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| 0 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it. | Rant/Venting | Amazing_Egg | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 12:28 AM |
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| 2 | Should I end the relationship?Yeah, she's one of those girls that can't handle a stable, healthy relationship. She needs drama and the guy deffinitely delivers. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Should I end the relationship?No, she started behaving like shit in order to force me to dump her, so she could go be with him without actually facing the discomfort of dumping me herself. Where tf did you get that from? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Should I end the relationship?Nope. I got way too clingy and instead of her telling me she just started pulling away, met another guy at her graduation party, asked for some time off, saw him during said time and made it so I dumped her in order to be with him | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/25 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Should I end the relationship?Well, not quite. Some parts of it are resolved, and others are not. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/25 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Should I end the relationship?For me they were both a prize and a necessity. I feel like I wasn't able to focus on anything else until I got that out of my system. At the moment, I find myself craving achievements in other areas of my life because I know that once I got one girl (my first GF that only lasted me a month), the block was removed and even if she does leave, more will come. That's exactly what happened to me. My first GF left (my relationship with her happened not long before I wrote the original comment), and I … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/24 12:28 AM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.Damn, I'm sorry for that bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/24 11:58 AM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.Oh yeah, i'm not saying otherwise. I got angry at him but even then I recognised that he's done nothing wrong. like the three guy friends of mine who all banged my sister. Wait what? Did that actually happen? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/24 08:59 AM |
| 2 | I have accomplished 95% of the things I wanted and dreamed from life, yet I feel empty and in happier than everAgreed. Did it help me improve and increase my chances of getting what I wanted? Of course!, but from here on, I'll forge my own path and learn from my own mistakes. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/23 09:44 PM |
| 6 | I have accomplished 95% of the things I wanted and dreamed from life, yet I feel empty and in happier than everTRP just teaches you how to get laid and not much more. Pretty much. I've got no reason to be here anymore. All this place does for me now is make me insecure because I chose to be with one girl instead of going around fucking everything that moves. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Should I end the relationship?If you say it like that it makes sense, but to me every girl I interact with is special. They all have their unique set of experiences and stories to tell, and the traumtised ones activate a sort of saviour complex (does more harm than good if I'm being honest). | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/23 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Should I end the relationship?Damn bro. What led you to spend 12 years like this? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/23 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Should I end the relationship?Thanks man, I feel more at ease now, but I'll look for the book and donwload it. I've realised I don't really want hookups now, but the hardest part still remains in managing retarded feelings, like you said. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/23 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Should I end the relationship?Yeah, it's a nice lesson, although i'm mainly in it for the affection that she provides. I really need it to function properly. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/23 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Should I end the relationship?Thanks bro. I think I'd rather preserve my ability to form meaningful connections in the future. Something similar happened to me when I started making out with random women at parties, but in a way it helped me reduce the oneitis I felt for a lot of them in the beginning. I lost count after 20, I believe. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/23 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Should I end the relationship?I get it. I think trying it would help me understand what it's like, and would certainly help me kill the remainder of my oneitis. But at the same time it would rip me apart on the inside. I REALLY want connection. It's all I've wanted all my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/23 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Should I end the relationship?I mean, I still want to be with her. I genuinely like her despite her issues, but I feel like I've had a knot in my stomach ever since I started dating her. I've thought about trying hookups, but i don't think I'd enjoy them. Maybe the first few nights, but it would tear me apart on the inside. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/23 08:49 PM |
| 5 | Should I end the relationship?I get it. Seen it with my own eyes several times. Mind if I vent for a minute? The only good thing that has come out of this relationship is the fact that it made me realise that GF or not, i'm still miserable 90% of the time. She's done nothing wrong, is very feminine and affectionate, and tells me that she loves me multiple times a day, but for some reason I still can't quite get the thought that she'll leave me for someone else at some point out of my mind. This is putting me throught a lot o… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/23 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Should I end the relationship?Ima be real with you. I've caught myself thinking the exact same way people here criticise women for way more often than I'd like to admit. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/23 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Should I end the relationship?I regret it every second of it, As someone who's never experienced it, mind if I ask why you regret it? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/23 04:51 PM |
