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Well people on this sub are complete excuse making losers with no real world connection to getting any sort of pussy, or genuine female connection whatsoever 😂. It’s just not an argument you can win
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:49 PM
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But this isn’t what a pick me is. Pick mes are hated by other women. To your comment above, of course men are going to like Pick Mes - they benefit us. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/p1mheh/i_pray_that_one_day_pick_me_women_will_be_free/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:43 PM
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On a lighter note, https://www.instagram.com/p/CShHLVpl1G-/?utm_medium=copy_link 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:17 PM
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I didn’t say they were. What I said was that if you have these characteristics, statistics and anecdotal evidence point to the fact that if they perceive you this way, you likely have some shot up until you open your mouth. What you do after that is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:11 PM
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Those are the baseline characteristics that you need, and the other “superficial” characteristics stem from there. Proof: https://helloclue.com/articles/sex/idealpartner
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:10 PM
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I didn’t say the entirety of it was about personality - what I said was essentially, it can’t hurt you to be “nice,” and that if at the end of the day you don’t have enough muscles or money, that is a character trait you are missing. You are not fitness oriented, or financially concerned enough to meet her tastes. Proof: https://www.eeoc.gov/sexual-harassment “Although the law doesn't prohibit simple teasing, offhand comments, or isolated incidents that are not very serious, harassment is illega…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:08 PM
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For all types of connections. Goodness, and safety are at the route of what all women want, regardless of how hot the man is. https://helloclue.com/articles/sex/idealpartner
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:14 PM
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Meh. I don’t think women can fault men for being looks oriented creatures any more than men can fault women for being emotional creatures. The female notion of a man who is perfectly “emotionally available,” vulnerable, and accommodating while at the same time providing protection and security while commanding respect is also just as whimsical. It is not so much that men don’t want to be told we have an attractive personality, so much as that is not what turns us on. We want our women to be phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:04 PM
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Yes, this was exactly my point. I’m familiar with these studies. The only way to succeed is to not give a fuck if women think you are creepy or not, but you can still control the depth of your advances. I guarantee you no man (no white man) has ever went to jail for approaching a woman at a bar, saying she looks “nice,” striking up a conversation and then leaving when she says to leave her alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:53 PM
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Damn three dates? That a wifey for me 😂. Anything longer she’s a nun and I’m dumping her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:34 PM
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At this point in life, nah. I’ve fucked three fat chicks in my career, and I still have nightmares from the experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:27 PM
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The definition of pick me is getting distorted. Pick me is supposed to be a girl who puts other women down to raise her own status, not one who simply wants the attention of men she likes. Pick me and simps are not equal categories within their sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:19 PM
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Because Stacy has too much self confidence to settle for just sex - the attractive women in Chad’s league come with more baggage than the average women who are just desperate to have some dick from a highly attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:14 PM
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Man. After 11 years in NYC, you couldn’t have said it better. The absolute worst people I’ve dated were the hottest ones who did drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:27 AM
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You need to work a bit more on EQ, and signals that she is interested. And I don’t think the degrees of creeping women out are as firm as you think they are. If you approach a woman, say hey you are looking great so I decided to approach, and she goes ewww and you walk away - legally and morally there is nothing to feel guilty about. You made one approach, you’re not a psychic so you couldn’t know her answer ahead of time. Part of being a woman is getting approached - they can deal with it, it’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 11:13 AM
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I would agree. People outside of these Internet spaces are much different 😂. Reddit is full of complainers. A counterpoint to this - most women DONT want their meal paid for by a guy they find revolting. There is proof of this - ask one of your hot female friends if she has ever been “stuck” on a date. So this damn near proves that women obviously want something more than money if there are men who’s “money” would still disgust them on a date. Life and dating isn’t so bad man, I think most of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:43 PM
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Hmm, I don’t understand why I see so many women complaining about the man sharing the chores though. Most married couples that I know are two professional, educated people. The man does some chores - laundry, occasionally cook, cleans regularly - but the wife still defers and relies on him much more heavily for emotional support. She had her period, is having a bad day. She doesn’t like coworker at work, is having a bad day. She wants complements, someone to take her out, and make her feel speci…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 02:04 PM
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Oh wow, got links?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 02:32 PM
