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| 1 | What I learned from taking no action for 2 years after I found The Red Pill.Awesome post and true to life. I'm struggling with the goal idealization segment. Do you mean people tend to not take action when they're sure they will reach their goals or that they think it will be smooth sailing when they do? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/19 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Turning your life around at 25?Mind my asking what you did to turn it around? | /r/askTRP | 23/03/19 11:28 PM |
| 1 | My LTR has a fuckload of beta orbiters.This guy gets it right here. If you feel threatened by orbiters then you need to lower your ego. Might she fuck one of them, hey absolutely but 9/10 they are just beta providers and emotional tampons. If you really believed the premise of this forum then you wouldn't feel threatened by these guys in the first place. I have absolutely told FWB's to take full advantage of her orbiters and sometimes it benefits me as well as have my friends done in the past as well. You're looking at things all the… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/19 03:12 PM |
| 3 | All this shit just feels pointlessFor a long time I've blamed my strong religious background partially for my extreme blue pill raising and still do to an extent but seeing passages like this brings me comfort in knowing the truth was actually sitting there all along. Thank you for this. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/19 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Reason Vs Logic Vs RationalAnd it's fair to comprehend the alternative but does that make it a fact or something to go during critical thinking that simply might be different from the "norm" | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 12:24 PM |
| 1 | What did you personally do to move past your anger/depression phase and move towards acceptance?I don't think that's quite how it works lol you must have got lost on your way to the incel forum. Wrong place. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 09:47 AM |
| 1 | What did you personally do to move past your anger/depression phase and move towards acceptance?This is the most solid mindset I've read in a long time, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Any hope for a guy with no car who lives with his mom?It's not too uncommon surprisingly. When a women is attracted to you she very little cares about your provisioning. At that moment you're alpha fucks and not beta bucks. When I was running the club scene I was never more broke in my life but I knew how to attract. It's harder to keep plates in these circumstances but for a one or two night stand, long term logistics are basically a none factor. All that matters is if you can make it work in that exact moment. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Any hope for a guy with no car who lives with his mom?No need to feel discouraged. It sounds like you're taking steps in the right direction and that's awesome. You can do both at the same time, improve your life and still get laid. Funny enough improving your life past the bare basics rarely helps much with women, you do that for yourself. I banged some of the hottest women of my life when I was broke and living on my cousins couch. Do continue to work on your life for yourself but the getting laid part is possible any time as long as you can make… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 12:46 PM |
| 1 | What did you personally do to move past your anger/depression phase and move towards acceptance?I think time and stop obsessing are two of the main ones I personally need to apply. I just see all the flashbacks of all the times I was completely blue pill in my life and how I wish I could go back and fix them and it just drives me insane to think I was that delusional for that long. Spot on. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 12:39 PM |
| 10 | Any hope for a guy with no car who lives with his mom?At 30 to be completely honest with you I would prioritize moving out of your moms place and getting a car over getting laid. No offense at all because I don't know your circumstance or situation but that's a little too old for both of those. As far as getting laid though it is entirely possible. Uber and lyft and easily accessible in most places now if you don't have some form of other public transit and you can either bang them at their place, in public, get a hotel room, etc. It's very doable … | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 12:31 PM |
| 1 | On Hating Women, Especially For Guys in the “Anger” PhaseI got you, fair. Surprisingly I find women give less cares everyday about what they verbalize since they know white knights and other women will take their side regardless of how callous and savage they are and some even encourage it but I suppose a majority of the female population does at least still try and save face if for nothing else than social standing. They'll wait until they have that "ace in the hole," excuse. Wont be long until she's cheating on the new guy as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Any hope for a guy with no car who lives with his mom?How old are you currently? | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 12:23 PM |
| 1 | On Hating Women, Especially For Guys in the “Anger” PhaseAnd she gave that as the reason why??? | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 10:21 AM |
| 1 | On Hating Women, Especially For Guys in the “Anger” PhaseThis is brilliantly put, 10/10. Get out of anger and get into awesome. Amen brotha. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 10:04 AM |
| 1 | On Hating Women, Especially For Guys in the “Anger” PhaseFunny enough my anger phase didn't kick in until AFTER I started spinning plates. When I first started reading everything it was just possibility, just theory from some no names over the internet. It was until I applied it all and CONFIRMED all of it to be true for myself that I then entered an anger phase. I was already spinning 3 - 4 plates at this point and they all confirmed AWALT to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 09:58 AM |
| 2 | On Hating Women, Especially For Guys in the “Anger” PhaseYet the anger phase is a path to MGTOW for men who believe being red pill aware gives them any instant power. They are so stuck on comprehending their new reality that they never transfer into spinning plates. This gets them to foolishly buy into the MGTOW bullshit. Hypergamy only cares about what is tangible. Shit...this hit a little too close to home. You got me, | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 09:48 AM |
