AmiBeingRestained Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	The problem with just stay on your path and live your life You're a complete turd to all these people actively trying to help you. People taking time to write out long ass messages of guidance, help and advice and you treat it like they're just trying to win something over on you, that all these people don't have better things to do. You seem hateful. You shit on everyone who wants to offer you help, just because you don't like to hear that you might be the one with the problem. You deserve whatever misery you have to slog through in your willful ignora…	/r/ExRedPill	14/07/20 05:12 PM
2	The problem with just stay on your path and live your life Point proven.	/r/ExRedPill	14/07/20 05:08 PM
1	The problem with just stay on your path and live your life I once drew a picture of Spiderman when I was 14. I really put work into it, I stared and stared at pictures, I did the steps from the art guide. I did the 3D forms under the muscle structure, foreshortening perspective, pencils followed by inks, then colors. It was gorgeous. It was the most effort I put into something and I was so proud of myself. I felt like a pro. I showed everyone. Several decades later I found that drawing and held it up, it looked like a vaguely Spider-man shaped smear of …	/r/ExRedPill	13/07/20 09:48 PM
2	The problem with just stay on your path and live your life I've read all your comments here. You're Rocket Raccoon from Guardians of The Galaxy. Figure out his character arc and what is issues are and you'll figure out your own. Like Rocket, women may think you're cute but you're definitely not gonna be a sex symbol.	/r/ExRedPill	13/07/20 07:48 PM
2	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. I'm not tolerant and never claimed to be. I loath people who use the inherent unfairness of the universe as an excuse to be loathsome and make me and my family and the people I love suffer. What, you think the world is full of 1-dimensional caricatures like all people arguing against TRP and hate have to be super-tolerant soy-drinking yoga-on-the-beach-having hippies who want to preach tolerance and not using gendered language and that anyone who hates redpill has to be the opposite in all regar…	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/20 01:23 AM
1	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. Do just leave me alone Oh grow up, you're here arguing with people and keeping the arguments going because you want to feel abused so you can feel that society is victimizing you again. That's why YOU keep making posts and engaging people telling you you're wrong. You're climbing down the ladder to the pit of incels who get off on people hating them. You don't want to feel bullied by the truth? Go hide in that cave I mentioned.	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/20 01:17 AM
2	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. Yes you should have stuck up for yourself. But you don't need to turn to redpill and being a miserable sonovabitch to hear that, you just need to be around better people. "feminism" never stopped working, nobody was ever "using feminism" like it's some kind of tool, it's just a stupid word. Instead you were trying out an elaborate an act to see if it would get rewarded, it wasn't because you met a shit person who took advantage of it or took advantage of your mental health condition, either way,…	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/20 01:12 AM
1	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. Do you realize that bipolar disorder is a lifelong condition that you will have to manage your whole life most likely? It won't get better. It will always go back, but treatment and management means proper use of medications if prescribed, avoiding drugs and alcohol, and making sure you are aware that your dark swings will pass, and finding ways to cope until they do pass. I don't think you're doing any of that shit, so maybe start there? And maybe change your expectations to what the world is g…	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/20 12:57 AM
1	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. Okay so what is your plan for dealing with it when your bipolar brain swings to a bad mood? You've been through treatment, what did they emphasize you need to do when you feel dark and unhappy?	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/20 12:52 AM
1	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. And? Are you saying bipolar people can't be happy? Lost cause? Dig a hole now? Think carefully before you reply.	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/20 12:50 AM
1	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. What, you want me to say "Yeah you're right, let fear control you and make you a bitter, cynical person who finds reasons to hate women and society which will lead to you dying alone and angry and regretful?" Because I can say that too. I keep asking, as do others in this community, what the bloody fuck do you want here?	/r/ExRedPill	05/04/20 12:49 AM
1	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. So you're aware what you're doing, presumably you know the harm it does, yet you do nothing to mitigate it. I just have too many negative experiences And what? You're completely ruined and can't fix something as isolated and simple as catastrophic thinking? You're obviously able to think still, and communicate, and function. So what's been taken away from you? Is someone now holding a gun to your head and saying "You can't attempt to fix your thinking or I'll kill you"? And if you're so irrevers…	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 10:37 PM
1	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. Your inability to identify "catastrophic thinking" when you're displaying it in spades tells me that either you never really had therapy, or didn't have good therapy, or went into it with the wrong expectations and didn't actually learn any lessons.	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 10:31 PM
1	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. Everyone here is telling you that you cannot judge all of reality and how the universe will treat you based on one experience with another person out of literally billions. It's wrong for someone to shame you and hurt you, but it's also not the right response to this treatment to put up walls and be scared of girls for all time. The way we interact with each other radically changes through our ages, through our environments and because of our experiences. Your experiences socializing and being c…	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 09:13 PM
1	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. You're confused.	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 07:46 PM
1	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. There's so much to unpack here that I can't figure out how to get near it. Who's making fun of you? Why? Are people literally pointing at you on the street and laughing at you? Or are you getting inebriated and making a fool of yourself? What's so bad about being made fun of? Everyone gets made fun of at some point, or are you talking about something else? What's really scaring you? Is this all really about one or two people who were mean to you? How are you coping with that? Is it isolated or s…	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 07:43 PM
