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I have tried therapy few times and it always seemed waste of time and money. My last therapist was just nodding and being "uh-huh" while I was talking and didn't actually offer any meaningful insights. There's no quarantee that your therapist has healed their own wounds and have done the inner work themselves. Most people haven't. They are just normal people with many personal issues. At worst, a bad therapy can be very damaging. For example, someone with NPD can just use it as a another manipul…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:37 PM
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Well their not, feminists are the first ones to call out individuals woman’s spew and ensure it’s not linked to them. I've never seen any feminist call out any crap other women say. Not public feminist figures, feminist politicians or online. I've seen non-feminist women call out feminist crap, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 09:07 PM
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But if he's going online to rant about how all dating issues are caused by evil women and feminists blah blah blah i suppose it's best that guy stays alone. There are many women out there struggling with loneliness too. I lose empathy for hurting people who desire to hurt other people. You could go to r/4bmovement and find the exact same rhetoric about how all issues are caused by evil men bla bla bla. I suppose you don't see the double standards here. I mean, look at the top posts there, everyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/25 01:12 PM
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Damn right we are. And also, men are starting to realize that most of women are not worth complimenting because they don't actually value those compliments at all and treat men like shit in return. Compliments only makes women's ego even bigger and makes them become more arrogant and cocky each passing year. So yeah, chasing is not worth it. I rather be single than chase some woman who then expects princess treatment from me and gives me breadcrumbs in return. Women have overplayed their hand, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:50 PM
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Maybe I'm not trying to be attractive right now? Why am I not allowed to "let the entire world know"? As a man, I can't talk about my issues? Why are men always judged based on their attractiveness to women? You know, maybe I dgaf about how attractive women think I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 09:38 PM
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If you want to pretend that this is some kind of thing you can just "work out with discipline" you are terribly wrong. Everyone has breaking point, just because you haven't reached yours doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Just because you had the required positive feedback loop in your childhood for building a base for condifence and decent parents doesn't mean everyone had. As a woman you probably also get constant approaches so it isn't nearly the same situation. You are still playing super duper …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 08:46 PM
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Nah. More like, people here have tried and tried their assess off, only to be rejected a million times and basically given up since it's not worth it. You try to keep that positive attitude while getting nothing but rejections. Oh wait, you never actually have to approach as a woman. You don't have to put any "work" at all. So easy for you to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 06:54 PM
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Agree with the OP. Women will lose interest in you if your shoes are wrong color or some other completely arbitary reason. There's no logic to it. They will psychoanalyze your entire life and worth from the first impression with their "woman's intuition". You didn't shave your beard today, well that's a red flag you must be a loser looking for a mom instead of a gf. It's exhausting. And after you break up, she will immediately have a next replacement ready to jump into and forged all about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:33 PM
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I used to be a "feminist man" for many years. I can say that it mostly came from a sick desire to feel superior to other men by shaming and laughing at the "bad" men. And from internalized misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:36 PM
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Of course people's self worth and security stem from how other people treat them. Humans are social creatures. It's in our genetics. Humans need other humans and our ancestors depended on each other to survive. Easy to act all Jesus on anonymous reddit, I bet you are 100% just as desperate (if not more) for validation as all the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:30 PM
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All people, men and women, don't want to feel like their partner settled for them. People want to feel desired. Men want to feel desired and all men (or at least most men) want to experience that "feral sex". That is the point OP is trying to make. If that is a prerequisite for man to feel sexually desired then he has right to end things right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:03 PM
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Women say the cruelest and meanest things about men all the time and it is considered completely normal. Men are pigs, kill all men, I'd rather choose a bear than a man, no wonder you can't get laid, you probably have a micropenis, eww what a creep, etc. It is okay to body shame men and laugh at socially awkward men. Is it fair that I call those women misandrists then? There is no way a man could ever criticize women or feminism without being called misogynist or incel. You can't criticize femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:41 PM
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Having non-judgemental societal discussions about men's issues. Allowing men to talk about their issues and experiences without shaming them or labeling them as incels or misogynists. We need to also stop selling unrealistic exceptations about romantic love to people in general. Not everyone will ever find "the one". Some people have to choose between settling for an okayish relationship or being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:05 AM
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Nah, it's the opposite. Having the false belief that world is a just place is a convenient way for people to avoid accountability of admitting their privileges and continue feeling superior to others who "failed". It's convenient way to ignore systemic issues in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:32 PM
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Part of me thinks they subconsciously understand that it isn't fair for men, but cognitive dissonance makes them believe that the men must have done something to deserve it, so it's ok. Most people are not ready to accept how fucked up and unjust the world truly is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 04:48 PM
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Ghosting in general is weak and despicable behaviour. A healthy adult should be capable of saying "Hey I'm sorry I don't see this going anywhere, wish you luck!" or something. Even if it just a dating app, you should treat people with respect. Ghosting definitely says a lot about the maturity of the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:14 AM
