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| 14 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him. | RELATIONSHIPS | AmazingInterview1493 | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/23 09:08 PM |
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| 2 | Do you consider yourself attractive?I honestly don't know. Everyone around me tells me I'm attractive, but I don't feel like it. I look at models and I don't feel like I look like them. However, whenever my friends post photos of me on Instagram, they get way more likes than normal (if that's an indication of anything), and when I download dating apps, like for example, Tinder, I get the "100+ people like you" within a few hours (is that normal?). Everyone around me constantly tells me how attractive I am all the time, and it lite… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/23 04:15 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.That was a perfect analogy. Thank you. I should meditate on this more. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/23 10:53 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.Thank you! I think I like /r/Diabla better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/23 05:31 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.He's satisfied with where he is and wishes he get something better (he works in the public sector but he could work in the private sector for more earning potential), but he lacks the confidence to pursue more. He has told me repeatedly he wishes he were like me when he grows up (as a joke, of course), but I know it's kind of true. I'm much more ambitious and confident. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/23 05:30 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.He kind of does? He said to me, "You're probably going to leave me behind when you leave to NYC" and I just 😅 giggle. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/23 05:28 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.Thank you! But I want you to strongly consider the fact that you may be peaking in overall desirability (again, to men) at this point in your life. Thanks for this realization; I'm going to meditate on that more. well, if you want the best, I'd go out and find him today. That's the thing, I don't think I'm going to find that man in the city I'm currently in; I'm going to find him on Wall Street in NYC or in the equivalent in Miami. I'm literally only in this city to get what I can out of it (lea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/23 05:26 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.I'm living with a roommate that annoys me endlessly, hahaha. I prefer living alone or with a partner. You're right, though; I can try it out for a long weekend! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.Why not? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.Why divided by 10? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/23 05:23 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/23 12:11 AM |
| 1 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.I don't think he has had much luck because I think he lacks a bit of confidence. The very first time we hung out, he said something like, "I like to financially support younger people" although it wasn't 100% like that, but very similar. I think I'm the first person he has ever been with that treats him well and is sexually attracted to him. His ex rarely had sex with him and the other ex was abusive. I mean, he's a single man with no kids with a master's degree in engineering and works as a sen… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/23 01:29 AM |
| 2 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.Wow, it's so wild having someone else list everything down like that, but yes, this 1000000%. You're right; I have nothing to lose. I'm 100% okay with playing that role all the time; I literally am that person. I always say, "In this life, people can say I'm mean, crazy, whatever, but literally nobody can ever say I'm boring." 😂 He also really wants to live with me because he wants to adopt my good habits. I go to bed early (it's 9 PM and I'm passing out after these messages; I'm usually in bed … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/23 01:19 AM |
| -6 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.Yes, it seems as if you understand the situation 100%. :) I think you should only move in with him if and when you realize you want to be with him for the long-haul. I guess that's my problem. I do like him, but at the same time, I know that I can get so much better. Like, he's truly a great person, but I know that I still have so much more to experience in terms of relationships and people. But, I'm also the type of person who when I'm with someone, I'm not attracted to anyone else. Right now, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/23 12:44 AM |
| 4 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.This might be the best advice here. Thank you for this. /r/Diabla sounds way better for me. Thanks again. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/23 12:30 AM |
| -11 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.If this is a funtime relationship, then you do whatever feels fun. I'm not sure I follow what part or your goals or strategy is "redpill" and some clarity there might help us out with advising you. Sorry, I'm replying very rapidly because I have basically zero free time these next few days. Maybe I'm misunderstanding redpill? I'm navigating in a world with men and social strategy, and I want to be on top. I take very good care of my appearance, and I'm starting to notice that "bigger" men are be… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/23 12:29 AM |
| 4 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.He knows I'm planning to move. He wants to come with me to NYC. I always slightly chuckle when he says this to me, haha. Because if not, then this is just a temporary dating situation and many of the red pill principles are not going to be very relevant. I guess you're right; I haven't thought about it that way. Is it shitty to be in a temporary relationship? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.Yes, of course, I would 100% sit down with him before I even consider actually moving in with him. I would ask who's paying for the rent, the utilities, groceries, etc. Sometimes I feel as if other Redditors are lacking nuance or are people genuinely so brainless that others feel as if they have to guide people with the most minimum things. can you afford this as a student? I pay $800 for where I currently live, so I can afford that, but I wouldn't want to pay into my boyfriend's condo. If I wer… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/23 12:24 AM |
| 1 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.Okay, thanks. I wasn't sure if it would be a hard yes or no. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/06/23 12:20 AM |
| 2 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.Six months! It's in the title. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/23 10:36 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.Thank you! I'm glad it worked for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/23 10:13 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.Yes, exactly. However, do you think it's too soon? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/23 10:13 PM |
| 1 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.I mean, I like my living situation now (I live in front of my university) so I immediately said no, and told him that we can talk more about it in the future. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/23 09:56 PM |
| 6 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.Thank you so much for your words. Your wording shows you're level headed and insightful. 🙏 Again, I would have to clarify rent payments with him, but I don't think he would charge me rent. I would feel bad and offer to pay for half of utilities. His love language is gift giving like my dad, so I know that he genuinely loves spoiling me and if I don't have to pay rent, then I can give him more small presents. You should have seen his face light up when I got him his Valentine's day gift! Long ter… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/23 09:55 PM |
| 0 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.I'm neither interested in getting married nor having kids. He told me he doesn't care if I don't care for an official title of "marriage." As for goals, that's a good question. I like him and I like how supportive he is of all my ambitions and I like how he's a genuinely an awesome person. My personal goals are to move to NYC and do well on Wall Street and then move to Miami. I also want to continue traveling (I've been to 50 countries). As for him, my girl friend told me that she thinks he want… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/23 09:50 PM |
| -4 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.I don't think that's fair. I know if we wanted to have that specific conversation we would, but I said I was okay for right now when he asked. I literally am completely comfortable with talking about finances; he knows I'm financially responsible. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/23 09:46 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.I think it is generally ill advised to move in with a man you aren’t at least engaged to. The thing is, before I learned about all of this, I only moved in with men that I was just dating. I never had a problem with it. I hear what you're saying, and I mean, I did tell him no, but that's why I'm posting here to hear others opinions. Your last statement is kind of confusing. Would you be paying rent to him or would you not be? If the latter I would definitely say absolutely not I don't know if I … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/23 09:19 PM |
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