| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 0 | Do women fall love with anyone they find attractive? | Question For Women | Ambitious_Campaign34 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 12:11 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 3 | If you have to use Money or Status to attract a Women she just doesnt like you that much.Are you money only attracts hoes and gold diggers aren't you attracted to rich men yourself? And it's funny you mentioned marriages, some billionaires seems to lasts longer than others. Most billionaires didn't marry wealthy women at all. They were barely surviving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 06:11 AM |
| 5 | The Selectors Trying to Minimize the Privilege of Being the SelectorsI call BS instant attraction exists, Women decide within seconds if a man has high value mate potential. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/26 08:25 AM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?Some women do ignore red flags for different reasons but 1) men don't even know what red flags are.. I would disagree with that completely. Thing is Men do know red flags they just react to them differently. Here is why.. Men often see the red flags but ignore them cuz of scarcity, fear of losing access, or not having many dating options. But yall Women often see the red flags but ignore them cuz of attraction and emotional.. investment. "Why is a woman blamed more than aactual piece of shit?" L… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 08:54 AM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?Lol women will ignore the red flags and come up with tons of excuses if they can see they are bad to other people why can't they see that behavior will soon or later be them next? I think they enjoy the drama that comes with the relationship. Guys who treats them better are boring. So best thing to keep them is extract some things the bad boys do. But still been yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 06:46 AM |
| – | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?If you have been single since 2018 and truly don’t miss anything about having a partner… are you sure it’s cuz you are happier alone, or cuz the kind of man you actually want stopped showing up in your life so choosing "independence"’ feels safer than risking disappointment again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 06:29 AM |
| -2 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.Female love is conditional on who the man continues to be, not who he was once. Men don’t get unconditional love. They get performance-based attraction: maintain value or you lose it. Your relationship may be healthy, that's great. But it works cuz he’s showing up as the man you respect, not because love is magically unconditional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 06:56 AM |
| -1 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.Nah Men and women might both split assets, but women statistically walk away with more safety nets, more financial benefits, and less long-term risk.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 06:42 AM |
| -1 | Women don't love you, they love what you can do for them.Wonder what the blue pill Christians gon say to this lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 06:26 AM |
| 1 | What’s with the “I hate lustful men” trend?Lol its funny You say “dating value isn’t real,” but that ignores how humans actually behave. If dating value weren’t real well some men wouldn’t get ignored or friend-zoned while others get chased right? Some women wouldn’t say “I can do better” after a breakup. Celebrity men wouldn’t have thousands or millions of women competing for them, while average guys struggle for a reply in a given day. So Whether we like it or not, people rank each other based on traits that matter to them: looks, conf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 09:59 AM |
| 1 | What’s with the “I hate lustful men” trend?You must be kidding right? If most women want to be valued beyond sex, why do so many choose men cuz they are desired by other women, have high sexual selection, and display traits linked to status, protection, and provisioning? If sex isn’t central, why does a man’s dating value drop instantly when women stop finding him sexually attractive even if his personality stays the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 04:45 AM |
| 5 | Nuances on spontaneous and responsive desireHear me out: this is exactly why men don’t take “women are attracted to personality” seriously. Yall will scroll past good men like they are invisible, but suddenly a demonic sewer clown has a shot? Wow! That’s not “personality,” that’s chaos. Men have always known the truth: attraction for women isn’t just looks or character it's whatever triggers her emotions the hardest. That’s why the bad boy, the toxic ex, and now apparently Pennywise all get a “maybe." This doesn’t prove women have deeper … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 02:10 PM |
| 9 | Nuances on spontaneous and responsive desireWrong! Yeh Women say they’re attracted to personality, but, personality only matters after a man passes her minimum attraction threshold. If she isn’t attracted on some level already, the “great personality” just lands him in the friend zone. Would say Looks aren’t everything, but pre-selection, confidence, status, and masculine frame create that initial spark before she ever cares about who he is deep down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 12:04 PM |
| 0 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?How? U don't gotta be a mind reader. You vet a good-looking bad boy by ignoring the charm and watching the pattern. Red flags don’t come from his words, they come from his habits. Looks only get him in the door discipline, loyalty, and consistency are what keep him there. If he can’t control his impulses, you already have your answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 11:27 AM |
| -3 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?You’re looking at it backwards. If someone can “pretend” for 3 months, the real issue isn’t that they changed it’s that you didn’t vet properly. Evolutionary psychology says you don’t get attached just cuz someone shows you attention; you watch their patterns, not their performance. or just rely on the looks that would say everything about them. People don’t suddenly switch personalities at month 3. What actually happens is this: in the beginning, you projected who you wanted them to be. You got… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Women are more attracted to social status than social skills.Meh I see where you are going with this, thing is You are confusing status with social skills, but they are not the same thing and one outweighs the other by miles. When a woman is with a man of true status not fake Instagram clout, but genuine value power, confidence, ambition, and respect from others,.. she’s not staying cuz he’s “entertaining” or “fun.” She’s staying cuz she feels something deeper: safety, admiration, and the desire to be chosen by a high-value man. That feeling doesn’t come … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 10:48 AM |
| 3 | Women are more attracted to social status than social skills.This is straight facts. status is the ultimate social skill. When your presence alone commands attention, you don’t need to “entertain” anyone people naturally align with your frame. Social skills matter when you’re trying to win approval; status flips that dynamic people try to win yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Women are more attracted to social status than social skills.That’s what men without status say to feel better about not having it. The truth is physical attraction and social skills might get you in, but status decides if you stay. A man with no status can be charming for a night, but a man with high status changes how people including women treat him long-term. Social skills and looks are tools. Status is leverage. It’s what makes people listen before you even speak. You can fake charisma, you can’t fake power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 04:05 AM |
| 1 | if men dislike high maintenance women then how come they are still pursuing them?Nah, it’s not cope but its awareness. Most men don’t follow women; they just haven’t learned the game yet. High-maintenance women aren’t the prize, men with options are. Once a man builds value, he stops chasing validation and starts choosing women who add peace, not pressure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.The krazy thing is ifthe big guy just let the bad guy harass them more those women, would have complained "You're not a man enough" how could you let him treat us like that "? The society is cooked beyond logic here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.Smh Bad taste in men..usually means she’s emotionally drawn to excitement, drama, or traits that trigger her feelings not to stability or logic. It’s not about "taste"..it’s about emotional programming. Women often say they want a good man, but they feel attraction to men who spark chaos, not calm. That’s the contradiction they don’t like admitting. It always happens that's a vicious cycle spiriling in most women lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 11:08 AM |
| 0 | I'm questioning something I learned from the red pill. It's about red flags.You say red pill guys stereotype you but are they stereotyping you personally, or responding to a statistical pattern that your aesthetic unintentionally aligns with? If most women with that style behave a certain way, is it irrational for men to assume probabilities before evidence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/25 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do women claim "personality matters most" but then act revolted when they see a mid to ugly looking guy with a beautiful woman?It's cuz attraction is the entry ticket, not the whole show. Evolutionary psychology says : men and women aren’t the same when it comes to what sparks attraction. Men can build interest over time if a woman’s loyal, kind, and feminine but for women, attraction has to start strong. It’s biological. Women are hypergamous by nature; they are drawn to strength, confidence, and status first, and personality only matters after that initial spark. So when men get confused about needing to be physically… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do women claim "personality matters most" but then act revolted when they see a mid to ugly looking guy with a beautiful woman?You are right that women don’t say “looks don’t matter” in an absolute sense but that’s not the point men are making. The issue isn’t what women say; it’s what they respond to. When men talk about being “lied to,” it’s not literal deception it's that society sells men a comforting illusion: For etc “Be nice, be supportive, show personality, put her needs first and the right woman will see your worth.” But reality shows something else lol women only notice that personality after attraction is tri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 12:11 PM |
| 12 | What women say they want in dating is the complete opposite of what they're attracted to.That’s exactly how it works,, attraction is the filter, not the foundation. Men do the same with beauty as women do with status and confidence. The difference is, women want a man whose softness is exclusive cuz his strength is universal. If he’s soft with everyone, he loses the edge that made you attracted in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Women are having bad experience in dating because of their own choices" I know red pillars don't like to hear this but you don't need to be attractive to all women. Nobody is. Not even the Hemsworth brothers, preety men just get fuckzoned over and over again till they develop attachment issues" Lol this. Sounds demented AF. If pretty men are constantly “fuckzoned,” then why do women still chase those same men while ignoring the ones who’d actually commit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 08:15 PM |
| – | Women don't have better emotional intelligence then men.Meh evolutionary psychology proponents says that women aren’t inherently gullible, but rather they are motivated by their biological impulses and can be influenced by a man who understands those dynamics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad?Kool I get it you have built a life you value. I have done the same. I don’t date people who need to be carried or whose standards rely on someone else’s effort. If you can’t handle your own shit and match your lifestyle on your own, then dating me isn’t going to magically change that you would just be adding a liability, not a partner. And If top Men in your city go for independence and youth, what makes you think a 30-year-old who needs support is going to attract one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad?“Are we talking adults (like in their 30s dating) or college kids. College kids don’t expect the guy they are dating to be rich, have some ambition maybe but when in college we’re all broke.” That’s the illusion women in college might not expect men to be rich, but they’re already selecting based on future potential. Hypergamy doesn’t start at 30 it just matures. Even in college, girls are drawn to the guys who show signs of leadership, confidence, social proof, or ambition the ones who look lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Do you think women's standard for a partner is bad?Looks and money a lots of them would lie saying nah he Aint gotta be rich what what. Problem is the 20% they want got lots of options and don’t look their way so they’re only left with men their level they don’t desire so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 05:40 AM |
