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| 22 | CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrumHowever, if NT guys are willing to date ND women more, are they just willing to put up with their indiscretion more, or don't care as much? Vaginas are a hell of a drug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 10:27 PM |
| 5 | There's just as many women, as men, that are unsuccessful in romance, and they are so mostly for the same reasons as men.You have good apples- they arent hot enough or exciting enough for you. Who's "they"? There's no options at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:55 PM |
| 28 | Have you ever had a close, heterosexual female platonic friend before?Have you ever had a close (meaning not an acquaintance, an actual friend), that is heterosexual, female, and platonic? Yes, I have a few right now that would meet that description. A few are stereotypically girly, and others like bare knuckle fighting, some I just exchange dank memes with, and another really likes playing Classic WoW and Dark Souls. If so, how did it go? Was the friendship just as fun and fulfilling as male ones? Not much different than close male friends. One time I even went t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever had a close, heterosexual male platonic friend before ? If so, how was it ?And in the context of the so-called "friend-zone," it's crucial to understand that this term is problematic, signifying a sense of entitlement to a woman's affections, thereby reducing her to an object of desire rather than acknowledging her as an autonomous individual with her own feelings and desires. IMO, I would replace the bolded section with "a means to an end". 'An object of desire' is fine, but isn't as encompassing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Women, what do you mean when you say that a man’s salary doesn’t matter as long as he has ambition, works hard, and grinds?If you're the kind of person waiting for them if they quit games, I can see why they still play them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Women...ALL WOMEN...hate men who act like pussiesHe is what he eats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 01:31 AM |
| 8 | Why would studies show straight men and lesbians are more likely to be fat than gay men and straight women?Not really. Unless you work out extensively, BMI is pretty accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 11:50 PM |
| 65 | Women...ALL WOMEN...hate men who act like pussiesNot dommy mommies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 11:49 PM |
| 5 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosThere are dozens of videos with millions of views and comments that apparently agree with her opinions. Show 8 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 03:17 PM |
| 1 | How powerful do you think is status in attracting woman?It's the most important trait to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 06:26 PM |
| 25 | Reviving A ClassicDid she ever respond to that one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Why are some men so desperate to be in monogamous relationships anyway, it really isn’t that greatThere's other benefits to being in a relationship: 1) Being seen as "normal". True or not, being single after a certain age communicates there is something wrong with you. 2) Most outlets in the world are under the assumption at least two people are showing up at a time. 3) Being in a relationship makes you more attractive to other people in general. 4) There's always a benefit to having a committed life partner. 5) Not being a third/fifth wheel to events. Reality is most people are in relations… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 06:25 PM |
| 6 | Purple Pill Debate Going Dark June 12th for 48 Hours to Protest Reddit's Ban on 3rd Party AppsIt's not. They'll virtue signal for two days and celebrate the fact they're "doing something". Then go back to reddit as normal as soon as the blackout is over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 09:39 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat's objective about it? And how do you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 10:21 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy is this the best megathread on Reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Q4W : Are you attracted to him because of his confidence, or is it that he happens to be confident because he’s good lookingStudies have already shown that attraction and perceived confidence is a near 1:1 correlation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men here want casual sex?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coolidge_effect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 09:43 PM |
| 9 | What's something you've learned from dating that typically isn't preached here? I'll share minePoint #1 makes no sense from a biological and statistical point of view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 11:45 PM |
| 24 | What's something you've learned from dating that typically isn't preached here? I'll share mineWhat's something you've learned from dating that typically isn't preached here? That the people citing studies and statistics the most are the least experienced in dating/relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 09:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFBI OPEN UP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 08:52 PM |
| – | Women hate to be treated as they treat average menThis is the "not all men" response, but for women. People aren't so different that broad statements can't be made about them in some capacity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Women will not make you happy and you should not make them your sole source of happinessWhat if you lack purpose? Find purpose. What if your career (provided you have one) has no trajectory? Make a trajectory, either by creating one in your current job or finding another one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 03:39 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou'd get a number much sooner than 1000, even 100. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 07:07 PM |
