AmoebaMan Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	After 100+ first dates, my rules on making them go well Could be he's just very choosy.	/r/seduction	19/05/16 06:54 PM
2	After 100+ first dates, my rules on making them go well In general I think bars are bad first date choices. Lots of girls will get the impression that you just want to get them drunk, and that's a bad way to start. Go with coffee or lunch. Easy, flexible, and non-intimidating. Those two are never bad choices.	/r/seduction	19/05/16 06:50 PM
4	After 100+ first dates, my rules on making them go well Have a sense of humor about it. Act as if the awkwardness is an inside joke between the two of you. You aren't Daniel Craig (unless you are, then please will you mentor me?), you don't have to be James Bond. Acknowledging the awkwardness will ease both of your nerves. Best piece of advice. There really is no better way to diffuse initial awkwardness than to point it out and laugh at it. As my high school philosophy teacher once said, if there's an elephant in the room, kill it.	/r/seduction	19/05/16 06:48 PM
2	[FR] Finally seduced the woman I wanted but fails Do you watch a lot of porn? Usually when young people wind up with erectile dysfunction, it's because they're beating off way too much, and the solution is to do it less (or not at all).	/r/seduction	02/05/16 02:06 AM
1	[FR] Finally seduced the woman I wanted but fails /r/nofap?	/r/seduction	01/05/16 10:27 PM
-4	How do you handle it if she looks at her phone on first date? "Am I that boring?" Sort of a joking/self-deprecating way of pointing out that she's being rude as fuck without actually putting the blame directly on her. Gets her attention and makes it clear that it's not cool without irking her. If she does it again she gets something along the lines of "okay, really?" or "seriously?" At that point, unless there's one hell of a compelling reason to continue, she's not getting a second date out of me.	/r/seduction	01/05/16 10:15 PM
2	What was the most recent revelation or tweak you had to your game? Also of note: security doesn't mean having no flaws. That would be like saying a house is only secure if it has no windows or doors. Security means knowing what your flaws are, and working with them. Like the dwarf said: Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor and it can never be used to hurt you.	/r/seduction	31/10/15 11:41 PM
3	The online dating game has gotten so competitive that I'd have better chances by approaching in person. Not just that. It's really hard to have something even as simple as good banter via text. You lose all capability for subtlety, but you also even lose all but the most obvious sarcasm for instance. I know from experience; I'm a sarcastic guy and I frequently get misunderstood over text by people who have known me IRL for years. Vocal tone/inflection and facial expression make up a massive portion of communication. Cutting those out of the mix dramatically inhibits everything but the most basic f…	/r/seduction	31/10/15 11:25 PM
22	My guide to building confidence for those who have none You mentioned that old people can hold a conversation forever, and why's that? Because they've been doing it for fucking forever. Really guys, the only key to confidence is repetition. The enemy of confidence is fear, and the source of fear is always rejection. Repetition defeats this on every front. If you keep failing, you'll learn quickly just how unimportant a rejection is, and you'll go numb to it, thus bolstering your confidence. If you find yourself succeeding, you'll realize that maybe y…	/r/seduction	26/10/15 03:23 AM