| – | Women actually agree with redpill ideals they just dislike the brandingOf course you think it’s “nothing insightful” cuz you are judging it through hindsight bias. Everyone knows attraction exists, but what red pill does is strip away the comforting lies: women say they want “nice guys,” but in practice they chase status, confidence, and dominance. The “game theory nonsense”’ you dismiss is just the uncomfortable mechanics of female hypergamy laid bare. It’s not that ambition or looks being attractive is new it’s the pattern of why women reward certain men and igno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 11:32 AM |
| 9 | The reason why many men like the idea of being "sex material" isn't because they're only interested in sex.Exactly you just proved the point. You admit that without attraction first, there’s no relationship. That’s why men emphasize looks cuz attraction is the gateway. “Compatibility” only becomes a filter once the guy has already passed the attraction threshold. We have already stretched the topic so much now in this sub. And when women stay hooked on those “toxic” men, it shows the hierarchy clearly: attraction > compatibility. If compatibility truly mattered more, women would choose the men they g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 08:07 PM |
| 8 | The reason why many men like the idea of being "sex material" isn't because they're only interested in sex.Well If “compatibility” mattered more than raw attraction, why do women consistently stay hooked on men they claim are “toxic,” “bad for them,” or “not compatible at all” while ignoring the “nice guys” they say they’re compatible with? It’s so confusing.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsThat’s the point thou, men don’t care about “chemistry” in the same way women do. A man can get along with you, joke with you, and still never want a relationship unless there’s sexual attraction. The difference is women often frame attraction as “chemistry” for etc (getting along, shared vibe, emotional spark,,) when really it’s just a softer word for hypergamous attraction. And no, men aren’t surprised women don’t sleep with guys they aren’t attracted to. The surprise is that women will happil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 05:48 PM |
| 1 | In certain cases husband material is better than hookup materialWhen you say you weren’t attracted until you saw his personality, that doesn’t mean attraction was irrelevant it means your threshold was different. You needed to see enough non-physical value before attraction kicked in. But that’s still hypergamy at work: choosing the best balance of traits among your options. In short: women don’t “break the rule,” they just apply it differently depending on their pool of choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 04:32 PM |
| 1 | In certain cases husband material is better than hookup materialSure, men do go for the best women they can get but the criteria are completely different. Men prioritize youth, beauty, fertility, while women prioritize status, security, and capability. That’s why an average-looking guy with money or status can still date attractive women, but an average-looking woman can’t “buy” her way into dating top men with her career success. As for “kindness” that’s not what drew you in at first. No woman meets a man, sees he’s kind, and instantly feels attraction. You… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 05:53 AM |
| 1 | In certain cases husband material is better than hookup materialNah listen Low value isn’t about some universal checklist like 6ft, 6 figures, 6-pack. It’s relative. Your husband might not be a “Chad” to Instagram, but he was the highest value you could lock down in your dating pool. That’s what hypergamy is women don’t marry the global top guy, they marry the best they can get. And once you are emotionally invested, you will frame his flaws as “quirky” or “cute” cuz you are already chosen him. That doesn’t disprove the dynamics it proves them. You didn’t ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 04:18 AM |
| 2 | In certain cases husband material is better than hookup materialEven women who claim they “don’t hookup” still operate under hypergamy and social signaling. “Hookup material” isn’t about actual sex for them it’s about status, validation, and access to high-value men. If a man has low value, no matter her stated preference, she won’t give him attention. So “not interacting” isn’t rejection of hookups it’s just selective allocation of attention toward high-value options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsMeh Saying “chemistry isn’t inherently sexual” is half-truth. That’s terribly baked. Thing is the emotional and intellectual chemistry may exist, but if there’s no physical spark, the man gets placed in the friendzone, not the bedroom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsAmazing reply.. If you really think the spark is “more than looks,” then why don’t you ever feel it with guys you are not attracted to? Be honest the interaction only feels magical when he’s good-looking and carries himself with confidence. Without that, you call it “friend vibes.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/25 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsNot really. What most people call “spark” is just lust and novelty. True chemistry is mutual respect, alignment in values, and sexual tension that comes naturally. You can feel a spark with anyone, but chemistry is what makes her actually stay attracted over time it’s deeper than just physical. username check out thou. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 08:28 PM |
| 9 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsExactly looks do matter. Don’t listen to anyone that tells you otherwise. They are the first filter. But here’s the thing: chemistry without personality or standards is useless. You can feel a spark with anyone if you are horny, but that’s not real chemistry it’s just instinct. Real attraction comes when looks meet status, confidence, and alignment with your values. Physical spark alone won’t keep her interested; she will chase the next shiny thing. That’s why men focus on self-improvement, not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 08:24 PM |
| 13 | Females Use Good Guys For Bailouts From Bad DecisionsThis always gets me, 😅 But if looks and attraction don’t matter, why do women reject men they have great chemistry” with but no physical spark? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 07:31 PM |
| -1 | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.Yes it is are you lost now? lol As a therapist, what you are posting reads less like pride and more like insecurity on display. Needing to broadcast your relationship’s “perfection” is a classic sign of validation-seeking, not confidence. Real emotional maturity doesn’t require an audience it’s experienced quietly. The more you feel the need to prove it online, the more it actually exposes what’s missing beneath the surface.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 02:05 PM |
| -2 | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.Blah! blah! You say you don’t crave attention, yet here you are writing paragraphs defending yourself to strangers online. That’s textbook female contradiction claiming you don’t want it while feeding it. If you truly didn’t care, you would be silent. The truth is, women need validation whether from their partner, from social media, or from sparring with men they “don’t care about.” And let’s be real: bragging about a man cooking you dinner as if that’s proof of your “fulfilled life” is weak. If… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 09:45 AM |
| 0 | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.Are you just another pretty face with no brains? When you say “what kind of male attention?” or “what is an average man?” you’re proving the point women instinctively know the difference but play dumb when it doesn’t suit them. You don’t crave “average” attention, you crave attention from men you perceive as high-status, attractive, or rare. That’s why you dismiss the rest as noise. And “lead me where?” It’s simple: men lead with direction, ambition, and clarity. A man without those qualities is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 07:34 AM |
| -1 | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.“I should have clarified that I didn't mean all women. Most women I know are married or hope to be. Its just that women like myself, who in the past would have had to marry out of economic necessity despite not being into monogamy, now have that choice.” Exactly what you are describing is the market at work. Women now have more leverage cuz they can choose based on abundance, not necessity. That doesn’t make them more ‘honest’ or ‘relationship-oriented’; it just means men have to prove real valu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 04:27 AM |
| 2 | If Women are hypergamous, then Men are the Prize. Make her work for it.Just cuz women can now support themselves financially doesn’t mean sexual and emotional dynamics have changed. Men’s value isn’t just money it’s status, confidence, and the ability to lead. Women having options makes them choosier, but also more dependent on male attention for validation. Saying “men are icing on the cake” ignores that the highest-value men are selective; if you treat men like optional accessories, the ones worth having will walk away, leaving only those with low standards. That… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?Yes, attraction matters no one denies that. But reality points out that initial attraction isn’t enough to sustain commitment. Divorce stats prove this. Many marriages start with attraction, but half fail cuz attraction alone doesn’t equal compatibility, loyalty, or long-term value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 02:48 PM |
| – | Being able to attract someone less attractive than yourself but being unable to attract someone more attractive than yourself adds credence to the existence of leaguesSure, a person’s worth as a human can’t be reduced to looks alone no one denies that. But in dating, we’re not talking about your soul, we are talking about sexual market value. here, You can be the kindest, most hardworking guy, respectful but if she doesn’t feel attraction, she won’t date you. Men are judged primarily on status, power, and confidence. Women are judged primarily on beauty and youth. It’s not fair, it’s just biology. Leagues exist cuz attraction isn’t a democracy it’s supply and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/25 05:42 AM |
| 13 | A lot of "successful" redpilled men are going to end up with a terrible partnerI think Risk goes both ways.. Cuz Being single isn’t risk-free. Loneliness, weaker social support, no affection. worse mental/physical health, and risky coping behaviours are real harms that also affect life outcomes. So “no partner = automatically better” is also false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they doAnother Lazy ass reply from Anti-vax feminist lol here you go again proving my point. Nobody said 99% of inmates are Jeremy Meeks you’re arguing against a cartoon in your own head. Stop being a whack ass bitch! The point is simple: women are wired to chase perceived power and survival traits, not just diplomas and cubicles. Or degrees . That’s why even a dude with a mugshot can pull millionaires daughters while you’re still coping on Reddit. You call me brain dead, but at least I’m not building … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 04:21 PM |
| -1 | Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they doIf you gotta explain your cheap feminist insult that means it already flopped. I don’t entertain them either.. Look at Jeremy Cheeks. On paper, he’s not a CEO, not a doctor, not some LinkedIn saint with a “respectable” job. But he’s got presence. He built a rep, carries himself like he runs his own world, and people especially women respond to that. Why? Cuz women don’t chase diplomas, they chase aura, dominance, and unpredictability. You keep thinking status is only what society claps for money… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:44 PM |
| – | Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they doYou’re treating status like a moral grade. That’s clueless. Cuz social status isn’t earned by a resume of good behaviour, it’s earned by recognizable value.. money, notoriety, charisma, access An ex-con can have more social capital than a broom-clean guy who’s invisible. Also calling female nature “one-dimensional” while serving a one-line insult is hilarious. 😅If your model of people is that shallow, don’t be surprised when your takes get stomped arguments require nuance, not slogans. Outchea c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 02:58 PM |
