| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 9 | When do you know to stop pursuing someone? (take me back to the basics) | AmmoTuff182 | /r/seduction | 16/01/21 05:04 PM | |
| 2 | How do I know when someone is just using Covid as an excuse? | AmmoTuff182 | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 04:08 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | This is how I make getting rejected extremely easyI personally like to say “that’s okay just take it as a compliment” or something similar | /r/seduction | 17/12/23 01:09 AM |
| 37 | I'm proof that having success / money doesn't get you laid. (27/M)Basically, the type of women you don’t want to be around because they only want you for your money and not who you are as a person. But if you only want women for their looks then you’re no better and it evens itself out | /r/seduction | 11/09/23 09:07 AM |
| 21 | Women with "Woke" or "Toxic Feminism" mentality - Is it worth the effort to date these type of women?You can’t even have an intellectual conversation with some of them bro. Like you have a differing opinion because you think the topic is more nuanced and inside a grey area and next thing you know they’re calling you a male chauvinist pig | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Why can’t I even look women in the eyes?For me when I was younger I didn’t have any confidence. It wasn’t just with women it was with everyone. Whenever I spoke to someone I’d look at their forehead or their mouth and not their eyes. I had to train myself to look at their eyes and now it’s normal | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 06:32 PM |
| 20 | Something a woman can do that gets you weak at the knees?You’ll have me eating out of your hand and following you around like a puppy if you do this to me | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 05:16 AM |
| 15 | Dating a older womanNot true. Older women are not exempt from anything. They are people with problems like everyone else. I (22M at the time) went out with a 35 year old who insinuated she would be upset if I was talking to other women but would not even kiss me by the third date and told me it was because she was uncomfortable with the age difference. She had issues that I was willing to overlook at first until she wouldn’t even let me kiss her. I just told her if that was the case we didn’t need to be dating and … | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Advice from a girl: don’t always take it personally if you’re rejectedFellas, should I make sure my finances and career are in order before I attempt to start spinning plates? I make about $15 an hour currently and I’m about to start graduate school so I won’t have any time because you have to graduate with a +3.0 GPA. I think once I have this foundation I won’t have as hard of a time because my salary for my field will be about $60k starting and I’ll have all the time in the world. I don’t want to go broke and barely get by financially/academically just to pick u… | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach; this always worked for me 85% of the timeLmaoooo “they wrongly think I have a big cock” | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 02:13 AM |
| 46 | [Opinion] Women aren't having a good time dating.Yep. Did everything mentioned above and then they ghost me. Like cool thanks for being considerate of my time and resources | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 02:16 AM |
| 35 | [deleted by user]Funny thing is there’s a woman somewhere who agrees with the exact opposite of what she says. Instead of coming to the conclusion that they just weren’t compatible she associates ever guy who texts as being a “little boy” instead of this guy who tbh was needy af. There’s nothing wrong with texting even if the main purpose is to make plans for a date | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 04:56 PM |
| 10 | As a guy , shit test the girl aswellIt was the “no we’re going back to my place and you’re ordering food there” for me. I’d block whoever thought they could talk to me like that. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 07:20 PM |
| 5 | Do anyone else see being a male cockblocking friend a dick move?There’s these two dudes I work with that are the biggest cockblocking simps I know. Anytime a pretty woman appears and talks to any other male coworker of mine these assholes appear from nowhere like they have to make their presence known and interrupt the conversation to the point where I just walk away. Every single one of these women have told me they don’t like these guys because they interrupt and hijack our conversation and it feels like they’re showing off (which they are). There was even… | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 07:13 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Why is she following her ex lmao. Red flag | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 12:27 AM |
| 6 | Y’all men gotta start getting comfortable with the sheer amount of volume we have to work not only for sex but even more so for a relationship.Lol idk why you’re getting downvoted. Most men and women are average | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 03:02 AM |