| 4 | ICK Discussion ThreadICK ... ... International Cuck Klan? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 09:57 PM |
| – | Will women overlook flaws for a wealthier manwomen often make jokes about “screw it, I’ll just marry rich” Both my sisters said this all the time growing up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 09:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf she's experienced in that and can safely teach you, I don't see a problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 09:12 PM |
| 88 | Discussion : Whats the most eye opening real life example of TRP in action you’ve ever experienced?Watching women at work still flock to a guy who was 100% confirmed to be physically abusive and gave two female coworkers a black eye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:42 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadO no, you cum in 2 minutes instead of 90 seconds now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:10 PM |
| 6 | Can you put your preference into numbers?You can wear elite hats regardless though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 03:33 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy office has been playing songs by P!nk all day. She's great, all I wanted to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 08:55 PM |
| 15 | Do you think woman have greater in group bias?Yes, clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Marriage in AmericaHalf rent/mortgage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 04:29 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's the issue. They're there to meet women, not to learn to dance. Luckily men think dancing is "gay". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 07:42 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'd say that's more naivete than autism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 07:30 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI take contemporary dance classes and it's often me and two other guys with 15+ women. Try to find something you enjoy that have more even gender ratios. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Self Improvement Thread Discussion Thread80s music is terrible. I wish my job would stop playing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 06:48 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCasual reminder you can change your interface language on reddit to pirate english. Preferences > interface language > Arrrrrr! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | How much of a deal breaker is a small dick?If your penis is longer and thicker than her middle and index finger, you're fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 04:34 PM |
| 9 | What is red pill, actually?What is red pill, actually? Resentment flavored Copa Cola for young men sweetened by studies and statistics that have little relevancy in the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 06:40 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is falling into the common trap of "well since your argument doesn't account for 100% of cases, you're wrong." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 03:22 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA man literally came up to me today and said never get married. Thanks...? I think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 09:58 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo one is forcing men to date fatties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 10:04 PM |
| 0 | The Biggest Mistake When Looking At Sexual Marketplace Data On Men Is Looking At The Average/MedianSo let’s not look at the average person when taking about a marketplace but instead only the winners! It's the red pill way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 08:01 PM |
| 10 | TRP is not based on science, it's based on what intuitively sounds trueRed Pillers say that women are solipsistic and men are empathetic. Yet many studies show that women are more empathetic than men. Yeah, but are women solipsistic ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 06:21 PM |
| – | Passport bro movement isn't a viable solution at all for guys my age so what is the solution?You think your solution is to take advantage of the lower economic status of women internationally because you otherwise lack the affability to get women at home? C'mon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 05:09 PM |
| 6 | Are Woman in America are different?Women are different wherever you go. Women are the same wherever you go. Corollary: Men too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 07:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: 63% of men aged 18-29 being single is not a problem if half that percentage is so by choice, and every data point on average nr. of sexual partners shows men have more sexual partners on average than women.Do you understand how averages work, or are you being dense on purpose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 09:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: 63% of men aged 18-29 being single is not a problem if half that percentage is so by choice, and every data point on average nr. of sexual partners shows men have more sexual partners on average than women.in all of these scenarios of 5 and 5 you guys think that of the 5 women all are willing to have sex, that's the problem Let's say 4 of the women in my example are unwilling to have sex, but the last woman has sex with each of the 5 men. The average sexual partners the men will have is 1. ((1+1+1+1+1)/5) The average sexual partners the women will have, is still 1. ((5+0+0+0+0)/5) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 07:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: 63% of men aged 18-29 being single is not a problem if half that percentage is so by choice, and every data point on average nr. of sexual partners shows men have more sexual partners on average than women.Show me, in my example of 5 men and women, the combination where men will have more average sexual partners than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 07:06 PM |
