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| 173 | Schrodinger’s Scrote: Is Jon Snow LV or HV?Ser Davos is the only true HVM in Westeros, our rightful king tbh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 10:24 PM |
| 123 | Literally Was Just Talking Abt this To My BFFHer delivery and energy is HILARIOUS! I would love to see her doing a skit show or stand up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 04:43 PM |
| 6 | Woman Says Walk/Hike First Dates Are Not Cool; Pickmeisha Women Jump In Defensively Praising Walk Dates. Ladies, Do Not Settle for Low Effort Dates. This Pickmeisha Culture is Toxic, Don’t Fall For the Brainwashing!SAME! I am an avid hiker and men think a hike is a date?! When I was on OLD, so many guys tried to "ask me out" with the first date being a hike... like, no, I want to go on a real date and get to know you before we go out into the wilderness together. I've had scrotes get outright offended when I tell them that being alone in the woods with a strange man isn't my idea of a good time. I go hiking solo most of the time too and yes, I feel safer BY MYSELF than with a man I don't know? Keep on kill… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 07:14 PM |
| 42 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 16 - Walk Dates are For Dogs - (feat. Viral Tik Tok Star @Kokobeaute)Kornelia was a fabulous guest. You know the scrotes are FUMING bc she’s gorgeous, has high standards and is thirty—which is apparently “the wall” to NVM/LVM! they must hate seeing such a beautiful and worldly thirty-year-old woman who knows her worth. To them, we say… DIE MAD! 😆💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 08:23 PM |
| 3 | The Four Tolkien LVM Characters and What We Can Learn from Them, Part 1I love this analysis! So glad you posted this. Looking forward to your continuation of this series! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 06:07 PM |
| 18 | Why I am saying NO to OLD - a lil reflection and thoughtsI thought: What about I skip all together OLD, save that emotionnal/mental energy and time, and redirect into more furfilling activities, and coincidentally meet more HV people? This speaks to me. I’ve been off OLD since feb and I’ve met a couple of decent, higher-value men while hiking, a fulfilling activity I do FOR ME. The intention isn’t to meet men but there are men there and they’re likely to have similar interests which is nice. This is a great strategy. Best case, you meet a HVM with sim… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 09:16 PM |
| 28 | And he looks like it at 26Americaaaaa fuck yeah /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 09:30 PM |
| 56 | And he looks like it at 26Disclaimer: you will need to pay for his viagra prescription because he’s been unemployed for 3 years and has no health insurance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 08:36 PM |
| 63 | And he looks like it at 26what about "No hardboiled eggs in stretched out, stinking tube socks" LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Ask a man why he loves youIf you're gonna go office reference, I want a Bob Vance to my Phyllis! Eff Jim and Pam! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 07:48 PM |
| 94 | And he looks like it at 26tinder age range set 18-25 and "nO RoAsTiEs" in his bio ::eye rolll:: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 06:11 PM |
| 1 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).Hey gf, is ur account linked to your Facebook or Instagram or verified through those? I was looking into it and that might be it. Even Spotify if your Spotify is then linked to ur social media at all. Hope this helps 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 09:04 PM |
| 3 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).Thank you for the feedback! I’m sorry you feel alone right now. If you are going off to college or entering the workforce, you will probably be able to find at least one or two women that you connect with. Until then, we’re here for you! And “prime years?!” Baby, you take care of yourself, and your prime years will last DECADES to come! I’m 29 and finally coming into my own and I look better than I ever have. You have plenty of time to find your people 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 03:39 PM |
| 1 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).I wonder if it’s drawing on the people you already have as friends and suggesting their friends as follows? I’ll do some research 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 03:29 PM |
| 1 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).Thank you for the feedback!! 💞💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 03:27 PM |
| 19 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).Hi! Thanks for the comment, and I’m glad you brought this up because maybe I did not explain the reasoning as best as I could’ve. When I look at a guy’s profile, and all I see are selfies—him shirtless in the mirror at the gym, in the driver’s seat of his car, in front of the mirror in his room—I get the impression that he doesn’t go out much or have many interests or that he is seeking attention; if he’s very good-looking I might also think he’s vain and self-absorbed. Why would the reverse not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 01:01 AM |
| 9 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).I’m sorry that you had to deal with that! But thank you so much for this important perspective, looking at the women he follows can tell you if there’s a pattern that you need to be mindful of. Another comment I wish I could pin to the top of this post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:52 AM |
| 6 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).Thank you so much! I started muting notifications because my job requires me to be on my phone a lot and I wanted to be able to distance myself from work when I’m not on the clock... side effect of muting the notifications was circumventing the dopamine hit I’d get from texts with guys! So glad you find this post useful 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 11:39 PM |
| 18 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).Let’s get some upvotes so this goes to the top since I can’t pin a comment! Great suggestion, also very true! A lot of depravity on Twitter, ladies! I’ll make an edit to the post with this suggestion, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 10:26 PM |
| 40 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).She is a smart cookie! If he follows a couple of gorgeous women (actual, not insta) celebrities, like Zoe Kravitz or Rihanna, I personally do not see it as a red flag... I mean, I follow them, too, LOL, and I also follow Chris Evans and Michael B. Jordan... so, to me, a few "celebrity crush follows" are fine. But IG models and OF girls? 🚩🚩🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 10:15 PM |
| 1 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).Hi! I found this, I hope it's helpful! https://www.businessinsider.com/how-to-appear-offline-on-facebook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 10:01 PM |
| 17 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).Oh, if it doesn't work out, I just block and delete. No reason to continue giving them access to your life at that point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 09:23 PM |
| 15 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).Yes! I unlink all of my accounts from one another and try to use login through email instead of phone number... there is a function in the settings where you can disconnect your contact list--I suggest using it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 09:00 PM |
