woman finding Christ and saying “had I known Christ earlier I would’ve retained my virginity.” what you’re saying probably, most certainly occurs tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Born Again virgins and hoe phasesThe Hoe Phase makes sense as a self-protective cultural identity thing. Many men also go through phases where they are more ‘promiscuous’. It’s just not called anything because society (#women) prefer men who have had [the opportunity for a] ‘hoe phase’ (because then they can’t be shamed for being hoes, it’s a sign the man is desirable, etc…). It’s harder however for a man to have a ‘hoe phase’ than a woman if the man isn’t a Chadlet. The Born-Again Virgin thing is rare & dumb. No one really tak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/23 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceKinda depends on your goals and fitness level when starting. If you do something like 5x5 properly, in probably less than 2 months you will make tremendous gains & likely be at a standard, respectable strength level if you’re starting from a place of “average”…. Either way just go for it no one cares! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Women are outcompeting men in a number of areas, and it’s no mystery why men are falling behind in romanceYou’ll find most of the guys at the gym - especially the huge intimidating ones, are super nice or super gay - and in general most people are literally there for themselves and don’t pay attention to anyone else unless it’s for help spotting if asked. In a decade of gym going this has been my experience. I remember being super intimidated and embarrassed when I first started but then I realized people don’t notice you unless they notice you’ve made progress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 03:56 PM |
| 3 | How many of you would reject this guy because he is redpilled?Wow the people saying he is not attractive are fucking nuts He is literally in incomparable shape next to any of us. even though I have been lifting for a decade I am not at 6% body fat. His face is not ugly or droopy. You guys are fucking crazy he is like THE definition of the stereotypical beach Ken doll girls fawn over. I can picture him in San Diego, Pacific Beach, partying and banging USD sorority girls at the bar crawls no problem. The disparity exists because PPD is not a sample of real l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 03:33 PM |
| 1 | In most "predatory" relationships, the actual predator is the womanI personally believe if real it’s the ELohim plural or angels or Annunaki or whatever you wanna call it If fake then it’s probably to give off the notion America has superior technology to the Chinese or Russia which means war is on the horizon Or to pass weird legislation Either way it’s totally wild that we even have a “UAP” and “transmedium” vehicle legally defined now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:51 AM |
| 1 | In most "predatory" relationships, the actual predator is the womanDid you watch the hearing? I did. All 3 witnesses explained the impossibility of any known technology or even material sciences to enable what they and myriad others have witnessed. The whole thing smells of PSYOP but we’ll see. It’s either Blue Book or Blue Beam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:12 AM |
| 3 | In most "predatory" relationships, the actual predator is the womanYa, and I think OnlyFans, Stripping or being an Escort - or using that as a ruse to rip off men is predatory behavior. It just sounds to me like you haven’t been in situations like I have, where you see the game being played. Once you’re inside those brothel doors you are the target. You are the prey. You have the cash flow they extract from you. I walked away unscathed because I had no intention of spending money, and knew if I had money on me and got drinks by the time the drinks hit the liter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 02:09 AM |
| 2 | In most "predatory" relationships, the actual predator is the womanFor sure my point isn’t an argument for anything really. Just a commentary on my recent personal experience that offers insight into niche behavioral markets. Maybe the point being men can be victims of their own social inadequacy and woman can, do, and will take advantage of it, whether super directly like a brothel or more indirectly like friendzoning a rejected suitor and only contacting them when needed for a resource. Like when my ex gf and I were moving she literally said “ Watch this” as … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:55 AM |
| 2 | In most "predatory" relationships, the actual predator is the womanRight. But here’s the point you’re missing: I’m not talking about abuse victims. I’m talking about women who choose to work in that environment like Strippers or Escorts in the U.S. who, maybe to your surprise, are not all victims. I have two friends who are women who are or were (one left field for another) escorts by choice without any abuse. Yes, my friend certainly wanted the brothel activities, and I accompanied him so he wouldn’t make poor choices. I intentionally left all money but $40, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 01:27 AM |
| 4 | In most "predatory" relationships, the actual predator is the womanWhile I don’t really agree with OP or that predatory is the right language here, neither is victim, because we are talking about consenting adults doing consensual adult things, I look at it like what happens to men like my friend in Mexico at the brothel/strip-club. We go in and the difference between him & I by the time 30 minutes has passed is we both have women or multiple women flirting with us trying to get us to upgrade - where my friend has already paid $200 for drinks and whatever the g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women want sex as much as men do, but with the right person.Has anyone here been in a relationship? Or had adult female friends. I’ve had women throw literally bottles at me because I didn’t know they wanted me to fuck them 30 minutes prior. I’ve known women that masturbated every day. And had an array of sex toys. Women definitely are horny. But I’ve also known women who had never masturbated until I told them it was normal. And still were repulsed by porn. This, ofc, changed over time. A lot of women are taught their sexuality is different than men. An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Sex is extremely important to people and when they say it's not, they're lying.Interesting timing for me reading this post. I just got back from Mexico with a friend. We went there for one reason that can equate to “sex tourism” for my buddy whom I’ve known since childhood. We are about as opposite as they come. Even in the club, initially it was clear if I was there with him, he wasn’t gonna enjoy himself. The girls didn’t even care I didn’t have money. I can’t explain it, but…I can get in these zones. Typically through the excessive combination of a plethora of substance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 04:36 AM |
| 1 | The new phenomenon of “ROCD” appears to be exactly what men have been describing when it comes to the wishy washy nature of women packaged neatly into a convenient mental illness.girls just wanna ROC D after D as long as it’s not the perfect bitch boyfriend. My theory is these are women who want to be mothers, and for one reason or another (ie feminism promoting women abstain from childbirth to pursue careers) they end up dating a man they should’ve had a child with, but because they aren’t mothering or don’t have children to care for (drama) they crave the same excitement having an unpredictable child to care for provides (Chad’s ROC hard D). It’s actually why most wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV : I feel a lot of posters still envision the “average” couple as some weird “wall mart” 35 year old man and woman who walked out of a 90’s time capsule‘Cept it’s not: who I know have been to prison. Have barely survived to inherit. When I say inherit, it’s hardly a celebration. It’s just these men I know had family that looked after family rather than themselves alone. A decreasing trend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 07:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV : I feel a lot of posters still envision the “average” couple as some weird “wall mart” 35 year old man and woman who walked out of a 90’s time capsuleNah, the reality is one can be homeless or rich as fuck and afford to move their body mindfully. Most people don’t tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 06:45 AM |
| 2 | CMV : I feel a lot of posters still envision the “average” couple as some weird “wall mart” 35 year old man and woman who walked out of a 90’s time capsuleI can picture you very easily. As I’ve lived in some places like you describe. I can picture who you are, aesthetically at least, describing. Side note: The gyms in Colorado were like the Midwest equivalent to Miami Beach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 05:28 AM |
| 6 | The Red Pill exists because entire generations of men are lied to about what women find attractive in men, and dismissing it as some angry hate group is simply a way to sweep all of these lies under the rugSure? I’m pointing towards the notion that while men have adjusted to women becoming more masculine by nature - doubling the workforce (competition), adapted to women’s constantly evolving concept of equality and equal rights (what started as the right to vote - naturally, I suppose grew into “sex positivity” - which coupled with capitalism & the internet = the average American woman is the equivalent to their grandparents generations adult film stars; commodified female sexuality that was initi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 05:44 PM |
| 2 | CMV : I feel a lot of posters still envision the “average” couple as some weird “wall mart” 35 year old man and woman who walked out of a 90’s time capsuleI am from the US and have lived all over, and many places where what you’re describing is true to an extent like some coastal cities in California. Places like Denver, or Colorado Springs, in Colorado. But then you go to Utah and you wonder if people were ever not obese. And often these places with the most beautiful people, Miami (holy shit!), San Diego, Los Angeles, New York, Denver, Seattle, San Francisco…are rife with the worst poverty and homelessness and gangs and criminality in the nation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 03:56 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill exists because entire generations of men are lied to about what women find attractive in men, and dismissing it as some angry hate group is simply a way to sweep all of these lies under the rugWhat makes you a bad boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 05:17 AM |
| 21 | The Red Pill exists because entire generations of men are lied to about what women find attractive in men, and dismissing it as some angry hate group is simply a way to sweep all of these lies under the rugThis is the half truth. Red Pill stuff has always been true to an extent. See Casanova. But the field on which these games were played was WAY different for prior American generations. Our parents and their parents. Different world. Not that I haven’t seen or experienced enough to know what’s true, it’s really hard to accept. I’ve talked with men up to their 60’s who have, not knowing what Red Pill is, described RP observations that they’ve witnessed increasingly in women over the last couple de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/23 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Where do you people find „ugly” guys?No worries. Just a quick one since you’re thoughtful in reply. When you say “desperation to be loved,” do you mean you had that or that somehow was an attractive trait you learned the other men had? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Where do you people find „ugly” guys?I think I was more curious about personality, activities, lifestyle, how they present themselves, talk, etc..what sets the people apart. Since most people are bland, I presume some of these droll folk become more attractive once engaged with over time (presuming you’re not dating the Pitt’s of the world, no offense)? Or do you only date the “TOP G’” ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Where do you people find „ugly” guys?Do you think women are interesting? What does a bland person not do that a non-bland person does? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Lol no I’m not in pain, just wondering what you are trying to say Like “you should be proud to be a man because xyz” in relation to OP? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Most women basically see men as machines that provide for them and give them material things.Before I reply otherwise, I’d like to ask where you are leading with this statement? There is nothing wrong with commentary on observations on the effects of indoctrinated social constructs (or evolved) behaviors performed by men or women to one or the others detriment. One doesn’t need to hate oneself to see where they are disadvantaged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:12 PM |