| 7 | Should I end the relationship?at times I wish to be with just one but don't really trust them Man, I have the same problem. Now that I have a GF I can't seem to get the thought that she might want to leave me at some point out of my mind, and it's hindering my ability to enjoy the relationship. I think, deep down, it stems from insecurity. Most of us came here looking for help because we felt like we weren't good enough and now, despite having improved to the point where girls actually want to be with us, we still believe we… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/23 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Strike While The Iron Is HotTrue. This is how I got my first GF. Was too much of a pussy to fuck her last time tho, so I'll go for it next time I meet up with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/23 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Dread game causing my girlfriend’s mental health to spiral… Too far?We’ve talked about it and she was turned off by it, and she likes the change in my overall energy. Well there you go. If you've changed back to a more masculine frame you don't need to torture her anymore. Now stay in this frame, but do it in a way that won't cause her pain. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/23 04:58 PM |
| 2 | From Average to Above Average.... Just Why?When you were 7 years old did you think, when I grow up, I want to be able to afford a 10 dollar bottle of wine instead of box wine. At 7 years old I was too busy trying to escape from reality because I was a pretty sensitive kid and my family yelled at me for absolutely everything. My only dream was to escape reality. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/23 07:33 PM |
| 3 | From Average to Above Average.... Just Why?If I (or any man) could have his sex desire transmuted / controlled, would he still seek women? I can share my experience with this, which stemmed from trying NoFap for a year during the period of my life in which I got 0 attention from women. Yes, you can control and transmute it into something really good. Back then I used it to do incredibly well in school and every other thing I put my mind to. Every new skill I learned, I did so incredibly quickly, almost as if I had experience with it befo… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/23 07:30 PM |
| 1 | From Average to Above Average.... Just Why?If you can do that and still be happy, touché bro. I don't think most of us can tho. If you find the way share it with us. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/23 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Drugs and frameI'm sure that there is a way to keep the part that makes them wet tho. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/23 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Drugs and frameDon't waste your time arguing with the toxic ones here. I did and got flamed even harder for it lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/23 12:55 PM |
| 8 | Drugs and frameDunno man, women that generally take care of you, whether it's cleaning up your place or coming by to look after you when you're sick are pretty good if you ask me. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/23 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Drugs and frameShe wanted to mommy you to fix you up. Some women really get off on this frame. When you said you won’t stop she lost interest. For someone with mommy issues like myself, this sounds like a dream come true. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/23 12:51 PM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.I'm not saying you can't have a relationship or that women can't love you or give you affection. It's just that their love will always depend on what you give them in terms of time, money and attention, while yours will not be as conditional, so you can expect a loving relationship, but your love for their physical form alone will not be reciprocated, and they'll always expect you to do things for them, so it is a lot of time and energy. 100% agreed. But many of us red pilled men realize that it… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/23 08:38 AM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.I think I need to do some more introspection to realize what I want for the long term, but a relationship does still seem like the best option for me. Self actualization does bring me joy, but it's just not enough. Then again, I'm still too young to think about that. For now I'll just open myself up to new experiences, and see what lessons I learn from them. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/23 08:31 AM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.Yeah, I read a lot of what you said in the sidebar and I agree that they love us for what we provide. I do think I have the potential to become the kind of guy that pumps and dumps them, but then I see all the couples around me that are together for months or even years and I think damn, I want that. Hookups are something I'd like to try but maybe not sustain for my whole life (though it will help with breaking the oneitis cycle). | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 11:57 PM |
| 2 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.It depends on if it is based around romantic or sexual attraction. If it is purely sexual, jerking off regularly will fix it by making you less horny when you talk to women so you will think more clearly and you will judge them based on not only how they look but how they behave also. It's a mix of both. It always starts off as sexual (as you said, jerking off helps and ironically makes me more attractive because I don't seem desperate), and then, once the girl starts paying attention to me, it … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 09:08 PM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.Thanks man. Some of these comments hurt, but I'll manage. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 06:34 PM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.Yeah, I agree with you on that. Let's hope I can control my feelings tho, because this is actually quite a new experience for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 05:09 PM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.He said we would talk about it in more detail on our next appointment after I emailed him with one of the causes. We'll see how it goes. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 05:08 PM |