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🤷🏽‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:56 PM
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Like you said, being a bad boy isn’t completely free of the obligation to meet women’s needs. Pussy isn’t free.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:45 AM
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The other counterpoint would be - “why do I provide my girl love, affection, and financial security just for her to share her body with someone else?” That’s part of the concept of love for most people - reciprocation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:42 AM
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But, some swingers like that - they see themselves as a vessel for their partner’s happiness. I asked a swinger on another thread “why?” He said I want my wife to have the finest in everything - a home, love, affection, travel, adventure, fulfillment, and ultimately sex. I said “why don’t you give her the best sex?” He said there were some limitations as to why. So to each their own. It depends on how you approach facilitating your girl’s happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:39 AM
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A woman who needs constant validation from someone other than her man is never going to be loyal. Some amount of it is healthy, and just the nature of women - but seeking constant validation via taking your clothes off for other men isn’t going to last. She’ll get tired of you real quick. She’s for the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:37 AM
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Absolutely. But just having one dating prospect at a time isn’t going to work either. You need some options, or even women don’t respect it. At most, you can be physically involved with maybe 2-3 at a time, but that is a lot of work and attention demands. You can talk to more at a time though without fucking them all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:34 AM
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I moreso have issues with the implications regarding her need for attention and validation. But that’s just me personally
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:54 AM
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This is a good argument, but devil's advocate - the band aid concept is the exact same for women. The only difference is gender roles allow them to put on a band aid with free dates. I don't think porn, or OnlyFans is necessarily detrimental to personal development, or mutually exclusive to self-improvement. That is just those dudes who are content to never get any real pussy. Any man with any kind of pride and self-esteem eventually realizes that gyms, wardrobe, reading books, developing new ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:46 AM
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Hmm. OnlyFans isn't "disgusting," but I dont want my girlfriend taking her clothes off for money. You would really date a girl that does that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:36 AM
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Hmm. I would argue this depends on the size of the city you live in, and your age. I am 35, living in NYC. First off, no one above a certain level of attractiveness here has just one suitor - definitely not women. Second, there is no guarantee dating someone that you like will work out. It's not about having a "backup" so much as dating is only an agreement to explore your compatibility - it's not the end-all, be-all. Third, I've slowly come to the conclusion that if you are dating just one woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:34 AM
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Insight!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:29 PM
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😂😂😂🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:29 PM
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😂😂😂. That’s for dudes who lets their woman SLAP them around huh. “Go put on your pants honey. Momma’s in charge!”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 07:28 PM
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Nah, we still hold the cards when it comes to relationships. They hold the cards to sex. Don’t like a woman or want to marry her? Dump her. But you will NOT get inside those walls unless she says so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:39 PM
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Naw. That would give up too much available Pussy, and we men can’t go more than about 72 hours without release. Just having a penis will always come with some level of being a simp. In my opinion women are MUCH less likely to compromise their standards in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:37 PM
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Only 200 lbs? Do you even lift bro? 200K for a CEO? What is this guy running - a daycare center? 🤣 Sorry, the troll in me had to say it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:32 PM
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I have a problem with this argument even as a Millennial strictly because of hypergamy. The male gender role always involves being “more” - more money, more emotional strength, more in shape, more personable etc. or you wouldn’t be attracted to us. Hypergamy is probably at its worst point ever. In the traditional days, women would literally marry any man with a job. Millennial women want a HOT man, with a professional job they respect, dominant but still sensitive, outgoing and popular but not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:24 PM
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I don’t think gender roles will ever really change that much because biology. In my experience, feminist women complaining about men when properly dicked down will eschew all that, and start cooking and cleaning. And all the career advancement stuff will go out the window once they get a baby from the man they love. To be fair, the same with incel men. “Life is so hard for men, blah blah blah.” Once they find a woman with a little encouragement and some good pussy - and it won’t be the cream of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:16 PM
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Got it. Then I’m on the hunt for a new gf who acts like this, and if she does I’ll dump her cuz I know it’s possible to find one who doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:51 PM
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It absolutely does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:42 AM