| 2 | CMV: 63% of men aged 18-29 being single is not a problem if half that percentage is so by choice, and every data point on average nr. of sexual partners shows men have more sexual partners on average than women.Well it depends on the sample There's a reason I avoided the term 'sample', so my point stands. In that group of 10, there isn't a combination you can make where the men will end up with a higher average amount of sexual partners than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 07:06 PM |
| 5 | CMV: 63% of men aged 18-29 being single is not a problem if half that percentage is so by choice, and every data point on average nr. of sexual partners shows men have more sexual partners on average than women.It's statistically impossible for men to have more sexual partners on average than women. Take a group of 5 women and 5 men, and exclude gay/lesbian/bi relationships. There isn't a combination where the men will have more sexual partners on average than the women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 06:39 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCoworkers are weirded out I eat wild rice, meanwhile they eat chicken feet 🤮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Why do woman not admit things?Why do woman not admit things? Because women are raised to be more docile, agreeable, and non-confrontational. Reasoning is a combination of biological and sociological. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | What is more important to some ones happiness- their partner or their job?Most succinct and accurate answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 11:39 PM |
| 12 | Q4W: Do you actually like a confident guy if he is physically unattractive to you?Online response: Yes Offline response: No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 06:56 PM |
| 7 | What are your thoughts on dating work-in-progress insecure guys?I've always believed the whole "you can't love someone else until you love yourself" to be armchair psychology. Same. You'd think people's real life experience would tell them that plenty of people don't love themselves, and yet find love regardless. It does help to love yourself, but it isn't a necessary condition towards finding love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 06:52 PM |
| 3 | current trends in Purple pill subredditThe internet in general becomes more extreme and polarizing over time. This sub is no different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 06:51 PM |
| 21 | Here are my dating hot takes. What are yours?If the men on this sub spent even half their time improving themselves instead of constantly doomscrolling online dating facts, they'd be getting the results they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 03:48 PM |
| 16 | For men dating is basically a series of job interviews.This is exactly why women don’t do the approaching and let men do it. They understand by approaching they’re giving men the power. lol Women are scared deathly of rejection and know it's the guy's "job" to do it. The person with the power is the one who is rejecting. Similarly, a salesman doesn't have the power when they're trying to sell you something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 07:46 PM |
| 96 | Where is all this "men are lazy, useless, losers" rhetoric coming from?Frustrated women who only seem to attract those kind of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Are high value men responsible for lonely young men by the recent study showing over 60 percent of young men are single ?I think it's mostly the fact men and women have differing definitions on what single means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 08:21 PM |
| – | Is it better for men to GTOW or to become a passport bro to deal with the modern dating situation?Going your own way doesnt make you crave women more. You're not paying attention to the community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 05:09 PM |
| – | Is it better for men to GTOW or to become a passport bro to deal with the modern dating situation?Why is this so hard for men to understand? Get in some shape, find clothes that fit, exfoliate, and have a hobby/passion that is more than anime/gaming/weed. Trying to find a woman overseas won't work when the novelty of you being "foreign" wears off. Consciously going your own way just makes you crave women more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a man who is deformed *if* he had the most amazing personality on earth?It did. /u/AnyIntroduction3288 is basically confirming their answer is no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 08:41 PM |
| 74 | Actual evidence that women are treated better than men overall ?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 08:39 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUnless you're harassing them, that means you "won" the debate. They're just trying to get the last word so it seems like you didn't have a response to what they said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 10:09 PM |
| 4 | How to tell if my girl had a hoe phase in college but cleaned up afterwards?Who cares? Get over your insecurities about her past and focus on who she is now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 08:37 PM |
| 5 | "Be her friend first" or "Make your intentions known" - Which is it?It depends on the job. And now you're going in a circle. Good luck out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 07:41 PM |