| 24 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).That's fair! Usually, it's not just one camgirl he's following, you'll likely see that the majority of his following list consists of those accounts. A quick scroll would reveal that. I've personally never encountered a man who followed JUST one of those accounts, so I drew from that experience. Appreciate the feedback :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 08:56 PM |
| 74 | Why are we taught to focus on MEN??Can't turn a scrote into a spouse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 07:56 PM |
| 12 | 'Meet me in the middle'It’s called “moving the goalposts.” Basically, every time you meet a requirement, they ask for more. Narcissist men love to use this tactic as an excuse to be perpetually dissatisfied with you, despite you taking the action to meet whatever (usually bullshit to begin with) request they’ve asked of you. That’s a good quote to sum it up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 01:17 AM |
| 26 | “I do that with all my friends”🎯🎯🎯🎯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 12:47 AM |
| 12 | Why is it “gross” for women to have body hair despite the fact that every adult woman's body naturally grows hair, but when a guy has hair on his body and armpits it's okay?Long armpit hair is high-key unattractive imo. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 12:04 AM |
| 39 | I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45.Thesaurus salad 🥗📚 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 11:49 PM |
| 65 | If you can’t afford the lifestyle that I’m providing for myself, then you can’t have me!Came here to say just that, and I love her voice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 09:50 PM |
| 41 | I occasionally get messages from male lurkers asking for dating advice. I seldom respond because when I do, the conversation typically goes something like this:“Help me become a better man. But I don’t want to change anything about myself or my actions. I also don’t actually want to succeed at becoming a better man, or even really give it a real shot. I just want to try the bare minimum that way I can tell my poor gf that I tried and did my best and then she’ll continue to feel bad for me and stay with me out of pity” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 01:48 PM |
| 87 | Why friends with benefits is rarely a good ideaUnless the “benefits” include vision and/or dental, we don’t need ‘em 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 11:39 PM |
| 6 | Walk away! Run away!All fax 📠 no printer 🖨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 08:55 PM |
| 21 | The reason men think women do everything for them is because they do everything for other men!Right?! Excellent take OP! But don’t disqualify your take at the end! Men say farrrrrrr stupider things without a shred of self-doubt — your input was a succinct and accurate observation. Just saying this because I’ve noticed that we as women tend to apologize or put these disqualifying-type statements out when we give a “hot take.” It diminishes the impact of what you’re saying to do that. Just a good idea to break this habit before you enter the workforce (I wish I did)! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 09:26 PM |
| 227 | No thanksForgot “dad bod,” usually on balding scrotes who haven’t even had a kid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:26 PM |
| 35 | BoundariesSaving this as a reminder!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:20 PM |
| 8 | Those gifts tho....I am SCREAMING ⚰️🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 11:52 PM |
| 44 | It's time to wake the fuck upIt’s truly heartbreaking and disturbing to see young girls on Tiktok and Twitter saying they can’t wait until they’re 18 to start an OnlyFans... I was excited to turn 18 so I could buy a lotto ticket, not do porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 04:55 PM |
| 5 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏Yes 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:28 PM |
| 12 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏Thanks gf! I’ve had a dude try to neg me like “I just prefer short/petite women” to which I replied “I just prefer a 28 year old man who doesn’t live at home with his parents” 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:14 PM |
| 9 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏Username checks out 😘😉 hahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:12 PM |
| 11 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏Aw love my shorties though! Two of my close pals are like 5’ 💕 it was annoying pre-Rona bc I always had to bend down to hear them at bars but other than that 😂 (kidding love em regardless!!!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:11 PM |
| 9 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏My friends and I say 5’9 is usually the starting point into tall girl club territory 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:10 PM |
| 5 | Andddd this is why we don’t date based on “potential.” Actions > words and big dreamsGirl same, you ain’t alone. The important thing is that we dropped em! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:58 PM |
| 218 | FDS has led me to fully embracing how much I care about height and it feels sooo good! Boy bye 👏Love finding my fellow FDS Amazons :) I’m 6ft! And yes, men have told me that I’m lying about my height and that I’m obviously much taller 🙃 I’ve also run into more nefarious men that tried to make me feel like less of a woman bc of my height. 🥴🙅🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:20 AM |
| 25 | Pornsick Limp Dick LVM shift blame to his VIRGIN wifeHalf of me is surprised he didn’t accuse of her cheating or not being a virgin because I’ve run into ample scrotes that falsely equate labia size with sexual partners (meaning “larger” labia = higher number of partners). Obviously that concept is complete bullshit but it’s not a new one in the scrote line of thinking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:01 AM |
| 4 | OLD be like, here we are a pool of meat clowns wyd? 🤡Thanks gf 🥰 💝 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 11:39 PM |
| 11 | OLD be like, here we are a pool of meat clowns wyd? 🤡I can’t tell if the meat clowns are my exes or my old, pickmeisha self 🤦🏻♀️. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 11:27 PM |
| 15 | This would explain why women like Beyoncé get cheated on. The other girl is just easier, not better than you.Great message and her voice is so soothing. She should do a guided mediation lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:49 AM |
| 14 | mAyBe hE’s JUsT tOo dEpReSsEd tO wIpEShe LITERALLY is putting up with his shit! I can’t! Get the rescue wagon 🚐🚐🚐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 12:26 AM |
| 87 | THIS VIDEO IS A SIGN.I love seeing young women with this attitude! Live your life sis! If you find someone, great, if not, who cares! Don’t let shit stop you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:04 PM |
| 25 | The forever-GFs are excited about getting ring pops now, fuck me sideways...The “we bought ring pops instead” comment makes me think that SHE paid for ‘em. He didn’t even have to spend the 75¢ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:01 PM |
| 102 | 💯Was about to post this! lmfao right? “Worship me but expect nothing in return” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:54 PM |
| 3 | ‘Nuff said!Love alone is not enough! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:15 AM |
| 6 | Just when 2020 couldn't get worse 🤦🏽♀️Yeah I ain’t too much younger and i couldn’t imagine brining this shame on my family, let alone them embracing it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:36 PM |
