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I think the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 03:29 AM
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I’m not a huge fan of arguing semantics. The modern usage of the term is the only thing that is relevant to me. With that said, I’m not opposed to seeing it changed to something else, like ‘man’ or ‘woman’. I do like to know the gender of the poster though.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/13 03:12 AM
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Society has garnered a real disorder for seeing sexuality in innocent interactions. I remember my SIL telling my father to stop bouncing his granddaughter on his knee because it wasn’t right. I overheard my dad complain to my mother that she treated him like a pedophile, and he raised two happy, successfully daughters of his own. What was equally disturbing was my SIL routinely told my niece that she was sexy when she was a young child. If we are going to bombard men by telling them they are sex…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 02:38 AM
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I agree with this statement. I don't think that people confuse being opinionated with intellectualism on purpose. Basic philosophy and specifically, logic, just aren’t taught at a secondary level. Ignorance ensues. I had to go to college before I learned what a syllogism was. If we want to raise the discourse of the general population, we must teach them how to formulate a thought. Since all Americans attend compulsory secondary education, we should teach logic in high school. Thus, all American…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 02:04 AM
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That is a lovely allegory of marital love. Thank you for sharing it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/13 01:40 AM
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I hope you can find it. I would like to read it. Being pregnant was an out-of-body experience for me. Since my husband and I plan on having many more kiddos, I would like to arm myself with knowledge ahead of time of how hormones are sabotaging my mind and relationship. Maybe it will help me curve 90% of the noise, and I can share it with my husband who can then place into context the 10% I let slip.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 01:34 AM
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Well said. I'm tried of people representing our thoughts on relationships being outdated and self-hating. All of us live this way because it works for us, and we are happier because of it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/13 01:29 AM
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Shallow women need things to talk about, too, and they love to talk about themselves without regard to how inappropirate the subject, how cady it makes them look, or how disprespectful it is to the person that is suppose to be their life's companion. It's just another example of today's 'me' culture.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/13 01:25 AM
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My eyes can never unsee that. I did happen to see an image of failed mirror shots though. A couple of them had children wandering around in the background. I hope those wantabe strippers are putting back money for therapy! What is wrong with all of these ladies? Don't they realize that once you put something like this out onto the Internet, you can never make it private again. Genealogical research in the future is going to be eye-openning. edit: spelling
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/13 01:21 AM
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You have to train her behavior. It's going to be a constant thing and you'll have to constantly correct her. This was my thought too when I read his response. Don't allow things to crawl back to being awful (because that is what will happen if you don't keep calling her out her attitude). Likewise, if she does something that you like then give her some praise for it to encourage it in the future. Crying over nothing isn't acceptable behavior for an adult and she needs to learn that, but she neve…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 12:05 PM
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Quick question, is she pregnant? If so, did her change in attitude start when she got pregnant? I'm a woman (in a marriage with a RP man). I had a baby last year, and the hormones are hell. I happily take on the subordinate role in our house, but my husband was very exasperating to me while I was pregnant. I like to think I have a great deal of discipline over myself, but I was surprised by my own instinctual reactions to things. Unfortunately, it will get worse before it gets better. The first …
/r/TheRedPill30/06/13 01:47 AM
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I couldn't believe what she said after that. I'm not going to eat that. I'm giving it to my boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/13 04:52 PM
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Okay, I read the blog post, and I’d like to address two points: I think he is right to call out the advice to deceive through omission. I think he’s wrong to judge women unfit for church leadership or morally inferior simply because this advice was given, or, as he puts it, we have a ‘one of us’ mentality. Let me explain. Becoming a part of church leadership should be a process that requires a great deal of study and growth regardless of gender. You must learn and strive to be the best version o…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/13 02:59 PM
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Whose team are we playing for? If all our "strategies" only help Team Woman, are we any better than the PUAs using red pill knowledge to bang chicks? I tend to believe that being Red Pill aware while dating is suppose to hip you to strategies that are being employed on you. While dating, shouldn’t you take responsibility for your own safety and satisfaction? It seems presumptuous to expect a man put your best interests at heart before he’s committed to you- or even before he’s really gotten a ch…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/13 02:35 PM
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It is unfortunate, but sometimes our worst representatives make the longest lasting impressions.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/13 01:49 PM
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I’m glad you wrote a post about feminine dating strategy because this subreddit was missing talk along those lines. We get accused of being male-focused, which I think is a misinterpretation at best and, particularly during dating, it’s a flat out lie. Our aims during dating are selfish, just like a man’s dating goals. Generally, we’re in it to obtain an LTR or suss out what type of partner we want to have a LTR with. Men are interested in sampling the merchandise with as few strings attached as…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/13 01:20 PM
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Hey, a fellow Keto-er! Your story reads has a few echos with my own. I've been trying to lose baby weight and weight I've gained while recovering from a back injury. I've lost 24 lbs with Keto so far, but I've got more to go. I agree with everyone here. As long as your sex life doesn't take a dive, your husband should love your new, healthier look. Keep up the great work. I know it isn't easy!
