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| 4 | Why does so much dating advice say that you can't feel sorry for yourself?So it’s the whole damn worlds fault? Very helpful philosophy. And what a cop out: most people aren’t miserable shells. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 06:20 PM |
| 9 | Why does so much dating advice say that you can't feel sorry for yourself?Dude: miserable people are terrible partners. People don’t have their shit straight except that they’re miserable. Being miserable is not having your shit straight. And it’s on you, 100 percent, to take care of it. It’s not anyone else’s problem. It’s ok to leave someone who can’t get a job, or who is otherwise not a suitable partner. People are allowed to decide who they want to be with and what kind of relationship they want. It’s actually healthy. Blaming women for protecting themselves is ju… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 06:10 PM |
| 6 | Why does so much dating advice say that you can't feel sorry for yourself?“Even if it’s not said outright” = you are making it up. And yeah, most people avoid others who are obviously damaged. They should. That’s healthy. Who wants to start something with someone displaying signs of psychological torment? It’s a recipe for disaster. Like no one wants to be around people who make them feel bad. Because being around those kind of people feels bad. That’s why people say: “work on yourself first.” | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 05:32 PM |
| 9 | Why does so much dating advice say that you can't feel sorry for yourself?This is such a load of horseshit. I don’t conform to many masculine ideals, and no more people have called me a loser than call anyone else a loser. Like maybe a few assholes in high school, I guess? Always dudes, if I remember correctly. Women are “encouraged” to extend just about every possible benefit of the doubt to men, up to and including doing things that could put them in physical danger. And when women say “I don’t want to have a conversation with an obviously maladjusted creep who won’… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 05:03 PM |
| 10 | So, one of those "sex on tap" TRPer apparently got exposed to his wife once and his wife ended up coming to reddit. Here is a rare glimpse behind the curtain from both sidesThe theme is “some weird dude on the internet pretending to be his own wife,” right? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Is reality different from what redpillers say on the internet?Sure There’s no personal spin on your argument, except the part where you invented the conclusion. “Most sex workers are women therefore, women’s sexuality is in higher demand” is just some shit you made up. Your “conclusion” is invented. there could be any number of other factors that account for the difference in gender of sex workers. You just picked one you like. All redpill is that: Start at the conclusion and then find facts that fit your bias. And I don’t believe in redpill ideas because … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/22 11:09 PM |
| 37 | Is reality different from what redpillers say on the internet?Yeah. Think about it: The single trait red pill dudes have in common is that they have trouble with relationships with women. They are essentially the last people who should talk about what women want or how women think because they are men and aren’t even close to any women. But they are also the people who are most confident that they understand this subject. But how would they possibly know? They get all their idea about women from other men who aren’t close to any actual women either. Then t… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/06/22 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Are looks actually subjective? Always been interested in this topic.A big part of how a person looks is how they carry themselves. How they walk. How they move. Posture, body language, facial expressions, etc. This always gets ignored by incel and red pill types who slouch up to women or invade their space and then say “She said no because I’m so UGLY.” | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 10:20 PM |
| 6 | There is something wrong with redpill "numbers"It’s almost like press releases from online dating companies aren’t legitimate research or something. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/22 05:59 AM |
| 2 | I have a weird question for former and recovering incels here.Many short bald men have successful romantic relationships. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity of girl leaving for a "bigger" dudeYou know what’s even less attractive to women than having a smaller dick? Obsessing over how small your dick is. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 03:05 PM |
| 3 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?He’s 6’2” as well. But also, reading his history, there’s a lot there that’s beyond the pay grade of anyone on Reddit. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 10:21 PM |
| 12 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?Dude: it’s not your glasses or your looks, I promise. Edit: Holy shit! I just looked at your history and there’s a picture! You are a fine looking young man. Jeez. I PROMISE it’s not your looks. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 07:15 PM |
| 7 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?Men can have all of those things happen but literally every woman I have ever discussed this with has been sexually harassed—at best. Most have far darker stories of men victimizing them. There is no comparison in terms of frequency between men and women and these kind of incidents. As a man, “am I safe? Is this person going to victimize me in some way?” is not something I have ever even thought in terms of meeting/interacting with a woman. But women have to think this every time any dude even t… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 07:06 PM |