| 7 | "Be her friend first" or "Make your intentions known" - Which is it?Because you're not wasting time with a capricious man or woman. Just like with jobs, do you spend time with employers who need "a bit" of time to make decisions or to get back with you, or do you focus on the employers who actually respond in a timely and confident manner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 07:32 PM |
| 4 | "Be her friend first" or "Make your intentions known" - Which is it?Or relationships. Works best in both circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 07:25 PM |
| 5 | "Be her friend first" or "Make your intentions known" - Which is it?But who cares? Move on to the next person. It's a numbers game, as I pointed out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 07:15 PM |
| 8 | "Be her friend first" or "Make your intentions known" - Which is it?It's always to make your intentions known. It's a numbers game and getting through the numbers as quickly as possible is best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/23 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Couples with a feminine man and masculine woman. Your thoughts?a feminine straight guy named James (who's ironically a black man) What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn the contradictions of men topic, I wonder if the top commenter knows it's entirely possible for men to be the "more logical" sex while still exhibiting irrational behaviors that are "wired" into their DNA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 09:33 PM |
| 16 | q4men: what contradictions do you see in women?In my experience, women seem to handle rejection worse than men, but the stigma is still attached to men because they have to experience it so much more. Besides your example, I distinctly remember a scene from Degrassi (I know) where one of the characters rejects a woman and she walks away upset saying "You don't say no when a woman is throwing herself at you". Imagine switching the genders on that one. But when consulting others with job seeking, it's consistently women who give up the job sea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 08:43 PM |
| 5 | q4men: what contradictions do you see in women?Women discussing how dangerous it is for them to hook up, usually referencing risk of pregnancy, while at the same time having plenty of one night stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/23 08:32 PM |
| 6 | Are women harsher than men when it comes to women's appearance?Yes. /thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/23 07:00 PM |
| 7 | As long as everything is consensual, people cannot be objectified.Isn't objectification presumed to be non-consenting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Join r/AndrewTateDebunkedOr you can be a grown up and ignore him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 08:30 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOr a hand warmer. I did for a female coworker last year and now all the other women fight over who's "turn" it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/22 11:59 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDelete this nephew | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey're the same. Liberals online make the distinction due to identity politics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are bad at detecting fake confidence, contrary to popular thoughtI thought this was common sense, especially if the guy is reasonably attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | 30 Years is not old at all and stop listening to so much bad adviceWell said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's true though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 04:34 PM |
| 8 | Women often complain about lack of male friendships and getting "fuckzoned". But the truth is, women generally just aren't as good of friends as men.Men generally share my hobbies. Find women that share your hobbies as well? I have 4 female friends who play From Software games with me, and 2 of them join me for Muay Thai classes each week. 1 of them is really into finance and wsb-memes and another likes to build gaming pcs in her free time. It's not hard, but you need to get out of your really toxic mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege.Google "male privilege examples" for a list. I know from experience how these questions work. You ask for examples, I provide like three. To make it easier to counter, you assume those three are the only examples you need to reject by any means necessary before you feel I am wrong in my statements. So I await your dismissal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBig if true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 06:34 PM |
| 27 | By being a woman, you automatically possess a significant amount of social privilege.And by being a man, you automatically possess significantly more social privilege. RedPillers don't like to hear that, but it's the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOne thing I've realized is that there is no nuance in the manosphere. Please read this link. I think you'll find it incredibly informative: https://www.reddit.com/r/changemyview/comments/rhj35f/cmv_female_dating_strategy_is_little_more_than_a/hos8jy0/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 11:46 PM |
| 8 | including all the benefits and disadvantages,if you could choose what sex to be at birth which one would you choose?Male privilege makes being male the better choice overall. Whatever problems men have towards women here can be fixed and they have a much longer time period to get it together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/22 11:44 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI road tripped throughout Italy, from Turin to Nola and ate at everything from holes in the wall in small villages like Bettona to major restaurants in Rome and Milan. The food wasn't bad at all, but I can get equal or better quality/tasting pasta and pizza in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 07:53 PM |