| – | A lot of people miss the point between two extremes. Yes, getting sex/relationships won't solve your all your problems, but adults have adult needs that can't be met with friendship, and social needs that can't be met with self-worth alone. It's possible some people just need to feel attractive.Great post. I agree and I’ve commented about this frequently. I’m surprised I saw empathetic replies [un]fortunately, escorts - implying you have excess expendable income - are the closest thing to a solution, yet it will ostracize you from potential partners if found out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Men who envy women dont appreciate what they haveWhat’s so hard about peeing? Have you ever been camping? Or drunk? From what I’ve seen, women can piss all over the place just as well as men. And according to a trans man, women experience more human connection in a trip to the bathroom than men receive in a year. Also. taking a shit shouldn’t be any different for a man or woman. You have a butthole. Poop. Same. During these unprecedented times we have people that choose to change from their natural biological state as a man into an experimenta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men.Thanks for the answers Truly confounding you haven’t met someone that shares these values tbh Have you tried attending Mosque/Church? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men.Can I ask - do you bring up the fact you’re a virgin when you date? Or what about with male friends? Do men noticeably change after they know this? Do they typically become more or less interested? And do you have reason(s) for virginity beyond “not a single man you’ve met is worth having sex with because [you] value virginity”? What do you define as a man who you will offer the Holy V Graal to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Women insist that their “taste” or standards are instinctual and without any outside influence, and that they can’t be changed when the opposite has been proven when it comes to physical attraction. Their inflated standards are quite clearly the direct result of their abundance of options.Unfortunately today there are very few ways to satisfactorily obtain & retain a steady, equitable, reciprocal relationship with a morally upright & attractive woman: Meet & date & marry & probably impregnate following her desire to be the Mother of your children whilst you are consistently a good man to this honest, conservatively moderate, monogamously adherent, likely traditionalist woman who desires, believes in, and is capable of love - both realistically romantic, sexually satisfactory, & l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness cannot be solved in the long term without romantic relationshipsYa that’s absolutely wild. I was a weird kid, I forget about the other kids sometimes hah You’re right our culture is responsible for pushing toxic masculine traits, and it’s neither male or female alone to blame for this, because while one performs it (male) one rewards it (female). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness cannot be solved in the long term without romantic relationshipsNo. First, sounds like your husband Witt her doesn’t tell you about his friends lives, or has a personal problem with emotional platonic relationships. I haven’t ever had a real friend or roommate I didn’t bond with in the way you describe outside or memorizing their birthdays. But, I agree most men don’t have a plethora of friends they are close with if they have any at all. Second, Women could have all the female friends in the world. If they didn’t have any men who wanted to fuck them, or dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 10:01 AM |
| 3 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousHow hard is it to understand: I am supporting OP’s premise that the majority of women have more options = being alone is more of a choice for them = experience is incomparable. If a human was thirsty, complaining about their thirst, while swimming in freshwater, after having drank various brands of water bottles that they didn’t like, which were handed to them effortlessly, with further access to other bottled waters in a fridge 20 feet away (ie takes a little effort to get them), but refuses to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:41 AM |
| 5 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousI’m not saying it’s not possible tor anyman to attract anywoman in a hypothetically well timed, well executed scenario. Plenty of people who aren’t 6’2” Chad’s have gf & wives they are attracted to. What I’m saying is it’s silly to deny the broad and generally true nature of dating: 6’2” Chad getting his dick sucked by an attractive 23 year old woman for sending a text at 2AM “sup b” is far closer to reality than droves of 5’6” obese, balding Jacks not getting laid because they are afraid of tal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 05:49 PM |
| 11 | Saying that unlike men women today are "happier single" is very disingenuousLol at #3. What world are you living in? What’s your demographic? If dating begins when you lose your virginity I have over 2 decades of experience, ranging from existing in poverty to dining with the likes of Thiel, and in every demographic from what I’ve witnessed what you’re saying in #3 is not true. You close the case with #1. If a woman denies a guy she finds attractive because he lacks game, wore a hat in the third photo, or it’s Tuesday - she knows there are plenty more men. why the hell … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Describe the "modern man"I’m pretty sure most people don’t care about other people’s body counts from an objective, moral judgement and social decorum perspective, and my presumption is that the average person with an average body count cares to a degree roughly equal to their body count in terms of their partner, as “hopefully not more than n” - tho, ofc, the average male doesn’t have enough options of women that want to date him to factor body count into whether or not he will date someone. So the easiest answer is to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Most interesting man in the world.6*7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 05:18 AM |
| – | Most of the dating bitterness people have towards the opposite gender is a selection bias.Yea | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 05:05 PM |
| – | Most of the dating bitterness people have towards the opposite gender is a selection bias.Try 20 years of dating bro, they will still say my experiences are invalid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 01:06 PM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.I didn’t say why women get custody I just said women almost always get custody. And my guess is this is because the majority of single moms in cases where the father didn’t fight for custody are single moms because they slept with men that didn’t want to father children with the woman who is getting custody. In other words, these women are having children, sleeping with men & not using condoms, getting pregnant, and during the window of time - from the moment after sex when discussions with the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 01:15 AM |
| – | Most boys and girls were mostly raised by women who conditioned them to worship women, especially when it comes to dating.This is not, like many issues in PPD, entirely explained away as simple as MEN ARE TO BLAME. How many women, given the chance, would choose to work while their husband raised the kids? How many single women would choose to work while they date a single dad raising kids as a stay at home dad, or desiring to be a stay at home dad? Women perpetuate this non-issue you’re talking about more than men. I know plenty of men who would be happy to live at home and raise a kid or two and not work while the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many women so casually accepting of the fact they’re attracted to toxic men?Huh? Nah. I suppose you just demonstrated the level of toxicity in your prior partners is a trait unconsciously mirrored in the manner you carry yourself: aggressive self-victimization with a reading disability or defiant reactivity evidently performed unawares, much like, I presume the lack of conscientiousness engaged when vetting the men who put up with this attitude enough to demonstrate traits you eventually deemed toxic. In other words, you answered my questions. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 07:56 AM |
| 20 | Why are so many women so casually accepting of the fact they’re attracted to toxic men?When are y’all gonna accept the fact that toxic like creepy is only a word that women use to describe someone pre-selected or pre-rejected, and they aren’t either of those things by any consistent objective metric? Toxic traits are only toxic insofar as they outweigh in the end what attractive traits enabled the woman to learn the behaviors they found attractive were ‘toxic’. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 05:52 AM |
| 9 | Why are so many women so casually accepting of the fact they’re attracted to toxic men?K. So you’ve dated at least 5 toxic men. And most of them, being “they” appear to have had the same traits. So you liked it and are confirming OP. Surely you were aware of their toxicity. If asked, would they say you are toxic? If so, how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 05:48 AM |
| 3 | The way women behave with men they’re genuinely attracted to is very different compared to the way they behave with men that have merely grown on them.I don’t have a link but it shouldn’t be too hard to find. iirc Same study shows most women are aroused by just about everything and almost none of them are aware of it. Study also shows most men are aroused by what they say they are. Ie claimed exclusively Herero males aroused by hetero visual stimuli ie porn. Whereas claimed exclusively hetero females where aroused by gay, lesbian, hetero porn, and animals mating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - How many average women have you had serious crushes on?“Average” isn’t average. Average by realities statistical standards is 160-170lb 5’4” for women and 190-200lb 5’8” for men. Average by women’s standards, or what most women I’d consider average-attractive (meaning of those who are not average or below, but meet an attractiveness threshold & amongst the above-threshold folk, the average of them) is probably more like upper 20% of men statistically. It seems like women believe “average” = 175lb 5’11”+ with a salary above 70k at age 25+ Anyways my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 05:27 AM |
| 2 | For guys who want an active woman, why and what does that mean to you?I agree. Fuck the oppressive systems! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 05:18 AM |
| 1 | What is your opinion of incels?My bad I didn’t mean exclusively, but *include ethical socialization & behavior in this Maximization paradigm. I think a lot of “incels” could benefit from rebranding their perspective, and introducing a means of supporting their disengagement with the world that simultaneously makes engagement easier would involve an understanding that self-awareness and thereby ethical behavior sets one apart whilst accounting for social difficulty being faced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 05:16 AM |
| 2 | What is your opinion of incels?Btw I edited first comment so it wasn’t directed at you, since it probably read as an affront that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 05:12 AM |
| 1 | What is your opinion of incels?Oh I see, ya. Well I mean I would be surprised if anyone read that all haha I got distracted skateboarding so I’m not getting a massage now and can reply. I think what I read your comment as saying was “this is how reality is so this is how Pepel should be” and I’m saying “yes this is how reality is, but what I’m suggesting is that those with the capacity, to see the big picture, should adopt this “maxxing” attitude in a manner that demonstrates something to the world as much as themselves an ef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:37 AM |
| 2 | What is your opinion of incels?Yes, you believe this - and this can be seen as true. Ethical behavior does not equate to cowardice or diminished capacity for abundance or success; ethical behavior does not negate the ability for successful navigation within a dog-eat-dogshit capitalist economy, nor does it imply seceding to the taxation of one’s labor-earned capitol, nor reclining into the well-taught systemic cowardice of an dejected derelict consuming more than they contribute in having declined participation in the system … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:10 AM |
| 5 | What is your opinion of incels?Virtue Maxing - never seen this said. I think this should be the way, for everyone. Become the best human. You should define social maxing as ethical behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | For guys who want an active woman, why and what does that mean to you?Europeans are slightly different because their cities are designed for humans to walk around in. A lot of Americans spend the majority of their lives indoors, sitting, staring, then sitting while eating, or sitting in something that takes them somewhere to sit and stare at something for 8 hours a day while they eat on their way there, until they sit and stare on their way back to where they sit and stare and then lay down and repeat. Then there’s people that do that plus hit the gym an hour a da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Long lack of experience does affect the views on any current or future relationshipPosts like this are sad. But I get it. Not sure what to contribute beyond fucking is not comparable to being loved, and it doesn’t take fucking 20 people to know how, and to remain in, love with one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Is it “pre-selection”? Or is it simply he’s an attractive man and thus attracts more women than unattractive men?For sure. I didn’t mean to discount the value of group dynamics or status amongst peers, but wanted to point out how the last decade has all but eradicated the last 12,000 years standard means of partner acquisition - which outside of royalty and truly pre-selected dynastic or monarchical or religiopolitical strategic marriages, was a process of merely existing adequately within a cultural context that didn’t exclude one from typical socialization (like not being a murderer, eunuch, or hunchback… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Is it “pre-selection”? Or is it simply he’s an attractive man and thus attracts more women than unattractive men?Think about it like dating app filters. tall > short. Actually, pre-rejection is more applicable. Many men are simply auto-nexted without a second thought. Too bad you can’t do an “alternate timeline” study. Take let’s say 20 men that a random jury determines are “comparable” to the woman and “average or above” in general (ie that both men & women in the jury looking at the photos of the men compared to the woman, determine the men are normal, datable and potentially demographically a match for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 11:26 PM |