| 2 | On Hating Women, Especially For Guys in the “Anger” PhaseSociety tells men that anything less than supplication is misogyny. What people mean when they say we hate women is that we dont consider women above criticism and we prioritize ourselves over them and that's the crime But didn't you hear man? Believe women. Because women never lie...ever. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 09:46 AM |
| 1 | The Side Effects of the Red PillYou are dead on here. Nobody ask questions in AskTRP they don't already have the answer for or at least a hint at the answer (maybe rarely.) They ask it to vent and maybe have somebody else reaffirm what they already know. While there is nothing inherently wrong with this it can become a crutch which is dangerous. I've been they before and still am to extent so I feel where you're coming from completely but you pretty much hit the nail on the head here, | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/19 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Quitting my Obsessive Game AddictionI have had 94 (real actual number) jobs at the age of 25. I have tried around 8 times to stop the internet (i browse from waking point to sleeping point, 16 hours a day) cold turkey but i couldn't. My nervous system is so fucked from gaming that I am tweaking from times to times and have panic attacks. How did you manage to find 94 jobs, what have you been doing? And what do you do on the internet that last a whole day | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/19 09:10 PM |
| 2 | How to cure oneitis?No problem man, I'll be real the only time I've cried in the last 5 of so years was when my girl left me so I know that shit hurts. It's cliche as fuck but honestly the only thing that really helps is time but it's good you're still going out, meeting people and living your life. That will help the time go back much quicker for real. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 08:36 AM |
| 2 | How to cure oneitis?Honestly she probably did, she's still trying to save face by making it seem not as bad but either way it is irrelevant if she did or not. Glad to hear you're taking it as well as possible at least but sorry it went down like that. AWALT always and now you'll know for next time. Good luck dude. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/19 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Doing Red Pill as a Plow Horse, what is the right mentality?So you would say daily improvement is your end goal? | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Doing Red Pill as a Plow Horse, what is the right mentality?One of my main mantras when I got started was "You can't use red pill knowledge to attain blue pill goals," but I guess I forget it sometimes along the way. Thanks for the reminder, you're right. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Doing Red Pill as a Plow Horse, what is the right mentality?That really puts a lot of things into perspective, thank you | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 06:27 AM |
| 2 | The Burden of Performance: Women loving a man on his mission when that mission is not herSo does this bore them or they just like they idea of someone with more going on than just them? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 07:38 PM |
| 1 | The Burden of Performance: Women loving a man on his mission when that mission is not herI'm not saying they do, I'm saying when you prioritize your mission over giving them attention it changes how they act towards you, usually positively so far in my experience. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Monk Mode best usage of time and energyI've been looking at BJJ for a while, I'll look some gyms up | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Monk Mode best usage of time and energyThanks! | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Upgrading platonic friendship. Risk?I mean once you start talking about sex, making out, and damn near fucking each other several times then any chance of a platonic friendships are absolutely done. Either you fuck, things will be fine for a while until they get weird and you go your separate ways or two, you don't fuck her and she feels like you led her on and she grows to resent you for rejecting her in her mind. End result is the way either way but one is a better story. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Upgrading platonic friendship. Risk?Fucked a good friend a couple of weeks ago. Things were fine at first but then they got awkward and it's not a great situation right now however now that you two have already crossed the line there really is no going back. You might as well fuck her and get something out of it at this point but I assure you the point of no return has already well been reached. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Where do you go when you get everything you want and it turns out to be nothing you need ?That makes total sense and is an excellent model of life to try and adhere to. Thank you for your follow up. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Red Pilled and still trapped in "Pleasure Palace"Got you, I wasn't disagreeing with it at all but trying to grasp that concept of it. So you're saying that our free will is never truly free? What steps are there that a man can take to break this cycle once he is in it? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Escaping The Pleasure PalacePleasure palace is more tricky than one thinks though. You can be toxic bad boy and still be locked in there, living most of the TRP principles. This is a very curious thing you say and I'm really trying to connect with this, how exactly did you mean by this? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/19 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Asked a bunch of people snapchat streaks, some didn’t reply, do I just send them shit anyways?Except World of Warcraft. Ask anyone deep into the nerd community, you absolutely can get laid from world of warcraft lol don't let the media fool you with it's stereotypes. I know literal world class models that play the game and have met hookups through it. No bias here as I don't even play or like the game but I am setting the record straight on that one. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Should I next a questionable plate or is this worth spinning still?Out of hand as in is it worth me dealing with her nonsense and the competing with these other guys for her time | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 06:08 PM |