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Yup. I’m not being high and mighty. I respect your point. But you are absolutely in the complete minority of women. Survey “The survey also explored views about femininity. Overall, Americans see society placing less premium on femininity than on masculinity: 32% say most people in society these days look up to women who are womanly or feminine, while 11% say society looks down on them; a majority (57%) say society neither looks up to nor down on women who are feminine.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:39 AM
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Are you willing to twerk on Instagram, or bend over on the squat machine while zooming in on your camel toe? And then say “I made this post to help women with their fitness”? I guarantee it will get you thousands of likes, and millions once your platform grows. I wouldn’t put too much stock into it lol. Us men are absolute primitive savages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:29 AM
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Fair enough, but quite a few women do this. I’m hard pressed to think of any men I know, or have even HEARD of in the most removed degree who would ask their wife to sleep somewhere else when upset. Or who go to their parents house after a fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:27 AM
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Would you agree - women DEFINITELY hold grudges a bit more. Even the absolute kindest of women I’ve dated - when I’ve fucked up, that will forever be embedded in their memory, and they will bring it up at LEAST tens of times. Even after being apologized to. Women have a diff emotional response to being wronged that maybe causes things to resurface more. This might be a sort of involuntary ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:24 AM
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This is true. The times when my ex told me I wasn’t “good enough” at something - “get a new fucking apartment,” didn’t clean enough, needed to hurry up and marry her even though we talked about it literally every day for two years - at a certain point my ego was MASSIVELY hurt and I blew up 😂. Women will almost always attack a man’s ego when they want to take a cheap shot in an argument. “You don’t even make me feel good anymore.” “That’s why your dick is small anyways.” “What kind of man are yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:20 AM
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Lmao. There are a lot of “women, because they have value just to exist.” That seems to be the most popular response.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:16 AM
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For this question, we are forcing you to pontificate about some of the variables that make a gender’s ego. Give it a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:15 AM
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Fair enough. I’ve heard of some stubborn men. Actually my own Dad NEVER admits he’s wrong to my mother 😂. Oops. I sure overlooked that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:14 AM
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Yeah. I dunno how we’ve achieved a world where it’s ok for women to say exactly what they don’t want from men all the time, but if men do it, our needs and wants are minimized as shallow and vapid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:15 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:13 AM
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Lmaooo. Keywords: “your father taught.” It’s crazy how rare parental lessons, and good parental lessons are at that. I realized how blessed I am as I get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:04 AM
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Why’d you comment if you didn’t want to go back and forth? Most people usually just don’t respond. I look great. I admittedly don’t have much sympathy for people who get botched plastic surgery. I would never put down someone’s natural looks, but you did this to yourself. Call it a major flaw in me if you want 🤷🏽‍♂️. Also, I didn’t raise the point about mediocre women getting hundreds of likes, and I didn’t complain. That was Puzzleheaded, but I would argue yes, those women are still mediocre. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 06:03 AM
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Nahhh, many, MANY of them are mediocre. And without even needing to immaturely shame some natural women for their looks, look up a woman named Zimenaorr. She has THE largest, most disgusting fake ass you’ve ever seen. And the same is true on Pornhub. Most of the thumbnails nowadays are HORRIBLE looking people just willing to take their clothes off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:55 AM
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I agree with you. There is certainly a safety aspect to it. But not ALL of those people are dangerous. Even if we broke it down by percentages, wouldn’t you think say 30% might actually be criminals/rapists/highly dangerous people. 30% might actually be creeps and undesirables - fat dudes, degenerates, etc. And 30% are dudes who are on some level worth the attention, but you’d have to break those down into subsets of fuck boys, recently single and unstable, etc. and use 33.3% because I’m too laz…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:51 AM
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Lmaoo. Moral of the story is dudes in management, especially if this place is their own company, are sociopaths. Most corporate managers are absolute dickheads for a reason. Who would drink the Koolade and replace a real world identity, where you can actually be yourself - for a neutral company identity where your entire wardrobe becomes khaki pants and Patagonia jackets, and you now have to avoid all having opinions, political views etc by choice. Only a dickhead who values this over power ANYw…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:42 AM
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Interesting. This might subjectively be the best answer yet! How does the median woman view herself? Is this because women have some value for existing, as many people are saying, but a man who just exists if at a low level of income is basically worthless to society?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:33 AM
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They aren’t known to man. That’s why they’re single. See what I did there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:29 AM
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Lmaooo. Red pill LOVES to wallow in self deprecation versus just sucking it up and figuring out a solution, just like female dating strategy refuses to admit that any area where women don’t have an advantage isn’t necessarily just automatically sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:28 AM
