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Definitely I would date someone who's shorter than me! In fact, the dude I'm pining over right now is just slightly shorter than me. It's actually surprisingly attractive. :) Edit: The only dude I have dated was about six feet tall. Which was okay I guess. I prefer dudes around my height or shorter (I'm 5'7"ish).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/15 09:04 AM
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Trains and cars are freaking awesome. I'm working in a factory this summer and I get so excited whenever I pass by the weld robots. I ended up going into accounting for my schooling because I'm better at financial math than engineering math I'm pretty sure (I decided at the last minute against automotive eng), but hey, love technology. I don't particularly care for motorbikes or dirtbikes though which is why people usually assume I'm not into machines... I dunno, I just don't care for them. This…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 08:46 PM
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Oh, it is. There's more than two or three however, but even so, I'm alright with being alone for now so it doesn't bother me too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 03:06 PM
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I'll send you harassing PMs if you promise not to report me <3 Haha, just kidding. I'm apparently not very threatening.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 12:38 PM
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Ahhh, gotcha. I get around this by attempting to find other asexual people to date. There are more of us - men and women - than you'd think!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 06:45 AM
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That is true indeed. I suppose my view of humans might be a little too optimistic in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 06:09 AM
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Thank you for insulting me; that was great. Just fantastic, very conducive to debate, very nice of you. Anyways, I apologize; I am rather tired and failed to notice the link in the OP. I just died a little inside. What's wrong with that? I didn't say I'm ONLY attracted to intelligent men, jussayin'. Obviously that's not the only factor for a relationship. And I'm not trying to be a special snowflake either, in case that's what you were trying to say. And before you mention it - yes, I know exact…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 06:09 AM
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I'm not so sure about that. My personal view is that each side - left or right - works in a certain situation. But it of course depends on the current political climate and everything else that's going on. Basically, there is a time and a place for a leftist government, just as there is a time and a place for a right wing government. It all very much depends on how the laws of that country are set up and how things are currently going. For instance, from what I have heard, since Stephen Harper's…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 06:01 AM
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Some of my views have been changed and some of them have stayed the same. I try my absolute hardest to look at both sides and not judge so I've been trying to figure out how each "side" is misunderstanding the other side - because there is quite a lot of misunderstanding going on, I think. Since I am also still relatively young, not all my opinions have really been formed yet so I'm still trying to take in as much information as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 05:42 AM
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Maybe intelligent people are as a rule generally busier, so they have less time to have sex? I'm not really sure. I'm romantically attracted to intelligent men but since I am asexual I'm not sure how valid my opinion on this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 05:39 AM
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Thing is - from what I saw, he wasn't concerned with her health (which is a perfectly valid reason to be ashamed!). He was insulting her and talking about how he no longer wanted to be seen with her because he was so disgusted, which is a bit different than being concerned for her health. The post title was, "Found out my sister is a whore, and now I can't even look at her anymore." It wasn't that he was concerned about her having STDs, it was that he saw her slutty behaviour and decided that sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/15 05:37 AM
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and you are clearly a bunch of fatties posting in here What does that have to do with anything? You don't have to be fat or ugly to have a problem with someone's standards. Personally, if someone only wanted to be on a relationship with me because of the way I look and they didn't care about my personality, that's not a relationship I want to be in. I have a lot of hobbies and interests that I would want to share with my partner, and I would sure hope he'd share mine with me. Note: this is just …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/15 06:26 AM
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Yes, I'd like to see these too! Although it wouldn't surprise me because honestly anyone with a brain would want to have equal parenting rights for both sexes and whatnot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/15 06:17 AM
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When people say physically demanding environment (in the context of gender differences) they don't think a safe but boring job. They think construction, oil rigs, garbage collection, firefighting etc. Jobs were gender strength/endurance differences come into full effect. There are many hazards in a factory, and factory workers are considered industrial athletes. You can easily sprain an ankle, pull a shoulder, etc. It may not be considered dangerous like an oil rig, but make no mistake, people s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 05:08 PM