| 57 | Dear gamer guys of reddit: this holiday season, give yourself the gift of mental health and GO 👏 TO 👏 THERAPY👏 instead of spending thousands of dollars on your entertainment room.HAH stop I am CACKLING maybe we should incorporate it into video games. The final boss is a psychiatrist. To win you must conquer your entitlement and become a normal, functioning member of society! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:30 PM |
| 59 | Lazy scrote who doesn’t want to work wants Reddit to help him convince his wife why it’s okay not to work.Can we rescue her 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:29 PM |
| 146 | shame on the parents SMHA visual representation of how a child turns into an entitled scroat... treat your sons and daughters equally! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:28 PM |
| 13 | Just when 2020 couldn't get worse 🤦🏽♀️The MOM is in on this, too?! Lordt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:26 PM |
| 30 | Nearly 30 and still can’t piss straight or clean up 🤢🥴Is this an adult man or a toddler who failed potty training ? 🤢🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:16 PM |
| 30 | Behold, a modern 24 year old man.Your babies are looking out for you 💕 animals can usually tell who’s bad news! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:32 AM |
| 5 | Decided to scroll this IG page after seeing another of their post here. Accurate AFTop tier satire 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 03:16 AM |
| 85 | Cheating & murder- The number of pregnant women being killed by their husbands and boyfriends so that they can be with their mistresses 🤮The first thing my mom did when she found out my dad was cheating on her (which was one of the many factors that led her to finally leave) was selling all of his guns. She truly thinks he would’ve killed her if she didn’t, and I believe it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 06:36 PM |
| 32 | It’s a no from meCringing but I also kind of pity her :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 07:57 PM |
| 82 | Consider these two stories.Absolutely correct. I’ve seen so many women make that excuse: “yeah, he may forget to pick up after himself, leave the toilet seat up and always get himself food without offering me anything, BUT hE’s ThERe fOr tHe BiG tHinGs” Is he though? Because your Instagram story of you crying about how he ditched you on your birthday to watch a football game with the boys says otherwise, sis. 🚮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 10:41 PM |
| 19 | “I don’t even like banana laffy taffys”Not even silvadene can help him now 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 09:59 PM |
| 4 | FAR TOO COMMON: Men with girlfriends who still hit the DMs to flirt and beg for nudes - you think I won’t snitch?Wow thank you for this, it actually did make me feel better to think about it from that perspective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 04:59 PM |
| 40 | FAR TOO COMMON: Men with girlfriends who still hit the DMs to flirt and beg for nudes - you think I won’t snitch?Oh, he told her it was before they dated (I had time stamps), that I was a liar, that I was a stranger who was obsessed with him (what is this, “You” on Netflix?!), the whole nine yards. The crazy thing is I gave her so much proof... at her request! He thought he was being clever, trying to keep it on snap rather than whatsapp (I know, Snapchat=🚽) w the “forget in 24 hours function”... I had actually taken photos of some of the conversation with my iPad to send to a friend bc I couldn’t believe … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 11:20 PM |
| 67 | FAR TOO COMMON: Men with girlfriends who still hit the DMs to flirt and beg for nudes - you think I won’t snitch?So many pickmeishas don’t even care. Before this sub, I would see guys on dating apps, add them on social (at their request) and SEE that they had a gf or a girl who thought they were bf/gf. I’d screenshot, screenrecord, DM all the evidence... I’ve only seen one of the five girls I’ve reached out to with this stuff actually leave their bfs. One is actually going to get married to the scrote despite the 5 pages of whatsapp messages I sent her of him desperately trying to have unprotected sex with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 10:21 PM |
| 5 | New Yorker cartoon by @suerynnsSure the scrotes are hating on this in the comments 🤦🏻♀️ “b-b-b-but WIMEEEEN have it so EASY i have to go to WORK all day while women also go to work all day and then come home and CLEAN and COOK and TAKe cARE OF THE KIDS but IM THE VICTIM because she asked me to not leave skid marks on the couch” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 09:30 PM |
| 77 | This might be the most depressing Twitter thread of all time. Our work is never done 😫Check your cycle calendar! I felt lonely a couple days ago and boom got my period yesterday. Hormones are LIARS lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:06 PM |
| 6 | Men and spittingI’ve had men do this on dates IN FRONT OF ME. Truly heinous and vile behavior 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:22 AM |
| 8 | We’ve been conditioned to think that we, as women, are always the problem— too much, too needy, too sensitive. We are not. Remember that💕 credit: @kingsophiesworld on IGCall a man hysterical when he’s getting worked up and watch his head spin 🤣 the misogynist will just jump out because of the connotation of the word (hysterical). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 08:32 PM |
| 14 | We’ve been conditioned to think that we, as women, are always the problem— too much, too needy, too sensitive. We are not. Remember that💕 credit: @kingsophiesworld on IGOh that’s a NVM classic. I’m like that too— I knew my ex liked a certain type of beer so every time I saw it I picked it up for him! He never did the same for me. It’s funny how they manage to spin that into you being the “wrong” one; saying YOU’RE needy for wanting basic human decency. 🙃 My ex used to tell me I was “asking for too much” when I asked to go out on a date once a month (he hadn’t taken me out in over a year). By the end of the relationship, I almost believed him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 08:17 PM |
| 19 | You are worthy of love and so much more!💕Wish I could pin this comment! So true! Lovebombing = 🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 02:37 PM |
| 133 | And I always am.My ex used to steal my little one-liners and quips for his Twitter account lmfao 🤪😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 02:26 AM |
| 19 | i felt this one deep within my soulShe’s so pretty and witty! Her twitter is (mostly) awesome but she has a bit more libfem leanings that are just... ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:57 AM |
| 1 | (From my Pre-FDS days) matched with a guy who listed his job as “licensed therapist” on his Bumble profile. Took what, four messages until he asks me to come to his place for (disappointing) sex? Blocked and reported him after my reply.Had I been actively incorporating FDS into my life at that point in time, I totally would’ve. But lmfao right? That’s male privilege, inviting a complete stranger over with no fear of being robbed, harmed or worse. But “mEnS rIgHtsS!!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:47 PM |
| 77 | Men of reddit live in a fantasy where truth and lies are reversed. 90% of people who suffer from anorexia are women but I guess society is kinder to overweight women.Girl... that last line though. Whole statement is so spot-on, but that was an exceptionally powerful sentence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:38 PM |
