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Amethyst_Lovegood/r/ExRedPill14/04/23 06:21 AM
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Cool, well if you're studying psychology I don't know why you would base your opinion of gender differences in mental and emotional development on personal anecdotes instead of actual data. Maybe you have an external locus of control and would rather make generalisations about women's mental development based on personal experiences instead of looking at yourself as the common denominator in your interactions with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 04:21 AM
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Reading Erikson's work is studying psychology 😹
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 01:14 AM
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Maybe you don't date women and that's why you think this. I think basing my opinion off statistics on who women marry and how often they stay in the workforce after getting married is more realistic than basing it off anecdotes from your personal experience. Society expects the man to approach, to be interesting enough to hold a woman's attention, to have money, to be a provider and so on. This makes men more mature So you're just making up your own metric to measure maturity? Again, I think I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 12:25 AM
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And yet they still want a provider, that's the point. Some women, like Trad wives, do. Other women do care if their man makes a lot of money but still work themselves. The majority of women want a 50/50 financial partnership (which isn't wanting "a provider".) generally men have to be more grown mentally because of social expectations What is your basis for this? I would argue that within relationship dynamics, many women end up in a parenting role to their male partner since they still do the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 11:55 PM
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I suggested you get therapy to be in a better position of attracting a woman with emotional intelligence and good relationship skills. Honestly I think most people would benefit from therapy before looking for a life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 05:03 PM
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Modern women work so men aren't providers anymore. If you look at Erikson's model of psychosocial development, I would argue that women in general are more developed as they are generally more capable in stage 6 - intimacy in relationships. Even if they're single, women generally have more emotionally intimate friendships. https://www.simplypsychology.org/Erik-Erikson.html
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:40 PM
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Not necessarily. But to attract an emotionally intelligent woman with good relationship skills, you need to have emotional intelligence and relationship skills. Get into therapy to figure your baggage out and start reading relationship self help books.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:26 PM
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They dated this ex in the past. In the past they may not have had the same amount of self esteem or assertiveness that they do now. Maybe they engaged in acts they didn't enjoy in the past due to lower self esteem and lack of assertiveness. Today they have more assertiveness and are better able to communicate boundaries. TLDR its probably not about you at all, it's about not liking this specific sex act.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:13 PM
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That doesn't really make sense because the manosphere is mostly conservative and they are the guys who aren't in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:49 PM
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Went to therapy, read books about developing relationship skills, got fitter, worked on my career goals, gave myself a glow up. Therapy was the most helpful thing. When I learned to stop hating myself I was way more positive about the possibility of finding someone good (which I did).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:44 PM
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This subreddit attracts a certain type of man though. All you need to find is one good dude, and they are out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:40 PM
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I was on holiday once with my cousin and a weird middle aged man (who was with his wife and young daughters) started conversation with us. He was telling us about a local place he had visited and showed us pictures of it, as he was scrolling he accidentally showed a creep shot he had taken of a woman sunbathing in a bikini 🤮 it was so disgusting and awkward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 11:49 AM
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Their argument is that women should force themselves to have an abortion just because they don't want to pay for the kid they're 50% responsible for. They want "equality" for men and women when it comes to unwanted pregnancy even though it's not equal that only women have to carry the pregnancy and go through childbirth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:46 PM
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better to be honest and tell them what happened I disagree. Be honest that dad hurt mom a lot and didn't keep his promise to only love mom, but I don't think having sex with someone else in their bed needs to be mentioned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 03:53 AM
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I agree. Hopefully she didn't actually tell the kids anything and just wrote that to hurt him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 03:51 AM
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Thank you for taking the time to write this, I appreciate it a lot. I'm definitely interested in volunteering, I have a month off work coming up (I'm a teacher) so I'm planning on exploring my options during that time. I've also arranged to attend therapy weekly. Before my recent ex, I was single for 5 years because I find it so hard to meet quality men. I'm attracted to wittiness and kindness and obviously need to be physically attracted to the person too and honestly I've never met someone who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 03:45 AM
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I feel so lonely at the moment. A year ago my 3 best friends all moved away at the same time and soon after that I got into a relationship. But we broke up and now I just feel so alone. My family live extremely far away. I have good relationships with my colleagues but at the weekends I really feel lonely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 12:21 PM
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You're lucky to have such good friends in your life, they love you and know you deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 12:13 PM
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I want to distance myself from the person who used to tolerate his shit. I want to become the kind of woman who would kick former-me's ass. Also, don't hate former you. Think of her as your naive little sister, get in touch with some compassion for her and what she went through. She just didn't have the tools to deal with the situation. Evolve to be the person who would kick his ass for treating former you that way, she didn't deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 12:06 PM
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he had gotten with "that girl he told me not to worry about" Sounds like a manipulative liar who is so desperate to get under your skin, he literally changed his number to contact you. It would be so funny if you replied "ok, don't worry about it, shit happens. Hope you're doing well!" It would bother him so much if you were unbothered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 12:02 PM
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Well you’ve already failed to prove that feminists have that attitude. I’m a feminist and it pisses me off when I see domestic violence awareness ads directed towards teenage girls. I have teenage brothers and they deserve the same education on how to recognize abuse. Feminism is about equality and that means teenage boys and girls being treated with the same care. Regarding female sentencing, I assume feminists don’t see it as a big priority compared to other issues.