| 6 | Felt disrespected by her actions . Over exaggerating or not?Absolutely not, man or woman you don't just fucking bring someone to another's home without asking. This isn't even a red pill/blue pill thing, that is just commonsense. Completely absurd. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Building attraction over Snapchat/Text messages and are nudes always a good thing?So kind of acknowledge it and keep it moving? Sounds good because I feel like I over texted after some of them, not so much as a reaction to them but because I thought that was the reaction they wanted. Thanks. And yeah my goal with texting is usually just enough to stand out to get to logistics but not too much to the point I become an orbiter. It's that balance that I find hard at times. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Building attraction over Snapchat/Text messages and are nudes always a good thing?Fair. I don't agree that you absolutely can't build attraction over text but I suppose it's more of a last ditch option and not the general rule. I understand the important things such as kino, eye contact and tonality can't be done over a text which is why I try to steer away from it when I can. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 05:10 PM |
| 2 | How to tell when you’re being being led on/when a girl is using you to boost her ego?She's using you for validation IE look at me, I can still string along this chode. I haven't lost my touch yet. She has no intention on fucking you. Hard next. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Building attraction over Snapchat/Text messages and are nudes always a good thing?Around here it's not uncommon for your only free time to be the weekends so say you meet a girl on Monday and you have no chance to setup logistics with her but manage to get her contact, you would just out right shoot for a Friday or Saturday meetup with no prior gaming and then not talk to her until then? | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | How to cure oneitis?Did you ever find out? She probably did fuck some guy or was at least considering it. You got dread gamed lol | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Confusion with FWBThe fact that you would let some gay dude dictate your actions like that means you have a lot of inner work to do in general. You should have told him to fuck off and if she needed to say something that she could say it to your face and not walk off like a bitch with your tail between your legs. No good. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 10:07 AM |
| 1 | A story about the beta orbiter and the alpha widowWatch all 3 of the DC series videos. Literally all you ever need to know of pure "game" ever. You're right. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/19 10:37 AM |
| 3 | Plate Spinning Alpha Male's Worst Enemy isn't Another Alpha MaleHave had a few relatively young plates (23-25) which broke when they decided to LTR one of their orbiters. Most of them come back for more NSA sex after 1-2 years if you maintain frame (IDGAF). Just fucked a girl I was in a LTR with for several months, we broke it off and I went none contact. She got into another LTR that lasted several months. They broke up about a week ago and we were fucking again the next day. Maintain frame and they WILL be back. 8 times out of 10 I would wager. Real shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/19 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Where do you go when you get everything you want and it turns out to be nothing you need ?I've actually just recently took up power lifting and honestly that 1 - 2 hours a day is the only time I fully feel alive, so you're right. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Where do you go when you get everything you want and it turns out to be nothing you need ?That's exactly the spot I feel like I'm in right now, accurate to the nine. May I ask what you did after you reached that point to reach a happiness that wasn't predicated on being "fun?" Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Where do you go when you get everything you want and it turns out to be nothing you need ?That's great advice and appreciated, thank you. I think you're right. I thought that all this was my mission and goal but I guess not. Now is the time for me to find something more genuine and fulfilling. Good luck with your music. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Where do you go when you get everything you want and it turns out to be nothing you need ?This resonated with me a lot. Maybe I feel like I'm getting complacent with reaching these initial goals and deep down I feel like I know I want more from my life and I just need to figure out what. Beginning to solve my women problems has absolutely been a huge burden lifted as I used to be a typical nice guy doing all the wrong things before I found this place and now I feel like I've done a 360 so you hit the nail on the head there. I think I'm just going partially monk mode and figuring out … | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Where do you go when you get everything you want and it turns out to be nothing you need ?Genuinely appreciate everyone that took time to answer, thank you. These answers have been very insightful and I think I need to just go semi monk mode for a while and really focus on the things that I really want to do and accomplish with my life. Thanks a lot, I am still hopeful for the future. I just need to rebuild what I want that future to be but this place is always a great source of insight for me along the way. I hope to be able to help others along theirs as well. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Why "I am the prize" mentality is bullshit and what you need to do insteadhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VGnRhJaFSFg This one here. He discusses making a funnel - Lead Generation - Lead Conversion - Lead Retention He makes comparisons to game and business which resonate highly with me. Such as is a girl more likely to choose McDonald's or a healthy snack. Not even just girls but most people in general. McDonald's isn't popular because it's food is great because obviously it isn't but they have superior convenience and marketing. The same could be said of game. You … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/19 11:47 PM |