| 2 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.Nah, this was the case with the previous one but then he left the clinic and they sent me to a new one. I told him I had anxiety and he inmediately recommended some breathing exercises that helped me reduce it a lot, but by the time I was done explaining my overall state and problems (first appointment things) we had ran out of time. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.So why are you mad at this situation ? I'm happy about my situation with her. I love how feminine she acts when we're together. What I'm pissed is that I let my friend fuck her before I did, but I'll get over it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 04:36 PM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.I'm going to therapy for this kinda stuff, but they have so many patients that I can only get 2 or 3 appointments per month most of the time. it's gonna be a slow process but at least it seems like the guy knows what he's doing. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 04:33 PM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.I do "have options". It's just that they are not the kind I'm attracted to and I'm not going to fuck/date someone I'm not into. I am however doing my best to become more attractive to those that I am into. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.The only person you should be angry at is yourself for getting ONEitis for this trashy sloot. That's literally what I said bro. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 03:42 PM |
| -4 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.No one here is telling you to abuse women to maintain a relationship. That shit is not frame: That's just DV. I'm obviously not going to abuse her you dumbass. I was just stating the pattern I've seen in her previous relationships. My advice is to honestly listen to yourself. GTFO of red pill space for 60 days, and then just read, lift, sidebar. I'm 5 minutes into this and no, this couldn't be further away from how I behave around women. This is disgusting. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 03:40 PM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.She's not the only one, but she is the best looking. My problem is not that there aren't any women that I can date/fuck, but that there aren't many that I actually want to do it with. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 03:06 PM |
| 0 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.She isn't attracted to you, she lied and you cope about your loser of friend so you will feel better Dunno man, I've made out with her like 6 times already and she keeps coming back for more and constantly texts me. If she was really into you, she will make you know, openly. She did. Date other women dude, it's not a big deal I will bro. I just have to find them. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 03:02 PM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.they were probably already talking/banging long before that Talking yeah, but knowing that guy, he wouldn't do anything that he knows would make me upset without asking me first. I'm basically angry at myself for telling him to go ahead. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 02:59 PM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.If you're feeling disdain about a woman's sexual history who you're just trying to smash, you have a strong "protect and provide" instinct. If you're instinct is this powerful, it's likely that you're the type of guy who should stay away from hookups otherwise you'll end up in a relationship with a woman who you don't actually want to have a relationship with. In my case it's not so much about her having been around, but her having been with him specifically. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.So to summarize: you’re pressed on a girl that sounds like she gets around often and is currently fucking the loser of your friend group. Not currently. He dumped her because she started ignoring him after realising that I liked her. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.Damn, you couldn't think of constructive criticism so instead you chose to throw insults. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 02:50 PM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.Bro, this was the name reddit suggested for this account. It was originally supposed to be a throwaway | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 02:45 PM |
| 2 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.Yeah, I've known that I want a relationship for a while, but none of the women that are into me are relationship material. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 11:48 AM |
| 0 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.You don't. It's not a matter of if she's had sex or not. It's a matter of how many people she's done it with and what kind of people they were. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 11:47 AM |
| 2 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.I hope I get over it already. The last 4 years of my life have been a complete nightmare because of situations like this. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 11:29 AM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.Yeah, I learned that from this. I have to be more decisive, cuz that's what really sent things south in this case. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 11:28 AM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.I know that (still haven't fully internalized it tho). Whenever I start talking to multiple women I always end up getting oneitis for whichever one I consider "the best", and then everything goes to shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 11:24 AM |