| 153 | Men of reddit live in a fantasy where truth and lies are reversed. 90% of people who suffer from anorexia are women but I guess society is kinder to overweight women.Imagine thinking that literally the only beauty standard facing women is to “not be overweight” when we’re living in a world filled with social media “baddies,” where anyone can have access to photoshop. The beauty standards facing women today are literally impossible to live up to because even the IG Baddies™️ can’t look like that in real life! Men are delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:31 PM |
| 4 | (From my Pre-FDS days) matched with a guy who listed his job as “licensed therapist” on his Bumble profile. Took what, four messages until he asks me to come to his place for (disappointing) sex? Blocked and reported him after my reply.I fucks with talk therapy in addition to DBT/CBT (I’ve alternated throughout my life depending on my needs at the time). I think it has a place in the therapyverse (lol) but for sure is not effective at treating anything more than light general anxiety unless combined with other treatments and medication (just my own experience!). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:17 PM |
| 6 | (From my Pre-FDS days) matched with a guy who listed his job as “licensed therapist” on his Bumble profile. Took what, four messages until he asks me to come to his place for (disappointing) sex? Blocked and reported him after my reply.Right? I’m lucky that my years of therapy have made me “unafraid” to call out the lack of emotional intelligence in others. I knew he’d either block me or start negging after my reply if I didn’t block him first 🤣😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:14 PM |
| 9 | (From my Pre-FDS days) matched with a guy who listed his job as “licensed therapist” on his Bumble profile. Took what, four messages until he asks me to come to his place for (disappointing) sex? Blocked and reported him after my reply.Note: I also now never disclose that I’m in therapy (obviously)— I thought my honesty was working in my favor but I now know that sharing that tidbit puts a big old bullseye for NVM/LVM on my back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:12 PM |
| 12 | Seen on r/hinge. My NPD LVM father used to do this to me and my sister all the time on visitations. Lock the doors/windows and fart/smoke in the car (we were as young as 10/8 respectively). Some men really just find making women uncomfortable amusing, even if those “women” are just children.You ain’t lying sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:03 PM |
| 42 | Seen on r/hinge. My NPD LVM father used to do this to me and my sister all the time on visitations. Lock the doors/windows and fart/smoke in the car (we were as young as 10/8 respectively). Some men really just find making women uncomfortable amusing, even if those “women” are just children.Right?! I’ve never met a guy who thinks his farts are hilarious while also thinking a woman’s farts are equally funny. Wonder why 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 07:38 PM |
| 33 | Seen on r/hinge. My NPD LVM father used to do this to me and my sister all the time on visitations. Lock the doors/windows and fart/smoke in the car (we were as young as 10/8 respectively). Some men really just find making women uncomfortable amusing, even if those “women” are just children.Yep; went no contact with my dad permanently right around March/April 2019. He tried to worm his way into my masters graduation ceremony bc tickets weren’t required for advanced degree ceremonies. My sister (who keeps minimal contact) told him if he showed up, she’d go NC with him too. It’s funny. I’ve regretted ending every toxic relationship in my life (working on that in therapy, I feel guilt for cutting people off despite their repeated shows of disrespect)... except the one with him. That’s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 07:36 PM |
| 75 | Seen on r/hinge. My NPD LVM father used to do this to me and my sister all the time on visitations. Lock the doors/windows and fart/smoke in the car (we were as young as 10/8 respectively). Some men really just find making women uncomfortable amusing, even if those “women” are just children.Lmfao right like... maybe don’t treat potential romantic interests like your frat bros and you’d have better luck, buddy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Lifting up the other women in our lives 💕Right! Thanks so much! I’m just happy to be able to help other ladies realize their full potential and having a strong network of other professionals is an amazing bonus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:00 PM |
| 1 | This is what porn does. This poor child is being sexually harassed in her own home because of her step-brother’s pornsickness. I hope that she can get the frick frack outta there and that he gets put into intensive therapy (and subject to constant surveillance by his parents) before he escalatesThank you! So glad she escaped but I wish that Mike had gotten a more severe “punishment” than therapy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Lifting up the other women in our lives 💕You totally are! I believe in you! If it was easy, everybody would do it. So even if it’s hard, remember that you are smart and capable and as long as you work hard there’s nothing you can’t do :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Lifting up the other women in our lives 💕Love this! Awesome bonding time :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:37 AM |
| 23 | My latest match on hinge.. I have no words. I have never encountered something like thisThis is killing me 😂 the most important part of this whole thing is the name and he can’t even get that right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:33 AM |
| 19 | Green Flag - He invests in your endeavors and pays close attention to your wants and needsWow I love this take! I didn’t even think of it from that angle. You’re completely right. It shows the true love he has for her as a unique and whole human being ON HER OWN, not as his dependent/“property.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:24 AM |
| 6 | Lifting up the other women in our lives 💕LMFAOOOO haha sorry!! Omg I totally get your point -__- didn’t even think of that 🤦🏻♀️ ahhh I promise my intentions are pure! Lol I just am a notorious cheerleader for my friends and I know that sometimes having an accountabilabuddy can help give us the push we need! Still laughing at the larping bit 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:16 AM |
| 11 | LVM I matched with preFDS. Texted randomly every few months (🚩). I forgot to block him after our last interaction (I had started leaving him on read). Typical LVM reaction to being blocked — reached out through a diff phone number & then through social. Now I get to block him 3 times 💕🥰He is over the age of 30, no college degree and living with his parents so you ain’t wrong, sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:12 AM |
| 8 | LVM I matched with preFDS. Texted randomly every few months (🚩). I forgot to block him after our last interaction (I had started leaving him on read). Typical LVM reaction to being blocked — reached out through a diff phone number & then through social. Now I get to block him 3 times 💕🥰He was a porn addict, would send me porn gifs randomly like... why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:12 AM |
| 2 | LVM I matched with preFDS. Texted randomly every few months (🚩). I forgot to block him after our last interaction (I had started leaving him on read). Typical LVM reaction to being blocked — reached out through a diff phone number & then through social. Now I get to block him 3 times 💕🥰I was cackling as it was happening I won’t lie 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:11 AM |