| – | What's something you've learned from dating that typically isn't preached here? I'll share mineJust because you can doesn’t mean you should. What worked for Human A doesn’t always work for Human B Not sure how this became abnormal, but for any men struggling with date 2/3 ie escalating: get drinks plural at multiple bars. Look at each drink as a date. If you’re not getting physical by 3 or 4 there’s probably no chemistry - doesn’t mean you can’t still get drunk & have a fun night together. Which brings me to point 4: If you’re not enjoying yourself, you’re wasting your time. Either make t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Do girlfriends ever increase your self-esteem?This is the key. 9/10 shit tests are no different than insulting behavior performed by unaware, disrespectful women. This isn’t to say natural female (human) behavior is to be considered insulting tho. It’s a weird and sometimes subtle thing, noting when conscious or unconscious comments are manipulative or negative - and when they are done maliciously or innocuously. In all cases make your feelings known and if she respects them and makes efforts to lift you up instead of shit testing you into … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 04:19 PM |
| – | What's something you've learned from dating that typically isn't preached here? I'll share mineI think your second point is actually important for men to realize, that they don’t often realize. Tho iirc red pill PUA used to teach something similar to what I’m about to say: women will like you if other women like you. PUA people used to express this as, at a bar, if you see a girl you like with a group of friends, it’s actually more advantageous to chat up her friends first. Getting a girls girlfriends approval is the fastest way to have her comfortable enough around you to give you the ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 04:00 PM |
| 0 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.No but actually: look up Order of Nine Angles. Then follow the trail to the Tempel ov Blood. Then follow the trail to contemporary offshoots. There are very intentionally sadistically evil Satanic Wampyr BDSM clubs where clients performing as subs are unaware of their participation in actual rituals. Some of the material I’ve seen is incredibly fucked up so be careful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.40 million U.S. adults regularly visit internet pornography websites 10% of U.S. adults admit to having an addiction to internet pornography 17% of all women struggle with porn addiction 20% of men and 13% of women admit to accessing porn while at work 70% of women admit to keeping their cyber activities secret 1 of 3 visitors of all adult websites is a woman Women favor chat rooms twice as much as men in 2019, census data showed approx 1 in 100 women worked in porn. This excludes amateur porn, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 04:21 PM |
| 1 | What makes you think the “unlucky” men are average?maybe easiest way to put it is expensive, coastal city where everyone seems to be a 6’2” minimum retired at 30 pro surfer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 01:15 PM |
| 2 | What makes you think the “unlucky” men are average?So you’re telling me you saw a bunch of “average” American men with attractive women? According to a quick Google search in 2019 “The «average American man 20 years old and up weighs 197.9 pounds. The average waist circumference is 40.2 inches, and the average height is […] 5 feet 9 inches” I have a feeling the “average” you’re describing is not the “average” in reality. Regardless, there are so many factors you’re not taking into account & much of what you said is anecdotal subjective experienc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 06:23 AM |
| 8 | “Are we dating the same guy” is literally just the natural consequence of less and less people dating from their social circle.Lol right this is a two way street. Every one of those instances of fucking is a dude fucking a woman as much as it is a woman fucking a dude. It just so happens that the majority of women choose to fuck the same dudes. Doesn’t matter if he’s a lying sack of shit or an ethical non monogamy spokesperson. This is a case of everyone’s eating the same cake and then getting upset when they learn they are sharing forks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Ironically, interacting more with girls is what got me redpilled, not Tate or whoeverMyself and others are working on making what you’re talking about possible. You will not find any hint of evidence of this on this account btw The main problem I’ve noticed is that those who have the power to make these independent systems possible are guided by the wealth they already hold - or want to keep & grow so they are unwilling to seek anything but profit. The way AI is evolving implies some MAJOR economic shifts need to occur - including how we view money & what we exchange and how we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 11:20 PM |
| 9 | Ironically, interacting more with girls is what got me redpilled, not Tate or whoeverI think that your bold point is the main one that people certainly overlook. They also often presume that being a single adult male who doesn’t have these things is the fault of the male by choice of not wanting these things or not working hard enough to “earn=have=deserve” them. It is almost never identified as a societal problem or associated with preventable or systemic issues that surpass these outdated tropes of feminine inferiority. Somehow victimization is prosperously pre-approved, desig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Ironically, interacting more with girls is what got me redpilled, not Tate or whoeverSerious question, as it is something I intend on discerning eventually and learning to articulate into an actionable solution, given I’m able to acquire the means to do so and apt to identify the problems as well as advocate for those who are unaware of this yet-existing solution: without money or the pursuit of money, or the promise of exclusive access to women who reciprocally love you, what would make you as a man contented to exist within a society where some of your peers do have access to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 02:33 AM |
| – | Ironically, interacting more with girls is what got me redpilled, not Tate or whoeverI have a mission for you to accomplish that will result in a girlfriend while you’re in college: Buy only clothes that fit right. Not baggy and not too tight. black Levi’s straight/skinny. Buy white and black Hanes t shirt. Buy Aldo or whatever Nordstrom rack black or dark brown boots (not doc martins) to add an inch or two to height. Buy a smoky cologne. Get a professional fuck boy haircut but wear it messy always looking like you just woke up. Stop showering daily. Use old spice deodorant. Don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 01:56 AM |
| 39 | Ironically, interacting more with girls is what got me redpilled, not Tate or whoeverDo you realize how quickly society would collapse if men were raised to believe the hopeless truth - what holds society together is the illusion of possibility for not even better than but equal to what they see their peers and superiors having. The delusion that if they perform x and earn z they will get y because by performing x one earns z which ensures one is deserving of y is the glue of society. When the truth is performing x (exercise, work, displays of strength or talent, etc) and earnin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 01:37 AM |
| 4 | Today I learned RooshV got his second virginity!Fascinating. I’m pretty sure this is the ultimate solution anyone finds when they travel down any path of immoderate behavior - by which I mean excessive behavior, addiction, etc…often these folks need something no material or fleshy pursuit can provide & the only thing that can fill that void is something Ineffable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 10:26 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Dating gets harder for men as they get older, not easierThe two major deal breakers - either one of them will fuck you (I know cause I’m in my 30’s) - are wealth (career) & looks (health), minus standard charisma/charm/confidence. If you don’t have both it’s much harder than in your 20’s when I found either/or looks/charm matter FAR more than career/wealth. 20-27 you’re still in the ‘has potential’ stage and aren’t viewed as old. Once you hit 30 it’s expected you have a career & have stopped fucking around. some do well with women until their bad boy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced?My bad I’m dense today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 10:28 PM |
| 11 | Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced?“safety” = “Oops” & plan B I dunno tho this was a decade + ago maybe times have changed with the internet & OLD. Safety is the least of women’s concerns - if you’re hot. Tho particulars certainly matter - age, aesthetic, & where you physically are - like the decorum & social awareness - makes a big difference - ie my behavior on campus that was considered bold or confident, probably would not have been tolerated if I were older than 23 or something, or tried to pull it outside of college context… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced?The fuck ? I lived in CO for a while. Hated it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced?What’s swirl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 07:51 PM |
| 25 | Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced?In college I used to play the “Floor” game. Where the women’s dorms had floors. And if I fucked one chick in Dorm A such that chick in Dorm B could hear me, and ESPECIALLY if Dorm B & C down the way saw me in the AM having breakfast cooked it wasn’t long before I’d slept with the whole Floor. Something about being desired by one makes the next desire you. I can’t tell you how many women I slept with just because they heard what “sounded hot” the night before or some bullshit. Some admitting they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalSocial media has inflated the value and perceived importance of aesthetics. People see what’s in their phones more than they see what’s in front of them. Social media and public personae’s Image defines many buying clicking subscribing liking sharing Americans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 05:50 AM |
| 19 | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalLooks matter to women more now than a decade ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Most women aren't on dating apps. So how are they getting relationships or having sex?So you’ve had 10 (+ apps) boyfriends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingTrue Red Pilled Men don’t believe they are “Red Pill” because being Red Pill means subscribing to someone else’s marketed/branded definition of what it means to be a man. Just like Marcus Aurelius Meditations is a solid example of how to be a cuckold if you extend it into the reality of his personal life, you’ll see men who don’t get cucked by their Faustianly deceitful wife aren’t pining away in walls of pseudophilosophical diatribes about what it means to be a Real Man(or Stoic, in Marcus case… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 12:39 AM |
| 0 | It appears that women don't want men“Well, life ain’t fair, but who really cares? - there’s some people over here, and some people over there.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 12:53 PM |
| 9 | It appears that women don't want menI don’t think empathy has a single thing to do with wanting to fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 12:44 PM |
| 5 | No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. If you bring this up all they do is shame you to silence the discussion, and this is probably the most prominent example of gaslighting in dating/gender dynamics.The reason you don’t see or hear about as many attractive abusers is because the more attractive you are the less likely you are to be held accountable - and often what’s abusive behavior from a fat mongloid is just charm for a hot chalfad Humans erroneously conflate Truth with Beauty and Goodness or Attractiveness as synonymous with Morality, because aesthetic is convincing - it’s why the only effective marketing is what tickles the unconscious libido, and all you need to really do to sell actu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 04:35 AM |
| 13 | Self Improvement Thread Discussion ThreadThere’s literally nothing I can think of that’s more cringe than some faceless self-congratulatory keybrad alpha (TM) pining away about how high status and cool they are compared to those who weren’t so genetically blessed & socially astute in high school as their implied Royal bloodline enabled them to, without need of helping their self (as help is for losers!), live enjoyably. The below average person, and even the average, just exist and the things that you consider “abnormal” just happen to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Question for women: Have you ever felt toxic?I believe you have more control than you think - but part of that entails being aware of people who can trigger your behaviors. I was with a BPD woman for 8 years off & on & it wasn’t until I saw how I could change my behavior that I saw how less & less of her BPD traits were problematic in our rs. Just wanted to give a hopeful outlook. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 07:17 AM |