| 1 | You Are a Dick Salesman; Pussy is for ClosersFuck I wish I read this a week ago. Met a girl last week, fucked her well and sent her packing. Immediately went into Beta mode thinking I should play it safer after I had got the lay to keep her around and now I think I've fully alienated her. Just going to go no contact and call my loses here. If she returns whatever but most important, lesson learned. Any man on this forum right now learn from mine and others experience and read Warriors words 100 fucking times and then another 200 because th… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/19 03:54 PM |
| 4 | Being plated myself / Hot plate is killing me inside.You want her because you can't have her. You feel like she's both just inside your reach and yet far beyond your grasp all at the same time and you find that alluring. Knowing that she could be right next to you or even underneath you and you know that you'll never true have her. Once you're in that deep there is no going back and I hate handing out absolutes but the bottom line is you have 2 options here and I'm not going to tell you which to pick because it's your life 1) Continue seeing a… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 04:45 PM |
| 2 | How did I not close the deal last night?Happens to the best of us brotha, live and learn. Good luck on your next go. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Past experiences bringing me down.Stop trying to prove shit to "them" and start living for yourself. A life built on revenge is a life waste. Want more for yourself, let go of your hurt and anger and moves toward being who YOU want to be | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How did I not close the deal last night?Classic beta bait, she shit tested you and you failed. Literally Text Book ramport bombing. Look up "Beware of Beta Bait" in TRP but I'll quote the relevant section for you here: 8) 'Rapport Bombing' Women are selfish. Women will take a perfectly good conversation and intentionally sabotage it for feelz. If you follow her down this path, you'll get no lady-hole. Anticipate it so you're not caught off guard. Not "whoa, wtf", but "oh boy, here we go. How can I maneuver around this back to sexy-t… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to ltr a girl whos been having casual sex with someone elseQuestion, how old is she? I can tell you now her n-count is sure as fuck higher than 4 lol I would disqualify her based on that lie alone honestly | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Returning Plate likes to play games/tease, feel like I'm giving her too much power. Conflicted on NEXTing or keeping.Absolutely. I might give her that one last chance and just go no contact from there on if she doesn't take it. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Returning Plate likes to play games/tease, feel like I'm giving her too much power. Conflicted on NEXTing or keeping.Unfortunately I think this is the case, the best option is to just ignore her from now forward. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Returning Plate likes to play games/tease, feel like I'm giving her too much power. Conflicted on NEXTing or keeping.I tried something similar and she said she was "busy." I gave her a pass because I legitimately know we are both pretty busy in general, in school and working jobs so I might give her one more chance and then be done with it. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Returning Plate likes to play games/tease, feel like I'm giving her too much power. Conflicted on NEXTing or keeping.Even with plates, you still have priorities. People seem to think just because you have options, desires for certain ones go away and I honestly wish that were true...it might even be true for other people. Unfortunately that is not (as of yet anyway) the case for me but thank you | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 12:34 PM |
| 0 | On SlutsSluts are a tool, nothing more. You value them as you would a hammer or lawn mower | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/18 06:54 AM |
| 1 | On SlutsThey still are, do you know how common STD are or your chances of get herpes from some slut? Not much has changed.... | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/18 06:52 AM |
| 7 | [FR] She Belongs To The GameBeta and lesser men will always be the punching bags of society, no deep theory thought needed there but just a common fact of life. NOTHING in this world slays a women more than rejection, it's worse to them than death or illness. When a women is rejected it metaphorical kills them inside, even more so when it comes from someone they have established as an alpha. This means to her she is not good enough for a man of this status and she begins to question her everything, her looks, her life, her… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/18 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Live from Korea--Why You Can't Red Pill BroccoliPlausible deniability. Once you reveal the truth to someone there is no true going back. You can mask it, hide it, pretend it doesn't exist but you start to see it EVERYWHERE. The quote "Don't think about pink elephants," comes to mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/18 10:07 PM |
| 5 | Fwb clearly interested in fucking my best friend - How to proceed?You're about 2 or 3 post away from going full cuck. To an extent something like this could just be considered a shit test but when it gets to the point where she's literally telling you she's bring him home you shouldn't even want to continue things with this broad and should clearly and directly tell her to fuck off. Absolutely not. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 07:29 PM |
| 4 | I can't fucking believe itIt totally is one-itis but nothing wrong with being honest about it, yeah it stings but you're doing well so...next | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 07:26 PM |
| 16 | The Death of "Online Game!" The End of social mediaAs someone with a bit of internet fame myself I can completely relate to this post. At one point I had girls snapchatting me nudes daily and yet when it came time to get down to business so many of them would suddenly ghost. I acknowledged that part of the problem was that I was validating these women beforehand and therefore giving them everything they wanted up front. Once they have your approval then there is nothing left for them but to move on to the next victim. Now I am straight to the po… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/11/18 02:12 AM |
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