| 3 | LVM I matched with preFDS. Texted randomly every few months (🚩). I forgot to block him after our last interaction (I had started leaving him on read). Typical LVM reaction to being blocked — reached out through a diff phone number & then through social. Now I get to block him 3 times 💕🥰So much effort! If they would only redirect that effort into, idk, being decent human beings? Lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:09 AM |
| 9 | LVM I matched with preFDS. Texted randomly every few months (🚩). I forgot to block him after our last interaction (I had started leaving him on read). Typical LVM reaction to being blocked — reached out through a diff phone number & then through social. Now I get to block him 3 times 💕🥰He is a creep, but mostly big talk on the internet. Thankfully we never met irl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 10:32 PM |
| 68 | Green Flag - He invests in your endeavors and pays close attention to your wants and needsExactly! There are men like this out there—so, why would you settle for less? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 07:06 PM |
| 68 | LVM I matched with preFDS. Texted randomly every few months (🚩). I forgot to block him after our last interaction (I had started leaving him on read). Typical LVM reaction to being blocked — reached out through a diff phone number & then through social. Now I get to block him 3 times 💕🥰Just a new term for large breasts coined by Inc3ls admitting that they want a mom bangmaid 🤷🏻♀️ vile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:41 PM |
| 28 | LVM I matched with preFDS. Texted randomly every few months (🚩). I forgot to block him after our last interaction (I had started leaving him on read). Typical LVM reaction to being blocked — reached out through a diff phone number & then through social. Now I get to block him 3 times 💕🥰It’s funny because even pre-FDS I was blowing him off because of his hot-and-cold behavior. He had called me 5 times during a hike (in august) and texted me off of the second number (green text) when I was hiking because he thought I blocked him. I was hiking. I had like barely any service and in the patches I did have service, I wasn’t gonna text back this turd. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:34 PM |
| 64 | LVM I matched with preFDS. Texted randomly every few months (🚩). I forgot to block him after our last interaction (I had started leaving him on read). Typical LVM reaction to being blocked — reached out through a diff phone number & then through social. Now I get to block him 3 times 💕🥰Messaged me three different ways in less than 10 minutes. Can smell the desperation. Yet another reason why FDS haters make me laugh. Think we can’t get a date or that no guy wants us? Bruh, I have to beat them off with a stick (or in this case, a triple block). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Lifting up the other women in our lives 💕😊💕 sometimes you don’t know what you’re capable of until you have a friend pushing you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:09 PM |
| 16 | Woman, 26, takes her boyfriend to COURT for not marrying her after eight years of dating and a child togetherSo embarrassing, I feel bad for her. Fighting for someone who doesn’t want you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 12:28 AM |
| 24 | Reminder: don’t beg!Same. It’s liberating! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 12:20 AM |
| 6 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)Always tempted to send back an edited version of their hate mail tbh 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Invest your love and your time wisely, ladies 💕Glad it helped 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:55 PM |
| 19 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)You are special my darling! 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 10:14 PM |
| 14 | Invest your love and your time wisely, ladies 💕When I sent this to my pickmeisha friend it turned into her complaining about her scroatacious bf uGhhhh 🤦🏻♀️ like I feel bad but how many times must we go through this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:42 PM |
| 41 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)HAHAAHHAHA honestly they tell on themselves bc a lottttt of LVM are low-key p3dos 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:40 PM |
| 36 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)I mean what more could we expect from rumplescroatskins like these? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:34 PM |
| 25 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)You’re special to me, gf :)💕 all my FDS sisters are! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:32 PM |
| 67 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)High value women come in tall and petite sizes, my short sister! Hehe :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:25 PM |
| 88 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)That seems to be what happened to many of us! Honestly the only thing I envy is his free time to message like... hundreds? Thousands? Of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:22 PM |
| 64 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)I meannnnnn a young, attractive, tall man with a good job and hair isn’t gonna be sending stuff like this, most likely 🤷🏻♀️ So I’d wager he’s the opposite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | My number one fan❤️😘it's so nice to be adoredApparently all 114,000+ women on this sub are one giant conglomerate that this can apply to. /s 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:12 PM |
| 34 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)Because I’m still working on emulating the advice in the handbook but in the interim I sometimes find a neutral dig works well. I used to do this to my narcissist father all the time (no contact now) and it would absolutely drive him mad. Every time he’d call me a b**** or say I was trying to be difficult I’d just reply “well, you caught me! That’s it! You got me!” and just left it at that. Drove him insane because he’d be itching for a fight and I wouldn’t give it to him. Sarcastically agreeing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:58 PM |
| 184 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)Anyone over the age of 18= old unlovable hag (to reddit manlets) Also I’m a young, hot, tall, financially well-off woman with a full head of hair so expecting someone to match my energy ain’t exactly being picky 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:49 PM |
| 101 | It’s the “active in” communities for me 🤣 (blocked this rumplescroatskin immediately after my response)insert Cher “mom, I am a rich man” meme here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 08:47 PM |
| 37 | LVM showed his true colors — thanks FDS!As someone who smokes weed AND has a diagnosed history of mental illness... never touching a cop. I say one wrong thing or try to break up with them and suddenly there’s police behind my door trying to 51/50 me. One of my exes was in the army and tried that lil maneuver when I broke up with him 🙃 Imagine getting out of the shower to cops banging on your door saying they’re gonna break it down if you don’t let them in and you have NO CLUE why... one of the scariest moments of my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:15 PM |
| 269 | LVM showed his true colors — thanks FDS!Of course he’s a cop | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 01:59 PM |
| 79 | I don’t understand men who hide important stuffs on their OLD profile(divorced, kids, height etc) and claim that they aren’t insecure about itI’m 6ft... if some 5’3 dude pulled up on our date after misleading me on his height (which he did to her by not mentioning it) I would honestly just laugh and leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 01:54 PM |
