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Sweetie, there is no victory arguing with anybody on this subreddit for some of the most insufferable people who (most likely) lie about your life. Its not a burn, its sad. Youre a woman (maybe) in a marriage (possibly) and you do this with your time? Your husband is just as much a loser for not picking someone who has actual hobbies and is actually a productive member of society. Funny enough though, you say its not embarrassing to use reddit but every time the question comes up of "would you r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:28 PM
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Oh yea! You should meet my home girl with a pretty bad temper. She'll love to be a super fan! You guys should meet. You can bring your "husband" (if he exist) too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:24 PM
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Ma'am, you spend majority of your time on this subreddit. Go hike a trail, go change some oil in your car, freaking join a debate team in real life where you actually have to face other people and NOT be behind a screen. Go scrape your knee and get some skin in the game. And yes, its embarrassing (man or woman) that your spouse chooses to come to this subreddit. Sweetie, im gonna break this down for you again. At no family, work, or social function is it a flex to say "My wife spends a lot of ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:19 PM
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Shoot ill say you go and enjoy your life and make the most of it. Im outta here!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:43 PM
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You know what's funny though? And a big reason im leaving reddit? The last thing I would want my spouse to say is "Yeah, my wife spends a lot of her time arguing against guys who are in college or younger than her in general. Yup, my wife is a user on purplePillDebate, sure she can do anything else with her time but... nope, she chose to argue about gender dynamics. While lying about how perfect and amazing her life is." Im sorry but its not a flex for your partner to be on this subreddit. If an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 02:02 PM
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Thank you! This bitch always has something to say. And they want us to believe they have an amazing social life but spends all day here!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:41 PM
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Nope, im gonna make 100% sure I dont feel bad one bit when I dump them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:57 PM
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No, because the man should build confidence along the way for himself. You guys love to talk self improvement. Hey im sorry I've continued helping around the house, the kids, and taking care all the finances while you have become lazy. Ye, I have every right to divorce you for being lazy and being a inconvenience to my life. Remember, a person who is happy single can leave another person for the simplist mistake. I suggest men learn to be self fulfilled and get their life together. Because nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:56 PM
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Wait now, what's so bad about taking care of your kids and actually being a part of their life? Im saying that once a person has taken all that responsibility someone will become lazy. I dont care if my wife (ex) meets someone else, I care that im an independent man who has full custody of the kids. Imagine seeing the children as a burden. Thats real down bad. Let me ask you, if you do said habits listed above in becoming a better man; those habits usually stick. What are you threatened by a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 02:50 PM
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Youre right, so for the husband the best thing he can do is continue therapy, use the practice and do the exercises. Next he needs to learn better communication and domestic skills. Put more help around the house. Then the man should slowly start to take more and more of the domestic and parenting duties. Shoot ill say start going to more PTAs, conferences, clean up around the house and cook more. Take it one step further and take all her duties. Make it so she doesnt have to lift a finger. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:09 PM
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Its amazing how much of a message one can convey with "I". I dont mind keeping myself accountable, you just might not like what would I say. Saying "If I was mentally healthy I would never have entertained this relationship." Really hits different doesnt it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:34 PM
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Youre kinda right. All a man has to do is block out the guilt of dumping a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:48 PM
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No, I have a pretty decent life. Let me ask you, how long do you think such a relationship should last? 3 months to 4 maybe. No more than 6 possibly. So youre saying i have a miserable life for leaving a toxic woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:24 PM
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"She maybe toxic but it could be in my head. Let me make 100% sure but NOT pour into it."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:20 PM
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Im not saying it doesnt happen. I just rarely see it happen. I used to be like some of these AWALT guys that was deep in the Kool aid. But there was one video that can turn any redpilled or hurt man into someone more nuance and that NAWALT. This video is the cure: https://www.facebook.com/NYPost/videos/pro-life-activist-sucker-punched-during-nyc-street-interview-on-abortion/1620144815305170/ Now that's a woman I can stand behind. She's willing to fight for her beliefs. No tapping on a keyboard. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:17 PM
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Because when I leave I need to be 100 percent sure. I refuse to feel like I made a mistake in leaving
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:05 PM
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No, because I always make sure to take them somewhere nice (particularly a place that brings them joy or that they love) and I make sure everything seems like its going well. They usually think their off the hook, but I dump them. I call it the Disney World method. The worst thing you can do to a human child is abandon them at disney world if its their favorite place. Especially if they think its a safe space. I will purposely dump a toxic woman at her safe space so she doesnt want to go back th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:01 PM
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No, I wait until they make a mistake that is objectively bad and then I leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:29 PM
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It would help if those women debated each other. That would be nice :3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:22 PM
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Yeah, but im not going to be the bad guy in your story. 30x better if they have friends that hold them accountable and just wont let go of it until she gets it :3
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:17 PM
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You're correct in this, so the best thing a man can say is this: "I do not like the way im treated in this relationship. I feel neglected and unseen. I also feel like I'm doing majority of the emotional work and physical labor. So IM leaving this relationship to find someone who can actually act like a girlfriend (especially in public). But my therapist did tell me that I need to work on certain things to attract a good woman. I will work on that. Hopefully I can find someone who is healed and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:11 PM
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You know, I agree but I think it would be easier for men to leave if a woman could admit "Hey, I AM the toxic one. Youre justified in leaving me based on how I treated you." As long as a woman can admit she's toxic and she admits her part in the failure of the relationship. I have no problem leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:03 PM
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And its good for men to go to therapy. Nothing beats telling a toxic woman "You know, my therapist did say...."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 08:01 PM
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Hey Lilith, just so you know. Your ex told me everything. The breakup was all your fault. You ruined your own relationship and you take no accountability for it. Im glad he got married and is happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:35 PM
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No but her ex boyfriend told me that she sabotaged her own relationship by bringing problems on this sub to her real life relationship. I got the scoop 😌
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:34 PM
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Hey Lilith :3 your ex spilled the beans on everything. It wasn't him, it was you!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:38 PM
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Would anybody like to hear how I got in contact with Liliths ex boyfriend and he told me everything that happened? What if I told you that she was the cause of the break up and it was her all along. What i told you her ex told me she plays victim :3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 09:35 PM
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And again.... these are YOUR friends? These are the people you choose to hang out with? .... that says a lot :/
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:23 PM
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No, she's right. But if she's wrong... call her out. Come on. Do it. Call her out on how she's wrong and explain why she's wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:14 PM
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Well, if you have such an amazing life. You should have no time to be here. You should have bounds of people to talk to if you have a good social circle. You do have a social circle...don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 06:12 PM
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Its really crazy how that works doesn't it? Out of all the hobbies, you chose this one? Really? If you choose debating as your downtime hobby then your life cant be that different than the men on here. (Not you as in "you" the person "you"). Another good one? If a lot of the men here are autistic and take things too literal. They are actually the perfect men to use that advice. So if you give then men in here advice and it doesnt work (remember They take things very literal here.) That means one…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 05:46 PM
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Legitimate question: Who with a full, happy, hobby-driven life, with friends and family; Would purposely get up in the morning or anytime of day and say "Yeah, my life is going so great I need to come to a DEBATE forum to have a better day." A lot of people here advocate for therapy. I asked my therapist (who has been in practice for 35 years) "Who does that?" Man looked me straight in the eyes and said "If you had a great life, why would you be on a debate forum? If you want to debate join a cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:16 PM
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