| 4 | Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they doWrong! Women who date ex-cons actually are representative of female nature. Hypergamy isn’t about a clean record, it’s about excitement, confidence, and status within a social hierarchy. An ex-con radiates danger, masculinity, and rebellion. qualities women are biologically wired to find attractive, even if it’s not socially acceptable to admit. The “average woman” you talking about might not marry an ex-con, but given the choice between a boring safe guy and a dangerous bad boy, female instinct… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 02:08 PM |
| 2 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsBut it isn’t about money being the only measure of value in a relationship it’s about roles, dynamics, and leverage. A “provider” isn’t just someone who earns more; it’s someone who holds the primary value creation and security role in the relationship. Look If both partners work, the one who consistently demonstrates competence, control over resources, and the ability to lead the household financially and strategically naturally occupies the provider role, even if she also earns. Losing a job d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 02:03 PM |
| 1 | How many are looking for a financially equal relationship?Alright fair point. I like straightforward people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 07:05 AM |
| 1 | How many are looking for a financially equal relationship?I mean more in terms of personal choice or lack of effort. A disability or a tough job market is obviously different, those are external barriers. I’m talking about people who can but simply won’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How many are looking for a financially equal relationship?You’re welcome and cherish what you have everyday when you wake up please. 🙏🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 01:59 PM |
| 3 | How many are looking for a financially equal relationship?I hate to say it but thats real love right there. You’re showing what partnership actually means being there through the highs and the lows, not just when it’s convenient. A lot of people chase money or status, but what you’ve described is loyalty, trust, and true friendship and that’s worth more than any paycheck. We need more women like you in this world. GOD bless you and your family 🙏🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 11:36 AM |
| 2 | How many are looking for a financially equal relationship?Alright If he never got back on his feet financially, would you have been just as content continuing that “teamwork” dynamic for the rest of your life or would resentment eventually set in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 06:52 AM |
| 1 | How many are looking for a financially equal relationship?If you both earn, but he suddenly stops working do you still split everything equally, or do you carry the full load? Wonder how that works in marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 06:39 AM |
| – | Men are always seen as faulty and in need of improvement. you can always pick they lack x to show why they fail in dating. it seems society expect men to be perfect in every aspect of life and have no scope for improvement.Facts! of course they do. Men’s social and romantic dynamics are zero-sum for women if a guy isn’t chasing her on her terms, she sees it as oppression. Libertarian ideals only apply when it doesn’t threaten her comfort or access to male attention. The moment it does, suddenly rules and freedom are negotiable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:07 AM |
| 4 | Do men believe that nice guys finish last ?Wrong frame. Attraction isn’t built on kindness, it’s built on value. Looks and status open the door, but frame, confidence, and boundaries keep it open. A ‘nice’ person without attraction triggers is invisible. A high-conflict attractive person gets entry, but burns it down long term. The market doesn’t reward niceness; it rewards perceived value. Niceness is a bonus after attraction, never a substitute for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | A Man is either desired by many women or no womenEhh. when women say “we all find different guys attractive,” that doesn’t mean female attraction is random it means it’s contextual. A man’s looks can be “upgraded” or “downgraded” depending on his behavior, confidence, and how other women respond to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Why are women allowed to be entitled and manipulative and transactional towards men they label as "nice guys"?Yeh sure. basic niceness is the social default but psychology shows attraction isn’t built on politeness alone. Traits like confidence, assertiveness, and unpredictability trigger stronger emotional responses because they stimulate dopamine and keep the brain engaged. That’s why women often overlook the “nice guy” if niceness is all he offers: it’s safe but not thrilling. In relationships, being kind matters, but attraction is fueled by more primal cues than just being a decent person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 07:56 AM |
| 3 | Women's Attraction is not ComplicatedYeh sure but let’s be real looks are the entry ticket. They’re the starter pack. Without initial attraction, you don’t even get a chance to show her the “more than that.”, Women may say they need more, but they only look for that “more” in men who have already passed their appearance filter. The difference is men will compromise on looks if other qualities are strong, while women rarely do the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Why criminals are attractive to women?Just checked it out and you’re mixing up thirst comments with actual relationship dynamics. Sure, guys will drop “hear me out” under a post of a krazy looking female criminal, but that’s just male biology reacting to looks and novelty not a real desire to wife her up long-term. Men are wired to spread their seed, so they will joke or even fantasize, but when it comes to commitment and protection, no man in his right mind is choosing a violent or psychopathic woman to build a family with. So men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Why criminals are attractive to women?I get what you’re saying, and honestly I agree with the main point. CR7 is my GOAT in so and it would be sad to see him go through the same cycle a lot of men go through. Or seeing him divorced. He started from humble beginnings.. now he’s a billionaire. so many players now look up to him. Relationships change after marriage, and you’re right many women start showing sides they never revealed before. Predictability kills attraction, and once marriage sets in, it often leads to complacency, loss … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Why criminals are attractive to women?I think thats actually the point sociopathic women don’t go for good guys, cuz good guys won’t tolerate the chaos. They naturally gravitate toward dark triad men, cuz those men mirror their games and keep the toxic cycle spinning. But that doesn’t mean men find them attractive it just means toxic attracts toxic. Most stable men instinctively avoid them for anything serious, cuz deep down men want peace, loyalty, and trust. That’s why you never see a sociopathic woman with a genuinely pure guy th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 10:35 AM |
| 0 | Why criminals are attractive to women?Alright Bingo! And it’s hard seeing 2 sociopaths or psychopaths dating each other. I never seen that happen they will cancel each other out. Despite having Traits many find attractive. That’s why i said there’s a psychological wiring going on here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 10:21 AM |
| -1 | Why criminals are attractive to women?Ayt kool on the flip side why don’t we men find female sociopaths attractive and wanna date them even thou their pretty and got hit bodies? There’s a psychological trick here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Why criminals are attractive to women?Yeh there Studies in evolutionary psychology back this up: women often find “bad boys” appealing cuz they project power and risk-taking.. qualities tied to survival and status.noq what’s the solution for the average men to attract women.. become criminal sociopaths who sling drugs and abuse Alcohol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 09:59 AM |
| 7 | Women's Attraction is not ComplicatedSure, charisma and fame help but the entry ticket was the face. Nobody’s imagining a fantasy life with the janitor who has charisma but no looks. The good-looking ones get the chance to show charisma, the rest stay invisible. Try falling in love with a guy that has an ugly face but has charisma. Skills. And see if it’s just your imagination playing a reel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:20 AM |
| 6 | Women's Attraction is not Complicatedlol you not serious.. Why do women swoon over actors like Brad Pitt, Michael B. Jordan, or Timothée Chalamet? Fame helps, but it starts with face value before personality is even known.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:05 AM |
| – | I believe women are attracted to arrogance just as much as confidenceIf arrogance and entitlement are so unattractive, why do so many women still throw themselves at narcissistic millionaires is it biology, social conditioning, or the illusion of status? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 09:27 AM |
| 24 | Most hated misandrist trope?If a man is broke, he shouldn’t date. It Suggests men must earn financial worthiness before they can be loved or deserve companionship. | /r/MensRights | 02/09/25 12:33 PM |
| 0 | Let's be honest: men also have different rules for the women they're attracted to.“Men might ‘stoop low’ for sex, but that’s cuz biology wired men and women differently. For men, access to intimacy is scarce and requires effort, status, or resources so even casual opportunities get taken. For women, intimacy is abundant and selective you can sleep with someone tonight without trying. That’s why men complain when women choose the same ‘assholes’ despite having countless better options. It’s not about men being desperate; it’s about women rewarding the very behavior they later … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 08:01 PM |
| 0 | Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic?Red pill at its core isn’t about superiority or neglecting responsibility, it’s about understanding male and female dynamics honestly instead of idealizing them. What you described isn’t red pill it’s incompetence and lack of frame. A man who truly embraces red pill principles knows leadership means responsibility first, not selfishness. Providing isn’t just money, it’s also protection, presence, and being dependable. Blaming red pill for that guy’s failure is like blaming fitness for someone wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 11:05 AM |
| 0 | Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic?Lol Being single or divorced isn’t inherently tied to a belief system like red pill ideology it’s more about personal circumstances, choices, and compatibility. Generalizing that all red pill men want women to handle everything while claiming superiority ignores the diversity within any group. Many people, regardless of ideology, seek partnerships where responsibilities are shared, and being single or divorced can reflect life circumstances rather than moral or intellectual failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 08:19 AM |
| 3 | Yes, women do like assholes more than nice guys, its not just because they're physically attractiveThat’s cuz Looks don’t guarantee success in a relationship, but they open the door. Average guys who get cheated on weren’t even in a position of choice they settled for the best they could get, so the woman never saw him as her first option. Hot guys in stable relationships usually still have leverage: she knows other women want him, so she behaves to keep him. Beauty doesn’t sustain a relationship, but it absolutely sets the stage for who even gets a chance at one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Yes, women do like assholes more than nice guys, its not just because they're physically attractiveFrom what I know Red Pill separates surface-level tricks from core value and frame. PUA techniques might get quick wins, but they don’t create long-term attraction or respect. “Leveling up” in Red Pill terms isn’t about memorizing lines it’s about: •Improving yourself physically and mentally fitness, skill, lifestyle And Building confidence and abundance mindset •Owning your frame and social dynamics or Generating real status and options So when men do this consistently, women naturally respond … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 12:09 PM |
| -2 | Yes, women do like assholes more than nice guys, its not just because they're physically attractiveSo you want money and nationality? Careful, that’s not a relationship, that’s a shopping list. 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 09:42 AM |
| -8 | Yes, women do like assholes more than nice guys, its not just because they're physically attractiveEverywhere! America isn’t the whole world u know? Women chase average guys not cuz they’re average, but cuz they level up where it matters.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 08:43 AM |