| 147 | I don’t understand men who hide important stuffs on their OLD profile(divorced, kids, height etc) and claim that they aren’t insecure about it“I’m not insecure about my height, I just omit it because hEiGhT dOeSNt MaTtEr” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 12:57 PM |
| 7 | Men will do anything to make women feel insecure. (Context in the comments)I know! And it’s sad to see someone so young so (understandably) jaded in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 01:34 AM |
| 3 | men knowHehehe mwah glad u ladies appreciate the humor ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on @SheRatesDogs?Oh I do!! I love her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:15 PM |
| 318 | there is so much wrong I don’t know where to startWonder if he’s saving himself for marriage 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:10 AM |
| 290 | men knowLmfao I would LOVE to see the comment section/his DMs after this... pickmeishas in the comments winning the Olympic gold in mental gymnastics (floor routine) and LVM/NVM in his inbox fuming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | LVM only have the audacityI need to watch the series but I’ve watched many a documentary on Diana and Charles and it is truly heartbreaking. So many LVM red flags and the girl was so young that she couldn’t spot them until it was too late... another reason why big age gaps are a terrible idea for us women as they only benefit the LVM! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Men are being unfairly discriminated against as sex workers! Sex work is work! Men’s Rights! Inclusivity!Lmfaooo this is clever, you ladies never miss! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:57 PM |
| 5 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Lmfao but for real I am sorry you were ever made to feel “less than” by this scrotal turdlet... truly heinous behavior on his part. Glad you’re no contact w him now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:53 PM |
| 88 | Hint: the answer is usually “no” 💕Girl, in my pre-FDS days I kept getting yeasties bc my LVM ex would never wash his hands before fingering me... Dutch guts, weed crumbs and Doritos destroying my PH balance 🤦🏻♀️ and he had the nerve to ask me if i was cheating/get pissed when I couldn’t have sex bc of it?! like bro if you just had a literal bar of dial soap instead of using watered -down dish detergent the three times a year you washed ur hands we wouldn’t be in this situation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:51 PM |
| 12 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Proper response to this is to freebleed all over his sheets right to the mattress (cause u know LVMs don’t have mattress pads 🤣) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:36 PM |
| 107 | It’s so crazy that once I’m approaching mid 20s so many people have talked about the biological clock that women have — to explain how they are in a rush to get married and settle down. One NVM even brought up my age when I told him my plans of doing a rigorous post graduate health program WTF“Oh you’re not feeling the ‘biological pressure’? Let me neg you until you do” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:05 PM |
| 9 | Ugh. How do you avoid people like this who keep you as an option? Audacity is all he has. His poor girlSo true! Reminds me of an encounter I had with a LVM on a dating app, pre-FDS... found out he had a gf after we went out bc he blocked me on my main — I thought it was because I wouldn’t let him come home with me after the first date so I lurked on my burner IG... turns out that trip to Florida he said was for business? He was meeting his gf’s extended family. I reached out to her with screenshots, she called me sobbing... she took half the pics on his bumble profile and he had been accusing her… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:02 PM |
| 9 | Mum: “Still single?”Thankfully my parents never made me feel bad about being single... but I still show them some of the messages I get from perverted LVMs/LVM dating profiles I see so they know that it’s just that hard to find a decent human being, let alone find someone who is actually worth my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 12:58 PM |
| 39 | I release any behavior learned from past lovers that doesn't serve me. I'm on receiving mode, moving forward.Okay new mantra for when I cleanse my home 💗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 01:25 AM |
| 11 | A very apt rebuttal to the recent terrible New Yorker cover (NSFW but tried to censor a bit)I thought I liked it but I didn’t 😩I’m sure it’ll pop up on my dash again soon and when I see it I’ll link it back for u 😊😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 10:14 PM |
| 12 | A very apt rebuttal to the recent terrible New Yorker cover (NSFW but tried to censor a bit)I didn’t make it! But i saw it and knew it would get the love it deserved here lmfaoo. Also I know re: pets. I have a cat and she is my world. I have toys for her everywhere, clean her litter box every day (it will never not be gross to me though lol), give her high-quality food... then let’s take a look at my friends ex (LVM central)... he has a cat... beer bottles and dirty bongs everywhere (terrible since cats are notorious for knocking stuff over and that shit is glass! Their poor paws!), li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 09:40 PM |
| 24 | A very apt rebuttal to the recent terrible New Yorker cover (NSFW but tried to censor a bit)Hard to bring something to the table when there’s lotion and piss bottles covering every possible surface 🤣😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 09:34 PM |
| 26 | A very apt rebuttal to the recent terrible New Yorker cover (NSFW but tried to censor a bit)No I am not, saw on Twitter with no credit sadly :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 04:45 PM |
| 90 | A very apt rebuttal to the recent terrible New Yorker cover (NSFW but tried to censor a bit)Here’s the thread about the original cover: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/k5wd12/this_ridiculous_new_yorker_cover_is_supposed_to/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf Also I didn’t draw this— Found it uncredited on Twitter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 12:58 PM |
| 3 | Speed dating video, her standards were not very high and the comments say that she should lower her standards.True scrotacious behavior with that little attempted “dig” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 12:22 AM |
| 30 | El cheapo LVM hand-makes crappy cheap gifts for partner but expects a PS5That’s what the comments said lmfao like ya reap what you sow buddy! 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 08:43 PM |
| 15 | A tale from the vault: The one time my narc ex ate poisonous berries right after I told him they were poisonous and he blamed me when he got raging diarrhea 🤦♀️That’s also why they look like crap so young. Men don’t take care of themselves like women out of this stupid sense of pride?? Why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:44 AM |
| 21 | How To Stop Chasing Guys and Being A Pick MeLong but worth a watch, damn!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:28 AM |
| 35 | I'm always wondering about this based on my past experiences with LVM. Men who do this, why do you insist on lying to women you KNOW want monogamy?Isn’t it crazy?! That they will literally be so low-effort in every aspect... yet expend energy on lying, manipulating and other bs just for sex?! Like clearly they have the will to expend effort and energy, but just for their own selfish and egotistical goals. Truly mind-boggling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:07 AM |