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/13 03:09 AM
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I agree with almost everything that your saying, but I’d like to talk about this line: Every feminist lobbying for paid maternity leave is a submissive asking daddy to care for her. I’m going to walk out on a limb here and say this is the only issue where I think feminists are on the right track. Let me explain before I’m downvoted to Hades, Outer Darkness, Taco Tico, or wherever the kids are hanging out these days... My problem with feminism is that instead of supporting women, feminists spend …
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/13 03:29 AM
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I’m a firm advocate for living together prior to marriage. You can learn a lot about yourself when you place yourself into a new situation that requires careful cooperation. In doomed relationships, you’ll start to notice things that aren’t working for you. In relationships that leave you wanting more, you’ll be impressed at how the two of you communicate and work through your problems. I’ve lived with two men prior to marriage (my college boyfriend and my husband). My college boyfriend was a co…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/13 04:17 AM
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This woman talks like someone that has been sexually assaulted, seeing sexuality in the most innocent interactions. The metaphor is offensive, but what really irritated me was that she couldn’t commit to her decision that she believes this boy is being raised in a manner that could turn him into a rapist. She makes this entire statement: She built a beautiful, glittery castle in a public space. It was so tempting. He just couldn’t control himself and, being a boy, had violent inclinations. She h…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 01:49 AM
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I called this up to watch it, but then I noticed how long it was. I'll have to check it out when I have more free time. I'm sure its interesting, and will stir up the femmies given that they hate to acknowledge when they are the privileged class. On a side note, I saw enough so far to wish someone would give this guy some professional development on creating powerpoint presentations. Don’t create slides that you read verbatim.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/13 08:57 PM
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I agree completely, and I'll just add that trying to read between the lines is a chick hobby. If you are enjoying the relationship and acting on your own terms instead of jumping through her hoops then relax and be happy. You won. She has all her cards on the table: she adores you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/13 01:43 AM
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I agree, but i also understand that space is limited to only a few lines. Our welcome message needs to be also include a, 'What do we really think?' message. An FAQ would be a good idea, too.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 02:36 PM
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I think one of the worst misconceptions is that we're only interested in pleasing or serving men. All enlightened creatures seek to optimize their own comfort, security, and happiness. I'm no different. My desires matter. What seems to be the sticking point is that i acknowledge that my mate's desires matter, too. That seems tame on the surface, but people get wound up that his desires include working on my physical beauty and being receptive to his sexual desires. Heavens to murgatroyd! You mea…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 01:48 PM
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I'm not apart of a sub that is full of anger. I'm a part of THIS sub for women, which is clearly not aiming to see any woman marginalized or abused. Do you see anyone on this board that needs saving? Do you think we need your vision or your help? You don't have to participate in a reddit that says men stop maturing at twenty, etc. Our culture as a whole paints men as idiots constantly being saved by women. That is why TRP exists. To help men reclaim their manhood.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 03:31 AM
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Plenty of educated women are choosing to be traditional wives. i don't think that RP men are out looking to marry no-nothing, zealot sexbots. They might want to have a one night stand with one, but they wouldn't marry one. Again, you have missed the overwhelming bile expressed by TRP members. The example I provided is, once again, from the official sidebar material of TRP, and there are multiple threads supporting it, and other ways to cause you "dread". TRPs do not care, or believe that you wan…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 03:17 AM
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Perhaps I misunderstood. So it's okay for me to want to take on "masculine traits" in my head-space. Fabulous. When does it become traitorous to my gender? Is this like being gay, as long as you never actually do anything gay? Again, you're interjecting your own thoughts into my words. The only person whose judgement matters is your judgment of yourself. AGAIN... i'm not trolling your feminist board to tell you that your beliefs are weird or errant. However, you are here telling me that I'm unde…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 02:56 AM
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Sorry - your parent sub is tips for emotionally damaged men, and this sub is for those men to validate themselves by trying to control women online. I think the parent sub is about men supporting other men who have just realized that a lot of women are manipulative and not worth their extended time. Some of them are angry. Some of them talk about strategies to beat them at their own game. They are angry at women that act as though they are entitled organically to something more than men. TRP men…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 02:48 AM
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Thank you for your perspective, Ms. OMGCanIBlowYou. Let me address the issue you've raised. First, am I being hypocritical? I don't think so. You made a leap in logic. I am not concerned with what a feminist does in her own head-space. I still assert that the value she has is dependent on what she thinks about herself. What I have a problem with is the feminist perspective that there is something going on with MY thinking that she needs to be involved with. Case in point, I'm not lurking in a fe…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 02:29 AM