| 9 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?You deal with being sexually harassed and stalked on a regular basis? And I’m sure you spend like an hour every morning putting on makeup. What do you spend all this money on? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 05:24 PM |
| 19 | So, what's worse, having no value, no attention from women, or being desired, but for shallow reasons?Women have a huge “issue” with being stalked, harassed, raped, and murdered. Ya think men have that even harder? Women are shamed for having sex, and for not having sex. You think that’s worse for men? And good lord, if you think men have the same beauty standard pressures that women have, I don’t even k ow what to tell you. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 03:15 PM |
| 7 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillI’m not going to read some dumb “studies,” dude. Women, generally, like men who are worthwhile, likable people with something to offer and something going on in their lives. It’s not women’s fault that you don’t fit into those criteria. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:18 AM |
| 11 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillDude: women don’t find you attractive. That’s the real thing going on here, eh? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/05/22 12:09 AM |
| 8 | MGTOW YouTube channels are quite literally just woman hate channelsThe ironic thing about sex robots is that as soon as their AI becomes sophisticated enough to resemble actual women, the robots will refuse to fuck these dudes. I assume they’ll be into other robots. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/22 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Blackpill explains my life and it’s painful, how do I get out of it?It’s not your looks. It’s because you’re probably really awkward and weirdly intense. No one wants to be around that kind of energy because it’s not fun, so people are going to read it on you then exclude you. You come across as maybe unstable mentally? This is not attractive to many people. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Should I start seeing escorts?Yeah, man. I’m another dude and I get bad vibes from these posts. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Is there any reason other than validation for men to pursue sex with other people?You are the one who hasn’t reached enlightenment, I promise. To understand love/connection/intimacy in terms of a search for “validation” is indicative of the entire problem with “red pill” ideas. First it’s selfish (intimacy involves as much giving as it does receiving) and secondly, it’s bitter and dismissive. It’s taking something beautiful and moving and describing it in the most cynical way possible. Like “oh, all these people say they have had profound and meaningful experiences through co… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/22 08:10 PM |
| 21 | Is there any reason other than validation for men to pursue sex with other people?Or intimacy with another human. You know, love and all that? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/22 06:32 AM |
| 3 | The Redpill is a waste of timeIt’s the bitterness that gets me. I just can’t imagine viewing the world from as cynical a place as the red pill does. It’s nightmarish, really. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/22 11:35 PM |
| 12 | What your opinion on Robert Kiyoaski becoming a red piller?“The fuck is that?” | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | So uh… What do women want again?It really doesn’t though. Ask any woman about what “prolongs” an exchange with a guy they don’t want to talk to. It’s giving them any air or attention. Look, the vast majority of communication is subtle and unspoken. If someone walks up to a woman in the wrong situation with the wrong approach, it sets off alarms and defenses—even if that’s not the intention—because it’s advertising “I don’t know how to act.” There should be no need to explain what’s “wrong” with a person who does this, because … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/22 05:59 PM |
| 2 | So uh… What do women want again?Women don’t owe weird, creepy dudes shit. “Giving feedback” will prolong an unpleasant and uncomfortable interaction in the best case scenario. And lead to being stalked and murdered in the absolute worst. It’s a lose-lose for women. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/22 02:22 PM |
| 2 | So uh… What do women want again?Hey, I can tell you why. You’re creepy and too intense. You have a lot tied up in how interactions with strangers go, and you take it very seriously when they don’t go how you want them to. No one likes being around that kind of energy. People can smell it. Like what woman wants to be around some dude that’s going to get all weird when they say, “nah, I don’t want get coffee with you.” You know you’d be like, “why?! What’s wrong with me? You at least owe me an explanation. Is it because I’m not … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/22 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works?Yeah. I don’t think that it. I think you don’t know why women don’t like you and you’re looking for any answer that isn’t “you actually kind of suck.” You are exactly the kind of person redpill targets, and it’s working. Kudos for only falling into it slowly and seeming to instinctively know it’s toxic, though. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/22 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works?It’s literally the seminal work of the pop psychology genre. But whatever. It’s just the first of 8,500,000 million books about relationships and communication written for regular people. You could choose any of them at random and you’d be doing better than “red pill” ideas. At least, a randomly chosen book might be useful and accurate. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works?If you need a book to help you understand how humans relate to one another (and subsequently form romantic relationships) you could start with Dale Carnegie’s 1936 book “How to Win Friends and Influence People.” It’s arguably the first “self-help” book and spawned the genre that “red pill” numbnuts are within. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 07:19 PM |