| 208 | It should be that simple. I’ve had a guy literally do all of these things, then proceed to say he doesn’t want us to be “official”.Anyone with an ounce of emotional intelligence knows she’s speaking straight facts. I’ll never understand how adult men justify doing all of that (the “I see you all the time, tell you my deepest secrets” bit), while expecting wife shit... basically be in a relationship without a title... and still won’t put a label on it. Also she is gorgeous, completely correct and hilarious with impeccable comedic timing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 11:19 PM |
| 34 | Never forget! Taken from @quotesbychristie on IG.My last relationship with a LVM taught me that love alone is never enough for a relationship to work. Love meant absolute shit when I was the one supporting both of us while going to school while he slept and did nothing all day 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Not anymore! Thank u, FDS!Me too, but we have to accept there’s nothing wrong with being selfish sometimes! Women don’t always need to be selfless and self-sacrificing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:35 PM |
| 23 | Not anymore! Thank u, FDS!The scrotes at work are still fighting my “no’s” so I still feel guilty sometimes bc I put a lot of value in my job. but I know that they’re just being entitled children and that helps to assuage the guilt big time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 02:47 AM |
| 551 | geee i wonder whyRom coms have really warped men’s sense of entitlement to beautiful and successful women. Which is hilarious because they always talk about how romantic movies make women expect too much out of their SOs. Hmmmmmm 🤔🤔🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Why are mothers such Pickmes for their sons?My dad’s mom covered for my cheating father multiple times. Moms can really be next-level enablers for toxic deviant male behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:22 AM |
| 98 | Thoughts on this?? I feel like he could’ve easily went to a bathroom at a restaurant, store, or gas station? People in the replies say she should give him a chance.Mommy in training! Giving him baby wipes! What if she didn’t have wipes...?! Someone who shits in alleyways doesn’t strike me as the type of person to keep extra napkins in the glovebox... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:58 AM |
| 11 | This is why we dont have sex with men who didnt commitLvm love a backup chick 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 12:54 AM |
| 20 | I'd rather eat my eyeballs than comply with this kind of bullshit at any occasion, much less on my wedding dayLiking barstool is such a red flag, she should’ve seen this coming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 07:52 PM |
| 77 | Do NOT tell a man about your mental health issues unless he’s been thoroughly vettedThat post scared the shit out of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:09 AM |
| 8 | Why are men like this? This is why I avoid catching feelings at all costs.Love her meme page | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 11:24 PM |
| 31 | Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them?Lmfao and I’m not even opposed to dating a guy two inches shorter than me (if he ticks every other category, plus I don’t wear heels so why not?) as long as those missing two inches are added below the belt (and ofc that they’re not an insecure manlet 🤣). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:56 PM |
| 80 | Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them?Lmfaooo I am 6ft and they ALWAYS insist I’m lying about my height like bro... you caught me! That’s it! Because women notoriously lie about their height! 😂 #TallGirlClub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:22 PM |
| 97 | Reminder that your boundaries are valid and you aren’t asking too much ✨🌺When I first started enforcing my boundaries, I lost a lot of “interest” from males I was talking to. Probably because they were never interested in ME but rather what I could do for them. lvm stock tends to hate boundary-setting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:18 PM |
| 54 | It's as simple as thatNegative reinforcement works | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 08:56 PM |
| 105 | Blocked and deleted- story in commentsThe “my mental health hasn’t been great” line is my favorite, particularly when it’s been said by a man that refuses to go to therapy 🙃 Good for you for not falling for his traps! With his phantom bullshit, ghosting for over a year then making a return like everything’s a-okay. 🗑🗑🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:24 PM |
| 7 | I don't know who needs this but... If he wanted to he would. If you have to chase him for it, then he doesn't want you. If you have to excuse his actions, then he doesn't want you.If you feel unstable or insecure, then he doesn't want you. Someone who loves you will show you. Never settle.Girl, I feeeeel this. I also would excuse their bad behavior because “I’m not perfect, either! I’m not the easiest person to deal with!” (Thinking about my own mental health issues) Thing is, I was (and am) actively working on those issues. The guys I dated didn’t try to improve any of their “issues” that I was making excuses for. They just knew I’d be easier to manipulate because I was understanding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:01 PM |
| 2 | I don't know who needs this but... If he wanted to he would. If you have to chase him for it, then he doesn't want you. If you have to excuse his actions, then he doesn't want you.If you feel unstable or insecure, then he doesn't want you. Someone who loves you will show you. Never settle.Needed to see this today. Thanks for reminding me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 10:59 PM |
| 100 | This hits too close to my pickme teen years.Oof... pre-FDS me has been there 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:48 PM |
| 75 | It’s the little things...And it’s literally this simple. This is basic stuff that every girl I know does for her (LV) bf, with pretty much none of them ever doing the same for her. Imagine how much time it takes to set up a coffee cup for your partner and put a salad together. 5 minutes, max. If your man can’t take five minutes out of his day to make your life a little easier, he’s 🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 09:10 PM |
| 120 | All fax 📠 no printer 🖨My old boss once told me, “just because you can do something, doesn’t mean you should have to do it.” She was talking about my overachieving ways at work leading to burn out, but it’s so applicable in relationships, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 09:52 PM |
| 41 | All fax 📠 no printer 🖨Damn deep cut right here! You’re right... ps I did end up having to be the one doing all the work in group projects and picking up after my roommates 🙃 hmmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 09:51 PM |
| 9 | This is why we block.Yeah they forgot to add the “Haha, now that that’s over with, wanna come over for Netflix and chill?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 06:47 PM |
| 73 | Thanks for your input Teddy; you’ve actually changed my mind. NOT!Hey child support is expensive, walks are all teddy can afford right now 🤣 lol but for real if he can’t afford more than a walk and splitting a 6 pack from 7-11, he shouldn’t be focused on dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 07:25 PM |
| 7 | What in the pickmesha? Are we supposed to be okay with men prioritizing work over us, blowing up our plans and not spending time together so he can be a slave to the capitalism? Of course goals are important but there should be a limit to that.Good point! That wife distinction really makes a difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 01:17 AM |
