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ADVICEAna_Compudah/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 05:04 AM
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Ana_Compudah/r/RedPillWives16/04/20 09:14 PM
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Yea I fucked up - I thought I was on redpillwomen LOL
/r/RedPillWives24/04/20 03:23 AM
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Hey guys I edited the post and I’m gonna head out. Thanks so much for the responses!
/r/RedPillWives18/04/20 06:58 PM
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No but when he’s out of state I get to partake as well. I was the one who brought up the subject, and I asked him to tell me about it when he’s done. I do relate with your suggestion that I am subconsciously being submissive in this by not having more stringent bottom lines/boundaries. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives18/04/20 06:53 PM
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Ohhh that’s a great idea, thank you!
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 05:30 PM
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Started dating 4 years ago exclusively as a long distance relationship with him flying in every couple months. Lots of texts, letters, phone calls and video chats. Opened the relationship 6 months in because it was stressful on our relationship. I’m bi so he said I could be sexual or cuddle with other women if I want, but if I do, he should be allowed to do the same. I didn’t agree with the logic since a woman provides something much different than a man, but I let that go because I was needing …
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 05:26 PM
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Well he says he’s okay with me sleeping with others if I want to but I’ve never wanted to. So fair or not fair, it was our agreement, with the same freedoms both ways. I don’t know if it should continue to be our agreement. The boundaries were unclear and should be changed regardless!
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 05:14 PM
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He and I have talked about this before - I think he subscribes to the "plate" theory. He hasn't openly discussed that term but specifically thinks that it can make him more attractive the more confidence he gets from the texts. (He is an alpha type, killer bod, great career, great sense of humor... normally.) I don't think he's receptive to dropping the contact. But yea I want stability and I think you're onto something. This is right - this isn't stable. So maybe without that it's a deal killer…
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 09:18 AM
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Well, earlier on he wasn't about letting me see other men we opened that up on my side (he realized that wasn't fair) after we made this change and now I do have the option. When he's gone, I really like to focus on my projects (they're my other bf lol) and get nicely introverted and I really enjoy that. But I'm finding that means I'm hungrier than he is when he gets back and that's a problem. So maybe I take him up on it. Now it's lockdown though, so I can't exactly call that card rn, that ship…
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 09:12 AM
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We're not - he doesn't want marriage. I am indifferent... If someone wants to be with me then they show up everyday and be with be when they're physically here. (That used to happen and suddenly stopped). However, this is my first time on this sub and I am learning that this contract is a very important tenant for the women here. I respect that. I may adopt this viewpoint soon (I'm learning about it). I agree it is a huge red flag.
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 08:53 AM
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The boundaries were: When either of us are in a different state (or country), we are allowed to play with others. And, you need to tell me about your trip in its entirety for at least an hour (no nasty details of your encounter but at least a high level and let me know that safe-sex protocols were used). I was also really clear that the condom needs to be on at all times, even with oral (my parents got genital herpes from cheating with oral). I never thought I had to say, "And you fuck me silly …
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 08:49 AM
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Monogamish Not a real thing by any sense but he travels so frequently for work I wanted him to have some fun. It was my idea. Maybe not a good one, I'm finding out.
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 08:42 AM
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This is a really good point, thank you! I should just hold him and be ready for him to open up, and show him my warmth. :)
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 08:41 AM
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No, he truly dislikes the feel of condoms but he said he would use them with a woman if the opportunity arose. Maybe? Idk, there was this one instance where we were trying that I posted in response to "thesillymachine" above that may indicate otherwise... or not. hmmmm. If it is the case I've gotta figure out how to talk to him about this.
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 08:40 AM
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Oh yea I forgot to give that context - the one time we were trying and I was jacking him off (which reeked of obligation from his side), he asked what if he rubbed his head on my clit? And I said, that is a way that STIs get transmitted, so let's not. And then he argued that it's highly unlikely. Coming from parents that got Herpes from oral this is something I know well to be untrue. I explained that we couldn't because it's trasmitted by fluids that and he said "only if there's an open sore." …
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 08:35 AM
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Oh good! Yea I've got to be careful with that, thanks. I am getting some good info out of it. I think for instance the "hamster" idea has given me pause and challenge to just stop it and relax a bit... and come back to my bf with a clearer mind and starting point. Obviously men have this hamster too. I think that is what is happening in my man's mind right now, he just hasn't verbalized it yet.
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 04:33 AM
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Ah yes good to know. Yes! I read that after I posted lol. I'll post again in that format soon. :)
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 04:30 AM
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Also I wanna say, really great self care! I am impressed.
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 01:53 AM
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Congratulations on your incoming child, and for knocking out that student loan! It feels soooooo good! Haha I like that, "Finished Head Strong." Yes for this challenging physical time being pregnant I get that as well as I can get it... watching my sis go through pregnancy and childbirth was eye opening!
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 01:51 AM
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Here it is: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/45yz3l/60_dod_week_4_style/?ref=search_posts It was a male perspective but it was eye opening on how drab I've been dressing during the lockdown. For me, I know my man knows how big/small my boobs are after the bra is off but I think of it as "presenting" them in a way and being my sexiest best self. That being said, that's my style approach - it may not be your approach. It's just got to be your approach and attitude and something you…
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 01:46 AM
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Thank you for the thoughtful reply! This is all new to me. So when you're saying "dread" your man - do you mean like fuss over him? or try to create fuss over me? I will check out the Surrendered Wife. Yes... the locker room talk is quite abrasive and tough to read! I'd like to know concrete steps I can take as a woman to stoke his desire. I appreciate this feedback so much!
/r/RedPillWives17/04/20 01:35 AM
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