AnUnfortunateBirth Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Gym and fitness really take things up to next level As another 6'1" fit whitey, anxiety "just being in the head" doesn't make it go away. My experiences, my whole world, is shaded by it.	/r/seduction	07/10/21 09:22 PM
2	Gym and fitness really take things up to next level This. Many people in these online spaces are dismissive of anything that says tall/white/fit are idiot proof ways to get tail. Tons of uglies/fatties/darkies are out there slaying	/r/seduction	07/10/21 09:18 PM
1	Where to learn some basic game? I have hobbies, am well read, in good shape... and I still don't have game. Not that you're giving bad advice, but those are definitely not sufficient conditions to do well with women.	/r/seduction	06/10/21 09:26 PM
5	[deleted by user] Glad you found Schopenhauer, og sigma	/r/seduction	29/09/21 07:03 PM
1	How do you become more confident? I wish this worked. I'm nationally ranked in a martial art and went to the pan-ams and am not confident with women	/r/seduction	06/08/21 11:17 PM
11	What I’ve learned from dating apps as a Male. Shit, I wouldn't be on this sub if I knew what Chad would say 😂	/r/seduction	23/07/21 03:55 AM
133	What I’ve learned from dating apps as a Male. Not sharing your super-secret 6 questions guaranteed-number template, huh?	/r/seduction	22/07/21 11:36 PM
3	Guys who got fit and muscular, how did that help with girls? Hell yeah to the rollerblading	/r/seduction	18/07/21 05:30 PM
2	People here focus a lot on the traits you need to be an attractive man. Here's why you should also think about the traits you want (and don't want) in a woman I think I want the opposite woman that you do 😂	/r/seduction	12/07/21 09:15 PM
2	What are some ways to increase attractiveness? I don't wear a watch at all. Don't like the encumbrance at all, no jewelry. I think voice projection should move way up the list, but it's otherwise good.	/r/seduction	11/07/21 10:29 PM
2	To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college): I mean, a lot of us were at our horniest in our teens and twenties and we won't be able to match that again. People in their teens and 20s party harder, do more drugs, and recover faster. It's definitely opportunity lost for some of us, but we just need to accept that.	/r/seduction	05/07/21 10:00 PM
1	I’m a really analytical guy when it comes to interactions. What advice do you have for me? Do you have friends who aren't "analytical"? Hang out with them if you do, you'll naturally pick up linguistic habits. More directly, when conversing, be concise. Over exposition will lead to analytic rambling, short is sweet. Ask more questions and give short answers.	/r/seduction	23/06/21 10:07 PM
3	Gay men seem to always be attracted to me. I am a straight guy. Why is that? Go to the wiki on r/fitness and get on a program and stick with it. It'll take some time but better to start now than years from now; a fit body won't do everything for you but it will help. Also, don't expect women to approach you or give you compliments, even if you're a 10. You've got to do all the metaphorical heavy lifting as well. Good luck bro	/r/seduction	23/06/21 05:48 PM
6	Gay men seem to always be attracted to me. I am a straight guy. Why is that? Lift heavy and eat more.	/r/seduction	23/06/21 05:07 PM
2	I urgently need help with my situation You're young, let it go and learn from it.	/r/seduction	05/06/21 04:59 AM
3	I never approached today, and today I approached 15 women !!! What is a chooser?	/r/seduction	05/06/21 04:09 AM
2	Strategy for OLD when you also run into people in person I've run into women who I know swiped left on me and would tease them about it. "You look familiar... I'm pretty sure you must have swiped left on me". Good way to keep it light hearted and signal your intentions	/r/seduction	04/06/21 06:36 PM
6	The Two Defining Traits of Being an Attractive Man: Competence plus Strength This kind of post is why this sub consistently falls short. Summarizing the post is really just "strength and competence are important." Wow. The attempts to expand on this continue to fall short. The post goes on to say that nerdy competence doesn't count, that competence consists in having a model of how the world "actually" works. I'm sure all the physics needs and history buffs would love to hear how they don't know how the world actually works. Strength is then defined strangely as being st…	/r/seduction	28/05/21 06:45 PM
6	You attract what you are. Become the type of person that you want to be with. I absolutely hate this advice. If I'm looking for someone ideal who's: not ambitious, vain, mopes around, content to stay home, etc... I'm still not going to catch one by being the same. It seems the common game is to always pretend like you are adventurous, brave, love to travel, etc... and then scale it back and pretend like bar hopping and a drive to the beach are adventures and that reading a whole novel makes your cultured. I wish that it was okay to say you're boring if you're looking for …	/r/seduction	27/05/21 11:23 PM
21	The number one trait you need to get laid. But you said number 1 trait, and now you're implying that shutting up is a method for projecting confidence and not fucking things up. You're not wrong on that front, but it still really doesn't sound like being quiet is the "number one trait" guys should focus on	/r/seduction	21/05/21 07:05 PM
79	Dear “nice guys”........ "just be yourself" Also "don't be yourself if you're shy"	/r/seduction	28/04/21 12:23 AM
1	How do I be more confident around women? I was a phil major and love the Jungian underpinnings to MBTI, so that may explain why I'm an INTP and still am an MBTI believer. Otherwise, yeah you're spot on on everything except that I never grew out of my struggles with women 😅. And Larry David is 💯 my spirit animal.	/r/seduction	15/04/21 07:56 PM
2	How do I be more confident around women? An an INTP, can confirm	/r/seduction	14/04/21 05:43 AM