| 8 | The actual consequences of a woman's high N count.You'll find the people who get upset at these stories don't have an active sex life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 07:48 PM |
| – | No men prefer a completely flat butt on a womanThey also have tits larger than the Hindenburg. Probably shouldn't use anime/hentai as your example of beauty standards when that's a niche hobby even in Japan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 05:48 PM |
| – | No men prefer a completely flat butt on a womanThen why aren't large bottoms trendy in East Asia now? They're still flat even on models and we have the technology and science to fix that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 05:33 PM |
| – | No men prefer a completely flat butt on a womanDon't East Asian societies value a flatter butt? Butt fetishism is mostly a North American/West African beauty trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 05:25 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI can't find the link, but that's been confirmed through studies. "Normal" looking people are often the most attractive overall to people. "Hot" people are more of a novelty to look at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/22 04:20 PM |
| 10 | Can you tell when you've encountered a "post-wall woman?" What are they like?Women don't magically start becoming less attractive to 30 except to insecure men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 10:41 PM |
| 5 | Can you tell when you've encountered a "post-wall woman?" What are they like?Idk since turning 30 it's been much easier to converse with women. I don't even have to try and I know many women in this age group who are considering marriage even after a few months a dating. It's exaggerated online to the point of caricature, but I definitely noticed a change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEverything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShort works better for starting conversations, then longer sentence the more in-depth the conversation goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 05:00 PM |
| 5 | Dominance/Intimidation/Power not "attractiveness" predicts male sexual successThis isn't about you in particular though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 04:53 PM |
| 9 | What advice would you give to the following: A man over the age of 30, virgin, never had a job (NEET), lives with his parents, has no friends, cannot drive a car, sleeps on the floor (has no bed) and spends most of his time watching anime, playing video games, and browsing the internet.Instead of asking the same question over and over again, get a damn job. It doesn't matter what job, just one that will provide some kind of income. And find a hobby that's more than anime, video games, and browsing memes. The rest should follow if you're not a complete troglodyte. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | What specifically is regularly seen in porn that women can't do/is broadly unpleasant?My dream woman lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:49 PM |
| 28 | What specifically is regularly seen in porn that women can't do/is broadly unpleasant?Anal :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:14 PM |
| 8 | Even women well into their 30s and 40s think they can afford to be insanely selective, often even more so than younger far more attractive girlsYup, at this point a woman in my life mostly means more consistent sex and paying 50% rent at the expense of my long term goals and hobbies. Everything else I've been forced to find on my own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 06:02 PM |
| 17 | What do same-sex relationships tell us about genders?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/U-Haul_lesbian | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??It's not about being sex crazed, it's about peace of mind knowing that you have access to something whenever you feel like it. Similarly, I'm willing to bet you don't worry about eating because food is relatively abundant where you live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 03:18 PM |
| 37 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??Because single women can get a guy whenever they feel the itch, and still have some emotional support from their social circle. Men often lack both of those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/22 07:36 PM |
| 6 | Relationship expert says alpha males make up only 25-30% max of the male population, perhaps helps explain the 80/20 ruleThey identify as one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/22 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Men who have slept with a surprisingly high amount of women?(100+) What's your secret?They're a whale hunter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/22 08:12 PM |
| 6 | Woman charging 3k for bad dates.thoughts? I wish her the best of luck getting a single dime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCommitment issues are more prevalent in a world of social media-enforced FOMO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYour problem is judging someone by their words, not their actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/22 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Single father households are increasing at a much faster rate than other types of households in the USSingle dads have a much easier time dating than single moms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 03:45 PM |
| -1 | Single father households are increasing at a much faster rate than other types of households in the USThe graph shows single mother households are still increasing faster than single father. Also, being a single father isn't as big a deal as being a single mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/22 03:02 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhich scenario puts you in the best light ? Who fucking cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've met Indonesian women who love wearing their hijab. To them, it is a symbol of muslim culture and identity. It's really only oppressive if it's mandatory imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 08:45 PM |
