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...in a seductress’s world, there’s no fairness-only seductive strategy...We don’t play by men’s rules, but we are adept at using them on you Came across this when I got your follow message. I totally ❤️ your attitude!! Wow. Thanks for reaching out. We clearly have a lot in common!
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:33 AM
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You’re definitely right that most women don’t have the kind of hot skills I’m talking about here. For a whole variety of reasons, most women haven’t developed them. You’re also right that women with those skills go after the really big fish. That means that, if you’re not a big fish, you’re going to think there are almost no women like that because you’re not the kind of guy they’re targeting. You won’t have many chances to meet them, so you’ll think there are even fewer of them than there are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 07:48 AM
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Having read up on gold digging and dated exotic dancers makes you a lot more knowledgeable than most men about all this. I always enjoy meeting guys like you IRL because you're a lot more challenging than most of them! Good luck to you (and watch out for that 1/300)!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 05:50 AM
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The spell will not last. That line makes me think you may not have encountered a woman who really knows what she's doing where men are concerned. A woman who understands that men crave variety will have learned many different spells she can use to keep a guy bewitched! She knows to always keep him guessing so that he never quite knows what he's walking into each time he sees her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:12 AM
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I probably would reject you if I thought you wanted more than just sex (aka using sex as a tool...) But here's the thing, if the woman knows what she's doing, you don't figure out she's using sex as a tool until she's got what she wants. All you know is that you feel wonderful when you're with her, probably better than you ever felt in your life. She doesn't go after what she really wants until she has you hooked. Even then, she does it so gradually, starting with such small requests and escalat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:55 AM
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Y'know, it's funny. Rationally, I know that you are absolutely right. I can't make any kind of logical or ethical case to disagree with you. Emotionally, though, OMG, it's so much fun to take a guy down who deserves it!! Remember, too, the "horrible...bad apples" OP's talking about are probably pretty far gone. Most likely, they were hating and abusing women long before she got to them. Maybe learning that some women can put them in their place will make them reconsider their abusive ways!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:36 AM
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You don't even have to give a lot of guys a blow job! Look through the comments for what I've said about strip club tactics applied in other settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 03:30 AM
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it’s up to you on what to do with your body I just want to be real clear. I do not trade my body for financial gain. For me it's all about the tactics I saw in the strip club: fantasy and desire and making a man feel so good about himself psychologically he's only too happy to reward me for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:58 AM
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It's not only super-rich men who take advantage of power to coerce sex. There was a massive sexual harassment scandal at McDonald's not too long ago that even involved an alleged rape of a 14-year-old.1 It's a pattern that's just embedded in society at every level. 1https://www.forbes.com/sites/annakaplan/2021/10/26/mcdonalds-workers-are-striking-over-continued-sexual-harassment-issues/?sh=16b94882e431
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:44 AM
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That's one reason I don't feel any guilt about it. If a guy wants to pamper me for letting him enjoy a fantasy, for being seen in public with a "hot babe" on his arm, for the pleasure of flattery and feminine energy in his life, I just don't see it as my responsibility to stop him. He's a mature adult deciding to spend his money on what he chooses to spend it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:38 AM
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You have really given me something to think about! It's a game I ❤️ to play and I'm real good at getting..."benefits" 💰 from it. Nearly every online discussion I've ever had about it is men attacking and me defending. Looking at it from the standpoint of the prisoners' dilemma, though, is a new angle. Thanks! (It's still probably too much fun for me to give it up, but it was refreshing to get a different view of it.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:32 AM
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On average, men control vastly more wealth and power than women. The great majority of men are comfortable using that power imbalance to try to take advantage of women. The vast majority of men are also comfortable using many other tactics to try to take advantage of women. As long as that remains the case, I don't think it's realistic to ask women to give up one of the very few ways we have to even out the score, our ability to take advantage of a man's sexual desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 02:03 AM
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The truly amazing thing is that a woman can get a man’s soul in her pocket without even giving a hand job or any other kind of sex. I worked as a stripper on summer breaks from university. It wasn’t hard at all to get a man so enmeshed in desire and fantasy that he’d max out his credit cards on me. That was even though it was clear from the start that he’d never get sex out of it. It takes a lot more subtlety to use those techniques outside of a strip club. They’re incredibly effective on most m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:45 PM