| 20 | Personal perspective on modern society dating from an average looking young manI can tell just from reading this that your looks are not the issue. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 07:00 PM |
| 3 | What is exredpill?You’re failing our shit test, bro. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works?There are literally tens of thousands of books, websites, educational courses, etc. concerned with how to socialize with other people. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/22 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works?Wanting to “get laid” doesn’t make you an asshole. It’s value neutral. Using the tactics of “red pill” makes you an asshole (also, stupid) | /r/ExRedPill | 06/02/22 11:48 PM |
| 15 | Why haven't women produced an alternative to the redpill that actually works?“Why won’t women help worthless, horrible men sleep with them?” | /r/ExRedPill | 06/02/22 01:50 PM |
| 6 | The redpill works but with certain types of woman.. If you meet girls your type u don't have to do shitThers exactly the kind of thing a Gemini would say. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/22 08:39 PM |
| 2 | So how do I avoid the bitches?Do you know any actual women? Do you have any female friends, maybe? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/02/22 06:38 AM |
| 6 | are men even attracted to women?As a man, I’m pretty alright. And I get why women would be attracted to me. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/22 06:18 AM |
| 29 | My gf recently told me that men who are “Hoes” are dicks and don’t respect women but at the same time I wonder why those men have such high body counts if women don’t like men like that.It’s like anything. It’s not what you get but how you get it. Like if you earn a salary as computer programmer or something no one is going to begrudge you a nice car—you worked for it and got it honestly. But if you’re a car thief, people are going to think you’re an asshole. Same with dating. It’s not the “body-count,” it’s the manipulation and lies it took to get it. If you’re a guy who liked women and sex but doesn’t lie or whatever, most people are going to respect you. But if you’re hookin… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/01/22 08:13 PM |
| 25 | I Don’t Know If My Experience With Redpill Is The Cause Of My Current Success In The Dating SceneSo you take care of yourself physically and mentally and are honest with the people you date, but you’re not doing the rest of the red-pill shit? That’s like saying “I’m a stock broker, but without the whole investing money in the market part. Just the part where I wear a nice suit.” | /r/ExRedPill | 21/01/22 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Ironically, redpillers are pilling themselves out of reality and into a world that doesn't existThat’s awesome! I sometimes wish I had gone into psychology with a focus on helping people with autism learn social skills. In some other lifetime, perhaps I will. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Ironically, redpillers are pilling themselves out of reality and into a world that doesn't existI don’t know if I agree. I learned the social skills I use to navigate the world without knowing I was learning them and employed them without knowing I was employing them. So I just don’t know if it’s possible to consciously make yourself into a person who can navigate social interactions well. It could be like language in that if you miss the window in development where you can learn language, you won’t ever be able to. You can change surface level things that are making people not like you, m… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Ironically, redpillers are pilling themselves out of reality and into a world that doesn't existYeah. But then, is it really possible to change yourself that fundamentally. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Ironically, redpillers are pilling themselves out of reality and into a world that doesn't existDid you know because this observation is often repeated by both women and men who have relatively normal romantic lives? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 03:37 PM |
| 3 | Ironically, redpillers are pilling themselves out of reality and into a world that doesn't existWomen (since they are people) like to be around men who are enjoyable to be around. I don’t know you so I may be wrong, but I’m guessing it would be not super fun to hang out with you. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Ironically, redpillers are pilling themselves out of reality and into a world that doesn't existI’m not moving anything. And my cock is of average size. I really don’t think you understand what women want in men. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Ironically, redpillers are pilling themselves out of reality and into a world that doesn't existIt’s a little weird that you’re ignoring my point. I’m not a super physically attractive guy; I promise. I’m personable and charismatic, though, and what success I’ve had with women is because of that. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 05:41 AM |
| 5 | Ironically, redpillers are pilling themselves out of reality and into a world that doesn't existI just look like a guy. Nothing special. I’m a little overweight, but I have nice eyes. I’m telling ya, it’s because I’m interesting, not my looks. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/22 02:31 AM |
| 9 | Ironically, redpillers are pilling themselves out of reality and into a world that doesn't existI’m 5’8” and not particularly attractive. But ladies have always liked me because I’m awesome and hilarious. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/22 08:20 PM |
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