| 31 | Good looking men are more confident than their counterparts as a result of positive re-enforcementI can't find it right now, but didn't OKCupid show that people automatically associated confidence with physical attractiveness? There was a near 1:1 correlation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/22 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe women move on and are replaced faster than the men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRibbit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 10:05 PM |
| 13 | Why shouldn’t women give up on dating if you guys act like a 25 year old is elderly?I wouldn't take this sub too seriously. It's full of bitter men who, instead of improving themselves, spend their time trying to mathematically and logically model a process that is fundamentally subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 10:04 PM |
| 7 | Do you all think when it comes to dating, women are way pickier online than they are in person?What fucking high school do you work at that has 19 year olds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 06:55 PM |
| 17 | ONLINE DATING TRENDS: Men outnumber women on Tinder by 9-to-1 in Europe and more than 7-to-3 in the US, with Grindr (primarily for gay and LGBT men) now having one of the highest rates of active user engagementlol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 05:42 PM |
| -2 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Yup | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 11:09 PM |
| -11 | What is the worst thing about being a man?Men are privileged though. Bringing up the ways they aren't doesn't change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 10:02 PM |
| 1 | What is a "high value" male?A man that other women want to date. How that is determined depends on context and environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 06:38 PM |
| 2 | If you think people cannot distinguish high/low n-count people apart. There is a good chance you may be on the autism spectrum.Doubling down on the toupe fallacy and anecdotes isn't helping your social hopelessness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 06:36 PM |
| 2 | If you think people cannot distinguish high/low n-count people apart. There is a good chance you may be on the autism spectrum.I live in SF and there are plenty of homeless people who do not meet those criteria. Maybe you're the socially hopeless one here since you have to depend on caricatures lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/22 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's a top comment for a reason. Reddit loves running jokes to the ground. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 04:43 PM |
| 17 | Would 80/20 rules still exist in OLD if the gender ratios were balanced?No, you can see this in real life where the gender ratios are effectively balanced | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/22 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's reality, Mr. Minute Man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut men can't ask how flappy those lips are. Men cum in 2 minutes max regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:45 PM |
| 3 | How can I stop feeling like women are my enemies when it comes to physical/sexual interactions?Just show interest and stop thinking about it. If she's not interested, back down. Not that hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 07:43 PM |
| 19 | Why do women participate in the hook-up culture if they aren't getting the outcomes they want?It creates a false idea that they're valued. Women are often raised and believe their only worth comes from their body, and as long as it's wanted by men, they'll feel some sense of value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 05:31 PM |
| 10 | What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hellThe problem is their source for love and affection, not the wanting in itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFalse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 05:04 PM |
| 8 | The shameful Natasha Aponte experiment, "The Tinder Trap", shows just how desperate men are and how much choice women have.They're talking about this in the context of technology, not in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe best part of their complaint is that that chord progression isn't the most common in popular music lol, I-V-vi-IV is. Music theory hasn't hurt my appreciation of music, including Top40. If anything, I more appreciate what I'm listening to and can hear the moments where they "break" the rules in a novel way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | How strong is the intersection between the Red Pill and the Alt-Right?Maybe alt-lite more than alt-right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 11:03 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow often do you see a POC on /r/ladyboners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe best part about that post is he doesn't want to break up. LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 07:35 PM |