| 6 | Hey guys, mental health problems are a major roadblock when it comes to finding and maintaining fulfilling relationships. It affects both men and women alike. Let's break the stigma and prioritize taking care of our mental wellbeing for a better love life. #mentalhealth #relationships #selfcareThis is the facts. Not just women, but men too. Don’t trust anyone with your subjective feelings or it will be used as ammunition. Most humans are selfish, cruel, and stupid - driven by one primary objective: “most pleasure at least cost,” so if you demonstrate weakness, you unconsciously become associated with negativity, which will bring others down, and make you shunned for expressing discontent. There are escorts you can hire that you don’t fuck called therapists who will listen to your prob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 07:12 AM |
| 1 | If women don't go for the same top % of men, how did "Are We Dating the Same Guy" become a national thing?It’s so silly that men even ask women these questions. learn to become one of the dudes that can juggle 3 women at a time & you’ll see how it works: you’re not really juggling anything…you’re just a magnet. There is a weird NSFW theory I had when I was in college that if I didn’t shower after fucking a girl women would be more attracted to me because they could unconsciously smell the competition. Seemed to hold up to my daily drunk & psychedelic imbibing insanities scrutiny but I dunno about sc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 04:11 AM |
| 1 | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense?The dating part is too complex due to peoples exaggeration of differences in “define dating”. But the sex stats speak for themselves as to why the indefinability of “what is single?” is stupid: multiple women are fucking one dude, this is dating for women and single for the one dude; that dude is probably a 5+ year age bracket ahead of the 5+ women he’s got on rotation. I’d say average rotation is 3 women per 1 lower ranked chadlet. When I was at my prime aged 27 I was “single” but I had a FWB I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 03:03 AM |
| 1 | There is a 50/50 male to female ratio, but somehow more than half of young men are single. How does this make sense?What is EQ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Being a bad boy is very beneficial when it comes to being respected by peers and attracting womenI mean that’s what OP says he did when he “wasn’t having it” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Being a bad boy is very beneficial when it comes to being respected by peers and attracting womenDisney has men grabbing women by the throat telling them to stfu? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Men control relationships, but only men that have been chosen by women in the first placeWhat’s your take on finesse? Learnable or inborn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 03:29 PM |
| 2 | How important do you think teen love is?like anything in life, the more experience you have the better you’ll generally become at it. practices makes perfect. but if unhealthy patterns develop early it’s much harder to kick them later. so can be a double edged sword. what women like when they are younger isn’t exactly the same as in their 20’s or mid 20’s or late 20’s etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 09:13 AM |
| 1 | American capitalism has destroyed datingMostly agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 09:42 AM |
| 0 | SOME men in your league will try to use you. But if you only go for men above your league, ALL OF THEM WILLExcept…it is? Isn’t that what the stats in the post are demonstrating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 02:59 AM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP romanticizes men and demonizes womenI don’t pay a dime. Poor suckers got Tate rich AF tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 11:18 PM |
| 3 | CMV : Most RP Men dont understand that loving your Women isnt simping, simping is something complete different.Because men are the romantics. Though I wouldn’t say pragmatically, I’d say programmatically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 05:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP romanticizes men and demonizes womenI don’t understand how anyone can define TRP in the first place. It is a collection of disparate bloggers, marketers, and writers mostly selling content & views. Do we say Jordan Peterson is Red Pill? Motivational speaker. What about Joe Rogan? Podcast host. Is Donald Trump? Orange. What about Bill Clinton? Impeached. The Rock? Disney. Kanye West? Unclear. Point being I don’t think “red pill” is anything or anyone beyond the individual business entities selling “red pill” branded material. If re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 04:36 PM |
| -1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.I think his point is that if she loves the dick, drugs, excitement, and cum Chad provides she probably won’t love him if becomes a dork wanting to play Magic:the Gathering on Friday nights instead of slangin dope at the club. If she loves the security, money, food, and homestead Brad provides she probably won’t love him if he loses his job, home, and 401k leaving them fending for food on the streets of LA living out of a Van. In either case it wasn’t bad-boy Chad or provider Brad as a person tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 04:26 PM |
| – | Some days I would almost consider myself RP, then I read some of the comment sections on RP videos and realize I want nothing to do with these peopleMore than 6,000 Catholic clergy members have been credibly accused of sexual abuse in the United States. Many of these accusations of abuse date back decades. Many of these clergy members are now deceased. The 2021 USCCB report identified 2,458 priests involved in allegations of child sexual abuse. Does that mean we should allow the church to flourish by tithing 15% of our income? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 06:14 AM |
| 7 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherFunny that they will simultaneously say men who post their lived experiences & observations don’t represent reality because “ugly fat basement dwelling virgin vibes” and you know only their experienced is valid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Your wife/husband doesn’t want to do certain sexual activities that they did with the ex with you. Your response.I make it clear I find it offensive if I’m made aware of unnecessary details surrounding prior relationships to the point I will leave her out of self-respect if she disrespects me by giving me vivid imagery I personally find distasteful, and have explicitly stated I do not feel it is appropriate or healthy to know such things. I make it clear that the past is the past and unless she thinks it’s absolutely necessary I know how many partners she’s had, I ultimately don’t care and would rather not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 07:54 PM |
| 14 | Practically no men are "obsessed" with sex, they just can't satisfy their healthy, normal desiresIf it’s like being at a buffet where you’re not allowed to eat any of the food, but watch a large portion of the dregs of society chow down? Then sure. That analogy works. Switch genders and it’s more fitting. Even Tinder ratios claimed on here scream buffet for women more than the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Since we live in artificial times why don't we implement artificial solutions? Make a dating app which allows women 50 swipes per day while men are only allowed 1 swipe per day.Reply rate would actually be cool. I doubt it would change anything tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 07:01 PM |
| 2 | How do you all have these PurplePillDebate conversations and not get depressed/triggered? Genuine question (New Here)I’m not advocating for how red pill is, I’m advocating for what red pill should strive to be. Rather than teaching men abusive techniques it should teach men what, as you mention psych, self-help, etc..teaches. It should make men aware of what conscious or unconscious behaviors ‘attract’ women that can be damaging - so that they don’t perform them with ill intent, and instead rise above. I only presumed you hadn’t discussed with him because you implied if he demonstrated RP behavior you’d have n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 02:44 AM |
| 1 | How do you all have these PurplePillDebate conversations and not get depressed/triggered? Genuine question (New Here)I guess my point is, if red pill were truly successful the behaviors present in those who didn’t need to read about it would correlate to those who claim to be red pill Like shouldn’t rp or doesn’t TRP strive to succeed in dating / rs? Then whatever your partner does unwittingly - and let’s pretend instead of him being an individual he represents a collective group of men we can call “alpha” - he does because it’s an unconsciously successful set of personality traits and behavioral modes that pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 11:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you all have these PurplePillDebate conversations and not get depressed/triggered? Genuine question (New Here)How does discussing gender dynamics and psychosocial or behavioral phenomena or showing interest in understanding current dating paradigms equate to the perception of women as less than? And what does it say about you, that you’re here engaging in discussion of stuff your partners aren’t aware of? Is that somehow advantageous? ie as a masculine/male/man/heterosexual adult that has observed red pill/“blue pill”(your boyfriend, people that don’t think about their behavior but follow trends/pattern… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you all have these PurplePillDebate conversations and not get depressed/triggered? Genuine question (New Here)can I ask how you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 04:25 PM |
| 5 | If men were less horny, what would happen?Imagine if Ghengis Khan wasn’t horny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Self Improvement Discussion ThreadI think it’s absolutely wonderful you have added this to the top. Good job PPD mods on doing something I agree with for the first time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:03 AM |
| 0 | Is casual sex ruining dating for the average man?There is a super complicated answer I could give, and I may come back and do so. But before that potentially happens I’ll just say it took me into my 30’s to realize and accept that accountability is hardly tied to responsibility, and humans taking, enforcing, or owning either justly is almost never adhered to. We are facing the collapse of our civilization at its peak because of capitalism run amok. Blame your parents and generations before you and most of my generation for the current situatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money?Nah. In my experience women make spreadsheets for monthly expenses and even factor in clothing returns while I a male look at money as a temporal non-existent gamified necessity for others that I need dabble in well enough to meet daily wants. In spite of this I always have seemed to be better with money than the women I’ve dated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 12:38 AM |
| 3 | CMV: As long as men refuse to call out other men, male issues will never be taken seriously.The problem isn’t gendered. It’s societal. Remove gender from the equation. It’s fucking dumb that we have this blanket society shared by men and women laying in the same bed made of broken glass, feces, corpses, and disease infected needles and rather than fight over who made them lay in this same shitty bed they are busy fighting over who is hogging the blanket. Until men and women can step beyond FEMinism and beyond outdated modalities of thinking, hold humans accountable for the systems they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 10:19 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalI imagine they’d say the same thing about their sons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 03:50 PM |
| 0 | Videos like this and the reaction they seem to be getting in the quotes and replies make me genuinely scared for our society’s futureWhat’s wrong with saying female? Or male? I’m a male, it doesn’t bother me if you say I’m a male. Or that my dad or your dad is male and our moms female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Videos like this and the reaction they seem to be getting in the quotes and replies make me genuinely scared for our society’s futureNo comment. But curious, are you a male or a female? Have you ever been violently assaulted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Videos like this and the reaction they seem to be getting in the quotes and replies make me genuinely scared for our society’s futureRejection hurts feels? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:20 AM |
| 1 | If women are the ones who control the dating market, wouldn’t it make sense for men to lower their standards instead?Lower exactly how and to what? An urn full of ash? An AI Chatbot? An Imaginary GF? For a large portion of men women seem to complain the only requirements is alive and old enough so I don’t see how this bar is supposed to get any lower without Limbo occurring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:17 AM |
| 1 | do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement?Can you provide an example of what safe means in this context? Thanks for answering | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 03:23 AM |
| 0 | Why not look for a woman with a career?Dating women that work full time high paying gigs is generally genuinely not a good time. Dating anyone whose career is their identity isn’t very fun. But I feel like women treat jobs as such more often than men. Work frequently doesn’t stay at work. I don’t date men so I can’t speak on that. But I also don’t imagine, well I know, women generally prefer men that earn more. So it’s not super relevant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 02:55 AM |