4	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. Thank you. I've had a lot of pain, loss and misery behind me and it would be peak hubris to think I'm all better, but I did turn my life around and feel a thousand miles better than I did when I was getting drunk and high alone in the bushes and considering ways to kill myself because I thought the world was dark and miserable and hopeless. Therapy helps. Medications help. Listening to people helps a lot. Exercise, hiking and spending time away from society is highly therapeutic. Getting sober i…	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 07:20 PM
1	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. This broken record goes around and around with you. This is way better then being self secure and having people run over you anyway. Are you sure about this? I ask again, IS IT WORKING? Are you comfortable? Happy? Fulfilled? Or at least are you making progress towards any of those things? I'm not being facetious here, I'm serious, if whatever is going on in your head is making you happy, and nobody else is getting hurt, then do it. Enjoy your life in whatever way you want as long as you're not s…	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 07:08 PM
11	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. But you want to. You've said or implied as much over and over, that you are tired being the guy who's been taken advantage of, that you used to be "good" and whatnot and that just got you hurt, etc. Your anger is pretty clear. What's not clear is if you actually want to do anything about it. If you actually think you're on a better path here trying to validate hating women for one reason or another, or nurturing negative thoughts in general. Is nurturing negative thoughts working for you?	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 05:40 PM
4	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. See, every time you talk about women as a singular entity in generalized terms, you are still making yourself a victim of a monolithic entity instead of addressing where the real problem is. This is the trap that people fall into that keeps them from healing, they erect monoliths that crush them. As long as you're seeing "women" you're going to be alone and scared. As soon as you start looking at the world in terms of your individual relationships with other people who are also in their own hell…	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 05:39 PM
20	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. This guy is circling the drain of a total mental breakdown. That's not judgement, it's recognition. I've been there, it's not pretty. He posts and posts and posts here the way someone yells at themselves in the shower when their mental argument with themselves becomes too heated. He's not here to hear others speak, he's here to see his own thoughts attacked so he can defend them, thus feeling safe and secure. It's building a fortress out of playing cards.	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 05:32 PM
8	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. But I do skim through their heavily and it seems like both sides are very bitter and have a lot of passive aggressive nastiness and snideness to them And what makes you different here?	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 05:29 PM
6	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. How are you any different from the people you condemn in this very post who you say unfairly judge men because of fear? You're judging women, judging yourself, judging society, based on the things you list here as potential risks of relaxing your guard. It's fear. Your fear is controlling you. You sound like you have CPTSD, please look it up. If you were with an abuser before then you haven't healed from that and need to understand that you're not living in the here-and-now, you're still being a…	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 05:26 PM
12	Women can get away with making social mistakes way much more than a man can. Why are you still here? You don't seem receptive to anyone trying to tell you anything that runs against your opinions, you get angry and defensive when people tell you the hard truth which is that you have some serious issues that are hurting your relationship experience, and that's why you're having a hard time. That if you got help for your problems and actually put the work into changing instead of drinking and getting high every day you might not be worried about any of the problems you see…	/r/ExRedPill	04/04/20 05:19 PM
1	Thinking about going to rehab or AA You're conflating "responsibility" with '"fault." Lots of people are hurt by other people. I know I have in ways that aren't even appropriate to talk about casually. Yes, it's their fault I was hurt. Done is done, it won't change no matter who I yell at. But, it's my responsibility to repair that damage and live a better life despite what was done. It was always on me to recognize what was done and the effects it had on me and fix it. This may not be your fault. But you owe it to your own life a…	/r/ExRedPill	03/04/20 10:28 PM
1	Thinking about going to rehab or AA I don't know what your reply means, but I do hope you get some real help, you need it. You're seeing a hostile, unempathetic world around you but that's being tinted and created by your own state, this is all you and you need to fix you. If you're hung up on how other people are treating you before addressing how you're treating you, you're just sliding deeper down that pit. The world is great. Or at least it can be. Humans may be shitty as a group but as individuals we have great capacity to he…	/r/ExRedPill	03/04/20 09:00 PM
1	Thinking about going to rehab or AA I just read a large chunk of your comment history on this sub and have interacted with you here before and I'm left vaguely disturbed by the picture that I'm seeing from an outside perspective. Instead of talking about that, I want to say before anything else that self-medicating will kill you eventually, and horribly, not a noble way that will make people feel bad for you; but a choking, agonizing, uncomfortable death with people hating you for hurting yourself, not apologizing for hurting you,…	/r/ExRedPill	03/04/20 03:27 PM
1	We should stop bullying nice guys. Nice guys do not make themselves and are products of mixed messaging and upbringing. It is bullying because clearly their head space is different than yours Oh fuck no. People in a "different headspace" are MILES and MILES away from fuckstains that fantasize about abusing and killing women. I'm talking the whole incel/MGTOW/MRA/Redpill sphere on the internet specifically. Each one of them deserves all the verbal abuse we can throw at them for encouraging each other to rape and hurt others. I don't care your upbringing, there are billions of people who had shit parents and don't …	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/20 04:22 PM