| 21 | What in the pickmesha? Are we supposed to be okay with men prioritizing work over us, blowing up our plans and not spending time together so he can be a slave to the capitalism? Of course goals are important but there should be a limit to that.Maybe it’s because my most recent ex was a lazy, jobless LVM, but I’m torn on this situation. He could certainly be making more time for her... but at the same time, I also work a fairly demanding job, and I’m trying to climb the ladder, too... so I do appreciate the work ethic that the guy is bringing to the relationship. I guess I maybe need a bit more context. I do agree that he’s not prioritizing her as he should be, but this just doesn’t seem like a TOTAL piece of crap move to me. Again, aw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 12:24 AM |
| 31 | Yeah, sureOr he’s a drug dealer. I’ve seen that a lot with the “self-employed” “CEO at self-employed” “CEO at Business” etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 11:56 PM |
| 236 | DID SHE LIE?!I’ve accepted that I’ll never get back the 1.5k my LVM moocher ex owes me... doesn’t mean I’m not still salty about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 10:51 PM |
| 16 | Generosity or GTFO!I’ll say that I’ve been super lucky with this sorta thing, even with hookups (hookups were pre-FDS days)... have even had several guys beg to go down on me. And not just “the old college try” type where they’re just doing the bare minimum as reciprocation. I’m talking full-on below-the-belt makeout sessions. It’s sad that my experience isn’t the norm when it comes to this situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 09:04 PM |
| 13 | I really think they are losing there minds. THE F***ING AUDACITY.Poly has always been just “cheating with extra steps” to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Herpes + poly = 🤮Cult leader vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 12:51 AM |
| 82 | LVM gets girlfriend pregnant, says he always wanted to be a dad, but then asks her to get an abortion after she asks him to help with chores.I’m thinking he actively tried to get her pregnant because he loved the bangmaid mom set-up: has sex with her, she does all of his laundry and the housework... tried to secure that for life. Once he realized that she couldn’t maintain her bangmaid duties while pregnant, he wants out. So gross... anyone else getting that vibe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 06:41 PM |
| 14 | Pickme vet student does all the housework. LVM boyfriend wants to know what he can do to support her (doing his share of chores is not an option). Everyone in the comments thinks it’s cute. How thoughtful.Damn I know she’s trying to be a vet and all but this poor pickme doesn’t need to take the dogs HOME with her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:18 AM |
| 41 | Kamala Harris Was Single Until She Was 50 Years Old - Psychology TodayFor real, this was a shocker. She needs to drop her skincare routine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:50 AM |
| 13 | maybe its considered creepy because this man is 11 years older than her ? if he is so successful & in his prime (🤣) why don't you shoot your shot limpdick?I love that the poster is calling him “attractive” when even the cut-off pic of the bottom half of his face alone is 70% weak chin | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:47 AM |
| 29 | Porn continues to ruin everything and continues to exploit and objectify women’s bodiesWhole new meaning to “pussyfooted” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 09:43 PM |
| 83 | out in the wild...couldn’t be me 🤮🤮Lmfao makes sense since this who situation is a clusterfuck though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 02:45 AM |
| 20 | She did this for free?!🤢🤢🤢It was the actual pile of used toilet paper on the floor in the corner of the bathroom for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 03:57 AM |
| 26 | Feeling Invisibly Mentally Abused?My therapist was telling me for YEARS not to disclose my stuff to love interests until things are 6 months in, at least. I never listened, thinking that it would be easier to find the “right man” if I was brutally honest about myself. Turns out I just put a big ol target on my back with that mindset. It also allows them to try to get away with more bullshit “because it’s so hard putting up with YOUR issues.” My no car, no job ex compared his obsession with pay to play phone games (!!!!) to my li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 10:53 PM |
| 50 | Feeling Invisibly Mentally Abused?As someone who struggles with mental health issues, one of the problems with being “the designated patient” in your family/friend group is that it is VERY easy for them to dismiss your feelings/reactions as just your mental illness acting up. I’ve let people violate my boundaries because they gaslighted (gaslit? Lol) me into thinking that my mental health was the issue, when it was their behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 10:21 PM |
| 17 | Am I weird for this?We, as a society, need to demand a filter on dating apps for bald/balding men. Edit: y’all this got me my first message from a male lurker criticizing me for having preferences... I guess I’m officially part of the fam now 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:15 PM |
| 39 | lmao oh this is giving me flashbacksAh yes, the “feminist” soft boy... forgot to mention how liberating sex work is and how he managed his ex-GF’s onlyfans (managing being code for pimping)... which was why he couldn’t get a real job and help with rent — recording her masturbating is very time-consuming, you know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Can someone tell these scrotes that spooky szn is over? Cause this thread is scary (link in comments).https://twitter.com/oloni/status/1325498973289918472?s=21 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 12:39 PM |
| 36 | They NEVER learn, do they? 😒🤦🏻♀️Lol the issue isn’t that we aren’t getting sex. It’s that we aren’t settling for shit sex with just anyone. I have three guys in my DMs rn. Believe me, sex is readily available. I just don’t feel like being “sex-zoned” by LVM (although, one of the three seems promising... but I will hold off defining him as a HVM until he has proven himself). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 12:33 PM |
| 71 | I don’t even know what to say.This hurts my heart. Glad she left | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 02:57 AM |
| 1 | FDS is anti polyamoryI report em on dating apps. There are poly dating apps and sites. I don’t get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:14 AM |
| 4 | Great reminder Ladies, DON'T FALL FOR POTENTIAL!!I’m in this picture and I don’t like it. But for real... guilty of this and I refuse to let it happen again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:05 AM |
| 2 | We should pray for her...Thanks I hate it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:03 AM |
| 6 | Never ditch your friends for a date and never let them change plans on youI’ve had this happen to me so many times. I don’t recall who said it on this sub, but someone mentioned that unless they give you a day, time and location at least 48 hours in advance, don’t bother. Wish I learned that earlier 🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Why do straight women even bother tbhI no longer count any ONS (from my pre-FDS lurking days lol) that lasted less than 5 minutes and couldn’t get it up for round two. At that point, it’s just a sad attempt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 06:05 PM |
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