| 84 | Do you guys agree that women in dating apps average 2-3 points lower in real life compared to their pics?I swipe left if all of the pictures are of just their face. They are most likely hiding that they are out of shape | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 03:28 AM |
| 6 | I just asked a tinder girl out.Tinder also negatively affects your algorithm score if people are unmatching you. So it’s best to just keep them there | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 04:44 PM |
| 1 | I just asked a tinder girl out.Remember, if they say yes and cancel without a counter offer then she just wants a pen pal. Cut her off. I’ve had women throw temper tantrums because we had two dates planned and they canceled on both so I told them I wasn’t interested anymore and I wish them the best and they got mad. It’s manipulation. Cut them OFF they don’t give a fuck about you | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 04:42 PM |
| 2 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…They only worry about that when their biological clock starts ticking. Most 20 year old women are not trying to find Prince Charming at the moment | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 03:20 PM |
| 38 | If you brush off sex on the first date does that make a girl fall harder for you?Yup. If you’re shooting her down in the hopes to create more attraction then that’s stupid and card manipulation. If you shoot her down because you’re uncomfortable, not feeling it, or whatever other reason then that’s fine and if she loses attraction because of that then yeah she can fuck off | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | M, 23. kiss-less Virgin NO MORE!Idk I saw a tik tok video with like a thousand girls all commenting how happy they were to be their bfs first kiss/sex/bj or fucking whatever. I think a good amount of women want men with a low body count just like a lot of men don’t want to date a chick with like 10+ bodies | /r/seduction | 14/11/21 04:16 AM |
| 4 | Never had a girlfriend/never had sex. And it feels like I’m running out of time. Confidence is shotI’m not sure why you’re getting downvoted. Paying for glorified prostitutes is not something that should be encouraged. The reason why is because there’s no merit to saying “well I don’t have enough charisma to charm a woman into having sex so I’ll just pay for it”. As a virgin it teaches you absolutely nothing and will probably leave you worse off. I would never pay for an onlyfans model, a escort, a prostitute, etc. it is not respectable at all. | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Skipping foreplay, rushing, and not using your fingers are the biggest mistakes you can make during sexWhat advice do you have for me to say to the retard at work who says that he’s a “real” man and doesn’t eat pussy? | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 02:38 PM |
| 2 | How i seduced the one who feared intimacyProps to you, most people would have ditched to find a different man/woman | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 01:13 PM |
| -18 | Seduction should never be the #1 priority in your lifeThere's nothing wrong with slut shaming lmao. It shouldn't be encouraged in either gender | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 06:50 PM |
| -17 | Seduction should never be the #1 priority in your lifeI genuinely wonder how many sexual partners is considered too many here. I always see guys talking about their game and getting hookups but these are the same guys who are so impulsive they can’t find a meaningful long term relationship because they have no self control and act on those impulses. There’s men I work with who say their body count is 80+ (that’s a fucking lie unless they have no standards) and who are so against marriage it’s kind of sad. For me anything more than 10 is a lot. If y… | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 05:26 PM |
| 7 | Where to find a milf?The grocery store. I work in one and they’re everywhere. | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 01:43 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Yeah that sounds pretty accurate | /r/seduction | 30/08/21 06:15 PM |
| 5 | My formula for setting up dates from dating appsI always ask for a number but I’d say maybe a quarter of women I match with ask if messaging on snap rather than texting is okay (sometimes insta but very rarely). I don’t really take them serious if they suggest using snap over text. In my experience they just want followers or they aren’t serious about meeting me in person. I have been proven wrong though, but it’s rare. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 04:04 PM |
| 2 | How do I ask her out when there are people around?It worked for me with a coworker. I asked her out and she said she was serious with someone and didn’t want to mess it up. I said I understood and to take it as a compliment. She responded very positively as well and it has not affected our coworker relationship at all. It’s a great response after rejection. | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 01:54 AM |
| 1 | How to impress a guy on first date?I always like when a girl asks questions about me. Makes me feel like they’re equally as interested. Also be pleasant, polite, and nice to be around and he’ll notice!! | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 08:42 PM |