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Ha….. well, I'm now picturing the angry woman with a pixie haircut reading your comment and then angry picking up the S.C.U.M Manifesto and saying, 'It's all true!' The problem I have with feminism as we know it is that it is concentrated on making women identical to men. A woman trying to be a man is an ugly thing. Instead of appreciating the virtues of her gender, she, as you put it, has 'penis envy' and tries to have exactly what men have. Then she gets mad because our gender (usually) necess…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 01:49 AM
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I mentioned this in another comment, but I don't feel submissive. I think this arrangement plays to my strengths as a woman. I don't have to do everything my husband does in order to be equal. Funnily enough, I learned in a women's studies class in college that equal doesn't really exist anyway. Everyone has a varying degree of privileges and setbacks that are unique to them. My setup is different than my husband's lot. We both have a different setup from a man living in the South Sudan. Its all…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 01:19 AM
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I can't help but feel as though women who reject the finer qualities of being a woman are the real traitors to our gender. I don't have to be more man-like to give myself value. The value you hold is based solely on the notion you have about yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 01:13 AM
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I don't feel like I'm submissive to men. I had my choice of mates; it wasn't chosen for me. My opinion matters in my relationship, and my husband loves and honors me daily…. but as a worthy wife and not a little princess. We have a cooperative relationship that plays to our strengths, which largely follows traditional gender norms. He is more assertive and thicker skinned. He is the spokesman for our family and our provider. I am more caring. I nurture our family, and I make sure everyone has wh…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/13 01:11 AM
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Agreed. Live a life you don't have to lie about. If there's something you're not proud of, own up to it in a relationship at the right time. If a partner isn't understanding then that person isn't for you. There's always another one.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 09:20 PM
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My advice would be to wait to have sex when the guy you are dating moves the relationship into an exclusive territory and invites you into his life (meeting friends or family, spending much more time together, openly a couple). That isn't being a tease; It's making sure you aren't his conquest. Be honest early on about who you are so you don't waste time with someone just looking to hook up. In the mean time, be the interesting person he wants to hang around. Guys get intoxicated with women with…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 02:56 PM
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She sounds insecure. There are women out there that will turn it up to 11 if she thinks you are about to leave her. If you like her a lot, you could try to make her feel more grounded as a couple. Doing things like making statements about the future can help to those ends like, "There's a band coming to town next month that I'd like to go see, will you go with me?" Otherwise, I would just talk to her about her technique. Tell her she doesn't have to try so hard, or move on if her brand of love i…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 02:45 PM
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My husband said there is a quick drop off in interest of even the hottest women after sex if everything she says is dumb. Basically, she was good for a good time, and that's all. On the other hand, he thought I was a keeper because I was good at conversation, looked pretty, and would not sleep with him right away.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/13 02:31 PM
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i agree. I never feel exasperated by my son while I'm watching him alone, but when my husband is around, my brain will start to go haywire about all the things he's not helping me do with him. All i really have to do is ask for his help. He always helps (he's bathing him right now just to have some dad/son time before little guy's bedtime). It doesn't matter.... my mind just wants to feel victimized. Good thing I know my mind does these gymnastics. I can kick them out of my head and speak up lik…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 11:16 PM
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thanks... I do not recommend redditing with infants around.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 11:09 PM
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My advice to younger women is that you aren't on a pedestal, but you aren't in the gutter either. Strong feminine women with a respect for others and a respect for themselves make great human beings, and they can find quality men to marry.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 02:42 PM
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Absolutely! I just noticed this comment, but I said the same thing!
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 02:19 PM
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I agree with this, too. Women can't help that we have hormones that follow a cyclical pattern. It will affect how we feel, which can influence how we respond. However, our diet can help give us more control over everything. I follow a paleo HFLC diet. It makes me feel like I've "always got my rudder down."
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/13 02:19 PM
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I'm a stay-at-home mom to a 8 month old infant, and I am married to a man with a 'red pill' mentality. I think the scenario in question is missing too much information in order to make a sound judgement on how the assets should be divided and if there should be any ongoing alimony. If you have never been in this situation before, you need to remember that husbands and wives choose together whether or not one of them will stay home to raise children, care for aging parents, and/or run a household…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/13 03:34 AM
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