| 8 | q4a does your perception/definition of love changed with age and experience?If it doesn't, you're not growing as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey're a 10/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathread7 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/22 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, I don't mean for it to be racist or bitter sounding or anything like that, it's from observations I've seen for a while now. Would you say that asian girls going for white guys is an extension of this rebellion? Yes, and you can kind of see this in movies aimed at Asian Americans. They're often portrayed as being too American for <parent's country> and too <parent's country> to be American. For women at least, dating a White Guy kind of solves this issue. This can also be done with black o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 04:47 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou'll notice these pairings often involve the lightest skinned Asian women. White guys like it because they're "basically" white, but "exotic". The Asian women are often first or second generation from culturally conservative households, and they're "rebelling" against their heritage to some extent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Mandatory army service for a few years would fix a lot of men's introversion problemsIt kind of reminds me how most women in Switzerland voted to continue the only male conscription. A quick search online shows 73% of Switzerland voted in favor of this. Don't know why you're blaming only women for this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 07:48 PM |
| 3 | A woman won't respect you if you don't have a big dick.Ask anyone who's worked in a sex shop: women greatly prefer average sized dildos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 04:42 PM |
| 8 | Men, what do you think of women who love to travel?My god, men here are so judgemental towards women who like traveling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 03:06 PM |
| 0 | How to become the "bad boy"If you have a ton of money and you're average weight: wear clothes that fit and have a good haircut, then post on dating apps in front of various expensive things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 11:50 PM |
| 0 | Are your answers to "Where can I meet guys" and "where can I meet women" the same? How would your advice differ between the two?This is only a concern if fishing is their only hobby and pastime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 09:31 PM |
| 35 | Straight men, when is it OK for gay men to cold approach you?Anytime is fine. I'm going to decline your advances though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 08:34 PM |
| 2 | men who went from scarcity to abundance. What did it cost you.I mostly started following a skin care routine, took online advice to wear better fitting clothes, and stuck to my hobbies so I would have some ability to talk about something I'm passionate about. I'm still about 10 lbs overweight, but that doesn't really matter much to women IME. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 07:55 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI hate it when one person comments multiple times to one of your comments with different things to say. I basically stop talking to them at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 07:58 PM |
| 5 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsSo isn't it flawed to use tinder data pool as what women desire? Most women aren't on tinder to begin with Yes, but it affirms the red pill worldview, so it's taken as the gospel here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USNever called you a Republican, so I'll assume you understand my point, but don't want to acknowledge it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USIt's the kind of response Republicans give when studies do not conform to their worldview. In the case of immigration, a Republican would say in response to studies showing illegal immigrants commit crimes with: "I know illegals that commit crime. You just don't ever hear about it." Similarly, you're using a vague anecdote as more authoritative than more qualified, controlled, studies to affirm your own worldview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Men have more sexual partners than women on average in the USI know three guys from highschool who have yet to go on an actual date. You just don't ever hear about it because these men don't exist to you. You sound like a Republican. 95% of men and women have had sex by 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundIt's not always about getting attention from men. Sometimes it's about showing off to other women that you're prettier and more valued than them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Women change more often for men than the other way aroundWomen don't really care how other women look. What? It's women who generally notice in the first place! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:36 PM |
| 6 | The benefits packageI'm sorry, but this is laughably stupid lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 07:44 PM |
| 7 | Is "6 feet" really enough in this day and age?Women primarily only care if you're the same height or taller than them on average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 03:42 PM |
| 9 | Worried about foodie calls and pump-and-dumps are overblownI kind of agree, though being pumped and dumped is considerably more risky If it's so risky, why are women okay with sleeping with a guy they barely know on the first date while making a guy she likes wait several dates? Surely a "considerably more risky" activity would warrant waiting in both cases? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 07:46 PM |
| 25 | What are common ways men and women shoot themselves in the foot?Women regularly state sex carries risk because of pregnancy, violence, etc, but will sleep with a guy within one hour of meeting him while making a guy she likes wait. Men constantly strive to do the minimum and then complain that isn't good enough for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 06:36 PM |
| 3 | How many men do you know who seem to have "potential", but just never make an effort?I'm not disagreeing with you, but it's a bad example when the demographic criticizing it does it at a much higher rate. It's a bit more than "women do that too". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 07:35 PM |
| 7 | How many men do you know who seem to have "potential", but just never make an effort?Sorry, it's difficult to understand meaningless statements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 07:13 PM |