| 0 | do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement?Because most of the men that care about this sort of thing enough to be a part of any group (or seeking these groups out) aren’t the type of men society really pays any mind to (this is why red pill sells vs. mens rights ideologies grow). And most men lead the majority of their lives believing they are privileged and somehow at fault for the worlds problems without needing to dive into PPD adjacent sub intellectual couture. While the rest of society is happy in their respective echo bubbles. Fat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 02:44 AM |
| 1 | do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement?Nothing to do with this thread but can I ask you why are you a Womanist against racist feminists instead of a humanist against racist people (insert any other ist)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Are men genuinely worse potential partners these days? If every man was successful, would these problems still persist due to hypergamy?Not very “feminism” indeed. They should change their definition of FEMinism from “gender equality” (what it’s never been about) to “at least equal to, never less than, and always striving for what’s better than, biologically sexed & gender-identified male” (what it appears to actually be and have become). Or maybe I should start a Mascinism movement. It will be about gender equality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 02:25 AM |
| 3 | Are men far more accepting to neurodivergence than women when it comes to dating?Depends on what level of and type of mental health issue. In my mind if it’s quirky it’s not a mental health issue. It’s a quirk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think men tend to accept bisexual women far more than women accept bisexual men?My opinion: men aren’t threatened by their female partner engaging in sexual activities with another female (ie she ain’t gonna get pregnant, he’ll still know the child was his). As for women, admittedly or not, it isn’t about the threat a male fucking their boyfriends face poses, it’s that they are generally…turned off (to put it gently) by the notion their Man is playing the role of female. I could go into greater detail but will spare you cause that’s the gist of it. Edit to add: I think most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Women's passivity and ease of dating makes it hard to feel sympathy for their dating strugglesWhy not? I want to know how someone like that affords their lame life goal Casanova already documented. And in spite of the Supra-exoteric exterior’s praetor-intelligently guided anomalous metathesis of anti-analytical psionics organized via surface-level ingratiation of optical agoraphobia I may face in terms of what’s mirrored by those who reflect upon it, no. I’m not too dumb. But I’m homeless and his situation (a house, no job) sounds like a pretty good deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Women's passivity and ease of dating makes it hard to feel sympathy for their dating strugglesWould you like to adopt a 34 year old son as a dependent for a tax break? I will help around the house. I don’t do drugs/drink. No video games. Kinda similar to you. (You’re living my dream - paid to live at home, study what I want - women would be a bonus but I’ve had my share so I’m not too worried). I’m probably in better shape than you, could be useful wingman if you felt like going to sketchier places. Haven’t really been fucked with for a decade due to general appearance, I reckon. Obvious… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Women's passivity and ease of dating makes it hard to feel sympathy for their dating strugglesWhat work/income source enables you to live this lifestyle? What are your criteria for sleeping with a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 03:50 PM |
| 23 | CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD.The thing I’ve noticed about redditors over the years is that the vast majority of them are comfortable in their own bubble, have little real life trauma or experience, and often have opinions they will defend or support thoughtlessly to the grave without knowing how they got them or why they have them. So I’d take it with a grain of salt. In the real world - no one cares or notices. When I was with my ex gf that was a decade younger, not once did anyone say, hint, or question anything about our… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 10:31 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men see younger men as other men, where women see younger women as little children. This is at the core of many disagreements on PPD.Your comment is really long. I’d read it but I have a question first, since this is the nth time J. Peterson has come up in the last two days. Can you explain to me what it is about Peterson that makes him so popular? Is he like mainstream red pill without using red pill rhetoric? Like an Andrew Tate for prudes (for lack of a better word atm)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 10:25 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Why some women have a problem with age gap relationships and why men seek themYou very sourly missed the most important difference between why I’ve dated younger women over older women in the past: they are initially attracted to me for who I am, not what I can provide materially. It’s refreshing to feel loved for who you are. And that is why I believe more men than admit it actually date younger women. And to be honest between 22-27(?) I can’t tell the age difference. I didn’t even know my last ex was 10 years younger than me until a month of dating. More often than not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Men Desire Romantic Relationships More Than Women DoMen are sometimes raised their primary purpose is to pass on genetic material, which typically requires or implies a relationship; especially if they are the last of a line. It dawned on me while reading this post that I was reminded of this “duty” from a very early age. Like pre-10 years old I was praying to Jesus to get married and have a son since that is my “duty” to my family. This is actually pertinent to my own past relationship trauma, as you can imagine how that family-instilled + biolo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Men who consider themselves ugly: Have you have luck with unattractive women?Damn. I wish I knew people that already lived there. I don’t trust myself tbh . Adelitas, Hong Kong, etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Men who consider themselves ugly: Have you have luck with unattractive women?Wow. So hypothetically if I quit my job and worked online gigs, and made, I dunno $2.5k USD/month working 10 hours a week…let’s say for the first few months, where would that put me? Could one live reasonably well with that income? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 06:19 PM |
| 2 | CMV A lot of the "toxicity" and "misogyny" are just men no longer making up lies to please womenit’s a criticism as commentary from experience on women as amoral or immoral without using misogyny. Which, while the comment itself may not come from a person identifying as a follower of “the red pill”, certainly echoes RP sentiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Results from a survey with an (approximately) 25k sample size about sexual happiness, cheating, and satisfaction in long-term hetero monogamous relationships.But if Bio-God didn’t force humans automatically to do it, I wouldn’t do it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 12:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV A lot of the "toxicity" and "misogyny" are just men no longer making up lies to please womenI’ll quote a non-RP man who commented above, refuting OP [for being a loser who can’t get laid] which I don’t entirely agree with] : “married women are easier to sleep with than escorts” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Men who consider themselves ugly: Have you have luck with unattractive women?How much money is enough? Where in MX are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 05:12 AM |
| 1 | N Count Weekly Discussion ThreadIf you’re aged 25+ and female above 10 but below 20 = standard. If you’re aged 25+ and male above 1 but below 10 is probably average. I’d you’re still single like me and either gender aged 30+ you’re probably in one or two camps: really high n-count or really low n-count (ie recent divorce or LTR ending can mean some women at 30 re-enter the meat market with lower n-count than their 20 year old competition. But the price for that is almost always a kid or three. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 02:40 AM |
| 3 | N Count Weekly Discussion ThreadWell beyond liking you for sex it sounds like they don’t need to like anything else about you, as long as you like them, and they are ok with you banging other dudes simultaneously (be that literally a wobbly-H Eiffel Tower foray or within the same week). Right? If you’re not looking for a committee partner, boyfriend, or to date (even polyamorously). Why’d you run out of D? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 02:22 AM |
| 1 | N Count Weekly Discussion ThreadSo you’re gonna take or virginity or nah? Are you not from the US? I’m around your age and wanted to say I agree that dating women with less of a history is noticeably different. Especially less than 3 prior partners/relationships. Still believe in, are capable of, and probably want to fall in love. Then again maybe the correlation isn’t caused by n count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 02:14 AM |
| 1 | N Count Weekly Discussion ThreadDoes your n-count go down by 1 for every year you don’t get laid after you’ve lost your virginity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/23 02:06 AM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?Lol a man says “nah, I like when I am loved, held, desired; when it’s made known I’m wanted [even more if she’s willing to have my children - the ultimate compliment acted on: ‘I want to reproduce with you’” and a woman says “No, you don’t like to be loved. You, as a male, want a sex robot.” K. Well, using “I feel” statements, will say: I feel that most men, whether admittedly or brought to their awareness or not, actually just want to be desired and/or loved, and no amount of porn or sex bots a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 06:30 PM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?Ah, here is a perceptual/awareness flaw that results in lack of compassion. It’s not “getting laid” as much as it’s evidence one is desirable. Surely you can think about it objectively: an act which frequently causes shame, especially when done out of want or lack rather than for the pure sake of self-pleasure - jerking off to pornographic material of women they would like to fuck, after being rejected by women consistently - is not the same as a woman they want to fuck deciding “you are a human… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 03:41 AM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?Like what? What strategy would get a guy you wouldn’t fuck the ability to fuck you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 02:46 AM |
| 2 | A lot of the toxicity around pill spheres has to do with missing out on young love and stunted social development as a resultNo, most teenagers until early adulthood witness a wide array of experiences and generally those experiences are shared by their peers or friend group. Even if one is a “loser” in high school, that “loser” generally understands it doesn’t matter because college or early 20’s is where it’s at. As someone else pointed out it’s continual negative experiences beyond those formative years that result in the “bitter pill” rhetorics flourishing. I’ve watched & engaged with “red pill” for over a decade,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 02:27 AM |
| – | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?So how would you help men get laid you’d refuse to sleep with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Women run passive gameLol at a cemetery? I mean, you were reading a book. And to be honest, if I saw a woman chilling at a cemetery reading I’d probably want to talk to her too. The more I think about it that actually seems like a pretty inappropriately appropriate place to connect if you’re both going to cemeteries for a casual hang | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 10:42 PM |
| 1 | The only reason the concept of the redpill is popular is because it actually gives tangible solutions.I think you replied to the wrong comment thread? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 04:26 AM |
| 3 | The “don’t approach women IRL” is a zoomer thing…right?In my experience, in person, women will approach or make it next to impossible not to if interested. So no I don’t think it’s off the table because it’s natural human behavior. Then again I am closer to your age so what’s natural for us is likely unnatural for “zoomers” fuck I am getting old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?99% of modern women aren’t worth committing to; roughly the same is likely true for men - for different reasons I’ve now observed and experienced the shift of dating & human behavior from pre-internet to AI replicated and the two are becoming nearly indistinguishable - and soon will be indistinguishable - this will cause a tremendous rift in human consciousness. Wait, dating ignorance is bliss lack is often want want is not need have is not always better than lack most humans are self-serving, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?I like this take - women using dating apps is auto-suspicious. Why can’t they find/keep a partner irl? Never considered it that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?I have a friend, that’s a female, and I’m a male, who I am pretty sure we’d be happily together had I met her at a different juncture. Chemistry was there from the start & we approached one another from what appeared to be the same lens of awareness of this. But our places in life, the timing, like meta-level, wasn’t right. I could see when she lay naked in my bed how happily I would’ve been with her in some other timeline, but when she lay there awaiting me, I felt like it was more kind to both… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 03:08 AM |