| -2 | Yes, women do like assholes more than nice guys, its not just because they're physically attractiveBalance me here. If looks are all that matter, why do so many attractive guys still get dumped, cheated on, or stuck in sexless relationships while average guys with strong frame and confidence keep women chasing them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 08:13 AM |
| 1 | The real reason why some women hate passport bros and whoremaxxersYou’re half right, but you’re mixing categories. Yes, every adult values independence to some degree, but the way it expresses itself is different between men and women. Men seek independence through competence and achievement, while women in the West often use it to justify rejecting stable men in hopes of a higher-status option that’s hypergamy in action, not just “every adult ever.” As for foreign women “wanting out” desperation doesn’t explain why they stay loyal and build families once they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 09:56 AM |
| 1 | The real reason why some women hate passport bros and whoremaxxersIf it were just “desperation,” women would settle for any man who provides stability. But the fact that even in poor countries they filter for the highest-value male available proves hypergamy isn’t just cultural it’s biological. Desperation doesn’t explain discrimination. If survival were the only factor, then average men would have no problem finding partners. The reality is women instinctively optimize for the best option, whether in luxury or poverty. That’s not cope, that’s nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 08:52 AM |
| 7 | Don't give up: Mature women appreciate kind menYup many women will Deny this thou | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 09:00 AM |
| 7 | Nice guys are given contradictory advice that keeps them in a loop and never answers their predicamentLooks and behavior matter, sure but that’s only surface level. Reality is women respond first to status, dominance, and preselection. A broke “good guy” with perfect manners gets ignored, while a toxic guy with money and charisma gets options. Why? Cuz hypergamy doesn’t reward “good behavior,”it rewards value. Even toxic men get away with it if their SMV ( Sexual Market Value) is high enough. That’s the uncomfortable truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 03:32 PM |
| 9 | The real reason why some women hate passport bros and whoremaxxersIf it were only about money, then every rich old man in the U.S. would have a loyal, feminine, cooperative wife at home. But what do we see? Those same men with money still get disrespected, cheated on, or divorced cuz modern Western women don’t value a man’s role as much as they value independence, social validation, and hypergamy. Men go overseas not just cuz women are “poor” they go cuz women there are still feminine, family-oriented, and respectful, things that money can’t buy. If poverty al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 05:13 PM |
| 10 | The real reason why some women hate passport bros and whoremaxxersWrong frame. The whole ‘passport bros prey on poor women’ narrative assumes women in the West are the prize and men are the beggars. Reality: global sexual marketplace is supply and demand. If women in the U.S. inflate their value with entitlement, debt, and high body counts, men have every right to arbitrage to a market where their masculinity, status, and resources are valued. And Calling women from ‘third world countries’ low income and uneducated just exposes Western arrogance. Money and deg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 01:27 PM |
| 1 | For casual sex, you knew it took looks, money, status and charm from an early ageLord have mercy. Broski Rich and successful men are attractive cuz status + resources amplify whatever baseline you have. That’s not supposed to be “easy,” cuz if it was, the reward wouldn’t mean anything. The fact you “work your ass off” yet still “don’t have a pot to piss in” shows that either you’re putting effort into the wrong things, or you haven’t figured out how to leverage your value. Hard work in itself is worthless if it’s not strategic work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 08:44 AM |
| 7 | Do you actually lower sexual attraction when it comes to a guy you see as relationship material?If sex is such a tiny part, why do women cheat most often with the guy who gives them the best sex instead of the one who provides the most financial stability? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t you approach men as a form of empowerment?lol Women don’t approach cuz they don’t have to. Men compete, women select. That doesn’t mean they’re not interested it means the burden of initiative is always on men. If women really weren’t interested, they wouldn’t respond to DMs, or go on dates, or sleep with anyone. Their lack of approach isn’t disinterest, it’s strategy they wait for the best man to approach and then choose. Interest shows in who they respond to, not who they chase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:05 PM |
| 0 | Are all those top men really refusing to settle and playing women?I get your point, but I bring up what I personally do cuz it shows the other side real examples matter when we’re debating generalizations. And not everyone fits into the “grifter” box. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Are all those top men really refusing to settle and playing women?I get what you’re saying, but I’m not blindly supporting anyone. I separate the grifters from the core truths. Just cuz some people exploit insecurity doesn’t erase the fact that self-improvement and Red Pill concepts about value, discipline, and competition are real. I’m not ignoring context, I’m pointing out that beneath the noise there’s actual signal and I choose to focus on that instead of dismissing the whole thing. What you don’t get Is.. The fact grifters exist doesn’t mean the game isn’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Are all those top men really refusing to settle and playing women?“If they are saying that 80 percent of men have no chance unless you learn their ways and consume more of their content they are triggering your insecurities. What chance do you have unless you subscribe to learn more?” Just cuz someone claims 80% of men have no chance doesn’t make it true. The statement is designed to trigger fear and sell content, not reflect reality. Success in dating or self-improvement comes from action, discipline, and real results, not mindlessly consuming someone else’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Are all those top men really refusing to settle and playing women?As for “selling a fantasy,” the Red Pill take is that guys like Tate aren’t selling delusion, they’re selling aspiration. Just like a fitness coach shows shredded physiques, the point is to show a higher-status lifestyle and tell men they can get closer to it if they level up. Wait what Triggering insecurities? Maybe. But that’s no different from how the fitness industry, self-help, and even academia challenge your current state so you will act. So the real difference is that Red Pill content ai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 05:46 PM |
| 6 | Are all those top men really refusing to settle and playing women?The claim that assumes that attention to redpill grifters or rejection fantasies is primarily motivated by envy or revenge. That’s an overgeneralization. People pay attention to ideas, content, or influencers for many reasons curiosity, learning, social conformity, entertainment, or genuine interest not solely envy or malice. Attention doesn’t equal desire to enact revenge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 03:20 PM |
| 1 | "Women have sex with Chad to make him commit" is false by the current, solely looks-based, definition of "Chad"“That's indisputably false based on the hinge data. If men were competing for any chance, they would be saving their likes for women at or below their level. Instead men concentrate their likes on the same small % of women at the top. Men used over 1/10 of their likes on the top 1% of women, despite the fact that the vast majority of men have zero chance with these women. But men would still prefer to throw away a like on a top 1% women than use it on an average woman. There's no disputing that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 01:53 PM |
| 1 | "Women have sex with Chad to make him commit" is false by the current, solely looks-based, definition of "Chad"You're overcomplicating it.,women’s dating app success isn’t just from “mass-likers,” it’s from hypergamy. Even average women still get far more options than average men cuz attention flows upward: and always women compete for the top men, while men compete for any chance. The gender ratio just amplifies that imbalance. And The “5% swipe on everyone” point doesn’t change female advantage. Even if only a small percentage of men are mass-liking, the effect is still that women receive a flood of ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 02:30 PM |
| 1 | "Women have sex with Chad to make him commit" is false by the current, solely looks-based, definition of "Chad"Yeh see that’s real life proof from women right not saying anything to gain some internet points lol that’s actually the point women chase Chad cuz of the validation, not cuz he’s guaranteed to be good in bed. It’s preselection: if other women want him, he must have high mate value, so sleeping with him boosts her own status. Whether the sex is good or not is secondary in the short term. attraction isn’t about a rational checklist of foreplay skills, it’s about raw status, dominance, and genetic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 05:45 AM |
| 2 | "Women have sex with Chad to make him commit" is false by the current, solely looks-based, definition of "Chad"That stat actually proves the Red Pill point the dating market is hypergamous for women but more desperate for men. Men “shooting above their league” on apps isn’t the same as women doing it, cuz as Psych hack psychologist said “women actually get attention and options from the top tier, while most men’s swipes go unanswered”.. So Chad doesn’t need to settle cuz he has abundance. Average women still get some top-tier matches cuz men compete down, but average men get nothing from shooting up. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 05:38 AM |
| 7 | "Women have sex with Chad to make him commit" is false by the current, solely looks-based, definition of "Chad"Lol Not quite. Women don’t just want Chad for sex they want him for validation, social proof, and the ego boost that comes with being desired by high-status men. Even women who aren’t in his league will chase the fantasy cuz hypergamy isn’t purely about looks it’s about securing the highest value she can get access to. Men are visual sure but women’s “shallowness” runs deeper it’s looks + status + resources all in one package. That’s why Chad doesn’t need to “settle,” but many women will still t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 09:22 PM |
| 3 | You don't "deserve" to be treated like Chad because you aren't ChadToo bad That’s the reality men have lived with for decades women already exercise hypergamy, choosing men based on perceived higher status, resources, or social proof. Men getting “used” for attention, dates, or resources by women who were never genuinely attracted is the exact male equivalent of what you’re describing. As Thanos says “ Reality is often disappointing “ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 11:15 AM |
| 0 | lusting after a body =/= unconditional loveIf unconditional means love that persists despite flaws and mistakes, then it exists, but it’s still shaped by an underlying condition the decision to keep loving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 11:11 AM |
| 7 | Women have different rules for guys they're actually attracted to.Lol You're confused cuz you're still trying to fit “Chad” into a neat little box but Chad isn’t a checklist, he’s an archetype. "Chad" isn’t always tall. He’s not always rich. He doesn’t need to be both. What makes him Chad is his ability to generate raw desire in women regardless of what trait gets him there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 04:15 PM |
| 4 | Introverted nerds still can't also be assholes like attractive bad boysOhw didn’t know you were married so that’s dope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Introverted nerds still can't also be assholes like attractive bad boysSo would u date a Nerd over an attractive bad boy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 06:53 AM |
| 0 | Women’s Dating Problems Are 100% Their Own FaultSure Women aren't lie detectors but they’re emotion detectors. If his frame, status, or game triggers her attraction, she will rationalize red flags as “mystery” or ‘“depth.’” That’s where the fun is not a boring nice guy who will treat her kind .. Know that Hypergamy isn’t designed for truth it’s designed to seek the highest perceived value, even if it’s an illusion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 06:18 AM |