/r/MensRights13/06/18 10:15 AM
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There’s nothing in that article to suggest that feminists believe statutory rape of boys is less serious than that of girls. It looks like the court system and the opinion of the average juror, which could be anyone, is what’s at fault here. Again, because we live in a patriarchal society where girls are thought of as weak/ less sexually driven and boys are thought of as tough/ more sexually driven. That article does not say women commit domestic violence more often than men. But I agree that we…
/r/MensRights12/06/18 11:48 AM
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The physical difference between men and women gives the woman the sole choice over what happens during the pregnancy. It might not seem fair to you, but neither is it fair that women have to deal with the suffering and pain of pregnancy and child birth. A single parent, if financially equipped, can do an excellent job as a parent whether they’re a man or a woman. If someone chooses to be a single parent through adoption or IVF and they have enough money to do it, the government won’t have to ass…
/r/MensRights12/06/18 11:38 AM
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Can you show me an example of a feminist who believes statutory rape of boys is ok? Also can you show me the stats on women committing domestic violence more often than men?
/r/MensRights12/06/18 10:55 AM
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Well traditionally, society views men as people who want sex all the time, and also as people who need less emotional protection than women. Feminism’s goal is that women and men should be treated equally regarding sex and their emotional life. Here is an example of one feminist journalist outlining her thoughts on male statutory rape victims of their teacher. https://www.google.com.vn/amp/amp.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2014/06/06/tucker_carlson_does_not_understand_statutory_rape.html
/r/MensRights11/06/18 04:18 PM
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Women and men have different bodies. This means they can’t be treated exactly the same when it comes to pregnancy. It’s inhumane to force a woman to have an abortion against her will. If her pregnancy results in a child being born, society has policies in place to protect that child who is innocent, hasn’t done anything wrong and needs money to survive. Are you advocating for child poverty here? Men do have one pretty useful right to reproductive freedom and that’s the right to use contraception…
/r/MensRights11/06/18 03:19 PM
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Well when you look at the demographic of customers of prostitution or perpetrators of human trafficking, those people are usually male. Do you consider me stating that fact to be “anti male”?
/r/MensRights11/06/18 03:15 PM
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That’s not a policy of feminism. That’s part of living in a patriarchal society which is something feminism wants to change.
/r/MensRights11/06/18 03:13 PM
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No. Men often get paid more than women because they were offered a higher wage or had the confidence to negotiate their pay. Women not having the same confidence is an issue. Women also are less likely to get promoted because a company is worried she’ll take maternity leave.
/r/MensRights11/06/18 03:12 PM
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Yes, because men just love Chads and never get so competitive and jealous that they have petty fist fights over nudging someone in a bar 😂
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 06:56 AM
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Formulated strategies? Hahaha wtf are you talking about? Do you know what subreddit you're on?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 03:55 PM
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You use formulated strategies when talking to women and deliberately screen out the ones who believe themselves to be of equal value to men... then complain that the ones who end up falling for your bullshit are boring? Yeah, no shit. The interesting woman probably peaced out as soon as you negged her. https://www.nobelprize.org/nobel_prizes/themes/other/womens-day-2016.html
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 12:24 PM
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