Amirsalot Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Should I ask her out again?	Lifestyle	Amirsalot	/r/seduction	19/12/21 02:03 AM
1	When do you make it official	Removed: Specific Situation	Amirsalot	/r/seduction	05/02/21 04:09 PM
1	Should I ask her out again?	Conversation	Amirsalot	/r/seduction	20/12/21 08:17 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	First message As a guy, I feel like you kinda have to show more effort when you start talking to someone. My current girlfriend never texted me first when we started talking but I didn’t let that discourage me. I was persistent and it worked out. You’ll miss out on a lot of girls and opportunities if you wait for them to put in the initial effort.	/r/seduction	10/02/21 10:00 PM
1	Weekly thread for quick solutions in specific situations? Be yourself dude! If you feel like bringing your partner a glass water then do it. Please don’t be obsessed with the “alpha-reactions” and be authentic.	/r/seduction	10/02/21 09:57 PM
1	Book on communication and social media I’m in the process of finishing Modern Romance by Aziz Ansari. It’s mainly about romance in social media and dating apps as well as how relationships are in modern days	/r/seduction	09/02/21 10:43 PM
1	I wanted to have an abundance mentality but now I'm just desperate to have a girlfriend. I’ve been trying to go out with girls since covid started and I think I’ve been rejected for various reasons for about 5-6 times (all have been through Tinder). I just met this girl 3 weeks ago and I’m so lucky to have her in my life. You can’t let the failures get you down you just gotta keep going. I’m not gonna lie, it was very tough at times especially cause most people are alone during lockdowns. We all have a bad streak every now and then so keep the consistency going and you’ll meet someo…	/r/seduction	08/02/21 05:48 AM
5	She responds to my text later or a day later. What to do? As other people have said, you gotta let go and forget about her. We're all on our phones 24/7 these days so replying back to a text is not that hard, in fact it's the bare minimum.	/r/seduction	08/02/21 12:54 AM
3	Been feeling down lately, I have reverted to feeling like no female has ever been into me. What can i do to fix this? I've been feeling this way since the start of covid and it's due to the difficulty of meeting people. You just gotta hang in there for now until you can go out there and meet new people. I literally met someone about 3 weeks ago and she's been the highlight of 2021 so far . I'm gonna assume you're a pretty normal guy and don't do anything creepy so it's impossible that "no female" is into you.	/r/seduction	08/02/21 12:50 AM
4	how would you handle this shit test? I usually ask that question first because it’s ironic when a guy asks a girl considering that guys are usually the murderer LOL I went out with someone 2 weeks ago and I asked “oh by the way, you’re not a serial killer right?” and we still laugh about it to this day	/r/seduction	07/02/21 02:12 AM
1	What should I do? I was in a similar situation with a former friend and I kid you not, it took me 3 years to get over it. I know you like her a lot and you guys seem to vibe together but responding to texts is the bare minimum and if she can’t do that then i don’t know what you want me to tell you. You seem like a nice guy and you should be her priority. You could have a mature conversation with her and say that you don’t wanna play games. It’s gonna take a lot of emotional resiliency but I’m sure you got this!!	/r/seduction	07/02/21 01:51 AM
1	How to keep the conversation going? Watch Comedians in Cars Getting Coffee. Jerry Seinfeld does an amazing job of having conversations about random topics with other comedians. I was really shy to talk to people and express myself but I got a job at a call centre that forced me to talk to people on the phone and it was probably the best decision I’ve made. The other person also needs to be invested in the conversation too so don’t feel like you have to carry the conversation	/r/seduction	06/02/21 07:55 PM
1	How do you stay chill while your in love If you choose to compliment her then compliment something that she has power over. Don’t compliment her hair, eyes etc. compliment the shoes or clothes she’s wearing cause we all choose those things in order to look good and you making a comment about it is good assurance for her	/r/seduction	06/02/21 04:13 PM
6	How do you stay chill while your in love “And also personally I think "I love you" is overrated.” Preach brother	/r/seduction	06/02/21 04:11 PM
4	Is it just in my(18M) head or? Go for it dude!! You’re 100% gonna regret not asking her out. What’s the worst that can happen? She’ll say you’re not cute or reject you but at least you tried. I’m also not sure if a girl who says you’re ugly to your face is worth your time so don’t beat yourself up if you get rejected. I always rely on this quote when I’m debating if I should do something or not: “Cause your never think that the last time is the last time. You think there will be more. You think you have forever, but you don’t…	/r/seduction	06/02/21 04:08 PM
4	Does anyone have any good advice on what to do when a girl opens your snap but doesn’t reply? If you’re serious about having something meaningful with this girl I’d suggest asking for her number and texting instead of Snapchat. Speaking from experience, Snapchat has a not-so-serious vibe to it and guys who use snap as the main form of communication are usually looking for hook ups. If that’s your intention then snap is they way to go, otherwise I would ask for her number.	/r/seduction	06/02/21 06:46 AM
1	When do you make it official I get that. I had no intention of making it official anytime soon, I just wanted to get a general opinion!	/r/seduction	05/02/21 04:51 PM
1	When do you make it official Thank you for the detailed comment :)	/r/seduction	05/02/21 04:43 PM
1	When girls get to know me they often fall for me...but how can I capitalize on this when meeting new people? I personally hated the whole picking up girls at bars and flirting nonsense so I’m kinda glad covid shut that down. If you think that girls start to like you when they know you better then a 2 minute conversation at a bar is probably not the best strategy. Unfortunately, you don’t have a lot of options to socialize with covid other than fitness classes or approaching people at restaurants if you wanna be bold. And also, you’re not missing out on the fun. 90% of bar interactions end within a week…	/r/seduction	05/02/21 04:18 PM
1	can u feel when someone has no kissing experience? I tend to care more about the meaning of the kiss rather than how good or bad it is. If it’s with someone who I see myself having a relationship with then I’m just excited to kiss her regardless of the quality of it. That being said, you can always make a funny comment to lighten the tension. I once kissed someone, pulled back a little, smiled and said “Any tips for improvement?” It made her laugh and she probably forgot about the kiss	/r/seduction	05/02/21 03:56 PM
3	How do you make “the final move”? I literally had this whole final move experience last night. The timing is never going to be right so don’t wait for that. Body language and touching is the green light so if you notice she touches you on the arm or just makes physical contact then go for it and STOP OVERTHINKING IT	/r/seduction	05/02/21 03:48 PM
5	Unpopular Advice To Become More Confident The way I gained confidence was by watching stand up comedy. I had a couple of awkward first dates where I didn’t have much to talk about so I started watching stand ups. It just taught me how to transition between topics	/r/seduction	05/02/21 03:46 PM
8	How do men release their emotions? The “platonic female friends” is extremely important. They definitely helped me get over some tragic times	/r/seduction	04/02/21 11:55 PM