| 5 | The only reason the concept of the redpill is popular is because it actually gives tangible solutions.Thank you. Appreciate the commendation. Out of curiosity where lies the most noteworthy point of contention? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 07:53 PM |
| 15 | The only reason the concept of the redpill is popular is because it actually gives tangible solutions.Kinda interesting to me that no one touches on how “blue pill” probably, supposedly worked/works because of cultural differences. ie in a time without the internet, giving women more control in how dating went down was new territory, in a way probably exciting for both parties. Men could relax a bit, step back, and let women “empower” themselves. They didn’t need to be or do anything special. The woman would like who she likes. But nowadays kids grow up with the norm being tik tok insta twit etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 03:13 AM |
| 8 | How are men supposed to even get a relationship nowadays?This is probably one of the best, most realistically utilitarian, positive comments I’ve seen in this thread. I’d add to this two things, and you’re becoming a complete human being: 1. intellectually study & actively meditatively perform a spiritual praxis, or multiple, until you find one that suits you. some of us are not fit for religion & some of us aren’t meant to be monastic, but that doesn’t mean there isn’t a middle ground that’s healthy for you between the extremes of debating atheism & … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Discussion : My theory as to why dating on apps is so hardMy guess is you’re a little younger than me, but my generation, 30’s, as we got used to texting, it became a sorta unspoken rule that you just didn’t text back immediately (ie that night or within a day or two) or it was seen as “creepy”. As online communication has been normalized those of us that grew up actually literally calling girls before texting have had to get used to changing texting “customs”. Ofc, in my opinion, any rules, whether it’s “don’t text her back immediately after the date”… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 05:12 PM |
| 2 | "The Hoe Phase"By most peoples standards I’m well above average # of prior partners. Calling it what it is isn’t ”jealous ugly people” making shit up. I pretty firmly believe 7 out of 10 women 22-27 will have at least one year that is remarkably sluttier than the rest. Typically following an LTR breakup with the second, or post-hs “one”. This same trend then repeats itself with women 28-35, generally following their first divorce, except instead of “hoe phase” it’s (while exactly the same as their youthful cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Change my View : Most men base a part of theyre Dating decisions on theyre ego, and that is perfectly fineEgo comes into play for sure. Most men want to date a woman who will love them reciprocally, and treat them with respect. Men who have dated a lot of women from different demographics and age groups tend to find the women who, especially in your case, are so casual about their sex life & history as to truthfully tell you they’ve slept with 35 men, are often lacking in the reciprocal love department because they are so used to “being run thru” they will treat you much like the 35 men prior. Nowad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men and their issues must be recognised and highlighted on International Men's Day instead of being preached to be better .Silly to project degenerate denigration of men, on “Women’s Day” how would it land it a well produced video came out projecting common RP truths onto women & blaming them for their behavior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 06:24 PM |
| 1 | As a man who’s dated quite a bit, I’ve found more women tend to be socially maladjusted than more men.Bro fuckin does not matter Who cares Bitches you’re banging are trash | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 05:06 AM |
| 1 | As a man who’s dated quite a bit, I’ve found more women tend to be socially maladjusted than more men.Who fucking cares, dude? Who is reading this sub? Lonely. Fat. “Chad” AI. Writers. I’ve seen this scene for 10+ years. It’s literally the same merry-go-round. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 04:45 AM |
| 5 | As a man who’s dated quite a bit, I’ve found more women tend to be socially maladjusted than more men.Punished is the wrong word here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 04:43 AM |
| 2 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"Ya, it is indeed terrifying. Countless men not only won’t get to experience what it means to be loved by a woman monogamously but won’t know what it means to be loved at all. I about about a decade older than you. So I recall all that you’re describing from my own lens & time frame (ie MySpace came out when I was a sophomore in hs. Tinder was still somewhat taboo when I was out of college. But, I got to experience online dating before minds were warped by social media. I can say with 100% confid… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 08:28 PM |
| 3 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"This is actually the sad Truth. Our culture is obsessed with “brand”. The Self as commodity. Women most clearly demonstrating this in the rise of OnlyFans. If you googled “amateur porn” 10 years ago you’d see fat couples, average humans, normal dicks, shitty cameras. Google amateur porn today and you’ve got well produced “amateurs” with 9 inch dicks 28 inch biceps 8% body fat fucking European super model women. Our entire concept of average and normal is warped even into the darkest recesses of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 07:45 PM |
| 1 | are a smaller percentage of men considered attractive compared to women?Exactly the ignorant thoughtless answer I expected on here from a likely inexperienced & careless human caught in an own echo chamber of social media fed quips. nice job trying to invalidate my lived experience. Further your example doesn’t hold up. if that’s the case, that 1 out of 100 men will rape and kill you…& you yourself or any woman for that matter wouldn’t go out with a single man if they truly believed that. Grateful women will go out with men at all? Ha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 04:41 AM |
| 1 | are a smaller percentage of men considered attractive compared to women?I don’t think men have sex with 99% of women. This is a myth. I have turned down women on multiple occasions. And I’m not the only male with standards. And that is absolutely not tru men only want top 5% for relationships. If women won’t date 70% of men in the first place that means men aren’t even really choosing who they will be in a relationship with, they are waiting for a woman that’s willing to choose them. I don’t understand this stupid extremist logic pigeon holing all men as “will fuck … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 04:33 AM |
| 2 | are a smaller percentage of men considered attractive compared to women?I’m curious, do you know the actual stats of women being raped or murdered from dates with men they agreed to go on dates with? Compared to say the stats of violence against men in public? Is that fear of rape and murder SO common as to really instill fear in women? Because if I judged by women’s behavior I’d say they aren’t actually afraid of that sort of thing happening to the point it impacts their decisions to go on dates; in the same way I have been beaten by police multiple occasions witho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 04:27 AM |
| 7 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"3 is most common. Women don’t like men expressing their real emotions. Women like men who express emotions that are lesser extreme than the woman’s emotions (ie not requiring emotional intelligence on her part & not making her daily emotional needs seem trivial) and are non-serious outside of the well-timed or sparse emotional admonitions of praise & approval. Non-needy, non-clingy, zero-responsibility, etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 03:06 AM |
| 4 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"Or to shame men who aren’t charming enough to get [girlfriends/partners/wives/hook-ups/fwbs] into believing it’s because they lack “emotional intelligence” - which makes it sound like something one either a.) can learn via studying books for sale about “emotional intelligence” or b.) is some trait like IQ that one can only measure via some EI clubs certified test. As if women have ever given a single flying f about” emotional intelligence” vs. men with the capacity (natural or learnt) for “intel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 02:58 AM |
| 2 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"Everyone knows the truth, it just doesn’t sell to the majority buying the Ideas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 02:30 AM |
| 3 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadAlso, [] you. I said nothing that is deserving of attacking my presumed immorality because I support adults having consensual sex. That is literally all my comment condoned & you immediately attack who I am. You don’t know shit about me or my place in life, my stance on women, how I treat human beings, or what I believe. It is exactly your immediacy to presume supporting casual sex amongst adults equates to degeneracy that makes this sort of conversation impossible. You have fuckwit bragging abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 03:15 AM |
| 3 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadWow that reads like a straight outta high school 18 year old wannabe game alpha fan fic. “immediately I cum in their raw pussy” alright - and then I take off my VR headset and wipe up the premature ejaculate with my cum sock before my mom makes me mac n cheese With someone writing like that claiming they pretend to be a lawyer who will pay at the end of the month for fear of being disbarred they sure aren’t very eloquent. I literally picture a 5’6” dork writing that screenshot. There is no way t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadAlright I haven’t looked at his other posts I was fully under the impression this was about consensual casual sex considering he said something along the lines of “I’m fully honest with my intentions”. Jesus this place is fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 03:03 AM |
| 4 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadIsn’t it incredible how offensive it is for a man to be happily dating women that are happily dating him? Especially a white man in a non-white country. I’m happy for you dude. Eventually I assume ducking around so much will get boring and you’ll want to actually romance and marry a woman. But if not, you do you bro. There are literally millions of men who would give anything to be in your current situation. And it sounds like there are 100’s of women happy to consent to what you want. No one sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Sex Tourism/Mail-Order Bride Weekly Discussion ThreadHarsh but dead onnnnn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 07:04 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat about a VR “erotic companion”? So no physical toy but a Hologram? (As other commenter pointed out). Would a VR or AI Companion that like erotically or intimately engages with a man be a ‘red flag’? Is the virtual version = sex doll version? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:14 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah it seems to be a fetish or a egregore manifestation type thing. What about a non-sexually used full size robotic woman companion? Would that be wrong? Is an AI driven companion that simulates emotional intimacy wrong? Why does moving into beyond genital to genital contact (ie a face or a “personality”) make it worse? It’s merely a fantasy projected into a larger version of the same genital to genital toys, is it not? (Not talking about those who “marry” and fall in love with their dolls, pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAt what point does it move from masturbatory aid (flashlight) to no-no lifelike? What if the flesh light is torso? No head or legs. Is that too far? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 05:58 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNice additional thought & I actually touched on that in another comment - I think that’s where we’re headed before life-size android dolls. At least VR first. But something has to be missing in terms of touch. A hologram can’t provide the physical intimacy dolls mimic. A woman imagining a dick is far different than sticking a plastic replication of one inside of her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 05:57 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYa, I was looking at some sex doll companies websites after the article. $1-10,000+ for a sex doll. I wasn’t expecting the level of fetishism involved - there were some very peculiar & what seemed to be sex-doll specific fetish terms that pointed to the nature of those using them. Personally I would have no issue using a sex doll. But the process of acquiring one then dealing with having one, including what I imagine is a painfully shameful clean-up process, on top of the cost, and the stress of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 05:53 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCan you explain why “sad” and differentiate between a single male using a sex doll and a single woman using a dildo/vibrator? For clarification let’s presume the single male & single female in this instance using the sex toys are not choosing the objects over a real partner; ie if they met someone they would prefer a human over the toy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 05:16 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI read an article yesterday that came out in 2020 I believe stating the stats for sex doll use was something like 1/10 people have or have used a sex doll. For women: do you view your dildo or vibrator as a sex doll or sex toy? Regardless of what you call it, do you think a man using a sex doll is…what? Wrong? Creepy? Weird? How is it different than you using a sex toy? For men: have you/would you use a sex doll? Why or why not? What if it were acceptable? Can a sex doll, fully robotic android A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 05:02 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTechnically all of them, but depending on where you put it in the last one it makes is non-sensical. Since yesterday, I can play chess continuously. - One could theoretically play chess since x-time yesterday continuously until y-time ‘today’. continuously since yesterday I can play chess. - One has continuously had the capacity to play chess since a certain time yesterday. ie their ability to play chess has not expired since it was initiated. Since yesterday I can continuously play chess/ Since… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Adults of PPD, do you have friends who just can't get a relationship despite being good potential partners?Tons. Women who would objectively be considered their “equals” or lower - be that looks, income, morality, maturity, demographic, etc… - think they deserve the best which is often an impossibility. Many of these men have had relationships. LTR’s that ended in one way or another because the woman wanted more. When realistically there is nothing another or new man or series of men will offer that is ultimately any greater than what they could have established were the average woman capable of reci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Adults of PPD, do you have friends who just can't get a relationship despite being good potential partners?poo-pee-doo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:35 PM |
| 1 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for themThe sentiment is semi-right. Collectively men are and will abscond social expectations if what they were taught is to be expected for the ‘average man’ is reserved for the upper echelon. It is far more complex than “video-games & bare minimums are enough for most men”. It is a matter of Capitalism having destroyed any semblance of purpose in an Archetypal level outside of the pursuit of absurd amounts of Money. If you’re a man in the US chances are you grew up in a home that, divorced or not, br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:29 PM |
| 2 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for themNo idea what trendies are but vidya I’d assume are vid-ee-ya-oh games | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 03:43 PM |
| 1 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for themThe main problem with his post is the assumption that men are dropping out to play video games. This is far from the truth. Other parts of this are true: men aren’t getting the women they were led to believe would love them for doing the things they were told would result in a happy life/happy wife/child type scenario. Maybe in Japan there is a movement of recluse gamers. But the men that I know dropping out of society are the ones who will be the leaders of society in a decade. This is a comple… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 03:09 PM |
| 1 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since there's nothing left for themYou are dense if you don’t understand what he is saying. Beyond being a “free man” or “free woman”, there is an Archetypal narrative that has been a part of humanity since literally the dawn of time. And you indeed would not exist if this weren’t true. Part of that narrative in any state, city, tribe, led by chieftain, President, or governor has been: the average man will work in a given field he is suited for and raise children with a woman from the same environment. It is not refusing to work … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 02:59 PM |
| 1 | having sex while moderately drunk isn't rapeYou clearly do not understand how alcoholism & blackouts work. I am not saying I was coerced into performing what duties I was capable of mechanically - which included speaking and “making decisions” - but I can assure you I would have made different decisions had I been consciously aware in the present moment without the influence of alcohol. I do not think one who has drank should have the right to retroactively deny their decisions. I’m merely pointing out because someone appears to be lucid … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 02:55 AM |
| 7 | having sex while moderately drunk isn't rapeI was an alcoholic once, and I would black out for days at a time. I would have fully functional conversations, go to work, hell, I’d end up in different countries sometimes. Depending on one’s alcohol consumption status appearing lucid doesn’t mean a damn thing. I could recite Shakespeare or read Faust aloud with a .4 BAC. Doesn’t mean I was sober enough to understand what I was reciting though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:49 AM |
| 3 | having sex while moderately drunk isn't rapeI don’t think I could count if I wanted to the number of times a beyond drunk me was coaxed into sex by sober women. I think I’ve technically been “raped” by women more than I’ve had sex considering I spent much of my active early sex life as a god level alcoholic - who if roles were reversed would have 100% been considered “taking advantage of”. In fact this seemed to be the standard mode of operation when I grew up: the guys got drunk & the girls picked the drunk guy they wanted to fuck & the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Divorce rate after 5 years hops from 7% to 18% to 30% for people who have 0, 1, and 2 premarital partners respectively. After that, it stabilizes in the 30s for 3+ partners.Nah, I’m not saying that lol. And exactly what I said about the racial implications of taking stats out of context. I was merely implying the MAJORITY of stats based posts are NOT something one should depend upon to inform their interpersonal dating or social relations. Agreeing with the person I was replying to. I am not saying “women are bad” or “men are bad”. Maybe if I just state this I can end this non-argument as follows: I don’t base my choices on stats, as doing so would lead to a fear-b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Divorce rate after 5 years hops from 7% to 18% to 30% for people who have 0, 1, and 2 premarital partners respectively. After that, it stabilizes in the 30s for 3+ partners.Why not? Murder & non negligent manslaughter (2106) total: 9,374 White: 4,192 Black: 4,935 […] https://ucr.fbi.gov/crime-in-the-u.s/2016/crime-in-the-u.s.-2016/topic-pages/tables/table-21 men who say they cheat 23% women who say they cheat 12% Married who say they cheat 12% divorced who say they cheated 26% [= 67% men don’t admit to cheating = 88% women don’t admit to cheating] “a little over 46% of respondents in a monogamous relationship said they had affairs” These stats cover who admitted to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Divorce rate after 5 years hops from 7% to 18% to 30% for people who have 0, 1, and 2 premarital partners respectively. After that, it stabilizes in the 30s for 3+ partners.“The view that it’s mostly men who cheat because their partners lose interest in sex is outdated. Science says that it’s actually women who struggle more with monogamy because they get bored in the bedroom. Women crave sexual variety and while some stifle their desire, others will be unfaithful.” Which part of the article is the link you’re talking about? And isn’t the article saying stats like the link you provided are “outdated”. And then goes on to describe research from different universitie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Divorce rate after 5 years hops from 7% to 18% to 30% for people who have 0, 1, and 2 premarital partners respectively. After that, it stabilizes in the 30s for 3+ partners.https://nypost.com/2022/08/23/women-are-more-likely-to-cheat-than-men-heres-why/ Women are more likely to cheat than men, new study shows 2022 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 07:28 AM |
| 1 | Divorce rate after 5 years hops from 7% to 18% to 30% for people who have 0, 1, and 2 premarital partners respectively. After that, it stabilizes in the 30s for 3+ partners.Exactly , don’t ask who cares | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 07:26 AM |
| 5 | “Give an ugly girl a chance, and after a while she’ll treat you like YOU are the ugly one”He’s judging the women he’s experienced dating that are ugly to him (sounds like internally or externally). The real moral of the story is date people you are actually attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 04:26 AM |
| 0 | Would you date a man if you found out he’s paid for sex in the past?There is 100% a difference between a hooker/prostitute & an escort/provider. If you don’t know the difference and have been with one of those then you’re either an idiot or have been brainwashed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 04:22 AM |
| 5 | Do male and female PPD users use the word "women" differently?Wretched Wench! Forsooth thine virginal Aphrodite shalt meet yon visage soon, shouldst thou damn the old hag to wander Hades. thou hast been spear-blocked by the devil, no less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Do male and female PPD users use the word "women" differently?Curious if this is seen as wrong? I tend to differentiate between “women” and “girls” as basically 20+ = woman, 19- = girl. Furthermore in the context of a dating discussion it feels obvious that discussing “women” means, “women in the context of sex/dating (excluding women who don’t or can’t have sex/date, or generally aren’t the ‘dating pool’ like 70 year old retirement home women),” and a step further I am implying ‘women’ = between ages of 20-40 because that’s how old the women I’d theoretic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Dating for a women is like shopping on Amazon where as a mans experience resembles building a niche small bussiness from the ground upThat’s ducked up. I honestly don’t know nor have I ever been around men who treat women like this. So it sounds absurd to me, but if that’s your experience I’m sorry you have to go through that. And it sounds like it’s upsetting so I’d avoid men altogether if I were you. Fuck ‘em. Just live your life & do what you want. Become a nun or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Dating for a women is like shopping on Amazon where as a mans experience resembles building a niche small bussiness from the ground upLiterally. If she’s getting a match a week that replies to more than one message she’s leaps ahead of most males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 05:53 AM |
| 2 | Dating for a women is like shopping on Amazon where as a mans experience resembles building a niche small bussiness from the ground upComplain to who? You? Where the fuck are women hanging out that men are complaining about how they look? Send a pic & I’ll give you honest assessment. So you’re saying you have a rocking body that you spend 2 hours a day sculpting yet no man finds you fit enough body & spirit to commit to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Dating for a women is like shopping on Amazon where as a mans experience resembles building a niche small bussiness from the ground upYa but you’re not those idiots. And who cares if there’s a lot of fat men or fat women the point is to be healthy for you. And when you have a body like mine, over a decade of regular exercise, you can be picky. I mean literally when you just have a body that is not obese and ideally not fat, a little chub is attractive - curves, men like - you can be picky and reject fat men. There are a lot of fat people because our society is a shitshow. Don’t be a part of the shitshow, rise above! And ya the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 05:13 AM |
| 5 | Dating for a women is like shopping on Amazon where as a mans experience resembles building a niche small bussiness from the ground upClearly, but the AVERAGE woman is fat in the US: “t he average American woman 20 years old and up weighs 170.6 pounds and stands at 63.7 inches (almost 5 feet, 4 inches) tall. And the average waist circumference? It's 38.6 inches.” So you literally just have to become not obese and shouldn’t have much trouble, tho of course becoming disciplined and not blaming lack of testosterone will help. Eat clean foods, workout 4-5x week 60 minutes minimum lifting and perform at least 30 min of cardio (walk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | The consequences of sexual liberation have been a disaster for the human race.One thing that seems to be incredibly clear however is that the notion it’s purely men who desire multiple partners has been proven wrong, as majority of men are satisfied sexually with a single monogamous partner their entire lives, whereas women (as recent post & study concluded) grow dissatisfied with long term partnerships - especially sexually - something like after 5 years women were 137% more likely to be unsatisfied or lose interest sexually in their partners. So I’d argue the commitment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 05:26 AM |