| 0 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.Honestly, I don't know what I learned. There's only pain at the moment. At least now I know not to let my friends make moves on girls I'm uncertain about. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 10:43 AM |
| 1 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.How do you stop yourself from developing oneitis? Talking to more women doesn't help. I always end up getting it for whichever one I consider the best option and them fumble everything because of it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 10:41 AM |
| 2 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.I can't just lose them. Especially him. I won't distance myself from the entire friend group (and basically be alone) because of 1 guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 10:38 AM |
| -18 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.I know for a fact she wants a relationship, but is not capable of holding it with someone who doesn't abuse her in some way. I agree on the oneitis thing, and would certainly like to stop doing it. I just can't. No matter how many women I'm talking to at any given time, I always end up falling hard for one of them and fumbling everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 10:35 AM |
| -7 | I cucked myself really bad. Now I can't stop punching my fucking wall every time I think about it.No, but I get oneitis very easily and tend to ignore red flags. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/23 10:28 AM |
| 7 | Dread Game is so effective that women don’t even know why they are arousedYou don’t have to cheat on her. But you can start off by being friendly with other women right in front of her. That’s an example of indirectly communicating your abundance. Stuff like that. That's actually solid advice. There's this girl that I made out with a couple of times and I met her only because she had a friend that I also kissed and almost banged (didn't do it because I realised I didn't actually like her). And I swear to god, the more women I talk to in front of her, the more affectio… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/23 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Dread Game is so effective that women don’t even know why they are arousedMakes sense. It has been way weaker since I started doing that, but it still happens. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/23 11:27 AM |
| 4 | Dread Game is so effective that women don’t even know why they are arousedTruth be said. Oneitis has been way weaker ever since I started talking to more women. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/23 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Dread Game is so effective that women don’t even know why they are arousedOk, but I think we could use some explanation on how to actually do this. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/23 11:36 PM |
| 11 | Dread Game is so effective that women don’t even know why they are arousedBut I fixed it. I don’t pay for anything, her attention isn’t free, and I match her energy. I don’t give her anything she doesn’t give in return. I’ve patched the glitch. HOW?!? That's what I need to know but no one seems to be able to explain it to me properly. How do you stop yourself from developing oneitis in the first place? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/23 11:35 PM |
| -3 | How do I develop the killer instinct in life and seduction?Men are internally validated and women are externally validated: meaning women NEED men and their external environments to respond to them. I wish it was like that for me. I'm broken. The second a girl that I like stops giving me validation I crumble. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/23 12:58 PM |
| 4 | Red flags in a woman you should NEVER ignore.I agree, especially about the addictions part. I have a female friend that smokes like a chimney and she's one of the nicest and most chill women I've spent time with (also quite funny). Does she have issues? Of course, but it's nothing that makes her unpleasant to be around. In fact, her boyfriend is always saying how lucky he is to be with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/23 11:53 AM |
| 10 | why do women do this?What's the expected result? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | My Size CONSTANTLY Bothers Me As a ManDude, even if you were still 58kgs you'd be alright. I see couples where the girl is hot as fuck and the guy is probably no more than 60kgs wherever I go. Hell, I weigh 55-58kg (varies from time to time) and I've still had decent success despite not lifting weights. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/23 11:09 AM |
| 2 | I dont want to take the red pill, but its hard finding a reason not to.You said you've checked off your bucket list, invested money and basically done whatever you wanted. The only thing you have left to do is forming your own family. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/23 02:36 AM |
| 12 | I dont want to take the red pill, but its hard finding a reason not to.That's the thing. You've beat almost beaten the game, and that's the only thing left to do. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/23 10:27 AM |
| 11 | I dont want to take the red pill, but its hard finding a reason not to.Thing is, I want to do almost everything in life, including maybe raising a kid in the future, but I can't do that if I stay single and just look for FWB's. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/23 10:26 AM |
| 35 | [FR 5] Walmart hb8 I cold approached was willing to hangout, but I backpedalled as soon as she said she had a boyfriend. I threw it all away with that L response.If you say that dropping the interaction after hearing she has a boyfriend is an L, then what is a W to you? | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/23 07:55 AM |
