AnaAnonsDiary Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you? I’d probably pass him up unless he was perfect otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/22 02:40 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean, if you have more questions, feel free to ask. Just know that all the stuff they tell you about how a high n count prevents people from finding lasting love and happiness is all BS.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/22 11:17 AM
1	Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you? What can I say	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/22 11:10 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Did you lie to your husband about your n-count? Nope. A lot of men don’t believe me when I say this, but like half of the men I’ve met are genuinely apathetic about n count. I lied about it a few times to others early on in my hoe phase, before I knew that there are plenty of people who don’t care, and that I needn’t concern myself with those who do. It became important to me that whoever I ended up with could accept that about me. And here we are, over 6 years later, happily married. I do the h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/22 01:19 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread I am 25. Married with a 1 yo now, trying to do the tradwife thing lol. Yeah, I don’t recall lying about my age but I must have, considering the timeline.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/22 01:09 AM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Let’s see, it was winter and I was 17 when I lost my virginity, so… 8 months or so? A couple classmates and a handful of tinder dates. Oh, and one guy I met on vacation	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 11:43 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread No, I stopped caring about my n after I hit 10. I was open to relationships and they either happened or they didn’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 11:00 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread It was never a problem for me. I was just horny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 10:33 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread I think more promiscuous people tend to have casual sex early on and if they come to like the person’s personality, they escalate the relationship	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 10:03 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Thank you for thinking of us as beings with libido and agency	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 10:00 PM
3	What do you consider a high N-count? I’m 25 and I think 25 is a high n count for a man. 35 is probably the cutoff at which point I would no longer sleep with someone. Probably lower for women. I used to not care when I was younger, but now I worry a lot about STDs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 09:54 PM
0	Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you? Yes please	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 09:49 PM
0	Q4W Can you describe/show what “attractive men” look like to you? Big and muscular, but not Dorito shaped (a little thicker in the middled.) Like 10-14% body fat is ideal. No skipping leg day, of course. I like stubble and short beards. I’m a little weird in that I like older guys, so a little bit of grey in the hair is chef’s kiss. Height-wise, 5’9-6’2, with 5’11 being perfect for me. (I’m just under 5’5.) I prefer dark hair and eyes, and skin tones olive and darker. ETA: Body hair on the limbs but not on the chest, back, or belly. Also, I think I might have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/22 09:34 PM
2	Daily Community Chat Megathread Whatever you say, bussy_decimator	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/22 11:16 PM
2	Women Are Not Settling Unless The Man Is Older Naw. I’m married to a man who is twice my age because I’m genuinely attracted to older men, he’s wealthy enough to support our family and give me the lifestyle I want, and his maturity is amazing. Men my age (20s) don’t have their shit together, emotionally or financially, even if I can feel sexual attraction for them. We have been together for over 6 years and married for 1 now. I haven’t “settled.” I got everything I ever wanted.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/22 03:06 PM
1	Explain to monke Because if you make a child, they are an entirely dependent person with needs. Literally all a man has to do to avoid paying child support is NOT jizz inside a woman. It’s that simple. She has one more chance to decide whether that child comes into existence than he does ONLY because of bodily autonomy. Sorry that biology isn’t fair, fellas.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/21 05:50 PM
1	womp womp: Boyfriend of 34F former drug addict found out that she was also a prostitute. Bonus comments from some tramps Definitely still a regrettable number. Especially in 2 years of being sexually active	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	22/10/21 10:36 PM
-1	womp womp: Boyfriend of 34F former drug addict found out that she was also a prostitute. Bonus comments from some tramps If you said to a teenage boy, “Someday you’ll grow up and marry a former prostitute,” he’d pull a face, be disgusted, and tell you you’re crazy. Nobody likes the idea of marrying a prostitute, because in our heads, prostitution = bad, and prostitutes = dirty, immoral, desperate women. But in reality, men will fall in love with women, and are willing to give them the world, as long as they’re pretty, nice to them, and willing to have sex, because the world sure isn’t pretty or nice to men. This i…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	21/10/21 05:28 PM
3	womp womp: Boyfriend of 34F former drug addict found out that she was also a prostitute. Bonus comments from some tramps That was in response to “Men don’t want to marry prostitutes, whores…men may want to have sex with them, but men do not want to marry them.” That has not been my experience. Few men that I’ve ever dated dated even asked how many people I’d slept with. All I’m saying is that the current first world is set up to cater to women, and men are beat down and conditioned to accept them however they are, and that’s why there’s this plague of women expecting to date way, way up. Chastity is neither a comm…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	21/10/21 04:41 PM
-2	womp womp: Boyfriend of 34F former drug addict found out that she was also a prostitute. Bonus comments from some tramps I was an escort with an n count somewhere in the 40s, and my husband knew and still married me. Most people in this community forget that the majority of men are blue pilled and simply do not care about sexual history. And if they do care, you’ve got people like those in the comment section in their ears shaming them for caring. That’s why women can get away with sleeping with whoever they want for however long and still get picked. Captain Save-A-Ho’s everywhere, creating literal breeding groun…	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	21/10/21 03:39 PM
1	Advise for a man about to be married As long as whatever your asking is asked confidently and not in an “I need constant reassurance” kind of way, you should be fine. Sometimes certain things can be phrased differently, like if you’re asking your fiancée about how she’s feeling before the wedding, you could try jokingly, “Do you have cold feet yet?” Or stating “I’m excited for the wedding,” and seeing if she says “Me too,” and/or supplying her feelings conversationally. Or if your asking about scheduling because you want to do some…	/r/RedPillWives	08/06/21 12:02 PM
1	Advise for a man about to be married 1.) When you say you over-communicate, what do you mean? Do you have anxiety, by chance, and express those anxious thoughts/feelings often enough to feel like it’s a burden? Or is it something else? It’s important to find a balance between being able to express yourself freely to your partner while also being mindful of their emotional tolerance. For example, often times my husband will tell me about his schedule without prompting or me feeling like I needed to know. I just say “ok; thanks for t…	/r/RedPillWives	08/06/21 10:36 AM
3	Advise for a man about to be married 1.) two-way communication. Talk to one another about your feelings, your plans, your needs, your desires, your passions, your schedule, etc. Whether it’s “I think we should start saving for x,” “I need more attention/physical affection,” “I feel this way when you do/say this,” or “Hey, I’m going to be late coming home from work tonight,” always, always express it explicitly to your partner, and encourage her to do the same. And LISTEN in return. Try to avoid responding defensively or always thin…	/r/RedPillWives	08/06/21 08:26 AM