| 36 | Some girls just flat-out suckIt sounds like he’s talking about a pretty woman he liked but found her personality is awful. In either case, that’s life. Happens to the best of us. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 09:34 AM |
| 0 | [Field report] Multiple rejections and a good endingIdk about you but I’m a busy guy. I give women a general idea of what days I have off work, when I’m unavailable, and that I’m off work at X:XX time every day. Two days is not enough time for me to make plans so perhaps try to make plans further out. Also texting “ok” makes you look butt hurt. Instead take it like a champ and say “that’s alright. Let me know whenever you’re available”. I would delete their number too and after a week I delete the text conversation if they haven’t contacted me ag… | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 10:55 PM |
| 2 | The Main Reasons of Why You're still single or NOT good with the ladies - 3 Brutally Honest Truths.I’m just picky and have high expectations and I’m fully aware of and will admit that. You do drugs, have no goals in life, and blow all your money on stupid shit all the time? Yeah I’m not fucking with you because you’re gonna bring me down. Similarly, I also have high expectations of the way people treat me. I was on a date with a woman I had met a few weeks earlier and she had said something very softly and I couldn’t hear because of the noise of the outside area of the restaurant we were in. … | /r/seduction | 13/04/21 11:53 PM |
| 13 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationshipIn Texas I wouldn’t ever get a second date if I split on the first | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 07:59 AM |
| 6 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationshipMan I already do everything in this post and I still have a hard time finding women I click with and want to be in a relationship with. One night stands aren’t really my thing and I’ve been on so many first dates that I focused my attention onto other things but whenever I see a woman that catches my eye I’ll pursue. Maybe I’m just looking in the wrong places or something | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 07:57 AM |
| 4 | How is balding affecting your game!It hasn’t because I’ve always owned it. I started losing my hair a little when I was 16 and by the time I was 18 I just shaved it all off. I’ve picked up more women in the last year than I ever had previously | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do y’all neg?There’s a difference between teasing and negging. Unfortunately a lot of people think they’re teasing when they’re just being rude and disrespectful. It’s absolutely a turnoff and shouldn’t be tolerated. An example of teasing would be flirting with a woman who’s into astrology and you’re not but being like “wait is my Jupiter rising?! Lol I’m acting like a Pisces” Vs negging which would look like “lol you actually believe that shit? It’s okay you’re a woman so I’ll give you a pass ;)” One is lig… | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 07:48 PM |
| 2 | The boyfriend/girlfriend talk?Sadly a lot of people haven’t learned to use their words as adults and if they do it’s yelling/arguing instead of a healthy conversation | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 07:10 PM |
| 3 | The boyfriend/girlfriend talk?In my experience communicating if we’re on the same page has always been the best route. I’d rather ask that question at the 2 months mark (or when it feels right) then wait 6+ months and find out that she’s not interested in a relationship with me and is passing the time. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Probably the best cheat code I've ever foundBulverde, you? | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 02:36 AM |
| 5 | Probably the best cheat code I've ever foundI’ve lived in San Antonio my whole life. Try this at Cowboys, Tejas, rodeo, literally any dance hall or club and you’ll get laughed at. Like I said in the other comment be yourself and confident and you’ll get success. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 01:21 AM |
| 6 | Probably the best cheat code I've ever foundI’ve met every kind of Latina growing up in Texas and this is by far the best way to embarrass yourself and look like an ass. Just be yourself. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 01:09 AM |
| 1 | When do you know to stop pursuing someone? (take me back to the basics)Well speaking for myself I'm not a big fan of kissing on the first date (especially if I met you online) but I've definitely made a move to hold hands or playfully touch or put my arm around the girl I'm with. For example, a few years ago I was with a girl downtown and it was around Christmas so it was super busy and crowded. We began walking through a crowd and she put her hand on my arm, I just turned my arm around and held her hand and we walked like that all the way until where we were going… | /r/seduction | 17/01/21 05:20 AM |