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and all valid points. I know some men in each category who never seem to figure out the appropriate balance of masculinity, and just foolishness 😂🤣. But, devils advocate, don’t you think there are also women in some of those foolish categories: - Being caught without makeup on is not feminine - Being anything other than the most flirtatious person possible is not feminine - Exercising too much is manly and not feminine - Certain clothing and attire is not feminine, which is a much more palpable …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:26 AM
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Before I say anything...I MUST have a link to YouTube video or article about these men who won’t wash their own ass because it’s “gay” 😂😂😂. As a man of Jamaican descent, I would have to say this HAS to be either there...or in Africa somewhere. That shit’s hilarious!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:22 AM
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Lmaoooo. Devils advocate, they say that men argue to outdo and outreason each other, but women are less likely to engage someone if their opinions seem ridiculous or for other reasons - they are intimidated, don’t feel safe etc. I imagine for this reason that when you are behind a screen, it’s Carte Blanche to say “fuck it” and just insult people when you feel they’re not “right.” But most of those women are just r/femaledatingstrategy, r/askwomen, and a lot of women-led threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:20 AM
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And lemme guess - absolutely NO one watched the crypto episode? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:16 AM
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They obviously fuck large amounts of those girls after the show. They literally wanted an excuse to have scores of hot women in a room sucking on a mic to see who can do the best job afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:16 AM
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Interesting article! I agree somewhat. Men are certainly more impulsive, and I can’t argue with science that states testosterone gives you more confidence. However, devils advocate would say that men have to make decisions for more people as we age (our wife and kids), but that does not necessarily indicate confidence in those decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:14 AM
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Lmaoooo. Dude said Fresh N Fit. That podcast is hilarious. I have watched a lot of Kevin Samuels and Fresh N Fit videos for entertainment, but even as a guy I think their analysis is a bit simplistic. It’s like “do men want to fuck you? Only a few? Ok, you’ll never get married.” When you are hot, you have to work much much less on character development. As long as someone wants to Fuck you, I think there are people in just about every income class that you can date. And women can climb social cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:10 AM
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Well this is why I’m asking the question! I’m not saying I’m right by any means. Great perspective. You are right. Women don’t care as much about empty sexual attraction, that is only a social currency that is at the top of the pyramid for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 05:06 AM
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It’s not, but for me personally here in NYC I would definitely say women because of the street. Even the most unattractive women here get approached, complemented, and catcalled fairly frequently here, which isn’t necessarily desirable in and of itself, but I’m sure it feeds one’s ego. It has to, knowing people constantly want to fuck you and that you have at least SOME value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:52 AM
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😂. I would have to selfishly say men on that one. If a man messes up, he’s gotta say “baby I’m sorry” and sleep on the couch for a week. If a woman messes up, “well I was feeling ____” (insert emotional need not being met here), or blames it on various types of hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:50 AM
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So in other words, this depends on the person?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:48 AM
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Word. How come?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:48 AM
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Lmaooo. I strangely agree w this in re to the top level guy. Someone like Kevin Hart, even though he is not arrogant, I just perceive as having much, much more confidence than a female celebrity of same massive stature, like a Rihanna or Beyoncé. Maybe this is because women run into more barriers for achievement. General society, I also agree but moreso because I think women are more empathetic, and their social circles are much more supportive. They lose their job or man - “girl you can do bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:44 AM
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lol. That value declines as women age though because it’s based on looks. Devil’s advocate would say these women still have the same ego when they’re 50 as when they’re 22 and hot. To that you say...?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:42 AM
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Fair enough. How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:41 AM
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Man. I used to find these type of posts insightful. Now I feel really sorry for Purple Pill, Red Pill, MGTOW, Female Dating Strategy, r/KevinSamuels - and basically anyone who isn’t optimistic, and excited about the dating world. It’s a terrible feeling to go through the world feeling like being happy in love is a privilege that you’ll never earn. Fortunately, this isn’t case. Best of luck to you all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:34 PM
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Hmm, he sounds like an above average man if he is that swole and “doesn’t skip leg day.” The casual sex havers can get annoying with their whining, but just playing Devil’s advocate here - you don’t think your height afforded you some privileges, and that your hubby’s good looks are what make you want to simp for him? I think the casual sex havers sometimes get frustrated because they are unable to earn the same type of love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 01:38 AM
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No. Go out. Bars, rooftops, and shows. Also, any classes - fitness, Salsa, painting, pottery - whatever you’re into. Definitely fitness. It’s a very fit city.
/r/askTRP08/07/21 11:42 PM
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What do you think it has to do with this post? I’m not the one trying to get a high value man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 05:25 PM
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It’s less complex than this. Sex is a huge part of what we want from women. That’s just life and how we’re wired.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 04:36 PM
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🤣
/r/askTRP08/07/21 01:29 PM
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Hookup scene absolutely fire lol. I hope you like alcohol though. Once you quit it becomes tougher
/r/askTRP08/07/21 01:28 PM
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Why is everyone on this thread so depressed and nihilistic? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 08:10 PM
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I agree. Most of these threads are full of miserable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 07:53 PM
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I think you are just someone that wants a highly intelligent wife. In the case you are struggling to make the investment, cooking and some lovin will destress you!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 07:43 AM
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I see your point. I think he has to be blunt with thes women to almost overcorrect. Even if it’s not their intelligence, they are skimping on other areas too - “I don’t need a man,” “I shouldn’t have to do cook the majority of the time when I come home,” and in some cases, they are just not submissive enough. On top of that, they are a 6 and in their early 30s. High powered women have a way of arguing about pointless things because they are so demanding. Kevin is just trying to tell these women …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 02:32 AM
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To be fair though, we are a MUCH bigger country. As an 11 year NYC resident, I feel SOME compassion for the homeless...but living on the border of Harlem and the Upper East Side, they can be dangerous at times. There is a growing contingent of anti-social media folks and those who get it. The gym culture varies - most guys do want to have muscles yes, but as a black man where basketball is an overwhelming popular sport, many go to the gym for sport specific training. Your exposure to certain val…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:17 PM
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America has quite a few issues with values, excess, and compassion. I am an American who spent one year living in Madrid. Everything was different. For example, parties in the states have MUCH more excess. Madrid party - veggie platter with a bunch of ham, maybe some salad, everyone engages in convo, lots of wine, maybe mix it with some Coca Cola, and lots of cigarette smoking. Parties in the states: Doritos, chips, sodas, BBQ, beer, too much beer, people falling down drunk, hot dogs, hamburgers…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 03:06 PM
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For me personally, hell no I wouldn’t marry a bimbo, but since I’ve worked hard to become high value, I’m not going to marry a 6 lol. Could be why I’m single. But I would agree with your point though to some extent, although you have to read between the lines a bit. These men “don’t care” about education to the extent that most women they cross paths with, by the very nature of that happening, can’t be complete bimbos. But it’s not something a high value man has to consciously think about, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:30 AM
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Dude, they don’t necessarily value women like themselves. There are quite a few non ball players in this list - Bob Johnson, Robert Smith, Carlos Slim Helu - but in many cases, they don’t want people like themselves because it adds a stress factor. The properties of VC and Tech men don’t necessarily apply across industry, but you are still leaving out insane hotness of these women regardless of education, which I can speak to from personal experience working for a large search engine I will not …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 10:03 AM
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Kevin isn’t entirely wrong. 1 - Kanye, Jay Z, Robert F Smith, Bob Johnson, Michael Jordan, Kobe 2 - They aren’t completely uneducated, but very uneducated women will have little cause to cross paths with high value men. They won’t be at the country club, business events, etc 3 - They often have great careers, but moreso related to talents, not professional careers, which is what Kevin argues against. PhD women often think this alone qualifies them to marry a high value man, which Kevin thinks is…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 09:35 AM
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But she isn’t highly educated with a great career
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 02:26 AM
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Ah. You right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:33 AM
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Yes, also it’s not unfortunate. I am just the type of guy who would rather take the hot girlfriend than the ugly hookup. It’s a win win lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:31 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:31 AM
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Yes. The best comparison is the Obama years versus the Trump years. Obama’s approach to inclusiveness gave white men the sincere belief that they were being victimized, which gave way to MAGA and the absurd idea that “Black Lives Matter” is somehow a racist idea that “devalues” the white man. As a result, we saw racists come out in the open and boldly state their opinions. Red Pill men are a clear response to Me Too, which I despise as a man. Just because many women finally got the chance to rai…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:21 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:15 AM
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THIS.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:06 AM
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Right, but then you don’t actually give them a chance, and then get tricked later do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:05 AM
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Good point, but then don’t you just ignore those men as opposed to dating them like you would if they were hot, and finding out later that they only are in it for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 12:00 AM
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It’s just the nature of dating apps. When people are in a vacuum where there are literally no consequences to what they say or do, the true nature of both sexes will come out. It is much much harder for an average man to get matches on Tinder, because personality, and the guts to approach women are the only things that can take him out of his league. On a dating app, women tend to reduce men to great travel pics, wealth, status, etc - ie Tinder. On the flip side, these high value men will match …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:57 PM
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What things do they say?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:54 PM
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This is great feedback, but it seems like you are a rare woman. You must be highly intelligent - only a very smart woman would have this perspective. I say that because your intellect must give you the confidence to navigate through the maze of creeps, or you must have some other great qualities besides just looks where you don’t take this type of behavior personally. Most women complain about how men on apps are such creeps (unless the men are insanely hot), and they always think there is somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:50 PM
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It is the complement to the opposite story - average dudes who swipe on all the hot models, and can’t get any sex. Women are quite sexual, but only for a very small subset of men. Men are the opposite. Sexual for everyone, but will only wife a few. This is the phenomenon OP is speaking of - these men will take sex when it falls in their lap and because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:44 PM
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I’m jealous. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:33 PM
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These aren’t African American women, which changes the game quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 11:31 PM
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It is easy, not online though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 04:10 PM
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I just never get any good matches on Tinder here in NYC and neither do any of my friends. It’s all white chicks from SoHo. Hinge and Bumble seem to work better as a black man in NYC
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:17 AM
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I just started using other apps that work better than Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 01:16 AM
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Female thirst lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:45 PM
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This is dead accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:43 PM
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You might be dating the wrong type of women. Of course a sorority woman would not like this - remember they are the type who all about normalcy, and won’t admit they suck dick or will try not to get caught by the other sorority girls for fear of being labeled not normal. As a black man, I personally think black women would love you. In the black community, you have a hard time being high value without being athletic. Also, you may have to intentionally try to be more Casanova to offset any perce…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:31 PM
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Not black men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:12 PM
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I don’t think women are this ruthless. It is an over correction for trying to make the fat girl feel better at best:
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:10 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 01:02 PM
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Crackheads have superpowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:17 AM
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There is anecdotal evidence. Ask your friends. I would include myself in this group. If I go through the trouble of getting in shape, earning more money, and reading a ton to find a woman who I outpace in these categories, I don’t want to do much cleaning of the house on top of that. Maybe some dishes or minor floor mopping, but if I have to clean everything, what do I get out of the deal? A sexual vessel that will maybe produce a few kids if I’m lucky, and then get fat and start wearing granny …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 10:00 AM
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This 👌🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:45 AM
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This isn’t true. You will absolutely go from being a LVM to a high value man if you go to the gym, make more money, and improve mentally and spiritually as in the example you mentioned of “taking care of your health.” That is the whole point of this thread - pretty much every agrees there is a disparity between what women are looking for, and the time it takes men to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:43 AM
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I won’t sit here and feel sorry for myself. I will say that in 2021 it takes MUCH longer to attain the things that women want to the levels they want these days. I am a unique use case living in NYC, but I barely know anyone who could afford a night out at bars or a club without panicking about their bank account until we all reached late 20s. Meanwhile women have been getting free drinks since they were fresh out of college. This is not to complain, but moreso to explain the disparity OP is spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:39 AM
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The point here is moreso the time, and work it takes to change and it being worth it. Like someone said above, if you go to the gym 10 hours a week, bust your ass while sacrificing a social life to become INCREDIBLY skilled and rich, and spend endless amounts of time reading about and improving your spiritual well being. For that amount of effort, no man is going to accept a woman who is even remotely less than incredibly hot, along with all the other personality traits that he wants in a woman.…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:34 AM
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You’re just proving a lot of his points.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:31 AM
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But that’s the thing. YOU want an emotional connections and companionship. That’s what YOU get out of it. That is not the same as what we get out of it, which is shrinking in value slowly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:28 AM
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Neither. What’s changed is the increased sexualization of society. Both men and women place too much emphasis on sexy traits - the popularization of strip clubs, huge asses, BBLs, yoga pants, being a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets, explicit rap lyrics. In turn, requirements for marriage haven’t changed. Men still want a respectable, docile woman who can cook and clean, but the pool of these women is much smaller than it used to be. Many women don’t begin to develop these skills un…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 09:21 AM
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They don’t have to work on their careers and fitness as much. It evens out.
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