| 13 | This is supposed to be a joke right?And yet they say misandry doesn’t exist. 🤦♂️ | /r/MensRights | 06/08/25 02:52 PM |
| – | Yes women are attracted to hot men, just as much as men are attracted to hot women, stop being hypocrites.But Nice Guys aren’t mad they have to be decent they’re mad they were told being decent was enough. Attraction isn’t charity. It’s earned through value, not virtue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 06:42 PM |
| 0 | Male thirst is men's greatest enemylol you really just prove yourself right in all angles. Gzz.. but then You’re cloaking a generalization in statistical language to give it immunity from challenge. But here's the truth Aggregates describe, not dictate. Aggregates change across time, culture, and environment. Let me school you what you call “aggregate male libido” is often shaped by modern conditions, not just biology. And a fact is Women’s libido is underreported,under-explored, and often socially suppressed. So your "aggregate"… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Male thirst is men's greatest enemyYou're right but only partially. You're describing the average, not the absolute. Yes, statistically, men report a higher baseline libido than women on average. But this doesn't mean: All men want sex more than all women. Or that women's desire is weak, unstable, or inferior. It just means the curve of desire differs. Male libido = more consistent. Female libido = more responsive and cyclical. GridReXx This doesn't mean it's less intense or less valid. So if you're saying "men want it more", are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 01:00 PM |
| 2 | The bluepill is by far the nastiest dating ideologyDeVito over Tom Cruise Right? First thing women in (real life) would date him and take his money and ghost his short ass! Blue pillers are delusional as always. 😅😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 12:01 PM |
| 5 | Male thirst is men's greatest enemyBut Lower libido by design is a simplification, not a law and Women’s libido isn’t lower in all contexts. It’s more cyclical, and Ovulation increases desire. Emotional connection increases arousal. Novelty can increase excitement like in men, Plus: Many women have higher libido than their partners, especially when mentally and emotionally fulfilled. 🤷🏼♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 11:34 AM |
| 4 | It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with.Tats false. Your idea that women only grow into attraction is not universally true. Many women report immediate physical or "chemistry" based attraction. Biological factors like symmetry, voice tone, height, and body language play a major role in initial attraction for women too just like for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:33 AM |
| 2 | Men prefer transactional "romantic" relationships (prostitution).This is such a delusional statement. Actually Most men still desire intimacy, loyalty, mutual love, and non-transactional companionship. I don’t know if you were living under matriarchy rock for years now but Prostitution itself is about instant gratification; marriage and monogamy are about investment often lifelong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menFair point with that then. If that’s how you roll u roll then it’s fine. Not breaking a wife’s heart at home lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 07:44 AM |
| 3 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menBut Escorts Provide a Simulation, Not a Solution Sure, escorts offer intimacy but it’s paid, the whole thing is artificial & scripted, and temporary. It doesn’t address the root problem: the man’s emotional and social isolation. You’re renting connection, not building it. I wonder if OP has tried this and is happy with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Serious question. So, we all know about the cheating scandal that took place at a Coldplay concert. Why is the man being dragged way more harshly on social media than the female cheater?She doesn’t get mentioned who’s she anyway? | /r/MensRights | 21/07/25 06:40 AM |
| 0 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himYes it does matter a lot then they think and just to put a stoppage to Purple Pill debate wushu washy women arguments that doesn’t end. Just ask her this Question.. “Why is she not marrying one of the guys she shared one of the most intimate moments of her life with?” You will get your answer. Works every-time. . This would save lots of marriages from a financial + mixed emotional decay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 06:09 PM |
| 1 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himLol it doesn’t matter if she liked him from the get or not. Cuz be the attraction or money isn’t enough for a women who doesn’t Wana be kept. If she cheats on you with a more “attractive “ single man was she really attracted to her husband that much? There’s something psychology calls “limerence “ .. even if you’re married or in a relationship you will still find other people attractive and it doesn’t stop there cuz well you kneeled down and proposed with $10 million ring. It’s life you get atta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 11:39 AM |
| 1 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himWas about to say that it’s not the “ I dated bad boys cuz I was young I was Stupid, I was immature “ nah the same fuckboy train don’t stop when they’re young even at 35. That’s why some will cheat on their loving husbands cuz they find them boring they excite them as their toxic ex Mr handsome. So they go and seek that again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 06:25 AM |
| 0 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himLol aight when they see they hit the wall. 🫠 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 06:22 AM |
| 1 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himSo at what point do women say “fuck it I’m done chasing after “bad boys” Now I want a serious relationship and making Concious decisions to overlook the attraction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Women don't reserve casual sex for top % men because those are the only ones we're attracted to.Well that’s what Co-parenting does to a muhfucka. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Women don't reserve casual sex for top % men because those are the only ones we're attracted to.Yes would add on.. They don't compromise values or purpose for it. And They don’t let lust control their emotions or decisions. Or seek for validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 11:16 AM |
| 11 | What kind of women do rich men generally marry?Why billionaires don’t normally go for 10’s or Super hot model women when it comes to marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 08:49 AM |
| 13 | It's bad when people try to justify women preferences with morality or connecting their preferences to being a good human being.“He was abusive controlling, didn’t respect my boundaries, selfish prick “ :Meanwhile this all means she couldn’t change him after 5 years.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 11:20 AM |
| 0 | What do you want from a marriage?So marriage shud bring those things? They can pre-exist any legally & socially recognised union. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | What do you want from a marriage?Ohw I guess this question wasn’t for you then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Do women fall love with anyone they find attractive?No it’s not Stupid. It's weird that we are always told that women don't care about looks or money and are more interested in personality. But it doesn't seem to be the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 12:03 PM |
| 1 | What do you want from a marriage?Yeh often people make a mistake that a person that married them has to be this perfect being. And be everything to them. Cuz well “he put a ring on it and it costs $2 million” for etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 11:06 AM |
| -1 | What do you want from a marriage?Lol Hollywood has done us bad that’s not easy pizzy. But gudluck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 09:13 AM |
| 0 | There are examples everywhere I look of women having low self-respect and not high enough standards in men--and paying the price for it later in life. Ladies, don't let that self-hating inner voice lead you to lower your standards.This is gold not done illogical Shit from a said feminist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 09:58 AM |
| 18 | Women, by and large, are not "settling" with guys they aren't attracted toYou gotta feel for the husband here. <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Telling people who have failed at, or had trauma due to dating, to just act “normal” like they haven’t had trauma or experienced failure, is NOT going to helpTherapy can provide valuable insights and tools, it doesn’t directly "solve" dating problems in the way one might expect a quick fix to do. While Manosphere deals directly with men’s dating problems.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 06:29 AM |
| – | If a woman genuinely likes a man, she'll make it easy for him.Dang! Not only yall just dated but he’s your husband he wasn’t emasculated. But still valued. We need more women like you in this world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 01:25 PM |
| 0 | In a world where you could easily have casual sex with women, would you still prefer to marry/LTR/commit to a “low n” woman?Yes would even share a Chad can’t make this s*** up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 06:45 AM |
| 4 | Beautiful Women are Accustomed to a Certain Dating/Lifestyle and Shouldn’t be Shamed into Dating DownYeh sure but ultimately , while beauty and status can be important factors in the dating world, Wich invariably influences each other are not the sole determinants of attraction and relationship success.. emotional connection, and, most importantly, love are the essential pillars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 09:15 PM |
| 6 | “just respect women and maybe you will date one” is poor dating advice because it perpetuates an “action-reward” that directly ties to dehumanizing and removing agency“So realistically, men should spend most of their time focusing on traits that will actually get them into relationships to begin with” This is the way most men shud never fall victim to women precarious dating advise it doesn’t work and never will be.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 07:30 AM |
| 5 | Dont say “Choose Better” and then get mad at picky women with high standards.Was about to say this the guy with proximity and been able to land a Saitama’s punch is more dangerous yet she saying avoiding incles on the internet is more dangerous fuck no! lol they fail to admit they do find them attractive. There’s several stories I have heard where they left their so loving men for their toxic ex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 03:04 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of actual bad boys?What women look for in life partners vs what they find the most sexually arousing are two very different things. They didn’t find them as Shitty men in the beginning they avoided or overlooked all red flags women can hide they’re Shit too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of actual bad boys?Very a rare narrative most women start that way then grow tired of the bad boys Fuckboy types seeing how unserious they are. So u made a healthy choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 05:44 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of actual bad boys?Married to a very nice man yes after dating several “Bad boys” I guess? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 03:55 PM |
| 5 | What do you think of actual bad boys?But It’s men’s number one observation: that women like assholes. So if you’re just a nice guy living your life, you can’t score women cuz you’re nice. No drama or overly sensitive.. You can’t win in a sea of assholes, cuz and I’ve seen evidence if you’re an asshole, you get the women. First time I hear a woman saying they’re boring lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 11:08 AM |
| -1 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?The only way to find out if she’s compatible lol r not is actually dpi it not making wait longer lol it’s still the same guy anyways. I Didn’t say she must do it again with every guy. The main topic here is making a guy wait for a millennial and other guys not lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?Type or not in the end he got what he wanted and you were willing to give it up 🤷🏼♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 10:36 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?See the fact remains he didn’t wait despite the banging. Bet The Vinnese oyster was wild? 😅😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 09:00 AM |
| -2 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?So those are the guys you won’t put in the waiting list lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 07:24 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?Yeah right you not making Henry Cavill wait for it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 07:21 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?“The lies we tell ourselves are the most subtle of all lies” -Lewis B Smedes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 07:19 AM |