| 3 | When do you know to stop pursuing someone? (take me back to the basics)I disagree. I see pursuing a woman as "I like this girl and I want to see if it turns into something more than a first date" and chasing a woman as "Oh she read my text 3 hours ago? maybe if I double text her to confirm our date she'll acknowledge me. We've been on 6 dates and we haven't even kissed? Maybe she's just shy... She'll warm up I just gotta give her more time". But I guess if I feel like she's just not into me like I am into her then I should move on. | /r/seduction | 17/01/21 05:03 AM |
| 1 | When do you know to stop pursuing someone? (take me back to the basics)I usually will ask a girl out the first time and I expect to pay. If I don't see any huge red flags like her having an Only Fans or doing drugs and we get along well I'll usually be interested in a second date. Unfortunately, because I have high standards I'm not interested in second dates a lot of the time. However, when I am interested I will reach out to make plans again for a second date. I've been giving it two chances for these girls to at least offer to split the bill but come to think ab… | /r/seduction | 17/01/21 04:51 AM |
| 2 | When do you know to stop pursuing someone? (take me back to the basics)- When I refer to IOI's it can be simple things like initiating a text conversation and not acting like a robot or if we're out on a date there's an opportunity created for physical contact like holding hands or kissing instead of closed body language. -Yes I understand that I don't need her to ask me for date three but when she doesn't even show interest for a next date and I get home to a text that looks like "Thank you for dinner! I had a great time" it shows disinterest in me as a person and… | /r/seduction | 17/01/21 04:35 AM |
| 1 | When do you know to stop pursuing someone? (take me back to the basics)I'm 21. I don't care much for games either. I'm very honest and transparent with respect to my thoughts and feelings so I feel like it's taken advantage of sometimes. I'm not gonna chase a girl because I have self-respect but sometimes I think "was I too harsh? Should I have given it a little more time?" towards the women that I lose interest in because I didn't see any interest from them. I usually will ask a girl out the first time and I expect to pay. If I don't see any huge red flags like he… | /r/seduction | 17/01/21 04:13 AM |
| 2 | She texted me “heyyyy” right now after leaving me on read last night where she texted me “heyyy”. What should I text back?I said “Heyy” she said “wyd”. I said “watching tv with my puppies” And she left me on read and then at about noon texted me “heyyyy” | /r/seduction | 31/12/20 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men.What do you mean by not get on dateline? I don’t see how his post above related to me. It’s not like she didn’t like me, she was the one to call me on FaceTime every night and we’d fall asleep together. She’d even change in front of the camera. I just think she liked me but didn’t want to be in a relationship with me while leading me on to believe that she did want a relationship with me so I’d stick around. Has nothing to do with nice guys | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men.I think that’d be great. A personal story on why I think you should: There was a chick I once talked to for a while (idk if you could say dated) but she never wanted to go out but she’d easily spend 6+ hours on FaceTime every night. I asked her out a few times and she’d just say she was busy yet she’d hang out with her friends no problem. Well I finally grew some balls and called her out on it and a week later she basically sent me a corny “it’s not you it’s me” break up text. I didn’t even resp… | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men.Oh god no make it stop!!! | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 03:09 AM |
| -1 | Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men.Better yet can we do one about fuckgirls 👀👀👀 | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men.That’s the first time I’ve ever heard of that. What are soft bois? | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men.That’s how I feel about it too. Like “uhhh this girl and her ex still live in an apartment together and but he’s too lazy to get a job so she’s stuck with rent at the end of every month and... she wants me to come over???” (True story. Fuck that) vs. “yeah she just wasn’t interesting and couldn’t really keep a conversation going”. Mmmmmm I’d rather experience the second one | /r/seduction | 18/12/20 12:51 AM |
| 19 | Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men.Can we do one about fuck bois? | /r/seduction | 17/12/20 02:41 PM |
| 7 | Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men.So again how is cringing not worse than just not being interested in talking? | /r/seduction | 17/12/20 02:40 PM |
| 1 | 3 signs you are her beta orbiter.Is it cool if I DM you? | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 04:52 AM |
| 3 | It’s honestly appalling how women are so bad with money [my story]A man says "no" a doesn't have to give an explanation as to why. | /r/MGTOW | 29/11/18 05:07 PM |
| 7 | Today at work..."Here's where you're confused. See I'm not your boyfriend, I don't have to listen to your stupid shit"- Joe "Motha Fuckin" Rogan | /r/MGTOW | 27/11/18 10:52 PM |
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