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I've gotten thousands of dollars in cash as well as expensive gifts and extravagant dates out of many men without having sex with them. Take a look at the book I mentioned, and you'll see how easy it is to keep a man on the hook without giving him what he wants. If it's possible to make a man spend a fortune on a woman who doesn't have sex with him, it's certainly possible to keep him in a relationship that's less disadvantageous to him without having sex. Why will a man spend a fortune on a str…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 02:23 PM
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The fact that sex is owed is a non-negociable. If you accept to go on a date with someone, the implication is that you're also agreeing to have sex unfortunately. I hope you'll reconsider your views on that. No man has a right to your body under any conditions, no matter how expensive a date he's taken you on. It's your body and you set the terms that determine when a man has access to it. The way I see it, when I accept a date with a man, I'm giving him a chance to convince me he's someone I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:34 PM
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The ability to utilise sex as a bargaining chip and also deciding to fuck particular guys one is attracted to are not mutually exclusive YES!! If a woman lacks ethics, she can be fucking one guy who has a totally hot body but few financial assets at the same time she's manipulating an average-looking guy with a big bank account into giving her money without even having sex with him. (If you don't think a woman can get money out of a guy unless she has sex with him, take a look at Chapters 6 - 12…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:33 AM
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I can easily find a guy on tinder who will be willing to let me stay in his house presumable for free... Tinder aggregate women as consumables. It's all in how you look at, though. It's also not hard to find a guy with an average body but a real good bank balance on Tinder (or anywhere else), date him long enough to get him to give you the money you need to cover the cost of that trip, then ghost him. You can do that without ever having sex with him. (If you don't believe me, take a look at Chap…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 12:20 AM
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YES, YES, YES! That is exactly the vibe I try to project. My mother drilled into me since I was very young to take that approach to life in general and males in particular. I've been doing it from as far back as I can remember. I still ❤️ being the woman you described and seeing both desire and fear in the men staring. Plus, it is one of the most effective vetting strategies there is. There are only two types of men who approach a woman like that. One is a HVM who's as sure of himself and as con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 11:47 AM
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I ❤️ the attitude behind this comment! It's always so much fun to see just how much you can milk a man without getting anywhere near the point of his moving into your house!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 06:35 PM
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Thank you for posting this. It was very reassuring. I'm totally cynical about men. It was really good to know that is still possible to find a true HVM!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/22 06:32 PM
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When was the last time you cared about the politics of the judges sitting in your... courts YES, YES, YES!!! I wish I could upvote this 1,000 times because it is so vitally important. Almost nobody pays attention to local elections, but they affect our lives on a daily basis a lot more than the president does. How do your Board of Education candidates feel about teaching women's issues in the schools? How do the County Commission candidates who appoint your Board of Health and Library Trustees v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 10:24 PM
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Some things that help me: As several people have pointed out, pre-date masturbation is usually a great libido reducer. Dating multiple men at once makes any one man look less attractive. Yeah, sure, the guy you're having dinner with now looks hot tonight, but if another one's taking you to a concert tomorrow and you're keeping a couple other guys orbiting, the dude you're with right now suddenly doesn't seem quite so uniquely appealing. Look for his weaknesses and faults. Sure, he has a hot body…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 05:59 PM
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collective scream if you switched the roles around and made it about a woman wanting to only date multimillionaires YES!!! Any woman who feels bad when she gets called a gold digger because she told a guy she expects to be taken to dinner at a decent restaurant for the first date, needs to remember this post. Setting that requirement is one way to begin to screen out scrotes like the guy who posted that screenshot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 08:14 PM
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Do not be sympathetic to his plight That's great advice for every situation involving men, not just when they try to get you to go back to their place. Men don't deserve sympathy. A lot of men try to use women as emotional support animals and want us to listen all their problems. I'm not responsible for their problems. I expect the men in my life to be able to handle their own issues, not try to burden me with them. I'm not ashamed of liking the finer things in life. If I mention the kind of res…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:43 AM
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The ex-husband's parents are people of the highest possible honor and ethics. I wish I could reach out to them directly to let them know that and to tell them that the family members criticizing them are contemptible. That's far too mild a word to use, but I don't know what else to call them. The parents are taking responsibility for the monstrous actions of their son. I wish I could let them know that they should be proud beyond words of what they are doing. People of principle like that are ve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 01:16 AM
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