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Ghosting her after having made plans and after seeing her IG would have hurt her way too much in my opinion and I'm not that type of person.
/r/seduction17/07/23 03:05 AM
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Thx I appreciate it and yeah Italian is my native language but Im also pretty fluent in English, I learned it pretty much from songs, video games and movies
/r/seduction17/07/23 12:14 AM
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I think she already went into a treatment facility, she kept her IG updated with a lot of posts about it, I think she came out of it recently. Thx I appreciate it, I try my best. I don't think she will talk to me again but I tried anyway.
/r/seduction17/07/23 12:11 AM
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Yeah ghosting is terrible and I never do it, I've been through that I hated it so I don't want to put anyone through it. I don't think this girl has strong feelings, we just exchanged few texts, I think she is missing sex honestly, in her condition I think its very hard to find someone. She is beautiful from what I saw in the old photo but now she looks like an 80 year old woman unfortunately.
/r/seduction16/07/23 05:47 PM
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Ghosting is no option for me, it's been done way too many times on me and it drives me crazy and that's why I was honest with her but she got offended anyway and tried to blame me saying she thought I could go over it while she didn't even write anything about her condition, I know it's very hard for her but expecting a stranger on the internet wouldn't care about something like that is a bit out of this world. Nonetheless I think she is an interesting girl and that's why I want to stay friends …
/r/seduction16/07/23 05:41 PM
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Yeah he's just a fucking asshole, ignore him
/r/seduction16/07/23 04:01 PM
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Yeah I know it comes out as pity but I'd really like to become her friend first and then when/if things get better for her maybe we can become more than that, I just don't feel like taking the bf's route with her then maybe things won't work out and that will hurt her even more. I don't even think I could go for a one night stand with her cause I know it's going to be a very bad experience for both of us.
/r/seduction16/07/23 04:00 PM
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Trust me, I'm not, i had my first kiss cause i was drunk. Just get off the " i have 0 value" mentality, find a hobby where there are lots of people to talk to (like climbing, it keeps you in good shape and generally people who practice it are very kind and funny), practice talking to people, it will get easier with time. The only time I talk to girls ( other than girl friends) it's when I'm at work, if i see a good looking girl and i have a slight reason to go to talk to her i try to, and rememb…
/r/seduction04/09/22 07:42 AM
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I mean only like the top 5 to 20% men get attention from girls, that's because they are rich, good looking or both, some may have amazing game too, girls are attracted to that so of course they show interest to those, because they have everything they want in a man. Most guys don't have that and unfortunately we have to put a lot more work than others, it's just how life is. We need to step up with the confidence, it would be nice if girls started approaching more but that's not how it works, no…
/r/seduction04/09/22 07:06 AM
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I don't really think that's what is keeping you from approaching girls, I'm just like you, I'm 23, got my first kiss at 21 and never had sex, even tho I think I'm a decent to pretty looking guy (1,80m tall, blue eyes, fit ecc), but what i lack is confidence, being able to withstand the rejection and even my sexual experience, I'm scared that if I got lucky with a girl and we are going to have sex I either do a really bad job and she understands that she was my first and tells to everybody or I w…
/r/seduction04/09/22 06:49 AM
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Well I think that if you see her a lot IRL you have to take the courage and go up to her, maybe start with "Hi I'm (your name), i think you're really cute and i had to come and talk to you, what's your name?". I think that if she's interested in you she will keep the conversation going.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:56 AM
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How is she using me for attention?
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:38 PM
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I mean, I'm just talking to her, I'm not taking plans to move to England, I'm also talking to other girls, she is just someone i had a connection with but i had unlucky timing regarding her break up, and I'm not delusional i know there really low chances that a relationship like this will work but hey, why not trying, if i find other girls it's fine by me
/r/seduction10/07/22 07:19 AM
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I think I have the same problem, i have really limited experience when it comes to dating and the last 3 I went on a date with said they usually feel a connection straight away and with me they didn't feel it, i don't think the problem is that they don't find you attractive, most probably it's because you don't flirt and escalate too much (that's my problem too). If the girls get bored they won't feel any connection and will eventually go on their way and leave you behind, unless you look like b…
/r/seduction21/06/22 09:15 AM
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From my very small experience I can tell that if they don't agree right away and if they take days to respond then they are not interested.
/r/seduction27/04/22 02:20 PM
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Personally I think every type of compliments, like for me it's typically my eyes. Watch him closely, look for things that you like about him, physically but not only, for example if he's very funny let him know, just don't overcompliment otherwise it can be odd.
/r/seduction09/04/22 05:56 PM
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Yeah ofc but her being pretty far it's not easy for me and I took the chance since I was already going there wether she was coming or not.
/r/seduction09/04/22 04:28 PM
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Yeah but it's strange cause she followed me on IG and everything and we started texting only the day before, maybe she thought it was way too early to see each other, idk really
/r/seduction09/04/22 04:15 PM
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This girl lives 40 km from me, my friend and I were going to a concert close to where this girl lives and so I asked her if she would join us ( i rarely move this far for a night out), ofc it would be weird if it was me, her and my friend so i told her to bring a friend with her (my mate is also single, maybe he could have also got lucky).
/r/seduction09/04/22 04:14 PM
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One of the best thing you can do to get a guy's attention is to compliment him, we rarely get compliments. After that just talk to him and try to be interested in what he's saying and if you get a chance maybe try slight physical touch, like if you are sitting next to each other and he says a joke, while you are laughing try to lay a hand on his arm or maybe leg, like above the knee.
/r/seduction09/04/22 07:55 AM
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I mean, i think you know the answer yourself, imo it's better if you text her like the day before the date just to know whether she's still up for it or not. I agree also with the fact that if you keep texting her you'll have less things to talk about IRL, so yeah unless she wants to text everyday you shouldn't start it :)
/r/seduction07/04/22 11:57 AM
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I mean she said she was down, maybe ask her out sometimes and since she doesn't want to be seen getting kissed maybe go somewhere with less people around and make a move. Maybe it's even better if you have your house all for yourself (no parents around), she might prefer it
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:56 PM
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