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Women should be paid less in physically demanding environments. For the same work? I work on a production line in a factory. I'm expected to do the same work as my male coworkers and at the same speed. I'm glad to do it! I don't want a free ride, because that's bullshit. I'm female but that doesn't mean I'm fragile. I deserve to be paid the same. If women were doing less then yeah maybe that'd make sense, but as it is, everyone is expected to work at the same level regardless of gender or anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/15 07:32 AM
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Of course not. But conflating sexual harassment with rape is disingenuous at best. It's just absolutely absurd and disgusting to me. It's manufactured outrage. Oh yeah I know what you mean. No worries, I definitely got what you meant about rape and sexual harassment aren't the same thing; in fact I was kinda trying to say I agree but I am just bad at wording things clearly, I suppose. Hey. Thanks for listening and conversing. No problem! Always interesting to see the other side. When everyone tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/15 02:01 AM
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Sure, but that's not rape. I'm very much not a fan of the conflation of smacking on the butt, stealing a kiss, etc. with rape (non-consensual sex). Okay, yeah, true. I guess that's more in the area of sexual harassment which still isn't okay. Current society says the male is the rapist. Males have agency, females need to be infantilized (which imo, as a woman, you should be absolutely outraged about). That's if the current college system and the "yes means yes" movement is to be believed. Hmmm, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 06:27 PM
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What you said makes sense. Personally if someone tries to count an unwanted look as sexual assault, then that's crap (I mean, not that I'd like to be leered at or catcalled, but you know). If someone however is going around say slapping people on the ass unwanted, I'd say that does count as sexual assault. Actually interestingly, a friend and I had a discussion about people having sex while drunk and we had trouble making a concrete decision about which scenarios were rape and which weren't. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 03:23 PM
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Thanks for the articles. I'm looking through the links now. Although I was under the impression that rape culture meant that often sexual assaults aren't taken seriously/the victim is blamed (you shouldn't have drank so much, blah blah), rather than that the number of rapes happening is super high. Like, even if the number of rapes happening is low, the ones that do happen aren't really taken seriously, which is what I took the term rape culture to actually mean. Perhaps I am wrong about that. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 02:49 PM
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Hmmm, interesting. This place confuses me; sometimes people are fighting and the next moment people are joking like it never happened. That's not necessarily horrible I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 01:28 PM
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Thanks! I shall check it out. I'll also perhaps look into the histamine tolerance thing; I already go for blood work every few years due to allergies so I might as well ask my doctor about that next time I go. And to be fair, if my date somehow enabled me to get rid of my migraines, I'd be pretty enamored with them too. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 01:27 PM
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Thanks! That cleared things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/15 01:21 PM
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Just a quick question. Hope asking this here is alright. What is a sigma, gamma and omega? I know what the others are but I honestly can't figure those last three out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:34 PM
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Hmmm, I'll check it out. Thanks. Nope, I find Advil to be pretty good so I haven't really looked into anything else. I used to go with Tylenol but it's useless; even extra strength doesn't do much more than take the edge off slightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:29 PM
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Histories lessons are there. They aren't saying recreate nazi germeny and you know it. But it makes good outrage porn don't it ? From what I gather, there was one person encouraging that and the rest of the people were all like "what the hell dude, no" so I definitely agree with you there. And frankly, our jokes are easily funnier. Your humour skills are appallingly low. I enjoy how everyone in here likes to resort to insults eventually. PPD: the true humorous sub. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:19 PM
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"did you know that women only get 77 cent for every dollar a man earns for the same work?" Hmmm. I can totally see this happening depending on the field, so I don't think it's completely a myth. I took a look at this page, and it mentions that one of the reasons could be due to women leaving and re-entering the workforce due to kids and losing seniority, which actually is a really good reason for that kind of thing happening because in a ton of jobs pay is based on seniority and how many years y…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 11:14 PM
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I think of TBP as more of a support place? It helps us know that not everyone agrees with TRP. I like to think of myself as not being hateful but hey, maybe I screw up from time to time. I'm also easily pleased, so I do enjoy and often smile at what I read there. It doesn't make me stupid. I can be very smart and humorous if need be, but to be honest when I've just come home from 8 hours of physical labour (I work at a factory over the summer) I'd rather not have to think too much or pretend to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 10:58 PM
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Honestly? Hate isn't very productive anyway. It just tires you out and most of the time your target won't even care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 03:14 AM