| 0 | The Floor matters more than the ceiling when it comes to your attractiveness to womenCan achieve & maintain an erection for long enough to get her off on call/when she’s in the mood which is initiated by him often but not too much. Maybe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/23 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.6,669 is a pretty solid size | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:40 AM |
| 2 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.Where and when are women taught this? Of the 40+ women I’ve been with I’d say 90% of them had a vibrator and were VERY interested in their own pleasure. In fact I’d argue women are taught their pleasure matters but mens “getting off” matters - so they view getting their partner off as a chore that needs to be done mechanically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:22 AM |
| 11 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.Like what world do you live in where ANY woman born after 1980 is waiting at home with a pie on the oven for George to get home from the office? Such a joke comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:20 AM |
| 5 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.That is bullshit. Have you ever been IN a relationship? Males are expected to have LESS emotion over time and carry the burden of the woman’s feelings 110% of the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:19 AM |
| 22 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.Obvious tho. And that is the unspoken problem: women are largely incapable of being happy in long term or committed relationships, or remaining reciprocally sexually attracted to men. Women are…not good ltr partners by nature, study suggests (if one equates ltr happiness with consistent sexual satisfaction). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Women Are Significantly More Likely To Lose Interest In Sex In Long Time Relationships In Spite Of Age, Relationship Satisfaction, Sexual Satisfaction, and Child Rearing Status.Seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 04:11 AM |
| – | Why don’t people acknowledge the power balance women have over menSo you’re saying men can’t be raped or manipulated into sex or taken advantage of by women because really they just can’t control their boner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.Right, but it’s that sort of logic that no one can really disagree with (the morality of “cheating” in a situation where not-cheating is worse kinda negates the whole it being actual cheating in the first place) and I feel this is not accounted for when looking at stats or surveys like that. But I didn’t see the questionnaire and maybe they worded it like “in a healthy relationship, (ie without abuse), is cheating acceptable for women?” in which case that’s pretty fucked that 1 in 4 women see ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 05:15 AM |
| 0 | Study finds that only 36% of liberal women think cheating is always wrong, whereas as 71% of conservative women think cheating is always wrong.My guess is the women answering this are thinking “Women’s rights blah blah feminist ideas - it’s ok for women to cheat because she’s probably cheating due to an abusive situation or for love and while I would never cheat, I support women being free to pursue what they want! and it’s wrong for men to cheat because they only cheat because they are [bad horny] men….women can cheat because they have a good reason when they do..” Something like that unconsciously leading them to believe it’s accepta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How are there enough high value men for all of the women who feel entitled to them?In real life women do have standards, and desires of an ideal, and many factors play into whether these are followed. We all know you can’t stop love from arising between who it will. But what about the less pragmatic or more practical or any level of seriousness daters who seek either pure pleasure or pre-planned partnerships for mostly objective reasons - be that orgasmic Friday night, long term shared expenses, desire for a child raised in a familial environment, social standing & etiquette/e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 05:13 PM |
| 0 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.What? Did I leave an all-caps comment? Or are you simply saying ALL THESE ALPHITA CHADFEM SIMPCEL DEMOCRABLICANS ARE PROBABLY LIBSIVE GPT-NPC’S FARMING UPTICK KARMA FOR DIVISIVE GENDER DYSPHORIA UAP PSYOPS CAMPAIGN PILLS | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/23 02:47 AM |
| 0 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.Agree & understand what you’re saying It’s smart to remember online tho, in an echo chamber, the loudest opinions resonate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.What impact will the world events have on that generation, in you or your teachers opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.I think you and many people, unfortunately rightly harbor an extremely pessimistic attitude towards age-gap relationships. I personally have dated women 10 years younger and 10 years older than me, and neither were due to seeking a woman based on age. The women older than me were not shy about the fact they were exclusively dating younger men. Mostly for sexual reasons. They had children already, and a life entirely separated from their sexual exploits. One woman made it clear she didn’t need or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.This is the funny part that’s overlooked - by constantly blaming men for “taking advantage” of younger women who “don’t know any better” these women are effectively saying all women who date older men are dumb, lack awareness, can’t be responsible for themselves or their own agency. At what arbitrary (or not) age cut-off does the female become responsible for her choices in regards to who she fucks or marries in these women’s minds? Is a 21 year old female the victim when a 31 year old dates her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Is romance dead?I don’t think it works like that - a man “getting better”. Think of it like this, a common scenario, guys in a relationship with his girlfriend and it’s love and rainbows for a year, then something happens (natural stages of love progress from sparks to where it becomes a choice one need be aware of), and she is unconsciously losing interest unaware it’s just natural for love to fade into something else. She doesn’t tell the man this. But he feels it. She doesn’t even tell herself this. But she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Is romance dead?If it didn’t work people wouldn’t use it. It’s often not successful as an obvious tactic. Like most of “red pill” it has to be natural. And like anything, overdone, it won’t work either. But I’m not red pill or blue pill or whatever so I don’t have much commentary beyond dating and romance has died. I’m in my 30’s and women (and men) are different now than they were a decade ago when it comes to love/romance/dating. Social media, systemic issues, and general human idiocy is to blame. Men are to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Is romance dead?“What if” is useless in a day and age when “what happens” is as described. Beyond “Chad” getting laid from a short text and normal Bob getting rejected with a bundle of flowers or handwritten letter in iambic pentameter, romantic gestures are seen as “creepy” and “desperate” to women that aren’t already in love with the man performing them. And only then, in the context of love, are romantic gestures acceptable sparingly. There is basically no way to make a modern woman leave you faster than to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 10:01 PM |
| 5 | Has the cognitive dissonance and gaslighting of women towards men, completely taken over this sub?I tried to join, let’s see what happens. Do they let biologically gendered men join? Or discriminate against gay or bisexual or bicurious or trans men/women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 03:25 PM |
| 4 | Has the cognitive dissonance and gaslighting of women towards men, completely taken over this sub?Can’t see anything because private, and I’m a male | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 02:27 AM |
| 7 | Has the cognitive dissonance and gaslighting of women towards men, completely taken over this sub?Can someone please link to these groups? I’d like to see them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Has the cognitive dissonance and gaslighting of women towards men, completely taken over this sub?Why doesn’t someone report it to Facebook then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 01:00 AM |
| 1 | I truly believe that if sexwork was decriminalized, and normalized, a lot of people would be happierIt’s not just legalization of sex work that would make a difference, nor just normalization of prostitution, but a complete rebranding of sex work as a whole is what would make the largest impact. No more shame for men having high sex drives No more pimps, regulation, and perhaps even TRAINING on HEALING modalities instead of straight letting a guy get off and that’s that. Ie Make sexual services less about men getting his rocks off for a pretty penny and more about teaching men to appreciate th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | The Wingwoman is the KEY to landing dates.That’s certainly true but I don’t think it was about physical attractiveness levels in my case. It was more confidence/charisma/charm. Irish Courage providing a silver tongue. Or mostly the fact that you’re not trying to get laid and are in fact being positive and trying to make someone else look good unintentionally makes you appear humble and not in want or not desperate, and that’s attractive. Plus being the guy that brings everyone together makes you the dynamic link in this novel social set… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 02:32 AM |
| 2 | The Wingwoman is the KEY to landing dates.This. Every time I tried hooking a buddy up with a girl…even if I brought multiple girls, they would gravitate towards me or rather be alone than with my friends. Best way to get laid is to try to get your buddy laid! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 05:59 AM |
| 1 | What self improvement does manosphere offer to men that fitness, finance, fashion, social skills, etc communities do not?Definitely. Charisma is huge. And that doesn’t mean you need to be boisterous. Everyone has their own natural charisma they can pick up in a social setting if the dynamics of each individual are allowed to play out. You can have charisma as the top dawg as much as you can shine as a silent killer in the shadows - ie dark | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 10:35 PM |
| 1 | What self improvement does manosphere offer to men that fitness, finance, fashion, social skills, etc communities do not?Lol your missing the point bud if you think learning to be socially adequate makes you a court jester. The same bullshit that applies to attracting women applies to courting men in business and fighting them with your fists. It’s a dance and you need to learn it if you want to succeed in life. Life is a chess board for some people. Learn to play when you have to or be a pawn. Doesn’t red pill teach you this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 12:58 PM |
| 9 | What self improvement does manosphere offer to men that fitness, finance, fashion, social skills, etc communities do not?This is true. And obvious. But what a lot of men didn’t get in high school and college that myself and others seemed to figure out was beyond looks what attracted women ie social dynamics/style/talents etc or better what kept women coming back. A lot of men still don’t seem to grasp sexual dynamics or learning general subtle social cues. Or how to be flirty without being creepy. What “be yourself” actually means. Why you don’t need to be a Chad to get laid. But that seems to have changed with so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 03:58 AM |
| 1 | What self improvement does manosphere offer to men that fitness, finance, fashion, social skills, etc communities do not?It’s not that they are the best resource at all for this info or advice - it’s that men go there because they want to get a girlfriend or get laid or understand why they keep failing at dating or relationships. And instead of saying something vague, it gives men something to do that is concrete and practical and that they should be doing anyways that perhaps they wouldn’t have done if it weren’t for their situation with women. I think this is the only place red pill succeeds: if instead of you c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/23 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Reason why women can stay single easily is because sex is easy for themIt doesn’t matter how it was - what matters is how it is. And I don’t know what world you grew up in but in the western US women were pretty damn open about how they felt and what they did in my demographic Every girl I’ve fucked and dated has had a nightstand full of dildos and vibrators. Toy play and masturbation is ENCOURAGED for women. These same women would laugh in disgust at the thought of their boyfriend with a pocket pussy My point was totally misread by you. I am obviously exaggerating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/23 12:54 AM |
| 0 | Reason why women can stay single easily is because sex is easy for themI don’t think it’s about conquest it’s about connection. Masturbation for women is an orgasm is an orgasm they could with less difficulty than men have in the presence of or as a direct result of someone else. Masturbation for men is an orgasm as a result of the inability to have that orgasm connected with another human being. It’s the fact that men can’t get laid that makes getting laid so much better than lotion and Kleenex. Men are taught masturbation is a sign of moral failure and being a lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 04:40 AM |
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