| -1 | Q4W: How differently do you treat a guy who is a boyfriend/husband material from a guy who is a hookup/FWB material?We all know you lying no ways You making your celebrity crush wait for it. 😅😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/25 07:04 AM |
| 8 | Women are attracted to toxic men BECAUSE of their toxic traits, not despite them.Why they date toxic men It’s all cuz they think they can change them and live out a beauty and the beast reality. while this is possible, it's kind of ridiculous. A Nice guy won’t bring anything worth in their lives that’s dramatic.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Men are so desperate it's patheticThen why is he saying “Men are so desperate it’s pathetic “? Lol that shooting himself on the foot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Men are so desperate it's patheticA woman isn’t it obvious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 07:49 AM |
| 8 | Men are so desperate it's patheticYou get it OP is just a brain Rot male loneliness epidemic is a joke to people like her. One of the factors is cuz of an uncertain economy and increasingly expensive housing and food prices make the ability to financially provide for a family elusive for many men. These factors also undermine men's sense of self and contribute to loneliness and feelings of isolation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/25 06:56 AM |
| 3 | Where did the whole “women love bad boys” thing even come from? How true do you think it is?Women who pick bad boys tend to be prioritizing short-term physical attraction over long-term emotional support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 10:13 PM |
| 2 | You can't have "true equality" if you hate caring at men's feelings.but I love when they cry over loss, be vulnerable. Tears are a sign of love. I was a born “shoulder to cry on”. Love listening and comforting others, including men” We men know this all lies that cut deep through lymph nodes and lungs.. is just Tryna look good on the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/25 08:10 AM |
| – | What is a woman's ideal man?Its not your body they don’t like, it’s your personality. 😅😅😅🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 07:05 AM |
| -1 | Women Don’t Care If You’re a Player Because They Know Most Men WouldAlright | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 04:49 PM |
| -4 | Women Don’t Care If You’re a Player Because They Know Most Men WouldOk so try dating broke men then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?I don’t think you will only attract “Gold diggers” the decent top tier women too want a successful men who’s willing to provide the lifestyle they want. Or shud be making 6 figures. Cuz most of them say they don’t want a dusty lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 09:55 AM |
| 2 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?You would be surprised that they’re millionaires that are single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Being misogynistic does not have an impact on your dating prospectsAll total bullshit, misogyny and making sexist homes has zero impact on a man's chances to get laid, there are plenty of misogynistic men that gets laid on the regular and these men don't hide their misogyny either. Truth be told. I’m tired of Disney Princess pretending this ain’t reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Women over 40 think we are in medieval timesHow does marriage benefit men? | /r/MensRights | 09/11/24 07:49 AM |
| 6 | What is going on in the Two X chromosomes sub Reddit? Why are they panicked and calling all men Incels?No male attention no party 😅 | /r/MensRights | 06/11/24 12:11 PM |
| 3 | Men of Reddit, have you ever been shamed for expressing emotions such as sadness or coming out with your struggles?Yes and Bottling things isn’t healthy at all. Mayb cuz it’s safer to do cuz women tends to lose interest when we open up. | /r/MensRights | 05/11/24 09:01 PM |
| 4 | Society encourages Fukbois, especially womenProof https://x.com/Shadaya_Knight/status/1853441510135525402?ref_src=twsrc%5Egoogle%7Ctwcamp%5Eserp%7Ctwgr%5Etweetwomen love fuckboys even the wives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 05:59 AM |
| -2 | Most men basically worship women.You’re talking about Simps here who worship the ground women walk on but soon in later in life they realise what they’re doing is wrong. That’s why most of men turn into Red pill ideology most of them turned into worshippers cuz of the society lied to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 10:54 AM |
| – | Most men basically worship women.“Many men know that if they don't spend money on a woman, sooner or later she will lose interest in them, and this is actually a sad commentary on women and their state of consciousness because for many of them it's all about money and material things” It was always that way nothing will change that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 09:46 AM |
| 14 | Enraged after fight, Woman chops off her husband's private parts“Ok what did he do?” Source :feminists on Instagram. | /r/MensRights | 04/11/24 09:42 AM |
| 10 | Look at how blatant it is. They're not even trying to hide it.Why misandry is so supported by the media? | /r/MensRights | 01/11/24 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: what is an “all men are like that” type of generalization that you’re tired of OTHER MEN saying?They do exist. If you meet one you won’t detect that they will look genuine. I dated one and within 2 months I had to end things and yes they’re too embarrassed cuz they know nobody would want to put up with their slutty behaviours right off the bat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 06:41 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: what is an “all men are like that” type of generalization that you’re tired of OTHER MEN saying?That’s like saying all women are just after rich men with 6 pack or all gold diggers. We know it isn’t true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Are MEN to blame for the UK fertility crisis? Women want children but are forced into freezing their eggs due to the 'mating gap' - where they can't find a partner to commit OP: More male hate!Yes that’s why hook up culture exists in the First place. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/24 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Women judge men's morality and merit on whether or not they are attracted to himWich is a biggest red flag. I gone on. A Date with this woman she couldn’t stop talking about how her ex promised her engagement ring. Got lots of anxiety episodes from him cheating sleeping with another woman at the party blah blah I was bored then she had to audacity asking me “why are you on your phone?” lol I trust not all women are like that trauma bombing.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 08:50 AM |
| 20 | Men Who Use Sex Toys Are Labeled 'Perverted Creeps,' While Women Are Seen as 'Sexually Liberated'Ah “the women are wonderful effect” never seized to amaze me. | /r/MensRights | 30/10/24 08:40 AM |
| 3 | Who is the "good guy" who struggles with dating?Yup that’s how they roll so best thing You can do for yourself is avoiding them like a plaque. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/24 01:28 PM |
| 6 | Who is the "good guy" who struggles with dating?Dated a girl like this super hot. But there was no emotional connection or intimacy between us I had to end it within 2 months. She kept saying it isn’t official yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/24 12:50 PM |
| 11 | If you're not making $100k or more looks don't matter as much as you think.The majority of women I have known have always gone for men who earn lots of money so they can have all the nice things in life, poor men, even if they are attractive are left behind.. money +Status does beat looks in a long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 10:08 PM |
| 0 | How would you feel if your bf/husband said he wasn’t initially attracted to you?But Sex is an important part of romantic relationships for all genders. This is what differentiates friendship from romantic partnership you don’t want live with your roommate for the rest of your live innit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Redpill's agenda is all about rewiring nice guys to stop being the safety net for womenCuz the hot guys they don’t have to commit and they will get sex from multiple women for free or not Puting enough effort most women will do anything just to be with them. Another thing is Locking themselves down with one woman will limit the amount of sex he can get so that’s why handsome men are players. They’re always in demand and in Economics. About “The law of demand “tells us that if more people want to buy something, given a limited supply, the price of that thing will be bid higher. Als… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/24 10:11 AM |
| 2 | The best thing any man can do is to stop chasing women.Taoism is a positive philosophy that aims for the holistic unification of an individual's reality with everything that is not only real but also valuable, encompassing both the natural world and society. It’s Far away from being a mainstream pop philosophy as a means to impress people. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 08:35 PM |
| 2 | You can't socialize a man into caring about youThis even though somehow women's magical intuition suddenly dissappears when it comes to genuinely violent men Not just violent but violent and attractive for them that’s the epitome of masculinity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 12:39 PM |
| 1 | As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues.So would you date a guy with Autism? 😒 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Buy the numbers; Women have far less options than it's perceived.<image> lol true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 03:23 PM |
| -2 | Q4W: Do you find your male partner attractive?He’s your first love alright 🧐 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you find your male partner attractive?So you never been In love or had a crush before and after you got married? It’s ok to find someone attractive outside of an affair it’s human nature. 🤷🏼 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 05:15 AM |
| 3 | It's more socially acceptable to slut-shame men than womenYup it’s either of the 2 and this has perplexed even the father of psychoanalysis himself when he said. “The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer, despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is “What does a woman want?” — Sigmund Freud | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 12:37 PM |
| 26 | It's more socially acceptable to slut-shame men than womenAnd they women will say “Fuck boys are emotionally unavailable. Emotionally Unavailable Partners create barriers to intimacy and can make you feel unloved or unwanted”..right but then when a man with gud intentions opens up and shares his emotions now he’s weak and his not a man enough. They question his masculinity.. and they start losing interest like wtf is with women? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 11:47 AM |
| -4 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?Bingo! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like?Alright then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 04:44 AM |
| – | What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like?Ugh! You’re piece of Shit nobody was talking to you shut up. You don’t matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 05:44 PM |
| – | What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like?Shut the fuck up the question wasn’t even directed you gzz. I shouldn’t have replied to you anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 05:41 PM |
| -2 | What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like?Good for you then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 05:38 PM |
| -8 | What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like?it’s a wild guess why You are triggered? Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 05:24 PM |
| -5 | What exactly does a ‘Chad’ look like?So what are you attracted to if not “Chads” then since 99% go buck wild when they see one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 05:10 PM |
| – | Women are marrying down, not up.Use your loaf. So You shot the videos ? got it mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 05:02 PM |
| – | Women are marrying down, not up.They tore apart his ass So he can come and write this here Innit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 04:59 PM |
| – | Women are marrying down, not up.lol I would really like to get a reliable source for this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/24 03:41 PM |
| – | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.🤣🤣🤣 let it go Leo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.In A recent Pew Research study suggests a tectonic shift in the dating and sex life of men. The study found that among average men under 30 years old, over 60 percent are single, almost double that of women in the same age bracket. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 12:52 PM |