| 6 | How many men do you know who seem to have "potential", but just never make an effort?Right, tautologies aren't meaningful statements | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 07:07 PM |
| 12 | How many men do you know who seem to have "potential", but just never make an effort?An example of this would be a man putting under his about me section all the qualities he doesn’t want in a woman rather than what is interesting about him that makes him dateable. Hate is not a good way of attracting anyone yet it seems very common to come across profiles like this. ...This is what women do at a much greater rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 07:05 PM |
| 12 | How many men do you know who seem to have "potential", but just never make an effort?I rarely see women with extremely attractive partners, anyway. I would argue it's because "extremely" attractive people would be "extremely" rare to come by. Edit: They blocked me to get the final word below. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/22 07:04 PM |
| 82 | Do you think women place the same rules on ugly guys and attractive guys?Do you think women place the same rules on ugly guys and attractive guys? No, and men also have different rules for ugly women and attractive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:36 PM |
| 143 | Do you think women place the same rules on ugly guys and attractive guys?No, and the reverse is true as well. /thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Are there any telltale signs a guy/girl gives if they're only interested in sex vs. in an actual long-term relationship?No signs needed. Just ask them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 06:00 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah, that's how statistics works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 09:25 PM |
| 9 | Men are only forgiving of a woman's past if she's hot (or hotter than him)I don't see a correlation, but you're welcome to believe that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 09:20 PM |
| 8 | Men are only forgiving of a woman's past if she's hot (or hotter than him)...How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 09:13 PM |
| 5 | In your experience, what are the signs that someone is unhappy in their relatioship?They talk about it often in social media | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:05 PM |
| 10 | Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date?Stop asking for a guide. Go up and ask her out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 09:14 PM |
| 8 | What would your advice be for undesirable women?The only reasons I imagine a woman being undesirable is if she's physically deformed in some way or she's obese. Both of these reasons can be alleviated or fixed through physical fitness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 09:27 PM |
| 2 | What's the point of hook-up sex for women if it's mostly bad anyway?The same reason one eats garbage knowing they'll regret the decision afterward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 04:58 PM |
| 9 | is the best sex being had by the hottest people??No, I've had a very attractive woman give me a toothy blowjob and I've had a slightly overweight middle aged woman fuck me in half. It varies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 11:25 PM |
| 7 | The Red Pill is not about women, it never was. Treating it as such is the Blue Pill thing to do.MGTOW can't go one hour without talking about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 09:53 PM |
| 6 | how is this fair ?im 5'8 83 kg Bro, you're overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 09:08 PM |
| 10 | The Red Pill is not about women, it never was. Treating it as such is the Blue Pill thing to do.There is no red pill without women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 04:59 PM |
| 9 | What’s it like being invisible as a man?Men who complain about being invisible are idiots. I regularly approach girls who seemed to be oblivious to my presence until [...] They'll just stand near you and act like you don't exist. 🤔 Not much difference between being aware of one's presence and ignored versus invisible in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Financially investing in women early on to show that you're not just after sex seems logical. But when women take advantage of this by using men as free meal tickets or giving free sex very quickly to attractive men, men rightfully stop investing in women.Then why pursue women at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 08:07 PM |
| 20 | It is unwise for men to be emotionally invested in a woman for the first few months to a year of datingPlay shitty games, win shitty prizes friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 07:03 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men?You, when you said: Because if you didn't like them and they used you for sex, it's "that fucking asshole, [...] | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 06:37 PM |
| 8 | Q4W: Why some of you withhold sex when dating ltr worthy men?Plus she didn't even like him and slept with him anyway. He's not the only villain here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 06:35 PM |
| 2 | What do y'all think about this list of red flags?I don't think items 1 - 9 are particularly bad and will depend on the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 08:44 PM |
| 49 | Why don't single men go to church to find a wife if the sex ratios in church are usually 60-40, female-male?You'll have your answer once you google the average churchgoer age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do women push back so hard on the notion that dating may be easier for them?Similar reason men get mad when you bring up male privilege. No one likes admitting they have an inherent advantage in something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 08:35 PM |
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