| 3 | The post wall massacre is real.They turn from near models to old baba yagas with short hair and a double chin. I don't know why it is so brutal over there... probably food? As a bulgarian, I can say that the food is a contributor (I live in Spain but every time I go back to Bulgaria the meat makes me feel sick if I eat as much as I do in Spain). Also the shitty living conditions (at least in Bulgaria). Everyone is stressed about making ends meet, and no one that I know is actually happy. In the end it catches up to you. My gr… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/23 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Lessons from a former incel.I was often overlooked by women I liked and I would have to watch my friends hook up with every girl I liked. It affected my self esteem a lot, and I really struggled with setting any value I brought to the table. This is literally me at the moment. I don't even get a chance to prove myself since they just end up going for someone else from the beginning. The irony is that I ended up making out with one of the most attractive and also pickiest girls we know. As far as my friends are aware, the i… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/23 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Lessons from a former incel.I'd like to read your stories man, so post them if you feel like it. In my case I don't know if I can call myself an incel. On one hand there are girls that want to sleep with me, but on the other, they are not the ones I am actually attracted to, so I don't feel like I would enjoy fucking them and thus don't. This is a big contributor to my shitty mental health, I think, because every one of my friends is able to get the girls they want. I'm the only one who doesn't, and because of that, also t… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/23 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Actually UnpluggingYup | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/23 06:01 PM |
| 7 | Actually UnpluggingThat's why I got into web development, but I still have two years left until I finish school for it. There's also the fact that I have a pretty cool friend group where I live currently, but I'm already starting to see it fall apart, and by the time I finish trade school I highly doubt that there will be anything left of it. The women in the balkans are amazing tho. Still mostly relationship oriented (let's hope I don't jinx it) and extremely beautiful. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/23 10:05 PM |
| 10 | Actually UnpluggingMy parents are Bulgarian and I've been considering moving there. The only thing stopping me right now is money. It is not a nice place if you're poor. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/23 07:00 PM |
| 67 | Am I over reacting?Dude, if she offered to show you their convo without you even asking there is nothing to worry about. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/23 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Getting Laid a Lot Requires You to be “Creepy”Yes, and no. If you want to get laid a lot you also need to refine the way you approach women. This means that if you're getting more girls saying you're a creep than ones playing along, you should probably think of a different way to approach if you want to broaden you dating pool. Sure, being as straightforward as you are may work for someone who is looking for a very specific type of girl, but it won't for someone who just wants to get laid and doesn't care who he does it with. Don't be afrai… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/23 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Action and beliefI think it's more of a matter of whether you really believe in youself. I had 0 game back then, and yet I managed to kiss them because I believed I could do it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/23 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Action and beliefYes. My game was dogshit, but I was confident I could pull them (partly because I was drunk) and I did anyways. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/23 01:30 PM |
| 7 | Action and beliefAnd you'd be surprised that your potential of pulling girls right now, being a skinny poor fuck is way higher than you think. True. The hottest girls I've made out with, I managed to pull literally at my worst in terms of looks and confidence. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/23 07:21 PM |
| 6 | Action and beliefAnyone who has ever lifted themselves out of hell and back into real life knows at some point you must stop thinking and just act, even if it’s not perfectly planned out. True. I was watching Euphoria and the thought "I wanna be as jacked as one of the main characters here" crossed my mind, so I hit up a buddy of mine that goes to a gym that's close to my house and 2 hours later I was working out with him. It's been 5 weeks since then and now I feel like shit if I don't work out. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/23 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Ditch Western WomenObsessionals that need to be spoon-fed information and instruction because they can't function on their own. Shit, I'm like that. How can I stop being like that? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Ditch Western WomenI'm not in the US (thank god). I live in european territory that is very close to Africa. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/23 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Ditch Western WomenFar easier than Eastern women, and a world away from white women. I don't have much experience with eastern women despite being from an eastern country. What are they like? | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/23 10:27 PM |
| 8 | Ditch Western WomenMoving from a first to a second or Third World country just seems degenerate to me. I genuinely wonder how people living in those countries view (especially young) foreigners who go to live there. I think they think those people are regarded. Lots of south americans come to where I live and they all say the same thing. Those countries are only "nice" if you have lots of money. Otherwise it sucks to live there. A colombian guy that arrived a few months ago literally said "what I wanted the most w… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/23 10:26 PM |
