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Amazing_Grapefruit29/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 07:44 PM
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As someone who somewhat went to the male redpill community, don’t do that to yourself. It’s very toxic and you’ll not get anything good from it. You’ll just get more mad and feel more down. Focus on self improving, loose weight, eat well, learn new hobbies, read books. You will attract someone healthy sooner or later. I know it’s hard to believe it now but take care of your mental health, your body, it’s the only way you’ll attract someone that takes care of you as well. Treat yourself with love…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/24 11:15 PM
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You really explained it well. I always think if we could “blame” extreme feminism for women being a bit delusional for so long. More and more we see women stuck in act 2 until their later 30s not really knowing what they’re doing wrong. There’s is no one guiding us, in general. Our parents should yes but we know that social media and society in general has a huge impact in all of us. We don’t get the pressure of working on ourselves to be better like most boys in their teen years get. We get att…
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/24 10:44 PM
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I’m 28 and I’m there with you. I just want a family so badly. It’s the only thing that will give me real purpose in life because I was never really into being a career woman or anything, I have one but I know it won’t make me happy long term. I’m terrified of ending up alone.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/24 09:58 PM
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Careful with not feeling worthy. It can go so deep into your subconscious, you start accepting crumbles like you already did. Let him go, seek help and deleted every contact you have with him. So you can reach him even if you want to when you’re in a weak moment.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 09:42 AM
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He was very different when we started dating though, paying for everything and of course I was appreciative of it too. Then he pushed for too much and I accepted, for two months. Not anymore. Especially now that he gets defensive when I talk about it. Thank you for the advice ♥️ I really appreciate it! Watching her now
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 10:43 PM
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😂😂 I’m actually laughing because it’s true. I’ve always been a giver, I love cooking for my loved ones. I always think that people are nice and they’ll realize when I do good things. Let’s face it, we all want recognition. It really got this bad 2 months ago and I’m already fed up. Time to leave.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 10:29 PM
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He gives me a lot of his time, supports me emotionally very well (but also causes me a lot of mental stress lately) he’s a coach so he trains me at the gym too. He’s been a big support and everything but I’m wondering if I’ll ever be enough for him. And I shouldn’t be thinking this way. He made me doubt my own worth. I have decided I’ll break up, this post in a way was just to get some impulse to do it. I need to be reassured that I’m not so wrong for wanting more from him.
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 08:29 PM
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Do you accept it because you think it’s just his male nature or what’s your reasoning?
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/23 11:20 PM
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In my opinion you’re not wrong for wanting him to communicate. As far as I know it doesn’t take more than 10 seconds to text “hey, busy day today I won’t be able to text much.” Or even a voice note, even faster. When you care, you do it. It doesn’t take much.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/23 05:48 PM
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This is a very good point and I agree with it. Also in my opinion at one point you just don’t have time to try it out again with another one of those guys. I’m talking about a very masculine guy, knows what he wants, good looking and exciting. There’s 10 other women ready to give him everything he wants, he was so many options and he’s not in a hurry. It probably depends on his age too. So it goes back to what do you value NOW, based on whatever you find important. Your age, what you want long t…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 06:07 PM
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Yes that’s probably a good idea if at this point in your life you value stability more, if you want to have kids soon etc. Which seems like you do. I know it isn’t easy to let go of the excitement and our dream guy but I always remind myself that as women we don’t have unlimited time, we have a biological clock too.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 04:39 PM
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From what you wrote here, it seems like you never truly liked guy A. He was always your second option because the other guys were more exciting or something else. Think about what you actually want, sometimes they guy is not as tall or handsome as we would like but can provide security, stability and support. While the other guy might be more exciting and more our type but cannot give us the stability we want. Ask yourself what you want more at this point in your life. What’s your timeline, woul…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/23 04:28 PM
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No, Im not saying they can only spend time with their children if they’re having sex. I was trying to say that sometimes that can really change a man’s mood. In consequence, he could be more excited to spend time with his son. I believe the relationship you have with your partner, can SOMETIMES influence what you have with your children too. You see plenty of men that are resentful or have a bad relationship with their wives and don’t want to know anything about their kids. On the other hand, yo…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/23 03:49 AM
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Mmm ok. I also read the comments before mine and I can only says that it really seems like he doesn’t care much or he doesn’t see your value in any way. Unfortunately sometimes people don’t see our value until after we’re gone. Finish your degree and try to rely on your family or on someone you trust, maybe therapy if it’s something that you feel it can help. I’m sure it’s hard but you don’t deserve to be neglected if you’re doing your best. If you really tried to talking to him and he doesn’t o…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/23 04:03 PM
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I was asking because I think you can give him what he needs in exchange of what you need. It always works. I don’t know your exact situation but maybe you can start forcing things in a way. Tell him you’re getting a nanny for a couple days a week because you need to go to the gym, so you start taking care of yourself too and having some time alone which will also lift your mood. Looking prettier for yourself, feeling good with your body, having a nice hobby. All those things will make you feel b…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/23 02:25 PM
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On this, I think a big part of a man’s life is sex. So they also need to be attracted to their woman. It sounds bad, I know but it’s just how things are. Women need attention and love. Men need sex and visual stimulation per say. In my opinion if you give him great sex you will be able to make him do stuff that you want him to. Asking him slowly and In a nice way, not hurting his ego.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/23 02:15 PM
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Most important question: Are you still intimate with him?
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/23 01:57 PM
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Men don’t care about this, women care a lot more. Just be straight forward with him. If you talk about your families, tell him how proud you are of your parents and how much they’ve worked to give you a better life. It’s nothing to be ashamed of. Just do your best to be the best version of yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/23 09:13 PM
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I don’t think schooling or plastic surgery should be your two options and those are the reason why things are not working out. With this being said, looks do matter. But you mentioned you do go on dates so you’re catching some eyes. A man doesn’t care about your degree as much as you think, we think that because that’s what WE care about. Looks are more important for men but are also not enough to keep one. First, work on yourself. Learn about yourself and your flaws, learn about what men want i…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 03:11 AM
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