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FIELD REPORTAnAmericanAdvocate/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 02:54 PM
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ADVICEAnAmericanAdvocate/r/RedPillWomen12/08/18 04:54 AM
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Based on your post and this comment, I am deeply concerned. That is not normal or acceptable behavior. Expressing your needs (seemingly within reason based on your post) and him immediately prohibiting you from doing so is a major RED FLAG. Is this how you want to live? Never being able to bring up a concern or question for yourself or potentially your children? This man is currently your boyfriend what do you think he will escalate to if he was your husband? RUN.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/24 07:57 PM
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Hello! I saw your last post and we have some things in common, It would be fun to meet a new friend! DM me!
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/23 02:14 AM
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Hi, you seem to be struggling with some issues I do and have struggled with. If you wanted to talk with someone it would be cool to get to know you!
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/22 02:30 AM
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Wow! This sounds like my husband and I. We had a LTR online for 9 months before officially seeing each other. He is younger than me too but very mature. My best advice is to met asap! As it’s been 7 months for you two already. This is important because online you can never know someone 100 percent. It’s easy to fake it. The connection and interactions in person are what really matter in a successful partnership. What countries are you from? We were from 2 different ones, on opposite ends, which …
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/21 01:39 PM
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Thank you so much! I pray the same happens to you! 🙏🏼❤️
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/20 04:32 PM
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Three years this August and one year married this coming February! ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/20 04:31 PM
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I absolutely do. My husband and I are best friends through and through. We don’t get tired of each others company, never fight, constantly laugh with one another and are the highlight of one another’s day. I never had a best friend growing up and the ones I thought were I realized looking back it was a toxic relationship. But then I met my husband, on this subreddit actually. The first conversation we had we just “clicked” and have been on the same wavelength since. He is one of a kind and we mo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/20 02:14 AM
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This is painful to read. I hope you aren’t serious and if you are do some deep introspective work. 🙏🏼
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/20 06:41 PM
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Would people like to have a discord for it? How much of an interest is there for it? Let me know and I’d consider making and managing one. It would be nice for us to speak in a more casual setting. Especially with Reddit getting awfully comfortable with removing and dictating posts and comments.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/20 12:04 AM
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I feel exactly the same way as a young 20 something year old. I have two friends currently. One who is a much older man who was my professor is college and now we are close friends who email once a month. And the other is my husband. I’ve never had “girlfriends” and the closest to it would be my mom. I find what you said exactly that, women are into college culture and relationships, something we don’t subscribe to. Meaning we don’t fit in in the world of modern women. There’s nothing wrong with…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 01:05 AM
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Have him make dinner if he’s gonna be a total jerk about it. Seriously wtf who does that? That’s incredibly rude and hurtful especially since you’ve vocalized your feelings on the matter. If my husband did this to me, I’d just start making food for myself and let him figure it out. Talk about ungrateful.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/20 05:35 AM
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Could you give examples of the “passing comments and mutterings” that he has said to you? Could you also provide background of how long you’ve been together and your relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/20 06:12 PM
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Re read what you just said. “I mean we are committed to each other” “He’s just allowed to sleep with another women” No. That is not being committed to each other. I’d advise you to get out of that relationship if he is not willing to fully commit to you and you alone. Go into nun mode work on your issues.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/20 04:36 PM
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Sounds like you’ve got it sorted. But I would read the page thats linked in the sidebar. It’s good stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 09:09 PM
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Personally, yes the husband is the head of the household. However it’s important to make decisions together as you are equals in a relationship. It’s when you disagree and have to make a choice when you let him have the ultimate say in what decision to make. Having a support system is good but also know you are a strong individual if you put your mind to it. Depending on others for support can lead you to dangerous situations. Make sure you have confidence in yourself to make smart choices. As f…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 08:29 PM
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Have you throughly read through the side bar? It explains a lot and offers good examples.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/20 07:46 PM
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I think the comment was inappropriate especially in front of others. If my SO said this to me I would be hurt and upset. You have every right to feel that way. Especially as an accomplished women. Ego is a serious issue for me, personally it turns me off and is a red flag. Putting you/others first is a good quality to have not puffing up yourself by deeming others. His comment seemed disrespectful to your career and the time you have put into your education. For me this comment seems like a less…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/20 04:53 AM
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Perhaps asking him on things you can improve on as a “better girlfriend”. He may give you insights as to behaviors you are not even aware of or he may be overly critical in which could be an indication to take a look at your relationship. Is he invested in you is something I’d look at as well, being together two years is a long time. The lack of an engagement by 2 years seems like he is stagnant in your relationship and doesn’t feel the need to fully commit to you which could be worrisome.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/19 09:26 PM
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I love coming up with gift ideas! What is your SO like? Can you give some details about him? Work and hobbies and such?
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 08:04 PM
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I was in Canada for 4 months and it was a learning experience that I really enjoyed. It made me appreciate America even more being away so long. He wants to live in the USA as the hobbies and goals we have are cheaper here.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 04:42 PM
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Me too! I never would have guessed Reddit would be the place!
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 04:39 PM
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We were apart for 9 months (Aug to May). We made it work by calling every night and texting a lot. We did facetime and played games together as well. It was a long time to be away but looking back neither of us think about it much or hold it with resentment.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/19 04:37 PM
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Based on this post and your other one, I would move on. He seems needy and unfair to expect things of you when you aren’t officially committed. I don’t understand the full situation but when I read both of yours I am leaning on the suspicious side of his intentions.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/18 08:39 PM
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Thank you. Unfortunately my campus does not have a group and one did try to get started but never went anywhere. I have one professor that I am close to but that’s about it. And you are right I am not mainstream when it comes to the culture of college. That’s a good point these few years of being alone in college has made me grow a lot! I should focus on that instead. :) And thank you! I will!
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/18 04:48 PM
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Wow this is so through! Thank you. And yes finding women friends is tough but I also struggle with men too. As you mentioned I do take every opportunity to show kindness and attention to others and strangers - I am actually very social and almost never am shy. Perhaps you are right. When college is over and I’m doing what I love then I will met someone. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/18 04:45 PM
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Thank you! I try my best not to conform my interests to other just to get people to like me. Staying genuine is important for ones happiness and health!
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/18 04:42 PM
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I know I struggle with this and I didn’t realize it was that obvious. I try my best to be light hearted I enjoy nature and it’s beauty often. I used to be highly judgmental of other but now I am thankfully over that. How does one “be fun”? Maybe I am overlooking opportunities to do so. Thank you so much for your insight!
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/18 04:40 PM
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