| 8 | Ditch Western WomenWell, there are lots of Colombians coming to where I live and they all say that Colombia is only nice if you're rich. Otherwise it's not worth staying. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/23 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Ditch Western WomenIt's funny you say that because lots of latin americans come to my island and all of them say that life is shit there. The last one I spoke to (colombian), said that what he wanted the most was to leave the country and start over in a better place. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/23 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Field report 2 - Went clubbing with a couple friendsMy friends would go nuts if I tell them I kissed someone 5 years older than me lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/23 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Field report 2 - Went clubbing with a couple friendsI found one that plays music like that lol. The issue is that only 20 something year olds or over go there, and I'm still 18, so making out with some cute girl there will be complicated (and quite frankly few of them were my type anyways). | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/23 01:48 PM |
| 27 | Field report 2 - Went clubbing with a couple friendsYou've got a good point with the having a good time part. I mainly hate clubs because I don't like the music they play there, but if I ever find one that I like, I think I'll actually start to enjoy myself more in those situations. Now that I think of it, every time I've ended up making out with some girl at a party it was because I was vibing on my own or with my friends, and then she came along, so thank you for reminding me of that. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/23 06:03 PM |
| 17 | Do girls NEVER help with life? Never ever??I actually wanna know this as well lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/23 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Never fucking show your weaknesses.I didn't think that being high in openness and extraversion would be a bad thing tho. But to be honest, I wouldn't really like it if my girl was too comfortable around people. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/23 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Never fucking show your weaknesses.What's up with musician girls? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/23 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Providing A Safe Space For WomenExactly. It is even more blatant when they are 13-16. I literally met one that screamed that she was lesbian and a couple of hours later proceeded to cry because some dude she was into had a girlfriend. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/23 08:15 AM |
| 9 | Providing A Safe Space For WomenHaving dealt with tons of mentally troubled teenagers, I can tell you that most do not believe that transing will help them at all (quite the opposite). Most turn lesbian, only to then become straight again once the right man comes along. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/23 11:29 AM |
| 3 | I Broke a Crucial Rule of TRPShe obviously wouldn't be excited about moving to a foreign country with a man all of a sudden A year is plenty of time to get to know eachother. I'd try to pitch the idea to her and maybe even her parents. I will live at my grandma's for a good chunk of time, big house, but no fruity nights with grandma sleeping in the next room. I don't know what your grandma is like but mine doesn't give a fucc. In fact, she's happy when I bring girls over. Besides, if the house is so big, I'm sure that there… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/23 10:19 PM |
| 3 | I Broke a Crucial Rule of TRPYou can also take her with you | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/23 10:01 PM |
| 2 | FR from 4/27/23 - Had a good date then got ghostedI think my style is already on point for what the girls I'm into actually like. Fitness is where I'm a bit lacking as I'm quite skinny. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/23 12:12 PM |
| 3 | FR from 4/27/23 - Had a good date then got ghostedOh I would gladly do that if it weren't for the fact that I don't find the girls I can actually sleep with attractive. It's the same with making out. Once I did it 10+ times I stopped wanting to do it at any chance, but I'm still a virgin and I'm yet to find a girl that is attractive enough (not asking for a 10, even a 5 would suffice), and that I don't scare away by getting oneitis for. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/23 01:47 PM |
| 3 | FR from 4/27/23 - Had a good date then got ghostedOneitis symptoms started to emerge from that as I witnessed whatever connection I was trying to build dissolve in front of me once more. Been to the forums to discuss connection, attraction and this FR. Also spoke with 2 classmates about this (jacked RP bro and a girl). See, this is where it all went wrong. I happens to me all the time as well and that's why I fumble the girls I'm actually attracted to. I just can't get over it no matter what I do, and it's the reason why I haven't been able to … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Reflexive ImpotenceNot so bad to be honest. As long as she's loyal and not annoying to deal with I'm cool, and most of them are. They have some "quirks", but I have plenty of my own as well, so it's fine. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/23 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Reflexive ImpotenceTo be fair, I still see loads of stunning (real) women out there, and as this guy said, the competition isn't very high. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/23 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Proud of myself and shifting focus.Maybe you don't feel the need to be free it's up to you but most people would want that Don't get me wrong, I do. That's why I'm studying Computer Science. Once I get enough experience I can start my own company and work towards reducing my workload while increasing my income, but until then, I do not intend on depriving myself from the life experiences I have missed due to my strict upbringing. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/23 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Proud of myself and shifting focus.You need to be so fucking rich money ain't shit to you and you can't do that with that mindset But he's literally working in that as well?? Life isn't all about money, and that's also not the only thing women care about. Use me as an example. I've already lost count of how many girls I've made out with at parties in less than a year, and one of my exes wouldn't stop giving me 101's at the last party we went to. All of this while having just over 900 bucks total to my name and being very frugal w… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/23 03:05 PM |
| 2 | How do I fix my brain and mind?Maybe it was the pounds of weed I smoked for years as a teenager and vaping, daily porn use since I was like 10 which became hours daily eventually, being chronically glued to a screen, fucking tik tok frying my brain, all these dopamine vices. Honestly, for me it is the exaggerated porn use. I do smoke weed but only when I go to parties once in a blue moon. Once I manage to get a grip on the porn use my other vices dissappear and I can feel myself less anxious which also makes my brain work way… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/23 03:12 AM |
| 3 | Woman are interested but life is still a mess.Yeah... that's how a friend of mine ended up jail. I don't recommend you try this. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/23 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Woman are interested but life is still a mess.Also, a jacked dude with bald head looks fucking badass, think Hitman. The issue is that in his case it's not just the head. It's ALL the hair on his body including stuff like eyebrows. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/23 11:53 AM |
| 3 | The rise of hypersexualized girls and f*ckboysThank you for waking me up to the fact that I'm literally wasting my time watching self improvement videos on YouTube. I just realised that in the year or so that I've been doing it, barely any improvement I've achieved in my life has come from said videos. It has all come from me paying attention to what I was lacking in, and figuring out my own ways to fix it (this is largely because I didn't even recall the advice of the self improvement videos). I'm sick of being a sexually frustrated loser,… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/23 11:47 AM |
| 1 | No man is ever good enoughI agree with it being unnatural. I myself find the idea kinda gross. My point is, if he's attracted to both sexes, he's not just gay, but rather bisexual because he's attracted to BOTH sexes. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/23 10:44 PM |
| 5 | No man is ever good enoughYes, but I would only consider said individual as homosexual for as long as he's getting it on with a guy. If right after he goes on to fuck a woman I'm inmediately disqualifying him as such | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/23 12:31 PM |
| 12 | No man is ever good enoughBut if he also enjoys sex with women, it really is bisexuality | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/23 07:38 AM |
| 1 | How much easier does money make it?Damn, I thought I was kinda late having learnt about it at 16. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/23 07:38 AM |
| 1 | How much easier does money make it?You’re saying that you don’t like your study. Do you want to waste 4 years of your time and money on something that doesn’t make you happy at all? You got other things to think about, not pussy. Exactly. I'm studying the same thing as him, and I like it, but I hate studying as a whole, so I've started looking for jobs around me. I know that in the end I will come out as a winner regardless of which path I choose. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/23 07:36 AM |
| 0 | Stop Jacking OffOP has a point tho. It won't give you knowledge out of nowhere but it will make you more sharp minded, so you'll be able to come up with things to say more easily. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/23 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Stop Jacking OffI agree with the post, but I have one objection. Whenever I spend more than 2 days without jacking off I get so desperate that even the tiniest amount of female attention makes me literally obsess over the chick. In fact, the times when I've actually made out with some girls at parties was when I had jerked off right before going. If I can get this desperation under control I'm sure that it'll lead to great results, but so far it's done more harm than good. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/23 02:55 PM |
| 5 | Don't Hold Frame Do This InsteadThat's correct, but my point is that the action that you described in and of itself is essentially holding frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/23 07:57 PM |
| 15 | Don't Hold Frame Do This InsteadLet's illustrate a simple application of this knowledge. We'll go back to the example of the girlfriend who wants to go out to the club in a skimpy outfit with her friends. That situation actually happened to me when I was in university with my girlfriend at the time. She didn’t end up going. I didn’t need to tell her that she couldn’t go. All I had to ask her was, “You’re my girlfriend, right? What does that mean to you?” I didn’t need to resort to asserting MY frame. I instead used the power o… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/23 06:14 PM |
| 16 | Womens' attraction summed up into one emotion: ChallengeThe desirability of challenge without threat explains much of human motivation – why certain tasks are exciting and fun and others make us feel bored, frustrated, and angry. For example, people waste their life playing video games but do not actually tackle real, important challenges because video game challenges are perfectly calibrated to a particular skill level and there is no actual threat involved. If you die in Super Mario Bros, you can just come back to life and play again, whereas you f… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/23 07:09 PM |
| 6 | The Dennis system explained.Great post. The only thing I disagree about is having an Iphone. Sure, it looks fancy but my Nothing phone attracts way more attention because it is unique and pretty much no one else has one. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/23 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Wtf is this guy spewing? We were having a nice intellectual conversation until he started going off this tangent. (he also supports Jordan Peterson) I only talked to him longer than I should because he’s anti-porn and anti-sex work. He also compared revenge porn to an aunt not liking her toasterPardon my ignorance but, what's wrong with supporting Jordan Peterson? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 11:21 AM |
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