| -1 | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.Ahh wasn’t dismissive so why you mad? Calm down 😙 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/24 05:47 AM |
| -5 | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.Aren’t we all strangers in here? 😨 and there’s no assumptions what we said it’s straight facts. 99% of women will go for a high status Rich Guy and fuck the shit outta them no question if he’s a nice guy or is too sensitive. Or married or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 07:24 PM |
| 2 | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.Yup it’s just an ideal endogenous prototypes I had but fact is if it happen then we all doomed. If Scientists finds the perfect somatic-cell nuclear transfers on each every High-Status celebrity like Henry all hell gon break loose. All the rich women even average women will be standing in the line just to get a chance to be with them. I believe countries like China can pull this therapeutic cloning scheme up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 06:51 PM |
| -5 | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.😅😅 we not shitty at all and I have seen countless posts where they were flaired Q4Men and women commented anyways. It’s quite interesting you’re a Red pill woman. 😙 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 06:42 PM |
| 2 | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.I get you Shannon Sharpe will like to have a word with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 05:09 PM |
| -1 | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.Lol yup and some women got the audacity to lie and say nah “ I don’t care about the looks as long as he loves me”.. it’s REaLy rare that gon settle with the same fuckboys they chase. Even the Church girls wants a piece of a ripped Fuckboy lol they’re just not been honest with themselves. They’re not aware that them saying they’re 10’s it’s the “Sexual market” sets the value for them. So when the looks fade and then they get old they fear been lonely so they settle with an average looking guy. Bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.Stand up comedian on Reddit lol nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 04:03 PM |
| 0 | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.So if Michael.B Jordan had a million Clones the world would be in flames and half of the population would be divorced 😅😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 04:03 PM |
| 2 | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.😅😅😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 04:02 PM |
| 5 | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.So what’s your type the Henry Cavill gamer type? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 03:31 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsYou have to put money where it works for you for etc stocks. Medical aid. There’s no magic in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 04:48 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsYes and I realised that Wealthy individuals often place a high value on education and career development, leading to delayed family planning. They may choose to establish their careers or pursue personal goals before starting a family, resulting in fewer children. A guy that works at Walmart or Hardee’s would go buck wild. more kids mean more working bodies for the family in the near(ish) future that can bring home money and food to be shared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 04:25 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsMoney does fix such things. Doing activities to solve costs money. Such as having fitness goals. Or been more productive..poor people can only think of providing food. Shelter. Lol on delusion.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 04:23 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsIt can there’s couples/parent counselling, and Poor parents can’t afford any of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 03:49 PM |
| – | The normalization of having your first kid at 35+ is going to decimate birth rates even more, lead to increase autism rates and make things worse for the following generationsWich brings me to an intriguing thing why all this top 10 richest Forbes billionaires don’t have 10+ kids ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 02:30 PM |
| -7 | The idea that straight dating is disadvantageous to women is not only false, but also extremely biased.Yup 💯 blue pilled women and men fail assign any accountability to women it’s always men’s fault in anything. Even she cheats they will ask what did he do wrong? Did he spoil her enough give more time ? So they justify cheating just to get away from saying women Are wrong for doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Being your authentic self slaughters your chancesWomen don’t understand that for men getting a relationship it’s a lot of work and going on dates it’s like pitching for an interview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/24 07:47 AM |
| – | The dating market does not suck for womenMost women think all we want is a 10 supermodel that does covers for Sports illustrated with ridiculous high standards 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 04:20 PM |
| 0 | Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs?Lol Stockholm syndrome is a coping mechanism to a captive or abusive situation. People develop positive feelings toward their captors or abusers over time. This condition applies to situations including child abuse, coach-athlete abuse, relationship abuse in this case her ex. so tell me where I got it wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 03:25 AM |
| 2 | Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs?And then She says finds nothing unusual about that like wtf hell? 😅 this doesn’t even happen on Netflix chic flics series. Ain’t nobody insecure about all this. This is the first time I heard or read about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs?It’s kinda like having a bestie while married lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs?Exactly that make friends with someone you don’t have past trauma with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs?Sorry but you You need therapy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs?So Wich means you can’t make any other friends than be stuck with your ex? This is weird must be You still have feelings for your ex and it’s not easy to let go or Yiu scared to let him go it’s either of the 2 I can’t wrap psychology around it but this is the closest thing to “Stockholm Syndrome”., | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 03:14 PM |
| 0 | Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs?Well You can make friends with so many people that you don’t a bad past with. The kinds of friends I will have is not an ex that’s bad enough thanks y’all just weirdos.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs?😅😅😅 happy go lucky yall even go out ? Ok that’s it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs?Ohw hell nah 😅😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs?He’s a husband she started a new chapter of her or their lives. if you still friends while been in a solid relationship with someone something is REaLly wrong here. You don’t find anything unusual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs?Yeh sure but this is a husband not a boyfriend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 12:37 PM |
| 5 | Can men and women be "just" friends" How do you feel about your SO having friends of the opposite sex? Friends with ex's? Friends with former FWBs?Holdup your husband is friends with your ex? What?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 08:39 AM |
| -1 | Why do women dislike video games and men who play them ?Since when corn is a hobby now? It’s entertainment I don’t know it gets a bad rep. Men are especially sensitive and responsive to graphic stimuli and watching explicit sexual activity can be a great source of release and fulfillment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 08:26 AM |
| 0 | Do you believe shit tests are real?I’m saying my friends and myself I never Shit tested anyone but I have heard men crying about Shit tests including me.. now tell me is it an American thing that you ask people if they’re bisexual wtf? Again Shit tests are for women cuz they’re insecure. I’m not bisexual! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe shit tests are real?Never ever heard a man playing those games it’s always women I swear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Do you believe shit tests are real?Hell nah men don’t do that mind games 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe shit tests are real?Wait a minute how do men initiate “Shit tests ?” Women vet men’s attractiveness based on their approach and Shit tests show begins it’s not the other around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 02:07 PM |
| – | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityHe wasn’t charismatic there’s a Book “Blitzed” it started how Hitler's drug use, drugs including oxycodone and cocaine was prescribed by his doctors. The book is also about how the German soldiers in World War II were amped up by methamphetamine, which enabled them to keep fighting for days without sleeping. Kinda funny how Women finds that charismatic god dang! 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 10:39 AM |
| – | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityYou’re everywhere 😅😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 10:32 AM |
| 2 | The "nice guy" trope is a defense mechanism which women deploy to divert attention from the fact that they are rejecting a guy based on a lack of physical attractionDon’t think cuz women just demands a gut to be 6 feet tall and handsome and drives a Ferrari and has like 4 million Instagram followers ( mostly women ) that’s it and he can relax now cuz he’s top 1% nah! He can still get rejected or get cheated on lol the nature of the game is incalculable. So the best thing to do is get what you can and then opt out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 07:35 AM |
| 3 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?It’s not a projection where I live in South Africa a qualified doctor divorced her husband of 2 years for a. Convicted felon. Helped him have a prison break that was so Outlandish the whole country was shocked. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8YvyjxckM14 The story about Gypsy Rose is different we men don’t go krazy over psychos who kills people. But on the other hand Not so long ago Wade Wilson received 4,000 letters from women while he awaited sentencing as he killed 2 women. You can’t make this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 02:17 PM |
| 3 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?Lol his attitude. His values. His purpose he can have all those things even with money. Ane yes some of the women are attracted to criminals for etc Jeremy Meeks. Bet you’re one of them. Your Hybristophilia just whispered in your ears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 05:07 AM |
| 2 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?So what are you attracted to if not money? Betabux or Nah? Tf? Blue pill is one big circus 🤡 on this planet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | You have heard about "Not like other Girls". Can we talk about "Not Like other boys"?So you telling us you attracted to so called “dusties” with no ambitions or even a car? Sometimes I don’t know how Blue pull philosophy works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 08:42 AM |
| 1 | At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it?If you so worried about his FOMO niggle , then make it easy for him so he doesn’t have to lie to anyone it’s simple math kapish? Scommetto che anche tu sei una bella donna. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 07:53 PM |
| 0 | At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it?He can be honest and try to find a woman who wouldn't mind his lack of experience or he can lie and deal with consequences of it. I guess you won’t mind so put your self in line. Of been one of the options live up to that big bird talk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 06:19 PM |
| 0 | At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it?The way you said it. You don’t know what it feels to be a man. And not have anyone find you desirable. So Swoosh it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 05:25 PM |
| 0 | At what point is the lack of experience becomes a red flag and what to do about it?I think you too can date and that will solve his relationship forming problem after all? Since you think it’s that easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 01:53 PM |
| 7 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorYup it signals a lack of self respect you would be surprised how many dudes out there are willing to be with single mothers only cuz they can’t find anyone. Yet the responsibilities that comes with that are substantial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 11:07 AM |