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It's OK to say, 'all men are (potential) rapists' or 'most men' but when you make generalisations about women it's misogyny and NAWALT. Well, I mean, to be fair... When you don't know someone, it's fair enough to be cautious. All men are potential rapists, all women are potential crazy bitches, all people are potential murders, etc., you know, that kind of thing. But when you use it as a judgment against the other gender instead of saying "yeah look, this could happen so just be cautious alright…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 03:11 AM
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And TRP is, by definition, full of weak men. Men who didn't 'just get it', men who need to learn, step by explicit step, how to go from incel loser to reasonably sexually successful. They're despised for that weakness and more: for overcoming it enough to pass for attractive men. Defective appliances that look like good ones. Honestly, the main problem I have with some of these guys is their lack of empathy and selfishness. I don't think TRP is allll bad but there are definitely the really bad a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/15 02:49 AM
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I'm not against them, but I've heard of far more cases of MRAs doxxing and threatening to kill women/men they don't like than feminists. This is why I'm hesitant to associate myself with such a movement. However, I don't align myself with feminism either because I don't align myself with MRM. Here's the thing. I believe that both groups essentially want the same thing (equality for both genders), but instead of working together they spend all their time fighting and demonizing the other gender. …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/15 09:09 AM
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I had exactly the same issue. This is why I no longer identify as feminist either, although of course I believe in equality and that people should be allowed to do what works for them.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/15 04:29 AM
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Actually a fair amount of medications have weight gain listed as a side effect, namely antidepressants and I think some forms of birth control, so that could probably be some of it. I'm not going to make an assumption as to how many people are fat due to this as I've never researched it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 07:12 AM
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That is very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 02:21 PM
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Yeah, that was part of why my friend and I couldn't come to a hard and fast conclusion. There's no clear measurement for if someone is too drunk to be able to properly consent, except if they've been drugged (like with date-rape drugs such as Rohypnol where the clear intent is to take advantage of something - which is why it's so important to watch your drink) or something like you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 02:19 PM
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Okay, cool. Thank you. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 02:31 AM
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Hey, question. So if a thread is marked Ask TRP, does that mean BP users shouldn't post there at all? Or can we like reply to comments and stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 02:14 AM
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I think it probably has something to do with the fact that everyone likes to believe that they're a good person, and good person seems to be synonymous with nice person for a lot of people. (Personally, I don't really believe that; you can be good without being nice to everyone, although in the same vein I don't believe you can be good if you hold a lot of hatred for a lot of people. You can also be nice without being good. I'm talking about niceness as how you outwardly present to people, like …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 01:19 AM
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Or maybe the explanation is that intelligent women study stuff at random, going by what they like best instead of what brings in the most money as an intelligent man would. This dovetails with the idea that men still need to be breadwinners, while women are more often in college to have fun, to find themselves or to find a husband. I dunno if this is necessarily true. I have enough guy friends in political science (okay, the satellite campus of my university shares with a community college and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 01:10 AM
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I think there's a lot of discouragement against women going into math-based fields. Wasn't a big issue where I'm from and I knew enough girls who went into sciences (one of my closest friends being one), but I absolutely do know of cases like this and just because it wasn't a big issue where I'm from doesn't mean it was nonexistent. I wanted to do mechanical/automotive engineering for the longest time but considering the degree to which I absolutely despise calculus, and my lack of ambition (I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/15 12:54 AM
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Someone who is legitimately asexual, however, (such as myself) isn't going to fake it however, or at least the aces I've met generally won't, because if you don't want sex it's take really stressful to be in a relationship where that's a huge issue, so I wouldn't worry about that too much. On AVEN there's a fair amount of talk about differing sex drives and how to find someone compatible. I guess allosexual women with low sex drive but who still feel sexual attraction might fake it, though. Howe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 11:02 PM
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Good point... I hadn't thought of it that way before. Thinking about it now, rape culture being seen as a male led thing, like you suggested, probably harms men who have actually been raped. I have heard of cases where the man is raped by his girlfriend or another woman but he's the one who ends up being put in jail.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 07:54 PM
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That why possible rapes need to be dealt in a case-to-case basis, not in a "I drank, gotcha , you are now automatic rapist". And especially not let the campus judge in place of a court of law. This is exactly right! But eh , anything to inflate rape numbers, and to justify the existence of a "rape culture" and therefore the relevance of academic feminism. Well, I'd say there is a sort of rape culture out there; maybe not as bad as we have been led to believe, though. I think it's a fair term bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 06:50 PM
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I'd say it really depends, as alcohol affects everyone differently. Went to my first party a while ago and some people were definitely a lot more in control than others. It depends on how lightweight you are and whatnot, and what you're drinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 06:45 PM
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Now, if the latter has sex and regrets it afterwards (maybe she cheated on her boyfriend, maybe she wouldn't have fucked the guy when sober), would you say this qualifies as rape? No, because it wasn't forced on her. I have no idea what woman in her right mind would say that sex she regrets was actually rape... If you get really horny while drunk and use that as an excuse to cheat on your boyfriend and then claim you were raped... that's rude. Bit unrelated to the above: Personally I find this s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 06:42 PM
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They're not very nice, but they do sound pretty cool. Everyone likes rhyming.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/15 06:27 PM
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I think the person who asked about posting it on PPD was actually genuinely curious, not just a troll. There are definitely those BPers who just seek to understand TRP. (Mind, it is a satire sub as well, so most are just going to make fun.)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 12:58 AM
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I think he means blue pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 12:50 AM
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Hmmm, perhaps it is. I'm not entirely sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:47 PM
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Yeah, we have equal rights now... However, I think we still need feminism to ensure it remains that way. Granted, the same goes for guys as well. Provided each group (feminism/MRA) is run correctly, I think they're necessary to ensure that the pendulum doesn't swing too far in either direction. (I personally believe that the two sides should stop fighting because most people in the movements seem to want exactly the same thing!)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 05:00 AM
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I dunno, it's perfectly acceptable to be angry, but there's a difference between constructive and destructive anger. Somehow I've ended up with a lot of guy best friends and acquaintances. I've noticed a difference between the two "types" of anger. Destructive anger is kind of pointless and nobody wants to be around a person who's full of that, because they're negative and will destroy your soul over time. Then there's anger that results in something actually getting done, and that is constructi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 11:52 AM
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And those women are jerks. I would never cry rape unnecessarily because I don't have the need to ruin someone's life for no reason, but, you know, I'm just a reasonable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/15 11:47 AM
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Yes I am aware :) but I rarely see it actually said in debates between RP and BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 04:54 PM
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Yeah like I mean, the negging defined in rp132's comment is just normal negging, and we even do it with our friends. My default way of interacting with anybody includes lots of good natured teasing and mocking, and taking the other person's jabs like a champ! I don't know if negging as in being abusive is the right word for it anyway, but eh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 05:47 AM
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This seriously needs to be the top comment!!! Men and women are different (although not always significantly) and people should be able to have the choice to find the relationship dynamic they feel most comfortable in, whether that is the captain/first mate dynamic of TRP or a more egalitarian approach as seen in the BP. Both are great as long as the people involved are happy in it. I don't see this said often enough, and yet it is pretty much exactly what I believe. Thank you very much!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 05:32 AM
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Its the treatment that reality, and indeed they themselves incentivize. How do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/15 05:29 AM
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It has everything to do with feminism. 1) The college gender gap is at all time highs 2) Public schools are dominated by women, there are very few male teachers/male role models. So women hold boys to girl standards. 3) There are a LOT of good high paying jobs in the trades and many trades are in danger of not having enough workers replace the retiring workers. Our education system is designed around girls, but boys learn differently and are interested in different things. Vocational schools are…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/15 04:11 AM
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Hmmm... a major problem I see with a lot of TRP stuff is that it assumes an exclusively heterosexual mindset. Which is of course not a problem, but as an asexual lady, it confuses and worries me because I would never do some of the things on this list anyway. I don't want to be judged based on a common heterosexual mindset when I don't have it (I don't care if you're hot because I'm not attracted to you anyways), because so many of TRP's complaints about women are related to sexuality and that..…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/14 03:34 AM
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