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What women think as confidence is not really confidence. What women mean by confidence is that man should never show their emotions (except the positive and agreeable ones). In fact, I think the entire concept of "confidence" is rooted in misandry. Man showing their insecurity, their fear, their bitterness, their frustration and other "unsexy" emotions and thus becoming a social reject for being honest and genuine? Man not being agreeable and calling out bs they see? Men going against the societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:48 PM
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Meh, let's just agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:03 PM
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Maybe the sex buyers are really deprived of human touch. Maybe they have been lonely and rejected all their lives. Maybe they were abused and traumatized in the past and buying for sex is the only way for them to ever experience it. Maybe they have horrible deformations that make relationships impossible for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 04:00 PM
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And you can flip burgers to fullfill your needs for income. I'm sure many sex workers offer emotional support and cuddling as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:55 PM
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I have no rebuttal to your comment because it was so incredibly dumb straw man and not really worth answering. But okay, let's respond: Women or men cannot know if the sex is going to be quality sex beforehand. So when women (or men) have sex with someone new, they are obivously hope that it is going to be worth it, otherwise they obivously wouldn't be doing it. So your straw man is absolutely not equivalent to the situation I presented. If a man is not homosexual, they obviously get no sexual s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:53 PM
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Think about that yourself, troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:41 PM
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Then it's also exploitation of despair of lonely men to offer them sex. You can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:40 PM
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You know that's not the same, so stop with the dumb straw man lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:39 PM
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How do you know it's quality sex before doing the act?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:38 PM
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It's not "exploitation" if it is between two consenting adults. If it is human trafficking, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:37 PM
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That's just incredibly dumb and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 03:35 PM
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Isn't that kind of misogynistic to think that those adult women selling sex are not capable of taking responsibility of their actions on their own? That a man needs to take responsiblity for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:26 AM
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Many average guys don't even get a chance for a date, so they don't ever get a chance to show their personality. And since they never get a chance, they never get to train their dating skills and they don't learn how to talk to women, approach women or flirt with women. So they come off as shy and awkward around women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:06 AM
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Access to casual sex = access to potentially quality sex No access to any sex = Not even potential access to quality sex Sex isn't always "quality sex" for men either just because they get an orgasm. There's more to it than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 11:00 AM
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Many women absolutely value casual sex. Humans enjoy sex, period. It's stupid to say otherwise. Just because women don't view casual sex as benefit (because then they would lose the oppressed victim card) doesn't mean it isn't a benefit. Maybe most one night stands with drunken strangers are not enjoyable for women, but they can just as easily make some fwb arrangements. There's many women in polyamorous relationships who absolutely are looking for casual sex outside their relationship. There ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 10:54 AM
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So, welcome to normal experience of every man on gender issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:53 PM
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As a man, all I want from women is that they finally admit their shallowness and stop always attempting to paint themselves in a good light. How women typically talk about who they like and who they don't like honestly feels like gaslighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 10:38 PM
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Nobody is dismissing men's feelings. But you are. If you had any capability for self-reflection you'd realize that. I could also say that feminism is a political movement who constantly attempts to guild trip, shame and attack men. But you don't seem to understand these double standards. And do you think these alt right groups gain traction out of nowhere? Maybe it is because men have grown bitter and resentful because they only get blamed, shamed and guild tripped about everything and their emo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 09:45 PM
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Would it really kill you to not make everything about yourself? And no, you are "not used to it", that's just another way for you to low key say that I, as a man, should "man up and shut up" and not talk about men's issues. It's just another attempt to dissmiss men's feelings. If there's no consipary against men, there isn't one against women either. You can't have it both ways. Men are not collectively conspiring to make women's lives miserable, like feminists imply with patriarchy. Most men ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 08:04 PM
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Men struggle much harder to get first dates. Yay men win a struggle contest, now what? So, admitting privileges doesn't suddenly matter and we should just hush about when it is women's privileges we are talking about but when it's about men's privileges men need to feel constant shame and guilt about it? Hypocrites. When we admit the truth that women have some things, even many things, better than men do, we can finally stop the false feminist narrative that women are always victims and men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:44 PM
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The more I think about it, the less I think it's worth it... To me, changing myself to cater for outside approval does not sound like a more "confident" version of myself but less confident. Changing oneself for other's approval is a action of insecurity and weakness, in my opinion. And I am just incapable to changing who I am. I think I'm just going to stay single lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:20 AM
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I didn't start seeing results with women (or just socially or gain respect from other people) until I learned to stop being a coward and ask girls out. Be respectfully persistent, not care if they reject me, go for what I want regardless of how I'm feeling that day. I had to hit the gym, practice socializing with strangers, go to parties and be the social leader. It's disheartening to see my lady friends (even the extremely ugly ones, don't tell them I said that lol they're sweet) get non stop o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 08:33 PM
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