| 7 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorYup but here is a thing they can’t keep the Alpha they were messing now it’s a Beta’s job to help out with her parental baggage no! That’s unethical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 11:04 AM |
| 32 | Why "Marriage Material" isn't a compliment to men and being the "hookup guy" is often superiorSomeday it’s after 5 years. Left with 2 baby daddies and no now then a nice guy has to intervene now 😅😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 05:52 AM |
| 5 | Relationships are not worth if sex rarely happenYup happens all the time it’s never a woman’s fault or them taking a moment to reflect on their lack of effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it.Yeh those stats belongs in America only and I’m not an American nice try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it.I’m not being bitter nor delusional I’m telling you how reality it is. Get out of your head a little bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 04:07 PM |
| 5 | Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it.That top 1% of hot men makes women weak at the knees and if you think only men do it. I got news for you I have seen it with my own eyes in Disbelief. You’re next. Syla Words. Fact you got a celebrity crush it will happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it.Lol just wait till you stand next to your celebrity crush. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 06:54 AM |
| 0 | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material womenThat juts tells you that women will make things easier with a guy she likes. So the “Halo effect” is 100% accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 06:41 AM |
| – | Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n cI call total BS. women fake orgasms just to hurry things along and get the whole sex thing over with. Check the dead bedroom Sub even married men know that’s insufferable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 11:53 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Self improvement is just a way to try and blame menRight Yet Fat men are body shamed more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 06:33 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Self improvement is just a way to try and blame menThat sucks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 06:15 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Self improvement is just a way to try and blame menEver heard of body positivity movement? Applauding someone for unhealthy eating habits and Being lazy calling them beautiful on Instagram is detrimental. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:59 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Self improvement is just a way to try and blame menNobody is perfect and I’m asking cuz it’s only men who gets to be pressurised just the society expects a lot from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 08:01 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Self improvement is just a way to try and blame menWhy is it self improvement is only aimed at men and not women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 06:35 AM |
| 1 | This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen"But they was men who was 10 that you always wanted but couldn’t get with so you rather settle with your man in order to feel secure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 06:55 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Why should money not be a woman's primary concern, if the man in question is like twice-thrice her age, is not the silver fox type handsome old man,ageing like fine wine, and is a cranky, sanctimonious, delusional old boy, who can't see he's past his prime?This is all facts Wich is why most of them beautiful high standard krazy ones are single they can’t find anyone who can provide that so they rather be single and wait a millennium lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 12:51 PM |
| 15 | What do men want women to do when they become sexually undesirable as they age?Lol did you just say women are less shallow . Ever checked Tinder stats . The 80/20 rule? Do women prefer rich men? Stereotypes have long depicted at least some women as placing too much value on a man's wealth. Looks and status rather than his character. Wake up this is 2024. No time for bogus assumptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 06:01 AM |
| 4 | American Men have Normalized dating multiple women to speed up the process of finding ‘the One’ but instead they use this as an excuse to waste time dating multiple (and perhaps getting laid by) women that aren’t even their typeI think he’s talking about women here lol lots men can’t even 5 options a piece Tf? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/24 04:51 AM |
| – | The "Nice Guy" trope is, in most cases, a projection on the woman's partIncoming comments from women saying: “But Women are attracted to jerks cuz they are seemingly confident” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 04:44 PM |
| – | If you got a woman to have sex with you because you passed a few shit tests then her attraction will be fleeting and weak and not lastShit tests are a way for the girl to find out if you are as cool, confident, funny as you present yourself. But in a longer relationship (girlfriend) might test you to find out if you are still striving and as strong as you were before, she has to feel safe and secure with you. But us dudes don’t do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 11:56 AM |
| – | Is Chad generally blue pilled?Wow! I never heard any woman saying nerds are their types before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Is Chad generally blue pilled?Let me guess most of the real assholes you delt with were Chads so when did you realise Ohw Shit! I don’t give a flying rat about looks anymore cuz every-time I come around Chads- in a relationships get treated the worse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 04:57 AM |
| 1 | I don't think relationships between celebs and 'normal' people are really feasible.Ever heard of celebrity worship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?It does everyone needs energy I don’t know where you get this notion lol sex isn’t exciting ? No wonder you’re single just get a cat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?Lol it got nothing to do with age. And crushes don’t have age restrictions let me rephrase who’s that celebrity hot guy you would go on a date with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?Lol my bad I missed that part. but you do have a celebrity crush you don’t have to be attractive for that just be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?Ohw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeOhw alright my bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 04:57 PM |
| -2 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?What if that male attention comes from your celebrity crush now what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 08:03 AM |
| – | Vogue dating columnist casually admits that women have it hard in dating because they need to compete for a minority of menI was gon say the same exact thing most top 1% don’t want them so they feel as if dating is that hard for them. Unless she is lives in the bubble called marital bliss, she probably have had the Pareto Principle trotted out to prove why single men can't get a date. It goes like this — 80% of women on dating apps choose only the top 20% of attractive men. While Average men don’t even get looked upon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 03:37 PM |
| – | It’s 2024. “Go to the gym” and “be confident and maintain frame” is the new “buy her flowers and hold open doors”Carrying a lil Coke advise 😅😅🤣 thats the stuff from Power series | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.No delusion. Just That he would apparently like you very much. That is a healthy way to have a relationship. Ask yourself “why dont you deserve to be treated like a queen?” It sounds like your self esteem may be low or perhaps you have been exposed to unhealthy relationships in your role models. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.I’m Not saying not being a super model or a Queen one is a lesser being. I mean you would want your man to treat you like his number one fan or value you higher not some random gal who’s treated like trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Men desire primarily the top 20% of women, they are just more willing to settle.Lol You Wouldn’t date someone who thinks less of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is your personal definition of a "good man"?Ohw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is your personal definition of a "good man"?You know Nice guys always finish last right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 01:18 PM |
| 7 | Social skills are fundimental to being successful in relationships, and they are more important than looks, status or wealth.“Social skills are fundimental to being successful in relationships, and they are more important than looks, status or wealth.” More important than looks and wealth , status Celebs don’t even have to go out that much but will have millions of women throwing themselves at them nice try OP. 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Crushing on a married person is okay, as long as you understand they are married and therefore off limits.Nah never heard of AnonymousBosch but it sounds like he knew more about women than most men. “Men are loyal to people . Women are loyal to their feelings” This rings true. An average woman would say this is misogynistic lol this is the truth of the matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Crushing on a married person is okay, as long as you understand they are married and therefore off limits.Nah you don’t know about that yet. If he will cheat He’s wife might not even be attracted to him. Just taking him as a sole provider. And marriage isn’t going well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Crushing on a married person is okay, as long as you understand they are married and therefore off limits.I swear women will never understand this the way that we do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 06:13 AM |
| -1 | Crushing on a married person is okay, as long as you understand they are married and therefore off limits.Op saying:” I am a woman, who fell for a co-worker who was cute, charming, cooperative, you name it. But, he was someone’s husband. So therefore he was off limits. Before ya’ll ask, no, I would not have dated him, even if I had the opportunity, because… as they say: If they can cheat on their spouse with you, they can also cheat on you.” Nice try you would love the attention he gives you if he goes on to neglect his wife that would be a Bonus point for you. 😅😅😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 08:00 PM |
| 17 | Men who romanticize single mothers are not actually attracted to single mothers, they just want to be neededDid you just see this in a movie and then assume In real life this happens? 😅 most people I know avoid single mothers cuz they know the baggage they bring and drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Elon Musk and Talulah Riley: a case study on female hypergamylol she could could have gotten someone as rich as her on the financial level a millionaire and is successful then but nah the reality is different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/24 11:42 AM |
| 5 | Would you rather be emotionally vulnerable with a woman or a tree?Oops! Almost forgot The Groot got a beautiful sister I still find it risky being vulnerable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 03:33 PM |
| 4 | Why people overestimate how difficult is for women to get commitment ?Lmaooo! Give a dog a bone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 05:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm single because "they're all just intimidated"I’m 100% sure it’s a boss babe who wrote this not knowing no sane man would want to deal with her mid attitude. So she thinks most men are intimidated by her status lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 03:48 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Luck is everything. Some men are just by default undesirable and there is no underlyting reason whyYes and having self improvement, confidence, making 6 figures or luck you don’t need those things if women deem you attractive you just have to exist and then wala! lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 09:53 AM |
| 0 | I would rather be single than settle for a man.lol So what are they then? We men all know what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 12:00 PM |
| 0 | I would rather be single than settle for a man.It’s obvious what your standards are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 10:09 AM |
| 2 | I would rather be single than settle for a man.Lol you’re just waiting for a self made millionaire with good looks just come and propose to you. that’s fairytale thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 05:47 AM |
© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter