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AmeriknGrizzly/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 02:39 AM
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AmeriknGrizzly/r/askMRP28/03/17 07:37 PM
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AmeriknGrizzly/r/askMRP06/04/17 03:25 PM
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AmeriknGrizzly/r/askMRP29/03/17 02:03 PM
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Equal rights... and lefts.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/11/19 05:16 PM
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I didn't tell her to do anything specific, I'm not writing her a chore list. I just said the way things are working for me and she is going to help out more. I cook most meals simply because logistics with her getting off work later than I. Now when meals are finished I rinse my dishes and put them in the dishwasher and if I feel like it I'll put the food away she is responsible for her own shit instead of me playing bus boy. Also since she can be pretty passive on cleaning I just flat out tell …
/r/askMRP07/04/17 12:35 AM
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Fuck that. That's one thing I told her needs to change. I don't mind helping out and doing my fair share but I was doing it all and being a fucking bitch about it. Covert contracts out the ass.
/r/askMRP06/04/17 03:56 PM
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That's another skill I'm working on. Not showing butthurt. For the longest time that's all I would do. So it's hard for her to see anything other than that. What I've been trying as a start is when she is only giving starfish I calmly get dressed and tell her that she can as well. Then proceed to just go business as usual, I've wanted to leave and go lift or maybe go do something else but not sure it's the right time for that. She might just see that as me being so butthurt I have to leave. This…
/r/askMRP06/04/17 03:51 PM
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Yes, there was a time when I was in control and the alpha. It started with me getting comfortable and slowly sliding towards more beta. Then crashed when I hit a hard depression and gave up everything. I didn't do shit but go to work, sleep, and play video games. I relinquished all control to her and then after my son was born it was clear to her that I lost all my RMV. I had no positive beta skills and was now a lazy fat fuck. Cue ILYBINILWY.
/r/askMRP06/04/17 03:44 PM
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Yes I see. I still have a long way to go. I'm lifting, I'm starting to distance myself from home. Doing things that I want to do, without her, and getting back much needed guy time. I posted about these things in my OYS post. I've stopped texting her and I'm following the 2:1 ratio. I've stopped greeting her at the door like a dog waiting to get a pat on the head. I've stopped parading around every little thing I do. I spoke up to her that she needs to help around the house more. I've been more …
/r/askMRP06/04/17 03:40 PM
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Doing pretty good on STFU but still slip little details here and there. This goes in hand with still weening myself off of seeking her approval and validation, it's better but not where I'd like it to be. Maintaining my gym routine, I've had one since last August but I started 5x5 last week, the first few workouts kicked my ass since I hadn't done any lifting since highschool 15 years ago. Now I'm just working through the light stages waiting to get up to where I'm challenged again. Also my diet…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/17 02:10 AM
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Not bullshitting myself. You left out the part where I said when she isn't around and that's the problem. I always hated the fucking awkward silence and caved like a bitch and I did it again last night. I fucked up, I'm learning this shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 01:58 PM
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Got it.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 01:23 PM
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I really am missing the point then. I'm stuck between either she is really fucking done or that she isn't sure and part still wants this.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 01:10 PM
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I'm usually pretty unplugged from my phone. Only time is when she isn't around which is the problem. That has also been a fight we've had several times how when we are doing family shit she is always on the phone. That pisses me off to see her glued to the thing and honestly that was the kick off for our fight Monday night. Was already pissed off about other things that happened that night and was all in my beta feelings. After I made my son and I dinner she just flopped down on the couch pulled…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 01:07 PM
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Yes I am very much addicted to her validation and that was made very clear after reflecting on several replies. She is almost terrified of making me upset, either angry or emotional. She knows the rings are important to me. She is terrified of me yelling at her. She ran up to get the ring cause she didn't want to get caught without it and me turn into an angry emotional retard.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 01:01 PM
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I'm fully aware of this.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 12:44 PM
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I'm not here for hugs or anyone's approval. I'm here for this, a real brutal honest outside look on my life. I am not the man I'm aiming to be and I will not be for sometime but I am doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 08:58 AM
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I'm not asking anything this is my field report. My experience of me doing this journey.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 04:54 AM
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Yeah the text message thing is tough. I'm sure a statement or a logistical text will arise soon enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/17 02:50 AM
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My shit; I say sorry way to much, every little thing that goes wrong I am the first to say sorry. The worst part is most of the times I say it it doesn't even involve me. Then even when I have a valid point or reason I say sorry for hurting her feelings. I remember the days when I would be her oak and it was fucking amazing, then I grew weak and she noticed and she stopped leaning on me. Begging her is not the way to be strong. Secondly, I get way to emotional. Far too many times have I turned i…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/17 04:22 PM
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Yeah dread is kinda scary. In theory it makes sense but when I'm talking to her it's so hard to keep it up.
/r/askMRP29/03/17 02:11 PM
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Didn't make the full 90, didn't need to. Turned out was just an easy way to deal with depression. Jerking feels good I'm depressed shit got out of control. Back down to normal levels with that. Yeah I turned into a full beta; crying, talking about my needs and feelings, opening myself up and just doing all those things I was told to. Shit got better but I'm a beta buck now. I bend to her every need, I go out of my way to make sure she doesn't have to do shit. Then I bitch and cry when she isn't …
/r/askMRP28/03/17 10:14 PM
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Fucking eye opening.
/r/askMRP28/03/17 08:47 PM
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Copy, thanks.
/r/askMRP28/03/17 08:27 PM
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Jesus I have become a total pussy. Last night we went to my father in laws to help move some stuff. We already had dinner planned which I was going to cook when we got home. Well he offered to buy us pizza, which isn't a food I like to eat very often well I said I didn't want pizza and wanted to go home but she wanted the pizza so I just sat there and didn't eat for over am hour just so she could eat her pizza. I was pissed but didn't say anything ended up being passive aggressive the rest of th…
/r/askMRP28/03/17 08:15 PM
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Holy fucking shit. This is describing my life. Holy fuck this is nuts and eye opening.
/r/askMRP28/03/17 08:10 PM
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Sorry I mainly Reddit from my mobile. I don't have a sidebar.
/r/askMRP28/03/17 07:48 PM
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